Therapists in La Mesa, CA

Are you feeling sad? distressed? overwhelmed? hurt ? betrayed? You are not alone. Let me help you. It takes courage to reach out for help and you are brave for taking this courageous step. It's certainly not easy, but there is hope. Lets go together to God to find love & healing. True healing begins when the pain is addressed where you can start your healing process. I bring a compassionate, collaborative, non-judgmental, strength based approach to marriage and family counseling to restore your relationships. As a Christian Counselor I utilize the Bible, prayer, effective curriculum, personal and professional experience to help you.
Are you feeling sad? distressed? overwhelmed? hurt ? betrayed? You are not alone. Let me help you. It takes courage to reach out for help and you are brave for taking this courageous step. It's certainly not easy, but there is hope. Lets go together to God to find love & healing. True healing begins when the pain is addressed where you can start your healing process. I bring a compassionate, collaborative, non-judgmental, strength based approach to marriage and family counseling to restore your relationships. As a Christian Counselor I utilize the Bible, prayer, effective curriculum, personal and professional experience to help you.

Burdened by the weight of childhood trauma or any other can feel isolating, overwhelming, and exhausting as it continually holds you back from feeling safe and whole. It’s not uncommon to feel trapped by old memories and to experience waves of distress in your body even when you’re far removed from the experiences. These scars can disrupt your ability to function as you navigate adulthood. Working with me, using the ITR Method, we will gently unravel the hold these traumas have on your life to find clarity so you can release these painful feelings that have stayed with you for so long. Relieving the burden of trauma is possible.
Burdened by the weight of childhood trauma or any other can feel isolating, overwhelming, and exhausting as it continually holds you back from feeling safe and whole. It’s not uncommon to feel trapped by old memories and to experience waves of distress in your body even when you’re far removed from the experiences. These scars can disrupt your ability to function as you navigate adulthood. Working with me, using the ITR Method, we will gently unravel the hold these traumas have on your life to find clarity so you can release these painful feelings that have stayed with you for so long. Relieving the burden of trauma is possible.

I've been working with a diverse population across various roles in the helping profession for approximately 30 years. I value authentic human relationships and have considerable levels of compassion and empathy gained from experience and personal trials. While I draw from many types of psychological theory, I particularly like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive/Behavioral, and Transpersonal. I create a safe space by valuing clients unconditionally and by guiding them toward improved awareness, self-talk, and self-compassion.
I've been working with a diverse population across various roles in the helping profession for approximately 30 years. I value authentic human relationships and have considerable levels of compassion and empathy gained from experience and personal trials. While I draw from many types of psychological theory, I particularly like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive/Behavioral, and Transpersonal. I create a safe space by valuing clients unconditionally and by guiding them toward improved awareness, self-talk, and self-compassion.

Welcome! My name is Kelly Fait and I am Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor who specializes in women's mental health. I work with adult women ages 25+ who have been diagnosed with ADHD and/or experience a variety of challenges such as Anxiety, Grief, Relationship Stres, Women's Health issues, and Life Transitions. I take a holistic, person-centered approach to help my clients explore their unique situations. We will collaboratively create goals based on your personal values and preferences, so that you can begin to live a life that is more aligned with who you are, and not who others expect you to be.
Welcome! My name is Kelly Fait and I am Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor who specializes in women's mental health. I work with adult women ages 25+ who have been diagnosed with ADHD and/or experience a variety of challenges such as Anxiety, Grief, Relationship Stres, Women's Health issues, and Life Transitions. I take a holistic, person-centered approach to help my clients explore their unique situations. We will collaboratively create goals based on your personal values and preferences, so that you can begin to live a life that is more aligned with who you are, and not who others expect you to be.

I enjoy helping others reach their full potential by gaining courage and confidence while learning ways to overcome the obstacles life can bring. Such as a loss of a loved one whether unexpectedly or naturally, issues with marriage or family relationships, divorce, health changes or addictions. My goal is to support my clients through a difficult time, help them to have hope, and tap into their inner resilience. I have experience with complicated grief. My heart is to walk along side those that have been affected by violent or unexpected death during an unbearable time, supporting them toward healing.
I enjoy helping others reach their full potential by gaining courage and confidence while learning ways to overcome the obstacles life can bring. Such as a loss of a loved one whether unexpectedly or naturally, issues with marriage or family relationships, divorce, health changes or addictions. My goal is to support my clients through a difficult time, help them to have hope, and tap into their inner resilience. I have experience with complicated grief. My heart is to walk along side those that have been affected by violent or unexpected death during an unbearable time, supporting them toward healing.

Hello, I'm Matthew, a registered Associate MFT who is dedicated and compassionate, and believes in the powerful impact of connection and understanding. I strive to create a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment. I have vast experience with different client challenges such as anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, and different personality disorders.
Hello, I'm Matthew, a registered Associate MFT who is dedicated and compassionate, and believes in the powerful impact of connection and understanding. I strive to create a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment. I have vast experience with different client challenges such as anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, and different personality disorders.

My passion is to empower those that have not found their potential. We all have our own stories and experiences which makes us perfect candidates for success when we have the right support. Whether you have lived it, experienced it or witnessed it, the effects of trauma are devastating. Quit beating yourself up. It is time to heal. With 20 years experience in addiction and over 10 working with trauma, it is time to recover from the past, survive the present, and flourish into the future. It all starts with you.
My passion is to empower those that have not found their potential. We all have our own stories and experiences which makes us perfect candidates for success when we have the right support. Whether you have lived it, experienced it or witnessed it, the effects of trauma are devastating. Quit beating yourself up. It is time to heal. With 20 years experience in addiction and over 10 working with trauma, it is time to recover from the past, survive the present, and flourish into the future. It all starts with you.

Depth therapy focuses on addressing underlying issues rather than just treating surface symptoms. I offer a holistic approach to therapy where we work together to explore internal stressors, attachment styles, childhood wounds, and unconscious beliefs that may be impacting your present choices. In collaboration, we'll identify strategies to better navigate life’s challenges, such as grief and loss, divorce, trauma, relationship struggles, career transitions, relocation, acculturation, aging, menopause, empty nesting, retirement, family dynamics, feelings of being lost or lonely, caregiving for aging parents, and dealing with illness
Depth therapy focuses on addressing underlying issues rather than just treating surface symptoms. I offer a holistic approach to therapy where we work together to explore internal stressors, attachment styles, childhood wounds, and unconscious beliefs that may be impacting your present choices. In collaboration, we'll identify strategies to better navigate life’s challenges, such as grief and loss, divorce, trauma, relationship struggles, career transitions, relocation, acculturation, aging, menopause, empty nesting, retirement, family dynamics, feelings of being lost or lonely, caregiving for aging parents, and dealing with illness

Hello and welcome! As you consider coming for personal therapy, here are five questions to ask yourself: (1) Do I often feel sad, self-critical, or lonely? (2) Do I frequently find myself feeling anxious or unable to stop worrying about the future? (3) Do I often feel unhappy about how an important relationship in my life is going? (4) Do I feel trapped in a stressful cycle of unending personal or work obligations? (5) Am I struggling with a difficult decision that seems right, but may change my life in unwanted ways? If you answered "yes" to one or more of these questions, come in and let's talk about how to begin feeling better.
Hello and welcome! As you consider coming for personal therapy, here are five questions to ask yourself: (1) Do I often feel sad, self-critical, or lonely? (2) Do I frequently find myself feeling anxious or unable to stop worrying about the future? (3) Do I often feel unhappy about how an important relationship in my life is going? (4) Do I feel trapped in a stressful cycle of unending personal or work obligations? (5) Am I struggling with a difficult decision that seems right, but may change my life in unwanted ways? If you answered "yes" to one or more of these questions, come in and let's talk about how to begin feeling better.

I love to see others be over-comers and feel privileged when I can be a part of that process. I recognize that one of God´s specialties is to "make a way" in the desert. Sometimes the desert is the parent-child relationship, a trauma in the life of the adult or the child, depression and anxiety, a learning or developmental difference, difficulty crossing cultures, etc. Sometimes our own difficulties with self esteem, boundaries, or trauma make day-to-day responsibilities difficult. The kids I worked with in Mexico for many years taught me a lot about overcoming trauma, regulating their emotions, etc. (They also taught me Spanish!)
I love to see others be over-comers and feel privileged when I can be a part of that process. I recognize that one of God´s specialties is to "make a way" in the desert. Sometimes the desert is the parent-child relationship, a trauma in the life of the adult or the child, depression and anxiety, a learning or developmental difference, difficulty crossing cultures, etc. Sometimes our own difficulties with self esteem, boundaries, or trauma make day-to-day responsibilities difficult. The kids I worked with in Mexico for many years taught me a lot about overcoming trauma, regulating their emotions, etc. (They also taught me Spanish!)

Sometimes life knocks us off balance, and it’s hard to find our footing. I specialize in helping individuals and couples heal from trauma, navigate change, and move through grief with support and compassion. You don’t have to go through it alone — together, we’ll create space for healing, growth, and meaningful connection. We’ll work toward reclaiming your sense of aliveness and purpose.
Sometimes life knocks us off balance, and it’s hard to find our footing. I specialize in helping individuals and couples heal from trauma, navigate change, and move through grief with support and compassion. You don’t have to go through it alone — together, we’ll create space for healing, growth, and meaningful connection. We’ll work toward reclaiming your sense of aliveness and purpose.

I am a compassionate and empathetic therapist who specializes in supporting your mental health and personal growth. My passion revolves around enhancing relationships, setting boundaries, and communication skills. I utilize my expertise to tailor therapy sessions to meet the unique needs of each client, providing them with effective tools and strategies to navigate their specific challenges.
I am a compassionate and empathetic therapist who specializes in supporting your mental health and personal growth. My passion revolves around enhancing relationships, setting boundaries, and communication skills. I utilize my expertise to tailor therapy sessions to meet the unique needs of each client, providing them with effective tools and strategies to navigate their specific challenges.

Thank you for taking the time to consider me in choosing a support person for yourself or family member. I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist dedicated to providing effective, specialized psychological services for Adolescents and Adults. I facilitate Psychological Evaluations/Testing, Psychotherapy, and Mental Health/Performance Coaching. I take an Individualized, Empowerment and Wellness-based approach whereby I incorporate brief, solutions focused interventions to address the overall psychological needs of a person or family to help reduce suffering and bring about optimal Well-being and long-term Recovery.
Thank you for taking the time to consider me in choosing a support person for yourself or family member. I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist dedicated to providing effective, specialized psychological services for Adolescents and Adults. I facilitate Psychological Evaluations/Testing, Psychotherapy, and Mental Health/Performance Coaching. I take an Individualized, Empowerment and Wellness-based approach whereby I incorporate brief, solutions focused interventions to address the overall psychological needs of a person or family to help reduce suffering and bring about optimal Well-being and long-term Recovery.

I understand that asking for help can be daunting, especially in difficult times. Seeking support when experiencing anxiety, sadness, or uncertainty is entirely normal. I have experience working with individuals facing anxiety, depression, substance abuse, relationship issues, trauma, and the challenges of incarceration. I aim to help you recognize patterns that may hold you back while enhancing your self-awareness. Whether you're dealing with a specific challenge or pursuing personal growth, I'm here to guide you toward a more fulfilling life by uncovering your strengths and developing actionable steps for success.
I understand that asking for help can be daunting, especially in difficult times. Seeking support when experiencing anxiety, sadness, or uncertainty is entirely normal. I have experience working with individuals facing anxiety, depression, substance abuse, relationship issues, trauma, and the challenges of incarceration. I aim to help you recognize patterns that may hold you back while enhancing your self-awareness. Whether you're dealing with a specific challenge or pursuing personal growth, I'm here to guide you toward a more fulfilling life by uncovering your strengths and developing actionable steps for success.

Veronica Martin-Parris has been a licensed clinical social worker since 2006 and has over 25 years of experience in psychotherapy. She has undergraduate degree in Health Science with an Emphasis in Community Health and a Minor in African American Studies. Mrs. Parris also has a Masters degree in Social Work with a concentration in Administration and Health from San Diego State University. Find more information about her at www.purposevisiontherapy.com
Veronica Martin-Parris has been a licensed clinical social worker since 2006 and has over 25 years of experience in psychotherapy. She has undergraduate degree in Health Science with an Emphasis in Community Health and a Minor in African American Studies. Mrs. Parris also has a Masters degree in Social Work with a concentration in Administration and Health from San Diego State University. Find more information about her at www.purposevisiontherapy.com

I believe that each person has a unique purpose. Life presents with situations where depression, addiction, anxiety, eating too much, eating too little, low self-esteem, and no self-identity can distract a person from finding this unique purpose. I like to explore a variety of issues that keep you from experiencing your purpose in life and help you find your meaning and make sense of that meaning.
I believe that each person has a unique purpose. Life presents with situations where depression, addiction, anxiety, eating too much, eating too little, low self-esteem, and no self-identity can distract a person from finding this unique purpose. I like to explore a variety of issues that keep you from experiencing your purpose in life and help you find your meaning and make sense of that meaning.

Our clients typically struggle with people pleasing, perfectionist patterns, over thinking, increased worry or irritation and excessively caretaking. Others suffer with self worth, feeling like an imposture, avoidance of conflict and using their voice. Often clients have painful childhoods or adult traumas that can present with upsetting thoughts or images. These symptoms can often result in destructive coping strategies such as eating disorders, codependency, isolation or outbursts. Our clients are looking to learn, heal and grow into their most authentic selves. They need to be seen, known, taught and supported.
Our clients typically struggle with people pleasing, perfectionist patterns, over thinking, increased worry or irritation and excessively caretaking. Others suffer with self worth, feeling like an imposture, avoidance of conflict and using their voice. Often clients have painful childhoods or adult traumas that can present with upsetting thoughts or images. These symptoms can often result in destructive coping strategies such as eating disorders, codependency, isolation or outbursts. Our clients are looking to learn, heal and grow into their most authentic selves. They need to be seen, known, taught and supported.

Margarita Velosa, LCSW, is dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life s challenges with a focus on fostering meaningful and lasting change. Serving patients across California, she specializes in providing compassionate care for adults and seniors, offering a wide range of therapeutic services tailored to address each client s unique needs. Whether supporting individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, or substance use, or guiding couples through relational challenges, Margarita creates a supportive environment to promote healing, growth, and connection.
Margarita Velosa, LCSW, is dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life s challenges with a focus on fostering meaningful and lasting change. Serving patients across California, she specializes in providing compassionate care for adults and seniors, offering a wide range of therapeutic services tailored to address each client s unique needs. Whether supporting individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, or substance use, or guiding couples through relational challenges, Margarita creates a supportive environment to promote healing, growth, and connection.

As a Board Certified Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I often ask clients is your anxiety and depression taking the joy out of living each day? We are all living in times that are critical and hard to deal with, whether it is financial, health related issues, negative feelings about ourselves or family and relationship problems. I provide a holistic, integrative and collaborative approach through evidence-based practices in addressing and treating issues related to trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, family and couple concerns. When we deal with challenges, it can be a difficult undertaking.
As a Board Certified Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I often ask clients is your anxiety and depression taking the joy out of living each day? We are all living in times that are critical and hard to deal with, whether it is financial, health related issues, negative feelings about ourselves or family and relationship problems. I provide a holistic, integrative and collaborative approach through evidence-based practices in addressing and treating issues related to trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, family and couple concerns. When we deal with challenges, it can be a difficult undertaking.

We all experience emotional injuries. Some are minor and other could qualify as trauma. These injuries shape how we respond to our current situation. At times the responses are helpful, but at other times these responses are no longer helping us live our best life. In addition, these injuries may cause symptoms that at times can become unmanageable. Luckily it is possible to heal from these injuries. Therapy can help with the process of healing, especially if we get stuck along the way.
We all experience emotional injuries. Some are minor and other could qualify as trauma. These injuries shape how we respond to our current situation. At times the responses are helpful, but at other times these responses are no longer helping us live our best life. In addition, these injuries may cause symptoms that at times can become unmanageable. Luckily it is possible to heal from these injuries. Therapy can help with the process of healing, especially if we get stuck along the way.
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Number of Therapists in La Mesa, CA
200+
Average cost per session
$150
Therapists in La Mesa, CA who prioritize treating:
93% | Anxiety |
87% | Depression |
70% | Relationship Issues |
69% | Trauma and PTSD |
69% | Self Esteem |
67% | Coping Skills |
60% | Stress |
Average years in practice
13 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
85% | Aetna |
76% | Cigna and Evernorth |
66% | UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH |
How Therapists in La Mesa, CA see their clients
65% | In Person and Online | |
35% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
77% | Female | |
22% | Male | |
1% | Non-Binary |
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How can I find a therapist in La Mesa?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.