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Caring Therapists of Palm Beach Gardens
Counselor, LMHC, LMFT, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
We are here to help. If you or a loved one is struggling with feelings of sadness, worry or stress, we are here to help you. Let us help you reduce your anxiety, heal your depression and reconnect your marriage with counseling at our practice. We use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in our treatment approach. We are located in Palm Beach Gardens. We provide individual counseling to children as young as 4 years old through teenage years. We offer individual counseling to adults who want to work on depression, anxiety, personality issues, codependency and substance abuse. We are trained in Gottman and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
We are here to help. If you or a loved one is struggling with feelings of sadness, worry or stress, we are here to help you. Let us help you reduce your anxiety, heal your depression and reconnect your marriage with counseling at our practice. We use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in our treatment approach. We are located in Palm Beach Gardens. We provide individual counseling to children as young as 4 years old through teenage years. We offer individual counseling to adults who want to work on depression, anxiety, personality issues, codependency and substance abuse. We are trained in Gottman and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
(561) 821-2361 View (561) 821-2361
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Anthony Marler
Counselor, MAMFT, LMHC
Verified Verified
Jacksonville, FL 32225
Evening sessions available. Anthony Marler, LMHC specializes in couples therapy (Marriage Counseling). He helps couples improve their relationships and communication. He also sees individuals to help with emotional healing and increased coping skills with those who've experienced trauma. He assists men with regaining control of their lives from the addictive nature of pornography.
Evening sessions available. Anthony Marler, LMHC specializes in couples therapy (Marriage Counseling). He helps couples improve their relationships and communication. He also sees individuals to help with emotional healing and increased coping skills with those who've experienced trauma. He assists men with regaining control of their lives from the addictive nature of pornography.
(904) 637-7694 View (904) 637-7694
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Jessica O'Neil
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tampa, FL 33609
I am a certified SYMBIS facilitator for premarital and marriage counseling and work with families and couples at all stages.
Do you desire a deeper connection with your partner, your family, or yourself? I believe that the various relationships and experiences in our lives have a powerful impact on who we are and how we experience the world. As a qualified mental health professional and clinical social worker, I work with individual adults and adolescents, as well as families and couples in need of support. My approach to therapy is warm, accepting, and empathetic, and involves working as a team with my clients to identify their strengths, overcome challenges, and improve their quality of life.
I am a certified SYMBIS facilitator for premarital and marriage counseling and work with families and couples at all stages.
Do you desire a deeper connection with your partner, your family, or yourself? I believe that the various relationships and experiences in our lives have a powerful impact on who we are and how we experience the world. As a qualified mental health professional and clinical social worker, I work with individual adults and adolescents, as well as families and couples in need of support. My approach to therapy is warm, accepting, and empathetic, and involves working as a team with my clients to identify their strengths, overcome challenges, and improve their quality of life.
(813) 686-5147 View (813) 686-5147
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Panda Therapy Circle, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
We offer the same week psycho-therapy appointments, in-person and via Telehealth. The most used therapeutic modalities include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), EMDR – trauma therapy (light bar) and other modalities. We also offer counseling for grief and loss, addictions, as well as couples/ marital counseling. Therapy accepts all major insurance carriers (BCBS, Aetna, Cigna, Humana, United Health and Medicare) in order to make our services affordable to our patients, self-pay is also an option.
We offer the same week psycho-therapy appointments, in-person and via Telehealth. The most used therapeutic modalities include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), EMDR – trauma therapy (light bar) and other modalities. We also offer counseling for grief and loss, addictions, as well as couples/ marital counseling. Therapy accepts all major insurance carriers (BCBS, Aetna, Cigna, Humana, United Health and Medicare) in order to make our services affordable to our patients, self-pay is also an option.
(561) 269-6139 View (561) 269-6139
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Kym McCabe
Psychologist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
South Miami, FL 33143
I am an experienced licensed psychologist and marriage and family therapist providing psychotherapy to individuals, couples and families for a wide range of clinical issues including depression, anxiety, life transitions, and eating disorders. Clinically, my approach is warm, direct and outcome driven. I am very interested in who you are as an individual as well as within the context of your family and other environments. With this in mind, my initial therapeutic goal is to meet you where you are, identify clinical goals and foster an open and collaborative therapeutic relationship in which we work together towards your goals.
I am an experienced licensed psychologist and marriage and family therapist providing psychotherapy to individuals, couples and families for a wide range of clinical issues including depression, anxiety, life transitions, and eating disorders. Clinically, my approach is warm, direct and outcome driven. I am very interested in who you are as an individual as well as within the context of your family and other environments. With this in mind, my initial therapeutic goal is to meet you where you are, identify clinical goals and foster an open and collaborative therapeutic relationship in which we work together towards your goals.
(786) 671-5940 View (786) 671-5940
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Shakira Vasquez-Moscoso
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Orlando, FL 32812  (Online Only)
I use a combination of mindfulness and existentialism in order to empower clients to take an active role in treatment and be proactive in the therapy process. My role is to guide clients to discover meaning and freedom in their life. Helping clients build self-awareness, acceptance, and motivation to create a purposeful life brings me great joy. I work with adults struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, OCD, personality disorders and LGBTQ+ related issues. Marital/relationship counseling to overcome obstacles or to improve the quality of relationship with compassion is also offered.
I use a combination of mindfulness and existentialism in order to empower clients to take an active role in treatment and be proactive in the therapy process. My role is to guide clients to discover meaning and freedom in their life. Helping clients build self-awareness, acceptance, and motivation to create a purposeful life brings me great joy. I work with adults struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, OCD, personality disorders and LGBTQ+ related issues. Marital/relationship counseling to overcome obstacles or to improve the quality of relationship with compassion is also offered.
(689) 215-7641 View (689) 215-7641
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Dylan Wallace
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orlando, FL 32810
I specialize in helping cope with the complexities of substance use, other types of addictions, marital conflicts, depression, anxiety, mood disorders, trauma, grief, personality disorders, codependency, attachment, and family conflict.
I believe that each person has the potential to live the life they truly want and that lasting change is possible. As a strengths-based therapist, I help a client find their strengths are built on and utilized in therapy to help the client work through the difficulties they are experiencing. I create a space where you can tell me anything without fear of judgment or me telling you how you should live life. Therapy is an interactive process and it shouldn’t look the same for each person. I love helping people build their confidence and becoming more assertive. I want to help you build the skills to live your life to the fullest!
I specialize in helping cope with the complexities of substance use, other types of addictions, marital conflicts, depression, anxiety, mood disorders, trauma, grief, personality disorders, codependency, attachment, and family conflict.
I believe that each person has the potential to live the life they truly want and that lasting change is possible. As a strengths-based therapist, I help a client find their strengths are built on and utilized in therapy to help the client work through the difficulties they are experiencing. I create a space where you can tell me anything without fear of judgment or me telling you how you should live life. Therapy is an interactive process and it shouldn’t look the same for each person. I love helping people build their confidence and becoming more assertive. I want to help you build the skills to live your life to the fullest!
(321) 405-1722 View (321) 405-1722
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Dr. Isabell Springer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Gainesville, FL 32606  (Online Only)
*** VOTED TOP 3 MARRIAGE COUNSELORS *** After years of therapy and hundreds spent on books, it was one brief moment with Isabell that changed everything! She opened a door that I had closed for years. Aspects of my life were revisited, put into a new perspective, allowing me to find the freedom and happiness I had been missing for years. Her keen insights and ability to facilitate unfinished business puts her in a position to transform lives and that's what she does. Read what others are saying about her - do yourself a favor - take advantage of what will most likely be your life changing moment as well. -Male, 34
*** VOTED TOP 3 MARRIAGE COUNSELORS *** After years of therapy and hundreds spent on books, it was one brief moment with Isabell that changed everything! She opened a door that I had closed for years. Aspects of my life were revisited, put into a new perspective, allowing me to find the freedom and happiness I had been missing for years. Her keen insights and ability to facilitate unfinished business puts her in a position to transform lives and that's what she does. Read what others are saying about her - do yourself a favor - take advantage of what will most likely be your life changing moment as well. -Male, 34
(352) 436-1434 View (352) 436-1434
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Marie Danie Cadet
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
West Palm Beach, FL 33413  (Online Only)
Have you been sluggish, avoiding friends, and struggling to complete simple tasks? Is your traumatic past impacting your relationships? Are you contemplating divorce? Struggling with any of the issues I mentioned can be painful and overwhelming. I have worked with clients with many concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, marriage, and divorce. I have also helped many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse. Allow me the opportunity to help you discover the tools necessary to tackle these challenges.
Have you been sluggish, avoiding friends, and struggling to complete simple tasks? Is your traumatic past impacting your relationships? Are you contemplating divorce? Struggling with any of the issues I mentioned can be painful and overwhelming. I have worked with clients with many concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, marriage, and divorce. I have also helped many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse. Allow me the opportunity to help you discover the tools necessary to tackle these challenges.
(678) 661-5876 View (678) 661-5876
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June C Singletary
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tallahassee, FL 32301
"Marriage with NO problems?" I HEAR YOU LOUD AND CLEAR..."What idiot said that?" YOU would be right. "NO PROBLEMS" means NO: Prior separate upbringing experiences, Prior different religious experiences, Prior different sexual experiences, Prior different values in many different topics, Prior different problem resolution skills, Prior unequal education or occupation ideals, Prior Emotional skills in conflict resolution by one or both. SO, DON'T TELL ME TWO PEOPLE WITH ALTOGETHER DIFFERENT IDEAS, IDEALS, VALUES, AND EXPERIENCES in a broad range of traits CAN WALTZ INTO MARRIAGE WITH "NO PROBLEMS".
"Marriage with NO problems?" I HEAR YOU LOUD AND CLEAR..."What idiot said that?" YOU would be right. "NO PROBLEMS" means NO: Prior separate upbringing experiences, Prior different religious experiences, Prior different sexual experiences, Prior different values in many different topics, Prior different problem resolution skills, Prior unequal education or occupation ideals, Prior Emotional skills in conflict resolution by one or both. SO, DON'T TELL ME TWO PEOPLE WITH ALTOGETHER DIFFERENT IDEAS, IDEALS, VALUES, AND EXPERIENCES in a broad range of traits CAN WALTZ INTO MARRIAGE WITH "NO PROBLEMS".
(850) 900-1985 View (850) 900-1985
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RWJCounseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Brandon, FL 33511
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples and families as they tackle the tasks of life. Along with 10+ years experience working in a private practice. I am a retired veteran of 21 years from the U. S. Air Force. Many couples go through dramatic challenges during the lifespan of their relationship. It does not matter if the relationship is 1 year old or 20+ years old.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples and families as they tackle the tasks of life. Along with 10+ years experience working in a private practice. I am a retired veteran of 21 years from the U. S. Air Force. Many couples go through dramatic challenges during the lifespan of their relationship. It does not matter if the relationship is 1 year old or 20+ years old.
(813) 699-4837 View (813) 699-4837
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Lotus Counseling Center
Counselor, MS, LMHC, LMFT, PhD
Verified Verified
Boca Raton, FL 33434
We specialize in aiding clients in achieving lasting changes—from overcoming addictions and managing anger to moving on from a marriage.
At Lotus Counseling Center, we understand the challenges of navigating relationship difficulties, the desire for life changes, and the obstacles that may seem insurmountable. Whether you're grappling with depression or anxiety or seeking ways to manage anger, we're here to guide you through. Uncover what's holding you back from living a life filled with satisfaction, fulfillment, and joy. Our skilled psychotherapists in Boca Raton can help you pinpoint those parts of your life that you can change and tailor their approach to your needs. For more insight into how we can assist you, please visit our website at www.lotuscounseling.com.
We specialize in aiding clients in achieving lasting changes—from overcoming addictions and managing anger to moving on from a marriage.
At Lotus Counseling Center, we understand the challenges of navigating relationship difficulties, the desire for life changes, and the obstacles that may seem insurmountable. Whether you're grappling with depression or anxiety or seeking ways to manage anger, we're here to guide you through. Uncover what's holding you back from living a life filled with satisfaction, fulfillment, and joy. Our skilled psychotherapists in Boca Raton can help you pinpoint those parts of your life that you can change and tailor their approach to your needs. For more insight into how we can assist you, please visit our website at www.lotuscounseling.com.
(786) 655-4233 View (786) 655-4233
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The Mindfulness Path LLC
Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern, Eve, Coke, MS, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pompano Beach, FL 33069  (Online Only)
With a bachelor's in neuropsychology from Florida Atlantic University (2016) and a master’s degree from Barry University (2020) in both mental health counseling & marriage/family counseling, I've gathered over 3,000+ clinical hours.
Welcome to The Mindfulness Path, LLC Offering mental wellness coaching, consulting, & more; guiding you toward empowerment. Where goal-oriented clients and corporations enhance their communication skills, learn to nurture healthy relationships, and navigate mental hardships with resilience and lasting transformation. Join the journey to mental wellness today!
With a bachelor's in neuropsychology from Florida Atlantic University (2016) and a master’s degree from Barry University (2020) in both mental health counseling & marriage/family counseling, I've gathered over 3,000+ clinical hours.
Welcome to The Mindfulness Path, LLC Offering mental wellness coaching, consulting, & more; guiding you toward empowerment. Where goal-oriented clients and corporations enhance their communication skills, learn to nurture healthy relationships, and navigate mental hardships with resilience and lasting transformation. Join the journey to mental wellness today!
(954) 228-9894 View (954) 228-9894
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EMDR and The Happy Couple Expert
Counselor, MS, LMHC, Uk Clin, Psych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clearwater, FL 33761
I help people whose unresolved trauma has turned into anxiety, depression, fear of living, and avoidance, just to name a few. These symptoms take over at the worst possible moments, therefore, finding it debilitating and are in need of help to decrease these symptoms, and find fulfillment in their lives. I treat couples in marriage counseling who might have grown apart, have infidelity/online love romances, or communication problems. I ask you to question, "What if life with your partner could be as exciting as it was when you first got together?” If you want to find out, give me a call.
I help people whose unresolved trauma has turned into anxiety, depression, fear of living, and avoidance, just to name a few. These symptoms take over at the worst possible moments, therefore, finding it debilitating and are in need of help to decrease these symptoms, and find fulfillment in their lives. I treat couples in marriage counseling who might have grown apart, have infidelity/online love romances, or communication problems. I ask you to question, "What if life with your partner could be as exciting as it was when you first got together?” If you want to find out, give me a call.
(727) 472-9589 View (727) 472-9589
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Diana Worley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Palm Harbor, FL 34684
I offer couples therapy and have training in pre-marital therapy as well as addressing other obstacles a relationship may be going through.
Hi, my name is Diana and I am happy you have chosen my profile to review in your search for finding help with whatever it is you may need. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I am trained in both general psychotherapy theories and systems theory. This means I take the individual’s whole system into account in sessions and how a family and/or a cultural system can affect an individual’s needs for becoming the best version of themselves. I believe in a holistic approach and tailor the treatment to each specific individual.
I offer couples therapy and have training in pre-marital therapy as well as addressing other obstacles a relationship may be going through.
Hi, my name is Diana and I am happy you have chosen my profile to review in your search for finding help with whatever it is you may need. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I am trained in both general psychotherapy theories and systems theory. This means I take the individual’s whole system into account in sessions and how a family and/or a cultural system can affect an individual’s needs for becoming the best version of themselves. I believe in a holistic approach and tailor the treatment to each specific individual.
(727) 732-4725 View (727) 732-4725
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Shane Michael McDonald
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orlando, FL 32839
Shane is well versed in a variety of issues such as anxiety, depression, anger management, grief, trauma, addictions, self-esteem issues, premarital counseling, and marriage and family counseling to include blended-families, divorce recovery, infidelity, and parenting issues. Shane is also a certified professional coach with a focus in leadership coaching, emotional IQ coaching, and career/ministry coaching.
Shane is well versed in a variety of issues such as anxiety, depression, anger management, grief, trauma, addictions, self-esteem issues, premarital counseling, and marriage and family counseling to include blended-families, divorce recovery, infidelity, and parenting issues. Shane is also a certified professional coach with a focus in leadership coaching, emotional IQ coaching, and career/ministry coaching.
(321) 218-3474 View (321) 218-3474
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Elvisa Chestnut
Counselor, MEd, EdS, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Safety Harbor, FL 34695  (Online Only)
With a background in marriage and family therapy, I also have specialized training in working with families and couples.
Are you struggling with feeling stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed, lonely, or overthinking? As your therapist, I am here to help you unpack life’s struggles. I work with clients of all ages with issues related to self-esteem, depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties. My goal is to create a safe space for your fears, vulnerabilities, and strengths. I firmly believe that everyone is the expert of their own life. My job is to get to know you in order to provide support in the areas you are wanting.
With a background in marriage and family therapy, I also have specialized training in working with families and couples.
Are you struggling with feeling stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed, lonely, or overthinking? As your therapist, I am here to help you unpack life’s struggles. I work with clients of all ages with issues related to self-esteem, depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties. My goal is to create a safe space for your fears, vulnerabilities, and strengths. I firmly believe that everyone is the expert of their own life. My job is to get to know you in order to provide support in the areas you are wanting.
(813) 444-2917 View (813) 444-2917
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Kelvin Rivera
Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Palm Harbor, FL 34683
Kelvin is passionate about helping his clients achieve their personal goals and navigate life’s challenges. He has worked with individuals from all walks of life, helping them find meaning and purpose amidst difficult circumstances. His approach is rooted in empathy, compassion, and respect for each client’s unique journey. Kelvin is experienced in working with children, teens, couples, and adults. He is certified in Gottman Marriage Therapy and is bilingual, speaking both Spanish and English.
Kelvin is passionate about helping his clients achieve their personal goals and navigate life’s challenges. He has worked with individuals from all walks of life, helping them find meaning and purpose amidst difficult circumstances. His approach is rooted in empathy, compassion, and respect for each client’s unique journey. Kelvin is experienced in working with children, teens, couples, and adults. He is certified in Gottman Marriage Therapy and is bilingual, speaking both Spanish and English.
(727) 705-2249 View (727) 705-2249
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Ami Owen
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD , LMFT, CCTP
Verified Verified
Tampa, FL 33602
Dr. Ami Owen received her undergraduate degree in Social Science and a minor in Psychology. She received her Master’s in General Family Therapy with an advanced emphasis on families and trauma. Dr. Owen also received a Doctorate in Counseling and is a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional. She is licensed in ID, WA, AZ, TX, FL, CA, UT and is a nationally approved supervisor through the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT). She takes delight in mentoring therapists on the complexities of family systems and consults with providers across the country to improve systems approaches.
Dr. Ami Owen received her undergraduate degree in Social Science and a minor in Psychology. She received her Master’s in General Family Therapy with an advanced emphasis on families and trauma. Dr. Owen also received a Doctorate in Counseling and is a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional. She is licensed in ID, WA, AZ, TX, FL, CA, UT and is a nationally approved supervisor through the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT). She takes delight in mentoring therapists on the complexities of family systems and consults with providers across the country to improve systems approaches.
(813) 755-8213 View (813) 755-8213
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Tanya Ruiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, Therapy, QS-CSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orlando, FL 32835  (Online Only)
Accepting New Clients -Treating Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Bipolar or troubled relationships. Together we will unstuck life by finding the balance you are looking for. You deserve to be heard. Life can be overwhelming. It is time to take care of YOU. I am glad you are taking the first steps to feel better and resolve the concerns that have been bothering you and keeping you away from living the meaningful happier life you want to live. Perhaps you've been struggling with depression, anxiety, grief or troubled marital relationships? Maybe you've had a crisis and need help to get back on track, let's start to rebuild you back up.
Accepting New Clients -Treating Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Bipolar or troubled relationships. Together we will unstuck life by finding the balance you are looking for. You deserve to be heard. Life can be overwhelming. It is time to take care of YOU. I am glad you are taking the first steps to feel better and resolve the concerns that have been bothering you and keeping you away from living the meaningful happier life you want to live. Perhaps you've been struggling with depression, anxiety, grief or troubled marital relationships? Maybe you've had a crisis and need help to get back on track, let's start to rebuild you back up.
(321) 607-3562 View (321) 607-3562
Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.