Therapists in La Jolla, CA
Are you tired of things being so tough with your kids? You can see that your child or teen is struggling, but you're not sure what to do to help. They may be having difficulties at school or with friends. Or it may be that things feel out of control at home. You try so hard to help things get better, but it feels like things are just stuck. Maybe you've noticed that your reactions are way bigger than you want them to be. Something happens to trigger you and you lose your temper, and then you feel so guilty. Or it seems overwhelming because you listen to so many parenting professionals, but still don't have a clear path forward.
Are you tired of things being so tough with your kids? You can see that your child or teen is struggling, but you're not sure what to do to help. They may be having difficulties at school or with friends. Or it may be that things feel out of control at home. You try so hard to help things get better, but it feels like things are just stuck. Maybe you've noticed that your reactions are way bigger than you want them to be. Something happens to trigger you and you lose your temper, and then you feel so guilty. Or it seems overwhelming because you listen to so many parenting professionals, but still don't have a clear path forward.
Certified Sex Therapist.
Bilingual: English/Spanish.
I value being present in the moment, having self-compassion and acceptance for oneself before working on relationships with others. I practice through a holistic lens and a mindful perspective, teaching clients some of the same techniques that I myself practice regularly to cope with the complex challenges life often brings. In my clinical practice, I hold the belief that my client is the expert of their own life and I am here to help you identify your own personal goals and support you on your journey to achieve them.
Certified Sex Therapist.
Bilingual: English/Spanish.
I value being present in the moment, having self-compassion and acceptance for oneself before working on relationships with others. I practice through a holistic lens and a mindful perspective, teaching clients some of the same techniques that I myself practice regularly to cope with the complex challenges life often brings. In my clinical practice, I hold the belief that my client is the expert of their own life and I am here to help you identify your own personal goals and support you on your journey to achieve them.
Now accepting new virtual clients in California! Autum Robles, LMFT, is a compassionate therapist with over a decade of experience guiding adults and families through their challenges. With a focus on perfectionism, anxiety, parenting stress, and life transitions, she helps clients navigate their journeys toward healing and growth. Employing effective, short-term therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and trauma-focused CBT, Autum empowers individuals to build resilience and gain clarity. Many seek meaningful connection and fulfillment, striving to overcome obstacles and find peace.
Now accepting new virtual clients in California! Autum Robles, LMFT, is a compassionate therapist with over a decade of experience guiding adults and families through their challenges. With a focus on perfectionism, anxiety, parenting stress, and life transitions, she helps clients navigate their journeys toward healing and growth. Employing effective, short-term therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and trauma-focused CBT, Autum empowers individuals to build resilience and gain clarity. Many seek meaningful connection and fulfillment, striving to overcome obstacles and find peace.
Psychotherapy of San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PHD
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Dr Silbert promotes healing and strengthening of the capable inner self. The individual is enhanced positively by a belief in the ability to cope with the human condition and the emotional upheaval exacerbated by the winding road of life's journey. From the initial consultation with Dr. Silbert she remains an active verbal participant in your treatment. She most emphatically "listens" and "sees" you in a genuine attempt to validate the importance and significance of what you say and how you are feeling. Evaluation of the problems and strategies for effective intervention are discussed with the individual from the first consult until completion of treatment.
Dr Silbert promotes healing and strengthening of the capable inner self. The individual is enhanced positively by a belief in the ability to cope with the human condition and the emotional upheaval exacerbated by the winding road of life's journey. From the initial consultation with Dr. Silbert she remains an active verbal participant in your treatment. She most emphatically "listens" and "sees" you in a genuine attempt to validate the importance and significance of what you say and how you are feeling. Evaluation of the problems and strategies for effective intervention are discussed with the individual from the first consult until completion of treatment.
My name is Dr. Laura Portner and I am a licensed psychologist in San Diego, California. I work primarily with people who are discovering who they are in the world and might struggle to connect with others. Many feel anxious around other people, find it hard to make friends, and feel lonely or empty inside. Some have even “lost themselves” in a relationships or friendships and have trouble healing from past family experiences. If this sounds like something you are going through, I would love to help. My approach is individualized, inclusive, and honors my client's personal journey.
My name is Dr. Laura Portner and I am a licensed psychologist in San Diego, California. I work primarily with people who are discovering who they are in the world and might struggle to connect with others. Many feel anxious around other people, find it hard to make friends, and feel lonely or empty inside. Some have even “lost themselves” in a relationships or friendships and have trouble healing from past family experiences. If this sounds like something you are going through, I would love to help. My approach is individualized, inclusive, and honors my client's personal journey.
Dr. Maiken Gale, of the Clinical & Consulting Psychology Group, will help you understand your individual response to life's challenges and will assist you in making crucial, life enhancing changes. Dr. Gale utilizes an eclectic and integrated therapeutic approach tailored to your individual needs and adaptable to your progress in treatment. She will help you solve immediate problems and uncover the reasons you might be experiencing an unwanted pattern in your life. Either through solution-focused, or psychodynamic exploration, Dr. Gale will help you lock onto the important issues and achieve alleviation and insight.
Dr. Maiken Gale, of the Clinical & Consulting Psychology Group, will help you understand your individual response to life's challenges and will assist you in making crucial, life enhancing changes. Dr. Gale utilizes an eclectic and integrated therapeutic approach tailored to your individual needs and adaptable to your progress in treatment. She will help you solve immediate problems and uncover the reasons you might be experiencing an unwanted pattern in your life. Either through solution-focused, or psychodynamic exploration, Dr. Gale will help you lock onto the important issues and achieve alleviation and insight.
On the outside, you may look successful, capable, and “put together,” yet inside feel anxious, disconnected, or stuck in painful relationship patterns. You may overthink, people-please, struggle with boundaries, or question your worth despite your accomplishments. Many of my clients carry unresolved childhood or relational trauma that shows up as anxiety, burnout, or difficulty feeling secure with others. They want more than coping skills—they want to understand themselves deeply, heal old wounds, trust their instincts, and experience calmer, more fulfilling relationships.
On the outside, you may look successful, capable, and “put together,” yet inside feel anxious, disconnected, or stuck in painful relationship patterns. You may overthink, people-please, struggle with boundaries, or question your worth despite your accomplishments. Many of my clients carry unresolved childhood or relational trauma that shows up as anxiety, burnout, or difficulty feeling secure with others. They want more than coping skills—they want to understand themselves deeply, heal old wounds, trust their instincts, and experience calmer, more fulfilling relationships.
Debbie Bryk is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in California who has been practicing since 2015. She has a Masters in Clinical Counseling. Debbie provides therapy to help clients with addiction and trauma, co-occurring disorders, depression, anxiety, social anxiety, schizophrenia, TTM, ADHD, and obsessive-compulsive disorders. Debbie also has experience working with active-duty military and spouses. She offers adult individual sessions, marriage and family sessions, and group therapy. In her spare time, Debbie enjoys running, hiking, walking dogs, reading, science and psychology research, and sailing.
Debbie Bryk is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in California who has been practicing since 2015. She has a Masters in Clinical Counseling. Debbie provides therapy to help clients with addiction and trauma, co-occurring disorders, depression, anxiety, social anxiety, schizophrenia, TTM, ADHD, and obsessive-compulsive disorders. Debbie also has experience working with active-duty military and spouses. She offers adult individual sessions, marriage and family sessions, and group therapy. In her spare time, Debbie enjoys running, hiking, walking dogs, reading, science and psychology research, and sailing.
Blair values compassion, curiosity, and connection. She has an eclectic approach integrating acceptance and commitment therapy techniques with values-driven work to help patients break unhelpful patterns and move toward the life they envision. She uses solution-focused therapy and dialectical behavioral therapy to empower patients to make meaningful progress toward their goals. Blair creates a safe, supportive space where individuals feel understood, validated, and challenged when needed. She believes in resilience and helps patients strengthen their confidence in themselves.
Blair values compassion, curiosity, and connection. She has an eclectic approach integrating acceptance and commitment therapy techniques with values-driven work to help patients break unhelpful patterns and move toward the life they envision. She uses solution-focused therapy and dialectical behavioral therapy to empower patients to make meaningful progress toward their goals. Blair creates a safe, supportive space where individuals feel understood, validated, and challenged when needed. She believes in resilience and helps patients strengthen their confidence in themselves.
I have been described as a compassionate and active Psychologist who is dedicated to helping patients make positive change. I know that everyone enters therapy with specific strengths and I do my best to help pull from those strengths. I realize that entering therapy is a large emotional, financial, and time commitment, and do everything I can to make the most of your investment.
I have been described as a compassionate and active Psychologist who is dedicated to helping patients make positive change. I know that everyone enters therapy with specific strengths and I do my best to help pull from those strengths. I realize that entering therapy is a large emotional, financial, and time commitment, and do everything I can to make the most of your investment.
Life can be full of joy and meaning, but it can also leave us feeling uncertain and without a clear way forward. You may be struggling with anxiety, depression, or feeling disconnected from yourself. On the surface, things may look fine, yet deep down something feels off. You are not alone. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore your emotions, uncover patterns that hold you back, and learn to integrate difficult experiences. Together, we’ll work toward a life that feels authentic, connected, and fulfilling.
Life can be full of joy and meaning, but it can also leave us feeling uncertain and without a clear way forward. You may be struggling with anxiety, depression, or feeling disconnected from yourself. On the surface, things may look fine, yet deep down something feels off. You are not alone. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore your emotions, uncover patterns that hold you back, and learn to integrate difficult experiences. Together, we’ll work toward a life that feels authentic, connected, and fulfilling.
Do you find work getting in the way of connecting with your partner? Maybe it feels impossible to slow down and find quality time together as you navigate parenthood and demanding schedules. Do you struggle to express your needs or feel unsure of your partner needs? Perhaps you and your partner come from different cultural backgrounds. Partners in LGBTQ+, polyamorous, or other relationship-diverse communities often face added stress from navigating heteronormative systems to enduring stigma, discrimination, or family disapproval. These challenges can lead to disconnection, isolation, communication breakdowns, and misunderstanding.
Do you find work getting in the way of connecting with your partner? Maybe it feels impossible to slow down and find quality time together as you navigate parenthood and demanding schedules. Do you struggle to express your needs or feel unsure of your partner needs? Perhaps you and your partner come from different cultural backgrounds. Partners in LGBTQ+, polyamorous, or other relationship-diverse communities often face added stress from navigating heteronormative systems to enduring stigma, discrimination, or family disapproval. These challenges can lead to disconnection, isolation, communication breakdowns, and misunderstanding.
Welcome! And congratulations on taking the first step toward feeling better. It is not uncommon for people to feel scared about setting up a counseling appointment. My nonjudgmental and supportive style can create a safe atmosphere. My focus is on a strength-based approach, empowering clients to utilize their unique strengths to overcome challenges. My goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating.
Welcome! And congratulations on taking the first step toward feeling better. It is not uncommon for people to feel scared about setting up a counseling appointment. My nonjudgmental and supportive style can create a safe atmosphere. My focus is on a strength-based approach, empowering clients to utilize their unique strengths to overcome challenges. My goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating.
I believe in providing a collaborative and supportive environment to maximize the therapeutic experience. I help clients cope with negative thoughts and behaviors that may hinder relationships and overall quality of life. Therapy is focused on building and nurturing interpersonal relationships and decreasing daily stress, by assisting clients in capitalizing on strengths and defining goals.
I believe in providing a collaborative and supportive environment to maximize the therapeutic experience. I help clients cope with negative thoughts and behaviors that may hinder relationships and overall quality of life. Therapy is focused on building and nurturing interpersonal relationships and decreasing daily stress, by assisting clients in capitalizing on strengths and defining goals.
I am a licensed professional counselor, Health Psychologist and an International Certified Yoga Therapist. I have been a licensed professional counselor since 2000 with experience treating adults utilizing various techniques and therapies in both group and individual settings. I provide CBT, Mindfulness, Yoga Therapy, etc. which have been shown to be beneficial for depression, anxiety, bipolar, trauma, eating disorders among other issues. I obtained my PhD in Health Psychology from Walden University where I studied somatic issues. My areas of interest include mood disorders, anxiety disorders, and health issues.
I am a licensed professional counselor, Health Psychologist and an International Certified Yoga Therapist. I have been a licensed professional counselor since 2000 with experience treating adults utilizing various techniques and therapies in both group and individual settings. I provide CBT, Mindfulness, Yoga Therapy, etc. which have been shown to be beneficial for depression, anxiety, bipolar, trauma, eating disorders among other issues. I obtained my PhD in Health Psychology from Walden University where I studied somatic issues. My areas of interest include mood disorders, anxiety disorders, and health issues.
Mariah’s approach is focused on being patient-centered, placing emphasis on patient autonomy while creating a safe environment to collaboratively explore individual challenges. She believes in empowering patients with tools, knowledge, and strategies to gain confidence and understanding to achieve healthy well-being. Mariah supports patients' journeys of growth and healing through various modalities such as CBT, DBT, attachment-based family therapy, solution-focused and trauma-informed care with the use of EMDR.
Mariah’s approach is focused on being patient-centered, placing emphasis on patient autonomy while creating a safe environment to collaboratively explore individual challenges. She believes in empowering patients with tools, knowledge, and strategies to gain confidence and understanding to achieve healthy well-being. Mariah supports patients' journeys of growth and healing through various modalities such as CBT, DBT, attachment-based family therapy, solution-focused and trauma-informed care with the use of EMDR.
I work with adults navigating big life transitions—endings, beginnings, and the in-between spaces where old patterns no longer fit and new possibilities are emerging. Clients describe me as warm and direct. I care deeply, ask clarifying questions, and may suggest practices between sessions. I draw from both research and timeless approaches, viewing depression, anxiety, and trauma not as pathologies but as signals from the psyche. I enjoy helping clients find clarity, resilience, and renewed purpose.
I work with adults navigating big life transitions—endings, beginnings, and the in-between spaces where old patterns no longer fit and new possibilities are emerging. Clients describe me as warm and direct. I care deeply, ask clarifying questions, and may suggest practices between sessions. I draw from both research and timeless approaches, viewing depression, anxiety, and trauma not as pathologies but as signals from the psyche. I enjoy helping clients find clarity, resilience, and renewed purpose.
You may feel stuck in negative thought patterns, overwhelmed by anxiety, intrusive thoughts, unresolved trauma, or struggle with food and body image. You’re seeking emotional balance, a stronger connection to yourself, daily resilience, and relief from anxiety or depression. You don’t need to have everything figured out to start. Healing begins when you feel safe, seen, and supported. Together, we'll reduce symptoms, explore root causes, and create change. You deserve clarity, peace, and the freedom to thrive.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us," Ralph Waldo Emerson.
You may feel stuck in negative thought patterns, overwhelmed by anxiety, intrusive thoughts, unresolved trauma, or struggle with food and body image. You’re seeking emotional balance, a stronger connection to yourself, daily resilience, and relief from anxiety or depression. You don’t need to have everything figured out to start. Healing begins when you feel safe, seen, and supported. Together, we'll reduce symptoms, explore root causes, and create change. You deserve clarity, peace, and the freedom to thrive.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us," Ralph Waldo Emerson.
I was born and raised in San Diego, CA where I attended the nearby La Jolla Country Day School. As a local, it is an honor to have the opportunity to promote the mental and physical wellbeing of students from all cultural backgrounds who have the potential to make or have already made remarkable contributions to the San Diego community. I built a clinical foundation at Alliant International University’s Los Angeles campus where I earned my doctoral degree in clinical psychology with a focus in health psychology. The majority of my training took place at organizations that treat individuals with moderate to severe mental illnesses.
I was born and raised in San Diego, CA where I attended the nearby La Jolla Country Day School. As a local, it is an honor to have the opportunity to promote the mental and physical wellbeing of students from all cultural backgrounds who have the potential to make or have already made remarkable contributions to the San Diego community. I built a clinical foundation at Alliant International University’s Los Angeles campus where I earned my doctoral degree in clinical psychology with a focus in health psychology. The majority of my training took place at organizations that treat individuals with moderate to severe mental illnesses.
“We don’t heal in isolation. We heal in connection.”
It’s a pleasure to meet you – even if just here on this page. By coming here, you’ve already shown bravery. It takes courage, I'm honored to walk alongside you.
To bear the unbearable alongside my clients, offering an empathic, relational home where every heart feels seen, supported, and understood. Together, we make sense of challenging moments, explore the inner world, and discover new perspectives that foster growth, balance, and renewed hope.
“We don’t heal in isolation. We heal in connection.”
It’s a pleasure to meet you – even if just here on this page. By coming here, you’ve already shown bravery. It takes courage, I'm honored to walk alongside you.
To bear the unbearable alongside my clients, offering an empathic, relational home where every heart feels seen, supported, and understood. Together, we make sense of challenging moments, explore the inner world, and discover new perspectives that foster growth, balance, and renewed hope.
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Number of Therapists in La Jolla, CA
700+
Average cost per session
$198
Therapists in La Jolla, CA who prioritize treating:
| 95% | Anxiety |
| 89% | Depression |
| 80% | Relationship Issues |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 73% | Stress |
| 69% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 65% | Grief |
Average years in practice
13 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 84% | Aetna |
| 66% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 51% | UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH |
How Therapists in La Jolla, CA see their clients
| 57% | In Person and Online | |
| 43% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 19% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in La Jolla?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


