Infidelity Therapists in California

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Tammie Makely
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Granite Bay, CA 95746  (Online Only)
Feeling overwhelmed in your relationship? Struggling to connect with your partner or to move past hurt and resentment? You're not alone. Many couples face insurmountable challenges, but there is hope and a way forward. As a specialist in couples therapy and marriage counseling, I'm dedicated to helping couples navigate the complexities of their relationships, rebuild trust, and deepen their connection. My expertise lies in guiding couples through the healing process, particularly after the pain of infidelity, using the Gottman Method — a research-based approach known for its effectiveness in improving marital satisfaction.
Feeling overwhelmed in your relationship? Struggling to connect with your partner or to move past hurt and resentment? You're not alone. Many couples face insurmountable challenges, but there is hope and a way forward. As a specialist in couples therapy and marriage counseling, I'm dedicated to helping couples navigate the complexities of their relationships, rebuild trust, and deepen their connection. My expertise lies in guiding couples through the healing process, particularly after the pain of infidelity, using the Gottman Method — a research-based approach known for its effectiveness in improving marital satisfaction.
(949) 694-2947 View (949) 694-2947
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Triva Ponder
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Santa Monica, CA 90405
Looking for meaningful change in your relationship? Ready to tackle everyday struggles that turn into BIG struggles? I'm here to guide you. As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I specialize in treating couples, offering a premium service based on the scientifically-proven Gottman Method. I help couples overcome betrayal and rebuild trust, improve communication through skill building, create emotional connection and navigate small and big issues that crack the foundation of their relationship.
Looking for meaningful change in your relationship? Ready to tackle everyday struggles that turn into BIG struggles? I'm here to guide you. As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I specialize in treating couples, offering a premium service based on the scientifically-proven Gottman Method. I help couples overcome betrayal and rebuild trust, improve communication through skill building, create emotional connection and navigate small and big issues that crack the foundation of their relationship.
(424) 452-2583 View (424) 452-2583
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Abby Loyola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MS
Verified Verified
Roseville, CA 95661  (Online Only)
Infidelity leaves us feeling hopeless, defeated, and angry. Maybe you’re someone who has always said infidelity is a “dealbreaker” but now find yourself facing this with your partner, hoping it isn’t actually the dealbreaker you’ve always known it to be. You may be experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, or searching for solutions after an affair that has left you feeling hopeless and out of control. But you’re ready to move forward. You’re ready to take one step forward, toward healing. Most of all, you’re ready to be on the other side of this seemingly insurmountable hill, I want to help you get there.
Infidelity leaves us feeling hopeless, defeated, and angry. Maybe you’re someone who has always said infidelity is a “dealbreaker” but now find yourself facing this with your partner, hoping it isn’t actually the dealbreaker you’ve always known it to be. You may be experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, or searching for solutions after an affair that has left you feeling hopeless and out of control. But you’re ready to move forward. You’re ready to take one step forward, toward healing. Most of all, you’re ready to be on the other side of this seemingly insurmountable hill, I want to help you get there.
(916) 545-8733 View (916) 545-8733
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Tigran Vardanyan
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, 128889
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Pasadena, CA 91101
With over a decade of experience in the field I specialize in trauma therapy, anxiety, depression, and couples struggling to rebuild trust after infidelity.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, and feeling that you've lost yourself? Have you experienced trauma and PTSD? Struggling with intimacy, a difficult divorce or separation, infidelity or lack of trust? You don't need to navigate through these challenges alone! We know that these experiences are difficult to process or overcome, and may make you feel isolated, hopeless, or misunderstood. I can heIp you! We can uncover those unconscious patterns and thoughts and process those painful emotions that take over your life and relationships, and hold you back from living a fulfilling life.
With over a decade of experience in the field I specialize in trauma therapy, anxiety, depression, and couples struggling to rebuild trust after infidelity.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, and feeling that you've lost yourself? Have you experienced trauma and PTSD? Struggling with intimacy, a difficult divorce or separation, infidelity or lack of trust? You don't need to navigate through these challenges alone! We know that these experiences are difficult to process or overcome, and may make you feel isolated, hopeless, or misunderstood. I can heIp you! We can uncover those unconscious patterns and thoughts and process those painful emotions that take over your life and relationships, and hold you back from living a fulfilling life.
(323) 870-1042 View (323) 870-1042
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Naomi Zelin
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redondo Beach, CA 90277  (Online Only)
I am experienced in working with relationship issues, infidelity, sex-related issues, and trauma.
Are you feeling trapped in the same unhealthy relationship patterns? Do you long for meaningful connections? Are you dissatisfied with your sex life but not sure what to do? Imagine finally breaking free from your unhealthy cycles, feeling empowered and confident in your ability to communicate effectively and build genuine connections. Picture yourself experiencing a profound sense of fulfillment and satisfaction in your sex life and relationships, knowing that you have the tools to navigate challenges with grace and resilience. This isn't a far-off fantasy. With the right tools and support it can be your reality.
I am experienced in working with relationship issues, infidelity, sex-related issues, and trauma.
Are you feeling trapped in the same unhealthy relationship patterns? Do you long for meaningful connections? Are you dissatisfied with your sex life but not sure what to do? Imagine finally breaking free from your unhealthy cycles, feeling empowered and confident in your ability to communicate effectively and build genuine connections. Picture yourself experiencing a profound sense of fulfillment and satisfaction in your sex life and relationships, knowing that you have the tools to navigate challenges with grace and resilience. This isn't a far-off fantasy. With the right tools and support it can be your reality.
(310) 455-8161 View (310) 455-8161
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Minnie Shukla
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Saratoga, CA 95070
My areas of interest include: Life transitions, grief, multi-cultural adjustment, work/life balance, meaning of life, emotional/physical abuse, couples issues, infidelity, parenting issues, anxiety, low self-esteem, and more.
The most difficult and painful circumstances in our lives can also serve as an opportunity to look at what needs our attention! Very often, we give our POWER away to people and situations in our life, causing us to feel victimized and stuck. Your current challenges can be a gateway towards self empowerment! you do not need to walk this path alone. In a safe space, we can begin the process of uncovering and healing the pain which may be keeping you paralyzed! It is possible to regain trust and confidence, in order to invite joy back into your life, get you power back and enjoy waking up each day !
My areas of interest include: Life transitions, grief, multi-cultural adjustment, work/life balance, meaning of life, emotional/physical abuse, couples issues, infidelity, parenting issues, anxiety, low self-esteem, and more.
The most difficult and painful circumstances in our lives can also serve as an opportunity to look at what needs our attention! Very often, we give our POWER away to people and situations in our life, causing us to feel victimized and stuck. Your current challenges can be a gateway towards self empowerment! you do not need to walk this path alone. In a safe space, we can begin the process of uncovering and healing the pain which may be keeping you paralyzed! It is possible to regain trust and confidence, in order to invite joy back into your life, get you power back and enjoy waking up each day !
(408) 850-4338 View (408) 850-4338
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(858) 221-9423 View (858) 221-9423
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Dr. Alicia Tolerico
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Murrieta, CA 92563  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with women who have experienced betrayal trauma by their partner, complex trauma, religious/cult trauma, relationship issues, and who have been coping with life in an unhealthy way. My goal is to help you start experiencing growth, empowered healing, and living your authentic life. Through the therapeutic process you can begin to embody self-love and self-acceptance.
I specialize in working with women who have experienced betrayal trauma by their partner, complex trauma, religious/cult trauma, relationship issues, and who have been coping with life in an unhealthy way. My goal is to help you start experiencing growth, empowered healing, and living your authentic life. Through the therapeutic process you can begin to embody self-love and self-acceptance.
(951) 421-1984 View (951) 421-1984
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Janet Agosti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Claremont, CA 91711  (Online Only)
Are you asking yourself, 'Should I stay or should I go?' You never thought you'd be where you are today, wondering if your relationship will survive. You once loved your partner, but now you're not so sure. Every now and then, the two of you feel connected but, then, something happens ... and a wave of disappointment knocks to you the ground. You may even suspect infidelity. What if your marriage never improves? Are you afraid of never having a satisfying relationship? Confusion and disbelief are normal when problems in a relationship become too big to handle.
Are you asking yourself, 'Should I stay or should I go?' You never thought you'd be where you are today, wondering if your relationship will survive. You once loved your partner, but now you're not so sure. Every now and then, the two of you feel connected but, then, something happens ... and a wave of disappointment knocks to you the ground. You may even suspect infidelity. What if your marriage never improves? Are you afraid of never having a satisfying relationship? Confusion and disbelief are normal when problems in a relationship become too big to handle.
(909) 941-0781 View (909) 941-0781
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Ed Segawa
Counselor, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Yorba Linda, CA 92886
Award winning counselor specializing in couples counseling and affair recovery. Recognized by the U.S. Congress, CA State Senate and County of LA for outstanding and dedicated service to his clients. People often say their results with him are the best they've ever experienced. He has a proven track record of successfully helping couples and individuals who struggle with depression and anxiety. His work with affairs of various kinds is groundbreaking.
Award winning counselor specializing in couples counseling and affair recovery. Recognized by the U.S. Congress, CA State Senate and County of LA for outstanding and dedicated service to his clients. People often say their results with him are the best they've ever experienced. He has a proven track record of successfully helping couples and individuals who struggle with depression and anxiety. His work with affairs of various kinds is groundbreaking.
(714) 489-5965 View (714) 489-5965
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Verified Verified
Beverly Hills, CA 90210
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(310) 742-9232 View (310) 742-9232
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Integrity Counseling Group
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
Are you tired of repeating the same cycle, whether it’s addiction, depression, anxiety, or infidelity? Our skilled and compassionate therapists are here to help you finally break free, so you can live fully and joyfully.
Are you tired of repeating the same cycle, whether it’s addiction, depression, anxiety, or infidelity? Our skilled and compassionate therapists are here to help you finally break free, so you can live fully and joyfully.
(619) 378-3988 View (619) 378-3988
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Eliza Nielsen Monteverdi
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CPTT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
With my masters in marriage and family therapy and certification in betrayal trauma recovery, I have gained the tools and clinical experience to help you get the place you want to be with yourself and in your relationship.
Do you struggle with feeling anxious, confused or depressed and it's affecting your day to day life, your relationship, or ability to feel like yourself? Do you feel disconnected and resentful about the standards, expectations, and pressures life throws on you? Do you wonder if your self worth and relationship could be better? Now more than ever people are feeling overwhelmed about it looks like to love yourself first and work through past hurts. I mean we hear about it, but therapy with me puts it into action.
With my masters in marriage and family therapy and certification in betrayal trauma recovery, I have gained the tools and clinical experience to help you get the place you want to be with yourself and in your relationship.
Do you struggle with feeling anxious, confused or depressed and it's affecting your day to day life, your relationship, or ability to feel like yourself? Do you feel disconnected and resentful about the standards, expectations, and pressures life throws on you? Do you wonder if your self worth and relationship could be better? Now more than ever people are feeling overwhelmed about it looks like to love yourself first and work through past hurts. I mean we hear about it, but therapy with me puts it into action.
(818) 350-5747 View (818) 350-5747
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Dr. Edward Ramos
Pastoral Counselor, LCMFC, RBT, MBT, BAC, ACM
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942  (Online Only)
My specialties are counseling in the areas of Marriage and family relationship conflict, Infidelity & pre-marital.
Are you feeling sad? distressed? overwhelmed? hurt ? betrayed? You are not alone. Let me help you. It takes courage to reach out for help and you are brave for taking this courageous step. It's certainly not easy, but there is hope. Lets go together to God to find love & healing. True healing begins when the pain is addressed where you can start your healing process. I bring a compassionate, collaborative, non-judgmental, strength based approach to marriage and family counseling to restore your relationships. As a Christian Counselor I utilize the Bible, prayer, effective curriculum, personal and professional experience to help you.
My specialties are counseling in the areas of Marriage and family relationship conflict, Infidelity & pre-marital.
Are you feeling sad? distressed? overwhelmed? hurt ? betrayed? You are not alone. Let me help you. It takes courage to reach out for help and you are brave for taking this courageous step. It's certainly not easy, but there is hope. Lets go together to God to find love & healing. True healing begins when the pain is addressed where you can start your healing process. I bring a compassionate, collaborative, non-judgmental, strength based approach to marriage and family counseling to restore your relationships. As a Christian Counselor I utilize the Bible, prayer, effective curriculum, personal and professional experience to help you.
(619) 505-3686 View (619) 505-3686
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Scott D Altamirano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94103  (Online Only)
Accepting clients May 2024. I help couples work their way through crisis events by helping them find their feet amist the chaos. My role is to help couples have difficult conversations. With my background is in probation/parole therapy, I bring strong elements of fairness, repair, and rehabilitation to couples who have faced injuries. Some topics I have strong experience in are: infidelity, bisexuality, addiction, codependency, anger management, emotional availability, parenting approach, and lack of sexual intimacy.
Accepting clients May 2024. I help couples work their way through crisis events by helping them find their feet amist the chaos. My role is to help couples have difficult conversations. With my background is in probation/parole therapy, I bring strong elements of fairness, repair, and rehabilitation to couples who have faced injuries. Some topics I have strong experience in are: infidelity, bisexuality, addiction, codependency, anger management, emotional availability, parenting approach, and lack of sexual intimacy.
(972) 945-7714 View (972) 945-7714
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Verified Verified
Orange, CA 92868
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(714) 477-7385 View (714) 477-7385
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Lily Habte
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Laguna Niguel, CA 92677
Do you feel lonely in your relationship? Are you tired of the same arguments? Does everything feel difficult? Working from home has increased these challenges for many couples. My expertise is working with couples who are struggling with communication, addiction, and infidelity. An unhealthy dynamic in a relationship affects your self esteem, outlook, motivation, and happiness. I help my clients learn and adopt effective tools that they can implement and practice in their everyday life. You don't have to do it alone. Call, let's talk.
Do you feel lonely in your relationship? Are you tired of the same arguments? Does everything feel difficult? Working from home has increased these challenges for many couples. My expertise is working with couples who are struggling with communication, addiction, and infidelity. An unhealthy dynamic in a relationship affects your self esteem, outlook, motivation, and happiness. I help my clients learn and adopt effective tools that they can implement and practice in their everyday life. You don't have to do it alone. Call, let's talk.
(949) 407-5701 View (949) 407-5701
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Verified Verified
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(714) 735-0379 View (714) 735-0379
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Verified Verified
Mission Viejo, CA 92691
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(949) 666-4101 View (949) 666-4101
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Infidelity; Betrayal Trauma; Rebuild Trust
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CPD-TS
Verified Verified
Roseville, CA 95678  (Online Only)
BRINK OF BREAKUP OR DIVORCE; INFIDELITY; PARTNER BETRAYAL; DECEPTION, LIES, SECRECY; NARCISSIST TRAITS; CODEPENDENCY; TOXIC LOVE ATTACHMENT: Can you bounce back and heal from partner infidelity or betrayal? Can you feel better and rebuild trust again? Can your relationship or marriage become stronger and more connected after the devastating discovery of infidelity and betrayal? ABSOLUTELY! Majority of relationships not only survive infidelity, but many relationships & marriages can become stronger and more intimate after undergoing infidelity couples counseling/coaching process with a competent couples therapist/counselor/coach.
BRINK OF BREAKUP OR DIVORCE; INFIDELITY; PARTNER BETRAYAL; DECEPTION, LIES, SECRECY; NARCISSIST TRAITS; CODEPENDENCY; TOXIC LOVE ATTACHMENT: Can you bounce back and heal from partner infidelity or betrayal? Can you feel better and rebuild trust again? Can your relationship or marriage become stronger and more connected after the devastating discovery of infidelity and betrayal? ABSOLUTELY! Majority of relationships not only survive infidelity, but many relationships & marriages can become stronger and more intimate after undergoing infidelity couples counseling/coaching process with a competent couples therapist/counselor/coach.
(424) 532-7724 View (424) 532-7724
Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.