Counselling in SO31
Hello. I am Cheryl Barnes-Tadman BACP Accredited Psychotherapeutic Counsellor. I have been in practice for over twenty five years. I have recently relocated to Netley in Southampton after living in the Isle of Wight for six years. Pre-dating this I managed a successful therapy Centre in Essex. I also worked for many years in a large GP Practice, as well as accepting referrals from Essex Police, the NHS, Occupational Health Departments, Further Education Organisations, EAP Work Resources, and, private referrals from individuals and couples.
Hello. I am Cheryl Barnes-Tadman BACP Accredited Psychotherapeutic Counsellor. I have been in practice for over twenty five years. I have recently relocated to Netley in Southampton after living in the Isle of Wight for six years. Pre-dating this I managed a successful therapy Centre in Essex. I also worked for many years in a large GP Practice, as well as accepting referrals from Essex Police, the NHS, Occupational Health Departments, Further Education Organisations, EAP Work Resources, and, private referrals from individuals and couples.
The step towards therapy invites change.
Welcome, I am experienced in providing committed, client-centred therapeutic relationships grounded in compassion, respect, & honesty.
If you decide to work with me, I aim to be present, authentic & empathetically responsive to you, which consequently can help you become more holistically aware of yourself — including your feelings, emotions, thoughts, & physiological responses.
As culturally conscious & trained in psychological trauma, I value your context - the impact of your environment on you, including what is happening in your present & what has been influential from your past.
The step towards therapy invites change.
Welcome, I am experienced in providing committed, client-centred therapeutic relationships grounded in compassion, respect, & honesty.
If you decide to work with me, I aim to be present, authentic & empathetically responsive to you, which consequently can help you become more holistically aware of yourself — including your feelings, emotions, thoughts, & physiological responses.
As culturally conscious & trained in psychological trauma, I value your context - the impact of your environment on you, including what is happening in your present & what has been influential from your past.
Are you or your child finding it difficult to cope with life’s challenges? At times, we can all face situations that affect our mental health. You or your child may be experiencing thoughts or behaviours that cause confusion, distress, or harm. Experiences such as bullying, feeling out of place, or struggling with social and cultural expectations can have a profound impact on wellbeing, sometimes leading to anxiety, low mood, or other mental health difficulties. I understand that seeking help can feel daunting, and my aim is to provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you or your child can feel at ease.
Are you or your child finding it difficult to cope with life’s challenges? At times, we can all face situations that affect our mental health. You or your child may be experiencing thoughts or behaviours that cause confusion, distress, or harm. Experiences such as bullying, feeling out of place, or struggling with social and cultural expectations can have a profound impact on wellbeing, sometimes leading to anxiety, low mood, or other mental health difficulties. I understand that seeking help can feel daunting, and my aim is to provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you or your child can feel at ease.
Hello, My name is Alana, I am a fully qualified Humanistic Counsellor based at Watt Health in Sarisbury Green working with children (10+) and adults. I believe that nothing is more important than the relationship between client and counsellor and therefore my main aim is to offer you a space where you feel comfortable and safe to be able to talk and work through your feelings.
Hello, My name is Alana, I am a fully qualified Humanistic Counsellor based at Watt Health in Sarisbury Green working with children (10+) and adults. I believe that nothing is more important than the relationship between client and counsellor and therefore my main aim is to offer you a space where you feel comfortable and safe to be able to talk and work through your feelings.
Hello, I'm Woody — a Person-Centred Psychotherapist, Addiction and Recovery Counsellor with a passion for mental health and well-being. Over the last 50 years, I've worn many hats—a Dad, Husband, ex 'Corporate Suit,' Mature Student, Camper Van enthusiast and I've even worked in a Prison. These diverse experiences have guided me towards the Humanist approach to counselling and psychotherapy, drawing inspiration from the work of Carl Rogers and the Person-Centred Approach.
Hello, I'm Woody — a Person-Centred Psychotherapist, Addiction and Recovery Counsellor with a passion for mental health and well-being. Over the last 50 years, I've worn many hats—a Dad, Husband, ex 'Corporate Suit,' Mature Student, Camper Van enthusiast and I've even worked in a Prison. These diverse experiences have guided me towards the Humanist approach to counselling and psychotherapy, drawing inspiration from the work of Carl Rogers and the Person-Centred Approach.
Clients' needs are multi-faceted. I offer a safe, non-judgemental space to explore your thoughts and emotions. Using evidence-based therapies like CBT, IPT, CFT, and EMDR (Europe Accredited), I provide tailored support. Together, we can work on developing healthier coping strategies, enhancing self-esteem, and building resilience.
Clients' needs are multi-faceted. I offer a safe, non-judgemental space to explore your thoughts and emotions. Using evidence-based therapies like CBT, IPT, CFT, and EMDR (Europe Accredited), I provide tailored support. Together, we can work on developing healthier coping strategies, enhancing self-esteem, and building resilience.
Hello, I’m Andrea, I am so happy to welcome you here. Let me guide you through the Counselling services I am offering. I have extensive experience working with adults and young people (aged 16+) and I am passionate about helping clients navigate life's challenges so they can be free to live their happiest and most authentic lives. I am able to support clients dealing with a wide range of issues, including domestic abuse, childhood trauma, depression, anxiety, illness, bullying, relationship problems, and bereavement amongst others.
Hello, I’m Andrea, I am so happy to welcome you here. Let me guide you through the Counselling services I am offering. I have extensive experience working with adults and young people (aged 16+) and I am passionate about helping clients navigate life's challenges so they can be free to live their happiest and most authentic lives. I am able to support clients dealing with a wide range of issues, including domestic abuse, childhood trauma, depression, anxiety, illness, bullying, relationship problems, and bereavement amongst others.
Hello there and welcome. Sometimes life can be overwhelming for all sorts of reasons and we may need a little help to try and work our way through it. Counselling can give us the help we need, by offering a safe place to sit with someone who is there to help you through those tough times. I understand that the decision to have counselling can perhaps be a difficult one, but I believe that together we can ease those fears and anxieties. Then, as we begin to develop a therapeutic and healing relationship, you will hopefully begin to feel more able to share all that is on your mind.
Hello there and welcome. Sometimes life can be overwhelming for all sorts of reasons and we may need a little help to try and work our way through it. Counselling can give us the help we need, by offering a safe place to sit with someone who is there to help you through those tough times. I understand that the decision to have counselling can perhaps be a difficult one, but I believe that together we can ease those fears and anxieties. Then, as we begin to develop a therapeutic and healing relationship, you will hopefully begin to feel more able to share all that is on your mind.
Hi, I'm Catherine and I am a BACP registered Person Centred counsellor. At times we can feel overwhelmed by life - past experiences, difficulties in the present and fears about the future. Counselling can be very helpful during these difficult times. It can enable us change the way we think about feel about things. It can help us explore our thoughts surrounding a particular issue, even when that might be challenging, and increase our self-confidence and self-esteem as we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves. By talking through things we all have the power to change our thinking and thrive as a result.
Hi, I'm Catherine and I am a BACP registered Person Centred counsellor. At times we can feel overwhelmed by life - past experiences, difficulties in the present and fears about the future. Counselling can be very helpful during these difficult times. It can enable us change the way we think about feel about things. It can help us explore our thoughts surrounding a particular issue, even when that might be challenging, and increase our self-confidence and self-esteem as we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves. By talking through things we all have the power to change our thinking and thrive as a result.
I can help with a wide range of issues including feeling anxious, depressed, finding it difficult to cope, relationship and family issues, bereavement, being worried or confused about your sexuality or gender, dealing with effects of sexual, mental or physical abuse, lack of confidence, low self esteem, panic attacks, managing anger or frustration, difficulties at school, work or college, OCD, the impact of trauma, coping with change, worries about drinking or drug use, self harm, resolving 'unfinished business’ and compulsive behaviours. I am a qualified supervisor, EMDR therapist and accredited by the BACP.
I can help with a wide range of issues including feeling anxious, depressed, finding it difficult to cope, relationship and family issues, bereavement, being worried or confused about your sexuality or gender, dealing with effects of sexual, mental or physical abuse, lack of confidence, low self esteem, panic attacks, managing anger or frustration, difficulties at school, work or college, OCD, the impact of trauma, coping with change, worries about drinking or drug use, self harm, resolving 'unfinished business’ and compulsive behaviours. I am a qualified supervisor, EMDR therapist and accredited by the BACP.
I am a highly experienced counsellor and my aim is to create a positive, trusting environment in which I help you to help yourself. I provide a safe and caring professional counselling and psychotherapy service. I am an empathic and approachable person working in a non-judgemental and confidential way. By exploring your past, the causes of present day problems are often revealed. We can't change the past, but we can gain understanding allowing you to relate differently to yourself, others and problems in order to choose to make changes or find acceptance.
I am a highly experienced counsellor and my aim is to create a positive, trusting environment in which I help you to help yourself. I provide a safe and caring professional counselling and psychotherapy service. I am an empathic and approachable person working in a non-judgemental and confidential way. By exploring your past, the causes of present day problems are often revealed. We can't change the past, but we can gain understanding allowing you to relate differently to yourself, others and problems in order to choose to make changes or find acceptance.
Have you experienced past traumatic events that still affect your daily life through anxiety, perfectionism, or that relentless inner critic? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to stay stuck.
I’m Kylie Salholm, a psychotherapist specialising in trauma healing with over 14 years’ experience. If the weight of the past feels heavy and you’re ready for change, I’m here to help you heal and create lasting change.
Using evidence-based approaches like EMDR, CBT, and IPT, I create a safe space where you can understand your story, process past pain, and reclaim your peace.
Have you experienced past traumatic events that still affect your daily life through anxiety, perfectionism, or that relentless inner critic? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to stay stuck.
I’m Kylie Salholm, a psychotherapist specialising in trauma healing with over 14 years’ experience. If the weight of the past feels heavy and you’re ready for change, I’m here to help you heal and create lasting change.
Using evidence-based approaches like EMDR, CBT, and IPT, I create a safe space where you can understand your story, process past pain, and reclaim your peace.
Hi there and welcome. I specialise in helping individuals overcome their eating difficulties, which is a broad term used to describe Eating Disorders and Disordered Eating. I provide in-person and online treatment to improve your relationship with food, eating and body appearance and to successfully move forward from unhelpful coping behaviours around them. I am qualified and accredited in Enhanced Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT-E) which is approved by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) to support many presentations of eating disorders.
Hi there and welcome. I specialise in helping individuals overcome their eating difficulties, which is a broad term used to describe Eating Disorders and Disordered Eating. I provide in-person and online treatment to improve your relationship with food, eating and body appearance and to successfully move forward from unhelpful coping behaviours around them. I am qualified and accredited in Enhanced Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT-E) which is approved by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) to support many presentations of eating disorders.
Modern life seems to offer more and more challenges, and more and more people are looking for support in facing them. As a counsellor, my role is to provide space and guidance to help you negotiate the current situation you are in, find some understanding, relieve emotional and psychological pain and stress, and return some balance to your life to help you face the demands of the modern world. Exploring your thoughts, feelings and behaviours with someone from outside your day-to-day life often leads to a fresh perspective, and perhaps a renewed vision for the future. Not only for you, but for the important people in your life too.
Modern life seems to offer more and more challenges, and more and more people are looking for support in facing them. As a counsellor, my role is to provide space and guidance to help you negotiate the current situation you are in, find some understanding, relieve emotional and psychological pain and stress, and return some balance to your life to help you face the demands of the modern world. Exploring your thoughts, feelings and behaviours with someone from outside your day-to-day life often leads to a fresh perspective, and perhaps a renewed vision for the future. Not only for you, but for the important people in your life too.
I am a Gestalt Therapist. My Counselling Room is very spacious, safe & secure. It provides a confidential environment for you to express yourself freely & openly in any way you feel comfortable, about any issues you have to deal with, without fear of judgement or offending or upsetting those closest to you, family, friends or colleagues. A place where you're able to be honest with yourself, about how situations or events affect you personally, where you can explore those feelings, thoughts & emotions that can sometimes be hard to deal with. COVID-19 SAFETY MEASURES:- F2F (With 2m Social Distancing), PHONE & ZOOM Availablity.
I am a Gestalt Therapist. My Counselling Room is very spacious, safe & secure. It provides a confidential environment for you to express yourself freely & openly in any way you feel comfortable, about any issues you have to deal with, without fear of judgement or offending or upsetting those closest to you, family, friends or colleagues. A place where you're able to be honest with yourself, about how situations or events affect you personally, where you can explore those feelings, thoughts & emotions that can sometimes be hard to deal with. COVID-19 SAFETY MEASURES:- F2F (With 2m Social Distancing), PHONE & ZOOM Availablity.
Hello, I am Holly Frogley, the psychological therapist behind Hill Head Psychological Therapy, based in Hampshire. I have had the privilege of supporting people to overcome a range of difficulties for over 10 years within NHS therapy services, although I specialise in trauma therapy. I am a BABCP accredited CBT therapist and supervisor, and qualified EMDR therapist. My work is also informed by compassion focused therapy and ACT (acceptance and commitment therapy), which allows me to have the flexibility to help you overcome complex or longstanding difficulties.
Hello, I am Holly Frogley, the psychological therapist behind Hill Head Psychological Therapy, based in Hampshire. I have had the privilege of supporting people to overcome a range of difficulties for over 10 years within NHS therapy services, although I specialise in trauma therapy. I am a BABCP accredited CBT therapist and supervisor, and qualified EMDR therapist. My work is also informed by compassion focused therapy and ACT (acceptance and commitment therapy), which allows me to have the flexibility to help you overcome complex or longstanding difficulties.
Hello, I am Sarah.
I am experienced in supporting individuals who feel overwhelmed by challenges in home life or work, as well as those navigating past traumas, late ADHD diagnoses, depression, or seeking personal growth. My approach is tailored to meet the unique needs of each individual, providing a compassionate space for exploration and healing.
I offer walk-and-talk therapy to those who prefer to be outside in nature.
Hello, I am Sarah.
I am experienced in supporting individuals who feel overwhelmed by challenges in home life or work, as well as those navigating past traumas, late ADHD diagnoses, depression, or seeking personal growth. My approach is tailored to meet the unique needs of each individual, providing a compassionate space for exploration and healing.
I offer walk-and-talk therapy to those who prefer to be outside in nature.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and TRE Provider (Trauma and Tension Releasing Exercise) based in Southampton Hampshire. Being Integrative means that I am able to use tools from many different types of therapy to support each individual I work with. TRE is a body based tool that enables me to help people in an alternative way than traditional talk therapy.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and TRE Provider (Trauma and Tension Releasing Exercise) based in Southampton Hampshire. Being Integrative means that I am able to use tools from many different types of therapy to support each individual I work with. TRE is a body based tool that enables me to help people in an alternative way than traditional talk therapy.
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
Hello, I am a highly qualified and registered counsellor with over 10 years experience.
I imagine you're looking for some help in understanding some difficult feelings and emotions or are hoping to make some changes to your life but not sure what or how? I can help you.
If you’re part of a couple and need help with a lack of intimacy, betrayal or poor communication or something else, I have the skills and tools to help your relationship get back on track.
Feel free to send me a message or give me a call, we can arrange an informal chat to discuss how I can support you.
Warmest Wishes, Catherine
Hello, I am a highly qualified and registered counsellor with over 10 years experience.
I imagine you're looking for some help in understanding some difficult feelings and emotions or are hoping to make some changes to your life but not sure what or how? I can help you.
If you’re part of a couple and need help with a lack of intimacy, betrayal or poor communication or something else, I have the skills and tools to help your relationship get back on track.
Feel free to send me a message or give me a call, we can arrange an informal chat to discuss how I can support you.
Warmest Wishes, Catherine
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in SO31
20+
Average cost per session
£60
Counsellors in SO31 who prioritize treating:
| 91% | Depression |
| 91% | Anxiety |
| 87% | Self Esteem |
| 74% | Relationship Issues |
| 74% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 74% | Family Conflict |
| 70% | Bereavement |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 75% | Bupa |
| 50% | AXA PPP |
| 38% | Aviva |
How Counsellors in SO31 see their clients
| 96% | In Person and Online | |
| 4% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 96% | Female | |
| 4% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in SO31?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.