Relationship Issues Therapists in 45429

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Karen L Nelson Counseling, LLC
Counselor, LPCC-S, CEAP, LICDC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Dayton, OH 45429  (Online Only)
For 33 years it has been my privilege to serve individuals and couples as they reshape difficult patterns, expand and strengthen relationship skills, and effectively resolve their concerns.
Insurance accepted for individuals through Headway. Welcome. People choose to speak with a counselor for many reasons. Perhaps one of these following reasons describes you: -I want to feel better -I keep repeating patterns that aren't good for me or my loved ones -We are struggling and considering marriage counseling -We want support for amicably redefining our relationship -I over-react and that is causing problems -I am grieving and my world has changed -I can’t get over something Does this describe you? If you want to explore what is possible, I invite you to be in touch.
For 33 years it has been my privilege to serve individuals and couples as they reshape difficult patterns, expand and strengthen relationship skills, and effectively resolve their concerns.
Insurance accepted for individuals through Headway. Welcome. People choose to speak with a counselor for many reasons. Perhaps one of these following reasons describes you: -I want to feel better -I keep repeating patterns that aren't good for me or my loved ones -We are struggling and considering marriage counseling -We want support for amicably redefining our relationship -I over-react and that is causing problems -I am grieving and my world has changed -I can’t get over something Does this describe you? If you want to explore what is possible, I invite you to be in touch.
(937) 702-3281 View (937) 702-3281
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Matt Heiner
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429
My approach to therapy is both focused on finding solutions and gaining understanding. First, I believe it is important to incorporate effective coping skills to mitigate the effects of any mental health concern. It is then often necessary to build insight as to the causes of these concerns in order to change problematic patterns in how we relate to ourselves and others. Anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship matters - I attempt to foster self-compassion and understanding in order to lighten the burden of difficult life situations.
My approach to therapy is both focused on finding solutions and gaining understanding. First, I believe it is important to incorporate effective coping skills to mitigate the effects of any mental health concern. It is then often necessary to build insight as to the causes of these concerns in order to change problematic patterns in how we relate to ourselves and others. Anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship matters - I attempt to foster self-compassion and understanding in order to lighten the burden of difficult life situations.
(937) 400-1489 View (937) 400-1489
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Ann Edwards
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Dayton, OH 45429
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, feeling overwhelmed in life? Are you feeling lost or confused while navigating through a life transition? When you’re experiencing feelings like these, being able to work through them in a safe environment that is free from judgement is important. Whether its relationship difficulties, work/school, or issues from past trauma, I’ll walk with you on this part of your life journey and together we will move towards helping you achieve the personal growth & inner strength you desire, finding solutions that work for you, and developing skills that can continue to help you throughout your life.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, feeling overwhelmed in life? Are you feeling lost or confused while navigating through a life transition? When you’re experiencing feelings like these, being able to work through them in a safe environment that is free from judgement is important. Whether its relationship difficulties, work/school, or issues from past trauma, I’ll walk with you on this part of your life journey and together we will move towards helping you achieve the personal growth & inner strength you desire, finding solutions that work for you, and developing skills that can continue to help you throughout your life.
(937) 230-7970 View (937) 230-7970
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Allison Newlin
Counselor, MS, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
Dayton, OH 45429
After a thorough assessment, you will have a clear picture of the relationship strengths and areas that need to be improved.
I like to compare Couples Therapy / Marriage Counseling to the process of outsourcing a Physical Trainer. Instead of aimlessly lifting random weights as you wander the gym, a trainer will be able to specifically coach you, usually making it more effective in both time and cost. As a Couples Therapist, I take a similar approach. I will prioritize a sense of comfort and trust for you and your partner, while ensuring that the techniques I use are evidence based (they work!), and tailored specifically to your relationship needs.
After a thorough assessment, you will have a clear picture of the relationship strengths and areas that need to be improved.
I like to compare Couples Therapy / Marriage Counseling to the process of outsourcing a Physical Trainer. Instead of aimlessly lifting random weights as you wander the gym, a trainer will be able to specifically coach you, usually making it more effective in both time and cost. As a Couples Therapist, I take a similar approach. I will prioritize a sense of comfort and trust for you and your partner, while ensuring that the techniques I use are evidence based (they work!), and tailored specifically to your relationship needs.
(937) 915-2636 View (937) 915-2636
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Marisa M Badgley
Counselor, MS, LPCC-S, LICDC
Verified Verified
Dayton, OH 45429
Waitlist for new clients
It is my belief there is no crisis or concern too insurmountable or insignificant where the presence of a supportive therapeutic relationship cannot be beneficial. Seeking counseling is the first step on the path toward gaining insight, meaning and healing. I support clients in understanding and shifting emotions, thoughts and behaviors that may be causing suffering and impairing healthy functioning. I am humbled to walk alongside you on your path to healing. I counsel adults who have struggles with relationships, depression, anxiety, alcohol or drugs, communication, life transitions, family dynamics, anger, stress, and trauma.
It is my belief there is no crisis or concern too insurmountable or insignificant where the presence of a supportive therapeutic relationship cannot be beneficial. Seeking counseling is the first step on the path toward gaining insight, meaning and healing. I support clients in understanding and shifting emotions, thoughts and behaviors that may be causing suffering and impairing healthy functioning. I am humbled to walk alongside you on your path to healing. I counsel adults who have struggles with relationships, depression, anxiety, alcohol or drugs, communication, life transitions, family dynamics, anger, stress, and trauma.
(937) 639-1308 View (937) 639-1308
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Mary Judith Wilson, LPCC, LLC
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429
Specialties: mood/anxiety, grief, life transitions, relationship issues, STRESS, mindfulness training, energy work, guided imagery and breath work, chronic low self-esteem influenced by false core beliefs.
My strengths are in acceptance of where you are as a developing human being and allowing you to grow and learn in your own unique ways; over 30 years of experience with lots of clients, issues, and situations; my honesty with you; and my high regard for the potential in every person. I work holistically, helping you to identify what you need cognitively, emotionally, physically, and spiritually to help yourself. I like helping people find that there are solutions in their lives that they had not thought or had not seen before. I feel that we all need a sense of purpose and community in our lives in order to live fully!
Specialties: mood/anxiety, grief, life transitions, relationship issues, STRESS, mindfulness training, energy work, guided imagery and breath work, chronic low self-esteem influenced by false core beliefs.
My strengths are in acceptance of where you are as a developing human being and allowing you to grow and learn in your own unique ways; over 30 years of experience with lots of clients, issues, and situations; my honesty with you; and my high regard for the potential in every person. I work holistically, helping you to identify what you need cognitively, emotionally, physically, and spiritually to help yourself. I like helping people find that there are solutions in their lives that they had not thought or had not seen before. I feel that we all need a sense of purpose and community in our lives in order to live fully!
(937) 203-4655 View (937) 203-4655
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Kathleen Judy
Counselor, MS, LPCC, S
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Are you struggling with depression, anxiety or chronic pain? Or perhaps, are you having relationship or family issues? Maybe you're having to make a difficult decision. My goal is to provide compassionate, confidential help for navigating difficult issues. With over 20 years of counseling experience, I will provide a nonjudgmental, caring, confidential place to get your concerns out. I will teach you practical tools to help either resolve the problem(s) or cope with the situation(s) more effectively. My therapeutic approach includes cognitive behavioral and solution focused strategies.
Are you struggling with depression, anxiety or chronic pain? Or perhaps, are you having relationship or family issues? Maybe you're having to make a difficult decision. My goal is to provide compassionate, confidential help for navigating difficult issues. With over 20 years of counseling experience, I will provide a nonjudgmental, caring, confidential place to get your concerns out. I will teach you practical tools to help either resolve the problem(s) or cope with the situation(s) more effectively. My therapeutic approach includes cognitive behavioral and solution focused strategies.
(937) 660-7613 View (937) 660-7613
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Dr. Dennis O'Grady
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kettering, OH 45429
As a psychologist with 40+ years of experience, I help partners build bridges over relationship divides when you’re at odds. All you need is to invest in a “neutral” expert to guide you. My marriage/couple/family clients report leaving sessions feeling better off because I don’t take sides and offer proven communication tools. Although change is difficult, the surest route to happiness is to grow and change.
As a psychologist with 40+ years of experience, I help partners build bridges over relationship divides when you’re at odds. All you need is to invest in a “neutral” expert to guide you. My marriage/couple/family clients report leaving sessions feeling better off because I don’t take sides and offer proven communication tools. Although change is difficult, the surest route to happiness is to grow and change.
(937) 451-3613 View (937) 451-3613
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Emily K Werlein
Counselor, MEd, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kettering, OH 45429  (Online Only)
Thus, successful therapy models authentic relationship.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life? Ever feel stuck in a rut with your thoughts and feelings, your family, your job, your habits, your doubts, even this pandemic…are you ready for a change? Ready to feel confident again? Ready to get your sparkle back? Come join me—I’ll show you how! I specialize in working with women and moms. For over 20 years, I have been helping women find hope, confidence, and healing for themselves and their relationships. Many clients value a faith perspective—we can incorporate that into our work together. Take that first step towards a stronger version of you, reach out, and discover how amazing you are!
Thus, successful therapy models authentic relationship.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life? Ever feel stuck in a rut with your thoughts and feelings, your family, your job, your habits, your doubts, even this pandemic…are you ready for a change? Ready to feel confident again? Ready to get your sparkle back? Come join me—I’ll show you how! I specialize in working with women and moms. For over 20 years, I have been helping women find hope, confidence, and healing for themselves and their relationships. Many clients value a faith perspective—we can incorporate that into our work together. Take that first step towards a stronger version of you, reach out, and discover how amazing you are!
(937) 858-6298 View (937) 858-6298
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Dr. Nicole Walton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW, LISW-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Kettering, OH 45429
I believe therapy can be a beneficial tool to assist those who are hurting, dissatisfied, or filled with uncertainty. Sometimes we find ourselves struggling in our relationships. We may have persistent sadness or worries that get in the way of life. We may have losses that are too difficult to process on our own. Or we may feel our life has just gotten off track. There are many reasons to seek therapy. Do you want to learn and try new coping skills? Do you want to improve a relationship? Do you want help working through a problem in your life? I can help. I offer therapy in-person or online and have evening availability.
I believe therapy can be a beneficial tool to assist those who are hurting, dissatisfied, or filled with uncertainty. Sometimes we find ourselves struggling in our relationships. We may have persistent sadness or worries that get in the way of life. We may have losses that are too difficult to process on our own. Or we may feel our life has just gotten off track. There are many reasons to seek therapy. Do you want to learn and try new coping skills? Do you want to improve a relationship? Do you want help working through a problem in your life? I can help. I offer therapy in-person or online and have evening availability.
(937) 358-8351 View (937) 358-8351
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Self Matters, LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kettering, OH 45429
Our team has experience working with adolescents and adults treating Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Trauma/abuse, GLBTQ, Self esteem, relationship/couples issues, and personality issues.
Psychotherapy is a healing process. We believe in creating a supportive, empathic environment to allow you to begin your journey. We can help foster insight, knowledge and skills to help improve your quality of life. The process of change begins from within. We can help you progress through your stages of change by teaching you skills, providing support and motivation to help you reach your goals and maintain these changes. We strongly believe in the self and one's inner ability to restore any imbalance to help live a more meaningful and purposeful life.
Our team has experience working with adolescents and adults treating Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Trauma/abuse, GLBTQ, Self esteem, relationship/couples issues, and personality issues.
Psychotherapy is a healing process. We believe in creating a supportive, empathic environment to allow you to begin your journey. We can help foster insight, knowledge and skills to help improve your quality of life. The process of change begins from within. We can help you progress through your stages of change by teaching you skills, providing support and motivation to help you reach your goals and maintain these changes. We strongly believe in the self and one's inner ability to restore any imbalance to help live a more meaningful and purposeful life.
(937) 684-4161 View (937) 684-4161
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(937) 914-3057 View (937) 914-3057
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Lisa Collins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429  (Online Only)
I have worked with clients with anxiety, depression, alcohol/drug issues or those affected by someone’s addiction, trauma/grief, obsessive-compulsive, bipolar, eating disorders, relationship difficulties, coping skills, anger management, parenting and adjustment issues.
Reaching out for help takes a lot of courage and insight. I am here to help. I have worked in the counseling field for the last 20 years in private practice, treatment centers and in Higher Education. I enjoy helping others work through life situations and difficulties to regain their sense of self and worth. I utilize the treatment modality that fits your personality and comfort level. I bring with me a wealth of knowledge, empathy and a belief that no situation is hopeless.
I have worked with clients with anxiety, depression, alcohol/drug issues or those affected by someone’s addiction, trauma/grief, obsessive-compulsive, bipolar, eating disorders, relationship difficulties, coping skills, anger management, parenting and adjustment issues.
Reaching out for help takes a lot of courage and insight. I am here to help. I have worked in the counseling field for the last 20 years in private practice, treatment centers and in Higher Education. I enjoy helping others work through life situations and difficulties to regain their sense of self and worth. I utilize the treatment modality that fits your personality and comfort level. I bring with me a wealth of knowledge, empathy and a belief that no situation is hopeless.
(937) 807-3505 View (937) 807-3505
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Scott Campbell
Counselor, LPCC-S, MSE
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kettering, OH 45429
My goal is to provide excellent client focused counseling to older teens and adults. My graduate training at the University of Dayton equipped me with a passion and the tools to serve our local population. I believe that every client is unique and that my approach aims to meet people where they are and help guide them to where they want to be. I hope that you will find me to be trustworthy, reflective, insightful, calming and safe. I hold the counseling relationship to be something special, it allows the client a place to explore, heal and grow and I am honored when I am included in this journey.
My goal is to provide excellent client focused counseling to older teens and adults. My graduate training at the University of Dayton equipped me with a passion and the tools to serve our local population. I believe that every client is unique and that my approach aims to meet people where they are and help guide them to where they want to be. I hope that you will find me to be trustworthy, reflective, insightful, calming and safe. I hold the counseling relationship to be something special, it allows the client a place to explore, heal and grow and I am honored when I am included in this journey.
(937) 483-4294 View (937) 483-4294
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Tom Rathbun
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kettering, OH 45429
Drawing from humanistic and relational approaches, I aim to provide a warm and trusting relationship where you feel comfortable to explore your inner world, wrestle with life's challenges, and build on your strengths.
Many of us find ourselves feeling called to living a deeper and more emotionally fulfilled life. Whether you are struggling with managing stress, navigating life's transitions, looking for deeper meaning, exploring your identity, or trying to understand a mental health condition such as anxiety or depression, it's helpful to have a safe environment to explore what is and is not working for you. Using trauma-informed practices, I work with individuals ready to find lasting change in their lives. Special areas of interest include LGBT+ issues, navigating university, exploring spiritual identity, and healing from trauma.
Drawing from humanistic and relational approaches, I aim to provide a warm and trusting relationship where you feel comfortable to explore your inner world, wrestle with life's challenges, and build on your strengths.
Many of us find ourselves feeling called to living a deeper and more emotionally fulfilled life. Whether you are struggling with managing stress, navigating life's transitions, looking for deeper meaning, exploring your identity, or trying to understand a mental health condition such as anxiety or depression, it's helpful to have a safe environment to explore what is and is not working for you. Using trauma-informed practices, I work with individuals ready to find lasting change in their lives. Special areas of interest include LGBT+ issues, navigating university, exploring spiritual identity, and healing from trauma.
(937) 932-1183 View (937) 932-1183
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Kelly Sierra
Counselor, MS, LPCC, CCTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kettering, OH 45429
Waitlist for new clients
Some specialty areas include: anxiety, depression, OCD, ADHD (adolescent/adult), Bipolar Disorder, trauma recovery, divorce recovery, school issues, underachievement, weight gain, relationship and dating issues, performance enhancement.
My counseling approach is about collaborating with you and empowering you to identify and work through patterns that are negatively impacting daily life. Whether you have a history of anxiety or depression or perhaps you're going through a transitional period due to relocation, divorce, or just graduating from college, there are proven methods that can help you get back on track or even pursue a new track. Specializing in the following approaches/tools: EMDR, Brainspotting, Polyvagal Theory, SSP, IFS, CBT, and positive psychology.
Some specialty areas include: anxiety, depression, OCD, ADHD (adolescent/adult), Bipolar Disorder, trauma recovery, divorce recovery, school issues, underachievement, weight gain, relationship and dating issues, performance enhancement.
My counseling approach is about collaborating with you and empowering you to identify and work through patterns that are negatively impacting daily life. Whether you have a history of anxiety or depression or perhaps you're going through a transitional period due to relocation, divorce, or just graduating from college, there are proven methods that can help you get back on track or even pursue a new track. Specializing in the following approaches/tools: EMDR, Brainspotting, Polyvagal Theory, SSP, IFS, CBT, and positive psychology.
(937) 387-7324 View (937) 387-7324
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Sharon Shaver
Marriage & Family Therapist, IMFT
Verified Verified
Dayton, OH 45429
Changes in life can be stressful. Whether you’ve recently started a new job, had a new child, entered or exited a relationship, or retired! All major changes in life come with an adjustment period. Unfortunately, the stress and pressure of these changes can often bring with them anxiety, depression, questions of self worth, and shine a light on the shortcomings of our personal relationships.
Changes in life can be stressful. Whether you’ve recently started a new job, had a new child, entered or exited a relationship, or retired! All major changes in life come with an adjustment period. Unfortunately, the stress and pressure of these changes can often bring with them anxiety, depression, questions of self worth, and shine a light on the shortcomings of our personal relationships.
(937) 744-4778 View (937) 744-4778
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Amanda Winfield
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Kettering, OH 45429
You may have a whirlwind of unanswered questions about the therapeutic relationship leaving you immobilized.
Do you want to change but despite your best efforts you’re feeling stuck? Like there’s something you're facing you just don’t understand? Maybe there are things you don’t talk about. Maybe it's your past, or parts of yourself you look away from in shame. If you’re longing to be reacquainted with yourself, your mind, your body, your whole self, you’ve come to the right place.
You may have a whirlwind of unanswered questions about the therapeutic relationship leaving you immobilized.
Do you want to change but despite your best efforts you’re feeling stuck? Like there’s something you're facing you just don’t understand? Maybe there are things you don’t talk about. Maybe it's your past, or parts of yourself you look away from in shame. If you’re longing to be reacquainted with yourself, your mind, your body, your whole self, you’ve come to the right place.
(937) 871-2971 View (937) 871-2971
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Melody A Brown
Counselor, MEd, PCC
Verified Verified
Dayton, OH 45429
I have experience in helping clients with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, divorce, stress/time management, grief, trauma, disorganization, and more.
Struggling to find peace or contentment in your life? You are not alone. So many issues in life can often keep us from the healthier state of mind we all desire. Counseling can help you identify the issues preventing peace and help you learn skills to maintain overall wellness. Therapeutic focus often involves supporting clients through processes of acceptance, healing, change, and decision making. Clients are then equipped to lead healthier, balanced lives even with life's challenges.
I have experience in helping clients with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, divorce, stress/time management, grief, trauma, disorganization, and more.
Struggling to find peace or contentment in your life? You are not alone. So many issues in life can often keep us from the healthier state of mind we all desire. Counseling can help you identify the issues preventing peace and help you learn skills to maintain overall wellness. Therapeutic focus often involves supporting clients through processes of acceptance, healing, change, and decision making. Clients are then equipped to lead healthier, balanced lives even with life's challenges.
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Dr. Steven A Ingram
Counselor, DMin, LPCC-S, LSW
Verified Verified
Dayton, OH 45429
My clients want to live richer, more emotionally balanced lives and have more fulfilling relationships. They are curious about their lives: "Is this all there is?" or "How did I get into this mess?" My clients soon realize that "going it alone in silence" is depressing and not hopeful. They see me as a trusted friend who cares about them. I see people just like you--healing from loss and grief due to the endings of relationships. I counsel parents who have relationship issues with their adult children. I help persons when their religion/spirituality seems to have ended. I help couples repair and rekindle their relationship.
My clients want to live richer, more emotionally balanced lives and have more fulfilling relationships. They are curious about their lives: "Is this all there is?" or "How did I get into this mess?" My clients soon realize that "going it alone in silence" is depressing and not hopeful. They see me as a trusted friend who cares about them. I see people just like you--healing from loss and grief due to the endings of relationships. I counsel parents who have relationship issues with their adult children. I help persons when their religion/spirituality seems to have ended. I help couples repair and rekindle their relationship.
(937) 821-5618 View (937) 821-5618
Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.