Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in New York

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Sabrina Seiderman
MHC, LP
Not Verified Not Verified
Lake Grove, NY 11755
Are you experiencing or a survivor of narcissistic abuse? This person could be a partner, friend, relative, coworker, etc. Are you struggling to accept your sexual orientation or is your partner (friend or family member) struggling to come out of the closet therefore making your relationship a secret? Is a friend/relative/romantic partner struggling with a mental health diagnosis such as depression, anxiety, alcohol/substance use, OCD, a narcissistic personality, bipolar disorder, or bpd, and you are lost on what you should do, how to handle the situation, and how to constructively navigate the relationship?
Are you experiencing or a survivor of narcissistic abuse? This person could be a partner, friend, relative, coworker, etc. Are you struggling to accept your sexual orientation or is your partner (friend or family member) struggling to come out of the closet therefore making your relationship a secret? Is a friend/relative/romantic partner struggling with a mental health diagnosis such as depression, anxiety, alcohol/substance use, OCD, a narcissistic personality, bipolar disorder, or bpd, and you are lost on what you should do, how to handle the situation, and how to constructively navigate the relationship?
(631) 528-2854 View (631) 528-2854
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D. Vaillancourt - Psychotherapist- Life Coach
MA
Verified Verified
Amityville, NY 11701
I have specialized in treating patients with history of trauma . I provide psychotherapy and coaching to victims of narcissistic abuse. I have intensive experience to identify and coach you to thrive during and after; smear campaigns, blame shifting, gas-lighting, PTSD, victim playing, projecting and other tactics used by character disordered people. I work with people who have been harmed by the people who they believed they could trust. I understand the depth of pain caused by Narcissistic Abuse. I also has many years of experience with victims of sexual/physical abuse and neglect.
I have specialized in treating patients with history of trauma . I provide psychotherapy and coaching to victims of narcissistic abuse. I have intensive experience to identify and coach you to thrive during and after; smear campaigns, blame shifting, gas-lighting, PTSD, victim playing, projecting and other tactics used by character disordered people. I work with people who have been harmed by the people who they believed they could trust. I understand the depth of pain caused by Narcissistic Abuse. I also has many years of experience with victims of sexual/physical abuse and neglect.
(631) 201-1166 View (631) 201-1166
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Karen Arluck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050  (Online Only)
My specialties include: personality disorders (specifically narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder), anxiety disorders, eating disorders (including emotional eating and binge eating/food addiction), improving relationships and other interpersonal issues, self-esteem, and others.
My approach is warm, empathic, and creative, and I utilize a collaborative therapeutic process informed by Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gestalt, and Masterson's psychotherapy theories. There are many reasons to come to therapy, and usually a person begins because something is bothering them, and they may be feeling "stuck". In therapy, you can work towards feeling better, improving the areas you are struggling in, and addressing the life obstacles that you may be facing. I believe each person brings their unique strengths to the process as well as issues they would like to resolve.
My specialties include: personality disorders (specifically narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder), anxiety disorders, eating disorders (including emotional eating and binge eating/food addiction), improving relationships and other interpersonal issues, self-esteem, and others.
My approach is warm, empathic, and creative, and I utilize a collaborative therapeutic process informed by Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gestalt, and Masterson's psychotherapy theories. There are many reasons to come to therapy, and usually a person begins because something is bothering them, and they may be feeling "stuck". In therapy, you can work towards feeling better, improving the areas you are struggling in, and addressing the life obstacles that you may be facing. I believe each person brings their unique strengths to the process as well as issues they would like to resolve.
(347) 682-2790 View (347) 682-2790
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Shannon Brock
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWR
Verified Verified
Fort Edward, NY 12828
I specialize in the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, life transitions, parenting challenges, relationship issues, and recovery from narcissistic abuse. I utilize an eclectic, compassionate approach, with a strong focus on holistic, somatic, strengths-based therapy modalities. As a breast cancer survivor, I understand and empathize with other women who have experienced breast cancer. I own and operate Adirondack Equine Assisted Psychotherapy, LCSW, where my colleagues and I offer both in-person and remote therapy options to adults and children.
I specialize in the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, life transitions, parenting challenges, relationship issues, and recovery from narcissistic abuse. I utilize an eclectic, compassionate approach, with a strong focus on holistic, somatic, strengths-based therapy modalities. As a breast cancer survivor, I understand and empathize with other women who have experienced breast cancer. I own and operate Adirondack Equine Assisted Psychotherapy, LCSW, where my colleagues and I offer both in-person and remote therapy options to adults and children.
(518) 302-2266 View (518) 302-2266
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Kristine Danback
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10024
I am a therapist, a divorce coach and divorce mediator focusing on narcissistic abuse/high conflict divorce/custody battles.
KRISTINEDANBACKPHD.COM I am the owner of Random Thoughts Psychological Therapy. A clinical psychologist/therapist in NY-CT, divorce coach/mediator, expert witness, and offer co-parenting, focusing on high conflict divorces/relationships. Our work will strengthen your resilience, ability to cope and adjust. Areas of focus are: narcissistic abuse, parenting, betrayal & loss. Psychotherapy allows for gaining awareness of how your history, biology, and emotions came together to create who you are, as well as, learning how to regulate your emotions, to have a healthier and more fulfilling life, work and love.
I am a therapist, a divorce coach and divorce mediator focusing on narcissistic abuse/high conflict divorce/custody battles.
KRISTINEDANBACKPHD.COM I am the owner of Random Thoughts Psychological Therapy. A clinical psychologist/therapist in NY-CT, divorce coach/mediator, expert witness, and offer co-parenting, focusing on high conflict divorces/relationships. Our work will strengthen your resilience, ability to cope and adjust. Areas of focus are: narcissistic abuse, parenting, betrayal & loss. Psychotherapy allows for gaining awareness of how your history, biology, and emotions came together to create who you are, as well as, learning how to regulate your emotions, to have a healthier and more fulfilling life, work and love.
(203) 884-0487 View (203) 884-0487
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Tammy Kling Lcsw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
East Amherst, NY 14051
If you have encountered trauma, particularly in the areas of narcissistic abuse or adoption related trauma or general concerns, I encourage you to reach out.
Welcome! My name is Tammy Kling LCSW, founder of Clear Skies Counseling. Are you struggling in your relationship? Feeling depressed, anxious or confused? Have you suffered abuse in your relationship or family/friends/work relationships? Confusion you might feel could possibly be the result of narcissistic abuse. Narcissistic abuse can have delegating effects on your life. It can leave you feeling depleted and broken. Together we can find clarity and learn ways to overcome and heal.
If you have encountered trauma, particularly in the areas of narcissistic abuse or adoption related trauma or general concerns, I encourage you to reach out.
Welcome! My name is Tammy Kling LCSW, founder of Clear Skies Counseling. Are you struggling in your relationship? Feeling depressed, anxious or confused? Have you suffered abuse in your relationship or family/friends/work relationships? Confusion you might feel could possibly be the result of narcissistic abuse. Narcissistic abuse can have delegating effects on your life. It can leave you feeling depleted and broken. Together we can find clarity and learn ways to overcome and heal.
(716) 356-3328 View (716) 356-3328
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Ami B. Kaplan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215
Specialties: Difficult or narcissistic parents, Gender Variance/Transgender issues, Relationships, Assertion. I help people feel more comfortable with their own agenda, deal with difficult individuals and change entrenched roles in relationships.
Specialties: Difficult or narcissistic parents, Gender Variance/Transgender issues, Relationships, Assertion. I help people feel more comfortable with their own agenda, deal with difficult individuals and change entrenched roles in relationships.
(646) 583-1185 View (646) 583-1185
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Dr. Pam Wasserman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hicksville, NY 11801
With over 27 years of clinical experience, I can provide quality treatment to address many presenting issues such as: narcissistic personality, marriage and family matters, parenting, and special education concerns.
I am culturally aware and sensitive to the unique backgrounds, customs, and worldviews of my clients. I am a compassionate therapist who appreciates working side by side with my clients on their therapeutic journey. I utilize a multimodal approach to treatment as I recognize that there is no one approach that applies to all situations. Through building a solid rapport and forming a strong treatment alliance with my clients, I work to help my clients learn healthy and adaptive coping skills, increase awareness, and experience greater joy and meaning in their lives.
With over 27 years of clinical experience, I can provide quality treatment to address many presenting issues such as: narcissistic personality, marriage and family matters, parenting, and special education concerns.
I am culturally aware and sensitive to the unique backgrounds, customs, and worldviews of my clients. I am a compassionate therapist who appreciates working side by side with my clients on their therapeutic journey. I utilize a multimodal approach to treatment as I recognize that there is no one approach that applies to all situations. Through building a solid rapport and forming a strong treatment alliance with my clients, I work to help my clients learn healthy and adaptive coping skills, increase awareness, and experience greater joy and meaning in their lives.
(516) 830-4508 View (516) 830-4508
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Melissa Croy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10003  (Online Only)
I have extensive training and experience working with active duty military, veterans, performing artists, LGBQTIA+, and minority populations. My clinical focus includes those living with ADHD/ADD, survivors of childhood/adult trauma and abuse (particularly survivors of abuse from those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder/high-conflict personalities), creative/performing artists, active duty military, and veterans. I utilize an eclectic, holistic, trauma-informed, strengths-based, solution-focused approach.
I have extensive training and experience working with active duty military, veterans, performing artists, LGBQTIA+, and minority populations. My clinical focus includes those living with ADHD/ADD, survivors of childhood/adult trauma and abuse (particularly survivors of abuse from those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder/high-conflict personalities), creative/performing artists, active duty military, and veterans. I utilize an eclectic, holistic, trauma-informed, strengths-based, solution-focused approach.
(646) 907-6153 View (646) 907-6153
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Andrea Wainer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW-R, R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
Waitlist for new clients
Andrea Wainer is an expert in narcissistic and psychopathic abuse. She provides support and coaching to victims of narcissistic abuse. She has worked and lived abroad (New York, Hong Kong, London, Singapore and Tokyo) with people divorcing narcissists. Andrea researches, trains, supervises, and opines in judicial process involving character disordered individuals. She is equipped to identify and coach you to thrive during and after; smear campaigns, blame shifting, gas-lighting, PTSD, forum shopping, victim playing, projecting and other tactics used by character disordered people. She is an expert at identifying red flags.
Andrea Wainer is an expert in narcissistic and psychopathic abuse. She provides support and coaching to victims of narcissistic abuse. She has worked and lived abroad (New York, Hong Kong, London, Singapore and Tokyo) with people divorcing narcissists. Andrea researches, trains, supervises, and opines in judicial process involving character disordered individuals. She is equipped to identify and coach you to thrive during and after; smear campaigns, blame shifting, gas-lighting, PTSD, forum shopping, victim playing, projecting and other tactics used by character disordered people. She is an expert at identifying red flags.
(914) 331-8079 View (914) 331-8079
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Anne Pestano
Counselor, LMHC, LMSW, MHIMP
Verified Verified
Floral Park, NY 11001
Solution-Focused & Non-Judgmental. Strengthening Relationships with personalized approach. Expertise in Relationships with Narcissistic partners. Find clarity, resolution and relief through validation and guidance. It takes courage to seek support, and not allow fear to impact quality of life. Support to Individuals & Couples seeking Deeper Connection, Guidance on how to manage Controlling Relationships, Narcissistic Abuse-Recovery, Separation, Divorce, Child Custody, Self-Worth, HSPs - Highly Sensitive Person & Trauma Recovery. Self-Care supports wellbeing. Let's work together to find the confident authentic you!
Solution-Focused & Non-Judgmental. Strengthening Relationships with personalized approach. Expertise in Relationships with Narcissistic partners. Find clarity, resolution and relief through validation and guidance. It takes courage to seek support, and not allow fear to impact quality of life. Support to Individuals & Couples seeking Deeper Connection, Guidance on how to manage Controlling Relationships, Narcissistic Abuse-Recovery, Separation, Divorce, Child Custody, Self-Worth, HSPs - Highly Sensitive Person & Trauma Recovery. Self-Care supports wellbeing. Let's work together to find the confident authentic you!
(917) 639-5524 View (917) 639-5524
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Jessica Knight
MA, CPCC, NICC
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10023  (Online Only)
It's okay if you need healing and a way forward and have no idea of where to start. Maybe you’ve tried individual or couples therapy but it’s been more harmful than helpful because your therapist didn’t understand emotional abuse and toxic relationship dynamics. Applying tools intended for two healthy people doesn’t work when there’s a Narcissist and/or abuse present in the relationship. Working with someone who understands patterns of abuse can help you make the right decision for yourself. I am trained in Narcissistic Abuse and High Conflict Divorce Coaching. - I also work with Millennial Women on life transitions (website below)
It's okay if you need healing and a way forward and have no idea of where to start. Maybe you’ve tried individual or couples therapy but it’s been more harmful than helpful because your therapist didn’t understand emotional abuse and toxic relationship dynamics. Applying tools intended for two healthy people doesn’t work when there’s a Narcissist and/or abuse present in the relationship. Working with someone who understands patterns of abuse can help you make the right decision for yourself. I am trained in Narcissistic Abuse and High Conflict Divorce Coaching. - I also work with Millennial Women on life transitions (website below)
(508) 484-8230 View (508) 484-8230
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Vanessa Reiser Narcissism Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10177
Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse, whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. Her team specializes in working with individuals and couples focusing on the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s every day challenges. Go to tellatherapist.net or Insta: vanessareiserlcsw TikTok:vanessareiser
Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse, whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. Her team specializes in working with individuals and couples focusing on the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s every day challenges. Go to tellatherapist.net or Insta: vanessareiserlcsw TikTok:vanessareiser
(732) 307-9559 View (732) 307-9559
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Mark Ettensohn
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
New York, NY 10005  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in treating vulnerable narcissistic issues that involve low self-esteem, illness anxiety, depressive thoughts and feelings, emotional conflict, self-defeating behaviors, anxiety, alienation, and difficulties with trust.
I specialize in treating vulnerable narcissistic issues that involve low self-esteem, illness anxiety, depressive thoughts and feelings, emotional conflict, self-defeating behaviors, anxiety, alienation, and difficulties with trust.
(916) 438-9012 View (916) 438-9012
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Gila Brown
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Rhinebeck, NY 12572  (Online Only)
You hide it well. You dress the part. You focus on other people so they won't focus on you. You do well professionally and it distracts you from how deeply alone you feel. Often if seems easier to pretend that you're OK, but deep down... you hope for something more. I specialize in psychoanalytic psychotherapy with adults who struggle with shame, depression, suicidality, divorce, anger, anxiety, isolation, or estrangment from family members. I also specialize in working with friends and family members of narcissistic personalities.
You hide it well. You dress the part. You focus on other people so they won't focus on you. You do well professionally and it distracts you from how deeply alone you feel. Often if seems easier to pretend that you're OK, but deep down... you hope for something more. I specialize in psychoanalytic psychotherapy with adults who struggle with shame, depression, suicidality, divorce, anger, anxiety, isolation, or estrangment from family members. I also specialize in working with friends and family members of narcissistic personalities.
(310) 626-4427 View (310) 626-4427
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Betrayal, Sex/Porn Addiction, Narcissistic Abuse
Debbie, Allen
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10036  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with betrayal trauma, sex addiction, porn addiction, infidelity, relationship issues, narcissistic abuse, isolation, self esteem, anxiety or other feelings. You may not even know what brings you here, just a feeling of being stuck or that life is missing meaning or purpose. I provide a safe space to explore your thoughts that may be difficult to talk about with family & friends. My approach is non-judgmental, supportive & compassionate. My experience, education & training has been invaluable while helping clients achieve long term & resilient change. You no longer have to be alone. I offer a free meet & greet.
Are you struggling with betrayal trauma, sex addiction, porn addiction, infidelity, relationship issues, narcissistic abuse, isolation, self esteem, anxiety or other feelings. You may not even know what brings you here, just a feeling of being stuck or that life is missing meaning or purpose. I provide a safe space to explore your thoughts that may be difficult to talk about with family & friends. My approach is non-judgmental, supportive & compassionate. My experience, education & training has been invaluable while helping clients achieve long term & resilient change. You no longer have to be alone. I offer a free meet & greet.
(804) 251-3198 View (804) 251-3198
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Erin Alvarez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Yorktown Heights, NY 10598  (Online Only)
I also am passionate about working with adults affected by parental narcissistic abuse.
I am a seasoned clinical social worker interested in helping you become the best version of yourself. Challenging relationships, stressful work environments, difficult life transitions and internalized messages about ourselves can all derail us, creating misalignment between who we are and who we want to be. I hope to help you gain clarity on what your best life might look like, and guide you in removing obstacles so that your vision becomes, little by little, your reality.
I also am passionate about working with adults affected by parental narcissistic abuse.
I am a seasoned clinical social worker interested in helping you become the best version of yourself. Challenging relationships, stressful work environments, difficult life transitions and internalized messages about ourselves can all derail us, creating misalignment between who we are and who we want to be. I hope to help you gain clarity on what your best life might look like, and guide you in removing obstacles so that your vision becomes, little by little, your reality.
(914) 483-5896 View (914) 483-5896
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Dr. Erin Falconer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSc, LMSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10014
I take a thoughtful and caring approach to working together. The therapy is collaborative, and I aim to create a safe space to help you process trauma and address issues related to relationships, abuse, chronic illness, life and career concerns, identity, and creative expression. I also specialize in helping people recover from narcissistic abuse, religious trauma, and coercive control, including survivors of cultic abuse and high-demand groups.
I take a thoughtful and caring approach to working together. The therapy is collaborative, and I aim to create a safe space to help you process trauma and address issues related to relationships, abuse, chronic illness, life and career concerns, identity, and creative expression. I also specialize in helping people recover from narcissistic abuse, religious trauma, and coercive control, including survivors of cultic abuse and high-demand groups.
(718) 550-7685 View (718) 550-7685
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Susan Varney
Licensed Psychoanalyst, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14207  (Online Only)
I can help you to understand and overcome the conflicts in your personal and professional relationships, especially those pertaining to the management of narcissistic personalities.
Choosing the right therapist is critical to the success of your treatment, but it can be a daunting task. I understand and welcome you to call for a consultation before making a decision. Good treatment depends on a strong relationship founded on trust and respect and it is important that you feel at ease with whomever you work. I encourage an open and friendly rapport in the therapeutic relationship, appreciate its potential to alleviate stress, self-doubt, and anxiety, and hope to share with you its capacity to effect change both within yourself and in your relationships with others.
I can help you to understand and overcome the conflicts in your personal and professional relationships, especially those pertaining to the management of narcissistic personalities.
Choosing the right therapist is critical to the success of your treatment, but it can be a daunting task. I understand and welcome you to call for a consultation before making a decision. Good treatment depends on a strong relationship founded on trust and respect and it is important that you feel at ease with whomever you work. I encourage an open and friendly rapport in the therapeutic relationship, appreciate its potential to alleviate stress, self-doubt, and anxiety, and hope to share with you its capacity to effect change both within yourself and in your relationships with others.
(716) 608-3378 View (716) 608-3378
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Steven John Phillipson
Psychologist, MA, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
Beyond my work with anxiety disordered persons, i also have an expertise in treating, couples, sexual dysfunctions, depression, borderline, perfectionistic, and narcissistic personality.
Our initial meeting will involve getting to be familiar with one another. Meeting a qualified expert whom you experience comfort and confidence with is essential to the beginning of a successful therapeutic experience. My expertise in psychology involves utilizing the state of the art treatment for a wide array of conditions. I am trained in utilizing behavioral and cognitive techniques. In addition I apply methods of mindfulness and acceptance based approaches.
Beyond my work with anxiety disordered persons, i also have an expertise in treating, couples, sexual dysfunctions, depression, borderline, perfectionistic, and narcissistic personality.
Our initial meeting will involve getting to be familiar with one another. Meeting a qualified expert whom you experience comfort and confidence with is essential to the beginning of a successful therapeutic experience. My expertise in psychology involves utilizing the state of the art treatment for a wide array of conditions. I am trained in utilizing behavioral and cognitive techniques. In addition I apply methods of mindfulness and acceptance based approaches.
(646) 906-9738 x203 View (646) 906-9738 x203
Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists

What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?

By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?

Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?

It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.