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Teesha Morgan
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Dr. Teesha Morgan is a Psychotherapist, published author, adjunct professor, TEDx speaker, and co-founder of the Westland Academy of Clinical Sex Therapy and Westland Therapy Group. Dr. Morgan specializes in Sex Therapy and Couples Counselling and has had a full-time private practice for over 15 years.
Dr. Teesha Morgan is a Psychotherapist, published author, adjunct professor, TEDx speaker, and co-founder of the Westland Academy of Clinical Sex Therapy and Westland Therapy Group. Dr. Morgan specializes in Sex Therapy and Couples Counselling and has had a full-time private practice for over 15 years.
(647) 424-3106 View (647) 424-3106
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Heather Cameron
MTC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
It's time to explore what is really going on with your sexuality.
Sex doesn't have to be a chore. It doesn't have to be another thing to scratch off your weekly To-Do List. Is it run of the mill, get it done and move on? Or is it a straight up “don't touch me, I don’t have time for this crap?”. However, your partner keeps saying that sex needs to be a priority in your relationship, or they'll be forced to leave. Or they would like to explore an open relationship. Lingerie, sex toys and endless research hasn’t changed anything and in fact you feel worse than you did before. You still lack any connection and safety in your relationship, which is really what you want, (other than an equal workload).
It's time to explore what is really going on with your sexuality.
Sex doesn't have to be a chore. It doesn't have to be another thing to scratch off your weekly To-Do List. Is it run of the mill, get it done and move on? Or is it a straight up “don't touch me, I don’t have time for this crap?”. However, your partner keeps saying that sex needs to be a priority in your relationship, or they'll be forced to leave. Or they would like to explore an open relationship. Lingerie, sex toys and endless research hasn’t changed anything and in fact you feel worse than you did before. You still lack any connection and safety in your relationship, which is really what you want, (other than an equal workload).
(709) 910-6841 View (709) 910-6841
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Lucy Snider
Counsellor, MA hons, PgDip, MSc, RCC-ACS, COSRT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I am an experienced Registered Clinical Counsellor-Approved Clinical Supervisor specialized in helping couples and individuals who are experiencing relationship or sexual difficulties.
Are you looking for sex therapy, relationship therapy or couples counselling? Are you struggling with a sexual problem and don't know who to talk to? Are you having difficulties in your current relationship or are you worried about previous or future relationships? Are you struggling with a recent STI diagnosis? We all experience difficulties with sex and relationships but it can be hard to discuss these sensitive topics with friends or loved ones. Common issues that bring clients to see me are problems with sexual function or desire, difficulties with communication or conflict resolution or feeling stuck in your relationship.
I am an experienced Registered Clinical Counsellor-Approved Clinical Supervisor specialized in helping couples and individuals who are experiencing relationship or sexual difficulties.
Are you looking for sex therapy, relationship therapy or couples counselling? Are you struggling with a sexual problem and don't know who to talk to? Are you having difficulties in your current relationship or are you worried about previous or future relationships? Are you struggling with a recent STI diagnosis? We all experience difficulties with sex and relationships but it can be hard to discuss these sensitive topics with friends or loved ones. Common issues that bring clients to see me are problems with sexual function or desire, difficulties with communication or conflict resolution or feeling stuck in your relationship.
(778) 860-4552 View (778) 860-4552
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Elaine Walker
Counsellor, RPC, MPCC-S, CCATP, CSTIP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I work mainly in the areas of depression and anxiety, as well as issues relating to relationships, sexuality and sleep/insomnia.
If you're experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as communication, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is always the possibility of improvement. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy and other modalities can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening.
I work mainly in the areas of depression and anxiety, as well as issues relating to relationships, sexuality and sleep/insomnia.
If you're experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as communication, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is always the possibility of improvement. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy and other modalities can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening.
(250) 718-6084 View (250) 718-6084
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Julie Wright
Counsellor, DCP, MACP, RCC, ACS
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y  (Online Only)
If you're struggling in relationships or with anything related to your sexuality, you are in the right place. These topics can be difficult to experience, and scary to discuss, so having a counsellor or therapist who can discuss these topics openly is important. Whether you are attending counselling as an individual or together with another person/people, taking this first step is important. Perhaps the passionate energy is gone, or maybe you don't even recognize the person you sleep next to anymore. Seeking support, this moment right here, is the most important thing you can be doing. You don't have to do this alone.
If you're struggling in relationships or with anything related to your sexuality, you are in the right place. These topics can be difficult to experience, and scary to discuss, so having a counsellor or therapist who can discuss these topics openly is important. Whether you are attending counselling as an individual or together with another person/people, taking this first step is important. Perhaps the passionate energy is gone, or maybe you don't even recognize the person you sleep next to anymore. Seeking support, this moment right here, is the most important thing you can be doing. You don't have to do this alone.
(778) 770-2038 View (778) 770-2038
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Bill Schuilenberg
Counsellor, RPC, MPCC-S, CSAT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Compulsive sexual behaviours or excessive use of pornography can be very damaging.
Many of my clients are men with personal and relational challenges, such as sexual addiction, infidelity, compulsive pornography use and intimacy challenges. Depression, addiction and anxiety are often linked with relationship difficulties. Working with you to measure your psychological health, we then find solutions by integrating your psycho-education with your strengths to find a positive way forward. I look forward to helping you reclaim your life from the damage of compulsive sexual behaviours. Online and in-person sessions available.
Compulsive sexual behaviours or excessive use of pornography can be very damaging.
Many of my clients are men with personal and relational challenges, such as sexual addiction, infidelity, compulsive pornography use and intimacy challenges. Depression, addiction and anxiety are often linked with relationship difficulties. Working with you to measure your psychological health, we then find solutions by integrating your psycho-education with your strengths to find a positive way forward. I look forward to helping you reclaim your life from the damage of compulsive sexual behaviours. Online and in-person sessions available.
(778) 760-9071 View (778) 760-9071
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Desert Solace Counselling & Recovery
Counsellor, RTC, ASAT, AMAT
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I specialize in sex and porn addiction, financial therapy (money, work & financial disorders) & difficult life transitions.
Hi there! Do you find yourself caught in states of uncertainty? Is your "double life" catching up to you? What about your sense of self & the stressors that come with it? I recognize that my clients can experience many hurdles within their relationships & intimate partnerships, including but not limited to; sexual addiction, infidelity, compulsive pornography use, gambling/shopping addiction, relationship & intimacy concerns, non-monogamous lifestyles & difficult life transitions.
I specialize in sex and porn addiction, financial therapy (money, work & financial disorders) & difficult life transitions.
Hi there! Do you find yourself caught in states of uncertainty? Is your "double life" catching up to you? What about your sense of self & the stressors that come with it? I recognize that my clients can experience many hurdles within their relationships & intimate partnerships, including but not limited to; sexual addiction, infidelity, compulsive pornography use, gambling/shopping addiction, relationship & intimacy concerns, non-monogamous lifestyles & difficult life transitions.
(778) 655-0593 View (778) 655-0593
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Barb Gladue
Counsellor, MA, SRT, CPC, CT, EMDR
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
She is also a certified Sex Addiction Therapist.
Barb Gladue is invested in providing client centered counselling both in person and/or online. Information is woven through each session in order to prevent further breakdown in the individual, their relationships and/or their work performance. Barb's focus is on helping you find your authentic self. She can guide you through a process of taking a look at your current foundation to see where there may be cracks in it.
She is also a certified Sex Addiction Therapist.
Barb Gladue is invested in providing client centered counselling both in person and/or online. Information is woven through each session in order to prevent further breakdown in the individual, their relationships and/or their work performance. Barb's focus is on helping you find your authentic self. She can guide you through a process of taking a look at your current foundation to see where there may be cracks in it.
(866) 416-9029 View (866) 416-9029
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Dr. David Hersh - Hersh Ctr for Sexual Wellness
EdD, LMFT, CST, ABS, FAACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Do you want more/less sex than your partner? Do you have little or no sexual desire? Are you having trouble with sexually explicit media? Do you argue about what sexual activities are acceptable? Does sex feel like an addiction? Has there been a breach of trust with secretive, extra-marital sex? Are you having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection?.
My specialty is Human Sexuality. I'm a Certified Sex Therapist, Psychotherapist and am a mostly retired, formerly Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I have 50+ years experience. I was trained, mentored and supervised by Dr. Wardell Pomeroy of the Kinsey Institute. I help my patients achieve their greatest sexual and relationship potential, beyond diagnosis and treatment of their concerns, to reach the most exciting levels of an intimate relationship. I see many patients online. It is efficient and effective, and it permits the intimacy and immediacy of an in-office consultation, from the comfort of your home or office.
Do you want more/less sex than your partner? Do you have little or no sexual desire? Are you having trouble with sexually explicit media? Do you argue about what sexual activities are acceptable? Does sex feel like an addiction? Has there been a breach of trust with secretive, extra-marital sex? Are you having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection?.
My specialty is Human Sexuality. I'm a Certified Sex Therapist, Psychotherapist and am a mostly retired, formerly Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I have 50+ years experience. I was trained, mentored and supervised by Dr. Wardell Pomeroy of the Kinsey Institute. I help my patients achieve their greatest sexual and relationship potential, beyond diagnosis and treatment of their concerns, to reach the most exciting levels of an intimate relationship. I see many patients online. It is efficient and effective, and it permits the intimacy and immediacy of an in-office consultation, from the comfort of your home or office.
(403) 606-3183 View (403) 606-3183
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Jenni Radmacher
Counsellor, MACP, RCC, BSN, CSTIP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Many of us have challenges that prevent us from being our best self, such as depression, anxiety, emotional difficulties, relationship issues, or trauma. Whether you need support to battle your inner demons or the past that haunts you, Jenni can help you discover what you need to not only cope, but to heal and eventually thrive. Jenni will guide you to safely look within and develop a compassionate understanding of yourself.
Many of us have challenges that prevent us from being our best self, such as depression, anxiety, emotional difficulties, relationship issues, or trauma. Whether you need support to battle your inner demons or the past that haunts you, Jenni can help you discover what you need to not only cope, but to heal and eventually thrive. Jenni will guide you to safely look within and develop a compassionate understanding of yourself.
(250) 718-9291 View (250) 718-9291
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Kate Kemp
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
My specialities include anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), relationship and sexual difficulties.
Hi, I’m Kate. I understand that seeking counselling can take a lot of courage, so I am glad you’re here to explore ways to achieve your well-being and personal growth. From my own experiences, I’ve developed a strong passion for supporting others. My own journey through counselling has shown me just how powerful therapy can be. I genuinely believe that everyone, no matter what they've been through, has incredible inner strength and the potential to heal and live a fulfilling life.
My specialities include anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), relationship and sexual difficulties.
Hi, I’m Kate. I understand that seeking counselling can take a lot of courage, so I am glad you’re here to explore ways to achieve your well-being and personal growth. From my own experiences, I’ve developed a strong passion for supporting others. My own journey through counselling has shown me just how powerful therapy can be. I genuinely believe that everyone, no matter what they've been through, has incredible inner strength and the potential to heal and live a fulfilling life.
(236) 309-3579 View (236) 309-3579
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Hopeful Pathways Counselling - Dr. Zoë Sehn
Counsellor, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Please note: If you have not received a response, please check your spam folder. Areas of counselling: reproductive counselling (including reproductive choices such as the use of donor, surrogacy, or adoption, as well as exploring personal dilemmas that may be experienced when considering reproductive choices), counselling for in/fertility challenges during treatment, helping clients to explore family options beyond fertility treatment, reproductive counselling specific to single women and LGBTQ couples, perinatal counselling including: postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, grief, loss, and couples counselling.
Please note: If you have not received a response, please check your spam folder. Areas of counselling: reproductive counselling (including reproductive choices such as the use of donor, surrogacy, or adoption, as well as exploring personal dilemmas that may be experienced when considering reproductive choices), counselling for in/fertility challenges during treatment, helping clients to explore family options beyond fertility treatment, reproductive counselling specific to single women and LGBTQ couples, perinatal counselling including: postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, grief, loss, and couples counselling.
(778) 766-4196 View (778) 766-4196
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Strength Counselling Services
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, CCC, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y  (Online Only)
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
(873) 363-1012 View (873) 363-1012
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Tosh Gordey
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Whether you are experiencing relationship challenges, a change in relationship, anxiety, or depression, grief, struggles with self esteem, challenges with boundaries or communication, or looking for ways to grow your capacity for joy, pleasure and self compassion, together we can examine root causes for patterns in behavior and enhance your ability to live a rich, meaningful, connected life. I have worked as a Social Worker for 16 years and am passionate about working with individuals and couples regarding trauma, grief and loss, burnout, attachment, 2SLGBTQ+, polyamory/non-monogamy, and parenting.
Whether you are experiencing relationship challenges, a change in relationship, anxiety, or depression, grief, struggles with self esteem, challenges with boundaries or communication, or looking for ways to grow your capacity for joy, pleasure and self compassion, together we can examine root causes for patterns in behavior and enhance your ability to live a rich, meaningful, connected life. I have worked as a Social Worker for 16 years and am passionate about working with individuals and couples regarding trauma, grief and loss, burnout, attachment, 2SLGBTQ+, polyamory/non-monogamy, and parenting.
(709) 800-3967 View (709) 800-3967
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-— CouplesWork —- Carl Malmsten
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
A dedicated counsellor specializing in personal growth and improving relationship dynamics. Offering support in enhancing communication, resolving conflicts, and building fulfilling connections. My empathetic, evidence-based approach ensures a tailored and supportive experience. Let’s work together to achieve meaningful change in your life and relationship.
A dedicated counsellor specializing in personal growth and improving relationship dynamics. Offering support in enhancing communication, resolving conflicts, and building fulfilling connections. My empathetic, evidence-based approach ensures a tailored and supportive experience. Let’s work together to achieve meaningful change in your life and relationship.
(672) 572-2795 View (672) 572-2795
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Okanagan Christian Counselling
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Families, Marriages/Divorces, Individuals (Adults, Teens, Children) Welcome to your journey to a new and improved you! We believe that healthy relationships/marriages, healthy individuals, healthy families, and healthy children come from healthy hearts, healthy minds, healthy boundaries, healthy pregnancies and raising kids, and doing the healthy personal work necessary to be your best for yourself and for those in your life. You are important, and you taking the time to work on YOU and your relationships is important to your (and their) quality of life.
Families, Marriages/Divorces, Individuals (Adults, Teens, Children) Welcome to your journey to a new and improved you! We believe that healthy relationships/marriages, healthy individuals, healthy families, and healthy children come from healthy hearts, healthy minds, healthy boundaries, healthy pregnancies and raising kids, and doing the healthy personal work necessary to be your best for yourself and for those in your life. You are important, and you taking the time to work on YOU and your relationships is important to your (and their) quality of life.
(855) 756-7612 View (855) 756-7612
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Sam T. Reimer
Counsellor, PhD, RCC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
YOU CAN ENRICH YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND EXPERIENCE A MORE FULFILLING LIFE! - ask me how. I grew up in Kelowna, receiving my education in BC, Europe, & the USA. While teaching at the Belgian Bible Institute in Belgium for 11 years, I was also a prison chaplain (1980 - 1989). In BC, I taught at college level; I co-produced 18 TV programs (9 - Boundaries, 9 - Depression); I've been an instructor of counselling training for the Salvation Army. My counselling is wholistic, eclectic, pragmatic - addressing issues including abuse, addictions, anger, stress, depression, grief, fears/phobias, relationships, trauma, PTSD, weight loss, separation/divorce.
YOU CAN ENRICH YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND EXPERIENCE A MORE FULFILLING LIFE! - ask me how. I grew up in Kelowna, receiving my education in BC, Europe, & the USA. While teaching at the Belgian Bible Institute in Belgium for 11 years, I was also a prison chaplain (1980 - 1989). In BC, I taught at college level; I co-produced 18 TV programs (9 - Boundaries, 9 - Depression); I've been an instructor of counselling training for the Salvation Army. My counselling is wholistic, eclectic, pragmatic - addressing issues including abuse, addictions, anger, stress, depression, grief, fears/phobias, relationships, trauma, PTSD, weight loss, separation/divorce.
(250) 999-0590 View (250) 999-0590
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Kelowna Brain Sciences
Counsellor, MSc , CHMC, RCC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Kelowna Brain Sciences uses proven, state-of-the-art technology to optimize brain function and improve overall wellbeing. All of our treatment protocols are designed and supervised by Registered Clinical Counsellors who prepare an integrated, comprehensive treatment plan to help you achieve your goals.
Kelowna Brain Sciences uses proven, state-of-the-art technology to optimize brain function and improve overall wellbeing. All of our treatment protocols are designed and supervised by Registered Clinical Counsellors who prepare an integrated, comprehensive treatment plan to help you achieve your goals.
(819) 412-4746 View (819) 412-4746
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Carly Rae Hood
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y  (Online Only)
I am honoured to connect with a wide variety of people who require therapeutic supports. From issues such as generalized anxiety, to more specific concerns like the impacts of domestic violence, I utilize an array of therapeutic modalities based upon client need. By means of a thorough biopsychosocial assessment and collaboration with the client, a treatment plan is created individually for each person. Each human is unique - therapy should be too!
I am honoured to connect with a wide variety of people who require therapeutic supports. From issues such as generalized anxiety, to more specific concerns like the impacts of domestic violence, I utilize an array of therapeutic modalities based upon client need. By means of a thorough biopsychosocial assessment and collaboration with the client, a treatment plan is created individually for each person. Each human is unique - therapy should be too!
(807) 697-8877 View (807) 697-8877
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Vern Ward
Counsellor, BA, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
My clients are regular people who find themselves stuck - emotionally (negative emotions), personally (self-esteem), or relationally (conflict/communication). I work with my clients to help them experience freedom in these areas. My clients get results quickly because I use a proven system guaranteed to get them unstuck. Skeptical? That's okay, because I have a money-back satisfaction guarantee. I offer that because I know that if you can understand the underlying dynamics of your emotions, then change can start during the first session. Free consultation! You have nothing to lose, and only your freedom to gain. Call today!
My clients are regular people who find themselves stuck - emotionally (negative emotions), personally (self-esteem), or relationally (conflict/communication). I work with my clients to help them experience freedom in these areas. My clients get results quickly because I use a proven system guaranteed to get them unstuck. Skeptical? That's okay, because I have a money-back satisfaction guarantee. I offer that because I know that if you can understand the underlying dynamics of your emotions, then change can start during the first session. Free consultation! You have nothing to lose, and only your freedom to gain. Call today!
(855) 982-0992 View (855) 982-0992
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Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.