Male Therapists in Seattle, WA
I'm David Bradshaw, I am from Washington State, and I currently live in Birch Bay WA. I was born in 1990, I'm an avid reader, I also enjoy Chess, Meditation, Backpacking, Hunting, and Boxing. I'm a bit of a nerd as well, and I build my own desktop computers. I would say the Pasayten Wilderness Area is one of my happy places. I practice Adlerian Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I work with clients aged 12 and up, including adults and couples. I am also a Clinical Supervisor and can train new counselors helping them earn hours toward their licensure.
I'm David Bradshaw, I am from Washington State, and I currently live in Birch Bay WA. I was born in 1990, I'm an avid reader, I also enjoy Chess, Meditation, Backpacking, Hunting, and Boxing. I'm a bit of a nerd as well, and I build my own desktop computers. I would say the Pasayten Wilderness Area is one of my happy places. I practice Adlerian Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I work with clients aged 12 and up, including adults and couples. I am also a Clinical Supervisor and can train new counselors helping them earn hours toward their licensure.
I have been in the behavioral health field for 35 years. I have experience as a counselor, case manager, supervisor in community mental health programs in Oregon, Missouri and Washington. I developed and taught a post-divorce and parenting program. I have spoken to thousands of individuals throughout my career via workshops and seminars on parenting, relationships, and crisis intervention. I have taught Mental Health First Aid courses in Washington and in Hawaii. I believe in the Japanese proverb “Fall seven times, Stand up eight” and strive to keep you standing through difficult situations.
I have been in the behavioral health field for 35 years. I have experience as a counselor, case manager, supervisor in community mental health programs in Oregon, Missouri and Washington. I developed and taught a post-divorce and parenting program. I have spoken to thousands of individuals throughout my career via workshops and seminars on parenting, relationships, and crisis intervention. I have taught Mental Health First Aid courses in Washington and in Hawaii. I believe in the Japanese proverb “Fall seven times, Stand up eight” and strive to keep you standing through difficult situations.
Micheal Kane
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PsyD, MSW, MA, LICSW, CTTS
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98118
Emotional pain distorts our view of the world. The longer our pain lasts, the more unhappy we become. Unlike a well meaning friend or relative, a therapist can consider your concerns from a fresh, objective, perspective. But a therapist will not solve your problems for you; he will guide you by listening, questioning and observing—- so that you can find your own answers when extreme unhappiness, overwhelming anxiety or fear, feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem, sexual problems, and traumatic events interfere with your life or relationships with others.
Emotional pain distorts our view of the world. The longer our pain lasts, the more unhappy we become. Unlike a well meaning friend or relative, a therapist can consider your concerns from a fresh, objective, perspective. But a therapist will not solve your problems for you; he will guide you by listening, questioning and observing—- so that you can find your own answers when extreme unhappiness, overwhelming anxiety or fear, feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem, sexual problems, and traumatic events interfere with your life or relationships with others.
My name is Jim Porter and I'm a Psychotherapist based in the Seattle area. My approach to therapy is relational with an emphasis on the creation of a safe setting where you will be heard well enough that you begin to hear your own voice in a new way. Therapy can be a partnership where we examine the issues and distress that brought you here in the present as well as possible contributing events and ideas from the past, all with an eye on what you want your future to look and feel like. My goal is to help you identify what is most important to you, organize and tolerate any feelings that arise in order to be your most authentic self.
My name is Jim Porter and I'm a Psychotherapist based in the Seattle area. My approach to therapy is relational with an emphasis on the creation of a safe setting where you will be heard well enough that you begin to hear your own voice in a new way. Therapy can be a partnership where we examine the issues and distress that brought you here in the present as well as possible contributing events and ideas from the past, all with an eye on what you want your future to look and feel like. My goal is to help you identify what is most important to you, organize and tolerate any feelings that arise in order to be your most authentic self.
As a relationship and sex therapist, my background and training are in relationship treatment as well as sexuality therapy. I work with heterosexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, asexual, and transgender individuals, couples, and partnerships to heal and find fulfillment. I see adults on a variety of discomforts that affect individuals, partnerships, and sexuality (e.g., orgasmic issues, erectile issues, desire issues, sexual pain). Additionally, I see couples for a myriad of relational issues. I am LGBTIQA, kink, and poly friendly and knowledgeable.
As a relationship and sex therapist, my background and training are in relationship treatment as well as sexuality therapy. I work with heterosexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, asexual, and transgender individuals, couples, and partnerships to heal and find fulfillment. I see adults on a variety of discomforts that affect individuals, partnerships, and sexuality (e.g., orgasmic issues, erectile issues, desire issues, sexual pain). Additionally, I see couples for a myriad of relational issues. I am LGBTIQA, kink, and poly friendly and knowledgeable.
You are on the verge of taking a brave step. Perhaps you have encountered a new challenge, or have realized you need a new way of coping with an old problem. Often this is a moment of crisis, and at the same time, an opportunity to learn and to grow. I am passionate about working with clients who are coping with major life changes. If a medical condition (e.g. brain injury, post-concussion syndrome, stroke, spinal injury, chronic dizziness/pain, chronic illness or critical illness/COVID) has affected you or your loved one, or if your quality of life is impacted by treatable conditions such as PTSD or anxiety, we may be a good fit.
You are on the verge of taking a brave step. Perhaps you have encountered a new challenge, or have realized you need a new way of coping with an old problem. Often this is a moment of crisis, and at the same time, an opportunity to learn and to grow. I am passionate about working with clients who are coping with major life changes. If a medical condition (e.g. brain injury, post-concussion syndrome, stroke, spinal injury, chronic dizziness/pain, chronic illness or critical illness/COVID) has affected you or your loved one, or if your quality of life is impacted by treatable conditions such as PTSD or anxiety, we may be a good fit.
My clinical approach is largely psychodynamic with existential and humanistic elements. Some of my clinical interests include: adult developmental life transitions, the impact of chronic illness (on both the person with chronic illness and those caring for someone with chronic illness/ongoing health needs), and men's issues.
My clinical approach is largely psychodynamic with existential and humanistic elements. Some of my clinical interests include: adult developmental life transitions, the impact of chronic illness (on both the person with chronic illness and those caring for someone with chronic illness/ongoing health needs), and men's issues.
Are past experiences getting in the way of your current relationship? Perhaps you feel lost in who you are. Or maybe you are struggling to feel settled within your career. I help support clients in understanding and resolving issues within the context of work, personal life and relationships. We will regain your strength and create a sense of autonomy over your decisions and choices. I also support individuals and couples in setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and building a sense of self as we work through your main struggles.
Are past experiences getting in the way of your current relationship? Perhaps you feel lost in who you are. Or maybe you are struggling to feel settled within your career. I help support clients in understanding and resolving issues within the context of work, personal life and relationships. We will regain your strength and create a sense of autonomy over your decisions and choices. I also support individuals and couples in setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and building a sense of self as we work through your main struggles.
Hello! I am a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) working and living in Seattle, WA. I love to support people experiencing anxiety arising from relationship or social issues, work stress, and healing from family/interpersonal trauma.
Hello! I am a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) working and living in Seattle, WA. I love to support people experiencing anxiety arising from relationship or social issues, work stress, and healing from family/interpersonal trauma.
All people deserve to live healthy, satisfying lives. Our intention is to help clients find ways to increase insight, clarity, balance, and meaning. We are passionate about the intersection between psychotherapy, research, and contemplative mindfulness with a goal of supporting clients on their journey to wellness and self-discovery. Whether you’re facing anxiety, relationship struggles, or preparing for new transitions, our practice is dedicated to supporting adults, LGBTQ+ individuals, kink/poly folks, and creative professionals across our vibrant city. We offer Telehealth services to all Seattle/Washington residents.
All people deserve to live healthy, satisfying lives. Our intention is to help clients find ways to increase insight, clarity, balance, and meaning. We are passionate about the intersection between psychotherapy, research, and contemplative mindfulness with a goal of supporting clients on their journey to wellness and self-discovery. Whether you’re facing anxiety, relationship struggles, or preparing for new transitions, our practice is dedicated to supporting adults, LGBTQ+ individuals, kink/poly folks, and creative professionals across our vibrant city. We offer Telehealth services to all Seattle/Washington residents.
Whether you come to therapy for help with a specific challenge or aren’t quite able to put it all into words just yet, I’m here to walk alongside you and provide a safe space to learn, grow, and heal. I love working with clients who want to deepen their self-understanding, heal old wounds, and develop practical tools for daily life. You don’t need to have it all figured out, just a willingness to show up and explore what’s possible. My background includes work with adults and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, substance abuse, self-esteem issues, ADHD, trauma, schizophrenia, and changing seasons of life.
Whether you come to therapy for help with a specific challenge or aren’t quite able to put it all into words just yet, I’m here to walk alongside you and provide a safe space to learn, grow, and heal. I love working with clients who want to deepen their self-understanding, heal old wounds, and develop practical tools for daily life. You don’t need to have it all figured out, just a willingness to show up and explore what’s possible. My background includes work with adults and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, substance abuse, self-esteem issues, ADHD, trauma, schizophrenia, and changing seasons of life.
Opening up around the intimate details of our lives can be very uncomfortable. There is so much pressure to be “happy”, “better”, or “perfect”, while receiving messaging that being anything else is unacceptable. We are very adaptive yet often struggle to effectively get our needs met, so may engage in avoidance behaviors and withhold or internalize our feelings to try to prevent things from getting worse. You want to feel more like your true self and get more satisfaction out of your relationships. You need an unconditionally supportive, non-judgmental, creative, and humorous therapist who accepts you however you are.
Opening up around the intimate details of our lives can be very uncomfortable. There is so much pressure to be “happy”, “better”, or “perfect”, while receiving messaging that being anything else is unacceptable. We are very adaptive yet often struggle to effectively get our needs met, so may engage in avoidance behaviors and withhold or internalize our feelings to try to prevent things from getting worse. You want to feel more like your true self and get more satisfaction out of your relationships. You need an unconditionally supportive, non-judgmental, creative, and humorous therapist who accepts you however you are.
Therapy can feel intimidating, especially when you’re opening up to someone new. You might be used to holding it together on the outside while feeling overwhelmed or stuck. If that resonates, you’re not alone. You may be dealing with anxiety, stress, life transitions, or questions around identity and belonging. I especially enjoy working with Asian American individuals and others navigating cultural identity and family expectations, particularly those who feel pressure to “keep it together” while struggling internally, and individuals who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about their next steps.
Therapy can feel intimidating, especially when you’re opening up to someone new. You might be used to holding it together on the outside while feeling overwhelmed or stuck. If that resonates, you’re not alone. You may be dealing with anxiety, stress, life transitions, or questions around identity and belonging. I especially enjoy working with Asian American individuals and others navigating cultural identity and family expectations, particularly those who feel pressure to “keep it together” while struggling internally, and individuals who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about their next steps.
I work with a diverse caseload helping clients to build meaningful relationships not only those in their lives but their own central sense of self and system of values. In particular, I enjoy finding ways to bring geek and gamer cultural interests into therapy and utilize the things that bring people joy while providing a safe, supportive environment to explore their own life experiences while building on the supports that have helped them navigate their lives. I take a humanistic approach to counseling that encourages honesty and openness, since we're ultimately all just people trying to figure it out day by day.
I work with a diverse caseload helping clients to build meaningful relationships not only those in their lives but their own central sense of self and system of values. In particular, I enjoy finding ways to bring geek and gamer cultural interests into therapy and utilize the things that bring people joy while providing a safe, supportive environment to explore their own life experiences while building on the supports that have helped them navigate their lives. I take a humanistic approach to counseling that encourages honesty and openness, since we're ultimately all just people trying to figure it out day by day.
I’m Dr. Andrew Paves (feel free to call me Andy), a licensed clinical psychologist passionate about racial identity development, intergenerational trauma, and enhancing motivation to change behaviors. Throughout my graduate training and professional career, I have worked with a variety of clients across the lifespan including individuals affected by trauma, depression, anxiety, chronic medical conditions, alcohol and substance use, as well as individuals from underrepresented backgrounds.
I’m Dr. Andrew Paves (feel free to call me Andy), a licensed clinical psychologist passionate about racial identity development, intergenerational trauma, and enhancing motivation to change behaviors. Throughout my graduate training and professional career, I have worked with a variety of clients across the lifespan including individuals affected by trauma, depression, anxiety, chronic medical conditions, alcohol and substance use, as well as individuals from underrepresented backgrounds.
You’re doing fine. Well, like, except this thing that made you google therapists. Like a lot of people these days, perhaps you’re holding it together.
You’re just tired of it being so damn hard.
I’ve worked with a lot of men, especially those left stranded when the old scripts stop working, and with all kinds of people going through it: a job gone, a relationship over, a habit that quietly spiraled into something more.
Thoughts, feelings, and actions all serve a purpose. At least for a while. Problem is, we often end up ashamed, stuck in our heads, and should-ing all over ourselves when we try to change.
You’re doing fine. Well, like, except this thing that made you google therapists. Like a lot of people these days, perhaps you’re holding it together.
You’re just tired of it being so damn hard.
I’ve worked with a lot of men, especially those left stranded when the old scripts stop working, and with all kinds of people going through it: a job gone, a relationship over, a habit that quietly spiraled into something more.
Thoughts, feelings, and actions all serve a purpose. At least for a while. Problem is, we often end up ashamed, stuck in our heads, and should-ing all over ourselves when we try to change.
Felipe Matamala Counseling & Consulting
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LMHC, MIPA
Online Only
Sometimes we struggle with different situations in our life which are not able to process. Also, we can have some patterns which become in anxieties, depressions or which are related with another generations.
Therapy provides you a private place to know your thoughts and feelings when this experience appears, increasing your capacity to deal with your emotions and the reality.
I believe, the psychodynamic therapy and the psychoanalysis offers on of the most powerful experience in your life. Provides you changes in multiple perspectives which will make your life capable to recognize the difficulties and resolve them in another ways.
Sometimes we struggle with different situations in our life which are not able to process. Also, we can have some patterns which become in anxieties, depressions or which are related with another generations.
Therapy provides you a private place to know your thoughts and feelings when this experience appears, increasing your capacity to deal with your emotions and the reality.
I believe, the psychodynamic therapy and the psychoanalysis offers on of the most powerful experience in your life. Provides you changes in multiple perspectives which will make your life capable to recognize the difficulties and resolve them in another ways.
Whatever the present condition of our life, we have had an intrinsic role in creating it, whether we see it or not. The good news is that once we have enough awareness to take ownership, we can consciously create what is next. Our greatest ally is self awareness and clarity. My role as a therapist is to help you identify and resolve your obstacles (internal and external) and to help you clarify your life purpose and direction. In an empathic relationship that stresses authenticity, our processes will lead to in depth exploration and releasing.
Whatever the present condition of our life, we have had an intrinsic role in creating it, whether we see it or not. The good news is that once we have enough awareness to take ownership, we can consciously create what is next. Our greatest ally is self awareness and clarity. My role as a therapist is to help you identify and resolve your obstacles (internal and external) and to help you clarify your life purpose and direction. In an empathic relationship that stresses authenticity, our processes will lead to in depth exploration and releasing.
I am a clinical psychologist specializing in the treatment of complex clinical presentations, especially adolescents and adults with eating disorders and co-occurring personality disorders and problems of emotion regulation. I work within an evidence-based framework to help patients gain the skills and insight necessary to change their lives. Prior to opening my private practice, I spent 8 years as Co-Director of the Eating Disorders Center at the Evidence Based Treatment Centers of Seattle (EBTCS).
I am a clinical psychologist specializing in the treatment of complex clinical presentations, especially adolescents and adults with eating disorders and co-occurring personality disorders and problems of emotion regulation. I work within an evidence-based framework to help patients gain the skills and insight necessary to change their lives. Prior to opening my private practice, I spent 8 years as Co-Director of the Eating Disorders Center at the Evidence Based Treatment Centers of Seattle (EBTCS).
Men: Are you going through a difficult life transition right now and don't know where to turn for help? Facing a divorce, or separation, relocation or a death in the family are not things to deal with alone. Or are you hard on yourself and want to be closer to your spouse? I can be your guide to make your relationships work better and give you a judgement free space to talk about your thoughts and feelings. Together we can make sense of what you need to do next.
Men: Are you going through a difficult life transition right now and don't know where to turn for help? Facing a divorce, or separation, relocation or a death in the family are not things to deal with alone. Or are you hard on yourself and want to be closer to your spouse? I can be your guide to make your relationships work better and give you a judgement free space to talk about your thoughts and feelings. Together we can make sense of what you need to do next.
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FAQ - Therapist Gender
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.


