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Jacob Manfred Bigus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Lawrence, KS 66046
I work with people from the LGBTQ+ community, those who practice kink, engage in polyamorous relationships and consensual non-monogamy, and men experiencing shame, jealousy, or problems with their personal masculinity.
Being accepted for who we are is one of our most basic needs as humans. With many pieces adding up to create a whole being, it is hard to find someone who can understand without having to explain every time we see them. Repeated explaining and misunderstanding can lead to a feeling of shame and uncertainty that can damage the therapeutic relationship before it starts. I work from a baseline of understanding to help create a safe space for my clients to learn and grow. Therapy should be a laboratory where you can experiment with how you interact with others and present yourself. You are the expert on you. I'm just here to guide.
I work with people from the LGBTQ+ community, those who practice kink, engage in polyamorous relationships and consensual non-monogamy, and men experiencing shame, jealousy, or problems with their personal masculinity.
Being accepted for who we are is one of our most basic needs as humans. With many pieces adding up to create a whole being, it is hard to find someone who can understand without having to explain every time we see them. Repeated explaining and misunderstanding can lead to a feeling of shame and uncertainty that can damage the therapeutic relationship before it starts. I work from a baseline of understanding to help create a safe space for my clients to learn and grow. Therapy should be a laboratory where you can experiment with how you interact with others and present yourself. You are the expert on you. I'm just here to guide.
(785) 377-6658 View (785) 377-6658
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Chris Adams
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSCP, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Overland Park, KS 66210
My approach involves working from a sex positive focus, which helps individuals explore healthy sexuality as opposed to pathologizing or shaming their sexual behaviors.
The focus of my work is helping men and women who are struggling with compulsive/problematic sexual and relationship behaviors (also known as sex, porn or love addiction) that have had negative impacts on a person's relationships, overall emotional well being, health, family, career and other aspects of life. Struggles with sexuality can involve a great deal of pain, guilt and shame. If this is your experience, finding a professional who can provide a safe and non-judgemental space is crucial. In addition, I work with individuals who experience difficulties creating and maintaining intimate connections in relationships.
My approach involves working from a sex positive focus, which helps individuals explore healthy sexuality as opposed to pathologizing or shaming their sexual behaviors.
The focus of my work is helping men and women who are struggling with compulsive/problematic sexual and relationship behaviors (also known as sex, porn or love addiction) that have had negative impacts on a person's relationships, overall emotional well being, health, family, career and other aspects of life. Struggles with sexuality can involve a great deal of pain, guilt and shame. If this is your experience, finding a professional who can provide a safe and non-judgemental space is crucial. In addition, I work with individuals who experience difficulties creating and maintaining intimate connections in relationships.
(816) 494-1903 View (816) 494-1903
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Chuck Franks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW, CST, CST-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
I offer LGBTQ, kink, and poly-aware and knowledgable services.
My clients find it empowering to not just talk about a problem but also to create ways of coping through learning new skills and allowing new perspectives. I help clients who want to be truly authentic. Sexuality and the pursuit of our sexual health is important as we strive to integrate our expression into our relationships. I help individuals incorporate their true selves into their relationships. My specialties are sexual problems, issues of sexual identity/orientation, consensual non-monogamy, out of control sexual behavior more commonly known as sex or porn addiction.
I offer LGBTQ, kink, and poly-aware and knowledgable services.
My clients find it empowering to not just talk about a problem but also to create ways of coping through learning new skills and allowing new perspectives. I help clients who want to be truly authentic. Sexuality and the pursuit of our sexual health is important as we strive to integrate our expression into our relationships. I help individuals incorporate their true selves into their relationships. My specialties are sexual problems, issues of sexual identity/orientation, consensual non-monogamy, out of control sexual behavior more commonly known as sex or porn addiction.
(816) 925-9509 View (816) 925-9509
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a former Roman Catholic priest who is sex-positive, LGBTQIA-embracing, poly-friendly, and kink-friendly.
I'm a couples counselor who can help you with your challenges in communication, conflict, trust/infidelity, pornography, and intimacy style differences. Have your efforts to communicate to your partner what pleases you been unsuccessful? Is it challenging to integrate your committed journey in faith with your sexuality, and especially if your partner does not share your faith? Does your partner want to be polyamorous, but you are unwilling to accept that?
I am a former Roman Catholic priest who is sex-positive, LGBTQIA-embracing, poly-friendly, and kink-friendly.
I'm a couples counselor who can help you with your challenges in communication, conflict, trust/infidelity, pornography, and intimacy style differences. Have your efforts to communicate to your partner what pleases you been unsuccessful? Is it challenging to integrate your committed journey in faith with your sexuality, and especially if your partner does not share your faith? Does your partner want to be polyamorous, but you are unwilling to accept that?
(720) 704-1552 View (720) 704-1552
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Reggie Jackson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Overland Park, KS 66204
Thanks for taking the time to consider me as an ally on your journey! I am the founder of Satori Counseling Services and with 20 years of mental health experience, I've worked with several different folks with various challenges, including: men's issues, healing from traumas, depression and anxiety and couples work. I also offer a virtual 5-week anger management and emotional regulation course that is court approved for many counties in the Kansas City Metro. Give me a call to get scheduled!
Thanks for taking the time to consider me as an ally on your journey! I am the founder of Satori Counseling Services and with 20 years of mental health experience, I've worked with several different folks with various challenges, including: men's issues, healing from traumas, depression and anxiety and couples work. I also offer a virtual 5-week anger management and emotional regulation course that is court approved for many counties in the Kansas City Metro. Give me a call to get scheduled!
(785) 333-3731 View (785) 333-3731
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Larsen K Barnds Jr
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LCMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Mission, KS 66205  (Online Only)
Here you are, looking for some help-so well done, you! Sometimes part of us wants help and another part wants to "do it on our own". Therefore, it is understandable that it might be no small task to make that first call. AND since sorting thoughts, feelings, and worries can feel overwhelming, I appreciate your courage and wisdom in seeking professional assistance, because no one has to do this alone. Getting to "better" is often very collaborative. Together, we can find a healthy and safe way to discover, sort and map the confusion/worry and then move forward. When you are ready, please give me a call. I am right here.
Here you are, looking for some help-so well done, you! Sometimes part of us wants help and another part wants to "do it on our own". Therefore, it is understandable that it might be no small task to make that first call. AND since sorting thoughts, feelings, and worries can feel overwhelming, I appreciate your courage and wisdom in seeking professional assistance, because no one has to do this alone. Getting to "better" is often very collaborative. Together, we can find a healthy and safe way to discover, sort and map the confusion/worry and then move forward. When you are ready, please give me a call. I am right here.
(913) 286-7173 View (913) 286-7173
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Bruce Johnson
Licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, MS, LCP, NCPsych
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Leavenworth, KS 66048
Three decades of experience helping couples and individuals overcome problems and begin to thrive again. I work with individuals and couples struggling with everything from Sexual Secrets to Breaches in Trust such as Infidelity, Resentments, Lies, Sex, Kinks, Non-traditional Relationships, Mixed Orientation Relationships, ENM, Lifestyle, Bi+ topics, and the myriad of challenges that we all face. They don't have to be road blocks, it's what we do with them and how we use them to learn and grow to become a better partner and ally to each other and ourselves. See the link to the left for our website for more info.
Three decades of experience helping couples and individuals overcome problems and begin to thrive again. I work with individuals and couples struggling with everything from Sexual Secrets to Breaches in Trust such as Infidelity, Resentments, Lies, Sex, Kinks, Non-traditional Relationships, Mixed Orientation Relationships, ENM, Lifestyle, Bi+ topics, and the myriad of challenges that we all face. They don't have to be road blocks, it's what we do with them and how we use them to learn and grow to become a better partner and ally to each other and ourselves. See the link to the left for our website for more info.
(913) 361-6722 View (913) 361-6722
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Colin Fee
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSCSW
Verified Verified
Wichita, KS 67202  (Online Only)
As a therapist, I have focused my practice on working with trans and queer children and adults; hell-raising teenagers; families dealing with the foster care system; and garden variety anxiety, depression, and relationship issues.
As a therapist, I have focused my practice on working with trans and queer children and adults; hell-raising teenagers; families dealing with the foster care system; and garden variety anxiety, depression, and relationship issues.
(316) 348-3879 View (316) 348-3879
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Derek Whitney
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LLC
Verified Verified
Wichita, KS 67203
Life and relationships can be difficult: therapy gives you a place to be seen, to grow, and to heal. As a therapist, I strive to offer a calm and genuine environment so that you can show up exactly as you are. I believe in a collaborative approach which allows us to work together to achieve your goals and build a relationship that lends itself to emotional expression and vulnerability. In this way we can overcome any and all stresses you are wanting to work through. I have a passion for working with individuals, couples, and families struggling with trauma, anxiety, shame, transitions, and parenting.
Life and relationships can be difficult: therapy gives you a place to be seen, to grow, and to heal. As a therapist, I strive to offer a calm and genuine environment so that you can show up exactly as you are. I believe in a collaborative approach which allows us to work together to achieve your goals and build a relationship that lends itself to emotional expression and vulnerability. In this way we can overcome any and all stresses you are wanting to work through. I have a passion for working with individuals, couples, and families struggling with trauma, anxiety, shame, transitions, and parenting.
(316) 425-9169 View (316) 425-9169
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Michael Cranston
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wichita, KS 67203
As a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist through AASECT since 2005, I offer a dynamic and intensive relationship therapy/coaching experience. I have many years of experience diagnosing and treating a variety of sexually related issues, in addition to numerous other behavioral health issues, including mood disorders and substance abuse/addiction. I believe a therapy session is a very sacred space. I consider it a privilege to be chosen to accompany someone into that space and bear witness to their work.
As a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist through AASECT since 2005, I offer a dynamic and intensive relationship therapy/coaching experience. I have many years of experience diagnosing and treating a variety of sexually related issues, in addition to numerous other behavioral health issues, including mood disorders and substance abuse/addiction. I believe a therapy session is a very sacred space. I consider it a privilege to be chosen to accompany someone into that space and bear witness to their work.
(316) 448-2172 View (316) 448-2172
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DaKie Washington
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CCATP
Verified Verified
Lawrence, KS 66044
DaKie is a Licensed Master Social Worker and has experience working with children, adolescents, families, and adults. DaKie utilizes interventions and techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Play Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT). DaKie is currently pursing his Clinical Licensure and Play Therapy Certificate from Heartland Play Therapy Insitute. DaKie received his bachelor’s degree in Social Work with a Psychology minor and his Masters in Clinical Social Work from the University of Kansas.
DaKie is a Licensed Master Social Worker and has experience working with children, adolescents, families, and adults. DaKie utilizes interventions and techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Play Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT). DaKie is currently pursing his Clinical Licensure and Play Therapy Certificate from Heartland Play Therapy Insitute. DaKie received his bachelor’s degree in Social Work with a Psychology minor and his Masters in Clinical Social Work from the University of Kansas.
(785) 302-9049 View (785) 302-9049
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Colby Bruner
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LCMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Overland Park, KS 66210  (Online Only)
Many people struggle with feeling like they need to push through and avoid the hurt and stress they’ve been carrying to be strong. My passion is in helping you lift the burden you’ve been carrying and truly see and hear your story. As an attachment therapist, we’ll look at how your symptoms are not a reflection of some personal flaw, but rather as a symptom of a larger relational problem. My goal is to become a safe and consistent attachment figure for you.
Many people struggle with feeling like they need to push through and avoid the hurt and stress they’ve been carrying to be strong. My passion is in helping you lift the burden you’ve been carrying and truly see and hear your story. As an attachment therapist, we’ll look at how your symptoms are not a reflection of some personal flaw, but rather as a symptom of a larger relational problem. My goal is to become a safe and consistent attachment figure for you.
(913) 347-4850 View (913) 347-4850
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Tony Bedora
Counselor, MA, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Overland Park, KS 66212
Do you ever look around yourself and wonder how in the world you got to this point? Everyone has problems, but it's particularly messy from where you stand. Trying to look past the issues doesn't have the same charm anymore. You are apprehensive to ask for help, but too exhausted to navigate it alone anymore. The good news is I help individuals and couples just like you who want things to change. Whether you are wanting to heal relationships, navigating personal trauma, dealing with infidelity, struggling with personal identity, or facing a life transition, therapy is a great place to start.
Do you ever look around yourself and wonder how in the world you got to this point? Everyone has problems, but it's particularly messy from where you stand. Trying to look past the issues doesn't have the same charm anymore. You are apprehensive to ask for help, but too exhausted to navigate it alone anymore. The good news is I help individuals and couples just like you who want things to change. Whether you are wanting to heal relationships, navigating personal trauma, dealing with infidelity, struggling with personal identity, or facing a life transition, therapy is a great place to start.
(913) 794-3552 View (913) 794-3552
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Tyler Sharpe
LCPC, CNS, MA, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mission, KS 66205
Did you know that it’s ok, not to be ok? Before you can heal, change and transform yourself, you must accept where you are and what you feel right now. Being confronted with obstacles and stressors in life can be confusing and challenging, but you do not have to tackle them alone. If you’re reading this, you’ve already taken the first, and hardest step; reaching out for help. No matter what struggles you may be facing, always remember, the comeback is stronger than the setback. As a Licensed Psychotherapist, with an educational background in Behavioral Neuroscience & Clinical Psychology; I will help you better understand - YOU!
Did you know that it’s ok, not to be ok? Before you can heal, change and transform yourself, you must accept where you are and what you feel right now. Being confronted with obstacles and stressors in life can be confusing and challenging, but you do not have to tackle them alone. If you’re reading this, you’ve already taken the first, and hardest step; reaching out for help. No matter what struggles you may be facing, always remember, the comeback is stronger than the setback. As a Licensed Psychotherapist, with an educational background in Behavioral Neuroscience & Clinical Psychology; I will help you better understand - YOU!
(913) 318-3763 View (913) 318-3763
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Caleb M Stephens
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, LMAC, PhD
Verified Verified
Lawrence, KS 66049  (Online Only)
My name is Caleb Stephens, and I am an Intersectional Clinician. The reality of therapy is that it is inaccessible to most, and the majority of therapists gear their therapy around themselves, and not around the needs of the client, nor the layers of identity that exist. I am not a traditional therapist, as I am also an Activist, and the majority of the work that I do is Identity work. This is about meeting you where you're at, and I'm here for it.
My name is Caleb Stephens, and I am an Intersectional Clinician. The reality of therapy is that it is inaccessible to most, and the majority of therapists gear their therapy around themselves, and not around the needs of the client, nor the layers of identity that exist. I am not a traditional therapist, as I am also an Activist, and the majority of the work that I do is Identity work. This is about meeting you where you're at, and I'm here for it.
(785) 470-4051 View (785) 470-4051
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Jeremy High
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSCSW, LCAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lawrence, KS 66044  (Online Only)
Hi, I'm Jeremy, ready to accompany you on your path to self-discovery and personal growth! Based in Kansas as a Licensed Specialist Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in providing empathetic support for adults facing diverse life challenges. My expertise spans areas such as anger management, men's concerns, anxiety, addiction coping, LGBTQ+ matters, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. Drawing from 12 years of experience, I employ a tailored approach to therapy, integrating elements of cognitive behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness-based techniques.
Hi, I'm Jeremy, ready to accompany you on your path to self-discovery and personal growth! Based in Kansas as a Licensed Specialist Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in providing empathetic support for adults facing diverse life challenges. My expertise spans areas such as anger management, men's concerns, anxiety, addiction coping, LGBTQ+ matters, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. Drawing from 12 years of experience, I employ a tailored approach to therapy, integrating elements of cognitive behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness-based techniques.
(785) 384-6574 View (785) 384-6574
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Kevin B Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LCMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Overland Park, KS 66211
I specialize in a few types of clients - Couples hanging on by a thread, men who are less than thrilled at the idea of attending therapy, and individuals that live under a constant state of frustration in life. As someone who has lived and survived all of these scenarios personally, I've have a ton of empathy and a box of tools ready for people motivated to achieve change. Whether you are picking up the pieces from infidelity, exhausted from fighting about the same tired topics, or struggling to escape the things that beat you down, I am honored to pull up a chair and begin sorting through the mess in your first session.
I specialize in a few types of clients - Couples hanging on by a thread, men who are less than thrilled at the idea of attending therapy, and individuals that live under a constant state of frustration in life. As someone who has lived and survived all of these scenarios personally, I've have a ton of empathy and a box of tools ready for people motivated to achieve change. Whether you are picking up the pieces from infidelity, exhausted from fighting about the same tired topics, or struggling to escape the things that beat you down, I am honored to pull up a chair and begin sorting through the mess in your first session.
(913) 318-4957 View (913) 318-4957
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Darrell Lee Robinson
Counselor, PLPC, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Overland Park, KS 66210
Waitlist for new clients
As a therapist I am honored to be in the presence and have the opportunity to walk alongside a client in their journey. There are many things in life that are difficult. My goal is to provide a place where a client can unapologetically be themselves and collaboratively work towards goals in session that will translate to other experiences.
As a therapist I am honored to be in the presence and have the opportunity to walk alongside a client in their journey. There are many things in life that are difficult. My goal is to provide a place where a client can unapologetically be themselves and collaboratively work towards goals in session that will translate to other experiences.
(816) 624-2686 View (816) 624-2686
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Sebastian De La Rosa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Lawrence, KS 66049
Change is possible! I know because I have experienced change in my own life and helped others to do the same. My work as a clinical social worker focuses on working with your unique circumstances, the story of the life, to listen closely and to help understand any barriers to the life you truly want to live. I am here to help you deconstruct the barriers and learn ways to move forward. If you are wanting to start the doing the work to make change happen and feel like this speaks to you, let us connect.
Change is possible! I know because I have experienced change in my own life and helped others to do the same. My work as a clinical social worker focuses on working with your unique circumstances, the story of the life, to listen closely and to help understand any barriers to the life you truly want to live. I am here to help you deconstruct the barriers and learn ways to move forward. If you are wanting to start the doing the work to make change happen and feel like this speaks to you, let us connect.
(785) 829-4843 View (785) 829-4843
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Tj Miller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Wichita, KS 67206
If you are searching therapy sites, you are most likely trying to get help for yourself or a loved one. It is essential that you find a match when selecting a psychotherapist. I connect with clients by listening and exploring without placing judgement. I am diverse in my approach, as each client is unique and will enjoy & respond differently to therapy techniques. Many individuals come in due to depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, life transitions, substance abuse, loss and/or grief. These struggles greatly affect people's ability to thrive. I help my clients work through these issues and increase positive changes.
If you are searching therapy sites, you are most likely trying to get help for yourself or a loved one. It is essential that you find a match when selecting a psychotherapist. I connect with clients by listening and exploring without placing judgement. I am diverse in my approach, as each client is unique and will enjoy & respond differently to therapy techniques. Many individuals come in due to depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, life transitions, substance abuse, loss and/or grief. These struggles greatly affect people's ability to thrive. I help my clients work through these issues and increase positive changes.
(316) 636-2888 View (316) 636-2888
Male Therapists

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.