Pamela Pettigrew
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSc, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oklahoma City, OK 73170
I especially enjoy working with individuals going through divorce, teenagers, grandparents raising grandchildren, blended families, couples striving to have a healthy relationship and anyone motivated to understand themselves.
I enjoy working with anyone who is struggling to understand themselves and their behavior. While we can not force someone else to change, changing how we react to others can often bring about change in the relationship. I see counseling as a journey. You are the driver and I am the passenger pointing out road signs. My job is not to judge but to make sure you are aware of your options and their consequences. Whether it is childhood issues, parenting skills, stress, anxiety, depression or problematic relationships, talking to an unbiased trained professional can be of great benefit.
I especially enjoy working with individuals going through divorce, teenagers, grandparents raising grandchildren, blended families, couples striving to have a healthy relationship and anyone motivated to understand themselves.
I enjoy working with anyone who is struggling to understand themselves and their behavior. While we can not force someone else to change, changing how we react to others can often bring about change in the relationship. I see counseling as a journey. You are the driver and I am the passenger pointing out road signs. My job is not to judge but to make sure you are aware of your options and their consequences. Whether it is childhood issues, parenting skills, stress, anxiety, depression or problematic relationships, talking to an unbiased trained professional can be of great benefit.
(405) 266-4477 View (405) 266-4477
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Amanda Kate Hall
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Broken Arrow, OK 74012
My primary passion and area of focus is children of divorce, blended families, and healing marriages. I have been working within this area of interest professionally since 2010, with personal experiences of having a blended family since 2005. Then opening Anchor of Hope in 2018 to help other families. Treatment often includes both individual and family counseling with a focus on grief following a divorce, strengthening and healing biological family relationships, and understanding and encouraging the process of blending that often takes place through remarriage and other life transitions, such as new siblings, moving, etc.
My primary passion and area of focus is children of divorce, blended families, and healing marriages. I have been working within this area of interest professionally since 2010, with personal experiences of having a blended family since 2005. Then opening Anchor of Hope in 2018 to help other families. Treatment often includes both individual and family counseling with a focus on grief following a divorce, strengthening and healing biological family relationships, and understanding and encouraging the process of blending that often takes place through remarriage and other life transitions, such as new siblings, moving, etc.
(539) 232-0159 View (539) 232-0159
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Kay Howard
Licensed Professional Counselor, MALPC
Verified Verified
Yukon, OK 73099
I have been licensed as a Professional Counselor, State of Oklahoma, (LPC) for the past 17 years. I own the outpatient counseling office Center for Positive Change, Inc. in Yukon. We are CARF accredited, accept most major insurance as well as Sooner Care. I particularly enjoy working with women and their unique issues and concerns. I also have worked with children and families involved in special family situations, i.e., grief, divorce and DHS. My agency employs a variety of licensed therapists to meet the diverse needs of this community.
I have been licensed as a Professional Counselor, State of Oklahoma, (LPC) for the past 17 years. I own the outpatient counseling office Center for Positive Change, Inc. in Yukon. We are CARF accredited, accept most major insurance as well as Sooner Care. I particularly enjoy working with women and their unique issues and concerns. I also have worked with children and families involved in special family situations, i.e., grief, divorce and DHS. My agency employs a variety of licensed therapists to meet the diverse needs of this community.
(405) 246-9302 View (405) 246-9302
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Amanda (Amy) Summers
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Norman, OK 73072
Waitlist for new clients
Amy is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma. She is a Parent-Child Interaction Therapy Certified Practitioner and has attended numerous play therapy trainings. Although Amy has worked with many populations, she has an expertise and passion for working with children, teens, and their families to address emotional and behavioral disorders, divorce reaction, anxiety and depression, suicidal and homicidal ideation, parental alienation and family reunification. Amy conducts parenting and co-parenting classes on various topics. She also enjoys working with the college and young adult population.
Amy is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma. She is a Parent-Child Interaction Therapy Certified Practitioner and has attended numerous play therapy trainings. Although Amy has worked with many populations, she has an expertise and passion for working with children, teens, and their families to address emotional and behavioral disorders, divorce reaction, anxiety and depression, suicidal and homicidal ideation, parental alienation and family reunification. Amy conducts parenting and co-parenting classes on various topics. She also enjoys working with the college and young adult population.
(405) 361-4524 View (405) 361-4524
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Aimee Rook, LPC, ATR, ERYT
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, ATR, ERYT
Verified Verified
Norman, OK 73072
Aimee's approach to counseling services and workshops have evolved over 35 years of experience and education. Her unique strategies include arts and wellness to support individuals, families, and other communities develop coping skills and stronger relationships through emotional clarity and coping skills regarding life changes, grief, development, divorce, and other significant trauma. Aimee offers individual and family therapy, as well as workshops for trauma-informed communication, self-awareness, and holistic wellness.
Aimee's approach to counseling services and workshops have evolved over 35 years of experience and education. Her unique strategies include arts and wellness to support individuals, families, and other communities develop coping skills and stronger relationships through emotional clarity and coping skills regarding life changes, grief, development, divorce, and other significant trauma. Aimee offers individual and family therapy, as well as workshops for trauma-informed communication, self-awareness, and holistic wellness.
(405) 458-7380 View (405) 458-7380
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Dr. Glen Carver
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, MDiv
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Broken Arrow, OK 74012
Do you feel like life is overwhelming you? Are you battling depression or anxiety? Our journey in life can be difficult and at times filled with pain, loss, grief, struggle and full of questions. My passion is to journey alongside you, helping you make sense of what is happening and continue moving on your path finding respite, hope and support along the way. Whether it be due to trauma, depression, anxiety, divorce or marital issues I will be glad to listen to who you are and what makes your journey unique and help you find the path toward wholeness and healing.
Do you feel like life is overwhelming you? Are you battling depression or anxiety? Our journey in life can be difficult and at times filled with pain, loss, grief, struggle and full of questions. My passion is to journey alongside you, helping you make sense of what is happening and continue moving on your path finding respite, hope and support along the way. Whether it be due to trauma, depression, anxiety, divorce or marital issues I will be glad to listen to who you are and what makes your journey unique and help you find the path toward wholeness and healing.
(918) 818-3699 View (918) 818-3699
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Mary Mihelich, PhD
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74137
These include divorce, victims of disasters, sexual abuse, rape, job loss, and chronic stress and anxiety.
I have enjoyed the private practice of outpatient mental health in Oklahoma and around the world with our military. In addition to a doctorate in clinical psychology from the University of Tulsa, I am a graduate of the Menninger's Institute Program for Community Practitioners of Marriage and Family Therapy. Working with couples who desire to save their marriage and with families struggling to succeed with adolescent challenges are some of my favorite areas of focus. My doctoral level research involved conducting a clinical trial investigating the effectiveness of the EMDR method.
These include divorce, victims of disasters, sexual abuse, rape, job loss, and chronic stress and anxiety.
I have enjoyed the private practice of outpatient mental health in Oklahoma and around the world with our military. In addition to a doctorate in clinical psychology from the University of Tulsa, I am a graduate of the Menninger's Institute Program for Community Practitioners of Marriage and Family Therapy. Working with couples who desire to save their marriage and with families struggling to succeed with adolescent challenges are some of my favorite areas of focus. My doctoral level research involved conducting a clinical trial investigating the effectiveness of the EMDR method.
(918) 376-7620 View (918) 376-7620
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Randy Crownover
Marriage & Family Therapist, MTh, MAMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Edmond, OK 73034  (Online Only)
Life is not always easy, kind, or fair. We face challenges every day. Most of the time, those challenges help us grow. Some challenges threaten to overwhelm us. Your challenges may be personal and recent like a job loss, death, or divorce. Other times those challenges have built up over years of pain. Often those challenges involve some of our most vital relationships including our parents or spouse. In those times a trained professional can be helpful.
Life is not always easy, kind, or fair. We face challenges every day. Most of the time, those challenges help us grow. Some challenges threaten to overwhelm us. Your challenges may be personal and recent like a job loss, death, or divorce. Other times those challenges have built up over years of pain. Often those challenges involve some of our most vital relationships including our parents or spouse. In those times a trained professional can be helpful.
(405) 455-8209 View (405) 455-8209
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Vonna Lovett
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Oklahoma City, OK 73142
It is my desire to join with you in seeking release of past struggles and looking to the future. With families, couples, and individuals I can offer resources to assist in the desires for healing and wholeness while reaching the full potential in your life. If that journey deals with grief/loss, addictions, trauma, divorce, family challenges, or individual challenges, I would consider meeting you where you are on that journey a privilege.
It is my desire to join with you in seeking release of past struggles and looking to the future. With families, couples, and individuals I can offer resources to assist in the desires for healing and wholeness while reaching the full potential in your life. If that journey deals with grief/loss, addictions, trauma, divorce, family challenges, or individual challenges, I would consider meeting you where you are on that journey a privilege.
(405) 543-2779 View (405) 543-2779
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Jill A Hofer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Yukon, OK 73099
My enthusiasm is found in working with tweens and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship/family issues, low self-esteem, difficulty communicating thoughts and feelings, difficulty managing negative thoughts or strong emotions, issues from divorce, self injury.
My passion is for children and adolescents to truly know their value and to encourage parents on the journey of raising their family. My goal is to provide an environment based on trust, respect, empathy and validation. My role is to listen and encourage my clients while challenging their thoughts, emotions and choices that are difficult to manage. Together we will learn healthy skills to fight against anxiety, low self esteem, difficult relationships, negative thinking, depression and difficulty communicating
My enthusiasm is found in working with tweens and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship/family issues, low self-esteem, difficulty communicating thoughts and feelings, difficulty managing negative thoughts or strong emotions, issues from divorce, self injury.
My passion is for children and adolescents to truly know their value and to encourage parents on the journey of raising their family. My goal is to provide an environment based on trust, respect, empathy and validation. My role is to listen and encourage my clients while challenging their thoughts, emotions and choices that are difficult to manage. Together we will learn healthy skills to fight against anxiety, low self esteem, difficult relationships, negative thinking, depression and difficulty communicating
(405) 253-6737 View (405) 253-6737
Deborah Crabtree Fedder
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Oklahoma City, OK 73120
As well as, help clients work through and cope with divorce, grief, and loss.
I work with children, teens, and families. I also work with couples and individual adults. I use a family systems theoretical approach. I do play therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and brief solution focused therapy. Outside of my private practice, I have been a school counselor, as well as, develop and lead social skills groups for kids.
As well as, help clients work through and cope with divorce, grief, and loss.
I work with children, teens, and families. I also work with couples and individual adults. I use a family systems theoretical approach. I do play therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and brief solution focused therapy. Outside of my private practice, I have been a school counselor, as well as, develop and lead social skills groups for kids.
(405) 696-7485 View (405) 696-7485
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Metro Family Therapy Counseling and Float Spa
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LADC, LCSW
Verified Verified
Moore, OK 73160
We service both individual and families for a range of emotional and behavioral issues such as ADHD, attachment disorders, crisis intervention, PTSD, conflict resolution, depression, mood disorders, stress management, grief and loss, medical and health concerns, panic attacks, phobias, anxiety, parenting, family, couples, and divorce for all ages.
We are a group of healthcare professionals with many years of experience working with both children and adults. We use a integrative approach including a treatment team of massage therapists, dietitians, pediatritions, family physicians, occupational therapists, speech pathologists, psychiatrists, psychologists, and other mental health professionals. We also specialize in holistic treatments such as massage and float therapy, yoga, professional counseling and evaluations. We partner with a psychiatrist to provide medication management via telecommunication
We service both individual and families for a range of emotional and behavioral issues such as ADHD, attachment disorders, crisis intervention, PTSD, conflict resolution, depression, mood disorders, stress management, grief and loss, medical and health concerns, panic attacks, phobias, anxiety, parenting, family, couples, and divorce for all ages.
We are a group of healthcare professionals with many years of experience working with both children and adults. We use a integrative approach including a treatment team of massage therapists, dietitians, pediatritions, family physicians, occupational therapists, speech pathologists, psychiatrists, psychologists, and other mental health professionals. We also specialize in holistic treatments such as massage and float therapy, yoga, professional counseling and evaluations. We partner with a psychiatrist to provide medication management via telecommunication
(405) 837-1033 View (405) 837-1033
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Dale R Doty
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCSW, LMFT, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74136
I also provide evaluations for the courts including Child Custody Evaluations, Divorce Mediation, and Parent-Coordinator services.
I am a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have been in clinical practice for over 40 years. I have been teaching and supervising graduate and postgraduate professionals, as well as maintaining an active full time professional practice. I am married, have 5 grown children and 7 grand children. Christian Family Institute serves all persons, but specializes in being sensitive to faith issues, combining those resources with the best science from the mental health disciplines.
I also provide evaluations for the courts including Child Custody Evaluations, Divorce Mediation, and Parent-Coordinator services.
I am a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have been in clinical practice for over 40 years. I have been teaching and supervising graduate and postgraduate professionals, as well as maintaining an active full time professional practice. I am married, have 5 grown children and 7 grand children. Christian Family Institute serves all persons, but specializes in being sensitive to faith issues, combining those resources with the best science from the mental health disciplines.
(918) 731-4905 View (918) 731-4905
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Neurofeedback Networx
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Oklahoma City, OK 73112
The only thing constant in life is change..., but change can be scary and contribute to anxiety. Whether you are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, loss of employment, divorce, or a new dynamic in your family, counseling can help. I offer a non-judgmental approach to counseling with an emphasis on helpful vs. unhelpful thinking. I am excited to announce that I am now providing Neurofeedback for a wide variety of disorders. Neurofeedback is a way of training the brain to perform optimally. Neurofeedback is not counseling. A QEEG brain map will show the areas of the brain that could benefit from training.
The only thing constant in life is change..., but change can be scary and contribute to anxiety. Whether you are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, loss of employment, divorce, or a new dynamic in your family, counseling can help. I offer a non-judgmental approach to counseling with an emphasis on helpful vs. unhelpful thinking. I am excited to announce that I am now providing Neurofeedback for a wide variety of disorders. Neurofeedback is a way of training the brain to perform optimally. Neurofeedback is not counseling. A QEEG brain map will show the areas of the brain that could benefit from training.
(405) 295-4945 View (405) 295-4945
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Instilling Hope, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, RPT-S, TBRI
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Oklahoma City, OK 73118
Waitlist for new clients
My personal philosophy regarding therapy is to focus on the family unit and meet each individual member of the family where they are and treat them as an important part of the therapy. Parents often call me and state they need help for their child and my first response is to treat the child but consider the whole family unit as a part of the therapy treatment plan. Meeting the individual needs of the client is of the utmost importance.
My personal philosophy regarding therapy is to focus on the family unit and meet each individual member of the family where they are and treat them as an important part of the therapy. Parents often call me and state they need help for their child and my first response is to treat the child but consider the whole family unit as a part of the therapy treatment plan. Meeting the individual needs of the client is of the utmost importance.
(405) 896-3569 View (405) 896-3569
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Sharon K Beets
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, RPT-S
Verified Verified
Broken Arrow, OK 74012
Sharon's specialties focus on tailoring treatment needs to family and individuals' lifestyles. Sharon received her B.S in Accounting from Oklahoma State University in 1989. She then completed her teaching certificate in math and business. Through her teaching experiences Sharon discovered a desire to help her students with their social needs that would ultimately help them become more successful with their studies. In 2011, Sharon began the pursuit of her Masters in Community Counseling from SW Oklahoma State University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Registered Play Therapist.
Sharon's specialties focus on tailoring treatment needs to family and individuals' lifestyles. Sharon received her B.S in Accounting from Oklahoma State University in 1989. She then completed her teaching certificate in math and business. Through her teaching experiences Sharon discovered a desire to help her students with their social needs that would ultimately help them become more successful with their studies. In 2011, Sharon began the pursuit of her Masters in Community Counseling from SW Oklahoma State University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Registered Play Therapist.
(539) 209-3872 View (539) 209-3872
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Elizabeth Kathryn Brakefield
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Norman, OK 73069
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story. Anyone can dream, but it takes true courage to look inside ourselves and begin the journey of awakening. I would love the opportunity to guide you in your journey of self-discovery. As a therapist I will provide you with a safe and accepting environment that fosters growth and supports you while you transform the vision of the life you were always meant to live into a reality. “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Carl Jung
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story. Anyone can dream, but it takes true courage to look inside ourselves and begin the journey of awakening. I would love the opportunity to guide you in your journey of self-discovery. As a therapist I will provide you with a safe and accepting environment that fosters growth and supports you while you transform the vision of the life you were always meant to live into a reality. “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Carl Jung
(405) 493-8895 View (405) 493-8895
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Positively Psyched Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Midwest City, OK 73110
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's never-ending demands? Have you ever sat in your car and cried because it's all too much? Do you search the internet for illnesses to explain why you feel so awful? Maybe you hide in the closet or avoid going home because you are desperate for time alone? (I get it, I’ve been there too). I can help you feel better. If you feel lost juggling everything and worry you’re missing out on life, I can help you sort through the chaos, get back your time and feel light enough to focus on what really matters to you.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's never-ending demands? Have you ever sat in your car and cried because it's all too much? Do you search the internet for illnesses to explain why you feel so awful? Maybe you hide in the closet or avoid going home because you are desperate for time alone? (I get it, I’ve been there too). I can help you feel better. If you feel lost juggling everything and worry you’re missing out on life, I can help you sort through the chaos, get back your time and feel light enough to focus on what really matters to you.
(405) 584-6768 View (405) 584-6768
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Wes Warner
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oklahoma City, OK 73159
So here's the deal. How often do you say things like, "suck it up" and "rub some dirt on it" when things get tough? What are you hoping to gain from avoiding the truth that brought you to say those things? Are you bottling your feelings? That's the real issue, how you deal with life's roadblocks and speed bumps, not whether or not they exist. Often there is more than just you involved, you have children and they look to you as an example. emotions are human, YOU are human, THEY are human. But HOW in the HELL do you deal? Grab life by the horns and let's make a game plan! Life isn't easy...call me...you are not alone!
So here's the deal. How often do you say things like, "suck it up" and "rub some dirt on it" when things get tough? What are you hoping to gain from avoiding the truth that brought you to say those things? Are you bottling your feelings? That's the real issue, how you deal with life's roadblocks and speed bumps, not whether or not they exist. Often there is more than just you involved, you have children and they look to you as an example. emotions are human, YOU are human, THEY are human. But HOW in the HELL do you deal? Grab life by the horns and let's make a game plan! Life isn't easy...call me...you are not alone!
(405) 266-4392 View (405) 266-4392
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Lynn Loebner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74135
How I work is best described by a current client: Having the opportunity to know Lynn has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I say this because she has given me life lessons, the kind that I use every day. Lynn has the absolute gift to open your mind and take you places that you didn't realize you needed to go all with the security and timing that makes you reflect upon yourself for optimal personal growth.
How I work is best described by a current client: Having the opportunity to know Lynn has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I say this because she has given me life lessons, the kind that I use every day. Lynn has the absolute gift to open your mind and take you places that you didn't realize you needed to go all with the security and timing that makes you reflect upon yourself for optimal personal growth.
(918) 607-1133 View (918) 607-1133
Divorce Therapists

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.