Therapists in San Diego, CA
I believe most of us find ourselves overwhelmed or struggling at some time in our lives. During those times it can be helpful to talk to someone who is encouraging, accepting and understanding of life's challenges. Therapy provides a private, safe, collaborative and warm environment to better understand and navigate difficult transitions or relationships. This journey becomes individualized based on personal goals, values and needs. I am committed to assisting clients develop adaptive coping skills, building on their own inner resources and strengths to live life to their greatest potential where healing, balance, and fulfillment are once again possible.
I believe most of us find ourselves overwhelmed or struggling at some time in our lives. During those times it can be helpful to talk to someone who is encouraging, accepting and understanding of life's challenges. Therapy provides a private, safe, collaborative and warm environment to better understand and navigate difficult transitions or relationships. This journey becomes individualized based on personal goals, values and needs. I am committed to assisting clients develop adaptive coping skills, building on their own inner resources and strengths to live life to their greatest potential where healing, balance, and fulfillment are once again possible.
Matthew H. Koch, Marriage & Family Therapist, Inc.
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
San Diego, CA 92123
Confronting the challenges that accompany our lives can be daunting and result in a deviation from the expectations we have of ourselves and those with whom we interact. I am here to assist you in the process to heighten awareness and gain more meaningful and fulfilling experiences in your life through psychotherapy. I utilize the DAFT (Depth & Freedom Therapy) approach that combines various counseling theories and techniques, philosophical tenets, and spiritual teachings to collaborate with clients in order to strengthen individual identity while considering the impact of past experiences, modern day socio-cultural influences, and current personal issues.
Confronting the challenges that accompany our lives can be daunting and result in a deviation from the expectations we have of ourselves and those with whom we interact. I am here to assist you in the process to heighten awareness and gain more meaningful and fulfilling experiences in your life through psychotherapy. I utilize the DAFT (Depth & Freedom Therapy) approach that combines various counseling theories and techniques, philosophical tenets, and spiritual teachings to collaborate with clients in order to strengthen individual identity while considering the impact of past experiences, modern day socio-cultural influences, and current personal issues.
My specialty is HELPING COUPLES IN CRISIS navigate through the pain of disconnection. If you've discovered infidelity or betrayal in your relationship, and not sure how to move forward, I can help. With trust completely off the table, I help couples create safe enough boundaries to make sense of how the relationship got off track. You don't have to suffer alone. Together we can restore honesty, trust and intimacy back to your relationship.
My specialty is HELPING COUPLES IN CRISIS navigate through the pain of disconnection. If you've discovered infidelity or betrayal in your relationship, and not sure how to move forward, I can help. With trust completely off the table, I help couples create safe enough boundaries to make sense of how the relationship got off track. You don't have to suffer alone. Together we can restore honesty, trust and intimacy back to your relationship.
Life can present us with many difficult challenges and transitions. I enjoy assisting my clients in improving their relationships, adjusting to life's changes and transitions, and improving stress management abilities. I provide a safe environment in which people can explore options and work towards self-empowerment, growth and resolution of their issues. I use a combination of solution-focused approaches to help people attain their personal goals and resolve trauma.
Life can present us with many difficult challenges and transitions. I enjoy assisting my clients in improving their relationships, adjusting to life's changes and transitions, and improving stress management abilities. I provide a safe environment in which people can explore options and work towards self-empowerment, growth and resolution of their issues. I use a combination of solution-focused approaches to help people attain their personal goals and resolve trauma.
My name is Wendy Gudiel, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I currently am working with adults of all ages and specialize in anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and parenting. I try to create a safe space for my clients to help them progress and start seeing changes. I also tailor an individual’s treatment by utilizing different approaches to the needs of the individual.
My name is Wendy Gudiel, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I currently am working with adults of all ages and specialize in anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and parenting. I try to create a safe space for my clients to help them progress and start seeing changes. I also tailor an individual’s treatment by utilizing different approaches to the needs of the individual.
First things first, I personally know how daunting it can be to find a therapist. I want to acknowledge the effort it has taken you to come to this point. Well done. When you are in the midst of suffering and pain, it can really feel as though there is nowhere to go. That stuckness can feel defeating and make reaching out for help all the more difficult. I think about therapy as the act of walking alongside my clients and bearing witness to the parts of themselves/their stories that are the most painful and hardest to face. When someone can help you feel seen and understood, you grow your capacity for holding hurt along with joy.
First things first, I personally know how daunting it can be to find a therapist. I want to acknowledge the effort it has taken you to come to this point. Well done. When you are in the midst of suffering and pain, it can really feel as though there is nowhere to go. That stuckness can feel defeating and make reaching out for help all the more difficult. I think about therapy as the act of walking alongside my clients and bearing witness to the parts of themselves/their stories that are the most painful and hardest to face. When someone can help you feel seen and understood, you grow your capacity for holding hurt along with joy.
Feeling stressed out? I may be of service. I'm a Neurologist and Founder of Neuro Reset 1:1 or couple retreats—immersive, transformative experiences for professionals to reduce stress, recharge, optimize brain and body health, and enhance relationships and quality of life. I have training in ACT, CBT, DBT, IFS, mindfulness (MBSR, MBSC), Gestalt, psychodrama, sand play therapy, EMDR, psychedelic-assisted therapy, hypnosis, & advanced breathwork—plus certifications as a life coach & Positive Discipline. As a former member of Olympic reserve team, I love teaching elite-performance tools to those under stress & seeing sustained results
Feeling stressed out? I may be of service. I'm a Neurologist and Founder of Neuro Reset 1:1 or couple retreats—immersive, transformative experiences for professionals to reduce stress, recharge, optimize brain and body health, and enhance relationships and quality of life. I have training in ACT, CBT, DBT, IFS, mindfulness (MBSR, MBSC), Gestalt, psychodrama, sand play therapy, EMDR, psychedelic-assisted therapy, hypnosis, & advanced breathwork—plus certifications as a life coach & Positive Discipline. As a former member of Olympic reserve team, I love teaching elite-performance tools to those under stress & seeing sustained results
Are you or your child navigating life transitions, school stress, trauma, or exploring a neurodivergent identity? As a bilingual (English/Spanish) therapist, I specialize in supporting children, teens, adults, and families through a trauma-informed, strengths-based, and neurodiversity-affirming lens. Drawing from both evidence-based care and personal experience with ADHD, I understand the unique strengths and challenges of navigating today's world. My goal is to partner with you to foster resilience, connection, and growth.
Are you or your child navigating life transitions, school stress, trauma, or exploring a neurodivergent identity? As a bilingual (English/Spanish) therapist, I specialize in supporting children, teens, adults, and families through a trauma-informed, strengths-based, and neurodiversity-affirming lens. Drawing from both evidence-based care and personal experience with ADHD, I understand the unique strengths and challenges of navigating today's world. My goal is to partner with you to foster resilience, connection, and growth.
Life is tough and we all need a place to rest. I give youth, adults and families rest by creating a warm and inviting place to share their struggles. I listen to what has or has not worked in order to identify your strengths. We collaborate on goals and create a plan to overcome any struggles so you can be successful and confident now and in the future. Each child and family brings their own story to therapy and requires me to be flexible and creative. With young children, I work to enhance the parent-child relationship through positive, warm interactions and help the parent establish appropriate and firm boundaries.
Life is tough and we all need a place to rest. I give youth, adults and families rest by creating a warm and inviting place to share their struggles. I listen to what has or has not worked in order to identify your strengths. We collaborate on goals and create a plan to overcome any struggles so you can be successful and confident now and in the future. Each child and family brings their own story to therapy and requires me to be flexible and creative. With young children, I work to enhance the parent-child relationship through positive, warm interactions and help the parent establish appropriate and firm boundaries.
Are you secretly struggling with alcohol or substance use and feeling too embarrassed, ashamed, or overwhelmed to ask for help? Maybe you're successful on the outside but privately concerned about your relationship with alcohol or substances. I help adults uncover the underlying causes of substance use, including stress, anxiety, trauma, and unhealthy coping patterns. Using CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and mindfulness, I teach practical, real-life skills for lasting recovery. Whether your goal is moderation or sobriety, I'll provide a supportive, nonjudgmental space to help you regain control and create meaningful change.
Are you secretly struggling with alcohol or substance use and feeling too embarrassed, ashamed, or overwhelmed to ask for help? Maybe you're successful on the outside but privately concerned about your relationship with alcohol or substances. I help adults uncover the underlying causes of substance use, including stress, anxiety, trauma, and unhealthy coping patterns. Using CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and mindfulness, I teach practical, real-life skills for lasting recovery. Whether your goal is moderation or sobriety, I'll provide a supportive, nonjudgmental space to help you regain control and create meaningful change.
I work with Neurodivergent kids and Adults including Autistics, ADHD'ers, PDA'ers, nervous sensory sensitive, high energy sensory seekers or kids with big emotions.
I work with Neurodivergent kids and Adults including Autistics, ADHD'ers, PDA'ers, nervous sensory sensitive, high energy sensory seekers or kids with big emotions.
Are you seeking specialized treatment approaches supported by clinical research studies? Do you want an experienced and compassionate therapist to guide you in this process? I utilize Cognitive Behavior Therapies (CBT) and Motivational Interviewing (MI) to help clients with anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, insomnia, and substance use. My clients are usually highly motivated to work collaboratively and achieve specific results. I serve clients in person at my North County San Diego office, and via teletherapy throughout California.
Are you seeking specialized treatment approaches supported by clinical research studies? Do you want an experienced and compassionate therapist to guide you in this process? I utilize Cognitive Behavior Therapies (CBT) and Motivational Interviewing (MI) to help clients with anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, insomnia, and substance use. My clients are usually highly motivated to work collaboratively and achieve specific results. I serve clients in person at my North County San Diego office, and via teletherapy throughout California.
Having family troubles? Family issues can lead to negative consequences like depression, relationship issues, anxiety, and even physical illness. If it feels like you’re alone in dealing with your family’s challenges, there is good news...You and your family don't have to feel the way you do forever. I know that family can be a source of stress and anxiety, but there are ways to help manage it. I help families effectively manage their marriage, parent-kid relationships, extended families, ADHD, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and more.
Having family troubles? Family issues can lead to negative consequences like depression, relationship issues, anxiety, and even physical illness. If it feels like you’re alone in dealing with your family’s challenges, there is good news...You and your family don't have to feel the way you do forever. I know that family can be a source of stress and anxiety, but there are ways to help manage it. I help families effectively manage their marriage, parent-kid relationships, extended families, ADHD, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and more.
Dr. Kiana Behnood is a clinical psychologist with years of experience specializing in the treatment of children, adolescents, adults, and seniors. Dr. Behnood earned her Psy.D. in Clinical Psychology from Alliant International University, San Diego where her dissertation research focused on bullying students with special needs. Dr. Behnood has worked in a diverse range of settings across San Diego, Orange, and Los Angeles County.
Dr. Kiana Behnood is a clinical psychologist with years of experience specializing in the treatment of children, adolescents, adults, and seniors. Dr. Behnood earned her Psy.D. in Clinical Psychology from Alliant International University, San Diego where her dissertation research focused on bullying students with special needs. Dr. Behnood has worked in a diverse range of settings across San Diego, Orange, and Los Angeles County.
At New Constellation Family Therapy, I bring a compassionate, mindfulness-centered approach to guide you through life's challenges and nurture deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Whether you're an individual, couple, family, or youth, you'll find a safe, non-judgmental space where your voice is valued, your experiences are respected, and your goals drive our path forward.
At New Constellation Family Therapy, I bring a compassionate, mindfulness-centered approach to guide you through life's challenges and nurture deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Whether you're an individual, couple, family, or youth, you'll find a safe, non-judgmental space where your voice is valued, your experiences are respected, and your goals drive our path forward.
When relationships feel strained or anxiety takes over, it can feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells—exhausted from trying to hold everything together. Maybe past trauma still echoes in the present, making it difficult to trust, connect, or feel safe in your own skin. I help individuals untangle these emotional knots and move toward clarity and confidence. I hold a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy from California State University, Dominguez Hills (2022) and draw from my experience in crisis centers and school-based settings to support people through life’s most difficult moments.
When relationships feel strained or anxiety takes over, it can feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells—exhausted from trying to hold everything together. Maybe past trauma still echoes in the present, making it difficult to trust, connect, or feel safe in your own skin. I help individuals untangle these emotional knots and move toward clarity and confidence. I hold a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy from California State University, Dominguez Hills (2022) and draw from my experience in crisis centers and school-based settings to support people through life’s most difficult moments.
You look like you have it all together—but inside, you feel exhausted, anxious, and stretched too thin. You’re successful, capable, and used to pushing through. Yet no matter how much you accomplish, your mind won’t slow down, your body stays tense, and old patterns keep showing up in your relationships, self-talk, or sense of worth. I specialize in working with high-achieving women who experience anxiety, perfectionism, and emotional overload, and who are ready for real change. Many women I work with are functioning well on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck on the inside.
You look like you have it all together—but inside, you feel exhausted, anxious, and stretched too thin. You’re successful, capable, and used to pushing through. Yet no matter how much you accomplish, your mind won’t slow down, your body stays tense, and old patterns keep showing up in your relationships, self-talk, or sense of worth. I specialize in working with high-achieving women who experience anxiety, perfectionism, and emotional overload, and who are ready for real change. Many women I work with are functioning well on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck on the inside.
I believe everyone has the potential for growth and healing. As a therapist specializing in individuals, couples, and families, I am passionate about helping you navigate life's challenges, big or small. Whether you're facing difficult emotions, relationship issues, or major transitions, I am here to support your journey.
I believe everyone has the potential for growth and healing. As a therapist specializing in individuals, couples, and families, I am passionate about helping you navigate life's challenges, big or small. Whether you're facing difficult emotions, relationship issues, or major transitions, I am here to support your journey.
Feeling stuck in your own head can be exhausting. Anxiety, depression, or major life changes can leave you second-guessing yourself, feeling overwhelmed by everyday responsibilities, or wondering why things that once felt manageable now feel so heavy. I earned my MSC from San Diego State University in 2018 and became a mental health clinician because helping people feel genuinely heard and understood matters deeply to me. I’m continually inspired by the courage people show as they face challenges and begin discovering new ways forward. I support adults 18+ who are navigating anxiety, depression, and stress.
Feeling stuck in your own head can be exhausting. Anxiety, depression, or major life changes can leave you second-guessing yourself, feeling overwhelmed by everyday responsibilities, or wondering why things that once felt manageable now feel so heavy. I earned my MSC from San Diego State University in 2018 and became a mental health clinician because helping people feel genuinely heard and understood matters deeply to me. I’m continually inspired by the courage people show as they face challenges and begin discovering new ways forward. I support adults 18+ who are navigating anxiety, depression, and stress.
Specialized therapy for teens and young adults: Are you the parent of a teenager who is having problems at school, with friends, and/or issues at home? Are you a college student or young adult dealing with issues relating to school, work, relationships, and/or family? I come to therapy with years of corporate business experience and my therapeutic background includes working as a mental health therapist at Los Altos High School in Los Altos, CA, teaching the Heart to Heart seminar at Stanford Children’s Hospital in Palo Alto, CA, and training at the Community Health Awareness Council (CHAC) in Mountain View, CA.
Specialized therapy for teens and young adults: Are you the parent of a teenager who is having problems at school, with friends, and/or issues at home? Are you a college student or young adult dealing with issues relating to school, work, relationships, and/or family? I come to therapy with years of corporate business experience and my therapeutic background includes working as a mental health therapist at Los Altos High School in Los Altos, CA, teaching the Heart to Heart seminar at Stanford Children’s Hospital in Palo Alto, CA, and training at the Community Health Awareness Council (CHAC) in Mountain View, CA.
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Number of Therapists in San Diego, CA
3,000+
Average cost per session
$175
Therapists in San Diego, CA who prioritize treating:
| 93% | Anxiety |
| 93% | Social Anxiety |
| 93% | Health Anxiety |
| 93% | Driving Anxiety |
| 86% | Depression |
| 73% | Relationship Issues |
| 70% | Relationship Anxiety |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 88% | Aetna |
| 72% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 57% | Optum |
How Therapists in San Diego, CA see their clients
| 55% | Online Only | |
| 45% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 18% | Male | |
| 2% | Non-Binary |
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How can I find a therapist in San Diego?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


