Couples Counseling Therapists in Redlands, CA

If you find yourself in a codependent relationship with either a partner, friend, or family member, it’s time to seek help. Codependent relationships are often a result of unresolved trauma. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to process your experiences. We’ll dig deep and get “real.” My approach is collaborative and depth-oriented – I don’t just sit back and nod and smile. I’ll go deep with you and empower you to create healthy boundaries in relationships that will ultimately increase your confidence and allow you to live the life you want to live, free of people-pleasing.

I am currently a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (131879) under the supervision of Dr. Caroline Daravi, PSY22676 (Licensed Clinical Psychologist). I have experience working with couples, individuals, and teenagers who struggle with anxiety, depression, self-esteem and relationships.

Therapy at its best, is a transformative and deeply meaningful experience. I work with anyone who is called towards better understanding themselves, their behaviors, and their suffering so that they can live a more soulful life. As a trauma-informed therapist, I help clients process pain so that what is stuck within their body can have an opportunity to be released. This process gives clients a chance to become more present and free to live the life they desire.

I'm Dr. Kym Codallos, a licensed clinical social worker in California, Arizona, Wyoming, and Colorado. I believe in treating the whole individual or family system. My approaches are eclectic and uniquely tailored to the needs of the individual or family system. I believe that we all have strengths that we are able to use to get us through the most difficult of situations. I come from a strengths-based perspective and approach to working with clients. I am kind, and compassionate but won't be afraid, to be honest with you. My clients find me to be warm and friendly.

I value the importance of creating a safe, supportive and collaborative environment to help facilitate personal growth and healing from the overwhelming challenges we sometimes face in life. Pain is part of our human experience. However, suffering does not have to be. My focus is to provide my clients with practical and effective interventions that are tailored to their specific needs. My clinical practice is highly informed by principles of neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology and evidenced based psychological interventions. My aim is to assist, encourage and empower my clients on their path forward in reaching their goals.

Using compassionate care, empathy, sensitivity, gentleness, and a strengths-based approach, I strive to create a warm and comfortable environment for clients to engage in their healing, growth, and change processes. I assist clients in exploring the context, history, and life experiences that contribute to their presenting concerns in order for clients to experience self-transformation. I want my clients to know that there are always ways in which to manage, cope, recover, and heal, and that suffering does not have to be permanent or lifelong.

Learning to be transparent and vulnerable is difficult but not impossible. These skills take time and are based on trust. As a therapist I would love to be a person who you can trust because I DO care. I want to understand you better and work alongside of you to help you become the best possible version of yourself. I love working with individuals who often lose a sense of self because of putting others before them such as their spouse or children. It can be the hardest question to answer when someone asks you, what do YOU want? My goal to help you live as the BEST version of yourself is to start with caring for YOU first.

Do you struggle because of your sexual identity, gender identity, age, or health status? Does it sometimes feel like the world will only accept you if you fit in a neat little box? I will help you uncover or reconnect with the beautiful parts of yourself that have been overshadowed by societal expectations and pressure. I provide a safe, supportive, confidential environment to explore and create the life you want and the relationships you desire. I work with people of all gender expressions, ages, spiritual backgrounds, health statuses, and sexual orientations.

Things happen in life which are beyond our control and I know from personal experience that working through the ensuing pain is never easy. Seeking counseling may feel risky or uncomfortable, but I am here to talk with you about your concerns and develop a plan that is best for you. I will work with you confidentially and at your own pace in order to help support you through the challenges you are facing. Come in for an initial session and let's discuss your needs. I am confident we will find a solution together.

Choosing to get help is a sometimes difficult and courageous decision, especially in these difficult times. As of March 2020, I have begun doing telehealth. I will try to help you to feel as comfortable as possible from our first contact. I know that the biggest compliment I can receive is to be told how “real” clients find me to be, and how understood they feel. I have been in practice in Redlands for more than 25 years, and I utilize various techniques, tailoring my interventions to meet the client’s needs. I believe that it is the relationship between the client and therapist that has the most to do with growth.

I have been working directly with clients being adults, children, couples and families since 2019. My passion is to help those who are struggling with their issues and who are open and ready to make the changes necessary for them to become the best version of themselves. I use many interventions depending on the client's issues brought into session.

Accepting new clients. I enjoy helping people heal, move forward, and overcome challenges. I have experience working with young adults/adults, and couples. I apply a Client Centered approach, CBT, DBT, REBT, Post Modern, Existential, & Psychodynamic- dependent upon needs. I am passionate about therapy and have been practicing for over eight years. I have also been a contractor for A&E’s “Intervention” and I currently contract with CSULB for D1 athletes. I work with working professionals, business owners, college students, couples, etc. Additionally, I practice the specialty of Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR).

My name is Gabriel Arroyo and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My desire to become a therapist began when I was diagnosed with Juvenile Diabetes at the age of 10 and was faced with learning how to cope with this significant change in my life. This experience allowed me to learn coping skills and strategies to overcome struggles that we experience in life and provided me with a passion to provide that same knowledge to others. As a Therapist, my approach is free formed in order to build a respectable comfort between us to work as a team on goals with your existing strengths and skills.

If you need help now, I am here for you and will offer relief of painful symptoms. My clinical focus is on personal growth, challenges with anxiety and depression and spiritual questioning. I have a proven method for finding the root of every life challenge. The goal for all my clients is for each and every one of them to obtain total peace and clarity for themselves. My therapeutic approach is non-judgmental, open and honest. I also offer Neurofeedback therapy that will help reduce symptoms of anxiety and ADHD/ADD. Request a free assessment to determine if Neurofeedback is right for you. In-person or virtual therapy offered.

I am passionate about marriage and the family, and I believe that healthy and whole individuals make up the best families. Whether you see something seriously wrong in your life, believe your marriage could use a little fine tuning, or are worried about your adolescent slipping away, please understand that I would love to work with you on these challenges. I am thankful for those with whom I work, and I consider it a privilege to be trusted. As a Christ-follower, I am happy to incorporate faith, but only with those who so desire.

Here you will find a compassionate & authentic space in which you learn to more deeply connect with yourself (and others), so you can finally discover what's behind your typical “knee-jerk reactions” & why your “go to” coping strategies seem to cause more distress than the original problems! Then we'll make meaningful shifts to uncover new and healthier ways to approach life and relationships. Clients often come to me for help with a broad range of concerns, like: trauma, anxiety, depression, pain, existential malaise, creative blocks, infertility challenges, grief, & family/relationship drama and communication difficulties.

Yes, I would welcome your call … but am I right for you? I am a mother/grandmother and a two-time cancer survivor. I believe the relationship with ourself will determine our quality of relationship with others. We have intrinsic, untapped power to change thoughts and behaviors that rob us of the joy, peace and acceptance we so very much desire. I am a LCSW with more than 15 years of experience helping others with life transitions; health concerns, career challenges, marriage, divorce, childhood trauma, PTSD, anxiety & depression. If we are a good fit, I’d love to be your coach, educator, and counselor.

"Out beyond ideas of wrong doing and right doing there is a field. I'll meet you there." Rumi. The heart of my work is to assist you to live an emotionally authentic life in relationship to yourself and others. In the process of discovering your true self you will learn how certain emotions, behaviors and beliefs have affected your life and your relationships and you will become empowered to make important changes. My style is warm, and non-judgmental at the same time I am direct and confrontive.

Perhaps my best quality is my ability to meet individuals where they are, acknowledging and respecting their unique perspectives and experiences. There is great power in safe and non-judgmental spaces where people can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of rejection. My commitment to helping people on their own terms is at the heart of my therapeutic philosophy. Therapy is collaborative. As a compassionate guide, a seasoned listener, and a tenaciously courageous ally, I see myself as a partner on your journey toward self-discovery and well-being.