Therapists in Cary, NC
You may be a parent concerned about your child or teen who is struggling with anxiety, emotional regulation, school stress, behavior challenges, or big life changes, and you want support that feels affirming, practical, and collaborative. You may also be part of a couple feeling disconnected, caught in recurring conflict, or navigating trust issues, coparenting stress, or transitions. You’re looking for a nonjudgmental space where patterns can be understood, communication can improve, and growth can happen together.
You may be a parent concerned about your child or teen who is struggling with anxiety, emotional regulation, school stress, behavior challenges, or big life changes, and you want support that feels affirming, practical, and collaborative. You may also be part of a couple feeling disconnected, caught in recurring conflict, or navigating trust issues, coparenting stress, or transitions. You’re looking for a nonjudgmental space where patterns can be understood, communication can improve, and growth can happen together.
Welcome! If you're seeking compassionate support and guidance to improve your mental well-being, you're in the right place. Whether you're struggling with self-esteem issues, trauma, or navigating life's challenges, you're ready to embark on a journey towards healing and resilience. Your goal is to foster a deeper understanding of yourself and build a sense of self-worth, and you're eager to work with a dedicated and compassionate professional who prioritizes your well-being.
Welcome! If you're seeking compassionate support and guidance to improve your mental well-being, you're in the right place. Whether you're struggling with self-esteem issues, trauma, or navigating life's challenges, you're ready to embark on a journey towards healing and resilience. Your goal is to foster a deeper understanding of yourself and build a sense of self-worth, and you're eager to work with a dedicated and compassionate professional who prioritizes your well-being.
Hello! I work with clients experiencing ongoing concerns with depression and/or anxiety to reduce issues related to these concerns in both the short and long terms. I work alongside my clients as we gain a deeper understanding of their concerns together through deep listening.
Hello! I work with clients experiencing ongoing concerns with depression and/or anxiety to reduce issues related to these concerns in both the short and long terms. I work alongside my clients as we gain a deeper understanding of their concerns together through deep listening.
With experience in various roles from therapist, prevention specialist, and program director I enjoy helping young children, teenagers, and adults achieve balance in everyday living. My expertise include mental health therapy, chemical dependency counseling, curriculum development and instruction, care management, and substance misuse prevention and education. I have experience working with youth and adults in various settings from the foster care environment, outpatient and inpatient treatment centers, to private practice.
With experience in various roles from therapist, prevention specialist, and program director I enjoy helping young children, teenagers, and adults achieve balance in everyday living. My expertise include mental health therapy, chemical dependency counseling, curriculum development and instruction, care management, and substance misuse prevention and education. I have experience working with youth and adults in various settings from the foster care environment, outpatient and inpatient treatment centers, to private practice.
I work with adults facing a variety of obstacles including anxiety, depression, trauma, and work/life stress. Therapy is a collaborative process, meaning that together, we will work on developing and achieving the goals that are important to you, in whatever season you may be in. Whether your goal is to improve your relationships, manage stress, or uncover and work through the source(s) of your trauma, we will bring your story to light and ensure you have the tools to write the rest of it in the way that best serves you.
I work with adults facing a variety of obstacles including anxiety, depression, trauma, and work/life stress. Therapy is a collaborative process, meaning that together, we will work on developing and achieving the goals that are important to you, in whatever season you may be in. Whether your goal is to improve your relationships, manage stress, or uncover and work through the source(s) of your trauma, we will bring your story to light and ensure you have the tools to write the rest of it in the way that best serves you.
My approach to counseling is grounded in a person-centered framework, enhanced by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Solution-Focused Therapy. I work with children, adolescents, and adults facing a wide range of challenges, from mental health concerns to life transitions.
My approach to counseling is grounded in a person-centered framework, enhanced by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Solution-Focused Therapy. I work with children, adolescents, and adults facing a wide range of challenges, from mental health concerns to life transitions.
My approach to working with any client or couple is to offer a space to share their story in a way that is authentic and honest. Through this sharing, we collaborate to find reliable pathways to change that mirror the client's or couple's values and beliefs.
My approach to working with any client or couple is to offer a space to share their story in a way that is authentic and honest. Through this sharing, we collaborate to find reliable pathways to change that mirror the client's or couple's values and beliefs.
I take a strengths based approach to working with clients managing life stressors, relationships, anxiety, ADHD, and depression. I have worked in various settings with children, adolescents, and adults. I specialize in Clinical assessments, CBT, and Motivational Interviewing. Life can be tough and I want to be able to help my clients through any challenges they may be going through. I hope to connect and get to know my clients so that I can tailor treatment to your needs.
I take a strengths based approach to working with clients managing life stressors, relationships, anxiety, ADHD, and depression. I have worked in various settings with children, adolescents, and adults. I specialize in Clinical assessments, CBT, and Motivational Interviewing. Life can be tough and I want to be able to help my clients through any challenges they may be going through. I hope to connect and get to know my clients so that I can tailor treatment to your needs.
Having a hard time with life’s hurts? Getting stuck in a cycle or hung up and can’t seem to get past something? Sometimes it feels like it’s all you can do to survive, and when that happens you don’t feel like you have the ability to deal with the deeper issues that are leading to your struggles. Counseling is a place where you can carve out that time to do the work that will change your life in deep and long lasting ways. I understand that reaching out for counseling can be a difficult and vulnerable step, and so I'm committed to creating a safe and supportive space for my clients to explore their thoughts and emotions.
Having a hard time with life’s hurts? Getting stuck in a cycle or hung up and can’t seem to get past something? Sometimes it feels like it’s all you can do to survive, and when that happens you don’t feel like you have the ability to deal with the deeper issues that are leading to your struggles. Counseling is a place where you can carve out that time to do the work that will change your life in deep and long lasting ways. I understand that reaching out for counseling can be a difficult and vulnerable step, and so I'm committed to creating a safe and supportive space for my clients to explore their thoughts and emotions.
Christine Schalkoff
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, PhD, MS, LCMHCA
Cary, NC 27513
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I enjoy working with a variety of clients with anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, bipolar disorder, and substance use disorders. I take a strengths-based and client-centered approach and pull from a variety of modalities to best suit my clients’ needs, at their pace. Prior to earning my MS in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling from UNC, I completed a PhD in Health Behavior and studied drivers of stigma among communities affected by the opioid epidemic. I incorporate a public health & social justice lens into my work with clients, to explore the effect of systemic factors on mental wellbeing.
Welcome! I enjoy working with a variety of clients with anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, bipolar disorder, and substance use disorders. I take a strengths-based and client-centered approach and pull from a variety of modalities to best suit my clients’ needs, at their pace. Prior to earning my MS in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling from UNC, I completed a PhD in Health Behavior and studied drivers of stigma among communities affected by the opioid epidemic. I incorporate a public health & social justice lens into my work with clients, to explore the effect of systemic factors on mental wellbeing.
My name is Alex, and I am a licensed clinical mental health counselor (LCMHC). I have worked with teens and young adults for the past few years, focusing on areas like depression, trauma, and anxiety. I've had experience in multiple levels of care, including a year-long internship and nearly 3 years as a licensed clinician at the Intensive Outpatient (IOP) level of treatment. Now, as an outpatient therapist, I aim to work with clients who are struggling to function in their daily lives. Together, I hope to uncover effective ways to regulate your nervous system and achieve your goals.
My name is Alex, and I am a licensed clinical mental health counselor (LCMHC). I have worked with teens and young adults for the past few years, focusing on areas like depression, trauma, and anxiety. I've had experience in multiple levels of care, including a year-long internship and nearly 3 years as a licensed clinician at the Intensive Outpatient (IOP) level of treatment. Now, as an outpatient therapist, I aim to work with clients who are struggling to function in their daily lives. Together, I hope to uncover effective ways to regulate your nervous system and achieve your goals.
Your decision to start therapy is a courageous step toward living a full life. I believe that good emotional health is a vital part of life and that choosing therapy is a gift that we can give to ourselves. I know and understand that the prospect of entering therapy can seem daunting. My goal is for you to feel accepted, and heard. I want you to know that whatever you are working through, it is important to me and I recognize the courage it takes to heal. I am a strengths-based therapist believing that each person has gifts enabling them to make desired changes.
Your decision to start therapy is a courageous step toward living a full life. I believe that good emotional health is a vital part of life and that choosing therapy is a gift that we can give to ourselves. I know and understand that the prospect of entering therapy can seem daunting. My goal is for you to feel accepted, and heard. I want you to know that whatever you are working through, it is important to me and I recognize the courage it takes to heal. I am a strengths-based therapist believing that each person has gifts enabling them to make desired changes.
Hello! My name is Lillian and I am a Mental Health Counselor. I am passionate about supporting people's healing, growth, and development. By creating a safe environment through providing unconditional positive regard and acceptance, my hope is that you will feel free to explore the hidden parts of yourself, thus allowing for healing, change, and growth. Self-exploration leads to self-awareness, that can transform to self-acceptance and self-love, which is at the heart of all healing and it is the most important work you will ever do. Most of us weren't taught what unconditional love is, but can we can start to learn it now :)
Hello! My name is Lillian and I am a Mental Health Counselor. I am passionate about supporting people's healing, growth, and development. By creating a safe environment through providing unconditional positive regard and acceptance, my hope is that you will feel free to explore the hidden parts of yourself, thus allowing for healing, change, and growth. Self-exploration leads to self-awareness, that can transform to self-acceptance and self-love, which is at the heart of all healing and it is the most important work you will ever do. Most of us weren't taught what unconditional love is, but can we can start to learn it now :)
Moving to a retirement community can be the right choice for long term security, but the losses start compounding. Loss of a family home, perhaps loss of a career or changes in health. Your spouse and friends maybe be gone. Or perhaps you're at home trying to manage a body that's more and more unreliable. Your independence is important and moving isn't an option. Both situations are difficult.
What does it look like for this phase of life to be successful. How do you live each day to the fullest when it's full of pain, doctors and medical scares.
Life isn't over, so let's work together to find joy, laughter, and meaning.
Moving to a retirement community can be the right choice for long term security, but the losses start compounding. Loss of a family home, perhaps loss of a career or changes in health. Your spouse and friends maybe be gone. Or perhaps you're at home trying to manage a body that's more and more unreliable. Your independence is important and moving isn't an option. Both situations are difficult.
What does it look like for this phase of life to be successful. How do you live each day to the fullest when it's full of pain, doctors and medical scares.
Life isn't over, so let's work together to find joy, laughter, and meaning.
Do you struggle with a harsh inner critic that makes you feel like you're never enough? Do you feel like you’re often trying to manage your anxiety, feeling overwhelmed by sadness, or stuck in patterns of negative thoughts and/or self-defeating behaviors?
If you're tired of feeling like you're at war with yourself and want to find more peace in your life, you're not alone—and I can help. I provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space for you to explore, understand, and heal.
Do you struggle with a harsh inner critic that makes you feel like you're never enough? Do you feel like you’re often trying to manage your anxiety, feeling overwhelmed by sadness, or stuck in patterns of negative thoughts and/or self-defeating behaviors?
If you're tired of feeling like you're at war with yourself and want to find more peace in your life, you're not alone—and I can help. I provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space for you to explore, understand, and heal.
Christine Northrup
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
3 Endorsed
Cary, NC 27511
Not accepting new clients
I am not currently accepting new clients but I'm happy to direct you to one of my highly skilled associates. I value the innate wisdom of each individual as the guiding force of our work together. With extensive training in serving diverse populations, I work through a Health at Every Size lens and welcome clients needing support in this area. I specialize in the treatment of trauma and eating disorders and the intersection of attachment and sensory processing issues. I also work with life transitions, anxiety, depression, learning differences, issues impacting the LGBTQIA+ community, parenting and resolving shock trauma.
I am not currently accepting new clients but I'm happy to direct you to one of my highly skilled associates. I value the innate wisdom of each individual as the guiding force of our work together. With extensive training in serving diverse populations, I work through a Health at Every Size lens and welcome clients needing support in this area. I specialize in the treatment of trauma and eating disorders and the intersection of attachment and sensory processing issues. I also work with life transitions, anxiety, depression, learning differences, issues impacting the LGBTQIA+ community, parenting and resolving shock trauma.
Devon is passionate about providing care for individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, and substance use disorders. Devon tailors her therapeutic approach to meet each individual’s unique needs, empowering clients to navigate difficult emotions and complex life circumstances. Devon has diverse clinical experience, including providing treatment for individuals in substance use disorder treatment and recovery, as well as facilitating Intensive Outpatient and Partial Hospitalization Program groups.
Devon is passionate about providing care for individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, and substance use disorders. Devon tailors her therapeutic approach to meet each individual’s unique needs, empowering clients to navigate difficult emotions and complex life circumstances. Devon has diverse clinical experience, including providing treatment for individuals in substance use disorder treatment and recovery, as well as facilitating Intensive Outpatient and Partial Hospitalization Program groups.
I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, chronic pain, substance use, grief, and major life transitions. Before becoming a clinician, I spent more than 20 years in senior leadership roles across banking, finance, healthcare, and analytics. That background gives me a practical understanding of the pressures my clients face, whether it is burnout from a demanding career, the toll of chronic pain on daily life, or the complexity of substance use when professional expectations are high.
I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, chronic pain, substance use, grief, and major life transitions. Before becoming a clinician, I spent more than 20 years in senior leadership roles across banking, finance, healthcare, and analytics. That background gives me a practical understanding of the pressures my clients face, whether it is burnout from a demanding career, the toll of chronic pain on daily life, or the complexity of substance use when professional expectations are high.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience working with neurodiverse and neurotypical individuals and their families, across the lifespan. I have a passion for working with children, adolescents and young adults. I work with trauma, anxiety, social difficulties, emotional regulation, grief and loss and navigating life transitions and challenges. I draw from an eclectic blend of therapies in my practice, including Solutions Focused, CBT, Play Therapy, Narrative Therapy and Mindfulness, believing that no one therapeutic tool fits everyone.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience working with neurodiverse and neurotypical individuals and their families, across the lifespan. I have a passion for working with children, adolescents and young adults. I work with trauma, anxiety, social difficulties, emotional regulation, grief and loss and navigating life transitions and challenges. I draw from an eclectic blend of therapies in my practice, including Solutions Focused, CBT, Play Therapy, Narrative Therapy and Mindfulness, believing that no one therapeutic tool fits everyone.
As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor in North Carolina and a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Maryland, my passion is to assist others with finding that light on the other side of a seemingly dark tunnel. I am passionate and dedicated to each individual client that I have the pleasure to assist. I have the understanding and personal experience that therapy can be scary, it can be difficult and overwhelming, but I also know that the therapeutic process is something that you have control over. You are the conductor of the train and I am simply the track to help guide you along the way.
As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor in North Carolina and a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Maryland, my passion is to assist others with finding that light on the other side of a seemingly dark tunnel. I am passionate and dedicated to each individual client that I have the pleasure to assist. I have the understanding and personal experience that therapy can be scary, it can be difficult and overwhelming, but I also know that the therapeutic process is something that you have control over. You are the conductor of the train and I am simply the track to help guide you along the way.
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Number of Therapists in Cary, NC
1,000+
Average cost per session
$150
Therapists in Cary, NC who prioritize treating:
| 94% | Anxiety |
| 87% | Depression |
| 76% | Self Esteem |
| 75% | Relationship Issues |
| 73% | Stress |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 59% | Grief |
Average years in practice
10 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 93% | Aetna |
| 89% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
| 59% | Cigna and Evernorth |
How Therapists in Cary, NC see their clients
| 69% | In Person and Online | |
| 31% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 84% | Female | |
| 15% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Cary?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


