Therapists in Tulsa, OK
Life can be hard but you don't have to struggle alone. Whether you are dealing with past hurts, caught up with worries about the future, or struggling with the day to day, we can find your unique path to a better tomorrow. Trauma can affect us in all of these ways. Sometimes it is obviously trauma and sometimes it madquerades as depression or anxiety. However your struggles are presenting, I can help you find your path to healing, hope, and even uncover some joy along the way. I've had the honor of walking with others along this path and it would be a priviledge to walk with you on your healing path too.
Life can be hard but you don't have to struggle alone. Whether you are dealing with past hurts, caught up with worries about the future, or struggling with the day to day, we can find your unique path to a better tomorrow. Trauma can affect us in all of these ways. Sometimes it is obviously trauma and sometimes it madquerades as depression or anxiety. However your struggles are presenting, I can help you find your path to healing, hope, and even uncover some joy along the way. I've had the honor of walking with others along this path and it would be a priviledge to walk with you on your healing path too.
Melanie Spector, ED.D, LADC, MS, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, LADC, MS, LPC
3 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74135
My name is Melanie Spector, and I am currently accepting new clients. My counseling style is to help people feel safe and to maintain a sense of trust and unconditional positive regard with each person. Many individuals struggle with anxiety, depression, substance abuse, relationship issues and trauma. Unfortunately, many life-lived experiences can diminish joy and a fun filled, healthy and meaningful life. I look to the strengths and resources that are unique to each person. I collaborate with clients to identify, process and make meaning of experiences so they are able to move forward with motivation and well-being.
My name is Melanie Spector, and I am currently accepting new clients. My counseling style is to help people feel safe and to maintain a sense of trust and unconditional positive regard with each person. Many individuals struggle with anxiety, depression, substance abuse, relationship issues and trauma. Unfortunately, many life-lived experiences can diminish joy and a fun filled, healthy and meaningful life. I look to the strengths and resources that are unique to each person. I collaborate with clients to identify, process and make meaning of experiences so they are able to move forward with motivation and well-being.
If dating keeps hurting—even when you’re doing ‘the work’—it’s not because you’re choosing wrong.
It’s because your nervous system learned love through pain.
The Joy Therapist is not for people who want connection tips.
She’s for people who are done pathologizing themselves for attachment pain.
If dating keeps hurting—even when you’re doing ‘the work’—it’s not because you’re choosing wrong.
It’s because your nervous system learned love through pain.
The Joy Therapist is not for people who want connection tips.
She’s for people who are done pathologizing themselves for attachment pain.
Swarna L Singhal
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, BCB-sr, fellow
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74137
Through guidance/coaching/therapy with unconditional love and regard, I inspire clients to realize their limitless potential. When our mind, body, and heart are in alignment, possibilities for growth are endless. With four Master's degrees and a Doctoral degree in Clinical psychology; 40 years of counseling experience, and 47 years of marriage and raising three daughters, I believe I would resonate with many of you. My book on marital relationships and a memoir of my departed soul-mate are listed on Amazon.com. 1. When Heaven Meets the Earth: Making Meaning of the Marital Journey, 2. Eternal Engagement: A memoir. Check them out.
Through guidance/coaching/therapy with unconditional love and regard, I inspire clients to realize their limitless potential. When our mind, body, and heart are in alignment, possibilities for growth are endless. With four Master's degrees and a Doctoral degree in Clinical psychology; 40 years of counseling experience, and 47 years of marriage and raising three daughters, I believe I would resonate with many of you. My book on marital relationships and a memoir of my departed soul-mate are listed on Amazon.com. 1. When Heaven Meets the Earth: Making Meaning of the Marital Journey, 2. Eternal Engagement: A memoir. Check them out.
I am a Certified EMDR therapist through the EMDR International Association as well as a Certified Emotion Code, Body Code and Belief Code Practitioner, a PSYCH-K facilitator and a Reiki master. No one comes to a therapist, or wellness practitioner because of the parts of life that are going well. We all seek help for those things that feel painful, frightening, or overwhelming.
I am a Certified EMDR therapist through the EMDR International Association as well as a Certified Emotion Code, Body Code and Belief Code Practitioner, a PSYCH-K facilitator and a Reiki master. No one comes to a therapist, or wellness practitioner because of the parts of life that are going well. We all seek help for those things that feel painful, frightening, or overwhelming.
Experiencing overwhelming emotions? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I provide support to children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families, specializing in trauma, anxiety, depression, and challenges faced by Native American communities. My strength-based approach assists individuals in cultivating inner resilience and facilitating healing. I create a supportive environment where clients can confront difficult moments or find solace in the knowledge that they are not alone. I am committed to guiding you through this transformative journey and assisting you in overcoming any obstacles that may arise.
Experiencing overwhelming emotions? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I provide support to children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families, specializing in trauma, anxiety, depression, and challenges faced by Native American communities. My strength-based approach assists individuals in cultivating inner resilience and facilitating healing. I create a supportive environment where clients can confront difficult moments or find solace in the knowledge that they are not alone. I am committed to guiding you through this transformative journey and assisting you in overcoming any obstacles that may arise.
Many of my clients feel stuck in long-standing patterns shaped by trauma, overwhelm, or inherited stories from their family line. They’re self-aware, curious, and tired of surface-level coping. They want deeper work—healing that includes their nervous system, their emotions, and their sense of meaning. They’re drawn to somatic and expanded-state approaches like ketamine-assisted therapy because they want to reconnect with themselves, release old imprints, and move toward a life that feels aligned and embodied.
Many of my clients feel stuck in long-standing patterns shaped by trauma, overwhelm, or inherited stories from their family line. They’re self-aware, curious, and tired of surface-level coping. They want deeper work—healing that includes their nervous system, their emotions, and their sense of meaning. They’re drawn to somatic and expanded-state approaches like ketamine-assisted therapy because they want to reconnect with themselves, release old imprints, and move toward a life that feels aligned and embodied.
Navigating relationships can be deeply rewarding, but also incredibly challenging. It’s common to feel disconnected, frustrated, or uncertain about how to move forward with the people who matter most. Whether you’re working through conflict, preparing for marriage, rebuilding trust after betrayal, or seeking deeper connection, you don’t have to do it alone. I work with couples and families to strengthen relationships, improve communication, and foster lasting change.
Navigating relationships can be deeply rewarding, but also incredibly challenging. It’s common to feel disconnected, frustrated, or uncertain about how to move forward with the people who matter most. Whether you’re working through conflict, preparing for marriage, rebuilding trust after betrayal, or seeking deeper connection, you don’t have to do it alone. I work with couples and families to strengthen relationships, improve communication, and foster lasting change.
Hello, my name is Deborah Cruz-Bowen and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Oklahoma. I have worked in medical, psychiatric, geriatric, and military settings. My experience includes working with adults, seniors, caregivers of those with dementia, Veterans, Native Americans, and I am an LGBTQ+ ally. My approach to therapy is one of authenticity, compassion, and non-judgment.
Hello, my name is Deborah Cruz-Bowen and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Oklahoma. I have worked in medical, psychiatric, geriatric, and military settings. My experience includes working with adults, seniors, caregivers of those with dementia, Veterans, Native Americans, and I am an LGBTQ+ ally. My approach to therapy is one of authenticity, compassion, and non-judgment.
I am an experienced Child, Adolescent, and Family Therapist, as well as a former adjunct professor with a strong background in mental health care and academia. With a demonstrated history of working in the mental health industry and teaching undergraduate psychology courses, I bring a wealth of knowledge and expertise to both clinical practice and education.
Holding a Master of Science Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Northeastern State University, I am also a Licensed Professional Counselor – Supervisor (LPC-S) licensed by the Oklahoma State Board of Behavioral Health and a National Certified Counselor (NCC).
I am an experienced Child, Adolescent, and Family Therapist, as well as a former adjunct professor with a strong background in mental health care and academia. With a demonstrated history of working in the mental health industry and teaching undergraduate psychology courses, I bring a wealth of knowledge and expertise to both clinical practice and education.
Holding a Master of Science Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Northeastern State University, I am also a Licensed Professional Counselor – Supervisor (LPC-S) licensed by the Oklahoma State Board of Behavioral Health and a National Certified Counselor (NCC).
Hello, my name is Carolyn Thomas, an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) living in Oklahoma. I offer therapy via telehealth statewide. I specialize in helping individuals dealing with trauma and enjoy working with children. My communication is open, honest and client-centered. People enjoy my comfortable and focused style.
Hello, my name is Carolyn Thomas, an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) living in Oklahoma. I offer therapy via telehealth statewide. I specialize in helping individuals dealing with trauma and enjoy working with children. My communication is open, honest and client-centered. People enjoy my comfortable and focused style.
Are you feeling disconnected from your loved ones, family, and friends? Are you the caregiver of a child struggling at home, school, or in relationships? Depression, anxiety, trauma, unexpected life changes, and stress can lead us to feel isolated and hopeless. Without connection, it can be difficult to confront all of life's challenges. Finding a therapist to share these feelings & thoughts with can be the beginning of living a more peaceful life. No one deserves to suffer alone!
Are you feeling disconnected from your loved ones, family, and friends? Are you the caregiver of a child struggling at home, school, or in relationships? Depression, anxiety, trauma, unexpected life changes, and stress can lead us to feel isolated and hopeless. Without connection, it can be difficult to confront all of life's challenges. Finding a therapist to share these feelings & thoughts with can be the beginning of living a more peaceful life. No one deserves to suffer alone!
I believe each person and their family’s circumstances are unique. With support of personalized therapeutic approach and involvement of family, clients can work through their mental health struggles towards healing. My client centered therapeutic approach is guided by my doctoral and post-doctoral background in biomedical sciences and neuroinflammation. I support mental and emotional healing in children, adolescents, young adults and adults using interventions based on developments in the field of psychology and neurobiology. I am trained in EMDR, Sandtray-EMDR, TF-CBT and CAMS.
I believe each person and their family’s circumstances are unique. With support of personalized therapeutic approach and involvement of family, clients can work through their mental health struggles towards healing. My client centered therapeutic approach is guided by my doctoral and post-doctoral background in biomedical sciences and neuroinflammation. I support mental and emotional healing in children, adolescents, young adults and adults using interventions based on developments in the field of psychology and neurobiology. I am trained in EMDR, Sandtray-EMDR, TF-CBT and CAMS.
Happy New Year! Are you ready for 2026? Would you like to improve your mental well-being? Would you like to increase your overall happiness and productivity? If so, I provide psychotherapy including individual therapy and family therapy. Some of the struggles I help with include but are not limited only to Bullying, Gaslighting, Depression, Divorce, Adoption, Adjustment, Anxiety, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Oppositional Defiance, Parenting, Stress, Trauma, Intermittent Explosive Disorder, Bipolar Disorder and other symptoms meeting symptom criteria for DSM 5-TR diagnosis(es).
Happy New Year! Are you ready for 2026? Would you like to improve your mental well-being? Would you like to increase your overall happiness and productivity? If so, I provide psychotherapy including individual therapy and family therapy. Some of the struggles I help with include but are not limited only to Bullying, Gaslighting, Depression, Divorce, Adoption, Adjustment, Anxiety, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Oppositional Defiance, Parenting, Stress, Trauma, Intermittent Explosive Disorder, Bipolar Disorder and other symptoms meeting symptom criteria for DSM 5-TR diagnosis(es).
Now Accepting New Clients. You feel trapped. Stuck in a seemingly endless loop of unwanted thoughts, fears, or painful memories. You feel like the only way to get relief is to avoid what hurts or do something…anything to quiet the thoughts. Your symptoms have made your life smaller and smaller until you don't even recognize who you are or who you were meant to be. You only see your symptoms. Perfectionism, OCD, anxiety, depression, substance use, and/or trauma make you feel like you are on an island alone. Let me help you to stand up to your fears, confront your shame or guilt, and reclaim your life. You can overcome.
Now Accepting New Clients. You feel trapped. Stuck in a seemingly endless loop of unwanted thoughts, fears, or painful memories. You feel like the only way to get relief is to avoid what hurts or do something…anything to quiet the thoughts. Your symptoms have made your life smaller and smaller until you don't even recognize who you are or who you were meant to be. You only see your symptoms. Perfectionism, OCD, anxiety, depression, substance use, and/or trauma make you feel like you are on an island alone. Let me help you to stand up to your fears, confront your shame or guilt, and reclaim your life. You can overcome.
My mission is to provide compassionate, evidence-based counseling that empowers individuals to achieve mental well-being and personal growth. I am committed to creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their challenges, develop coping strategies, and heal from pain and trauma. Through collaboration and empathy, I strive to support each person on their unique journey toward a more fulfilling and balanced life.
My mission is to provide compassionate, evidence-based counseling that empowers individuals to achieve mental well-being and personal growth. I am committed to creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their challenges, develop coping strategies, and heal from pain and trauma. Through collaboration and empathy, I strive to support each person on their unique journey toward a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Every person needs to feel understood, and is empowered by their capacity to understand. My approach to therapy emphasizes the pursuit of understanding as key to growth and connection, and essential for meaningful change. Understanding yourself and your own thoughts, feelings, actions, motives, beliefs, and values empowers you to live a meaningful and deliberate life, on YOUR terms. Understanding others adds to this foundation by strengthening your ability to connect and cultivate healthy relationships. My passion is fostering understanding to help clients cope with adversity and thrive in all facets of life.
Every person needs to feel understood, and is empowered by their capacity to understand. My approach to therapy emphasizes the pursuit of understanding as key to growth and connection, and essential for meaningful change. Understanding yourself and your own thoughts, feelings, actions, motives, beliefs, and values empowers you to live a meaningful and deliberate life, on YOUR terms. Understanding others adds to this foundation by strengthening your ability to connect and cultivate healthy relationships. My passion is fostering understanding to help clients cope with adversity and thrive in all facets of life.
As a licensed Professional Counselor I deal with many different types of issues during therapy including; Marriage Counseling, Family Therapy, Grief, Trauma, Anxiety, Phobias, Depression, Sexual Addictions, ADHD, Anger Management, and those struggling from all types of Childhood Abuse. I believe most of us have past hurts and traumas that affect who we are, how we do life, why we believe what we believe, think what we think, say what we say, and do what we do. In fact, past issues cause many to internalize False Beliefs about themselves such as; I’m not good enough, I’m worthless, I’m defective, I’m bad, Unlovable, Stupid, etc…
As a licensed Professional Counselor I deal with many different types of issues during therapy including; Marriage Counseling, Family Therapy, Grief, Trauma, Anxiety, Phobias, Depression, Sexual Addictions, ADHD, Anger Management, and those struggling from all types of Childhood Abuse. I believe most of us have past hurts and traumas that affect who we are, how we do life, why we believe what we believe, think what we think, say what we say, and do what we do. In fact, past issues cause many to internalize False Beliefs about themselves such as; I’m not good enough, I’m worthless, I’m defective, I’m bad, Unlovable, Stupid, etc…
Being a parent, child, or young adult can feel overwhelming with life’s constant demands. I believe that when we slow down, create a safe space, and focus on strengths, real change can happen. My passion is helping kids manage big emotions, supporting parents in building stronger connections, and guiding young adults to feel more confident as they navigate life’s challenges.
Being a parent, child, or young adult can feel overwhelming with life’s constant demands. I believe that when we slow down, create a safe space, and focus on strengths, real change can happen. My passion is helping kids manage big emotions, supporting parents in building stronger connections, and guiding young adults to feel more confident as they navigate life’s challenges.
Richard’s treatment approach includes using cognitive behavioral therapies along with aspects of solution focused treatments, motivational interviewing, supportive counseling and psychoeducation to work with the patient to address and change thoughts and behaviors to improve day to day functioning for the patient. His primary areas of focus in counseling are addressing anxiety and depression related disorders, he also has experience treating substance use disorders. In his free time Richard enjoys spending time visiting with friends and family, playing games and watching shows.
Richard’s treatment approach includes using cognitive behavioral therapies along with aspects of solution focused treatments, motivational interviewing, supportive counseling and psychoeducation to work with the patient to address and change thoughts and behaviors to improve day to day functioning for the patient. His primary areas of focus in counseling are addressing anxiety and depression related disorders, he also has experience treating substance use disorders. In his free time Richard enjoys spending time visiting with friends and family, playing games and watching shows.
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Number of Therapists in Tulsa, OK
900+
Average cost per session
$147
Therapists in Tulsa, OK who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 87% | Depression |
| 78% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 73% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Relationship Issues |
| 69% | Stress |
| 60% | Grief |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 82% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
| 78% | Aetna |
| 67% | UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH |
How Therapists in Tulsa, OK see their clients
| 74% | In Person and Online | |
| 26% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 19% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


