Marriage Counseling Therapists in Fairfax County, VA

Looking for help is never easy. Especially in these stressful times and if you may well be meeting a new therapist on line rather than in person. Still, life problems can reach a crisis point when one knows they need to reach out for help. Whether or not you have been in therapy before, with the right help you can make real, positive changes in your feelings, your behavior and your relationships, bringing more satisfaction and joy into your life.

Individuals seek treatment because they are in pain. Facing one's own weaknesses is difficult and opening up even more so-particularly for people whose cultural background and/or family upbringing discourges transparency /self-disclosure. My priority is to create a safe environment where my clients may confront, accept and change aspects of their lives they consider shameful and/or self-destructive. I have been invited as a guest speaker by a number of organizations and regularly offer seminars and work shops on such themes as self-esteem,communication skills, stress management and the challenges of being married/single and dating

Are you wanting to change old patterns of relating to your family, your partner, your kids, or your friends? Are you tired of being stuck in the same cycles of worry, fear, sadness, or anger? If so, now is the time to invest in yourself and make your life better. As a compassionate and direct therapist, I incorporate your values, unique life history, and the layers of your identity into the work you do. Your unique socioeconomic, cultural and family history are included and valued. Counseling is tailored to your and your family's needs and personal goals. My overall approach is holistic, focusing on the mind-body-spirit connection.

I work with individuals and couples evolving through various stages of their lives, whether newly married, considering divorce or dealing with other emotional life changing events. While encouraging my clients to participate fully in the therapy process, I also hold clients accountable for their progress. I have successfully treated clients coping with depression, sex/intimacy, infidelity and anxiety issues. With sensitivity and compassion, I work with each client to help them build on their strengths and identify solutions to unresolved issues. The techniques my clients find most beneficial include: Enneagram Personality Assessments, PAIRS Daily Temperature Reading, and Relationship Detox.

Jim has been in clinical practice since 1983. He helps individuals and couples work through issues such as: •Relationships •Adjustment and life-stage •Workplace/career •Separation/divorce/recovery issues •Parenting and co-parenting •Aging parents •Substance abuse. He has an active, conversational style, and listens carefully to help develop goals and strategies. He teaches skill-building tools and approaches, especially for improving communications. He encourages constructive dialogue, identifies blind spots, offers valuable suggestions, and facilitates insight to identify and process confusing emotions and ideas.

I provide therapy, insight, and support to children and their parents, teens, adults, couples, and families. I use a variety of techniques based in sound theory to include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy to guide clients through their challenges. In sessions clients address anxiety, depression, relationship/marital difficulties, grief & loss difficulties, parental separation/divorce, trauma/PTSD, suicidal ideation/self-harm, social phobias, peer relationship and social skills difficulties, ADHD, and other behavioral Issues.

With 25+ years experience providing psychotherapy to individuals and couples, I enjoy knowing and helping EACH client. Call/email me if you are struggling with anxiety/depression, low self-esteem, relationship/marital problems or everyday stress. My approach comes from training in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Attachment-based Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness. I enjoy working with individuals on problems of everyday living. The couples I see are stuck in negative cycles, or have experienced infidelity. I attend professional conferences/workshops regularly, and frequently collaborate with other professionals.

Relationships are difficult. And sometimes, you need help to repair and work your way back to greater happiness. I am a seasoned, caring professional who brings hope and healing to couples. My approach is compassionate - warm, supportive, and above all, non-judgmental.

I use a client centered approach where I help the client focus on the skills and resources they have in order to help solve the problems they have in their life. I offer a warm, non-judgmental approach to therapy and am happy to help my clients learn and grow through their experiences. I am trained in EMDR and use this technique to help clients with a trauma work through and heal from their past. I also do marriage and couples counseling with all types of couples including those in non-monogamous relationships.

Are you suffering from trauma, depression or anxiety that has left you feeling hopeless, unmotivated and in despair? Have you ever wondered how the closest relationship(s) in your life shifted from being your source of pure joy to causing you to feel overwhelmed? Maybe your relationship/marriage feels like it's falling apart, or you're unable to spend quality time with your child(ren) without arguments/conflict. Could it be that divorce has taken a toll on your entire family and what you thought would finally bring peace appears to have destroyed everyone’s lives? Are you have difficulty seeing a path forward? This is a safe space!

I offer tele-sessions in VA or SC, for trauma-informed marriage counseling, relationship and individual therapy. You may be in a transition: marriage; parenthood; military service or veteran; divorce; or remarriage. Or feeling frustrated with your child or teen, extended family, or coworkers. You may be noticing relationship effects of recent or past trauma, or grief and loss. You or a family member may be addressing aging, chronic pain or medical issues. Healthy relationships start with self-understanding and self-compassion, enabling you to know yourself so that you can hear and connect with others who are important in your life.

We enjoy working with clients who are motivated to grow, change, and seek overall emotional health and wellness through the counseling process. We will create a safe and supportive environment (online) so that our clients are able to set and meet their goals without feeling judged or criticized. Our clients "drive" the counseling process, while we gently support them on their road to recovery and personal growth.

I look forward to collaborating with you on your personal counseling goals so that you may experience better quality of life and positive desired outcomes. Together we will explore and evoke your strengths and skills with the intent to improve your overall wellness and foster better relationships.

All relationships have ups and downs. Things can get a bit stuck & it’s hard to find a positive solution. Help from a skilled relationship therapist can make all the difference. Whether you are feeling things just aren’t quite right or whether you are encountering serious difficulties, I am are here to support you. People are genuinely surprised when we start working together. Some come in feeling nervous, apprehensive, & even doubtful but once we have met a few times & changes happen, they begin to relax & enjoy the process of healing their relat., rebuild their foundation, communicate more effectively, and resolve stuck issues.

Limited slots as of Jan 2024! Do you like to make progress quickly? I have often been told that clients make more progress with me in ONE session than in months of past therapy. We examine your past, as there cannot be genuine lasting change without insight into how patterns developed, but we are focused on creating the life you want NOW. I work best with motivated, intelligent, verbal clients. Couples with intimacy issues are a specialty. Visit drpsychmom.com & listen to The Dr. Psych Mom Show! I get you in right away, we don't want to slow down the momentum that brought you here. I can also refer to my great colleagues.

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 11 years of experience in the field. I have worked with youth, adults, couples, and families with diverse mental health concerns. I specialize in relationship issues, family conflict, coping skills, and life transitions alongside anxiety, depression, and grief. During sessions, I utilize a mix of strength-based, culturally sensitive, person-centered, humanistic,and compassion-focused therapies. I ensure that I answer any questions my clients have for me as a therapist or the therapy process and get a sense of their expectations and goals for treatment.

We do the best we can with the tools we have. But maybe you don't have the right tools for the issues in your life. Or maybe you have the tools, but you've forgotten how to use them. That is where therapy comes in. Together, we can find resources, within yourself and in the community, develop a plan to get you where you want to be, and you can begin taking steps towards achieving your personal goals. My job is like a football coach. I work to help you see the potential you don't see in yourself; and give you the tools and encouragement to work on the hurdles you have in life. Cheering you on the whole time!

We are broken within relationships, and it's in relationships that we can also heal. If you want to feel happier in your marriage or with your partner but feel stuck fighting and disconnected, I invite you to come explore a new way to love yourself and each other. We all yearn to be seen, heard and understood. This often manifests itself in defensiveness and arguing with the people we care about most. My goal is to gently guide you and your partner to more friendship, empathy and love so you can experience the joy of deep connection. I work with couples and individuals. I look forward to hearing from you!

Have you ever thought – what distinguishes healthy relationships that are able to thrive from unhealthy ones that tend to be full of stress? Is it self-will? Determination? As a couples and family therapist, I believe the one distinguishing factor is "attachment". Attachment is the ability to connect with others. Depending on our ability (or inability) to attach interpersonally, determines the overall satisfaction we experience within our intimate relationships. Also, having been a victim of racism, I opened this practice as a place that people of color can heal from the impact of both blatant and systemic oppression.