Counselling in SO14
Clinical Psychologist & BWRT Advanced Practitioner.
Are you a high-functioning woman exhausted by her own strength?
I work with two groups of women. Firstly, those navigating burnout, recovery from toxic or painful relationships, and complex trauma — women who are holding everything together on the outside while quietly falling apart inside. Secondly, women living with chronic or life-limiting illness: from the shock of diagnosis to treatment trauma, through medically-induced menopause, changes in body image and identity, and the relentless labour of caring for others while trying to hold yourself together.
Clinical Psychologist & BWRT Advanced Practitioner.
Are you a high-functioning woman exhausted by her own strength?
I work with two groups of women. Firstly, those navigating burnout, recovery from toxic or painful relationships, and complex trauma — women who are holding everything together on the outside while quietly falling apart inside. Secondly, women living with chronic or life-limiting illness: from the shock of diagnosis to treatment trauma, through medically-induced menopause, changes in body image and identity, and the relentless labour of caring for others while trying to hold yourself together.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, stress, relationship issues, or any other personal challenges, your needs will be safely met. With extensive experience working with couples and individuals, I'm committed to your progress. I support and guide you towards greater clarity and emotional stability.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, stress, relationship issues, or any other personal challenges, your needs will be safely met. With extensive experience working with couples and individuals, I'm committed to your progress. I support and guide you towards greater clarity and emotional stability.
You may be on a difficult journey, struggling with some difficulties for quite some time and not knowing where to start. You may feel like your life has been on hold for a while and you lost connection with what used to be important. Perhaps your quality of life, and relationships has been affected and you function on autopilot having difficulty being present?
You may be on a difficult journey, struggling with some difficulties for quite some time and not knowing where to start. You may feel like your life has been on hold for a while and you lost connection with what used to be important. Perhaps your quality of life, and relationships has been affected and you function on autopilot having difficulty being present?
I offer a professional, confidential and friendly space for you to explore whatever is troubling you. I am open, honest and laid back and provide a safe, non-judgmental environment to explore any difficulties in your life. Talking about and exploring your emotions and feelings will help you come to your own conclusions and empower you to take your next steps in life. Talking to a counsellor can feel daunting, but can help you resolve and understand any challenges or difficulties you may be facing. Counselling can help you make sense of your emotions bringing about positive change in your life. I also work using EMDR.
I offer a professional, confidential and friendly space for you to explore whatever is troubling you. I am open, honest and laid back and provide a safe, non-judgmental environment to explore any difficulties in your life. Talking about and exploring your emotions and feelings will help you come to your own conclusions and empower you to take your next steps in life. Talking to a counsellor can feel daunting, but can help you resolve and understand any challenges or difficulties you may be facing. Counselling can help you make sense of your emotions bringing about positive change in your life. I also work using EMDR.
Need to talk to someone as you feel stuck? I might be able to help you.
Need to talk to someone as you feel stuck? I might be able to help you.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by unresolved conflicts, or stuck in repetitive patterns in relationships? Perhaps you struggle with communication, or anger issues? I work with both individuals and couples facing relationship challenges helping them to understand and address their thoughts, feelings and behaviours. With my extensive experience our sessions can support you to gain new perspectives, identify patterns and make choices that align with your values, so you can feel more confident in yourself and fulfilled in your relationships.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by unresolved conflicts, or stuck in repetitive patterns in relationships? Perhaps you struggle with communication, or anger issues? I work with both individuals and couples facing relationship challenges helping them to understand and address their thoughts, feelings and behaviours. With my extensive experience our sessions can support you to gain new perspectives, identify patterns and make choices that align with your values, so you can feel more confident in yourself and fulfilled in your relationships.
As a Person-Centred Psychotherapist, I offer therapy to people who are at a point in their lives where they recognise a need for change, or that they feel something is not right, and want to discover what that is, I will support you on that journey. We will work through any issues together to make the changes you need to get your life back on track and feeling happier and fulfilled. I also work with couples, siblings, parent and child and friendships, managing these relationships, gaining a better understanding of each other when life has become difficult. If you have any questions please feel free to get in touch.
As a Person-Centred Psychotherapist, I offer therapy to people who are at a point in their lives where they recognise a need for change, or that they feel something is not right, and want to discover what that is, I will support you on that journey. We will work through any issues together to make the changes you need to get your life back on track and feeling happier and fulfilled. I also work with couples, siblings, parent and child and friendships, managing these relationships, gaining a better understanding of each other when life has become difficult. If you have any questions please feel free to get in touch.
Welcome to my profile. My name is Nichola, I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt Counsellor/Life Coach. As a counsellor I realise that life brings with it for a lot of people, past and present problems which can have a knock on effect on your mental health. This then has an effect on both you, and on the relationships around you. I deal with a vast range of problems and mental health issues. Please whatever it is that has brought you here, I will work with you side by side so you can begin to challenge what ever it is that his going on for you today. I am an easy person to talk to.
Welcome to my profile. My name is Nichola, I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt Counsellor/Life Coach. As a counsellor I realise that life brings with it for a lot of people, past and present problems which can have a knock on effect on your mental health. This then has an effect on both you, and on the relationships around you. I deal with a vast range of problems and mental health issues. Please whatever it is that has brought you here, I will work with you side by side so you can begin to challenge what ever it is that his going on for you today. I am an easy person to talk to.
I am a DipHE Gestalt Humanistic Counsellor with over 15 years’ experience - based in Bitterne, Southampton. My main areas of expertise are drugs and alcohol addiction Issues, relationship difficulties, breakups, narcissistic abuse, ADHD, Autism, anxiety and depression. Are you having problems with managing your drinking or drug use and things in your life have become unmanageable? Are you finding it difficult to maintain your relationships with people? Are looking for a calm, centred, caring counsellor who can support you with your difficulties and provide safe space for you to talk?
I am a DipHE Gestalt Humanistic Counsellor with over 15 years’ experience - based in Bitterne, Southampton. My main areas of expertise are drugs and alcohol addiction Issues, relationship difficulties, breakups, narcissistic abuse, ADHD, Autism, anxiety and depression. Are you having problems with managing your drinking or drug use and things in your life have become unmanageable? Are you finding it difficult to maintain your relationships with people? Are looking for a calm, centred, caring counsellor who can support you with your difficulties and provide safe space for you to talk?
Therapy is an active process where we work together. I work with you to firstly make sense of your difficulties and then agree a plan to use therapy to work towards your goals. I am trained in a number of therapies and we can see which feels the best fit for you and your goals. I have experience working with depression, anxiety disorders such as social anxiety, phobias, GAD and OCD. I also have long term experience of teaching coping skills to manage difficult thoughts and feelings, developing acceptance and working on self esteem. I focus mainly on the here and now and always consider how therapy will get you closer to your goals.
Therapy is an active process where we work together. I work with you to firstly make sense of your difficulties and then agree a plan to use therapy to work towards your goals. I am trained in a number of therapies and we can see which feels the best fit for you and your goals. I have experience working with depression, anxiety disorders such as social anxiety, phobias, GAD and OCD. I also have long term experience of teaching coping skills to manage difficult thoughts and feelings, developing acceptance and working on self esteem. I focus mainly on the here and now and always consider how therapy will get you closer to your goals.
Hello, I am Vanessa (she/her). I believe therapy offers a safe, supportive space where you can feel heard, understood, and accepted. You may come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, struggling with anxiety, grief, autism-related challenges, relationship issues, or caring responsibilities. You may come to me for clarity, self-awareness, and relief from painful patterns. I help cultivate self-acceptance, self-compassion, and a stronger sense of groundedness. I offer therapy in both English and French, so you are welcome to speak in the language you feel most comfortable using.
Hello, I am Vanessa (she/her). I believe therapy offers a safe, supportive space where you can feel heard, understood, and accepted. You may come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, struggling with anxiety, grief, autism-related challenges, relationship issues, or caring responsibilities. You may come to me for clarity, self-awareness, and relief from painful patterns. I help cultivate self-acceptance, self-compassion, and a stronger sense of groundedness. I offer therapy in both English and French, so you are welcome to speak in the language you feel most comfortable using.
Many of the people I work with have spent a long time carrying things on their own. Some have reached a point where they know something needs to change, even if they can't yet explain why. Others feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves, while some are facing anxiety, grief, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem or significant life changes. You don't need to arrive with all the answers. Together, we'll explore your experiences in a warm, accepting and confidential space, helping you better understand yourself and discover a way forward that feels authentic to you.
Many of the people I work with have spent a long time carrying things on their own. Some have reached a point where they know something needs to change, even if they can't yet explain why. Others feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves, while some are facing anxiety, grief, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem or significant life changes. You don't need to arrive with all the answers. Together, we'll explore your experiences in a warm, accepting and confidential space, helping you better understand yourself and discover a way forward that feels authentic to you.
Welcome to KVLS Bournemouth. We provide accessible, affordable counselling and psychotherapy for adults and adolescents, from as little as £25 a session, with unlimited sessions available — because cost and waiting lists shouldn't stand between you and support. Sessions are available at our Bournemouth branch, our main hub in Southampton, or online, whichever suits you best. Our practitioners draw on a range of therapeutic approaches, tailored to you, to help with anxiety, low mood, stress, relationship difficulties, trauma, and more. Getting started is simple — reach out to arrange your first session.
Welcome to KVLS Bournemouth. We provide accessible, affordable counselling and psychotherapy for adults and adolescents, from as little as £25 a session, with unlimited sessions available — because cost and waiting lists shouldn't stand between you and support. Sessions are available at our Bournemouth branch, our main hub in Southampton, or online, whichever suits you best. Our practitioners draw on a range of therapeutic approaches, tailored to you, to help with anxiety, low mood, stress, relationship difficulties, trauma, and more. Getting started is simple — reach out to arrange your first session.
Hello and welcome. I’m Dr Lara Akers-Douglas, a Clinical Psychologist based in Southampton and on the Isle of Wight, also offering online sessions. I specialise in trauma and provide evidence-based psychological therapy to support healing after difficult life events. Alongside trauma work, I support people with many of life’s challenges — such as anxiety, low mood, stress, OCD, burnout, self-esteem, difficulties in relationships, loss, and times of transition. My approach is collaborative and supportive, helping clients develop insight, resilience, and confidence while improving their mental health and overall wellbeing.
Hello and welcome. I’m Dr Lara Akers-Douglas, a Clinical Psychologist based in Southampton and on the Isle of Wight, also offering online sessions. I specialise in trauma and provide evidence-based psychological therapy to support healing after difficult life events. Alongside trauma work, I support people with many of life’s challenges — such as anxiety, low mood, stress, OCD, burnout, self-esteem, difficulties in relationships, loss, and times of transition. My approach is collaborative and supportive, helping clients develop insight, resilience, and confidence while improving their mental health and overall wellbeing.
We all struggle with difficulties at times; and it can be a great relief to face them with the right help. I have 20 years’ experience as a counsellor and offer counselling to individuals in a quiet, secure space. My aim includes helping you come to a clearer understanding of what has brought you to counselling, and supporting you in finding the way forwards that feels right for you. Perhaps surprisingly, our difficulties can become a source of change and growth.
We all struggle with difficulties at times; and it can be a great relief to face them with the right help. I have 20 years’ experience as a counsellor and offer counselling to individuals in a quiet, secure space. My aim includes helping you come to a clearer understanding of what has brought you to counselling, and supporting you in finding the way forwards that feels right for you. Perhaps surprisingly, our difficulties can become a source of change and growth.
As an experienced Integrative MBACP Accredited Psychotherapeutic Therapist, I offer a confidential, warm and compassionate space to explore issues around anxiety, depression, work related stress, relationship difficulties, bereavement, past trauma, obsessive behaviours and disordered eating. I have many years of experience both as a Therapist and Clinical Supervisor working with Individual Adults, Couples and Groups. I work face to face and online. BUPA, Aviva, Vitality Health and AXA Registered
As an experienced Integrative MBACP Accredited Psychotherapeutic Therapist, I offer a confidential, warm and compassionate space to explore issues around anxiety, depression, work related stress, relationship difficulties, bereavement, past trauma, obsessive behaviours and disordered eating. I have many years of experience both as a Therapist and Clinical Supervisor working with Individual Adults, Couples and Groups. I work face to face and online. BUPA, Aviva, Vitality Health and AXA Registered
Do you feel anxious, depressed or burned out? Are events from your past affecting your present? Do you want more from your relationships or to understand your neurotype? I believe passionately that everyone can benefit from empathetic, professional support. I am a registered counsellor and psychotherapist and I have worked in the field of mental health and well-being for many years, in private practice, charitable counselling services and in statutory homeless, addiction and resettlement services. I take great joy from working with people from all backgrounds, getting to know their stories and their strengths.
Do you feel anxious, depressed or burned out? Are events from your past affecting your present? Do you want more from your relationships or to understand your neurotype? I believe passionately that everyone can benefit from empathetic, professional support. I am a registered counsellor and psychotherapist and I have worked in the field of mental health and well-being for many years, in private practice, charitable counselling services and in statutory homeless, addiction and resettlement services. I take great joy from working with people from all backgrounds, getting to know their stories and their strengths.
I am a BABCP registered Psychotherapist. It is my goal to facilitate and communicate with my clients as best as they can to uncover the essence of concerning issues and those that may arise. These issues can be challenging and overwhelming. My experience has shown that using a non-judgmental, open and honest approach enables clients to understand themselves and their lives better after understanding how to communicate. This skill begins on day one of therapy and can be applied to various life situations. I am honored to hear clients speak about what matters to them most, and to help them reach their full potential.
I am a BABCP registered Psychotherapist. It is my goal to facilitate and communicate with my clients as best as they can to uncover the essence of concerning issues and those that may arise. These issues can be challenging and overwhelming. My experience has shown that using a non-judgmental, open and honest approach enables clients to understand themselves and their lives better after understanding how to communicate. This skill begins on day one of therapy and can be applied to various life situations. I am honored to hear clients speak about what matters to them most, and to help them reach their full potential.
Hi, my name is Adriana Taylor, I am a certified PTUK Play Therapist specializing in helping children express, heal and grow through play and creative activities. I believe that play is a child's natural language - a powerful way to make sense of their big feelings, life changes, difficult life experiences and challenges they can't put into words. I offer play therapy to children 4 to 12 years old. I create a safe, supportive and playful space where children can explore their emotions, build confidence, selfesteem and strenghten relationships with important people in their lives.
Hi, my name is Adriana Taylor, I am a certified PTUK Play Therapist specializing in helping children express, heal and grow through play and creative activities. I believe that play is a child's natural language - a powerful way to make sense of their big feelings, life changes, difficult life experiences and challenges they can't put into words. I offer play therapy to children 4 to 12 years old. I create a safe, supportive and playful space where children can explore their emotions, build confidence, selfesteem and strenghten relationships with important people in their lives.
I am a qualified counsellor originally from Sweden and professionally trained in England. My approach is integrative and evidence-based, shaped by both my clinical training and a Nordic perspective on wellbeing that focuses on balance, reflection, and long-term emotional health. I work collaboratively with clients, offering a supportive and thoughtful space to explore difficulties, build self-understanding, and support personal growth.
I am a qualified counsellor originally from Sweden and professionally trained in England. My approach is integrative and evidence-based, shaped by both my clinical training and a Nordic perspective on wellbeing that focuses on balance, reflection, and long-term emotional health. I work collaboratively with clients, offering a supportive and thoughtful space to explore difficulties, build self-understanding, and support personal growth.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in SO14
70+
Average cost per session
£60
Counsellors in SO14 who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 91% | Depression |
| 89% | Self Esteem |
| 85% | Stress |
| 76% | Relationship Issues |
| 76% | Bereavement |
| 70% | Trauma and PTSD |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 81% | Aviva |
| 76% | AXA PPP |
| 57% | Bupa |
How Counsellors in SO14 see their clients
| 85% | In Person and Online | |
| 15% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 85% | Female | |
| 14% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in SO14?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.