Counselling in SO51
Do you overthink everything to the point that your overwhelmed and frustrated? Feel your stuck in this and lost a sense of yourself. Avoiding this no longer working? Let me help. I will support you, to make sense of this, change your life and have a more positive outlook for your future.
I'm Lisa, a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor, EMDR Therapist and Life Coach. I work with adults who appear to be in control of their lives but actually are feeling far from that. I understand that for you, talking about thoughts and feelings is uncomfortable. I get it. Rest assured, let me offer you a conversational space with me. No pressure.
Do you overthink everything to the point that your overwhelmed and frustrated? Feel your stuck in this and lost a sense of yourself. Avoiding this no longer working? Let me help. I will support you, to make sense of this, change your life and have a more positive outlook for your future.
I'm Lisa, a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor, EMDR Therapist and Life Coach. I work with adults who appear to be in control of their lives but actually are feeling far from that. I understand that for you, talking about thoughts and feelings is uncomfortable. I get it. Rest assured, let me offer you a conversational space with me. No pressure.
I became a counsellor because I’ve experienced and seen how many people are struggling to carry life on their own. Especially those who are holding families together, managing complex situations, or have been through things that others don’t fully understand. Sometimes, we just need a space where we can stop thinking everything’s fine and be heard, fully and safely.
As an adoptive mum of three for the past 20 years, a busy working parent, and someone who has navigated international moves, I understand how life’s layers can build up. Family, work, past experiences; sometimes it feels like you’re trying to carry too much.
I became a counsellor because I’ve experienced and seen how many people are struggling to carry life on their own. Especially those who are holding families together, managing complex situations, or have been through things that others don’t fully understand. Sometimes, we just need a space where we can stop thinking everything’s fine and be heard, fully and safely.
As an adoptive mum of three for the past 20 years, a busy working parent, and someone who has navigated international moves, I understand how life’s layers can build up. Family, work, past experiences; sometimes it feels like you’re trying to carry too much.
Hello, I am Millie - a qualified person centred counsellor committed to providing a warm, respectful, and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace, offering genuine care, empathy, and acceptance to every person I work with.
Life can feel heavy at times, and it’s not always easy to share what’s going on inside. Reaching out for support takes courage, and I want you to know that you don’t have to face things alone.
I offer a safe, welcoming space where you can talk freely, without judgement, and begin to explore what’s truly happening for you.
Hello, I am Millie - a qualified person centred counsellor committed to providing a warm, respectful, and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace, offering genuine care, empathy, and acceptance to every person I work with.
Life can feel heavy at times, and it’s not always easy to share what’s going on inside. Reaching out for support takes courage, and I want you to know that you don’t have to face things alone.
I offer a safe, welcoming space where you can talk freely, without judgement, and begin to explore what’s truly happening for you.
“Find calm, clarity and forward momentum and navigate big life transitions.”
I offer Life Coaching, Counselling, Psychotherapy and Supervision, Online & In-Person to help you find greater purpose, meaning, joy, positive relationships, autonomy and control in your life.
Book your free one hour consultation.
I work with adults and young people (14+) going through major transitions of life. I offer you a free one hour consultation, no obligation, to see if our match feels right for you.
“Find calm, clarity and forward momentum and navigate big life transitions.”
I offer Life Coaching, Counselling, Psychotherapy and Supervision, Online & In-Person to help you find greater purpose, meaning, joy, positive relationships, autonomy and control in your life.
Book your free one hour consultation.
I work with adults and young people (14+) going through major transitions of life. I offer you a free one hour consultation, no obligation, to see if our match feels right for you.
Are you experiencing feelings of anxiety, low self-esteem, self-doubt or depression? Do you need some support and strategies to help deal with these overwhelming feelings? If you are struggling with any of these issues or others such as, addiction, loss, feeling that you are different or just want help figuring out where life is going for you then I may well be able to help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental environment for you to explore these issues and look at tools and ways you can adapt and have choices for change.
Are you experiencing feelings of anxiety, low self-esteem, self-doubt or depression? Do you need some support and strategies to help deal with these overwhelming feelings? If you are struggling with any of these issues or others such as, addiction, loss, feeling that you are different or just want help figuring out where life is going for you then I may well be able to help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental environment for you to explore these issues and look at tools and ways you can adapt and have choices for change.
My name is Janette and I offer counselling therapy for adults over 18yrs. When life is difficult it can be difficult to reach out for support. This can lead to feelings of isolation, feeling overwhelmed as well as feelings of anxiety, depression, and stress. You may be carrying worries from the past or have worries about the future which are affecting you today. I offer a safe, confidential place to explore what brings you to counselling within an empathetic ,non-judgmental, professional relationship where you can be heard and be your true self.
My name is Janette and I offer counselling therapy for adults over 18yrs. When life is difficult it can be difficult to reach out for support. This can lead to feelings of isolation, feeling overwhelmed as well as feelings of anxiety, depression, and stress. You may be carrying worries from the past or have worries about the future which are affecting you today. I offer a safe, confidential place to explore what brings you to counselling within an empathetic ,non-judgmental, professional relationship where you can be heard and be your true self.
If you are feeling overwhelmed by challenges in your day-to-day life or struggling to make sense of how you feel, then talking therapy can be a powerful way to work through issues and strengthen your resilience. I offer CBT and other evidence-based therapies, which are successful in treating common mental health problems including depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder and phobias. Therapy also treats emotional difficulties such as anger, shame, low self-esteem and stress. If you are ready to explore your difficulties and make some changes, I can support you to feel better.
If you are feeling overwhelmed by challenges in your day-to-day life or struggling to make sense of how you feel, then talking therapy can be a powerful way to work through issues and strengthen your resilience. I offer CBT and other evidence-based therapies, which are successful in treating common mental health problems including depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder and phobias. Therapy also treats emotional difficulties such as anger, shame, low self-esteem and stress. If you are ready to explore your difficulties and make some changes, I can support you to feel better.
Hi, I’m Lauren – Counsellor at Thinking out Loud. I offer online and face to face counselling (in Romsey and in Shirley) that’s relaxed, real, and tailored to you. No jargon, no pressure - Just time set aside for you to talk about whatever’s on your mind.
I have a particular passion for working with children and young people, and alongside my Private Practice I work as a school counsellor.
Working with me often feels like chatting with someone who really gets it - more like a cuppa than a clinical session. I bring a calm, down-to-earth approach, and I’ll always adapt the way I work to suit your pace and preferences.
Hi, I’m Lauren – Counsellor at Thinking out Loud. I offer online and face to face counselling (in Romsey and in Shirley) that’s relaxed, real, and tailored to you. No jargon, no pressure - Just time set aside for you to talk about whatever’s on your mind.
I have a particular passion for working with children and young people, and alongside my Private Practice I work as a school counsellor.
Working with me often feels like chatting with someone who really gets it - more like a cuppa than a clinical session. I bring a calm, down-to-earth approach, and I’ll always adapt the way I work to suit your pace and preferences.
If you are reading this it is likely that you are considering therapy. Seeking support when life is presenting challenges can be quite daunting and you may have some worries about sharing your feelings. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgmental environment for you to be heard, where I believe the relationship between us is the key to supporting you in your journey. Perhaps experiences from your past or in the present are impacting how you live your daily life or maybe you’re feeling anxious, stressed or generally unhappy and would like to make some changes.
If you are reading this it is likely that you are considering therapy. Seeking support when life is presenting challenges can be quite daunting and you may have some worries about sharing your feelings. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgmental environment for you to be heard, where I believe the relationship between us is the key to supporting you in your journey. Perhaps experiences from your past or in the present are impacting how you live your daily life or maybe you’re feeling anxious, stressed or generally unhappy and would like to make some changes.
Hello, I'm Aimee, my style of counselling is warm, empathic and down to earth. Together we can explore a way forward for you. Maybe you have never had counselling before and but you are interested to know if it could help you? You might want someone to look at relationship patterns with you or have you got difficult anxious feelings? Maybe you are not sure what you want to change? Together we can explore what it is you need from therapy.
Hello, I'm Aimee, my style of counselling is warm, empathic and down to earth. Together we can explore a way forward for you. Maybe you have never had counselling before and but you are interested to know if it could help you? You might want someone to look at relationship patterns with you or have you got difficult anxious feelings? Maybe you are not sure what you want to change? Together we can explore what it is you need from therapy.
Hello, I'm Sara, a fully qualified Counsellor & Psychotherapist, and an Accredited member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society - MNCPS Acc. With over 10 years of experience, I offer compassionate, confidential, and professional support to individuals and couples.
I believe that at our core, human beings seek happiness, peace & balance within themselves & their environment. We all want to feel at ease in our lives, and I know first hand how elusive that can sometimes feel. There are times when these feelings of harmony & well-being seem just out of reach, often causing tension or distress in our relationships.
Hello, I'm Sara, a fully qualified Counsellor & Psychotherapist, and an Accredited member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society - MNCPS Acc. With over 10 years of experience, I offer compassionate, confidential, and professional support to individuals and couples.
I believe that at our core, human beings seek happiness, peace & balance within themselves & their environment. We all want to feel at ease in our lives, and I know first hand how elusive that can sometimes feel. There are times when these feelings of harmony & well-being seem just out of reach, often causing tension or distress in our relationships.
Hello and welcome. I’m Laura and I have many years experience working as a counsellor, supporting adults and young people aged 13 and over. I specialise in trauma related to abuse and can also support with difficulties such as; anxiety, depression, low mood, self-esteem and relationships. I offer face to face, online and telephone sessions, depending on what works best for you.
Hello and welcome. I’m Laura and I have many years experience working as a counsellor, supporting adults and young people aged 13 and over. I specialise in trauma related to abuse and can also support with difficulties such as; anxiety, depression, low mood, self-esteem and relationships. I offer face to face, online and telephone sessions, depending on what works best for you.
A chartered psychologist, associate fellow of the British Psychological Society, and a registered Counselling Psychologist with the HCPC since its inception, I have experience within the NHS and as a national clinical manager with AXAPPP. I have twenty years' experience and have enjoyed working both face to face and online. I work with adults, including those with neurodiversity, who are seeking support to address a range of presentations including depression, anxiety-conditions including, generalized anxiety disorder, OCD, health anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma and a range of other presentations.
A chartered psychologist, associate fellow of the British Psychological Society, and a registered Counselling Psychologist with the HCPC since its inception, I have experience within the NHS and as a national clinical manager with AXAPPP. I have twenty years' experience and have enjoyed working both face to face and online. I work with adults, including those with neurodiversity, who are seeking support to address a range of presentations including depression, anxiety-conditions including, generalized anxiety disorder, OCD, health anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma and a range of other presentations.
My aim is to explore together the issues you bring in a safe non-judgemental environment and support you to find a way forward. Many of us have issues in our lives that make us feel ‘stuck’ and stop us living the lives we want to live. This can be related to situations that have occurred recently or more long-standing issues going back to childhood. Our usual coping mechanisms may not be enough and the people we have relied on in the past for support may not be able to help with our current issues.
My aim is to explore together the issues you bring in a safe non-judgemental environment and support you to find a way forward. Many of us have issues in our lives that make us feel ‘stuck’ and stop us living the lives we want to live. This can be related to situations that have occurred recently or more long-standing issues going back to childhood. Our usual coping mechanisms may not be enough and the people we have relied on in the past for support may not be able to help with our current issues.
Is anxiety or stress having an impact on your day-to-day life? Have you suffered a bereavement or loss? Perhaps you are feeling low, confused, having relationship problems. Do you want to be able to speak to someone in confidence, reflect on your life, consider choices to help provide clarity or meaning? Do you feel stuck or trapped? Are you feeling as if you are not being your true self and are pretending to be someone others want you to be, or often pleasing others? You may not be sure what is wrong. If life feels like a struggle at times, counselling can really help. Please get in touch by email with your contact details.
Is anxiety or stress having an impact on your day-to-day life? Have you suffered a bereavement or loss? Perhaps you are feeling low, confused, having relationship problems. Do you want to be able to speak to someone in confidence, reflect on your life, consider choices to help provide clarity or meaning? Do you feel stuck or trapped? Are you feeling as if you are not being your true self and are pretending to be someone others want you to be, or often pleasing others? You may not be sure what is wrong. If life feels like a struggle at times, counselling can really help. Please get in touch by email with your contact details.
As a relational humanistic psychotherapist trained to use EMDR to process trauma, I specialise in creating a warm and safe, non-judgmental and empathic space where clients are able to explore any difficult thoughts, feelings and behaviours that are getting in the way of healthy living, gaining insight into how to go forward. Oftentimes having suffered trauma such as a loss or bereavement, perhaps a divorce or other confusing relationship issues in the distant past, we become blocked, needing effective strategies and techniques to continue. I work both online on Zoom or face to face, in both short and long term settings.
As a relational humanistic psychotherapist trained to use EMDR to process trauma, I specialise in creating a warm and safe, non-judgmental and empathic space where clients are able to explore any difficult thoughts, feelings and behaviours that are getting in the way of healthy living, gaining insight into how to go forward. Oftentimes having suffered trauma such as a loss or bereavement, perhaps a divorce or other confusing relationship issues in the distant past, we become blocked, needing effective strategies and techniques to continue. I work both online on Zoom or face to face, in both short and long term settings.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or carrying experiences that are hard to put into words.
My work is grounded in presence, attunement and relationship. I offer a slow, embodied approach, paying attention not only to words, but also to what is felt in the body and in the present moment. Therapy with me is a space to pause, reflect and reconnect with yourself at a pace that feels right. I am an integrative counsellor, drawing primarily on Gestalt therapy and trauma-informed practice, with CBT elements where helpful to support awareness and understanding.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or carrying experiences that are hard to put into words.
My work is grounded in presence, attunement and relationship. I offer a slow, embodied approach, paying attention not only to words, but also to what is felt in the body and in the present moment. Therapy with me is a space to pause, reflect and reconnect with yourself at a pace that feels right. I am an integrative counsellor, drawing primarily on Gestalt therapy and trauma-informed practice, with CBT elements where helpful to support awareness and understanding.
Perhaps you're feeling low or anxious - maybe you're struggling with decisions about the future of a relationship or feel stuck and unhappy with the life you are leading. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support. I work with adults and young people from all works of life. My specialisms include anxiety and low self-esteem, trauma-related difficulties, depression and low mood, bereavement and loss, and relationship and attachment difficulties.
Perhaps you're feeling low or anxious - maybe you're struggling with decisions about the future of a relationship or feel stuck and unhappy with the life you are leading. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support. I work with adults and young people from all works of life. My specialisms include anxiety and low self-esteem, trauma-related difficulties, depression and low mood, bereavement and loss, and relationship and attachment difficulties.
Are you sad, experiencing an ongoing battle with low mood and depression? Do you need time and space to work through what's causing your anxiety , stress, upset in your life? Does the daily struggle leave you exhausted and feeling like you want to give up? Physical symptoms are a result of an overthinking mind, negative thought patterns and habits that are causing you emotional distress. You are not alone and effective therapy can be a life changing process enabling you to feel happier and more fulfilled. Taking back control needs new skills, coping mechanisms and a different perspective - making the call is the first step.
Are you sad, experiencing an ongoing battle with low mood and depression? Do you need time and space to work through what's causing your anxiety , stress, upset in your life? Does the daily struggle leave you exhausted and feeling like you want to give up? Physical symptoms are a result of an overthinking mind, negative thought patterns and habits that are causing you emotional distress. You are not alone and effective therapy can be a life changing process enabling you to feel happier and more fulfilled. Taking back control needs new skills, coping mechanisms and a different perspective - making the call is the first step.
Does life sometimes feel like a jigsaw puzzle with pieces not slotting together? I am a great believer that we need to invest in ourselves. When life becomes difficult and those pieces are just not fitting, therapy gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself, make you the priority in an otherwise busy life. I have been through such times and it encouraged me to train as a counsellor then a psychotherapist to help clients with general mental health issues and other life difficulties, such as grief and other losses, addiction, sexuality, relationships, domestic abuse and anger issues.
Does life sometimes feel like a jigsaw puzzle with pieces not slotting together? I am a great believer that we need to invest in ourselves. When life becomes difficult and those pieces are just not fitting, therapy gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself, make you the priority in an otherwise busy life. I have been through such times and it encouraged me to train as a counsellor then a psychotherapist to help clients with general mental health issues and other life difficulties, such as grief and other losses, addiction, sexuality, relationships, domestic abuse and anger issues.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in SO51
50+
Average cost per session
£60
Counsellors in SO51 who prioritize treating:
| 100% | Anxiety |
| 98% | Depression |
| 94% | Self Esteem |
| 86% | Stress |
| 84% | Relationship Issues |
| 76% | Bereavement |
| 69% | Trauma and PTSD |
Average years in practice
9 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 67% | Bupa |
| 67% | Aviva |
| 67% | AXA PPP |
How Counsellors in SO51 see their clients
| 86% | In Person and Online | |
| 14% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 90% | Female | |
| 10% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in SO51?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.