Counselling in Southampton
Still scrolling therapist profiles wondering if you'll find the right fit? If you look ok on the outside but feel exhausted on the inside, you can pause here. Not sure what kind of professional you need? Let's find out whether CBT or EMDR could help. I work with adults facing stress, anxiety, difficult past and life changes, including neurodivergent adults. You've read the books, perhaps therapy. Still, your mind keeps future tripping without switching off. It replays conversations, anticipates problems and asks “What if I can't cope?”. And you may have lost trust in yourself, procrastinating, or feel embarrassed about struggling.
Still scrolling therapist profiles wondering if you'll find the right fit? If you look ok on the outside but feel exhausted on the inside, you can pause here. Not sure what kind of professional you need? Let's find out whether CBT or EMDR could help. I work with adults facing stress, anxiety, difficult past and life changes, including neurodivergent adults. You've read the books, perhaps therapy. Still, your mind keeps future tripping without switching off. It replays conversations, anticipates problems and asks “What if I can't cope?”. And you may have lost trust in yourself, procrastinating, or feel embarrassed about struggling.
Modern life seems to offer more and more challenges, and more and more people are looking for support in facing them. As a therapist, my role is to provide space and guidance to help you negotiate the current situation you are in, find some understanding, relieve emotional and psychological pain and stress, and return some balance to your life to help you face the demands of the modern world. Exploring your thoughts, feelings and behaviours with someone from outside your day-to-day life often leads to a fresh perspective, and perhaps a renewed vision for the future. Not only for you, but for the important people in your life too.
Modern life seems to offer more and more challenges, and more and more people are looking for support in facing them. As a therapist, my role is to provide space and guidance to help you negotiate the current situation you are in, find some understanding, relieve emotional and psychological pain and stress, and return some balance to your life to help you face the demands of the modern world. Exploring your thoughts, feelings and behaviours with someone from outside your day-to-day life often leads to a fresh perspective, and perhaps a renewed vision for the future. Not only for you, but for the important people in your life too.
Many of my clients present to me with anxiety, low-confidence or specific mental health issues. Goals are often to feel happier, cope better at work or in relationships. Steps to achieving this tend to centre around better understanding of self and identifying what barriers we have constructed that keep us stuck.
Instead of seeing an insurmountable wall, in many cases there's an opportunity for growth. My job is to help you figure out how to take your first steps and overcome fear and negativity. Often, the very first is asking for help.
Many of my clients present to me with anxiety, low-confidence or specific mental health issues. Goals are often to feel happier, cope better at work or in relationships. Steps to achieving this tend to centre around better understanding of self and identifying what barriers we have constructed that keep us stuck.
Instead of seeing an insurmountable wall, in many cases there's an opportunity for growth. My job is to help you figure out how to take your first steps and overcome fear and negativity. Often, the very first is asking for help.
We are all on this journey through life, many different paths are taken, some we choose to take and others that are out of our control, maybe you feel like you have lost your way and want to get back on track.
My philosophy in life is anything is possible, with the right mindset focusing on the positives you can achieve that goal, retraining the mind and thought process shifting the negative over thinking to a positive reality, repeating patterns so they eventually become the everyday normal.
We are all unique each with our own struggles, it is how we deal with these challenges that may come our way.
We are all on this journey through life, many different paths are taken, some we choose to take and others that are out of our control, maybe you feel like you have lost your way and want to get back on track.
My philosophy in life is anything is possible, with the right mindset focusing on the positives you can achieve that goal, retraining the mind and thought process shifting the negative over thinking to a positive reality, repeating patterns so they eventually become the everyday normal.
We are all unique each with our own struggles, it is how we deal with these challenges that may come our way.
You might be feeling confused, anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed—perhaps all of these at once. If you're finding it hard to cope, counselling can offer support and a space to make sense of what you're experiencing. I have worked with adults of all ages, supporting clients through a wide range of issues and life challenges.
You might be feeling confused, anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed—perhaps all of these at once. If you're finding it hard to cope, counselling can offer support and a space to make sense of what you're experiencing. I have worked with adults of all ages, supporting clients through a wide range of issues and life challenges.
If life has been feeling heavy, overwhelming, or perhaps simply not quite like yourself, you don't have to face it alone. Hello, and a very warm welcome. I work with adults, couples and young people experiencing anxiety, low mood, grief, relationship difficulties or times when life simply feels difficult to navigate. You don't need to arrive with the right words or even know where to begin. Whatever has brought you here, we can begin there—together, at a pace that feels right for you.
If life has been feeling heavy, overwhelming, or perhaps simply not quite like yourself, you don't have to face it alone. Hello, and a very warm welcome. I work with adults, couples and young people experiencing anxiety, low mood, grief, relationship difficulties or times when life simply feels difficult to navigate. You don't need to arrive with the right words or even know where to begin. Whatever has brought you here, we can begin there—together, at a pace that feels right for you.
Please note, I am currently at capacity and operating a waiting list. I may also be slow to respond due to the number of enquiries. Thank you.
I speak to adults and young people who want to better their situation. Sometimes we may feel so low that we lose hope, but a qualified counsellor will enable you to find solutions you didn’t know existed.
Please note, I am currently at capacity and operating a waiting list. I may also be slow to respond due to the number of enquiries. Thank you.
I speak to adults and young people who want to better their situation. Sometimes we may feel so low that we lose hope, but a qualified counsellor will enable you to find solutions you didn’t know existed.
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
You might be feeling trapped by past trauma, anxiety, or grief - struggling to move forward despite your best efforts. You want relief from painful emotions, a calmer mind, and a renewed sense of self. You’re looking for a therapist who understands and can help you find lasting change.
You might be feeling trapped by past trauma, anxiety, or grief - struggling to move forward despite your best efforts. You want relief from painful emotions, a calmer mind, and a renewed sense of self. You’re looking for a therapist who understands and can help you find lasting change.
I qualified as a Person-Centered Psychotherapist/Counsellor in 2010. I now support clients with a range of presenting issues such as: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship difficulties, Trauma, Abuse, and low Self-Esteem. My aim is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings openly.
I practice Person-Centered Therapy, which places you at the heart of the process. Rather than directing sessions or making assumptions, I work alongside you as you explore what feels most important.
I qualified as a Person-Centered Psychotherapist/Counsellor in 2010. I now support clients with a range of presenting issues such as: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship difficulties, Trauma, Abuse, and low Self-Esteem. My aim is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings openly.
I practice Person-Centered Therapy, which places you at the heart of the process. Rather than directing sessions or making assumptions, I work alongside you as you explore what feels most important.
Having worked in the NHS for 9 years and Children Mental Health Charities I have gained a wealth of knowledge in supporting both Adults and Children with common Mental Health difficulties.
Within my Clinical Practice I offer a safe, confidential space for processing your own life experiences and developing deeper greater self-awareness. I offer a mixture of Person-Centred therapy and low intensity Cognitive Behavioural Therapy informed, which will be tailored to meet your individual goals during your initial assessment. Together we will work through your own specific needs and find ways to help manage your symptoms.
Having worked in the NHS for 9 years and Children Mental Health Charities I have gained a wealth of knowledge in supporting both Adults and Children with common Mental Health difficulties.
Within my Clinical Practice I offer a safe, confidential space for processing your own life experiences and developing deeper greater self-awareness. I offer a mixture of Person-Centred therapy and low intensity Cognitive Behavioural Therapy informed, which will be tailored to meet your individual goals during your initial assessment. Together we will work through your own specific needs and find ways to help manage your symptoms.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and TRE Provider (Trauma and Tension Releasing Exercise) based in Southampton Hampshire. Being Integrative means that I am able to use tools from many different types of therapy to support each individual I work with. TRE is a body based tool that enables me to help people in an alternative way than traditional talk therapy.
I am also trained in CBT-E and Brainspotting and can utilise these tools where needed.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and TRE Provider (Trauma and Tension Releasing Exercise) based in Southampton Hampshire. Being Integrative means that I am able to use tools from many different types of therapy to support each individual I work with. TRE is a body based tool that enables me to help people in an alternative way than traditional talk therapy.
I am also trained in CBT-E and Brainspotting and can utilise these tools where needed.
Hi I’m Paula.
I offer specialist online counselling for Grief, Bereavement and Trauma.
Struggling with sleep, appetite, anxiety or intrusive memories?
With the right support you can start to reclaim your nights, learn how to process and manage the traumatic memories and flashbacks, find it easier to be less snappy with loved ones and enjoy your relationships with friends and family and regain the joy in life. It isn't enough to get by, you deserve to thrive and fully engage with life again.
You don't have to navigate this alone.
Secure online sessions available.
I offer a free 20 minute introductory call.
Hi I’m Paula.
I offer specialist online counselling for Grief, Bereavement and Trauma.
Struggling with sleep, appetite, anxiety or intrusive memories?
With the right support you can start to reclaim your nights, learn how to process and manage the traumatic memories and flashbacks, find it easier to be less snappy with loved ones and enjoy your relationships with friends and family and regain the joy in life. It isn't enough to get by, you deserve to thrive and fully engage with life again.
You don't have to navigate this alone.
Secure online sessions available.
I offer a free 20 minute introductory call.
Welcome. I am an accredited counsellor with 19 years experience of the many issues that clients bring to counselling. My approach is warm and professional and I aim to provide a safe and open environment and a non-judgemental and respectful approach.
Welcome. I am an accredited counsellor with 19 years experience of the many issues that clients bring to counselling. My approach is warm and professional and I aim to provide a safe and open environment and a non-judgemental and respectful approach.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, and it’s okay to need a little extra support. You might be feeling stuck, lost, or unsure how to move forward, or finding it hard to achieve the things that matter to you. These experiences can sometimes lead to self-criticism or self-doubt. Counselling offers a safe, confidential, and supportive space where you can talk openly about whatever you’re going through, helping you move toward the growth and positive change you’d like to see in your life.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, and it’s okay to need a little extra support. You might be feeling stuck, lost, or unsure how to move forward, or finding it hard to achieve the things that matter to you. These experiences can sometimes lead to self-criticism or self-doubt. Counselling offers a safe, confidential, and supportive space where you can talk openly about whatever you’re going through, helping you move toward the growth and positive change you’d like to see in your life.
I offer a very friendly service to my clients who come from all sorts of backgrounds. Because I am a psychotherapist, my work is concerned not only with helping you to identify your problems and their causes, but also with helping you to find solutions that suit you. Based on sound professional principles and extensive experience, my help is offered in an informal atmosphere in a very relaxed environment. If you want to know more then why not have a look at my website - www.normanclaringbull.co.uk
I offer a very friendly service to my clients who come from all sorts of backgrounds. Because I am a psychotherapist, my work is concerned not only with helping you to identify your problems and their causes, but also with helping you to find solutions that suit you. Based on sound professional principles and extensive experience, my help is offered in an informal atmosphere in a very relaxed environment. If you want to know more then why not have a look at my website - www.normanclaringbull.co.uk
Angeline is a fully accredited BACP Therapist and EMDR Practitioner Europe Accredited , offering a compassionate, integrative approach to therapy that is deeply rooted in humanistic values.
Angeline believes that every person has the inner strength for healing, growth and change. She will help you to connect with your own inner strength at a pace that suits you.
Angeline offers a safe, respectful space where you can explore your thoughts, emotions and experiences without fear of judgement. If you are experiencing trauma, anxiety or low mood or simply feeling stuck she will work collaboratively with you.
Angeline is a fully accredited BACP Therapist and EMDR Practitioner Europe Accredited , offering a compassionate, integrative approach to therapy that is deeply rooted in humanistic values.
Angeline believes that every person has the inner strength for healing, growth and change. She will help you to connect with your own inner strength at a pace that suits you.
Angeline offers a safe, respectful space where you can explore your thoughts, emotions and experiences without fear of judgement. If you are experiencing trauma, anxiety or low mood or simply feeling stuck she will work collaboratively with you.
I work with adults who may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, low, stuck, lacking in confidence, or simply not quite themselves. You may know what’s wrong, have experienced trauma, or just have a sense that something needs to change. I offer a warm, down-to-earth space to make sense of what’s going on, understand patterns and beliefs that may be keeping you stuck, and find ways forward that feel manageable and true to you. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin.
I work with adults who may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, low, stuck, lacking in confidence, or simply not quite themselves. You may know what’s wrong, have experienced trauma, or just have a sense that something needs to change. I offer a warm, down-to-earth space to make sense of what’s going on, understand patterns and beliefs that may be keeping you stuck, and find ways forward that feel manageable and true to you. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin.
My aim is to explore together the issues you bring in a safe non-judgemental environment and support you to find a way forward. Many of us have issues in our lives that make us feel ‘stuck’ and stop us living the lives we want to live. This can be related to situations that have occurred recently or more long-standing issues going back to childhood. Our usual coping mechanisms may not be enough and the people we have relied on in the past for support may not be able to help with our current issues.
My aim is to explore together the issues you bring in a safe non-judgemental environment and support you to find a way forward. Many of us have issues in our lives that make us feel ‘stuck’ and stop us living the lives we want to live. This can be related to situations that have occurred recently or more long-standing issues going back to childhood. Our usual coping mechanisms may not be enough and the people we have relied on in the past for support may not be able to help with our current issues.
I can help with a wide range of issues including feeling anxious, depressed, finding it difficult to cope, relationship and family issues, bereavement, being worried or confused about your sexuality or gender, dealing with effects of sexual, mental or physical abuse, lack of confidence, low self esteem, panic attacks, managing anger or frustration, difficulties at school, work or college, OCD, the impact of trauma, coping with change, worries about drinking or drug use, self harm, resolving 'unfinished business’ and compulsive behaviours. I am a qualified supervisor, EMDR therapist and accredited by the BACP.
I can help with a wide range of issues including feeling anxious, depressed, finding it difficult to cope, relationship and family issues, bereavement, being worried or confused about your sexuality or gender, dealing with effects of sexual, mental or physical abuse, lack of confidence, low self esteem, panic attacks, managing anger or frustration, difficulties at school, work or college, OCD, the impact of trauma, coping with change, worries about drinking or drug use, self harm, resolving 'unfinished business’ and compulsive behaviours. I am a qualified supervisor, EMDR therapist and accredited by the BACP.
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- Romsey
- Titchfield
- Totton
- Winchester
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Southampton
200+
Average cost per session
£62
Counsellors in Southampton who prioritize treating:
| 90% | Anxiety |
| 82% | Depression |
| 81% | Self Esteem |
| 79% | Stress |
| 75% | Relationship Issues |
| 66% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 66% | Complex PTSD |
Average years in practice
9 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 70% | Aviva |
| 65% | AXA PPP |
| 61% | Bupa |
How Counsellors in Southampton see their clients
| 83% | In Person and Online | |
| 17% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 83% | Female | |
| 16% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Southampton?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.
