Therapists in San Francisco, CA
I work with adults, adolescents, and couples. Many of the adults in my practice want to grow in their careers and/or romantic relationships, while others want help with psychological difficulties that have sometimes troubled them throughout their lives. As a psychoanalytic therapist, I'm trained to provide intensive psychotherapy that leads to long-term change. My style is curious and playful, direct and deep.
I work with adults, adolescents, and couples. Many of the adults in my practice want to grow in their careers and/or romantic relationships, while others want help with psychological difficulties that have sometimes troubled them throughout their lives. As a psychoanalytic therapist, I'm trained to provide intensive psychotherapy that leads to long-term change. My style is curious and playful, direct and deep.
Do you feel stuck in trying to take care of everyone else while also trying to learn how to fulfill your own needs? Maybe you were the "mature kid" who silently held it altogether just to keep the peace and now you struggle to hear your own needs after a lifetime of putting everyone else's first. I help you understand it was never your responsibility to hold all that. Let's collaborate on a path forward.
Do you feel stuck in trying to take care of everyone else while also trying to learn how to fulfill your own needs? Maybe you were the "mature kid" who silently held it altogether just to keep the peace and now you struggle to hear your own needs after a lifetime of putting everyone else's first. I help you understand it was never your responsibility to hold all that. Let's collaborate on a path forward.
My approach is interpersonal, both psychodynamically and existentially informed. I have been in practice for over 20 years. In my early years, I was supervised by Dr. Irvin Yalom, and he has been highly influential in my work. I believe my strengths include an ability to genuinely connect with patients in an empathic and non-judgmental manner. I help my patients explore deeper issues and patterns underlying persistent unhappiness, as well as navigate life's hurdles that may feel overwhelming.
My approach is interpersonal, both psychodynamically and existentially informed. I have been in practice for over 20 years. In my early years, I was supervised by Dr. Irvin Yalom, and he has been highly influential in my work. I believe my strengths include an ability to genuinely connect with patients in an empathic and non-judgmental manner. I help my patients explore deeper issues and patterns underlying persistent unhappiness, as well as navigate life's hurdles that may feel overwhelming.
Congrats on getting to this point! It can feel like a lot getting started. Now, would you like a therapist with a quirky sense of humor, even when working on trauma? What about a therapist who has lived experience with family members aligning their body expression? How about a collaborative client/therapist relationship? If yes, I am yours. (:
Congrats on getting to this point! It can feel like a lot getting started. Now, would you like a therapist with a quirky sense of humor, even when working on trauma? What about a therapist who has lived experience with family members aligning their body expression? How about a collaborative client/therapist relationship? If yes, I am yours. (:
Struggling with trust issues, disconnection, or painful cycles that leave you emotionally drained? As a leading expert in trauma-informed couples therapy and bestselling author of Healing Trauma Together, I’ve dedicated 20,000+ clinical hours to helping couples heal even the most fractured bonds. I work with couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection. These aren’t just relationship issues—they’re trauma responses. A racing heart, a lump in your throat, shutting down emotionally—these are old wounds resurfacing in your most important connection.
Struggling with trust issues, disconnection, or painful cycles that leave you emotionally drained? As a leading expert in trauma-informed couples therapy and bestselling author of Healing Trauma Together, I’ve dedicated 20,000+ clinical hours to helping couples heal even the most fractured bonds. I work with couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection. These aren’t just relationship issues—they’re trauma responses. A racing heart, a lump in your throat, shutting down emotionally—these are old wounds resurfacing in your most important connection.
What if intimacy wasn't a source of anxiety, but a source of empowerment? We help couples and individuals rewrite their narratives around sex, pleasure, and connection. If you're seeking a therapist who understands the unique needs of queer, kinky, and polyamorous relationships, you've come to the right place.
What if intimacy wasn't a source of anxiety, but a source of empowerment? We help couples and individuals rewrite their narratives around sex, pleasure, and connection. If you're seeking a therapist who understands the unique needs of queer, kinky, and polyamorous relationships, you've come to the right place.
I have helped a variety of clients of all ages with various issues, including trauma (first responders, childhood, intergenerational, sexual), anxiety, sexual issues, anger management, grief/loss, social-emotional skills, and ADHD management. I genuinely enjoy working with children and have experience working with those with autism and special needs.
I have helped a variety of clients of all ages with various issues, including trauma (first responders, childhood, intergenerational, sexual), anxiety, sexual issues, anger management, grief/loss, social-emotional skills, and ADHD management. I genuinely enjoy working with children and have experience working with those with autism and special needs.
Aidan Pelly
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPCC, LMFT, NMP, SEP
6 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94116
Perhaps you are feeling stuck, off balance, or trying to make sense of the complex rainbow of feelings you are having. You may be dealing with challenging relational, work, or personal issues. Let’s sit down together and with acceptance and compassion fully take stock of where you are, what it is you really want, and what is getting in the way of making it happen. No part of you gets left behind. I work with both couples and individuals.
Perhaps you are feeling stuck, off balance, or trying to make sense of the complex rainbow of feelings you are having. You may be dealing with challenging relational, work, or personal issues. Let’s sit down together and with acceptance and compassion fully take stock of where you are, what it is you really want, and what is getting in the way of making it happen. No part of you gets left behind. I work with both couples and individuals.
We are now in a socio-political time that many are finding deeply disturbing. It exacerbates feelings of anxiety and depression , and can make us spin as we try to adjust to current reality. My clients are parents, people with career questions, immigrants, social justice workers. Many are either coping with a current situational issue that is confusing, overwhelming, or painful, or with a longer term pattern that they would like to change. I work in an engaged manner, hoping to build trust and a collaborative relationship that will allow you to look at old patterns and create new emotional and behavioral options, especially now.
We are now in a socio-political time that many are finding deeply disturbing. It exacerbates feelings of anxiety and depression , and can make us spin as we try to adjust to current reality. My clients are parents, people with career questions, immigrants, social justice workers. Many are either coping with a current situational issue that is confusing, overwhelming, or painful, or with a longer term pattern that they would like to change. I work in an engaged manner, hoping to build trust and a collaborative relationship that will allow you to look at old patterns and create new emotional and behavioral options, especially now.
I work with adults and couples who want to grow as they face career, relationship, and family challenges and who struggle with their own personal history, life-direction, and difficult emotions. I help people find courage, peace, and direction in the face of difficulty. I also specialize in working with men and fathers.
I work with adults and couples who want to grow as they face career, relationship, and family challenges and who struggle with their own personal history, life-direction, and difficult emotions. I help people find courage, peace, and direction in the face of difficulty. I also specialize in working with men and fathers.
Do you feel caught between two worlds? Expected to succeed by one set of rules while quietly losing out to another? Many of my clients are first and second-generation immigrants and Asian Americans who carry the weight of family expectations, cultural pressures, and the pressure to always have it together. The results often shows up as anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, burnout and a deep disconnection from who you reall are.
Do you feel caught between two worlds? Expected to succeed by one set of rules while quietly losing out to another? Many of my clients are first and second-generation immigrants and Asian Americans who carry the weight of family expectations, cultural pressures, and the pressure to always have it together. The results often shows up as anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, burnout and a deep disconnection from who you reall are.
Hello! Welcome to my page! First of all, I would like to applaud you on navigating your way here. Some may find seeking therapy scary and difficult - it often takes strength, effort, and courage to start therapy and to find the right therapist. I hope to make this process as easy as possible for you. So, a little about myself: I am a bicultural and bilingual (fluent in Vietnamese) licensed clinical psychologist. I am second generation Vietnamese American (my parents immigrated to the US during the Vietnam War). I have a Ph.D. and MA in clinical psychology and have been practicing since 2005.
Hello! Welcome to my page! First of all, I would like to applaud you on navigating your way here. Some may find seeking therapy scary and difficult - it often takes strength, effort, and courage to start therapy and to find the right therapist. I hope to make this process as easy as possible for you. So, a little about myself: I am a bicultural and bilingual (fluent in Vietnamese) licensed clinical psychologist. I am second generation Vietnamese American (my parents immigrated to the US during the Vietnam War). I have a Ph.D. and MA in clinical psychology and have been practicing since 2005.
Welcoming New Patients! Erica is a registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist at Bonmente, a full-service mental health clinic that offers online appointments, accepts insurance (Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross, Cigna, United, and more), and has same-week appointments available. As a bilingual therapist and first-generation Mexican American, Erica was drawn to mental health care after experiencing the transformative impact of counseling in her own life. She is passionate about helping clients understand how their experiences shape their mental health, physical well-being, and interpersonal relationships.
Welcoming New Patients! Erica is a registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist at Bonmente, a full-service mental health clinic that offers online appointments, accepts insurance (Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross, Cigna, United, and more), and has same-week appointments available. As a bilingual therapist and first-generation Mexican American, Erica was drawn to mental health care after experiencing the transformative impact of counseling in her own life. She is passionate about helping clients understand how their experiences shape their mental health, physical well-being, and interpersonal relationships.
Are you struggling with anxiety? Do you often have a self-critical, harsh voice in your head? Are you struggling to navigate certain relationships or dynamics in your life all while balancing your own needs? If so, I'm so glad you've found me here. I help individuals & couples working through difficult relationship patterns, trauma, anxiety, co-dependency, and boundary issues. When working with me, we will aim to increase self-awareness, foster a more nurturing relationship with yourself, unburden parts of yourself that have been overactive, and uncover the agency you have to positively impact your life.
Are you struggling with anxiety? Do you often have a self-critical, harsh voice in your head? Are you struggling to navigate certain relationships or dynamics in your life all while balancing your own needs? If so, I'm so glad you've found me here. I help individuals & couples working through difficult relationship patterns, trauma, anxiety, co-dependency, and boundary issues. When working with me, we will aim to increase self-awareness, foster a more nurturing relationship with yourself, unburden parts of yourself that have been overactive, and uncover the agency you have to positively impact your life.
I am a Licensed Psychologist who works with adults in psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, and couples therapy, Over the last 40 years, I have helped people with a wide range of problems including depression, anxiety, substance abuse, sexual concerns, interpersonal relationship issues, career obstacles, blocks in creativity, and the process of coming to terms with difficult and traumatic life situations. Usually my work extends further in helping people discover and develop a more lively and authentic sense of self, which in turn brings a sense of deeper meaningfulness and engagement in life.
I am a Licensed Psychologist who works with adults in psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, and couples therapy, Over the last 40 years, I have helped people with a wide range of problems including depression, anxiety, substance abuse, sexual concerns, interpersonal relationship issues, career obstacles, blocks in creativity, and the process of coming to terms with difficult and traumatic life situations. Usually my work extends further in helping people discover and develop a more lively and authentic sense of self, which in turn brings a sense of deeper meaningfulness and engagement in life.
By creating a safe, non-judgmental, and exploratory space, healing and shifts can occur. I will support you to deepen your self-awareness, transform unhelpful beliefs and patterns, improve your relationships, and learn healthy ways to manage the challenges of your daily life. I provide an empathic, humorous, supportive, and relational approach to my work. I am compassionately direct when needed. We will work together to ensure you are experiencing growth and healing. Together we will discover solutions and take steps to meet your goals.
By creating a safe, non-judgmental, and exploratory space, healing and shifts can occur. I will support you to deepen your self-awareness, transform unhelpful beliefs and patterns, improve your relationships, and learn healthy ways to manage the challenges of your daily life. I provide an empathic, humorous, supportive, and relational approach to my work. I am compassionately direct when needed. We will work together to ensure you are experiencing growth and healing. Together we will discover solutions and take steps to meet your goals.
I have years of experience working with individuals and families through challenges like anxiety, depression, and addiction, I’m passionate about guiding people toward meaningful change, healing, and growth. I offer a space for reflection and help clients understand and work toward their therapy goals. Together, we explore patterns you may be repeating to find more effective and authentic ways of being. I’m interactive in sessions, using humanistic and Cognitive Behavioral Therapies to provide practical tools and skills.
I have years of experience working with individuals and families through challenges like anxiety, depression, and addiction, I’m passionate about guiding people toward meaningful change, healing, and growth. I offer a space for reflection and help clients understand and work toward their therapy goals. Together, we explore patterns you may be repeating to find more effective and authentic ways of being. I’m interactive in sessions, using humanistic and Cognitive Behavioral Therapies to provide practical tools and skills.
Leah
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, ASW, EMDR
3 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94122
Waitlist for new clients
Are you exhausted from analyzing your anxiety but still feeling hijacked by your nervous system? You understand your patterns perfectly, but that understanding hasn't set you free. I specialize in helping intellectually aware women bridge the gap between knowing what's wrong and actually feeling safe in their bodies. My approach combines clinical somatic therapy with nervous system-informed movement to help you develop the embodied tools traditional talk therapy couldn't provide. If you're tired of living in your head while your body stays stuck, you've found the right place.
Are you exhausted from analyzing your anxiety but still feeling hijacked by your nervous system? You understand your patterns perfectly, but that understanding hasn't set you free. I specialize in helping intellectually aware women bridge the gap between knowing what's wrong and actually feeling safe in their bodies. My approach combines clinical somatic therapy with nervous system-informed movement to help you develop the embodied tools traditional talk therapy couldn't provide. If you're tired of living in your head while your body stays stuck, you've found the right place.
Life doesn't have to be falling apart for therapy to be helpful. Many of my clients are thoughtful, capable people navigating ADHD, perimenopause/menopause, relationship challenges, grief, burnout, career transitions, or uncertainty about what's next.
With nearly two decades of clinical experience, specialized training in Women's Health, and a prior career as a marketing executive, I understand the complex intersection of work, relationships, health, identity, and aging. My approach is warm, practical, collaborative, and focused on meaningful change.
Life doesn't have to be falling apart for therapy to be helpful. Many of my clients are thoughtful, capable people navigating ADHD, perimenopause/menopause, relationship challenges, grief, burnout, career transitions, or uncertainty about what's next.
With nearly two decades of clinical experience, specialized training in Women's Health, and a prior career as a marketing executive, I understand the complex intersection of work, relationships, health, identity, and aging. My approach is warm, practical, collaborative, and focused on meaningful change.
As a child of immigrants, I am especially interested in working with those who come from immigrant and/or refugee backgrounds where mental health may be stigmatized. I am a LCSW with a decade of social work experience in non-profit, outpatient, school, and start-up settings. In my private practice, I specialize in working with adults navigating anxiety, cultural identity questions, depression, emotional challenges, grief, intergenerational expectations, and life transitions. Sometimes you may be feeling stuck and overwhelmed, and need a safe space to process and work towards a life that you find fulfilling.
As a child of immigrants, I am especially interested in working with those who come from immigrant and/or refugee backgrounds where mental health may be stigmatized. I am a LCSW with a decade of social work experience in non-profit, outpatient, school, and start-up settings. In my private practice, I specialize in working with adults navigating anxiety, cultural identity questions, depression, emotional challenges, grief, intergenerational expectations, and life transitions. Sometimes you may be feeling stuck and overwhelmed, and need a safe space to process and work towards a life that you find fulfilling.
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How does your Therapist compare?
Number of Therapists in San Francisco, CA
3,000+
Average cost per session
$196
Therapists in San Francisco, CA who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 92% | Social Anxiety |
| 92% | Health Anxiety |
| 92% | Driving Anxiety |
| 85% | Depression |
| 80% | Relationship Issues |
| 76% | Relationship Anxiety |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 84% | Aetna |
| 59% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 51% | Anthem |
How Therapists in San Francisco, CA see their clients
| 51% | Online Only | |
| 49% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 75% | Female | |
| 22% | Male | |
| 3% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in San Francisco?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


