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Esther Loewen

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (she, her)

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3 Endorsed
700 East Redlands Boulevard, Redlands, CA 92373
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Available both in-person and online
700 East Redlands Boulevard Redlands, CA 92373
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You may be thoughtful, self-aware, and still feel stuck in anxiety, emotional overwhelm, self-judgment, or relationship patterns that don’t seem to change despite insight. You might be navigating trauma, identity questions, faith transitions, or the impact of religious experiences. You may want relief, clarity, and tools that actually work—without being judged, rushed, or told who to be.
I offer trauma-informed, LGBTQ+ affirming therapy grounded primarily in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). My work focuses on emotion regulation, reducing suffering, and helping clients make values-based changes that are realistic and sustainable. I work collaboratively and tailor therapy to your goals and pace.
Reaching out for therapy can feel vulnerable, especially if past experiences left you misunderstood or dismissed. My goal is to create a respectful, supportive space where you feel safe exploring what’s hard while building skills for real change. If this sounds like a fit, I welcome the opportunity to work together.
Call or Esther Loewen now for a free 15 minute consultation - (951) 899-0521

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

700 East Redlands Boulevard

Redlands, CA 92373 map

(951) 899-0521

San Francisco, CA 94102

My website
Many of my clients see me through video chat on Zoom. Some opt for in-person appointments at my clinic office in Downtown Redlands, CA.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Anxiety and Depression 
$165 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
A quick informal hello from my little office in Southern California. I'm looking forward to meeting you!
Esther Loewen
Let's Connect (951) 899-0521
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

700 East Redlands Boulevard

Redlands, CA 92373 map

(951) 899-0521

San Francisco, CA 94102

My website
Many of my clients see me through video chat on Zoom. Some opt for in-person appointments at my clinic office in Downtown Redlands, CA.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Anxiety and Depression 
$165 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
A quick informal hello from my little office in Southern California. I'm looking forward to meeting you!
Esther Loewen

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $165
  • Couple Sessions $195
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Adventist Risk Management
  • Aetna
  • Allied
  • Anthem
  • Benefit and Risk Management
  • Blue Cross
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Health Net
  • Kaiser (Out-of-Network)
  • Kaiser Permanente Nor. Cal.
  • Kaiser Permanente So. Cal.
  • Loma Linda University Medical
  • Quest Behavioral Health
  • Sidecar Health
  • USC PPO
  • Out of Network
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I accept quite a number of insurance plans as an in-network provider (see below), and I also have appointments available through private-pay with limited available sliding scale openings. Please let me know to inquire about qualifying for reduced rates.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521
"
I accept quite a number of insurance plans as an in-network provider (see below), and I also have appointments available through private-pay with limited available sliding scale openings. Please let me know to inquire about qualifying for reduced rates.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 159064 Esther Loewen
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 3 years
  • Attended California School of Professional Psychology at Alliant International University, MAMFT, Graduated 2023
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with CAMFT 10055639 / 2023
  • Degree/Diploma from Fuller Theological Seminary MAGL / 2013
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I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with extensive history working with people through transitions as an ordained minister. I've been trained in DBT and DBTPE, as well as LGBTQ-Affirmative CBT.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521
"
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with extensive history working with people through transitions as an ordained minister. I've been trained in DBT and DBTPE, as well as LGBTQ-Affirmative CBT.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • LGBTQ+
  • Anxiety
  • Depression

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Dissociative Disorders (DID)
  • Grief
  • Lesbian
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • Religious Trauma
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Spirituality
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Often, my clients sought therapy because they were experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, interpersonal conflict, or identity challenges. Sessions with me focus on empowering clients to reflect on their personal values and emotional experiences, increase awareness and competency in emotional regulation, and experiential catharsis in a context of non-judgmental safety.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521
"
Often, my clients sought therapy because they were experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, interpersonal conflict, or identity challenges. Sessions with me focus on empowering clients to reflect on their personal values and emotional experiences, increase awareness and competency in emotional regulation, and experiential catharsis in a context of non-judgmental safety.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521

3 Endorsements

Teagan Manny
Teagan Manny
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Esther is a wonderful therapist. Her deep empathy and compassion for clients is so evident in her work. As a client, you are guaranteed to feel her warmth and the safety to express yourself in her presence. I would happily recommend her to anyone!
Estella Nolasco
Estella Nolasco
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
I wholeheartedly endorse Esther. She is compassionate, understanding, and creates a safe, supportive environment for healing. Her empathy and professionalism helps clients navigate challenges with confidence and trust, fostering meaningful growth.
Dr. Sean Ferri
Dr. Sean Ferri
PsychologistPsyD
I have worked alongside Esther for several years now...their knowledge, empathy, and clinical skills are unmatched.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Christian

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Humanistic
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Prolonged Exposure Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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My approach is decidedly client-centered: I see my clients as the experts of their own lives. I am trauma-informed, anti-racist, radically inclusive. As a therapist, I utilize techniques and principles from: DBT, CBT, narrative theory, feminist theory, and IFS. With couples, I use Gottman and EFCT. As a queer person, I'm enthusiastic to work with the LGBTQ community.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521
"
My approach is decidedly client-centered: I see my clients as the experts of their own lives. I am trauma-informed, anti-racist, radically inclusive. As a therapist, I utilize techniques and principles from: DBT, CBT, narrative theory, feminist theory, and IFS. With couples, I use Gottman and EFCT. As a queer person, I'm enthusiastic to work with the LGBTQ community.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (951) 899-0521

Location

Primary Location

700 East Redlands Boulevard

Redlands, CA 92373

(951) 899-0521

Additional Location

San Francisco, CA 94102

(951) 899-0521
"
Many of my clients see me through video chat on Zoom. Some opt for in-person appointments at my clinic office in Downtown Redlands, CA.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (951) 899-0521
"
Many of my clients see me through video chat on Zoom. Some opt for in-person appointments at my clinic office in Downtown Redlands, CA.
Photo of Esther Loewen, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (951) 899-0521