Photo of Curt Harris, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kettering, OH
Curt Harris
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429
I am an ASSECT certified Sex Therapist.
When I decided to pursue a career as a therapist I did so because I wanted to make the world a better place, and decided to do that by helping one person at a time . My primary approach to mental health counseling is the Person -Centered approach . This means I believe that no one knows you better than you know yourself. It is my job to help you identify goals , improve communication , strengthen self-esteem and develop solutions and coping skills. During the counseling process you are in the driver's seat, I am just a GPS to help you on the road to better mental health. However, I'm not closed to other counseling approaches.
I am an ASSECT certified Sex Therapist.
When I decided to pursue a career as a therapist I did so because I wanted to make the world a better place, and decided to do that by helping one person at a time . My primary approach to mental health counseling is the Person -Centered approach . This means I believe that no one knows you better than you know yourself. It is my job to help you identify goals , improve communication , strengthen self-esteem and develop solutions and coping skills. During the counseling process you are in the driver's seat, I am just a GPS to help you on the road to better mental health. However, I'm not closed to other counseling approaches.
(937) 442-8825 View (937) 442-8825
Photo of Matt Heiner, Psychologist in Kettering, OH
Matt Heiner
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429
My approach to therapy is both focused on finding solutions and gaining understanding. First, I believe it is important to incorporate effective coping skills to mitigate the effects of any mental health concern. It is then often necessary to build insight as to the causes of these concerns in order to change problematic patterns in how we relate to ourselves and others. Anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship matters - I attempt to foster self-compassion and understanding in order to lighten the burden of difficult life situations.
My approach to therapy is both focused on finding solutions and gaining understanding. First, I believe it is important to incorporate effective coping skills to mitigate the effects of any mental health concern. It is then often necessary to build insight as to the causes of these concerns in order to change problematic patterns in how we relate to ourselves and others. Anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship matters - I attempt to foster self-compassion and understanding in order to lighten the burden of difficult life situations.
(937) 400-1489 View (937) 400-1489

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Photo of Skip Carter, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kettering, OH
Skip Carter
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Miamisburg, OH 45342
I am a clinical mental health therapist specializing in Sexual Health, Sex Education, and General Mental Health Issues. I conduct adult individual, group, and couples therapy. I am a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (CBT), which means that one’s thoughts evoke emotions that drives one’s behaviors. Therapy focuses on a person’s thoughts, presumptions, cognitive distortions, emotion regulation, and behavioral changes. I am passionate about working with clients and am an empathetic therapist who enjoys working collaboratively to help his clients reach mental peace and creates a relaxed atmosphere that allows clients to feel safe.
I am a clinical mental health therapist specializing in Sexual Health, Sex Education, and General Mental Health Issues. I conduct adult individual, group, and couples therapy. I am a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (CBT), which means that one’s thoughts evoke emotions that drives one’s behaviors. Therapy focuses on a person’s thoughts, presumptions, cognitive distortions, emotion regulation, and behavioral changes. I am passionate about working with clients and am an empathetic therapist who enjoys working collaboratively to help his clients reach mental peace and creates a relaxed atmosphere that allows clients to feel safe.
(937) 882-5250 View (937) 882-5250
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James Manuel
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Dayton, OH 45440
Greetings. I am a general practitioner with 20 years of experience providing psychological services. My training and practice covers the human life span. Individuals, couples, and Families are welcome. I use a unique, innovative, culturally appropriate approach that is based on best practices derived from empirical and qualitative research. With all my clients, I seek to help them pursue the full unfolding of their true self, and close the gap between their present reality and their ideal. Making changes can be difficult, but I want to congratulate you on taking the first step.
Greetings. I am a general practitioner with 20 years of experience providing psychological services. My training and practice covers the human life span. Individuals, couples, and Families are welcome. I use a unique, innovative, culturally appropriate approach that is based on best practices derived from empirical and qualitative research. With all my clients, I seek to help them pursue the full unfolding of their true self, and close the gap between their present reality and their ideal. Making changes can be difficult, but I want to congratulate you on taking the first step.
(469) 300-5087 View (469) 300-5087
Photo of David T. Brand Jr., Counselor in Kettering, OH
David T. Brand Jr.
Counselor, MA, LPCC-S, CCATP-, CA, ADHD-CC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Dayton, OH 45410
I did not arrive here by accident. I was created and birthed to help people. With a background in education, I love to teach. Based on my personal style, I also love to listen. Being a man of great faith, I believe in people and carry compassion. Combining all of that, by listening, asking the right questions, and a dash of teaching (skills, perspectives, and understanding) I am a well-balanced, faith-based, therapeutic professional. I believe families are part of God's plan for the Earth. I would love to be the support you are seeking.
I did not arrive here by accident. I was created and birthed to help people. With a background in education, I love to teach. Based on my personal style, I also love to listen. Being a man of great faith, I believe in people and carry compassion. Combining all of that, by listening, asking the right questions, and a dash of teaching (skills, perspectives, and understanding) I am a well-balanced, faith-based, therapeutic professional. I believe families are part of God's plan for the Earth. I would love to be the support you are seeking.
(833) 567-3830 View (833) 567-3830
Photo of Julian A Travis, LPCC - Ellie Mental Health, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Kettering, OH
Julian A Travis, LPCC - Ellie Mental Health
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
Dayton, OH 45459
(513) 951-3249 View (513) 951-3249

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The Empowering Space
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Not Verified Not Verified
1 Endorsed
Columbus, OH 43085
I support a sex-positive and trauma-informed approach to therapy.
I am a Licensed Social Worker. I have earned my Masters of Social Work from Rutgers University and brings more than 6 years of clinical experience and expertise working with queer folks, adolescents, couples, and families. I specialize in the treatment of adolescents and young adults who are struggling to cope with anxiety, mood, trauma, sexual issues, and relationship issues. I also have experience in working with the queer community on an array of issues and concerns.
I support a sex-positive and trauma-informed approach to therapy.
I am a Licensed Social Worker. I have earned my Masters of Social Work from Rutgers University and brings more than 6 years of clinical experience and expertise working with queer folks, adolescents, couples, and families. I specialize in the treatment of adolescents and young adults who are struggling to cope with anxiety, mood, trauma, sexual issues, and relationship issues. I also have experience in working with the queer community on an array of issues and concerns.
(614) 618-4978 View (614) 618-4978
Photo of Adam Clevenger, Counselor in Kettering, OH
Adam Clevenger
Counselor, MA, LPCC-S, CST
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Columbus, OH 43221
I (he/they) am a mental health counselor, and an AASECT certified sex therapist. I prefer to build genuine relationships with my clients, emphasizing teamwork and encouraging your active participation in the counseling process. I'll welcome your humor and shared laughter while helping you to harness inner strengths, self-compassion, and newly developed skills to overcome the obstacles impacting your personal growth. I will bring a trauma informed lens and anti-oppression values to our work together and will trust you as the 'expert' of your own lived experience to help identify realistic solutions to life's challenges.
I (he/they) am a mental health counselor, and an AASECT certified sex therapist. I prefer to build genuine relationships with my clients, emphasizing teamwork and encouraging your active participation in the counseling process. I'll welcome your humor and shared laughter while helping you to harness inner strengths, self-compassion, and newly developed skills to overcome the obstacles impacting your personal growth. I will bring a trauma informed lens and anti-oppression values to our work together and will trust you as the 'expert' of your own lived experience to help identify realistic solutions to life's challenges.
(614) 618-4658 View (614) 618-4658
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Dr. Bowen Marshall
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor , MA, LPCC-S, PhD
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Westerville, OH 43086  (Online Only)
I also specialize in couples counseling, polyamorous relationships, and on identity, sex, and intimacy issues.
I believe the most important question we can ask ourselves is, "What do I want?" I believe that everyone has an ability to move towards growth, healing, and fulfillment. I approach therapy from a perspective learning and believe that the more we learn about ourselves, the better able we are to make choices about how we want to move forward in life. I use an integrative framework to address each client’s individual needs. I work from a trauma informed lens and use interventions from existential, Attachment Theory, Gottman, ACT, IPT, and EFT.
I also specialize in couples counseling, polyamorous relationships, and on identity, sex, and intimacy issues.
I believe the most important question we can ask ourselves is, "What do I want?" I believe that everyone has an ability to move towards growth, healing, and fulfillment. I approach therapy from a perspective learning and believe that the more we learn about ourselves, the better able we are to make choices about how we want to move forward in life. I use an integrative framework to address each client’s individual needs. I work from a trauma informed lens and use interventions from existential, Attachment Theory, Gottman, ACT, IPT, and EFT.
(380) 221-7373 View (380) 221-7373
Photo of Paul Courtland Soper, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kettering, OH
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-S, CST, CCTP
Verified Verified
Cincinnati, OH 45202
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
(513) 960-3006 View (513) 960-3006
Photo of Andrew L Martin, Psychologist in Kettering, OH
Andrew L Martin
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Columbus, OH 43210
I specialize in sex addiction, compulsive pornography, trauma, LGBTQ issues, veterans and active military, athletic/performance problems, couples issues, spiritual integration, and various conditions.
I am a clinical psychologist licensed in New Jersey, Ohio, Maryland, and Virginia. Over the past 20 years I have worked collaboratively with clients on a wide range of issues, and am comfortable utilizing a variety of techniques designed to help empower my clients and establish a greater sense of integrity within their lives. My training in psychotherapy has been influenced by a wide variety of philosophies and theories, and I am skilled in helping clients become more aware of deeper connections to their problems, whether it be in their relationships with others or in their relationship with themselves.
I specialize in sex addiction, compulsive pornography, trauma, LGBTQ issues, veterans and active military, athletic/performance problems, couples issues, spiritual integration, and various conditions.
I am a clinical psychologist licensed in New Jersey, Ohio, Maryland, and Virginia. Over the past 20 years I have worked collaboratively with clients on a wide range of issues, and am comfortable utilizing a variety of techniques designed to help empower my clients and establish a greater sense of integrity within their lives. My training in psychotherapy has been influenced by a wide variety of philosophies and theories, and I am skilled in helping clients become more aware of deeper connections to their problems, whether it be in their relationships with others or in their relationship with themselves.
(703) 595-2868 View (703) 595-2868
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Jared Smith-Valentine
Counselor, LPCC-S, CST, MSEd
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hilliard, OH 43026
As a certified sex therapist much of my work involves supporting clients around their sexual and erotic wellness, among other common goals such as addressing: grief/sadness, anxiety/stress, life-event stress/ trauma, executive dysfunction/ADHD, and LGBTQ+ affirmative therapies.
Hey there, I'm Jared. Thank you for taking the time to look at my statement page. If you are looking for a counselor that is empirically-focused, strength-based, directive, and easy to talk to, I might be the kind of counselor you're looking for. My approach to counseling is a scientific-model led, client collaborated, personal relationship focused. We meet, talk about what you want to talk about, and I will be there for positive support, processing, and to teach about symptoms and interventions. Traits of clients that thrive best with me are curiosity, willingness/ desire to grow, and willingness to try new things.
As a certified sex therapist much of my work involves supporting clients around their sexual and erotic wellness, among other common goals such as addressing: grief/sadness, anxiety/stress, life-event stress/ trauma, executive dysfunction/ADHD, and LGBTQ+ affirmative therapies.
Hey there, I'm Jared. Thank you for taking the time to look at my statement page. If you are looking for a counselor that is empirically-focused, strength-based, directive, and easy to talk to, I might be the kind of counselor you're looking for. My approach to counseling is a scientific-model led, client collaborated, personal relationship focused. We meet, talk about what you want to talk about, and I will be there for positive support, processing, and to teach about symptoms and interventions. Traits of clients that thrive best with me are curiosity, willingness/ desire to grow, and willingness to try new things.
(614) 768-6384 View (614) 768-6384
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Kaeden Kass
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW, CSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cincinnati, OH 45227
My goal is for all my clients who walk into my office to feel seen and understood, so my work is trauma-informed, anti-racist, sex-positive, and fat-positive.
Hi! I’m Kaeden (he/him/his), and I am a licensed independent social worker in the states of Ohio (LISW) and Kentucky (CSW). I specialize in providing therapy to LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adolescents and adults, as well as anyone looking for a safe and nonjudgemental therapeutic home. My approach is rooted in vulnerability, collaboration, transparency, and self-determination, and I am passionate about creating spaces where people with marginalized identities and experiences can feel seen and understood. If you have struggled in the past to find a provider who "gets" you, I might be the provider for you.
My goal is for all my clients who walk into my office to feel seen and understood, so my work is trauma-informed, anti-racist, sex-positive, and fat-positive.
Hi! I’m Kaeden (he/him/his), and I am a licensed independent social worker in the states of Ohio (LISW) and Kentucky (CSW). I specialize in providing therapy to LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adolescents and adults, as well as anyone looking for a safe and nonjudgemental therapeutic home. My approach is rooted in vulnerability, collaboration, transparency, and self-determination, and I am passionate about creating spaces where people with marginalized identities and experiences can feel seen and understood. If you have struggled in the past to find a provider who "gets" you, I might be the provider for you.
(513) 647-6770 View (513) 647-6770
Photo of Tim K. Wallace, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kettering, OH
Tim K. Wallace
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, LPC
Verified Verified
Columbus, OH 43215  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My specialties include mental performance coaching, anxiety and performance anxiety, depression, recovery from addiction, ADHD & Autism, trauma, injury recovery, sex counseling, and phase-of-life problems (e.
My ideal client is someone who has or wants to set a life or performance goal but needs help setting or attaining it. I specialize in working with adults who are employed in high-performance settings, including athletes and para-athletes, performance artists, "corporate athletes", chefs, future and current surgeons, medical personnel and first responders. Also, being an avid pop-culture enthusiast, I can connect with those willing to use characters like Batman, Black Panther, Spiderman, Wonder Woman, or any movie, television show, anime, video game, or piece of music that helps one reflect and try to embrace life uniquely.
My specialties include mental performance coaching, anxiety and performance anxiety, depression, recovery from addiction, ADHD & Autism, trauma, injury recovery, sex counseling, and phase-of-life problems (e.
My ideal client is someone who has or wants to set a life or performance goal but needs help setting or attaining it. I specialize in working with adults who are employed in high-performance settings, including athletes and para-athletes, performance artists, "corporate athletes", chefs, future and current surgeons, medical personnel and first responders. Also, being an avid pop-culture enthusiast, I can connect with those willing to use characters like Batman, Black Panther, Spiderman, Wonder Woman, or any movie, television show, anime, video game, or piece of music that helps one reflect and try to embrace life uniquely.
(614) 992-7895 View (614) 992-7895
Photo of Dr. Kyle R Stephenson, Psychologist in Kettering, OH
Dr. Kyle R Stephenson
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Cincinnati, OH 45207
I specialize in couples counseling, sex therapy, and the treatment of anxiety (including PTSD, social anxiety, panic attacks, and phobias), but also have experience with depression and other common difficulties. I am very friendly and transparent in my approach, working alongside you to help you meet your goals and thrive. I use scientifically-supported treatments that have been shown to be effective at improving people's lives. These include Cognitive-Behavioral and Meditation-Based therapies.
I specialize in couples counseling, sex therapy, and the treatment of anxiety (including PTSD, social anxiety, panic attacks, and phobias), but also have experience with depression and other common difficulties. I am very friendly and transparent in my approach, working alongside you to help you meet your goals and thrive. I use scientifically-supported treatments that have been shown to be effective at improving people's lives. These include Cognitive-Behavioral and Meditation-Based therapies.
(513) 640-9808 View (513) 640-9808
Photo of Aaron L Engel, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Kettering, OH
Aaron L Engel
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Dublin, OH 43017
You feel like your romantic relationship lacks direction. You start arguing over small things, but the arguments perhaps persist because you both focus on winning instead of solving the problem. You have stressful careers, but meeting career and home demands seem impossible. You want the best for your kids, but are you pushing them too hard or not hard enough? Perhaps you are both used to getting your way at work, but at home, there is a need for compromise. Maybe the spark that was once there has left, at least most of the time. You want to have what you once had, but are not sure how. You love your partner but aren't "in love."
You feel like your romantic relationship lacks direction. You start arguing over small things, but the arguments perhaps persist because you both focus on winning instead of solving the problem. You have stressful careers, but meeting career and home demands seem impossible. You want the best for your kids, but are you pushing them too hard or not hard enough? Perhaps you are both used to getting your way at work, but at home, there is a need for compromise. Maybe the spark that was once there has left, at least most of the time. You want to have what you once had, but are not sure how. You love your partner but aren't "in love."
(380) 204-9208 View (380) 204-9208
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Brian Ayer
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LISW
Verified Verified
Columbus, OH 43215  (Online Only)
Are you experiencing feelings of sadness, fear, distress, or isolation due to issues related to gambling, gaming, sexual behavior, or pornography? Have you noticed a decrease in your ability to control these behaviors, leading to feelings of despair, anxiety, depression, or loneliness? With over fifteen years of tenure as a deeply experienced Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor specializing in mental health and behavioral addiction treatment, my commitment is to offer understanding and empathetic support to those seeking help.
Are you experiencing feelings of sadness, fear, distress, or isolation due to issues related to gambling, gaming, sexual behavior, or pornography? Have you noticed a decrease in your ability to control these behaviors, leading to feelings of despair, anxiety, depression, or loneliness? With over fifteen years of tenure as a deeply experienced Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor specializing in mental health and behavioral addiction treatment, my commitment is to offer understanding and empathetic support to those seeking help.
(380) 205-2918 View (380) 205-2918
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Dr. Butch Losey
Counselor, EdD, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cincinnati, OH 45255
I work specifically with couples who have discovered infidelity. Couples are traumatized when infidelity is discovered and the clinician needs to help the couple implement immediate steps to prevent further damage to the relationship. Counselor strategies for infidelity are much different than what a traditional counselor would utilize. When couples set up an appointment with me, they will get in quickly, and experience a specific treatment approach for infidelity. I also help couples with creating intimate communication, conflict skills, creating emotional and sexual intimacy, and increasing love and affection.
I work specifically with couples who have discovered infidelity. Couples are traumatized when infidelity is discovered and the clinician needs to help the couple implement immediate steps to prevent further damage to the relationship. Counselor strategies for infidelity are much different than what a traditional counselor would utilize. When couples set up an appointment with me, they will get in quickly, and experience a specific treatment approach for infidelity. I also help couples with creating intimate communication, conflict skills, creating emotional and sexual intimacy, and increasing love and affection.
(513) 780-5448 View (513) 780-5448
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Derek Stegner
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Mason, OH 45040  (Online Only)
I have many years of experience working with early childhood trauma and severe, persistent mental illness, varying from ages of 5 years to 70+. My goal is to empower and advocate for positive change within you, as the individual, and the system as a whole. The place that we will create together is a safe and judgement free space. I work through an Existential foundation, to help those I work with seek meaning and purpose, with skills built from experience with Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, and Cognitive Behavior Therapy, all within the context of a trauma-informed approach.
I have many years of experience working with early childhood trauma and severe, persistent mental illness, varying from ages of 5 years to 70+. My goal is to empower and advocate for positive change within you, as the individual, and the system as a whole. The place that we will create together is a safe and judgement free space. I work through an Existential foundation, to help those I work with seek meaning and purpose, with skills built from experience with Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, and Cognitive Behavior Therapy, all within the context of a trauma-informed approach.
(513) 796-5883 View (513) 796-5883
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Talk. Listen. Grow.
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Columbus, OH 43251  (Online Only)
I am Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with active licenses in Ohio, Hawai'i, & Texas. I am a trauma informed practitioner with 9 years of experience in Zen and Integral Psychotherapy, and training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Internal Family Systems. I am Safe Zone trained and affirming of all gender identities & expressions. I am experienced in supporting the LGBTQ+ community, and other communities of diverse relational norms. I am skilled in healing religious trauma and renewing spiritual connection.
I am Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with active licenses in Ohio, Hawai'i, & Texas. I am a trauma informed practitioner with 9 years of experience in Zen and Integral Psychotherapy, and training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Internal Family Systems. I am Safe Zone trained and affirming of all gender identities & expressions. I am experienced in supporting the LGBTQ+ community, and other communities of diverse relational norms. I am skilled in healing religious trauma and renewing spiritual connection.
(380) 204-9444 View (380) 204-9444
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.