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Timothy Dellard
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
I welcome gender, sexuality and relationship diversity into my therapy room, and I am experienced in working with alternative relationship styles.
I am a relationship therapist working in Cardiff and Swansea with people who wish to improve their existing relationships or bring new ones that they need into their lives. Are you feeling unsupported in life or lacking connections with people who really understand you? Do you wish you had closer relationships, more people to share your innermost thoughts with, or more authenticity where people know the “real” you? You may have been harmed by previous relationships, perhaps even by narcissistic abuse, and this has knocked you off course?
I welcome gender, sexuality and relationship diversity into my therapy room, and I am experienced in working with alternative relationship styles.
I am a relationship therapist working in Cardiff and Swansea with people who wish to improve their existing relationships or bring new ones that they need into their lives. Are you feeling unsupported in life or lacking connections with people who really understand you? Do you wish you had closer relationships, more people to share your innermost thoughts with, or more authenticity where people know the “real” you? You may have been harmed by previous relationships, perhaps even by narcissistic abuse, and this has knocked you off course?
01792 949273 View 01792 949273
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Shirley Valentino
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Barry CF62
I am a qualified Systemic Psychotherapist (Family Therapist) and Humanistic Counsellor, with over 20 years experience working for a children’s charity, for statutory & voluntary agencies and within a private practice. Providing therapy in a confidential and relaxed environment with a diverse range of individuals, couples and families. I am also a qualified Supervisor and have extensive experience of providing therapeutic supervisory consultation services with individuals and groups. Covering qualified therapists, counselling students and professional staff in a variety of workplaces.
I am a qualified Systemic Psychotherapist (Family Therapist) and Humanistic Counsellor, with over 20 years experience working for a children’s charity, for statutory & voluntary agencies and within a private practice. Providing therapy in a confidential and relaxed environment with a diverse range of individuals, couples and families. I am also a qualified Supervisor and have extensive experience of providing therapeutic supervisory consultation services with individuals and groups. Covering qualified therapists, counselling students and professional staff in a variety of workplaces.
01446 506836 View 01446 506836
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Dr Bishnu Upadhaya
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Not Verified Not Verified
Cardiff CF10  (Online Only)
An enthusiastic, skilled and well-motivated Psychological, Neuropsychological, Integrated Medicine and healthcare consultant with more than 19 years’ experiences, promoting the welfare of patients, families, and vulnerable people. Experienced in providing specialist Neuropsychological, Psychological, Herbal Medicine, Naturopathic and Homeopathic Medicine Assessments, Consultation and Treatments of direct and referred clients based upon the appropriate use, interpretation and integration of complex data from a psychological and holistic approach and treatment and tasting.
An enthusiastic, skilled and well-motivated Psychological, Neuropsychological, Integrated Medicine and healthcare consultant with more than 19 years’ experiences, promoting the welfare of patients, families, and vulnerable people. Experienced in providing specialist Neuropsychological, Psychological, Herbal Medicine, Naturopathic and Homeopathic Medicine Assessments, Consultation and Treatments of direct and referred clients based upon the appropriate use, interpretation and integration of complex data from a psychological and holistic approach and treatment and tasting.
020 3835 4892 View 020 3835 4892
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Tanya Oosthuyzen
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Cardiff CF10  (Online Only)
Although I work with all forms of psychological distress and clinical disorders I hold a special interest & expertise in anxiety, depression, obsessive compulsive disorder, trauma & complex PTSD, sexual health, life-transitions & bereavement.
Are you maybe having difficulties with anxiety or depression; feeling overwhelmed; lacking in motivation; experiencing relationship difficulties; having intrusive or ruminating thoughts; struggling to make decisions; looking to explore greater personal growth & insight or feel you are not quite reaching your full potential? - perhaps I can help. I am a Clinical Psychologist in private practice providing psychotherapy within a safe, containing space - allowing you the opportunity to openly explore a range of thoughts, behaviours & emotions, with someone trained to help understand & make sense of them.
Although I work with all forms of psychological distress and clinical disorders I hold a special interest & expertise in anxiety, depression, obsessive compulsive disorder, trauma & complex PTSD, sexual health, life-transitions & bereavement.
Are you maybe having difficulties with anxiety or depression; feeling overwhelmed; lacking in motivation; experiencing relationship difficulties; having intrusive or ruminating thoughts; struggling to make decisions; looking to explore greater personal growth & insight or feel you are not quite reaching your full potential? - perhaps I can help. I am a Clinical Psychologist in private practice providing psychotherapy within a safe, containing space - allowing you the opportunity to openly explore a range of thoughts, behaviours & emotions, with someone trained to help understand & make sense of them.
01423 648724 View 01423 648724

Online Therapists

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Dr Remziye Kunelaki
Counsellor, PhD, MUKCP
Verified Verified
I worked in the NHS in Sexual Health/HIV for almost 20 years and I have extensive experience of treating a wide range of sexual and relationship presentations.
I am a highly experienced psycho sexual and relationship therapist and offer talking therapy for the following issues: relationship difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, compulsive sexual behaviour, pain during sex, difficulties with orgasm, arousal or desire issues, sexuality or sex education. I specialize in helping clients achieve sober sex after chem sex. In addition, I offer the space to explore spirituality and faith (regardless of religion) within the framework of sexuality.
I worked in the NHS in Sexual Health/HIV for almost 20 years and I have extensive experience of treating a wide range of sexual and relationship presentations.
I am a highly experienced psycho sexual and relationship therapist and offer talking therapy for the following issues: relationship difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, compulsive sexual behaviour, pain during sex, difficulties with orgasm, arousal or desire issues, sexuality or sex education. I specialize in helping clients achieve sober sex after chem sex. In addition, I offer the space to explore spirituality and faith (regardless of religion) within the framework of sexuality.
020 3962 1638 View 020 3962 1638
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Dr Pinar Marasli - Clinical Psychologist
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
I also have experience offering psycho sexual therapy.
I am a Clinical Psychologist, Chartered with the British Psychological Society (BPS) and Registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC). I work with adults (18+) experiencing emotional, behavioural and mental health problems. I have a particular interest in working with people with longstanding psychological difficulties such as attachment issues and early childhood trauma. I am also highly interested in working with anxiety and depression; sexual health problems (e.g., erectile difficulties, painful vaginal sex); and relationship difficulties.
I also have experience offering psycho sexual therapy.
I am a Clinical Psychologist, Chartered with the British Psychological Society (BPS) and Registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC). I work with adults (18+) experiencing emotional, behavioural and mental health problems. I have a particular interest in working with people with longstanding psychological difficulties such as attachment issues and early childhood trauma. I am also highly interested in working with anxiety and depression; sexual health problems (e.g., erectile difficulties, painful vaginal sex); and relationship difficulties.
020 3909 9597 View 020 3909 9597
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Dr Ali Taba – Cambridge Sex Therapy Clinic
Psychotherapist, PhD, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
I am a Senior Accredited Specialist in Sex and Relationship Therapy.
Male and Female Sexual Dysfunctions, Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling Service in Cambridge & Online (phone & Video Call). I work with a wide range of male and female sexual difficulties, including: low sexual confidence, sexual anxiety (performance anxiety), sexual dissatisfaction, low desire for sex (desire mismatch), erectile problems, premature ejaculation, delayed or inhibited ejaculation, orgasm difficulties in women, vaginismus and sexual pain, sexual identity issues, & sex/porn addiction. I also work with relationship and marital problems, such as poor communication, intimacy issues, lack of trust & affairs.
I am a Senior Accredited Specialist in Sex and Relationship Therapy.
Male and Female Sexual Dysfunctions, Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling Service in Cambridge & Online (phone & Video Call). I work with a wide range of male and female sexual difficulties, including: low sexual confidence, sexual anxiety (performance anxiety), sexual dissatisfaction, low desire for sex (desire mismatch), erectile problems, premature ejaculation, delayed or inhibited ejaculation, orgasm difficulties in women, vaginismus and sexual pain, sexual identity issues, & sex/porn addiction. I also work with relationship and marital problems, such as poor communication, intimacy issues, lack of trust & affairs.
01223 653962 View 01223 653962
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David Piner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
I am a specialist couple, relationship and psycho sexual psychotherapist, here you if you are struggling with a couple, relationship, or sexual issue. I offer individual and couples specialist relationship, couples and psycho sexual therapy. I have over 17 years of experience working with clients. This is all done within a confidential and non-judgmental space. I am a qualified and accredited sex and relationship therapist. As Associate Director of the London Diploma in Psycho sexual and Relationship Therapy and Course Director of the Naos Institute's Advanced Couples Diploma, I help train the next generation of specialist therapists.
I am a specialist couple, relationship and psycho sexual psychotherapist, here you if you are struggling with a couple, relationship, or sexual issue. I offer individual and couples specialist relationship, couples and psycho sexual therapy. I have over 17 years of experience working with clients. This is all done within a confidential and non-judgmental space. I am a qualified and accredited sex and relationship therapist. As Associate Director of the London Diploma in Psycho sexual and Relationship Therapy and Course Director of the Naos Institute's Advanced Couples Diploma, I help train the next generation of specialist therapists.
023 8214 8557 View 023 8214 8557
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Dawn White - Relationship Living
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
I work with sexual dysfunctional problems, and help my clients achieve the relationship, love and life they desire.
As a sex and relationship therapist I aim to provide an open space where people can discuss, and explore their intimate concerns and experiences in a non judgemental way. I work with both couples, individuals and multiple partnered people, whilst honouring all sexual orientations and practices. People that are experiencing sexual, emotional or deeper relationship issues, such as high conflict or are separated contact me to explore and understand what they can change and control, and also what patterns are repeating in their relationships. I am a sex positive therapist and have over 20 years extensive experience as a therapist.
I work with sexual dysfunctional problems, and help my clients achieve the relationship, love and life they desire.
As a sex and relationship therapist I aim to provide an open space where people can discuss, and explore their intimate concerns and experiences in a non judgemental way. I work with both couples, individuals and multiple partnered people, whilst honouring all sexual orientations and practices. People that are experiencing sexual, emotional or deeper relationship issues, such as high conflict or are separated contact me to explore and understand what they can change and control, and also what patterns are repeating in their relationships. I am a sex positive therapist and have over 20 years extensive experience as a therapist.
0114 697 2894 View 0114 697 2894
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Christine Andreasen
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
My main areas of practice and experience are: Depression /Anxiety /Loneliness and issues around belonging/ Lack of meaning/ Low self-esteem/ Relationship problems/ Personal development/ Coping with change/ Grief/ Sex and sexuality /Gender / Alternative lifestyle/ Psycho sexual Therapy/.
People seek counselling for many reasons. There is no rule for what you should and should not attend counselling for. Whether you are facing a challenging phase in your life, suffer from anxiety or depression, want to improve your emotional health, change recurring patterns of thought or behaviour, have relationship or sexual issues or perhaps need to talk to someone in a non-judgemental and confidential environment - counselling can help.
My main areas of practice and experience are: Depression /Anxiety /Loneliness and issues around belonging/ Lack of meaning/ Low self-esteem/ Relationship problems/ Personal development/ Coping with change/ Grief/ Sex and sexuality /Gender / Alternative lifestyle/ Psycho sexual Therapy/.
People seek counselling for many reasons. There is no rule for what you should and should not attend counselling for. Whether you are facing a challenging phase in your life, suffer from anxiety or depression, want to improve your emotional health, change recurring patterns of thought or behaviour, have relationship or sexual issues or perhaps need to talk to someone in a non-judgemental and confidential environment - counselling can help.
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Daryl Nicholas Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Warwick CV34
As an Integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, I have undergone extensive training which brings together effective contemporary approaches to therapy, drawing from a variety of models to suit your individual needs. I have over sixteen years experience supporting adults and young people to address a range of issues, including: anxiety/panic, depression, stress, loss and bereavement, identity issues, sexuality, trauma/abuse, low self-esteem, relationship issues, life transitions and careers and life direction. I also offer the comprehensive 'INSIGHT self-discovery programmes' (visit darylnicholas.com for more details).
As an Integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, I have undergone extensive training which brings together effective contemporary approaches to therapy, drawing from a variety of models to suit your individual needs. I have over sixteen years experience supporting adults and young people to address a range of issues, including: anxiety/panic, depression, stress, loss and bereavement, identity issues, sexuality, trauma/abuse, low self-esteem, relationship issues, life transitions and careers and life direction. I also offer the comprehensive 'INSIGHT self-discovery programmes' (visit darylnicholas.com for more details).
01926 800596 View 01926 800596
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Wilma Stewart
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Gott ZE2
Anxiety presents comes in many guises. Folk usually say they want to feel better and that the unrest has reached such a pitch that they felt they had to see somebody. 'I should have come years ago', 'I bottle things up', 'I've been having panic attacks', 'My relationship is suffering', 'I feel so angry', 'my confidence is worse than ever'. 'online sex/gambling/eating/drinking/buying is taking me over', 'I can't be among folk', 'I've gone off sex', 'I don't have the concentration to read or watch a film'.
Anxiety presents comes in many guises. Folk usually say they want to feel better and that the unrest has reached such a pitch that they felt they had to see somebody. 'I should have come years ago', 'I bottle things up', 'I've been having panic attacks', 'My relationship is suffering', 'I feel so angry', 'my confidence is worse than ever'. 'online sex/gambling/eating/drinking/buying is taking me over', 'I can't be among folk', 'I've gone off sex', 'I don't have the concentration to read or watch a film'.
01595 720800 View 01595 720800
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Cássia Testa Gallas Bhattacharya
Verified Verified
London SE1  (Online Only)
If you think your personal, sex and/or love life could use some improvement, I am here to help.
Hi! I believe everyone has the right for decent relationships (with friends, family and partners) as it has tremendous influence in their quality of life. Many things influence the way people behave in relationships - I am here to help you explore what might be getting in the way of you getting the relationships you want. I work with all sorts of issues in relationships and sexual difficulties, and will offer you a non-judgmental environment while facilitating the therapeutic process for self-discovery and actualisation.
If you think your personal, sex and/or love life could use some improvement, I am here to help.
Hi! I believe everyone has the right for decent relationships (with friends, family and partners) as it has tremendous influence in their quality of life. Many things influence the way people behave in relationships - I am here to help you explore what might be getting in the way of you getting the relationships you want. I work with all sorts of issues in relationships and sexual difficulties, and will offer you a non-judgmental environment while facilitating the therapeutic process for self-discovery and actualisation.
020 8059 2130 View 020 8059 2130
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Laura Stannard -Sex & Relationship Therapy
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
London N8  (Online Only)
If you're struggling with your sex life you're looking for clarity and understanding about whats going on.
Do you feel like you're navigating sex and relationships on a different wavelength? Do you think and feel deeply, yet often find yourself isolated, confused, or misunderstood? You might have ADHD, be autistic or fall outside the mainstream in some way and want someone who gets it. If your unique way of thinking leaves you questioning your worthiness for good sex and relationships, you're not alone. My practice is rooted in empathy, respect, and shared experience of feeling different. Together, we'll explore, helping you gain clarity, build meaningful connections, and discover sex and relationships that work for you.
If you're struggling with your sex life you're looking for clarity and understanding about whats going on.
Do you feel like you're navigating sex and relationships on a different wavelength? Do you think and feel deeply, yet often find yourself isolated, confused, or misunderstood? You might have ADHD, be autistic or fall outside the mainstream in some way and want someone who gets it. If your unique way of thinking leaves you questioning your worthiness for good sex and relationships, you're not alone. My practice is rooted in empathy, respect, and shared experience of feeling different. Together, we'll explore, helping you gain clarity, build meaningful connections, and discover sex and relationships that work for you.
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Hyunho Khang
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
I have wide experience counselling a diverse range of clients experiencing depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, loss, grief, anger issues, confidence issues, relationship difficulties, issues around sex, issues at work, ADHD, addiction, eating issues, abuse and trauma. I work in conjunction with NHS services and other health professionals to support adults in the South West. I have a particular interest in working with clients with relationship difficulties (including sex issues), clients affected by narcissism in their relationships, and clients with somatic problems including pain, chronic fatigue, ME, IBS and fibromyalgia.
I have wide experience counselling a diverse range of clients experiencing depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, loss, grief, anger issues, confidence issues, relationship difficulties, issues around sex, issues at work, ADHD, addiction, eating issues, abuse and trauma. I work in conjunction with NHS services and other health professionals to support adults in the South West. I have a particular interest in working with clients with relationship difficulties (including sex issues), clients affected by narcissism in their relationships, and clients with somatic problems including pain, chronic fatigue, ME, IBS and fibromyalgia.
0117 325 2122 View 0117 325 2122
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Leah Spasova - Specialising In Sex Relationships
Psychologist, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Oxford OX3  (Online Only)
I offer one-to-one sessions, webinars, sex-positive social events, and more.
Tired of finding yourself frustrated, lonely, unfulfilled and lost in your intimate life and relationships? Yes, spending life stuck and unhappy, feeling like a lab rat – trying to figure out a maze without a map can be soul destroying. I've been talking, teaching and helping people with their relationships and sexuality since 2007, and no story can faze me. You can feel safe - I'll get you. I will understand and not judge one bit. This is your journey. Are you struggling with intimacy and sexuality? Are you curious about kinky sex or swinging? Or maybe you want to open your relationship? Or to begin with - actually find a partner?
I offer one-to-one sessions, webinars, sex-positive social events, and more.
Tired of finding yourself frustrated, lonely, unfulfilled and lost in your intimate life and relationships? Yes, spending life stuck and unhappy, feeling like a lab rat – trying to figure out a maze without a map can be soul destroying. I've been talking, teaching and helping people with their relationships and sexuality since 2007, and no story can faze me. You can feel safe - I'll get you. I will understand and not judge one bit. This is your journey. Are you struggling with intimacy and sexuality? Are you curious about kinky sex or swinging? Or maybe you want to open your relationship? Or to begin with - actually find a partner?
01865 638066 View 01865 638066
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Charlotte Haylock
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Uxbridge UB10  (Online Only)
I have particular experience and expertise in gender, sexuality and relationship diversity, anxiety, depression, shame, low self-esteem, trauma/PTSD, panic attacks, OCD and relationship difficulties.
I am a chartered counselling psychologist with experience of working in the NHS and third sector services. Within my therapeutic practice, I aim to offer a space that is non-judgemental, compassionate and warm, holding in mind that the therapeutic relationship is an important factor in supporting people to make meaningful changes. I take an integrative approach and I am trained in various models of therapy including Person-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT), Compassion Focussed Therapy (CFT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
I have particular experience and expertise in gender, sexuality and relationship diversity, anxiety, depression, shame, low self-esteem, trauma/PTSD, panic attacks, OCD and relationship difficulties.
I am a chartered counselling psychologist with experience of working in the NHS and third sector services. Within my therapeutic practice, I aim to offer a space that is non-judgemental, compassionate and warm, holding in mind that the therapeutic relationship is an important factor in supporting people to make meaningful changes. I take an integrative approach and I am trained in various models of therapy including Person-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT), Compassion Focussed Therapy (CFT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
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Domonique Hillam-Thompson
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
London SE1  (Online Only)
In my Relate, NHS and private practice I work with a wide variety of people from different backgrounds, sexual orientations, gender and ethnicities.
I am Relate trained specialising in Relationship and Sex Therapy. In order to keep our relationships healthy we need to attend to them to ensure they remain respectful, trusting, sexual and happy. Because of the busyness of day to day life, we can easily disconnect from our partners without realising it leading to a lack of communication, conflict, affairs, and dissatisfaction. When married, or when children are involved, these problems become even more complex. It might even be that since the country's lockdown, you are now realising there are issues in your relationship. Now could be a good time to resolve these.
In my Relate, NHS and private practice I work with a wide variety of people from different backgrounds, sexual orientations, gender and ethnicities.
I am Relate trained specialising in Relationship and Sex Therapy. In order to keep our relationships healthy we need to attend to them to ensure they remain respectful, trusting, sexual and happy. Because of the busyness of day to day life, we can easily disconnect from our partners without realising it leading to a lack of communication, conflict, affairs, and dissatisfaction. When married, or when children are involved, these problems become even more complex. It might even be that since the country's lockdown, you are now realising there are issues in your relationship. Now could be a good time to resolve these.
020 3962 2135 View 020 3962 2135
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The Neurodivergent Therapist/ Louise Taylor
Counsellor, PhD, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
My name is Lou and I am the Neurodivergent Therapist. My clients would describe me as honest, uplifting and empowering. In 2020 I received an ASD diagnosis and I now work with neurodivergent clients only. Much of my work involves supporting my clients to actualise and be free to live good lives as neurodivergent people. Throughout my career, I have been fortunate enough to work with a great variety of people from multiple backgrounds, countries and social groups. I am passionate about offering a service that is client-centred, wellness-focused and fun. I am a sex-positive therapist, an LGBTQIA+, trans ally and pleasure activist.
My name is Lou and I am the Neurodivergent Therapist. My clients would describe me as honest, uplifting and empowering. In 2020 I received an ASD diagnosis and I now work with neurodivergent clients only. Much of my work involves supporting my clients to actualise and be free to live good lives as neurodivergent people. Throughout my career, I have been fortunate enough to work with a great variety of people from multiple backgrounds, countries and social groups. I am passionate about offering a service that is client-centred, wellness-focused and fun. I am a sex-positive therapist, an LGBTQIA+, trans ally and pleasure activist.
028 9694 3409 View 028 9694 3409
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Keith Fowler
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bath BA1  (Online Only)
My clinical mission is to provide a sex positive and safe space where you can discuss anything openly and free of judgment.
Welcome to my page! I'm glad you're here. I am a clinical sexologist registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapy (COSRT), working mainly with men around topics including relationships, sex, and problematic sexual behaviours which may include compulsive sexual behaviour (so-called sex/porn addiction). I offer an empathic and non-shaming environment to explore issues, such as betrayals, mismatched desire or enhancing sexual intimacy. I can help to find ways to listen, share and restore connection.
My clinical mission is to provide a sex positive and safe space where you can discuss anything openly and free of judgment.
Welcome to my page! I'm glad you're here. I am a clinical sexologist registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapy (COSRT), working mainly with men around topics including relationships, sex, and problematic sexual behaviours which may include compulsive sexual behaviour (so-called sex/porn addiction). I offer an empathic and non-shaming environment to explore issues, such as betrayals, mismatched desire or enhancing sexual intimacy. I can help to find ways to listen, share and restore connection.
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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.