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Sex

New Research on the Power of Synchronicity During Sex

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on April 11, 2024

A new study finds a high degree of physiological synchrony during sex, which has exciting implications for improving relationships and sexual arousal.

A new study finds a high degree of physiological synchrony during sex, which has exciting implications for improving relationships and sexual arousal.

Race and Ethnicity

The Impact of Race and Ethnicity on Orgasm

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on February 27, 2024

A new study reveals orgasmic frequencies by race. Breaking down cultural taboos and stereotypes, this research unveils the surprising dynamics of pleasure.

A new study reveals orgasmic frequencies by race. Breaking down cultural taboos and stereotypes, this research unveils the surprising dynamics of pleasure.

Sex

The Effect of Traditional Gender Roles on Sexual Desire

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on February 22, 2024

Traditional gender roles inhibit sexual desire, while gender equality fosters passion and satisfaction.

Traditional gender roles inhibit sexual desire, while gender equality fosters passion and satisfaction.

Relationships

Beyond Romantic Clichés: Eros, Libido, and the Art of Playful Love

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on February 12, 2024

Revisiting the influence of Eros—aka Cupid—could help you rediscover passion and playfulness in your relationship this Valentine's Day.

Revisiting the influence of Eros—aka Cupid—could help you rediscover passion and playfulness in your relationship this Valentine's Day.

Sex

The Psychology (and Business) of Sexual Pleasure

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on September 19, 2023

The global sexual wellness devices market is estimated to be a $19 billion industry, offering valuable insights into both the business and psychology of sexual pleasure.

The global sexual wellness devices market is estimated to be a $19 billion industry, offering valuable insights into both the business and psychology of sexual pleasure.

Relationships

Have We Lost the Art of Relating?

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on July 18, 2023

A Personal Perspective: An excessive focus on "boundaries" and "self-care" has one therapist concerned about our overall well-being.

A Personal Perspective: An excessive focus on "boundaries" and "self-care" has one therapist concerned about our overall well-being.

Sex

Understanding the Evolving Nature of Sexuality

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on June 12, 2023

The "grouping" of sexual minorities is becoming increasingly challenging because more and more people are acknowledging the fluid nature of sexuality. Let's break it down.

The "grouping" of sexual minorities is becoming increasingly challenging because more and more people are acknowledging the fluid nature of sexuality. Let's break it down.

Flow

Harnessing the Flow of Sexual Novelty

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on September 30, 2021

There is a sweet spot, a magical 4 percent, between challenge and skills where we can find sexual flow.

There is a sweet spot, a magical 4 percent, between challenge and skills where we can find sexual flow.

Relationships

Wise Feedback: A New Way of Addressing Relationship Conflict

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on August 6, 2021

The "sandwich technique" is out. "Wise feedback" is in. This new approach can go a long way in productively communicating issues in all of your relationships.

The "sandwich technique" is out. "Wise feedback" is in. This new approach can go a long way in productively communicating issues in all of your relationships.

Sex

My Perspective as a Sex Therapist on Netflix's 'Sex/Life'

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on July 1, 2021

Netflix's new show 'Sex/Life' is binge-worthy. Here's my perspective as a Certified Sex Therapist.

Netflix's new show 'Sex/Life' is binge-worthy. Here's my perspective as a Certified Sex Therapist.

Sex

Can Couples Experience a Flow State During Sex?

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on March 24, 2021

Exciting new research sheds light on a novel way of improving sexual satisfaction and treating low desire.

Exciting new research sheds light on a novel way of improving sexual satisfaction and treating low desire.

Relationships

3 Secrets of the "Fittest" Couples

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on March 16, 2021

Does the pandemic have you feeling like your relationship is collapsing while others seem to be thriving? Learn three skills from couples who know how to survive trying times.

Does the pandemic have you feeling like your relationship is collapsing while others seem to be thriving? Learn three skills from couples who know how to survive trying times.

Sex

The Modern-Day Libido Killer

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on January 19, 2021

Are you one of the many people who feel like it's impossible to quiet your mind enough to enjoy sex? Here's how our fast-paced world can disrupt our sexual connection.

Are you one of the many people who feel like it's impossible to quiet your mind enough to enjoy sex? Here's how our fast-paced world can disrupt our sexual connection.

Health

Your 2020 Mental Health Gift Guide

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on December 18, 2020

2020 has been traumatic, but that doesn't mean you can't be nice to yourself. These (mostly free) gifts can improve your mood and lift your spirits.

2020 has been traumatic, but that doesn't mean you can't be nice to yourself. These (mostly free) gifts can improve your mood and lift your spirits.

Anxiety

One Surprising Cause for Male Performance Anxiety

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on October 30, 2020

Does the sudden loss of erection in an otherwise great relationship have you dumbfounded? Here's what may be happening.

Does the sudden loss of erection in an otherwise great relationship have you dumbfounded? Here's what may be happening.

Sex

This Skill Could Save Your Sex Life During Quarantine

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on July 15, 2020

As confinement lingers on, more couples are complaining of sexual disconnect. What can they do to avoid losing sexual energy?

As confinement lingers on, more couples are complaining of sexual disconnect. What can they do to avoid losing sexual energy?

Sex

3 Steps to Better Sex

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on June 16, 2020

Is it possible to maintain intense sex in long-term relationships? Yes, and it's simpler than you think.

Is it possible to maintain intense sex in long-term relationships? Yes, and it's simpler than you think.

Relationships

What Pro Athletes and Mucisians Can Teach Us About Love

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on June 10, 2020

Do you feel like the exercises often prescribed by therapists aren't cutting it to strengthen intimacy in your relationship? Try these five skills instead.

Do you feel like the exercises often prescribed by therapists aren't cutting it to strengthen intimacy in your relationship? Try these five skills instead.

Sex

Elevating Sex from Good to Great

Emily Jamea Ph.D., LMFT, LPC on May 25, 2020

Simple things like learning to savor a cup of coffee, taking a new class, or learning to think outside the box can have a positive effect on your sex life.

Simple things like learning to savor a cup of coffee, taking a new class, or learning to think outside the box can have a positive effect on your sex life.