Therapists in L4J
I am a relational psychodynamic psychotherapist in Ontario working with children, adults, and families navigating attachment trauma, early relational wounds, and complex emotional challenges. I specialize in supporting adopted and fostered children, as well as parents raising children with complex needs. Using an attachment-focused, trauma-informed approach, I help clients understand anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, withdrawal, trust difficulties, and behavioral concerns as adaptive responses to early experiences—creating space for healing, resilience, and meaningful change.
I am a relational psychodynamic psychotherapist in Ontario working with children, adults, and families navigating attachment trauma, early relational wounds, and complex emotional challenges. I specialize in supporting adopted and fostered children, as well as parents raising children with complex needs. Using an attachment-focused, trauma-informed approach, I help clients understand anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, withdrawal, trust difficulties, and behavioral concerns as adaptive responses to early experiences—creating space for healing, resilience, and meaningful change.
Cindi Arbeiter (Becker)
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MACP, RP (Q)
2 Endorsed
Thornhill, ON L4J
Are you finding that anxiety, depression, grief, or a challenging relationship is impacting your daily life, relationships, or work? Are you feeling emotionally exhausted, overwhelmed, or lost? Do you wonder if your life can improve? Now more than ever, many people are feeling anxious, depressed, and overwhelmed by life’s many challenges. Not addressing these issues can lead to negative consequences. I believe that it shouldn’t be so hard to take the necessary steps toward making a change that will help you live the life you want. There is hope.
Are you finding that anxiety, depression, grief, or a challenging relationship is impacting your daily life, relationships, or work? Are you feeling emotionally exhausted, overwhelmed, or lost? Do you wonder if your life can improve? Now more than ever, many people are feeling anxious, depressed, and overwhelmed by life’s many challenges. Not addressing these issues can lead to negative consequences. I believe that it shouldn’t be so hard to take the necessary steps toward making a change that will help you live the life you want. There is hope.
Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you feel stressed, sad or anxious? Are you going through some significant changes in your family and relationships? Many people struggle to cope when change happens. Reaching out for support is a great way to strengthen your ability to handle change, stress and emotional challenges. I am a registered psychotherapist specializing in working with families, individuals, children, youth and couples. I work with my clients to strengthen and build coping & life skills. I also work with clients to help them process difficult experiences- moving forward towards a healthier and more productive life.
Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you feel stressed, sad or anxious? Are you going through some significant changes in your family and relationships? Many people struggle to cope when change happens. Reaching out for support is a great way to strengthen your ability to handle change, stress and emotional challenges. I am a registered psychotherapist specializing in working with families, individuals, children, youth and couples. I work with my clients to strengthen and build coping & life skills. I also work with clients to help them process difficult experiences- moving forward towards a healthier and more productive life.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by intense emotions, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or navigating a life transition that has left you feeling lost or disconnected? You might struggle with anxiety, depression, grief, or emotional reactivity that feels hard to control or explain. In relationships, communication may break down quickly, leading to conflict, distance, or trust issues — even when you care deeply. You may be looking for a space where you can speak openly, feel understood, and begin making sense of what’s happening.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by intense emotions, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or navigating a life transition that has left you feeling lost or disconnected? You might struggle with anxiety, depression, grief, or emotional reactivity that feels hard to control or explain. In relationships, communication may break down quickly, leading to conflict, distance, or trust issues — even when you care deeply. You may be looking for a space where you can speak openly, feel understood, and begin making sense of what’s happening.
Sometimes children and teens get stuck in ways that feel overwhelming - big emotions, constant worry, challenges at school, or struggles with friends can make everyday life feel stressful. For neurodivergent children and teens, these challenges can sometimes look different or be misunderstood. You want your child or teen to feel accepted and supported while building confidence and skills that truly work for them.
Sometimes children and teens get stuck in ways that feel overwhelming - big emotions, constant worry, challenges at school, or struggles with friends can make everyday life feel stressful. For neurodivergent children and teens, these challenges can sometimes look different or be misunderstood. You want your child or teen to feel accepted and supported while building confidence and skills that truly work for them.
Do you feel "stuck" in your relationship, going around in circles to prove a point and be heard? or...do you steer away from difficult conversations to avoid conflict or start a fight? Does your relationship feel "empty" leaving your discouraged and wondering if issues will ever get resolved? Have you been betrayed by your partner or family member and feel sad, devalued and unappreciated?
Do you feel "stuck" in your relationship, going around in circles to prove a point and be heard? or...do you steer away from difficult conversations to avoid conflict or start a fight? Does your relationship feel "empty" leaving your discouraged and wondering if issues will ever get resolved? Have you been betrayed by your partner or family member and feel sad, devalued and unappreciated?
Constant worry, tension at home or work, overthinking that won’t turn off?
Are you caught in patterns or conversations that leave you discouraged or disconnected? Are you longing for calmer interactions, clearer decisions, and relationships where you feel appreciated, steady, and secure in who you are? You don’t have to figure this out of this by yourself. For over 25 years, I help individuals and families to move from confusion and emotional strain to clarity, confidence and deeper connection - so you can feel valued, calm and secure to be yourself.
You deserve to be happy!
Call me for a FREE consultation at (365) 601-4182
Constant worry, tension at home or work, overthinking that won’t turn off?
Are you caught in patterns or conversations that leave you discouraged or disconnected? Are you longing for calmer interactions, clearer decisions, and relationships where you feel appreciated, steady, and secure in who you are? You don’t have to figure this out of this by yourself. For over 25 years, I help individuals and families to move from confusion and emotional strain to clarity, confidence and deeper connection - so you can feel valued, calm and secure to be yourself.
You deserve to be happy!
Call me for a FREE consultation at (365) 601-4182
Accepting new clients! Whether you are initially approaching therapy or searching for new perspectives on issues you've been working on for a lifetime, I'll work with you to facilitate self-discovery and hope.
Accepting new clients! Whether you are initially approaching therapy or searching for new perspectives on issues you've been working on for a lifetime, I'll work with you to facilitate self-discovery and hope.
Life can be challenging. At times you may feel lost, stuck or overwhelmed; unable to move forward or unsure how to take the next step. Whether you are experiencing difficulties in your relationships, struggling to feel comfortable in your own skin, or contemplating major life changes, I am here to walk alongside you.
Life can be challenging. At times you may feel lost, stuck or overwhelmed; unable to move forward or unsure how to take the next step. Whether you are experiencing difficulties in your relationships, struggling to feel comfortable in your own skin, or contemplating major life changes, I am here to walk alongside you.
You deserve to wake up each morning excited to start the day. And as a psychotherapist (with 15 years of experience as a Medical Doctor and Psychiatrist in Iran), I have the knowledge and tools to help you achieve this. Together, with my non-judgemental, holistic approach we can improve your biological, psychological, social, and financial wellbeing. You will find you have more command over your life and can genuinely achieve things you never thought possible.
You deserve to wake up each morning excited to start the day. And as a psychotherapist (with 15 years of experience as a Medical Doctor and Psychiatrist in Iran), I have the knowledge and tools to help you achieve this. Together, with my non-judgemental, holistic approach we can improve your biological, psychological, social, and financial wellbeing. You will find you have more command over your life and can genuinely achieve things you never thought possible.
Do you feel unhappy with how your life is going? Do you feel lonely, disconnected from others and like your life is missing a sense of meaning? Do you struggle with anxiety and worry about the future? Do you feel like you have "unfinished business" with respect to past experiences that you feel continue to creep up on you and affect your relationships and your happiness? Now more than ever, people struggle to manage their relationships, careers, and lives. InnerQore Health: Psychology and Wellness is a specialized clinic where psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers provide a range of psychotherapy modalities and styles.
Do you feel unhappy with how your life is going? Do you feel lonely, disconnected from others and like your life is missing a sense of meaning? Do you struggle with anxiety and worry about the future? Do you feel like you have "unfinished business" with respect to past experiences that you feel continue to creep up on you and affect your relationships and your happiness? Now more than ever, people struggle to manage their relationships, careers, and lives. InnerQore Health: Psychology and Wellness is a specialized clinic where psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers provide a range of psychotherapy modalities and styles.
Have you recently been diagnosed with a serious or terminal illness? Are you grieving a loved one? Are you struggling with what to tell the children? Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed and uncertain about how you are going to get through this? Or perhaps you find yourself feeling anxious and having difficulty coping with the stress of everyday life?
Have you recently been diagnosed with a serious or terminal illness? Are you grieving a loved one? Are you struggling with what to tell the children? Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed and uncertain about how you are going to get through this? Or perhaps you find yourself feeling anxious and having difficulty coping with the stress of everyday life?
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, challenging relationships, or a loss of sense of self that affects your relationships and your ability to function in school and/or work? Do you feel overwhelmed by the thought that there’s no light at the end of the tunnel? Do you hope that your day to day functioning could be better? Now more than ever, many people are feeling anxious about finding their place in life. Not addressing your mental health can lead to negative consequences. I believe that it isn't so hard for people to live better, that people can change, and that there is hope.
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, challenging relationships, or a loss of sense of self that affects your relationships and your ability to function in school and/or work? Do you feel overwhelmed by the thought that there’s no light at the end of the tunnel? Do you hope that your day to day functioning could be better? Now more than ever, many people are feeling anxious about finding their place in life. Not addressing your mental health can lead to negative consequences. I believe that it isn't so hard for people to live better, that people can change, and that there is hope.
Life's transitions—new jobs, relationships, family changes, or loss—can challenge your ability to thrive. With over a decade of experience in individual,couples and family counseling, coupled with my MBA, I offer a unique, holistic approach to help you overcome obstacles and make meaningful changes. Together, we’ll uncover root causes, build healthy relationships, and turn struggles into successes. Change is hard, but with the right tools and support, it's possible. Whether in person or remotely, I’m here to guide you through those tough decisions and empower you to achieve your goals. Call for a free 15-minute consultation.
Life's transitions—new jobs, relationships, family changes, or loss—can challenge your ability to thrive. With over a decade of experience in individual,couples and family counseling, coupled with my MBA, I offer a unique, holistic approach to help you overcome obstacles and make meaningful changes. Together, we’ll uncover root causes, build healthy relationships, and turn struggles into successes. Change is hard, but with the right tools and support, it's possible. Whether in person or remotely, I’m here to guide you through those tough decisions and empower you to achieve your goals. Call for a free 15-minute consultation.
گاهی رنج و ناراحتی بهتدریج و بیصدا شکل میگیرد؛ از طریق افکار مضطربی که آرام نمیشوند، احساسات سنگینی که رهایتان نمیکنند، یا الگوهای ارتباطی که باعث میشوند از خودتان و دیگران احساس فاصله و گسست کنید. شاید به دنبال فضایی امن باشید تا بهتر بفهمید چه بارهایی را با خود حمل میکنید، احساس ثبات و آرامش بیشتری پیدا کنید و با آگاهی و تعادل بیشتری به چالشهای زندگی پاسخ دهید. من از مراجعانی حمایت میکنم که با اختلالات اضطرابی، افسردگی، پریشانی هیجانی، آسیبهای دلبستگی، تروماهای رابطهای، چالشهای هویتی، تغییرات مهم زندگی، استرس یا فرسودگی روانی (برناوت) روبهرو هستند.
در مسیر درمان، با هم الگوهایی را که موجب تداوم رنج و ناراحتی شدهاند
گاهی رنج و ناراحتی بهتدریج و بیصدا شکل میگیرد؛ از طریق افکار مضطربی که آرام نمیشوند، احساسات سنگینی که رهایتان نمیکنند، یا الگوهای ارتباطی که باعث میشوند از خودتان و دیگران احساس فاصله و گسست کنید. شاید به دنبال فضایی امن باشید تا بهتر بفهمید چه بارهایی را با خود حمل میکنید، احساس ثبات و آرامش بیشتری پیدا کنید و با آگاهی و تعادل بیشتری به چالشهای زندگی پاسخ دهید. من از مراجعانی حمایت میکنم که با اختلالات اضطرابی، افسردگی، پریشانی هیجانی، آسیبهای دلبستگی، تروماهای رابطهای، چالشهای هویتی، تغییرات مهم زندگی، استرس یا فرسودگی روانی (برناوت) روبهرو هستند.
در مسیر درمان، با هم الگوهایی را که موجب تداوم رنج و ناراحتی شدهاند
Do you find yourself feeling stuck in familiar patterns of worry, people-pleasing, or pushing yourself to keep going, even if you’re exhausted? I believe that even when anxiety or burnout feels consuming, you already carry the capacity for change. Therapy can offer a space to slow down, understand what is driving your stress, and reconnect with a steadier, more compassionate relationship with yourself.
Do you find yourself feeling stuck in familiar patterns of worry, people-pleasing, or pushing yourself to keep going, even if you’re exhausted? I believe that even when anxiety or burnout feels consuming, you already carry the capacity for change. Therapy can offer a space to slow down, understand what is driving your stress, and reconnect with a steadier, more compassionate relationship with yourself.
Do you feel unhappy with how your life is going? Do you feel lonely, disconnected from others and like your life is missing a sense of meaning? Do you struggle with anxiety and worry about the future? Do you feel like you have "unfinished business" with respect to past experiences that you feel continue to creep up on you and affect your relationships and your happiness? Now more than ever, people struggle to manage their relationships, careers, and lives. InnerQore Health: Psychology and Wellness is a specialized clinic where psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers provide a range of psychotherapy modalities and styles
Do you feel unhappy with how your life is going? Do you feel lonely, disconnected from others and like your life is missing a sense of meaning? Do you struggle with anxiety and worry about the future? Do you feel like you have "unfinished business" with respect to past experiences that you feel continue to creep up on you and affect your relationships and your happiness? Now more than ever, people struggle to manage their relationships, careers, and lives. InnerQore Health: Psychology and Wellness is a specialized clinic where psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers provide a range of psychotherapy modalities and styles
Tamar Spilberg, Individual, Family Therapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
1 Endorsed
Thornhill, ON L4J
I'm a therapist based in Vaughan and Maple, Ontario - with 26 years experience in individual, child, family and couple therapy. As a strong believer in inner peace and acceptance, I work extensively every day to help people overcome suffrage from mental illnesses and other personal struggles. The mind is our most powerful tool, and a healthy mind helps us achieve inner peace and balance that promotes a happy and successful life. Many people experience a mental illness or a life struggle that challenges them every day, and impacts not only their lives, but also the lives of their loved ones. Therapy is a means to finding balance
I'm a therapist based in Vaughan and Maple, Ontario - with 26 years experience in individual, child, family and couple therapy. As a strong believer in inner peace and acceptance, I work extensively every day to help people overcome suffrage from mental illnesses and other personal struggles. The mind is our most powerful tool, and a healthy mind helps us achieve inner peace and balance that promotes a happy and successful life. Many people experience a mental illness or a life struggle that challenges them every day, and impacts not only their lives, but also the lives of their loved ones. Therapy is a means to finding balance
Change is rarely easy, but it is often necessary—especially in an era where genuine connection can feel drowned out by the noise of apps and algorithms. Whether you are navigating the emotional complexities of modern dating, healing from relationship patterns, or managing the weight of anxiety and depression, I provide the tools and support you need to move forward with intention.
Change is rarely easy, but it is often necessary—especially in an era where genuine connection can feel drowned out by the noise of apps and algorithms. Whether you are navigating the emotional complexities of modern dating, healing from relationship patterns, or managing the weight of anxiety and depression, I provide the tools and support you need to move forward with intention.
Facing challenges like anxiety, depression, or life's transitions? Feeling overwhelmed, with impacts on self-esteem, relationships, or daily life? You're not alone. Seeking growth, balance, and joy, you aim for an authentic life. Despite pressures and frustrations, change is possible. I believe in a journey towards a better life. Together, we'll explore paths to healing, resilience, and fulfillment, committed to meaningful progress. Let's find hope and answers together, embracing change and rediscovering satisfaction.
Facing challenges like anxiety, depression, or life's transitions? Feeling overwhelmed, with impacts on self-esteem, relationships, or daily life? You're not alone. Seeking growth, balance, and joy, you aim for an authentic life. Despite pressures and frustrations, change is possible. I believe in a journey towards a better life. Together, we'll explore paths to healing, resilience, and fulfillment, committed to meaningful progress. Let's find hope and answers together, embracing change and rediscovering satisfaction.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in L4J
200+
Average cost per session
$176
Counsellors in L4J who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 92% | Social Anxiety |
| 92% | Health Anxiety |
| 92% | Driving Anxiety |
| 86% | Depression |
| 84% | Relationship Issues |
| 83% | Self Esteem |
Average years in practice
9 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 86% | SunLife |
| 83% | Manulife |
| 77% | Green Shield Canada |
How Counsellors in L4J see their clients
| 57% | In Person and Online | |
| 43% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 19% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in L4J?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postal code, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postal code into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Most Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are certified by one of the main professional associations, mainly the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association (CCPA), and will have a Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC) designation with their name. Social Workers listed in the directory must be registered members of the college specific to their province. To be listed in the directory, Psychologists must be registered with the psychological college specific to their province or territory.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given the considerable variation in professional regulation and prerequisites across Canadian provinces, some providers may possess significant professional qualifications without necessarily holding professional memberships or being obliged to acquire them. As a result, they may be selectively included without the "Verified" seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given the considerable variation in professional regulation and prerequisites across Canadian provinces, some providers may possess significant professional qualifications without necessarily holding professional memberships or being obliged to acquire them. As a result, they may be selectively included without the "Verified" seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Psychologists, counsellors, psychotherapists and social workers can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and supervised, practical experience that enable them to do so in Canada.
Psychologists have a master's and/or doctoral degree and have passed both written and oral exams. Psychologists are able to complete mental health assessments and provide diagnostic information to clients as well as provide counselling therapy or psychotherapy. Counsellors and psychotherapists are expected to have a master's or doctoral degree in counselling psychology, social work, or a related mental health discipline and certification by a professional association, such as the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association. Registered Social Workers possess a Bachelor's or Master's degree in Social Work and where possible must be licensed or certified by the provincial government and/or regulatory college.
Psychologists have a master's and/or doctoral degree and have passed both written and oral exams. Psychologists are able to complete mental health assessments and provide diagnostic information to clients as well as provide counselling therapy or psychotherapy. Counsellors and psychotherapists are expected to have a master's or doctoral degree in counselling psychology, social work, or a related mental health discipline and certification by a professional association, such as the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association. Registered Social Workers possess a Bachelor's or Master's degree in Social Work and where possible must be licensed or certified by the provincial government and/or regulatory college.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, the cost of a therapy session in Canada could be between $100 and $200. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. Some types of outpatient mental health services are covered by Medicare, provided these are performed by a licensed mental health professional in the provinces or territory you reside in and who accepts the assignment.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. Some types of outpatient mental health services are covered by Medicare, provided these are performed by a licensed mental health professional in the provinces or territory you reside in and who accepts the assignment.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postal code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Professionals licensed by regulatory colleges and those certified by associations such as the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association are obligated to uphold client confidentiality unless there is a legal reason that requires them to disclose information. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there is the potential or known harm to the client or others, or a court order, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.

