Therapists in Seattle, WA
Maybe you're tired of suffering from being bossed around by OCD or anxiety. Perhaps you’re in a painful life transition and feeling uncertain, afraid, or lost. I’m glad you’re here. If you feel hopeless, I believe things can get much better, one step at a time. Although it sure can feel this way, rather than viewing OCD or anxiety as a monster trying to torture us, I see it as a hypervigilant alert system whose aim is to keep us safe at all costs. Retraining that alert system can help us get unstuck, heal, and thrive. I never claim to have the answers for anyone’s life, but I love helping people find answers within themselves.
Maybe you're tired of suffering from being bossed around by OCD or anxiety. Perhaps you’re in a painful life transition and feeling uncertain, afraid, or lost. I’m glad you’re here. If you feel hopeless, I believe things can get much better, one step at a time. Although it sure can feel this way, rather than viewing OCD or anxiety as a monster trying to torture us, I see it as a hypervigilant alert system whose aim is to keep us safe at all costs. Retraining that alert system can help us get unstuck, heal, and thrive. I never claim to have the answers for anyone’s life, but I love helping people find answers within themselves.
From all appearances, you've got it so good. Lying in wait, just under the surface, are the life traumas that wounded you deeply but were never addressed. And those secrets have you turning to substances more and more. One weekly drink becomes a daily bottle, and you're making excuses to your boss, your friends, your family. Do you want to quit but you don't know how? I can help you find your way out of this despair and into the life you want. You can do this. Let's talk.
From all appearances, you've got it so good. Lying in wait, just under the surface, are the life traumas that wounded you deeply but were never addressed. And those secrets have you turning to substances more and more. One weekly drink becomes a daily bottle, and you're making excuses to your boss, your friends, your family. Do you want to quit but you don't know how? I can help you find your way out of this despair and into the life you want. You can do this. Let's talk.
You may feel stuck in patterns of overthinking, doubt, or shame. Maybe uncertainty feels intolerable, or you feel caught in a cycle of rumination or compulsions. When we are left alone with our thoughts, they can feel all-consuming and even threatening. If this sounds familiar, things don’t have to stay this way. My work prioritizes authenticity, empathy, and empowerment. I believe in the importance of a therapeutic alliance that feels safe, collaborative, and tailored to your goals. Growth is a lifelong process, and I am committed to supporting you at every stage.
You may feel stuck in patterns of overthinking, doubt, or shame. Maybe uncertainty feels intolerable, or you feel caught in a cycle of rumination or compulsions. When we are left alone with our thoughts, they can feel all-consuming and even threatening. If this sounds familiar, things don’t have to stay this way. My work prioritizes authenticity, empathy, and empowerment. I believe in the importance of a therapeutic alliance that feels safe, collaborative, and tailored to your goals. Growth is a lifelong process, and I am committed to supporting you at every stage.
If you're not sure how to start talking about this, you're in good company. Most people aren't. I happen to be someone who finds it easy to ask the questions that are hard to ask yourself, and I'll meet you exactly where you are. My work centers on the things that feel most personal: pleasure, intimacy, relationships, and how you understand yourself. I work with couples and individuals navigating desire discrepancy, those healing from trauma, and anyone at any age who wants to reclaim a fuller, more joyful life.
If you're not sure how to start talking about this, you're in good company. Most people aren't. I happen to be someone who finds it easy to ask the questions that are hard to ask yourself, and I'll meet you exactly where you are. My work centers on the things that feel most personal: pleasure, intimacy, relationships, and how you understand yourself. I work with couples and individuals navigating desire discrepancy, those healing from trauma, and anyone at any age who wants to reclaim a fuller, more joyful life.
I believe the most successful outcomes require a good fit between the client and the therapist, and I strive to work collaboratively with clients to help them live a more satisfying and fulfilling life. I understand that every problem is unique, and I enjoy working with complex feelings and situations, making sense of them, and working through them alongside my clients. I approach my work using a client-centered, strengths-based model, and make it a point to check in regarding the progress of treatment.
I believe the most successful outcomes require a good fit between the client and the therapist, and I strive to work collaboratively with clients to help them live a more satisfying and fulfilling life. I understand that every problem is unique, and I enjoy working with complex feelings and situations, making sense of them, and working through them alongside my clients. I approach my work using a client-centered, strengths-based model, and make it a point to check in regarding the progress of treatment.
Uncovering the inner self while navigating life’s stressors feels overwhelming for a person to do alone. I embody a warm, empathic, collaborative style to walk alongside you as you navigate life’s joyous and challenging moments.
My approach to therapy is eclectic, drawing from Acceptance and Commitment therapy, narrative, and somatic approaches rooted in harm reduction and trauma-informed care. Through a blend of open dialogue and reflective exploration, I aim to help clients unearth unresolved conflicts, illuminate core values, and develop new insights that pave the way toward greater wholeness and clarity.
Uncovering the inner self while navigating life’s stressors feels overwhelming for a person to do alone. I embody a warm, empathic, collaborative style to walk alongside you as you navigate life’s joyous and challenging moments.
My approach to therapy is eclectic, drawing from Acceptance and Commitment therapy, narrative, and somatic approaches rooted in harm reduction and trauma-informed care. Through a blend of open dialogue and reflective exploration, I aim to help clients unearth unresolved conflicts, illuminate core values, and develop new insights that pave the way toward greater wholeness and clarity.
Are you looking for help with your child’s difficult behaviors, emotional struggles, and support through life changes? Are you a parent that feels uncertain or overwhelmed and need some support? Do you need space to uncover the insights you hold within and strengthen your relationship with your self, child, or family?
I believe that a safe and accepting therapeutic relationship is necessary to process difficult experiences and rediscover the wisdom held within ourselves—no matter our age. I help children, parents, and women regain joy, uncover confidence, feel seen, and find insights that lead to desired changes.
Are you looking for help with your child’s difficult behaviors, emotional struggles, and support through life changes? Are you a parent that feels uncertain or overwhelmed and need some support? Do you need space to uncover the insights you hold within and strengthen your relationship with your self, child, or family?
I believe that a safe and accepting therapeutic relationship is necessary to process difficult experiences and rediscover the wisdom held within ourselves—no matter our age. I help children, parents, and women regain joy, uncover confidence, feel seen, and find insights that lead to desired changes.
You’ve made it this far which lets me know you are brave and ready to make some changes in your life. Together we can explore your emotional needs and break down barriers that limit your full potential, get in the way of your relationships, or keep you stuck. There are many things we can do on our own, but true self-discovery and positive, enduring change is more likely to occur within the context of a caring and committed therapeutic relationship. Together we can talk about what’s bothering you, what you need, so that you can begin to develop a healthier, self and more loving, fulfilling relationships.
You’ve made it this far which lets me know you are brave and ready to make some changes in your life. Together we can explore your emotional needs and break down barriers that limit your full potential, get in the way of your relationships, or keep you stuck. There are many things we can do on our own, but true self-discovery and positive, enduring change is more likely to occur within the context of a caring and committed therapeutic relationship. Together we can talk about what’s bothering you, what you need, so that you can begin to develop a healthier, self and more loving, fulfilling relationships.
On the outside, you may look like you’re holding it together but inside, things feel heavy, disconnected, or uncertain. Whether you’re navigating relationship challenges, pregnancy, or postpartum, trauma, cancer, or a major life shift, you don’t have to do it alone. I help individuals and couples rebuild trust, process what’s been carried, and feel like themselves again through a warm, trauma-informed, and integrative approach.
On the outside, you may look like you’re holding it together but inside, things feel heavy, disconnected, or uncertain. Whether you’re navigating relationship challenges, pregnancy, or postpartum, trauma, cancer, or a major life shift, you don’t have to do it alone. I help individuals and couples rebuild trust, process what’s been carried, and feel like themselves again through a warm, trauma-informed, and integrative approach.
The patterns we live may not always be clear to us, and the path to a new way of living can be elusive. In working together, we will explore your patterns, and the feelings and thoughts that motivate them, to reveal the core beliefs you've internalized. From there, we will work to develop new options for moving forward.My focus is in giving you the space to explore the issues troubling you, offering insights and tools through the process. From this informed place, we can collaborate in bringing you closer to your personal therapeutic goals. I specialize in working with "sex and gender outlaws" as described below.
The patterns we live may not always be clear to us, and the path to a new way of living can be elusive. In working together, we will explore your patterns, and the feelings and thoughts that motivate them, to reveal the core beliefs you've internalized. From there, we will work to develop new options for moving forward.My focus is in giving you the space to explore the issues troubling you, offering insights and tools through the process. From this informed place, we can collaborate in bringing you closer to your personal therapeutic goals. I specialize in working with "sex and gender outlaws" as described below.
I’m a therapist with a background in infant and early childhood mental health who now works primarily with adults navigating anxiety, self-esteem struggles, relationship challenges, trauma symptoms, codependency, and substance use concerns. My early training focused on how our earliest relationships shape the nervous system, sense of self, and patterns of connection. That lens continues to guide my work with adults today.
I’m a therapist with a background in infant and early childhood mental health who now works primarily with adults navigating anxiety, self-esteem struggles, relationship challenges, trauma symptoms, codependency, and substance use concerns. My early training focused on how our earliest relationships shape the nervous system, sense of self, and patterns of connection. That lens continues to guide my work with adults today.
“Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.”
-Epictetus.
Struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD or relationship challenges? I help adults build confidence, self-advocacy, and resilience. My approach is collaborative, conversational and nonjudgmental, using CBT and DBT to help you manage challenges and build lasting skills. I hold a degree from Northwestern University and an MSW from Portland State, and have been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 2012. I do not offer free consultations; instead, I provide a 45–60 minute intake session to help you make an informed decision about your care.
“Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.”
-Epictetus.
Struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD or relationship challenges? I help adults build confidence, self-advocacy, and resilience. My approach is collaborative, conversational and nonjudgmental, using CBT and DBT to help you manage challenges and build lasting skills. I hold a degree from Northwestern University and an MSW from Portland State, and have been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 2012. I do not offer free consultations; instead, I provide a 45–60 minute intake session to help you make an informed decision about your care.
Steph Becker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MSW, LICSW
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Hi, I'm Steph. I'm an AuDHD queer therapist who approaches therapy with curiosity and collaboration. I enjoy working with sensitive deep thinkers, late-diagnosed neurodivergent adults and adolescents, and people navigating burnout, life transitions, and identity shifts.
I work with complex trauma/CPTSD, which is the kind of trauma people accumulate over time. I specialize in religious trauma and deconstruction, intergenerational trauma, chronic illness, and identity-based trauma.
I also enjoy working with queer identity exploration, polyamorous folks, and kink.
Hi, I'm Steph. I'm an AuDHD queer therapist who approaches therapy with curiosity and collaboration. I enjoy working with sensitive deep thinkers, late-diagnosed neurodivergent adults and adolescents, and people navigating burnout, life transitions, and identity shifts.
I work with complex trauma/CPTSD, which is the kind of trauma people accumulate over time. I specialize in religious trauma and deconstruction, intergenerational trauma, chronic illness, and identity-based trauma.
I also enjoy working with queer identity exploration, polyamorous folks, and kink.
I specialize in severe trauma, sexual abuse, and relationship issues. I am LGBTQ+, kink, and non-monogamy friendly.
I specialize in severe trauma, sexual abuse, and relationship issues. I am LGBTQ+, kink, and non-monogamy friendly.
Do you feel like anxiety, trauma, OCD, relationship or attachment issues are overwhelming? Have you been wondering about autism or ADHD as a something you are experiencing? Do you have questions about gender or sexuality, or feel the need to examine where you exist within an increasingly challenging society and how you are impacted by it? These are all issues that I enjoy navigating with my clients as we find a new, securely attached, unmasked, and comfortable way of living freely and authentically. If you are hurting and do not know where to start I can help. If you feel that you are at the end, we can find a new beginning.
Do you feel like anxiety, trauma, OCD, relationship or attachment issues are overwhelming? Have you been wondering about autism or ADHD as a something you are experiencing? Do you have questions about gender or sexuality, or feel the need to examine where you exist within an increasingly challenging society and how you are impacted by it? These are all issues that I enjoy navigating with my clients as we find a new, securely attached, unmasked, and comfortable way of living freely and authentically. If you are hurting and do not know where to start I can help. If you feel that you are at the end, we can find a new beginning.
I offer couples/relational therapy geared towards mixed neurotype, neurodivergent (specialization in: Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD) , kinky couples/groups, and couples/groups where you struggle with your own trauma or family of origin and its impacting your relationship.
I prioritizes collaboration, humor, and the therapeutic relationship in my practice. Identities I hold: multi-racial, AuDHD, kink, and CNM. I am committed to using my privilege to advocate for systemic change while deeply understanding the challenges faced by my clients.
I offer couples/relational therapy geared towards mixed neurotype, neurodivergent (specialization in: Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD) , kinky couples/groups, and couples/groups where you struggle with your own trauma or family of origin and its impacting your relationship.
I prioritizes collaboration, humor, and the therapeutic relationship in my practice. Identities I hold: multi-racial, AuDHD, kink, and CNM. I am committed to using my privilege to advocate for systemic change while deeply understanding the challenges faced by my clients.
I enjoy working with couples, adults, and teens. My approach is holistic, engaged, and authentic, with sessions that are organic or more structured based on the needs of each client.
I enjoy working with couples, adults, and teens. My approach is holistic, engaged, and authentic, with sessions that are organic or more structured based on the needs of each client.
I am a WA and ID licensed therapist and here to help. I believe that every person is the expert of their own life, and I believe my role is to walk alongside my clients and to work collaboratively with their own wisdom and intuition to support their individual goals. Often, because of trauma and stress, we might disown parts of ourselves. We might grow to view certain coping skills or patterns as “bad” when ultimately, they most likely served an important purpose in our lives. I aim to help my clients explore themselves, part by part, with gentle curiosity. We will work together to heal these pieces.
I am a WA and ID licensed therapist and here to help. I believe that every person is the expert of their own life, and I believe my role is to walk alongside my clients and to work collaboratively with their own wisdom and intuition to support their individual goals. Often, because of trauma and stress, we might disown parts of ourselves. We might grow to view certain coping skills or patterns as “bad” when ultimately, they most likely served an important purpose in our lives. I aim to help my clients explore themselves, part by part, with gentle curiosity. We will work together to heal these pieces.
Welcome.
Whether you're navigating anxiety, grief, a seismic life transition, dissatisfaction in your work or relationships, or simply feel stuck behind too many seemingly insurmountable barriers, therapy can be a powerful place to begin.
In our work together, we’ll explore the landscape of your life with curiosity and without judgment — so that even the most tucked-away parts can begin to see the light of day. I show up to sessions with kindness, presence, and a warm but direct demeanor.
Welcome.
Whether you're navigating anxiety, grief, a seismic life transition, dissatisfaction in your work or relationships, or simply feel stuck behind too many seemingly insurmountable barriers, therapy can be a powerful place to begin.
In our work together, we’ll explore the landscape of your life with curiosity and without judgment — so that even the most tucked-away parts can begin to see the light of day. I show up to sessions with kindness, presence, and a warm but direct demeanor.
Many people come to therapy not because something is “wrong,” but because they feel stuck in patterns that are difficult to change. This can look like overthinking, anxiety that will not settle, OCD cycles, or relationship tension that repeats even with insight. I work with adults and couples navigating anxiety, OCD, trauma-related patterns, and relationship challenges, as well as men dealing with stress and identity. Many people aren’t completely sure what they need when they first reach out, and that’s okay, we can figure it out together. Many clients function well externally but feel internally overwhelmed or disconnected.
Many people come to therapy not because something is “wrong,” but because they feel stuck in patterns that are difficult to change. This can look like overthinking, anxiety that will not settle, OCD cycles, or relationship tension that repeats even with insight. I work with adults and couples navigating anxiety, OCD, trauma-related patterns, and relationship challenges, as well as men dealing with stress and identity. Many people aren’t completely sure what they need when they first reach out, and that’s okay, we can figure it out together. Many clients function well externally but feel internally overwhelmed or disconnected.
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Number of Therapists in Seattle, WA
3,000+
Average cost per session
$161
Therapists in Seattle, WA who prioritize treating:
| 94% | Anxiety |
| 94% | Social Anxiety |
| 94% | Health Anxiety |
| 94% | Driving Anxiety |
| 86% | Depression |
| 78% | Relationship Issues |
| 75% | Relationship Anxiety |
Average years in practice
9 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 70% | Premera Blue Cross |
| 68% | Aetna |
| 63% | Regence |
How Therapists in Seattle, WA see their clients
| 52% | Online Only | |
| 48% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 75% | Female | |
| 20% | Male | |
| 5% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Seattle?
Search for nearby therapists or counselors by inputting your city, town, or suburb; or zip code; or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or zip code into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


