Sex Therapists in North Carolina

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Dr. Erica A Merrill
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28205
Elevated Wellness Counseling, LLC is founded on helping people develop a working definition of wellness through a multifaceted lens, incorporating personal development, confronting fears, identifying strengths, and increasing capacity for problem solving and meaning making in life. Often, the human experience leaves us feeling burnt out, disconnected, and looking for meaning. Seeking therapy is the first step in building the skills necessary to thrive. Areas of expertise include: Anxiety, depression, coping with transition, relationship issues, sex therapy, religion and spirituality, achieving wellness, and professional development.
Elevated Wellness Counseling, LLC is founded on helping people develop a working definition of wellness through a multifaceted lens, incorporating personal development, confronting fears, identifying strengths, and increasing capacity for problem solving and meaning making in life. Often, the human experience leaves us feeling burnt out, disconnected, and looking for meaning. Seeking therapy is the first step in building the skills necessary to thrive. Areas of expertise include: Anxiety, depression, coping with transition, relationship issues, sex therapy, religion and spirituality, achieving wellness, and professional development.
(704) 270-3615 View (704) 270-3615
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Heath Wise
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, CST, CSAT
Verified Verified
Asheville, NC 28803
Whether you are in a crisis in your family or you are single and just want to improve your relationships, counseling can greatly impact the outcome. Having a supportive professional listen to your specific situation and help you with the tools to change or improve it is one of the most effective things that you can do, especially around areas of sexuality or trauma.
Whether you are in a crisis in your family or you are single and just want to improve your relationships, counseling can greatly impact the outcome. Having a supportive professional listen to your specific situation and help you with the tools to change or improve it is one of the most effective things that you can do, especially around areas of sexuality or trauma.
(828) 395-1261 View (828) 395-1261
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Laura Lohr Moncaleano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
High Point, NC 27265
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in sex therapy helping clients with sexual dysfunctions, difficulties and trauma.
I believe that the therapy process is rooted in rapport, transparency, and hard work between the therapist and client. My approach is direct, honest, and straightforward. I strive to create a safe, comfortable, and judgment free space for clients to unload and discuss their most intimate life concerns. I enjoy working with other professionals (teachers, healthcare workers) experiencing burnout; who are wanting to learn skills in order to create work/life balance, manage stress levels, and cultivate happy/healthy relationships. This might involve learning to say "no" with boundary implementation and assertive communication.
I specialize in sex therapy helping clients with sexual dysfunctions, difficulties and trauma.
I believe that the therapy process is rooted in rapport, transparency, and hard work between the therapist and client. My approach is direct, honest, and straightforward. I strive to create a safe, comfortable, and judgment free space for clients to unload and discuss their most intimate life concerns. I enjoy working with other professionals (teachers, healthcare workers) experiencing burnout; who are wanting to learn skills in order to create work/life balance, manage stress levels, and cultivate happy/healthy relationships. This might involve learning to say "no" with boundary implementation and assertive communication.
(336) 864-9625 View (336) 864-9625
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Chris Bissell
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MACMHC, LCMHCA, CSAT-C, CST-C
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28204
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and have experience helping clients find long-term sobriety from sexual acting out.
I started my career as an electrical engineer in the aerospace industry, working and leading teams for the International Space Station and a satellite mission. Wanting to work more closely with people, I switched to business strategy consulting, traveling to Fortune 100 companies on a weekly basis for two years. While I got the chance to solve complex problems, I realized I wanted to help people solve the problems that mattered to them at a deeper level. This, coupled with my own recovery journey, is what drives me to do exceptional therapy work today.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and have experience helping clients find long-term sobriety from sexual acting out.
I started my career as an electrical engineer in the aerospace industry, working and leading teams for the International Space Station and a satellite mission. Wanting to work more closely with people, I switched to business strategy consulting, traveling to Fortune 100 companies on a weekly basis for two years. While I got the chance to solve complex problems, I realized I wanted to help people solve the problems that mattered to them at a deeper level. This, coupled with my own recovery journey, is what drives me to do exceptional therapy work today.
(704) 459-1017 View (704) 459-1017
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Shie Benisti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28401
Sexuality is an integral part of the human existence. I believe that embracing and understanding our sexuality is essential for overall well-being. In our sessions, I strive to create a warm, nonjudgmental environment where you can feel safe to explore your sexual concerns, express your authentic self, and work towards positive change. My personal therapeutic style is characterized by warmth, empathy, humor, and a caring yet direct approach.
Sexuality is an integral part of the human existence. I believe that embracing and understanding our sexuality is essential for overall well-being. In our sessions, I strive to create a warm, nonjudgmental environment where you can feel safe to explore your sexual concerns, express your authentic self, and work towards positive change. My personal therapeutic style is characterized by warmth, empathy, humor, and a caring yet direct approach.
(910) 812-4147 View (910) 812-4147
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Rebecca Deardorff
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28403
Waitlist for new clients
Have you struggled to find a therapist who respects your individuality while challenging you to grow? My name is Rebecca, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with eight years of experience in Tennessee and North Carolina. I am passionate about supporting people through their lives ups and downs. My counseling style is focused on the client. I believe they are experts in their own life, and I am here to support them make the changes they want to make in their life. I enjoy working with and have experience with LGBTQ+ clients, and I am poly, sex, and kink-knowledgeable.
Have you struggled to find a therapist who respects your individuality while challenging you to grow? My name is Rebecca, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with eight years of experience in Tennessee and North Carolina. I am passionate about supporting people through their lives ups and downs. My counseling style is focused on the client. I believe they are experts in their own life, and I am here to support them make the changes they want to make in their life. I enjoy working with and have experience with LGBTQ+ clients, and I am poly, sex, and kink-knowledgeable.
(910) 606-6524 View (910) 606-6524
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Holly Mackin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indian Trail, NC 28079  (Online Only)
Is your sex life causing issues between you and your partner? Would you benefit from better communication with the important people in your life? Are you experiencing a situation that has made it difficult to cope? Do you crave more intimacy and authenticity with others? I believe that anyone can benefit from support and a nonjudgmental perspective, to access the best version of themselves. I offer a high degree of respect for you, meet you where you are in your life, and work on what you consider to be important. Email me today to schedule a free 15 minute video consultation to explore possibilities and areas you can make headway.
Is your sex life causing issues between you and your partner? Would you benefit from better communication with the important people in your life? Are you experiencing a situation that has made it difficult to cope? Do you crave more intimacy and authenticity with others? I believe that anyone can benefit from support and a nonjudgmental perspective, to access the best version of themselves. I offer a high degree of respect for you, meet you where you are in your life, and work on what you consider to be important. Email me today to schedule a free 15 minute video consultation to explore possibilities and areas you can make headway.
(704) 396-4826 View (704) 396-4826
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Kelley Johnson
PhD
Verified Verified
Asheville, NC 28804
Talking about intimacy issues can be challenging and intimidating. I take every measure to create a calm and comfortable environment for us to talk in a matter-of-fact way. I work with people who would like to: experience more satisfaction in their intimate life; learn how to talk more comfortably to their partner about sexuality, sensuality, and intimacy; address a sexual problem that is causing concern in their life or relationship; receive help connecting with their partner in the bedroom; and explore ways to bring more pleasure to their partner.
Talking about intimacy issues can be challenging and intimidating. I take every measure to create a calm and comfortable environment for us to talk in a matter-of-fact way. I work with people who would like to: experience more satisfaction in their intimate life; learn how to talk more comfortably to their partner about sexuality, sensuality, and intimacy; address a sexual problem that is causing concern in their life or relationship; receive help connecting with their partner in the bedroom; and explore ways to bring more pleasure to their partner.
(828) 848-8253 View (828) 848-8253
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Kandice Van Beerschoten Sex Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Garner, NC 27529
As a Certified Sex Therapist, my specialties are consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and BDSM - NO JUDGMENT.
Have you lost control? Do you put the needs of others first? Is it hard for you to say "no" to people? Do you feel disconnected? Are your relationships suffering? Your sex life? You're exhausted, ready for something to change, but need to feel confident that your therapist will understand not only your issues, but your lifestyle. If this sounds familiar, then I would love to help you. For nearly two decades, I've worked with people just like you, helping them sort through the intricacies of life and relationships. It's easy to get stuck when you start making changes, but therapy is a great way to move forward.
As a Certified Sex Therapist, my specialties are consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and BDSM - NO JUDGMENT.
Have you lost control? Do you put the needs of others first? Is it hard for you to say "no" to people? Do you feel disconnected? Are your relationships suffering? Your sex life? You're exhausted, ready for something to change, but need to feel confident that your therapist will understand not only your issues, but your lifestyle. If this sounds familiar, then I would love to help you. For nearly two decades, I've worked with people just like you, helping them sort through the intricacies of life and relationships. It's easy to get stuck when you start making changes, but therapy is a great way to move forward.
(919) 343-9591 View (919) 343-9591
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Todd Malloy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, CSE
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Huntersville, NC 28078
As a Licensed Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator using an interactive and integrative therapy method, I join with couples, families and individuals to rebuild relationships, address sexual dysfunction issues, foster emotional trust and tackle life challenging circumstances to lead clients to a life worth celebrating.
Believing life is to be celebrated with compassion and understanding we partner to help build on your strengths. In our partnership we join in achieving your goals as they lead you to an empowered you. Having an added 18 years of faith based experience, I am effective in respecting and integrating your spirituality as a part of the change process. My areas of focus include Individual and family distress, abandonment, infidelity, sexuality dysfunction and grief and loss. Also, with 25 years of corporate management experience, I identify with the struggles of balancing the many branches of life.
As a Licensed Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator using an interactive and integrative therapy method, I join with couples, families and individuals to rebuild relationships, address sexual dysfunction issues, foster emotional trust and tackle life challenging circumstances to lead clients to a life worth celebrating.
Believing life is to be celebrated with compassion and understanding we partner to help build on your strengths. In our partnership we join in achieving your goals as they lead you to an empowered you. Having an added 18 years of faith based experience, I am effective in respecting and integrating your spirituality as a part of the change process. My areas of focus include Individual and family distress, abandonment, infidelity, sexuality dysfunction and grief and loss. Also, with 25 years of corporate management experience, I identify with the struggles of balancing the many branches of life.
(704) 937-2286 View (704) 937-2286
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Helena Alexis Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27616  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I offer a collaborative approach to foster healing from depression, anxiety, relationship issues, sex disorders (male and female), and trauma.
Do you struggle with low libido, sexual dysfunction, depression/anxiety, or the stress of everyday life? Are you struggling to connect physically/emotionally/sexually with your partner? Is communication strained? If so, I am here to help you develop the skills you need to get through life's most challenging moments. Daily, people are searching for relief from internal struggles, personal hardships, and sexual challenges. I want to be the one to help you with any of these issues. Additionally, as a black therapist, I am aware of the struggles people and women of color face on a daily basis. I take pride in helping all heal.
I offer a collaborative approach to foster healing from depression, anxiety, relationship issues, sex disorders (male and female), and trauma.
Do you struggle with low libido, sexual dysfunction, depression/anxiety, or the stress of everyday life? Are you struggling to connect physically/emotionally/sexually with your partner? Is communication strained? If so, I am here to help you develop the skills you need to get through life's most challenging moments. Daily, people are searching for relief from internal struggles, personal hardships, and sexual challenges. I want to be the one to help you with any of these issues. Additionally, as a black therapist, I am aware of the struggles people and women of color face on a daily basis. I take pride in helping all heal.
(984) 239-5876 View (984) 239-5876
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Morgan Enright
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LPC-S, AAMFT-S, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28277
Enright is currently pursuing certification in Sex Therapy.
Dr. Morgan Enright has been helping individuals, couples, and families over the last decade find health and wholeness. As co-founder of One:12 Counseling, he is passionate about helping people become emotionally and spiritually healthy as individuals as well as in their relationships, working with: couples to develop healthy communication, process anger and disappointment, heal from past hurt, and deal with sexual intimacy difficulties; families in turmoil to be able to heal and reconnect; adolescents and young adults to develop healthy life skills, positive goals, and foster their identity in Christ; men who struggle with pornography and sexual addiction to find freedom and wholeness.
Enright is currently pursuing certification in Sex Therapy.
Dr. Morgan Enright has been helping individuals, couples, and families over the last decade find health and wholeness. As co-founder of One:12 Counseling, he is passionate about helping people become emotionally and spiritually healthy as individuals as well as in their relationships, working with: couples to develop healthy communication, process anger and disappointment, heal from past hurt, and deal with sexual intimacy difficulties; families in turmoil to be able to heal and reconnect; adolescents and young adults to develop healthy life skills, positive goals, and foster their identity in Christ; men who struggle with pornography and sexual addiction to find freedom and wholeness.
(704) 706-9451 View (704) 706-9451
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Daniel Miles
Counselor, MA, MDiv, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28210
I work with adults and couples dealing with anxiety and depression; grief and loss; relationship struggles; life transitions; spirituality and faith concerns; and issues related to sexuality and identity.
It has been a trying few years, and it just seems to get worse. The world is still filled with anxiety, uncertainty, and confusion. If you need some human connection in these frightening times, I am available to you. Whether you're anxious about the country and world, struggling to maintain relationships, or feeling lonely and isolated, I can help you.
I work with adults and couples dealing with anxiety and depression; grief and loss; relationship struggles; life transitions; spirituality and faith concerns; and issues related to sexuality and identity.
It has been a trying few years, and it just seems to get worse. The world is still filled with anxiety, uncertainty, and confusion. If you need some human connection in these frightening times, I am available to you. Whether you're anxious about the country and world, struggling to maintain relationships, or feeling lonely and isolated, I can help you.
(704) 586-9363 View (704) 586-9363
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April H. Smith
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Cary, NC 27513
I also practice relational sex therapy.
I work with couples who: are getting married and would like pre-marital counseling, couples who have experienced an infidelity and are trying to heal, couples who are thinking of transitioning out of a marriage and would like guidance, and couples who want to remain in a relationship but are fighting constantly. I also practice sex therapy. I help couples cultivate increased sexual intimacy and learn how to have more fulfilling sex.
I also practice relational sex therapy.
I work with couples who: are getting married and would like pre-marital counseling, couples who have experienced an infidelity and are trying to heal, couples who are thinking of transitioning out of a marriage and would like guidance, and couples who want to remain in a relationship but are fighting constantly. I also practice sex therapy. I help couples cultivate increased sexual intimacy and learn how to have more fulfilling sex.
(919) 372-3686 View (919) 372-3686
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Katelyn Chapman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27707
Taking the first step towards therapy is hard, and taking that first step when your concerns are sex-related can feel even harder. Most of us are taught from a young age that sex is a shameful topic that is not to be discussed openly— that any concerns, difficulties, or dissatisfaction you may experience related to sex, sexuality, or gender are to be ashamed of. I’m here to tell you that that is not true! Issues and concerns with sex and sexuality are very common, and it is healthy to talk to a therapist about them.
Taking the first step towards therapy is hard, and taking that first step when your concerns are sex-related can feel even harder. Most of us are taught from a young age that sex is a shameful topic that is not to be discussed openly— that any concerns, difficulties, or dissatisfaction you may experience related to sex, sexuality, or gender are to be ashamed of. I’m here to tell you that that is not true! Issues and concerns with sex and sexuality are very common, and it is healthy to talk to a therapist about them.
(919) 296-0919 View (919) 296-0919
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Cara Lima
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28210
Waitlist for new clients
With specialized training in relationship, gender, & sex therapy, I use a modern, evidence-based, & person-centered approach to heal both the individual & their relationships.
Feeling disconnected from yourself, friends, family? Experiencing a life transition? Struggling with depression or anxiety? Do you feel like something is missing from your sex life? Are you longing to re-ignite your intimacy and/or sexuality? Would you like to repair or strengthen your relationship? Are you single & looking to discover your potential for pleasure? I believe people have the desire & capacity to heal & grow, & that our quality of life is impacted by our relationship with others. I help clients increase intimacy, passion, sexual satisfaction, & pleasure so they can develop a deeper connection with Self & others.
With specialized training in relationship, gender, & sex therapy, I use a modern, evidence-based, & person-centered approach to heal both the individual & their relationships.
Feeling disconnected from yourself, friends, family? Experiencing a life transition? Struggling with depression or anxiety? Do you feel like something is missing from your sex life? Are you longing to re-ignite your intimacy and/or sexuality? Would you like to repair or strengthen your relationship? Are you single & looking to discover your potential for pleasure? I believe people have the desire & capacity to heal & grow, & that our quality of life is impacted by our relationship with others. I help clients increase intimacy, passion, sexual satisfaction, & pleasure so they can develop a deeper connection with Self & others.
(704) 327-0308 View (704) 327-0308
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Frank Overton
Counselor, ThM, NCLCMHC, NCLMFT
Verified Verified
Hillsborough, NC 27278  (Online Only)
Hi Thanks for taking a look at my profile- Reach out if it seems we might be able to work together in a way that would be helpful to you...I'm working only via telehealth which reduces your commute time. If you're looking for a seasoned and experienced therapist, reach out, we can consult and see if working with me is useful to you. My clients tend to be working on being awake and aware of and attuned to the complexity of our culture today. I work with issues of alternative sexuality, gender dysphoria, relationships in all forms including relationships that are kink friendly and/or poly.
Hi Thanks for taking a look at my profile- Reach out if it seems we might be able to work together in a way that would be helpful to you...I'm working only via telehealth which reduces your commute time. If you're looking for a seasoned and experienced therapist, reach out, we can consult and see if working with me is useful to you. My clients tend to be working on being awake and aware of and attuned to the complexity of our culture today. I work with issues of alternative sexuality, gender dysphoria, relationships in all forms including relationships that are kink friendly and/or poly.
(919) 443-6303 View (919) 443-6303
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Kristen Bounds
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cary, NC 27511
I am also particularly interested in sex therapy.
When you think about what makes a successful relationship, whose voice do you hear? Whose relationships do you picture? Who gets to determine what is successful? These questions are essential to consider, and what if the answer to all of them was you? Embracing the idea that there is no one "right" way to be in a relationship can be liberating, but it can also be challenging to put your own beliefs and desires first.
I am also particularly interested in sex therapy.
When you think about what makes a successful relationship, whose voice do you hear? Whose relationships do you picture? Who gets to determine what is successful? These questions are essential to consider, and what if the answer to all of them was you? Embracing the idea that there is no one "right" way to be in a relationship can be liberating, but it can also be challenging to put your own beliefs and desires first.
(919) 629-1803 View (919) 629-1803
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Jasmin K Ahluwalia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CST, L2 IFST, L1 CGT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Apex, NC 27539  (Online Only)
As a licensed therapist specializing in sex, relationships, and mental health, I work with individuals and partners on a wide range of issues, including sexual functioning, communication, intimacy, desire and arousal issues, kink and fetishes, anxiety, depression, trauma, and navigating non-traditional relationships.
“You are perfect the way you are and you can always grow and do better” This statement is central to my approach and the kind of space I create for my clients. Life can be challenging, overwhelming, and stressful, but self-acceptance and self-love free us to build the skills we need to cope with relationships, family, work, and life. This journey is not easy. It requires self-reflection, awareness, exploration of thoughts and feelings, and a willingness to change. As a therapist, I believe that our mental health, sex life, and relationships are all interconnected and approach therapy from a holistic perspective.
As a licensed therapist specializing in sex, relationships, and mental health, I work with individuals and partners on a wide range of issues, including sexual functioning, communication, intimacy, desire and arousal issues, kink and fetishes, anxiety, depression, trauma, and navigating non-traditional relationships.
“You are perfect the way you are and you can always grow and do better” This statement is central to my approach and the kind of space I create for my clients. Life can be challenging, overwhelming, and stressful, but self-acceptance and self-love free us to build the skills we need to cope with relationships, family, work, and life. This journey is not easy. It requires self-reflection, awareness, exploration of thoughts and feelings, and a willingness to change. As a therapist, I believe that our mental health, sex life, and relationships are all interconnected and approach therapy from a holistic perspective.
(984) 459-7635 View (984) 459-7635
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Lauren Mullan
Occupational Therapist, MA, OTR/L, CSTIP, CES
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waxhaw, NC 28173
Sex therapy offers a pathway to enhancing relationships, finding fulfillment, embracing sexuality & deepening erotic intimacy.
As a dedicated therapist, specializing in sexuality and intimacy, I help individuals and couples navigate the complexities of sexless marriages and desire discrepancies. Sex therapy can transform the dynamic between roommates from platonic to erotic, igniting a deeper connection & understanding of each other's desires & needs. With a caring, professional, and nurturing approach, I am committed to delivering results-driven therapy that empowers my clients to experience fulfilling and passionate relationships. My goal is to support and guide you on your journey to enhanced intimacy and a wildly passionate sex life!
Sex therapy offers a pathway to enhancing relationships, finding fulfillment, embracing sexuality & deepening erotic intimacy.
As a dedicated therapist, specializing in sexuality and intimacy, I help individuals and couples navigate the complexities of sexless marriages and desire discrepancies. Sex therapy can transform the dynamic between roommates from platonic to erotic, igniting a deeper connection & understanding of each other's desires & needs. With a caring, professional, and nurturing approach, I am committed to delivering results-driven therapy that empowers my clients to experience fulfilling and passionate relationships. My goal is to support and guide you on your journey to enhanced intimacy and a wildly passionate sex life!
(980) 372-1793 View (980) 372-1793

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.