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Loni Stookey
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint George, UT 84770
In addition to being a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I hold a PhD in Clinical Sexology.
Hello! I specialize in Individual, Marriage and Sex Therapy. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, my focus is on strengthening families by helping couples learn to hear and love each other better. I teach often in session and help couples practice the skills they learn to create new avenues of communication as we process each couple's situation. Premarital counseling is encouraged (these sessions make a great gift for newly weds!) I also work with women's issues and with individuals with sexual health, psychology, function, and relationship concerns.
In addition to being a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I hold a PhD in Clinical Sexology.
Hello! I specialize in Individual, Marriage and Sex Therapy. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, my focus is on strengthening families by helping couples learn to hear and love each other better. I teach often in session and help couples practice the skills they learn to create new avenues of communication as we process each couple's situation. Premarital counseling is encouraged (these sessions make a great gift for newly weds!) I also work with women's issues and with individuals with sexual health, psychology, function, and relationship concerns.
(435) 466-4338 View (435) 466-4338
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Hollie Enniss-Poe
Pre-Licensed Professional, CMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint George, UT 84790
Deaf/Hard of Hearing: I work with individuals to reduce communication barriers, and improve family relationships.
I focus on you with empathy and honesty. Together, we'll find out why you feel uncomfortable and use your strengths to move forward. You may feel alone while looking for help, but you won’t be alone in therapy. I care about kindness, strength, being real, and responsibility. I use different ways to help you figure out what's important, change thoughts that aren't helpful, and set goals you can achieve. In our meetings, I create a friendly and understanding atmosphere that respects different cultures, fairness, and helping others. Your plan for getting better is made together with your ideas in mind.
Deaf/Hard of Hearing: I work with individuals to reduce communication barriers, and improve family relationships.
I focus on you with empathy and honesty. Together, we'll find out why you feel uncomfortable and use your strengths to move forward. You may feel alone while looking for help, but you won’t be alone in therapy. I care about kindness, strength, being real, and responsibility. I use different ways to help you figure out what's important, change thoughts that aren't helpful, and set goals you can achieve. In our meetings, I create a friendly and understanding atmosphere that respects different cultures, fairness, and helping others. Your plan for getting better is made together with your ideas in mind.
(435) 466-5207 View (435) 466-5207
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Full Circle Yoga & Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Full Circle Yoga and Therapy is a trauma-informed space facilitating life transformation through evidence-based therapeutic interventions, yoga, & mindfulness. We offer individual, group, family, and couples therapy/counseling and can usually schedule new clients within 2 weeks for an initial intake appointment.
Full Circle Yoga and Therapy is a trauma-informed space facilitating life transformation through evidence-based therapeutic interventions, yoga, & mindfulness. We offer individual, group, family, and couples therapy/counseling and can usually schedule new clients within 2 weeks for an initial intake appointment.
(385) 206-3034 View (385) 206-3034
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East Mountain Therapy
Counselor, CMHC
Verified Verified
Orem, UT 84097
Tim Jindra specializes with working with people who suffer from mood disorders, addictions, marital and family strain, PTSD, and has worked with many combat veterans and their families.
Tim Jindra is a licensed clinical mental health counselor and created East Mountain Therapy as a refuge to find healing. He has 14 years of experience working in treatment settings, including 10 years at Cirque Lodge, which is a residential program that treats substance abuse problems, addictions, and other mental health related issues like mood disorders, anxiety problems and issues related to trauma. He is a member of American Mental Health Counselors Association (AMHCA) and advocates on behalf of those suffering from mental health disorders. He has an extensive history of working with couples, families, and adolescents.
Tim Jindra specializes with working with people who suffer from mood disorders, addictions, marital and family strain, PTSD, and has worked with many combat veterans and their families.
Tim Jindra is a licensed clinical mental health counselor and created East Mountain Therapy as a refuge to find healing. He has 14 years of experience working in treatment settings, including 10 years at Cirque Lodge, which is a residential program that treats substance abuse problems, addictions, and other mental health related issues like mood disorders, anxiety problems and issues related to trauma. He is a member of American Mental Health Counselors Association (AMHCA) and advocates on behalf of those suffering from mental health disorders. He has an extensive history of working with couples, families, and adolescents.
(801) 919-8647 View (801) 919-8647
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Shannee Davidson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP-II
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
South Jordan, UT 84095
I specialize in Trauma, Couples Counseling, and Self Worth. My therapy style is intuitive and grounded in a gentle approach using Internal Family Systems (IFS). I don’t just want to help you by listening, but by helping you get curious about your thoughts, emotions, body sensations and limiting beliefs. In couples work, the quality of our relationships with other people is very dependent on the relationship with our own self.
I specialize in Trauma, Couples Counseling, and Self Worth. My therapy style is intuitive and grounded in a gentle approach using Internal Family Systems (IFS). I don’t just want to help you by listening, but by helping you get curious about your thoughts, emotions, body sensations and limiting beliefs. In couples work, the quality of our relationships with other people is very dependent on the relationship with our own self.
(801) 893-7849 View (801) 893-7849
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Geri Harames - True You Counseling
Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint George, UT 84770
I can help you with most mental health & life issues including: recovery, trauma, self-esteem, co-dependency, religion, relationships, family, school, career, & more.
90 minute sessions for $95 makes professional therapy affordable while giving us enough time to dig deep & make progress. (YES!!! LONGER SESSIONS, LESS MONEY!) My time is tight, so I'm only accepting a limited number of committed, full fee, private pay clients, who are ready to dig in & do the work. To learn, heal & grow a client must have trust; once that is established we will work together, side by side, towards finding the answers & becoming the person you want to be. If you are ready to do the work, I am ready to help you! Serving Washington County, locations vary, including in home, online, walk n talk & hiking in S. Utah.
I can help you with most mental health & life issues including: recovery, trauma, self-esteem, co-dependency, religion, relationships, family, school, career, & more.
90 minute sessions for $95 makes professional therapy affordable while giving us enough time to dig deep & make progress. (YES!!! LONGER SESSIONS, LESS MONEY!) My time is tight, so I'm only accepting a limited number of committed, full fee, private pay clients, who are ready to dig in & do the work. To learn, heal & grow a client must have trust; once that is established we will work together, side by side, towards finding the answers & becoming the person you want to be. If you are ready to do the work, I am ready to help you! Serving Washington County, locations vary, including in home, online, walk n talk & hiking in S. Utah.
(435) 264-5059 View (435) 264-5059
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Richard Hauoli Crowell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT , MSCP
Verified Verified
Saint George, UT 84790
You are unique both as an individual and as part of the larger whole (such as your family), and so are your needs.
Experiencing relationship struggles? Parent-child conflicts and efforts to keep the family united are proving ineffective, resulting in a deteriorating family life? Ongoing struggles with depression, anxiety, mood, stress, low self-esteem and self-worth issues? Are you a victim of dysfunctional family patterns and generational conflicts? Still working to cope with significant life transitions such as divorce, blending families, or loss? Are you exhausted from the endless cycles of substance abuse and addiction, or struggling to manage anger and impulsive behaviors? Need healing, harmony, support and guidance?
You are unique both as an individual and as part of the larger whole (such as your family), and so are your needs.
Experiencing relationship struggles? Parent-child conflicts and efforts to keep the family united are proving ineffective, resulting in a deteriorating family life? Ongoing struggles with depression, anxiety, mood, stress, low self-esteem and self-worth issues? Are you a victim of dysfunctional family patterns and generational conflicts? Still working to cope with significant life transitions such as divorce, blending families, or loss? Are you exhausted from the endless cycles of substance abuse and addiction, or struggling to manage anger and impulsive behaviors? Need healing, harmony, support and guidance?
(435) 281-2673 View (435) 281-2673
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Tyler Van Tassell - Ascend Counseling And Wellness
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint George, UT 84770
I approach my clients' concerns with empathy and compassion, using evidence-based techniques and modalities like CBT, DBT, and others rooted in family systems theory.
Many individuals, couples, and families often face challenging and stressful situations, whether it's dealing with depression, anxiety, communication issues, or other life stressors. They seek to make meaningful changes and improve their lives and relationships. For many, starting therapy is a powerful first step toward achieving those goals.
I approach my clients' concerns with empathy and compassion, using evidence-based techniques and modalities like CBT, DBT, and others rooted in family systems theory.
Many individuals, couples, and families often face challenging and stressful situations, whether it's dealing with depression, anxiety, communication issues, or other life stressors. They seek to make meaningful changes and improve their lives and relationships. For many, starting therapy is a powerful first step toward achieving those goals.
(435) 740-8814 View (435) 740-8814
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Maegan Lambert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, CSW
Verified Verified
Murray, UT 84121
I use a variety of techniques in practice; including, client-centered play therapy, Internal Family Systems, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
I specialize in working with pre-teens, adolescents and adults in treating trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and grief and loss. I also work with individuals experiencing difficult life transitions, LGBTQ+ concerns, and self esteem issues. To provide a sense of calm and clarity, I incorporate mindfulness, somatic awareness and guided meditation in session when desired. I appreciate the interdependence of human nature and our need for connection to heal, grow and flourish. My hope is to support clients in deepening their connection with self, others, nature and the world.
I use a variety of techniques in practice; including, client-centered play therapy, Internal Family Systems, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
I specialize in working with pre-teens, adolescents and adults in treating trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and grief and loss. I also work with individuals experiencing difficult life transitions, LGBTQ+ concerns, and self esteem issues. To provide a sense of calm and clarity, I incorporate mindfulness, somatic awareness and guided meditation in session when desired. I appreciate the interdependence of human nature and our need for connection to heal, grow and flourish. My hope is to support clients in deepening their connection with self, others, nature and the world.
(385) 644-9069 View (385) 644-9069
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Bridget Thackeray
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSCMHC, I
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
South Jordan, UT 84095
With a background specializing in grief and trauma, I also address a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, life transitions, religious and existential crises, as well as relationship and family difficulties.
I am consistently amazed by the resilience of the human spirit, and Like Viktor Frankl, believe that “the most human of all human capabilities is the capability to turn a tragedy into a personal triumph, to transform suffering into a human achievement” (Frankl, 1963). Life’s challenges are not meant to break us but to propel us toward growth and personal fulfillment. In my practice, I am dedicated to guiding individuals through their struggles, helping them uncover their inner strength and resilience.
With a background specializing in grief and trauma, I also address a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, life transitions, religious and existential crises, as well as relationship and family difficulties.
I am consistently amazed by the resilience of the human spirit, and Like Viktor Frankl, believe that “the most human of all human capabilities is the capability to turn a tragedy into a personal triumph, to transform suffering into a human achievement” (Frankl, 1963). Life’s challenges are not meant to break us but to propel us toward growth and personal fulfillment. In my practice, I am dedicated to guiding individuals through their struggles, helping them uncover their inner strength and resilience.
(385) 462-1456 View (385) 462-1456
Lori Findeis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Orem, UT 84058
Lori Findeis, LCSW and Children's Counseling Center has been helping Utah and Salt Lake County for the past 22 years. Lori and her associates provide the highest quality mental health services to children, teens and adults. ​As develop in the context of relationship, in a matrix of the family. Our basic sense of self, our self-esteem, our self concept, our relationship to ourselves and even our understanding of the world comes from our relationships with others. This is true across the lifespan. While we all face different tasks and choices at different points, all of these occur within the context of relationship(s). ​ In psy
Lori Findeis, LCSW and Children's Counseling Center has been helping Utah and Salt Lake County for the past 22 years. Lori and her associates provide the highest quality mental health services to children, teens and adults. ​As develop in the context of relationship, in a matrix of the family. Our basic sense of self, our self-esteem, our self concept, our relationship to ourselves and even our understanding of the world comes from our relationships with others. This is true across the lifespan. While we all face different tasks and choices at different points, all of these occur within the context of relationship(s). ​ In psy
(385) 401-0393 View (385) 401-0393
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Jace Taylor
Counselor, ACMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Murray, UT 84107
My areas of special interest include: LGBTQIA+, ASD, ADHD, neurodivergency, internal family systems (parts work), trauma work, and somatic work.
By defining our own meaning within our lives, we can understand what it means for us to think, feel, and act in way that is true to our authentic self. I am passionate about understanding the needs, values, and unique experiences of every single client. I want to help empower you to be your own agent of change as I support you in navigating through whatever unique challenges that you are facing within your life. I want to give you the time to process your feelings and gain insight within a safe space that is grounded in affirmation, acceptance, and is dynamically tailored to meet your unique needs.
My areas of special interest include: LGBTQIA+, ASD, ADHD, neurodivergency, internal family systems (parts work), trauma work, and somatic work.
By defining our own meaning within our lives, we can understand what it means for us to think, feel, and act in way that is true to our authentic self. I am passionate about understanding the needs, values, and unique experiences of every single client. I want to help empower you to be your own agent of change as I support you in navigating through whatever unique challenges that you are facing within your life. I want to give you the time to process your feelings and gain insight within a safe space that is grounded in affirmation, acceptance, and is dynamically tailored to meet your unique needs.
(801) 872-6198 View (801) 872-6198
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Aspen Valley Counseling
Counselor, CMHC, LCSW, CSW
Verified Verified
Orem, UT 84097
As an integrative counseling and wellness center we provide a variety of services including medication management, comprehensive DNA analysis, food sensitivity testing, brain mapping, neurofeedback, biofeedback, AVE/CES, health coaching as well as individual, family and couples therapy.
Voted Best of Utah Valley, we are passionate about healing and teaching the skills that will assist individuals in sustaining changes over time. We have worked successfully with kids, teens and adults struggling with a variety of problems including ADHD, addiction, depression, anxiety, PTSD, pornography addiction, tantrums, trauma as well as individuals desiring to increase their energy levels, achieve peak performance, and missionary transitions.
As an integrative counseling and wellness center we provide a variety of services including medication management, comprehensive DNA analysis, food sensitivity testing, brain mapping, neurofeedback, biofeedback, AVE/CES, health coaching as well as individual, family and couples therapy.
Voted Best of Utah Valley, we are passionate about healing and teaching the skills that will assist individuals in sustaining changes over time. We have worked successfully with kids, teens and adults struggling with a variety of problems including ADHD, addiction, depression, anxiety, PTSD, pornography addiction, tantrums, trauma as well as individuals desiring to increase their energy levels, achieve peak performance, and missionary transitions.
(801) 509-9422 View (801) 509-9422
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Stephen Geis
Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bountiful, UT 84010
I have experience with individual, group, and family therapy while working with adolescents and adults to treat anxiety, depression, substance abuse, and relational concerns.
I believe that in life we are happiest when we are experiencing growth, but so often the facts of life interfere with our ability to grow. The messages we receive from the world around us, the messages we tell ourselves, depression, anxiety, addiction, relationship difficulties, and countless other factors can impede our progress and keep us from happiness. In our work together we will build a relationship that can provide the support needed to get through these challenges. We will work together to explore what might be holding you back and identify the steps you can take to best get you where you want to go.
I have experience with individual, group, and family therapy while working with adolescents and adults to treat anxiety, depression, substance abuse, and relational concerns.
I believe that in life we are happiest when we are experiencing growth, but so often the facts of life interfere with our ability to grow. The messages we receive from the world around us, the messages we tell ourselves, depression, anxiety, addiction, relationship difficulties, and countless other factors can impede our progress and keep us from happiness. In our work together we will build a relationship that can provide the support needed to get through these challenges. We will work together to explore what might be holding you back and identify the steps you can take to best get you where you want to go.
(385) 899-2936 View (385) 899-2936
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Whitney Larsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Clearfield, UT 84015  (Online Only)
Navigating family dysfunction and trauma is daunting.
I focus on empowering families and individuals facing relationship dysfunction and trauma. Drawing from personal history, I offer direct, empowering therapy to help clients navigate challenges, heal from trauma, and develop resilience. My ideal clients seek empowerment, healing from trauma, and tools for personal and relational growth. They aspire to reclaim control, foster resilience, and forge meaningful connections in their lives.
Navigating family dysfunction and trauma is daunting.
I focus on empowering families and individuals facing relationship dysfunction and trauma. Drawing from personal history, I offer direct, empowering therapy to help clients navigate challenges, heal from trauma, and develop resilience. My ideal clients seek empowerment, healing from trauma, and tools for personal and relational growth. They aspire to reclaim control, foster resilience, and forge meaningful connections in their lives.
(385) 462-0177 View (385) 462-0177
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Green Willow Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMFT, CSW, MSW, MS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Murray, UT 84121
At Green Willow we specialize in working with teens and adults who are struggling with childhood trauma and abuse, PTSD, relationships, women's specific concerns, depression, anxiety, stress, LGBTQ, and life adjustment concerns. We work with adolescents and adults who are struggling with mood disorders, family dynamics, coping skills, and emotional dysregulation. We provide a peaceful and supportive environment to explore past traumas, discuss current concerns, and plan for a more fulfilling future. We believe that each of us has the capacity for healing and growth, and that within us we contain the answers for a more joyful life.
At Green Willow we specialize in working with teens and adults who are struggling with childhood trauma and abuse, PTSD, relationships, women's specific concerns, depression, anxiety, stress, LGBTQ, and life adjustment concerns. We work with adolescents and adults who are struggling with mood disorders, family dynamics, coping skills, and emotional dysregulation. We provide a peaceful and supportive environment to explore past traumas, discuss current concerns, and plan for a more fulfilling future. We believe that each of us has the capacity for healing and growth, and that within us we contain the answers for a more joyful life.
(385) 376-1848 View (385) 376-1848
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Trisha Weeks
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Farmington, UT 84025
I am a marriage and family therapist, with a PhD in developmental psychology.
Most of my clients are high functioning people who are struggling with a specific issue in their lives. Some feel stuck due to depression, anxiety, or relationship issues. Some are dealing with a chronic illness. Some are transgender, have a gay child, or are in a marriage with a spouse whose sexual orientation is different than theirs. Many feel frustration or even hopelessness about negotiating their situation in the context of their cultural or religious upbringing, their marriage, or extended family relationships.
I am a marriage and family therapist, with a PhD in developmental psychology.
Most of my clients are high functioning people who are struggling with a specific issue in their lives. Some feel stuck due to depression, anxiety, or relationship issues. Some are dealing with a chronic illness. Some are transgender, have a gay child, or are in a marriage with a spouse whose sexual orientation is different than theirs. Many feel frustration or even hopelessness about negotiating their situation in the context of their cultural or religious upbringing, their marriage, or extended family relationships.
(385) 293-3753 View (385) 293-3753
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Andrew Hugh Dupuis
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Murray, UT 84107
If you are struggling as a family, a couple, or as an individual to gain awareness and empowerment on your path back to mental wellness, I have the tools to help you be successful and confident. No one is meant to traverse the highs and lows of life without support, and as human beings, we are not meant to do it alone. You are worth it!
If you are struggling as a family, a couple, or as an individual to gain awareness and empowerment on your path back to mental wellness, I have the tools to help you be successful and confident. No one is meant to traverse the highs and lows of life without support, and as human beings, we are not meant to do it alone. You are worth it!
(385) 489-1955 View (385) 489-1955
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Alberto Valdez
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, LMFTI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
American Fork, UT 84003
I am a student at Utah Valley University working on my master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and.
I enjoy working with adults and teenagers. I especially enjoy working with couples. My journey is unique, just like yours is but there are a lot of similarities that we can draw from in the healing process. Using the skills I've discovered myself and the tools I've learned I want to help you realize there's hope no matter what's going on in your life.
I am a student at Utah Valley University working on my master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and.
I enjoy working with adults and teenagers. I especially enjoy working with couples. My journey is unique, just like yours is but there are a lot of similarities that we can draw from in the healing process. Using the skills I've discovered myself and the tools I've learned I want to help you realize there's hope no matter what's going on in your life.
(385) 262-8843 View (385) 262-8843
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Preston Surrage
Counselor, MS, CMHC, LMHC, CFRC
Verified Verified
Clearfield, UT 84015  (Online Only)
In the journey into adult life, there are inherent pressures associated with child development, including anxiety and the struggles with self-image. I entered the mental health field because I can empathize with these pressures and wanted to help others experiencing similar difficulties. I enjoyed being a support system to family and peers; also feeling that a key component to an effective support system is guidance to discover solutions, I translated that passion into my adult life.
In the journey into adult life, there are inherent pressures associated with child development, including anxiety and the struggles with self-image. I entered the mental health field because I can empathize with these pressures and wanted to help others experiencing similar difficulties. I enjoyed being a support system to family and peers; also feeling that a key component to an effective support system is guidance to discover solutions, I translated that passion into my adult life.
(385) 412-8884 View (385) 412-8884
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Family Therapy

What do family therapists do?

A family therapist facilitates the process of understanding and improving how a family functions. The therapist will help family members develop empathy for one another. They’ll seek to understand existing patterns, misunderstandings, and conflicts that arise, in order to help the family arrive at a realistic, unified understanding and develop the coping skills they need to build stronger relationships.

How long does therapy for families take to work?

Therapy manifests differently in every family; a common time frame is 12 weekly sessions, but some families may see improvement after just a few weeks. Families should discuss their goals with the therapist at the beginning of the process and periodically revisit those goals to assess their progress together.

How can you encourage a family member to attend family therapy?

You can encourage family members to attend therapy by expressing with both love and concern the challenges you see and explaining how a therapist could help the family navigate those challenges together. An outside perspective can help everyone feel heard, get on the same page, and develop new skills. If family members are still hesitant, it may be helpful to emphasize that family therapy is short-term—it won’t last forever.

Is therapy for families effective?

Family therapy can significantly improve family dynamics and relationships. Research suggests that family therapy can help individuals understand their role in the family, communicate and solve problems together, reduce conflict and draw boundaries when necessary, and develop coping skills for stressors, major life changes, and mental or physical illnesses within the family.