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Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC

Allyson Cates

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
648 Menlo Avenue, Suite 12, Menlo Park, CA 94025
Let's Connect (650) 613-4845
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You're tired of feeling like you're not enough. Not good enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not athletic enough, not funny enough, not where you should be in life, etc. You feel like you're not being a good parent, partner, friend, employee, etc. You push yourself so hard every day, but nothing you do seems to be enough. There's always that voice in your head complaining or judging you about something. "You should have done it this way. You should have said this. You're stupid. You're ugly..." You're so tired of carrying this around and are wanting to let it go, but just saying "shut up voice" isn't working.
You're ready to go deeper. As your therapist, I'll bring a warm, compassionate, nonjudgmental demeanor into session to help you navigate around this negative voice to find what will fit best for you. We'll ground our work in building compassion for yourself and others.
It can be so overwhelming when you feel like you're giving it your all, but its still not enough. I'd love to help you unpack some of the unhelpful expectations you've been carrying to find what will help you most! While you're building up that sense of compassion, I'll hold the space and compassion for you. Change is hard, but you don't have to do it alone!
Call or Allyson Cates now for a free 15 minute consultation - (650) 613-4845

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

EM Psychotherapy

648 Menlo Avenue

Suite 12

Menlo Park, CA 94025

(650) 613-4845
I offer online sessions on Wednesdays and Thursdays and in the office on Fridays.
I specialize in Anxiety, Stress and Life Transitions 
$180 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Allyson Cates
Let's Connect (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

EM Psychotherapy

648 Menlo Avenue

Suite 12

Menlo Park, CA 94025

(650) 613-4845
I offer online sessions on Wednesdays and Thursdays and in the office on Fridays.
I specialize in Anxiety, Stress and Life Transitions 
$180 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Allyson Cates

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $180
  • Couple Sessions $270
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I have a few sliding scale spots available. I also provide a monthly SuperBill which can be submitted to insurance companies to request possible reimbursement.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
"
I have a few sliding scale spots available. I also provide a monthly SuperBill which can be submitted to insurance companies to request possible reimbursement.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 136508 Supervised by Elizabeth McGinnis (California / 8285) Allyson Cates
  • In Practice for 3 Years
  • Membership with California Association of Marriage & Family Therapists 10009768 / 2021
  • Attended California Baptist University, MS Counseling Psychology, Graduated 2022
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I am pursuing dual-licensure as a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (AMFT 136508) and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (APCC 12918).
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
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Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
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I am pursuing dual-licensure as a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (AMFT 136508) and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (APCC 12918).
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
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Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Life Transitions

Expertise

  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Grief
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with clients who are tired of feeling like they are not enough. We'll look at how you've been living in this "not enoughness" and how previous experiences may have impacted you now. We'll work together to help you to process through these experiences, acknowledge your thoughts/feelings, and work towards creating new patterns of being.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
"
I work with clients who are tired of feeling like they are not enough. We'll look at how you've been living in this "not enoughness" and how previous experiences may have impacted you now. We'll work together to help you to process through these experiences, acknowledge your thoughts/feelings, and work towards creating new patterns of being.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC

3 Endorsements

Andrea Ferriera
Andrea Ferriera
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFTAPCC
Allyson is trained in EMDR and is so confident in her ability to help clients heal.
Ricci Elliott
Ricci Elliott
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Allyson is so professional and eloquent. I really enjoy working with her and learn from her all the time!

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Religion

Christian

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • EMDR
  • Gottman Method
  • Person-Centered
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I lean on Compassion-Focused Therapy in my work (and my personal life)! We are so hard on ourselves when we often offer compassion and understanding to others who experience similar challenges as us. I also love using EMDR to help process negative memories and remove the emotional weight that they hold so you can think of the memory without "being back in the memory."
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
"
I lean on Compassion-Focused Therapy in my work (and my personal life)! We are so hard on ourselves when we often offer compassion and understanding to others who experience similar challenges as us. I also love using EMDR to help process negative memories and remove the emotional weight that they hold so you can think of the memory without "being back in the memory."
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC

Location

Primary Location

EM Psychotherapy

648 Menlo Avenue

Suite 12

Menlo Park, CA 94025

(650) 613-4845
"
I offer online sessions on Wednesdays and Thursdays and in the office on Fridays.
Call for a free consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
"
I offer online sessions on Wednesdays and Thursdays and in the office on Fridays.
Call for a free consultation now - (650) 613-4845
Photo of Allyson Cates, AMFT, APCC, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Allyson Cates
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC