Therapists in Cary, NC
When life feels heavy—when anxiety, grief, or relationship struggles start to dim your sense of peace—it can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and the people you love. But you don’t have to keep doing this alone. You deserve a space where you can breathe, unpack what’s been weighing on you, and find your way back to yourself. As a counselor, my primary goal is to create a safe, authentic, and supportive environment where you can feel welcomed, seen, and valued. I believe that healing begins with fostering a healthy relationship with yourself, and I hope to help you reconnect with yourself.
When life feels heavy—when anxiety, grief, or relationship struggles start to dim your sense of peace—it can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and the people you love. But you don’t have to keep doing this alone. You deserve a space where you can breathe, unpack what’s been weighing on you, and find your way back to yourself. As a counselor, my primary goal is to create a safe, authentic, and supportive environment where you can feel welcomed, seen, and valued. I believe that healing begins with fostering a healthy relationship with yourself, and I hope to help you reconnect with yourself.
Managing life can feel like an uphill battle at times. The challenges it brings often causes us to pivot in ways that impact our growth mindset and emotional well-being. My approach is to offer a therapeutic space where we can explore the many avenues toward emotional healing together. I do not believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to therapy. Instead, I tailor my methods to build a strong, collaborative working relationship within a non-judgmental environment. I like to incorporate shared experiences and use respectful humor to establish a foundation for meaningful change.
Managing life can feel like an uphill battle at times. The challenges it brings often causes us to pivot in ways that impact our growth mindset and emotional well-being. My approach is to offer a therapeutic space where we can explore the many avenues toward emotional healing together. I do not believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to therapy. Instead, I tailor my methods to build a strong, collaborative working relationship within a non-judgmental environment. I like to incorporate shared experiences and use respectful humor to establish a foundation for meaningful change.
Working with various individuals, especially within marginalized groups, has taught me the importance of community. Therapy should feel collaborative and authentic for it to be most effective. Together, I work with my clients to unpack any negative thought patterns that could make them feel anxious, scared, or stuck. I am honored to be on the journey with clients as they increase their emotional awareness and start to make the changes needed to become the best version of themselves.
Working with various individuals, especially within marginalized groups, has taught me the importance of community. Therapy should feel collaborative and authentic for it to be most effective. Together, I work with my clients to unpack any negative thought patterns that could make them feel anxious, scared, or stuck. I am honored to be on the journey with clients as they increase their emotional awareness and start to make the changes needed to become the best version of themselves.
Hi! My name is Shea, and I want to support and empower you to become your most authentic self. I provide a safe and collaborative space that encourages curiosity, healing, and growth. We will find the tools you need to cope with and overcome the challenges you are facing. You are the expert of your own experiences and I am interested in learning more about you. Let’s work together to create the life you want to live.
Hi! My name is Shea, and I want to support and empower you to become your most authentic self. I provide a safe and collaborative space that encourages curiosity, healing, and growth. We will find the tools you need to cope with and overcome the challenges you are facing. You are the expert of your own experiences and I am interested in learning more about you. Let’s work together to create the life you want to live.
I am accepting new clients-especially LGBTQIA+ couples! Slots after 5pm on weekdays available! I believe in the power of connection and meaningful communication to create a deeper understanding of ourselves. I work collaboratively with clients from a non-judgmental and safe space. I am honest but compassionate, and I will meet you right where you are. As a Queer identifying therapist, working with the LGBTQIA+ community is a huge passion of mine. You are safe and loved here, regardless of who you are, how you identify, and where you come from.
I am accepting new clients-especially LGBTQIA+ couples! Slots after 5pm on weekdays available! I believe in the power of connection and meaningful communication to create a deeper understanding of ourselves. I work collaboratively with clients from a non-judgmental and safe space. I am honest but compassionate, and I will meet you right where you are. As a Queer identifying therapist, working with the LGBTQIA+ community is a huge passion of mine. You are safe and loved here, regardless of who you are, how you identify, and where you come from.
I am a licensed clinical social worker specializing in eating disorders, anxiety disorders, depression, women's issues, recovery from trauma or abuse, relationship issues and life transitions. My approach to therapy is collaborative, as I believe a solid therapeutic relationship is essential in helping you gain insight and thrive in your life. I work to bring acceptance and compassion to the therapeutic relationship. Therapy is individualized, and determined by each person's needs and goals. My aim is to support each person through their personal journey. I take a relational approach, as I believe the therapeutic relationship is essential to facilitating and building change.
I am a licensed clinical social worker specializing in eating disorders, anxiety disorders, depression, women's issues, recovery from trauma or abuse, relationship issues and life transitions. My approach to therapy is collaborative, as I believe a solid therapeutic relationship is essential in helping you gain insight and thrive in your life. I work to bring acceptance and compassion to the therapeutic relationship. Therapy is individualized, and determined by each person's needs and goals. My aim is to support each person through their personal journey. I take a relational approach, as I believe the therapeutic relationship is essential to facilitating and building change.
Is your relationship what you want it to be? Whether you want to strengthen your connection, or you're worn out from frequent fighting, hurt by broken trust, or considering separation or divorce, the wisest first step you can take is to get the right help. As a couples therapy specialist, I help partners gain clarity about themselves, re-establish trust, improve interaction, teach them how to manage conflict, heal from hurt and betrayal, and rebuild connection, friendship and intimacy. Many couples give up too soon, without getting help. But where there is a flicker of love, there is hope!
Is your relationship what you want it to be? Whether you want to strengthen your connection, or you're worn out from frequent fighting, hurt by broken trust, or considering separation or divorce, the wisest first step you can take is to get the right help. As a couples therapy specialist, I help partners gain clarity about themselves, re-establish trust, improve interaction, teach them how to manage conflict, heal from hurt and betrayal, and rebuild connection, friendship and intimacy. Many couples give up too soon, without getting help. But where there is a flicker of love, there is hope!
Our unique experiences and our responses to them, I believe, are the most important determinants to how our lives will go. I am not a believer in someone choosing the “wrong” path or making the “wrong” choices, these choices or paths are simply “our” choices or paths and the way we respond to the consequences they create have led us to where we are today. I want to work with you to address your struggles and help you gain a greater understanding of yourself, all while supporting you to live a life aligned with your social, emotional, and spiritual goals. You are not alone – I am here to walk this path with you!
Our unique experiences and our responses to them, I believe, are the most important determinants to how our lives will go. I am not a believer in someone choosing the “wrong” path or making the “wrong” choices, these choices or paths are simply “our” choices or paths and the way we respond to the consequences they create have led us to where we are today. I want to work with you to address your struggles and help you gain a greater understanding of yourself, all while supporting you to live a life aligned with your social, emotional, and spiritual goals. You are not alone – I am here to walk this path with you!
Yes, I am currently taking new clients! Are you someone who usually loves to help others, but suddenly you are just so tired? Are you feeling exhausted? Overthinking and questioning everything? It's easy to stay busy all the time but sometimes when you say "yes" to all the things you love to do, you might find yourself being just TOO busy, overwhelmed, and overstimulated...that's when you start to snap at the people you love, or find yourself wanting to just be left alone.
Yes, I am currently taking new clients! Are you someone who usually loves to help others, but suddenly you are just so tired? Are you feeling exhausted? Overthinking and questioning everything? It's easy to stay busy all the time but sometimes when you say "yes" to all the things you love to do, you might find yourself being just TOO busy, overwhelmed, and overstimulated...that's when you start to snap at the people you love, or find yourself wanting to just be left alone.
Christine Schalkoff
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, PhD, MS, LCMHCA
Cary, NC 27513
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I enjoy working with a variety of clients with anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, bipolar disorder, and substance use disorders. I take a strengths-based and client-centered approach and pull from a variety of modalities to best suit my clients’ needs, at their pace. Prior to earning my MS in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling from UNC, I completed a PhD in Health Behavior and studied drivers of stigma among communities affected by the opioid epidemic. I incorporate a public health & social justice lens into my work with clients, to explore the effect of systemic factors on mental wellbeing.
Welcome! I enjoy working with a variety of clients with anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, bipolar disorder, and substance use disorders. I take a strengths-based and client-centered approach and pull from a variety of modalities to best suit my clients’ needs, at their pace. Prior to earning my MS in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling from UNC, I completed a PhD in Health Behavior and studied drivers of stigma among communities affected by the opioid epidemic. I incorporate a public health & social justice lens into my work with clients, to explore the effect of systemic factors on mental wellbeing.
My clients have said:
"I really love seeing Ms Julie. She makes me feel heard and seen. I feel like a valuable person, and no longer want to hurt myself."
"Ms Julie helps me feel less anxious. She's easy to talk to and relate. We spend sessions laughing, sometimes crying, and she never gets upset when I cuss."
"The roleplays we do in therapy are fun and help me think of different ways of handling life. I am better able to handle bullies at school now. I am better able to accept myself."
"She never makes me feel stupid, or less than. She's always encouraging and asking questions that help me better understand myself."
My clients have said:
"I really love seeing Ms Julie. She makes me feel heard and seen. I feel like a valuable person, and no longer want to hurt myself."
"Ms Julie helps me feel less anxious. She's easy to talk to and relate. We spend sessions laughing, sometimes crying, and she never gets upset when I cuss."
"The roleplays we do in therapy are fun and help me think of different ways of handling life. I am better able to handle bullies at school now. I am better able to accept myself."
"She never makes me feel stupid, or less than. She's always encouraging and asking questions that help me better understand myself."
My name is Tameka McFarland. I treat individuals, couples who are dating, planning to get married, currently married, or are considering divorce. I will treat emotional concerns that are affecting intimacy between a client and their partner. I provide support to families who have concerns about parenting. I will see any client ages 18 and up of all ethnicities and sexual orientations. My ideal client would be a couple or family. However, I see many indivduals as well! I also provide life coaching services. Telehealth services are also offered.
My name is Tameka McFarland. I treat individuals, couples who are dating, planning to get married, currently married, or are considering divorce. I will treat emotional concerns that are affecting intimacy between a client and their partner. I provide support to families who have concerns about parenting. I will see any client ages 18 and up of all ethnicities and sexual orientations. My ideal client would be a couple or family. However, I see many indivduals as well! I also provide life coaching services. Telehealth services are also offered.
Tiffany Mosley is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in North Carolina who has been practicing since 2023. Tiffany provides a safe and inviting approach to achieve mental wellness for her clients. She encourages a symbiotic relationship with her clients using evidence-based practices which promote a holistic approach to healing. Tiffany will work through challenges, trauma, and behavior patterns with clients to help improve the quality of life that they seek. In her free time, Tiffany enjoys the outdoors, camping, gardening, and water activities. She also loves cooking and traveling.
Tiffany Mosley is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in North Carolina who has been practicing since 2023. Tiffany provides a safe and inviting approach to achieve mental wellness for her clients. She encourages a symbiotic relationship with her clients using evidence-based practices which promote a holistic approach to healing. Tiffany will work through challenges, trauma, and behavior patterns with clients to help improve the quality of life that they seek. In her free time, Tiffany enjoys the outdoors, camping, gardening, and water activities. She also loves cooking and traveling.
My passion is working with children, teens, and young adults. In our sessions, I focus on building self-awareness, strengthening decision-making, developing problem-solving skills, setting meaningful goals, and offering supportive challenges within a caring, empathetic environment. As your therapist, I will help you recognize the strengths and resources you already possess and support you as you expand and build upon them.
While some changes can happen quickly, others require slow, intentional, and repeated effort. We will work together to create an individualized plan that fits your unique needs and concerns.
My passion is working with children, teens, and young adults. In our sessions, I focus on building self-awareness, strengthening decision-making, developing problem-solving skills, setting meaningful goals, and offering supportive challenges within a caring, empathetic environment. As your therapist, I will help you recognize the strengths and resources you already possess and support you as you expand and build upon them.
While some changes can happen quickly, others require slow, intentional, and repeated effort. We will work together to create an individualized plan that fits your unique needs and concerns.
As a provider who specializes in anxiety, depression, trauma, OCD, and perinatal mental health, I work with people ages 16 and up who are seeking help navigating these challenges. We all need support at times, and finding a therapist can be difficult, which is why I offer free consult so we can discuss how I can be helpful to you in achieving your goals. I offer a custom approach tailored to each of my clients. We will start by exploring where you are and barriers you face. Next, we will work together to come up with a plan that works for you, getting you where you want to be in your life.
As a provider who specializes in anxiety, depression, trauma, OCD, and perinatal mental health, I work with people ages 16 and up who are seeking help navigating these challenges. We all need support at times, and finding a therapist can be difficult, which is why I offer free consult so we can discuss how I can be helpful to you in achieving your goals. I offer a custom approach tailored to each of my clients. We will start by exploring where you are and barriers you face. Next, we will work together to come up with a plan that works for you, getting you where you want to be in your life.
Your mental health matters and proactively making it a priority is critical in today's world. If you are finding this to be challenging, or if you're feeling overwhelmed or stuck, reaching out for help is a great (and brave) decision. My top priority is to help clients feel safe, seen and understood from the very beginning. I believe that therapy should be a collaborative process, built around your goals and needs. I'll create and hold space for you to explore yourself, to identify what is holding you back or impacting your mental health, and to ultimately find a pathway to a healthier and happier version of yourself.
Your mental health matters and proactively making it a priority is critical in today's world. If you are finding this to be challenging, or if you're feeling overwhelmed or stuck, reaching out for help is a great (and brave) decision. My top priority is to help clients feel safe, seen and understood from the very beginning. I believe that therapy should be a collaborative process, built around your goals and needs. I'll create and hold space for you to explore yourself, to identify what is holding you back or impacting your mental health, and to ultimately find a pathway to a healthier and happier version of yourself.
Symptoms often develop as adaptive responses to difficult events and emotions, particularly for individuals who have experienced trauma, abuse, loss, or grief. What once served as a way to cope can eventually become the source of distress that brings clients to therapy. Understanding symptoms as meaningful responses helps reduce shame and supports compassionate self-awareness.
Symptoms often develop as adaptive responses to difficult events and emotions, particularly for individuals who have experienced trauma, abuse, loss, or grief. What once served as a way to cope can eventually become the source of distress that brings clients to therapy. Understanding symptoms as meaningful responses helps reduce shame and supports compassionate self-awareness.
12/12/25. Feel free to reach out. Erin believes that all people need connection with others to be able to thrive, she likes to do this with a bit of humor. She operates from a multicultural and existential perspective, and strives to create an honest, empathetic, non-judgmental, and safe therapeutic environment. As an LCMHC-QS & NARM Master Therapist, Erin has been trained in a wide array of modalities to help clients heal. Erin believes that every person is unique. Erin tailors the treatment modality to what the client best responds to. She believes in the long-standing research that supports treatments in mind-body/somatic therapy
12/12/25. Feel free to reach out. Erin believes that all people need connection with others to be able to thrive, she likes to do this with a bit of humor. She operates from a multicultural and existential perspective, and strives to create an honest, empathetic, non-judgmental, and safe therapeutic environment. As an LCMHC-QS & NARM Master Therapist, Erin has been trained in a wide array of modalities to help clients heal. Erin believes that every person is unique. Erin tailors the treatment modality to what the client best responds to. She believes in the long-standing research that supports treatments in mind-body/somatic therapy
You’ve built a full life—maybe even a successful one—so why doesn’t it feel right? Something still feels missing. Days are monotonous, filled with fatigue or internal pressure from work, relationships, or home life. It’s hard to pinpoint why, but overthinking and second-guessing have become the norm, and it’s draining both your energy and confidence. You’re not necessarily falling apart, but you know things aren’t going “well.” You may even have an inkling that the burnout or dissatisfaction you’re feeling stems from an internal misalignment—between who you are and how you’re living—and you’re ready to get to the root of it.
You’ve built a full life—maybe even a successful one—so why doesn’t it feel right? Something still feels missing. Days are monotonous, filled with fatigue or internal pressure from work, relationships, or home life. It’s hard to pinpoint why, but overthinking and second-guessing have become the norm, and it’s draining both your energy and confidence. You’re not necessarily falling apart, but you know things aren’t going “well.” You may even have an inkling that the burnout or dissatisfaction you’re feeling stems from an internal misalignment—between who you are and how you’re living—and you’re ready to get to the root of it.
Are you asking yourself, “What do I need right now?” or "What's next?"
You might feel overwhelmed, stuck, or exhausted without fully understanding why. Maybe something recent has stirred up old pain, or you’re facing changes that feel too heavy to carry alone. I work with adults navigating complex and childhood trauma, grief and loss, identity-based stress, and major life transitions. Many of my clients are Black, LGBTQIA+, and/or survivors of community violence/crime.
Are you asking yourself, “What do I need right now?” or "What's next?"
You might feel overwhelmed, stuck, or exhausted without fully understanding why. Maybe something recent has stirred up old pain, or you’re facing changes that feel too heavy to carry alone. I work with adults navigating complex and childhood trauma, grief and loss, identity-based stress, and major life transitions. Many of my clients are Black, LGBTQIA+, and/or survivors of community violence/crime.
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Number of Therapists in Cary, NC
1,000+
Average cost per session
$150
Therapists in Cary, NC who prioritize treating:
| 94% | Anxiety |
| 87% | Depression |
| 77% | Self Esteem |
| 75% | Relationship Issues |
| 72% | Stress |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 59% | Grief |
Average years in practice
10 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 93% | Aetna |
| 90% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
| 59% | Cigna and Evernorth |
How Therapists in Cary, NC see their clients
| 69% | In Person and Online | |
| 31% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 84% | Female | |
| 15% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Cary?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


