Therapists in Santa Monica, CA
Rediscover Joy and Connection in Your Intimate Relationship
Intimacy and sex shouldn’t feel like a burden. Yet, when “Date Night” appears on the calendar, it stirs a wave of conflicting emotions. You look forward to the laughter, the beautiful ambiance, and the enjoyable meal with your partner—but the thought of what might follow fills you with anxiety. Instead of excitement, the idea of intimacy feels heavy, like something you’d rather avoid. Even watching movie scenes depicting closeness can spark discomfort. You might feel guilt, frustration, or a sense of failure as a partner, and this weight is becoming harder to carry.
Rediscover Joy and Connection in Your Intimate Relationship
Intimacy and sex shouldn’t feel like a burden. Yet, when “Date Night” appears on the calendar, it stirs a wave of conflicting emotions. You look forward to the laughter, the beautiful ambiance, and the enjoyable meal with your partner—but the thought of what might follow fills you with anxiety. Instead of excitement, the idea of intimacy feels heavy, like something you’d rather avoid. Even watching movie scenes depicting closeness can spark discomfort. You might feel guilt, frustration, or a sense of failure as a partner, and this weight is becoming harder to carry.
Starting therapy can feel awkward, especially when everything already feels like too much. I work with high school and college students, people in their 20s, and adults navigating anxiety, shifts in identity, life transitions, or relationship stress. My style is collaborative and casual — a space where you can be honest, uncertain, and fully yourself.
Starting therapy can feel awkward, especially when everything already feels like too much. I work with high school and college students, people in their 20s, and adults navigating anxiety, shifts in identity, life transitions, or relationship stress. My style is collaborative and casual — a space where you can be honest, uncertain, and fully yourself.
The therapeutic process has the ability to transform. I am living proof of this. At my lowest point, I was anxious, depressed, suicidal, and trapped in addictions. With the help of a skilled therapist, I was able to come out of this darkness - inspiring me to leave the business world in order to help others who are suffering. I believe that everyone deserves a fighting chance to overcome trauma and abuse and live a rich, full, and satisfying life. I believe that we can change and grow at any time in our lives. I believe in the beauty, resiliency, and strength of the human spirit. I believe that we are all worthy and capable of love.
The therapeutic process has the ability to transform. I am living proof of this. At my lowest point, I was anxious, depressed, suicidal, and trapped in addictions. With the help of a skilled therapist, I was able to come out of this darkness - inspiring me to leave the business world in order to help others who are suffering. I believe that everyone deserves a fighting chance to overcome trauma and abuse and live a rich, full, and satisfying life. I believe that we can change and grow at any time in our lives. I believe in the beauty, resiliency, and strength of the human spirit. I believe that we are all worthy and capable of love.
I provide a nonjudgmental space to navigate and make sense of one’s patterns and experiences. Allowing curiosity and constructive self-reflection to occur—we uncover and integrate one’s authentic truth. This creates a bedrock for lasting & effective healing and transformation. Become unstuck. Become self-empowered.
I provide a nonjudgmental space to navigate and make sense of one’s patterns and experiences. Allowing curiosity and constructive self-reflection to occur—we uncover and integrate one’s authentic truth. This creates a bedrock for lasting & effective healing and transformation. Become unstuck. Become self-empowered.
My aim is to help you live with a feeling of wholeness and sturdiness, even when life is difficult. You need no longer feel tired, never enough, and at the mercy of your own performance. I encourage my clients to dream bravely about the changes they hope to see in their lives. We work to get there by identifying and shifting the patterns keeping them stuck, with the goal of cultivating more meaningful relationships, as well as greater freedom and joy. I am passionate about working with people on relationship issues, whether you are single or in a relationship.
My aim is to help you live with a feeling of wholeness and sturdiness, even when life is difficult. You need no longer feel tired, never enough, and at the mercy of your own performance. I encourage my clients to dream bravely about the changes they hope to see in their lives. We work to get there by identifying and shifting the patterns keeping them stuck, with the goal of cultivating more meaningful relationships, as well as greater freedom and joy. I am passionate about working with people on relationship issues, whether you are single or in a relationship.
I believe healing begins with kindness—especially the kind we offer ourselves. In our work together, I’ll support you in reconnecting with your strengths, even those you might not fully see yet. My approach is grounded in compassion, curiosity, and the belief that we all have the capacity to grow when we feel truly seen and supported.
Whether you're navigating anxiety, life transitions, relationship challenges, or simply seeking to understand yourself better, I’ll meet you with warmth and acceptance. We'll create a space where you can explore your thoughts, emotions, and patterns at your own pace.
I believe healing begins with kindness—especially the kind we offer ourselves. In our work together, I’ll support you in reconnecting with your strengths, even those you might not fully see yet. My approach is grounded in compassion, curiosity, and the belief that we all have the capacity to grow when we feel truly seen and supported.
Whether you're navigating anxiety, life transitions, relationship challenges, or simply seeking to understand yourself better, I’ll meet you with warmth and acceptance. We'll create a space where you can explore your thoughts, emotions, and patterns at your own pace.
If you are struggling and feeling stuck in ways that make it difficult to enjoy and be present in your life and in your relationships; if you feel alone, lost, anxious, depressed, overwhelmed and under a lot of stress and want to make changes for yourself, one of my primary goals is to provide you a safe place in which to do this work. You don't have to try to find your way alone. This experience can be a transformative and empowering one for you. Asking for help comes from a place of strength, not of weakness.
If you are struggling and feeling stuck in ways that make it difficult to enjoy and be present in your life and in your relationships; if you feel alone, lost, anxious, depressed, overwhelmed and under a lot of stress and want to make changes for yourself, one of my primary goals is to provide you a safe place in which to do this work. You don't have to try to find your way alone. This experience can be a transformative and empowering one for you. Asking for help comes from a place of strength, not of weakness.
Hi, I’m Nelly Rico Blustajn, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with adults, couples, and parents. I specialize in relationships, parenting, and co-parenting, and I take a solution-focused approach to help you move forward with clarity and intention. With over 35 years of experience supporting families, I bring a warm, collaborative style and a deep understanding of real-life challenges. As a Spanish-speaking therapist with a strong connection to Latino families, I value culture, connection, and helping you feel truly understood.
Hi, I’m Nelly Rico Blustajn, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with adults, couples, and parents. I specialize in relationships, parenting, and co-parenting, and I take a solution-focused approach to help you move forward with clarity and intention. With over 35 years of experience supporting families, I bring a warm, collaborative style and a deep understanding of real-life challenges. As a Spanish-speaking therapist with a strong connection to Latino families, I value culture, connection, and helping you feel truly understood.
Maybe you've been diagnosed with OCD, anxiety or depression, but you feel there is more to your story; perhaps you have the inkling that your symptoms stem from deeper wounds. My clients often seek me out when they're feeling impatient with the pace of weekly talk therapy. I primarily offer longer, intensive therapy sessions to initiate relief in my clients more quickly. I utilize somatic techniques to support folks in healing from the root of their traumas instead of just treating symptoms. Much of the work I do is helping my clients build a sense of safety and trust within themselves so they can heal and move on with their lives.
Maybe you've been diagnosed with OCD, anxiety or depression, but you feel there is more to your story; perhaps you have the inkling that your symptoms stem from deeper wounds. My clients often seek me out when they're feeling impatient with the pace of weekly talk therapy. I primarily offer longer, intensive therapy sessions to initiate relief in my clients more quickly. I utilize somatic techniques to support folks in healing from the root of their traumas instead of just treating symptoms. Much of the work I do is helping my clients build a sense of safety and trust within themselves so they can heal and move on with their lives.
I believe in the transformative power of therapy to heal, reframe your life story, and allow for your own authentic path forward.
I am drawn to helping adults and teens who are struggling to navigate life's challenges. Some examples are: setting physical or emotional boundaries with difficult people, adjusting to a new family dynamic, loss and letting go, self-medicating with drugs or alcohol, patterns of limiting oneself from reaching personal ambitions or true intimacy or coping with the pressures of parenthood alongside of a career. I believe we all have the ability to write our life story thoughtfully and with passion.
I believe in the transformative power of therapy to heal, reframe your life story, and allow for your own authentic path forward.
I am drawn to helping adults and teens who are struggling to navigate life's challenges. Some examples are: setting physical or emotional boundaries with difficult people, adjusting to a new family dynamic, loss and letting go, self-medicating with drugs or alcohol, patterns of limiting oneself from reaching personal ambitions or true intimacy or coping with the pressures of parenthood alongside of a career. I believe we all have the ability to write our life story thoughtfully and with passion.
Ira Israel, Licensed Counselor and
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LPCC, LMFT
6 Endorsed
Santa Monica, CA 90403
Licensed in New York and California, with 17 years of private practice experience, I help individuals and couples find new solutions to old problems.
Licensed in New York and California, with 17 years of private practice experience, I help individuals and couples find new solutions to old problems.
You are successful in your career, but a feeling of unease, anxiety, or emotional numbness seems to always be with you. The stress of your work has gotten to be too much, and maybe your physical health, and well as your happiness, has begun to suffer. You desire a meaningful relationship, but your reluctance to vulnerability, likely a result of past traumas, is getting in the way. You find yourself often plagued with a sense of emptiness, or lack of purpose in your life, despite your financial and professional success. You hold yourself to a high standard, but your harsh inner critic has left you feeling like you aren’t good enough.
You are successful in your career, but a feeling of unease, anxiety, or emotional numbness seems to always be with you. The stress of your work has gotten to be too much, and maybe your physical health, and well as your happiness, has begun to suffer. You desire a meaningful relationship, but your reluctance to vulnerability, likely a result of past traumas, is getting in the way. You find yourself often plagued with a sense of emptiness, or lack of purpose in your life, despite your financial and professional success. You hold yourself to a high standard, but your harsh inner critic has left you feeling like you aren’t good enough.
Welcome — I’m glad you’re here.
If you’re carrying the weight of past trauma, struggling with anxiety, depression, or feeling stuck in painful relationship patterns, you don’t have to go through it alone. Many of my clients come to me feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of how to move forward — often after years of adapting and surviving.
I specialize in helping adults and teens heal from complex trauma (C-PTSD), attachment wounds, and anxiety. My work is trauma-informed and rooted in Jungian Depth Psychology, which means we look not only at symptoms, but at the deeper meaning they carry.
Welcome — I’m glad you’re here.
If you’re carrying the weight of past trauma, struggling with anxiety, depression, or feeling stuck in painful relationship patterns, you don’t have to go through it alone. Many of my clients come to me feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of how to move forward — often after years of adapting and surviving.
I specialize in helping adults and teens heal from complex trauma (C-PTSD), attachment wounds, and anxiety. My work is trauma-informed and rooted in Jungian Depth Psychology, which means we look not only at symptoms, but at the deeper meaning they carry.
Feeling alone or stuck—at home, work or your relationship? Are you stressed, overwhelmed or frustrated with work—or yourself, your partner or your kids? If this sounds like you & you're tired of struggling, I'd like to help. You can get the support, understanding & skills you need to succeed—& get more of what you want. Life doesn't have to be so hard. Therapy can help you clarify the issues, figure out your options, provide you with new tools—& get things moving in a positive direction. If you're unsure about Teletherapy or starting, give me a call to talk about what you need & how therapy can help. Visit my website to learn more.
Feeling alone or stuck—at home, work or your relationship? Are you stressed, overwhelmed or frustrated with work—or yourself, your partner or your kids? If this sounds like you & you're tired of struggling, I'd like to help. You can get the support, understanding & skills you need to succeed—& get more of what you want. Life doesn't have to be so hard. Therapy can help you clarify the issues, figure out your options, provide you with new tools—& get things moving in a positive direction. If you're unsure about Teletherapy or starting, give me a call to talk about what you need & how therapy can help. Visit my website to learn more.
You may be a parent noticing your child struggling to express big feelings, or a family feeling stuck in patterns that lead to tension at home. You may have a teenage daughter who feels overwhelmed, insecure, or affected by friendships, school, or the pressure to keep up.
I work with teenage girls, young children, and families to better understand what’s beneath these experiences. Through a collaborative, insight-oriented approach, I help create more connection, clearer communication, and a stronger sense of stability at home.
You may be a parent noticing your child struggling to express big feelings, or a family feeling stuck in patterns that lead to tension at home. You may have a teenage daughter who feels overwhelmed, insecure, or affected by friendships, school, or the pressure to keep up.
I work with teenage girls, young children, and families to better understand what’s beneath these experiences. Through a collaborative, insight-oriented approach, I help create more connection, clearer communication, and a stronger sense of stability at home.
Are you or your child struggling with anxiety, depression, or behavioral issues? Have you found yourself feeling stuck or unable to create change? Therapy can help you cope with these challenges and set you up for future success. I find a positive and trusting client-therapist relationship to be the most essential component of the therapeutic process and place an emphasis on creating a safe and non-judgmental space for effective reflection and growth. Incorporating humanistic, mindfulness, and strengths-based approaches, I work with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, oppositional defiance, high-risk behavior, and family dynamics.
Are you or your child struggling with anxiety, depression, or behavioral issues? Have you found yourself feeling stuck or unable to create change? Therapy can help you cope with these challenges and set you up for future success. I find a positive and trusting client-therapist relationship to be the most essential component of the therapeutic process and place an emphasis on creating a safe and non-judgmental space for effective reflection and growth. Incorporating humanistic, mindfulness, and strengths-based approaches, I work with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, oppositional defiance, high-risk behavior, and family dynamics.
Are you struggling with DEPRESSION or ANXIETY? Is your RELATIONSHIP stuck in negative patterns?Is SUBSTANCE USE getting in your way, or you're needing extra support in RECOVERY? Are you going through a stressful LIFE TRANSITION? If you answered "yes" to any these questions, or even "maybe", I might be the help you are looking for. I've been told by my clients that I take a more active, direct approach to therapy, and I believe humor is a great healer. It is my 1st job to help you feel accepted, and listened to. I want to help you achieve your therapeutic goals by learning about what motivates you as a unique individual.
Are you struggling with DEPRESSION or ANXIETY? Is your RELATIONSHIP stuck in negative patterns?Is SUBSTANCE USE getting in your way, or you're needing extra support in RECOVERY? Are you going through a stressful LIFE TRANSITION? If you answered "yes" to any these questions, or even "maybe", I might be the help you are looking for. I've been told by my clients that I take a more active, direct approach to therapy, and I believe humor is a great healer. It is my 1st job to help you feel accepted, and listened to. I want to help you achieve your therapeutic goals by learning about what motivates you as a unique individual.
The process of therapy is one of self exploration and self discovery. Many of my clients seek therapy during life transitions or when experiencing relationship challenges. Some suffer from lack of self confidence, or are plagued by anxiety without an understanding of its cause. Through our work together I help people gain insight and understanding about the problems they’re encountering and become aware of unhelpful patterns they may be repeating. As a result of gaining new perspectives and understanding their emotional landscape on a deeper level, my clients often experience life in a more rich and meaningful way.
The process of therapy is one of self exploration and self discovery. Many of my clients seek therapy during life transitions or when experiencing relationship challenges. Some suffer from lack of self confidence, or are plagued by anxiety without an understanding of its cause. Through our work together I help people gain insight and understanding about the problems they’re encountering and become aware of unhelpful patterns they may be repeating. As a result of gaining new perspectives and understanding their emotional landscape on a deeper level, my clients often experience life in a more rich and meaningful way.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a background in Colleges, Foster Care, Veteran’s Administration, Inpatient Hospital, and LGBTQIA, focusing on mental health services, crisis intervention, and counseling. My experience extends to years in the College setting (Undergraduate, Graduate, and Post-Graduate), and Inpatient Hospital environment. I work with adults navigating through substance/sex - addiction and recovery, family dynamics, cultural differences, cultural shame, LGBTQIA issues (race, identity, questioning), life changes, aging, stress, anxiety, fear.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a background in Colleges, Foster Care, Veteran’s Administration, Inpatient Hospital, and LGBTQIA, focusing on mental health services, crisis intervention, and counseling. My experience extends to years in the College setting (Undergraduate, Graduate, and Post-Graduate), and Inpatient Hospital environment. I work with adults navigating through substance/sex - addiction and recovery, family dynamics, cultural differences, cultural shame, LGBTQIA issues (race, identity, questioning), life changes, aging, stress, anxiety, fear.
If you’re between 16 and 30, you’re likely navigating some of the most intense transitions of your life. It often feels like trying to navigate a world you didn't design using a map you can’t quite read. You might find yourself stuck in the same relationship loops, paralyzed by anxieties, or feeling discouraged by repetitive patterns that make you feel like you’re failing at "being a person."
If you’re between 16 and 30, you’re likely navigating some of the most intense transitions of your life. It often feels like trying to navigate a world you didn't design using a map you can’t quite read. You might find yourself stuck in the same relationship loops, paralyzed by anxieties, or feeling discouraged by repetitive patterns that make you feel like you’re failing at "being a person."
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Number of Therapists in Santa Monica, CA
2,000+
Average cost per session
$200
Therapists in Santa Monica, CA who prioritize treating:
| 94% | Anxiety |
| 87% | Depression |
| 83% | Relationship Issues |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 64% | Grief |
| 64% | Stress |
Average years in practice
13 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 85% | Aetna |
| 61% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 54% | UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH |
How Therapists in Santa Monica, CA see their clients
| 62% | In Person and Online | |
| 38% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 19% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Santa Monica?
Search for nearby therapists or counselors by inputting your city, town, or suburb; or zip code; or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or zip code into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


