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Cheng & Associates Family Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92620  (Online Only)
One of my greatest passions is helping couples in intercultural relationships. I speak English, Mandarin and Taiwanese. I've been in practice for 19 years. I use primarily Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dr. John Gottman's research methods to help clients who struggle with communication, intimacy, various mood disorders, grief/bereavement Issues, acculturation problems (difficulties adjusting to American mainstream culture), recovery Issues (codependency, alcoholism, food addiction, substance abuse, issues relating to family of origin, etc.), and difficulty with life transitions/changes.
One of my greatest passions is helping couples in intercultural relationships. I speak English, Mandarin and Taiwanese. I've been in practice for 19 years. I use primarily Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dr. John Gottman's research methods to help clients who struggle with communication, intimacy, various mood disorders, grief/bereavement Issues, acculturation problems (difficulties adjusting to American mainstream culture), recovery Issues (codependency, alcoholism, food addiction, substance abuse, issues relating to family of origin, etc.), and difficulty with life transitions/changes.
(949) 391-4257 View (949) 391-4257
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Randa El Jurdi - Couples Emdr Trauma Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, BSN, MEd, MA, MFT/PCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fremont, CA 94539  (Online Only)
As a psychotherapist who works with couples my passion lies in helping couples navigate the challenges and complexities of their relationships. I believe that strong and healthy relationships are the foundation for overall well-being and happiness. I understand that every couple is unique, with their own set of dynamics, communication styles, and issues. My approach to therapy is tailored to meet the specific needs and goals of each couple I work with. I create a safe and non-judgmental space where couples can openly express their thoughts and feelings and work towards resolving conflicts and improving their connection.
As a psychotherapist who works with couples my passion lies in helping couples navigate the challenges and complexities of their relationships. I believe that strong and healthy relationships are the foundation for overall well-being and happiness. I understand that every couple is unique, with their own set of dynamics, communication styles, and issues. My approach to therapy is tailored to meet the specific needs and goals of each couple I work with. I create a safe and non-judgmental space where couples can openly express their thoughts and feelings and work towards resolving conflicts and improving their connection.
(424) 531-7680 View (424) 531-7680
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Monica M Brown
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
San Leandro, CA 94577
I am a licensed psychotherapist working with individuals, families, couples, adolescents, children, and groups using EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and humanistic modalities.I embrace cultural diversity and am experienced with treating a broad spectrum of clinical issues such as trauma/PTSD, anxiety, depression,addictions,grief and loss, marital, relationship,life issues, and stress management among others.I work with all ages, starting from age 3 on up.
I am a licensed psychotherapist working with individuals, families, couples, adolescents, children, and groups using EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and humanistic modalities.I embrace cultural diversity and am experienced with treating a broad spectrum of clinical issues such as trauma/PTSD, anxiety, depression,addictions,grief and loss, marital, relationship,life issues, and stress management among others.I work with all ages, starting from age 3 on up.
(510) 985-4539 View (510) 985-4539
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Dr. Wendy Boring-Bray
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, DBH, LPCC
Verified Verified
Mission Viejo, CA 92691  (Online Only)
Are you an adult with autism? Me too! Feel Anxious? Anxiety can be so overwhelming! Tired of masking? Ruminating thoughts? Feeling like nothing is going right? Having a hard time focusing? Out of sync in your relationship? Yep! Anxiety can do that! How would your life look if you were able to stop all of the internal chatter going on in your mind? Sound like it's impossible? Believe it or not, this IS possible; you CAN stop the internal chatter and start feeling more like yourself. Anxiety is not you; it is a feeling you are going through, and sometimes, it can hang around longer than you want it to. Ready to send it packing?
Are you an adult with autism? Me too! Feel Anxious? Anxiety can be so overwhelming! Tired of masking? Ruminating thoughts? Feeling like nothing is going right? Having a hard time focusing? Out of sync in your relationship? Yep! Anxiety can do that! How would your life look if you were able to stop all of the internal chatter going on in your mind? Sound like it's impossible? Believe it or not, this IS possible; you CAN stop the internal chatter and start feeling more like yourself. Anxiety is not you; it is a feeling you are going through, and sometimes, it can hang around longer than you want it to. Ready to send it packing?
(949) 390-5766 View (949) 390-5766
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Sabrina Parr
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
I have specialized training in couples, parenting/co-parenting and cognitive behavioral therapy.
Most people experience times or situations in their life in which additional support and help are needed. I offer a supportive, open and trusting environment to facilitate desired growth and change within the individual and/or the family. I have been working with in the field since 1994 and have enjoyed watching people make positive life changes. I look forward to the opportunity of supporting you!
I have specialized training in couples, parenting/co-parenting and cognitive behavioral therapy.
Most people experience times or situations in their life in which additional support and help are needed. I offer a supportive, open and trusting environment to facilitate desired growth and change within the individual and/or the family. I have been working with in the field since 1994 and have enjoyed watching people make positive life changes. I look forward to the opportunity of supporting you!
(858) 386-7832 View (858) 386-7832
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Tina Milan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shasta Lake, CA 96019  (Online Only)
If you choose to reach out together through connection, relationship and accountability we can create a safe space for you to explore your strengths and challenges.
Hi, my name is Tina Milan. I have worked in the Mental Health field for around 10 years. I assist people with issues related to their Mental Health and with communication within their families, peers, and in their community. I offer a strength based holistic approach. I strive to meet people where they are in life with kindness, respect, acceptance and positivity. My background is in children, youth and families. However I assisting all ages. I also enjoy the elderly. Currently, I provide Telehealth sessions. However, I would like to meet in person when that is available. I work best online with ages 12 years and older.
If you choose to reach out together through connection, relationship and accountability we can create a safe space for you to explore your strengths and challenges.
Hi, my name is Tina Milan. I have worked in the Mental Health field for around 10 years. I assist people with issues related to their Mental Health and with communication within their families, peers, and in their community. I offer a strength based holistic approach. I strive to meet people where they are in life with kindness, respect, acceptance and positivity. My background is in children, youth and families. However I assisting all ages. I also enjoy the elderly. Currently, I provide Telehealth sessions. However, I would like to meet in person when that is available. I work best online with ages 12 years and older.
(530) 290-6954 View (530) 290-6954
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Julie Garcia, MA, LMFT, EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brentwood, CA 94513
I provide counseling services for all ages in individual, couples, and family therapy. I have extensive experience working with a variety of concerns including depression, anxiety, couples/marital issues, grief and loss, relationship issues, trauma, and addiction. I believe that the quality of the therapeutic relationship provides an opportunity to help you understand yourself and others better, which can lead to more satisfying relationships and fulfillment in life. In therapy, I work alongside you, at your pace providing a warm, nurturing, and safe space where you can feel heard, understood, and supported in your growth.
I provide counseling services for all ages in individual, couples, and family therapy. I have extensive experience working with a variety of concerns including depression, anxiety, couples/marital issues, grief and loss, relationship issues, trauma, and addiction. I believe that the quality of the therapeutic relationship provides an opportunity to help you understand yourself and others better, which can lead to more satisfying relationships and fulfillment in life. In therapy, I work alongside you, at your pace providing a warm, nurturing, and safe space where you can feel heard, understood, and supported in your growth.
(925) 231-9044 View (925) 231-9044
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Clarity Family Therapy Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90025
Are you anxious about life, work, relationships? We offer therapy to help with many issues including stress, relationship issues, or deep trauma through our EMDR Treatments. We offer a safe space both telehealth and in person to process what you are struggling with and improve your life. Our group specializes in creating healthy relationships, working through anxiety, depression, getting "unstuck," working through addictions, and healing from trauma. We accept all Medi-Cal plans including Carelon/LA Care. We are here to help you heal.
Are you anxious about life, work, relationships? We offer therapy to help with many issues including stress, relationship issues, or deep trauma through our EMDR Treatments. We offer a safe space both telehealth and in person to process what you are struggling with and improve your life. Our group specializes in creating healthy relationships, working through anxiety, depression, getting "unstuck," working through addictions, and healing from trauma. We accept all Medi-Cal plans including Carelon/LA Care. We are here to help you heal.
(818) 495-8986 View (818) 495-8986
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Elizabeth Dandenell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Alameda, CA 94501
At East Bay Center for Anxiety Relief, we work with adults, children, teens, couples, and families. We also facilitate periodic groups focused on communication skills, social skills, anxiety, depression, and working women. We strive for mindful, efficient, and effective therapy. Our clinicians are trained in research-based models such as TEAM-CBT, ACT and Gottman couples/family models. We work a bit differently than more traditional practices. We don’t cram an hour of therapy into 50 minutes. Instead, we provide full 60-, 75-, or 90-minute sessions.
At East Bay Center for Anxiety Relief, we work with adults, children, teens, couples, and families. We also facilitate periodic groups focused on communication skills, social skills, anxiety, depression, and working women. We strive for mindful, efficient, and effective therapy. Our clinicians are trained in research-based models such as TEAM-CBT, ACT and Gottman couples/family models. We work a bit differently than more traditional practices. We don’t cram an hour of therapy into 50 minutes. Instead, we provide full 60-, 75-, or 90-minute sessions.
(925) 308-5760 View (925) 308-5760
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Lisa Gray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Livermore, CA 94550
Is conflict tearing your relationship apart? Every relationship has conflict, but no one really teaches us how to have healthy conflict or steps to follow to practice it. I can teach you this! Conflict is a skill, and you can get better at it. Not only that, but if you practice healthy conflict, you'll increase your intimacy and have a closer relationship. I know it sounds counterintuitive but I've seen it happen over and over. You don't have to be stuck in this pattern; I promise.
Is conflict tearing your relationship apart? Every relationship has conflict, but no one really teaches us how to have healthy conflict or steps to follow to practice it. I can teach you this! Conflict is a skill, and you can get better at it. Not only that, but if you practice healthy conflict, you'll increase your intimacy and have a closer relationship. I know it sounds counterintuitive but I've seen it happen over and over. You don't have to be stuck in this pattern; I promise.
(925) 961-5308 View (925) 961-5308
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Natasha Edelhaus
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Ramon, CA 94583
Natasha has extensive training and experience with helping couples considering or going through a divorce, parent/child relationships, stress management and resolving conflict.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who emphasizes a systems approach and works to gain a deeper understanding of my client's family of origin and current dynamic. I also utilize an array of Cognitive Behavioral tools to allow the client to change their thinking and behavior pattern. I emphasize a collaborative approach, wherein I work together with the client to help them become invested in their treatment and achieve the results that they want. I do this while creating a compassionate, positive environment. I am passionate about helping my clients and specialize in sensitive clients of all ages and circumstances.
Natasha has extensive training and experience with helping couples considering or going through a divorce, parent/child relationships, stress management and resolving conflict.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who emphasizes a systems approach and works to gain a deeper understanding of my client's family of origin and current dynamic. I also utilize an array of Cognitive Behavioral tools to allow the client to change their thinking and behavior pattern. I emphasize a collaborative approach, wherein I work together with the client to help them become invested in their treatment and achieve the results that they want. I do this while creating a compassionate, positive environment. I am passionate about helping my clients and specialize in sensitive clients of all ages and circumstances.
(781) 338-5386 View (781) 338-5386
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Guadalupe Avitia
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Van Nuys, CA 91405
If you're feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, know that you don't have to face them alone. I offer a compassionate, safe space where your thoughts and feelings are welcomed and respected. Together, we can explore your experiences, unravel the complexities of your emotions, and work towards the goals that matter most to you. Whether you're navigating relationship issues, grappling with anxiety or depression, or seeking to heal from trauma, my approach is tailored to meet you where you are.
If you're feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, know that you don't have to face them alone. I offer a compassionate, safe space where your thoughts and feelings are welcomed and respected. Together, we can explore your experiences, unravel the complexities of your emotions, and work towards the goals that matter most to you. Whether you're navigating relationship issues, grappling with anxiety or depression, or seeking to heal from trauma, my approach is tailored to meet you where you are.
(323) 968-6796 View (323) 968-6796
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Anna Billings
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Rafael, CA 94901
Waitlist for new clients
I work with individuals,couples,families and organizations, honoring the unique essence of each individual and relationship.
Are you facing difficult challenges in your life? In your relationships, your work, or life in general? Trying your best but tired of struggling with the pain and frustration on your own? Do you find yourself thinking it shouldn't be this hard? Longing for the freedom and joy to simply be yourself and live the life you were meant to live?
I work with individuals,couples,families and organizations, honoring the unique essence of each individual and relationship.
Are you facing difficult challenges in your life? In your relationships, your work, or life in general? Trying your best but tired of struggling with the pain and frustration on your own? Do you find yourself thinking it shouldn't be this hard? Longing for the freedom and joy to simply be yourself and live the life you were meant to live?
(510) 985-4145 View (510) 985-4145
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Sandra Quiring, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hamilton City, CA 95951  (Online Only)
I have counseled folks with depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, trauma, adjustment and relationship problems for over 20 years. Many years of life experience allow me to meet my clients with compassion and understanding. I am guided by the particular needs of each client, at all times discovering and reinforcing strengths and abilities. I help my clients achieve their goals as they shed interfering thoughts, habits, fears and beliefs. I happily accept many insurance plans and will consider sliding scale fees. Helping someone achieve greater life satisfaction brings me much joy.
I have counseled folks with depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, trauma, adjustment and relationship problems for over 20 years. Many years of life experience allow me to meet my clients with compassion and understanding. I am guided by the particular needs of each client, at all times discovering and reinforcing strengths and abilities. I help my clients achieve their goals as they shed interfering thoughts, habits, fears and beliefs. I happily accept many insurance plans and will consider sliding scale fees. Helping someone achieve greater life satisfaction brings me much joy.
(530) 776-5062 View (530) 776-5062
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Kathleen Parkinson McConnell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Oakland, CA 94611
I provide counseling and psychotherapy to individuals and couples in a private practice setting.
"Reaching out is the first step. I invite you to take that first step and CALL me at 510-652-1902. I look forward to talking with you."
I provide counseling and psychotherapy to individuals and couples in a private practice setting.
"Reaching out is the first step. I invite you to take that first step and CALL me at 510-652-1902. I look forward to talking with you."
(510) 652-1902 View (510) 652-1902
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Deborah Jacroux
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Mountain View, CA 94043
I see the world as my life-time classroom. My therapeutic work is rooted in Jungian and Transpersonal Psychology and have provided therapy for adults, couples, adolescents, and children for eight years in various clinical settings.
I see the world as my life-time classroom. My therapeutic work is rooted in Jungian and Transpersonal Psychology and have provided therapy for adults, couples, adolescents, and children for eight years in various clinical settings.
(650) 282-1299 View (650) 282-1299
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Vincenza Jamie Baldino
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Oakland, CA 94612  (Online Only)
I embrace creating relationship with others, deepening trust within the relationship to address what is disturbing balance in one's life.
My work is guided by the tenet, Life is Relationship. If we can trust our stories to a therapist, that therapeutic relationship can transform us. Self-acceptance, and calm return. I listen compassionately to others to understand what is inhibiting their motivation and self-confidence. I consider lifestyle practices, relationships, use of substances; healthy and unhealthy habits, and one's sense of belonging. My clients and I together identify what helps them change. Some practices and tools I use to guide my work are: talk therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), mindfulness and stress management practices derived from Yogic philosophy and practices.
I embrace creating relationship with others, deepening trust within the relationship to address what is disturbing balance in one's life.
My work is guided by the tenet, Life is Relationship. If we can trust our stories to a therapist, that therapeutic relationship can transform us. Self-acceptance, and calm return. I listen compassionately to others to understand what is inhibiting their motivation and self-confidence. I consider lifestyle practices, relationships, use of substances; healthy and unhealthy habits, and one's sense of belonging. My clients and I together identify what helps them change. Some practices and tools I use to guide my work are: talk therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), mindfulness and stress management practices derived from Yogic philosophy and practices.
(510) 279-4427 View (510) 279-4427
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Aimee K Lubell
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Rocklin, CA 95765
An artist and writer, Dr. Lubell earned a BA degree at City Univ. of NY while working in the World Trade Center. Having always been drawn to people’s stories with compassion and caring, she followed her heart to become a psychologist, achieving her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the Univ. of Michigan. Dr. Lubell is certified in ISTDP (Intensive Short Term Dynamic Psychotherapy), a technique that has amazing results in a very short period of time. She practices EMDR, which has proven effective to treat trauma. She also has a wealth of experience helping couples to resolve conflicts and move on to a satisfying relationship.
An artist and writer, Dr. Lubell earned a BA degree at City Univ. of NY while working in the World Trade Center. Having always been drawn to people’s stories with compassion and caring, she followed her heart to become a psychologist, achieving her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the Univ. of Michigan. Dr. Lubell is certified in ISTDP (Intensive Short Term Dynamic Psychotherapy), a technique that has amazing results in a very short period of time. She practices EMDR, which has proven effective to treat trauma. She also has a wealth of experience helping couples to resolve conflicts and move on to a satisfying relationship.
(916) 694-1426 View (916) 694-1426
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Claire Marie Crosetti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alameda, CA 94501
I work with individuals, couples and adolescents and their families on a wide array of issues including life transitions, improving relationships, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, forgiveness, women's issues and couples struggling with infertility. Therapy can be both a rewarding and rejuvinating process. My style is one of partnering with compassion and respect. Together we can improve your relationships, well being and hopefullness. By compassionately looking at your life we can uncover patterns that are inhibiting the attainment of your life goals.
I work with individuals, couples and adolescents and their families on a wide array of issues including life transitions, improving relationships, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, forgiveness, women's issues and couples struggling with infertility. Therapy can be both a rewarding and rejuvinating process. My style is one of partnering with compassion and respect. Together we can improve your relationships, well being and hopefullness. By compassionately looking at your life we can uncover patterns that are inhibiting the attainment of your life goals.
(925) 336-3329 View (925) 336-3329
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Melinda Sue Johnson Carcich
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
I believe the therapeutic relationship is an important piece of the process through which growth and healing can occur. Helping clients to feel safe enough to share their feelings is paramount, and to offer hope is vital. It is important for the fearful to know that courage is being afraid, but doing it anyway. This concept promotes self esteem, and helps people to move forward in their lives. I use a variety of theoretical orientations, but chose the ones that are best suited for my client needs. I give clients tools to work with that will help them change their negative thoughts to positive ones..
I believe the therapeutic relationship is an important piece of the process through which growth and healing can occur. Helping clients to feel safe enough to share their feelings is paramount, and to offer hope is vital. It is important for the fearful to know that courage is being afraid, but doing it anyway. This concept promotes self esteem, and helps people to move forward in their lives. I use a variety of theoretical orientations, but chose the ones that are best suited for my client needs. I give clients tools to work with that will help them change their negative thoughts to positive ones..
(408) 659-0537 View (408) 659-0537
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.