Gottman Method Therapists in Cochrane, AB

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Marggie Marks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
I offer a holistic approach to mental well-being and draw from modalities such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Attachment theory, Narrative, Mindfulness practices, Solution-Focused therapy, Dialectical behavioural Therapy (DBT) and Gottman Method for couples.
Life transitions and expectations can be overwhelming. Maybe you are wearing many hats and feel like you've lost yourself balancing everyone else's needs. Or perhaps the losses you have faced are so heavy that it feels almost impossible to take the next step. I have over a decade of experience supporting individuals and families from diverse backgrounds who face challenges with relationships, grief or parenting. My experience includes supporting first and second-generation immigrants and mixed-raced individuals from a cross-cultural lens that addresses Identity, belonging, and intergenerational healing.
I offer a holistic approach to mental well-being and draw from modalities such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Attachment theory, Narrative, Mindfulness practices, Solution-Focused therapy, Dialectical behavioural Therapy (DBT) and Gottman Method for couples.
Life transitions and expectations can be overwhelming. Maybe you are wearing many hats and feel like you've lost yourself balancing everyone else's needs. Or perhaps the losses you have faced are so heavy that it feels almost impossible to take the next step. I have over a decade of experience supporting individuals and families from diverse backgrounds who face challenges with relationships, grief or parenting. My experience includes supporting first and second-generation immigrants and mixed-raced individuals from a cross-cultural lens that addresses Identity, belonging, and intergenerational healing.
(587) 801-7269 View (587) 801-7269
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Lindsay Nordlof
Psychologist, MC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C  (Online Only)
Lindsay has also obtained Level 1 Gottman Method Couples Therapy Certification.
Lindsay is a Registered Psychologist in the province of Alberta and a Registered Clinical Counsellor in the province of British Columbia. Lindsay is also available to provide telepsychology services to residents of Nova Scotia and New Brunswick as per their regulatory boards. She provides comprehensive counselling to adolescents, adults, and couples affected by a wide variety of issues including anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and loss, substance use and addictions, and relationship difficulties.
Lindsay has also obtained Level 1 Gottman Method Couples Therapy Certification.
Lindsay is a Registered Psychologist in the province of Alberta and a Registered Clinical Counsellor in the province of British Columbia. Lindsay is also available to provide telepsychology services to residents of Nova Scotia and New Brunswick as per their regulatory boards. She provides comprehensive counselling to adolescents, adults, and couples affected by a wide variety of issues including anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and loss, substance use and addictions, and relationship difficulties.
(587) 602-2897 View (587) 602-2897
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Jennifer Primmer
Counsellor, PhD, MPCC, RPC, CT, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
In addition, I primarily draw from the Gottman Method for couples experiencing relationship difficulties.
I provide individual and couples counselling to members of the public, first responders, healthcare providers, & other therapists. I specialize in working with PTSD, trauma, & Alexithymia. I also work with a range of other concerns, including, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, & grief. I take an integrative & trauma-informed approach to treatment because I believe that healing fundamentally involves working both with the mind & the manifestation of emotional experiences stored in the body. Everyone has a unique path to healing & processing – my approach will help you feel safe & empowered as you begin this journey.
In addition, I primarily draw from the Gottman Method for couples experiencing relationship difficulties.
I provide individual and couples counselling to members of the public, first responders, healthcare providers, & other therapists. I specialize in working with PTSD, trauma, & Alexithymia. I also work with a range of other concerns, including, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, & grief. I take an integrative & trauma-informed approach to treatment because I believe that healing fundamentally involves working both with the mind & the manifestation of emotional experiences stored in the body. Everyone has a unique path to healing & processing – my approach will help you feel safe & empowered as you begin this journey.
(587) 803-3258 View (587) 803-3258
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Kyle Graham
Psychologist, MC, RPsych
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
Clients seeking treatment for symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, and/or relationship issues will benefit from my integrated approach which draws from evidence based best practices including: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT); Gestalt interventions; grief/loss models; Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT); EMDR; the and Gottman Method.
I am keen to collaborate with Individuals and couples wanting to discover and understand the underlying factors which may be contributing to their symptoms of distress and conflict in their lives and in their relationships. Together we will develop a therapeutic alliance: influenced by curiosity; mindfulness; and self-compassion; that will focus on creating, and trying to achieve, your unique treatment goals. I am passionate about mental and emotional health, and I enjoy guiding and supporting clients while they strive to improve and change their lives.
Clients seeking treatment for symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, and/or relationship issues will benefit from my integrated approach which draws from evidence based best practices including: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT); Gestalt interventions; grief/loss models; Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT); EMDR; the and Gottman Method.
I am keen to collaborate with Individuals and couples wanting to discover and understand the underlying factors which may be contributing to their symptoms of distress and conflict in their lives and in their relationships. Together we will develop a therapeutic alliance: influenced by curiosity; mindfulness; and self-compassion; that will focus on creating, and trying to achieve, your unique treatment goals. I am passionate about mental and emotional health, and I enjoy guiding and supporting clients while they strive to improve and change their lives.
(587) 329-8566 View (587) 329-8566
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Andrea Beck
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
Waitlist for new clients
There are times in all our lives when we could use a little support. If you are dealing with depression, anxiety, chronic illness, insomnia, stress & overwhelm, or a sexual health concern, it can feel like a constant battle with your emotions, thoughts, and body. Some people are experiencing these challenges for the first time and aren't sure what to do. Others have been struggling for years and need a new sense of hope for lasting change. Seeking treatment can help you feel less lost and provide you with a roadmap for well-being.
There are times in all our lives when we could use a little support. If you are dealing with depression, anxiety, chronic illness, insomnia, stress & overwhelm, or a sexual health concern, it can feel like a constant battle with your emotions, thoughts, and body. Some people are experiencing these challenges for the first time and aren't sure what to do. Others have been struggling for years and need a new sense of hope for lasting change. Seeking treatment can help you feel less lost and provide you with a roadmap for well-being.
(587) 801-0323 View (587) 801-0323
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Maria Bianco
Psychologist, BPsch, BEd, MC
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
Life can certainly feel uncertain at times. Are you experiencing some stress or challenges and looking for professional and confidential support? Do you, or your loved ones, struggle with trauma, depression, anxiety or relationship issues? I work with children, youth, adults, couples and families who seek to process trauma, improve feelings of wellbeing, resolve issues and feel connected. Support with calming the body, understanding mental health, practicing strategies, expressing feelings/thoughts and learning about relevant resources can make all the difference, while managing life's ups and downs.
Life can certainly feel uncertain at times. Are you experiencing some stress or challenges and looking for professional and confidential support? Do you, or your loved ones, struggle with trauma, depression, anxiety or relationship issues? I work with children, youth, adults, couples and families who seek to process trauma, improve feelings of wellbeing, resolve issues and feel connected. Support with calming the body, understanding mental health, practicing strategies, expressing feelings/thoughts and learning about relevant resources can make all the difference, while managing life's ups and downs.
(587) 801-8053 View (587) 801-8053
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Lindsay Zoeteman
Psychologist, MC, RPsych
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
Lindsay seeks to help individuals who find themselves longing for a more fulfilling life but are unsure of the obstacles in their path. Specializing in working with adults, Lindsay has developed a particular expertise in addressing concerns related to assessing for and treating ADHD, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Her compassionate and empathetic approach creates a safe space for clients to explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences.
Lindsay seeks to help individuals who find themselves longing for a more fulfilling life but are unsure of the obstacles in their path. Specializing in working with adults, Lindsay has developed a particular expertise in addressing concerns related to assessing for and treating ADHD, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Her compassionate and empathetic approach creates a safe space for clients to explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences.
(587) 410-5792 View (587) 410-5792
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Lauren Teichrob
Counsellor, CCC, RCC, CT, CYCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
My ideal client faces challenges in relationships, whether marital, family dynamics or personal growth struggles. They seek understanding, emotional regulation, and strategies to cope with anxiety, depression, or trauma. Their goal is to foster healthier relationships, achieve personal fulfillment, and navigate life transitions with resilience. They desire a safe space for exploration, healing, and self-discovery, driven by a longing for deeper connections and a more meaningful life. They're ready to engage in therapy, open to introspection and applying learned strategies outside sessions, aiming for tangible change and well-being.
My ideal client faces challenges in relationships, whether marital, family dynamics or personal growth struggles. They seek understanding, emotional regulation, and strategies to cope with anxiety, depression, or trauma. Their goal is to foster healthier relationships, achieve personal fulfillment, and navigate life transitions with resilience. They desire a safe space for exploration, healing, and self-discovery, driven by a longing for deeper connections and a more meaningful life. They're ready to engage in therapy, open to introspection and applying learned strategies outside sessions, aiming for tangible change and well-being.
(587) 601-1041 View (587) 601-1041
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Erin Butters
Psychologist, MSc, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
It has been such an honour to offer counselling support to those in various stages of life in our community for 20 years, and in private practice for over 10 years. I am passionate about helping adults, couples, teens, and children through a wide variety of challenges including transitions, healing from trauma past or present, addressing unhealthy patterns in relationship, moving through loss, and addressing anxiety, mood and motivation. I have enthusiasm for supporting individuals grappling with anxiety, perfectionism, relationships, trauma, PTSD, cPTSD, grief, depression, OCD, ADHD, body image issues, and relationship with food.
It has been such an honour to offer counselling support to those in various stages of life in our community for 20 years, and in private practice for over 10 years. I am passionate about helping adults, couples, teens, and children through a wide variety of challenges including transitions, healing from trauma past or present, addressing unhealthy patterns in relationship, moving through loss, and addressing anxiety, mood and motivation. I have enthusiasm for supporting individuals grappling with anxiety, perfectionism, relationships, trauma, PTSD, cPTSD, grief, depression, OCD, ADHD, body image issues, and relationship with food.
(587) 602-2705 View (587) 602-2705
Photo of Maliya Wellness For Women, Teens, & Children , Psychologist in Cochrane, AB
Maliya Wellness For Women, Teens, & Children
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
Maliya’s Psychologists support Women, Teens and Children in managing stress, forming healthy relationships, building greater self-confidence, finding passion, and living a life of joy and fulfilment. Whether you’re navigating a major life transition, coping with grief or loss, or managing ongoing anxiety, our Psychologists are here to support you every step of the way. Maliya is a holistic wellness centre nestled in cozy Cochrane, Alberta. Our Wellness Centre offers a diverse menu of services that cater to all elements of well-being, all under one roof, embracing you with warmth, support and care.
Maliya’s Psychologists support Women, Teens and Children in managing stress, forming healthy relationships, building greater self-confidence, finding passion, and living a life of joy and fulfilment. Whether you’re navigating a major life transition, coping with grief or loss, or managing ongoing anxiety, our Psychologists are here to support you every step of the way. Maliya is a holistic wellness centre nestled in cozy Cochrane, Alberta. Our Wellness Centre offers a diverse menu of services that cater to all elements of well-being, all under one roof, embracing you with warmth, support and care.
(587) 741-1940 View (587) 741-1940
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Strength Counselling Services
Counsellor, MEd, CCC, RCC, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C  (Online Only)
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
(587) 412-5049 View (587) 412-5049
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Tina Virjee
Psychologist, MACP
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
Whether facing challenges or striving for personal growth, seeking support is a sign of strength. I view the counselling process as a collaboration between client and therapist to construct an achievable path to meet individualized needs. The importance of recognizing and utilizing personal strengths to achieve goals is a key to success. Over the last 20 years, I have gained experience working with adolescents and their families in Corrections and in Calgary area high schools. As a therapist, I help individuals and families identify challenges, foster healthy communication, promote understanding, and strengthen relationship bonds.
Whether facing challenges or striving for personal growth, seeking support is a sign of strength. I view the counselling process as a collaboration between client and therapist to construct an achievable path to meet individualized needs. The importance of recognizing and utilizing personal strengths to achieve goals is a key to success. Over the last 20 years, I have gained experience working with adolescents and their families in Corrections and in Calgary area high schools. As a therapist, I help individuals and families identify challenges, foster healthy communication, promote understanding, and strengthen relationship bonds.
(587) 872-8139 View (587) 872-8139
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Erica Ford Psychology
Psychologist, MA, Psyc
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
I am a registered psychologist and work in Cochrane Alberta. I meet people where they are at and help them get where they want to be. I offer support from a non-judgmental and empathetic place as relationship is paramount in any successful therapeutic relationship. I work from a handful of different frameworks and have a more direct approach to therapy. I work mostly with individuals and couples. I specialize with couples and have had training through the Gottman Institute, CBT for couples as well as Relational Life Therapy for Couples. Male Depression is another area of specialization in my practice.
I am a registered psychologist and work in Cochrane Alberta. I meet people where they are at and help them get where they want to be. I offer support from a non-judgmental and empathetic place as relationship is paramount in any successful therapeutic relationship. I work from a handful of different frameworks and have a more direct approach to therapy. I work mostly with individuals and couples. I specialize with couples and have had training through the Gottman Institute, CBT for couples as well as Relational Life Therapy for Couples. Male Depression is another area of specialization in my practice.
(587) 844-5050 View (587) 844-5050
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Daniel McMillan
Psychologist, MEd, RPsych
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
It can be difficult to go to counselling, particularly for the first time. Finding a therapist that you feel comfortable with is an important, and at times challenging, process. You likely want someone that can give you direction or tools, but also you connect with and feel supported by. I too feel this is important and strive to provide you with an experience that is both warm / caring AND competent/ knowledgeable. For many years I have worked with individual's and couple's concerns in this manner. I specialize in helping individuals or couples move forward, heal their pain, feel happier and find more peace.
It can be difficult to go to counselling, particularly for the first time. Finding a therapist that you feel comfortable with is an important, and at times challenging, process. You likely want someone that can give you direction or tools, but also you connect with and feel supported by. I too feel this is important and strive to provide you with an experience that is both warm / caring AND competent/ knowledgeable. For many years I have worked with individual's and couple's concerns in this manner. I specialize in helping individuals or couples move forward, heal their pain, feel happier and find more peace.
(587) 412-5076 View (587) 412-5076
Photo of Ashley Vogelaar, Psychologist in Cochrane, AB
Ashley Vogelaar
Psychologist, RPsych, MACP, BA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
I provide a nonjudgmental space that encourages clients to be themselves. I encourage and utilize humour within sessions and believe therapy is most effective when clients are involved in the development of goals and treatment approaches for their specific needs. I provide counselling services to teens (12+ with limited availability), adults, seniors, and couples. My areas of experience and interest include: Anxiety, BPD, Couples and Relationships (Monogamous & Alternative Lifestyles, Kink friendly), Depression, LGBTQ2S+, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Sexuality and Gender Identity, Stress Management, Trauma & PTSD.
I provide a nonjudgmental space that encourages clients to be themselves. I encourage and utilize humour within sessions and believe therapy is most effective when clients are involved in the development of goals and treatment approaches for their specific needs. I provide counselling services to teens (12+ with limited availability), adults, seniors, and couples. My areas of experience and interest include: Anxiety, BPD, Couples and Relationships (Monogamous & Alternative Lifestyles, Kink friendly), Depression, LGBTQ2S+, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Sexuality and Gender Identity, Stress Management, Trauma & PTSD.
(587) 802-1735 View (587) 802-1735
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Rose Thatcher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, BSW, BCC, RCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
Hi! Let’s take a deep breath: you’ve made it past the first step of identifying you need some help. In a world that is often too loud and busy, it is easy to fall into thought patterns that you are lacking; as a therapist, it is my role to help you shift that narrative from deficit to plenty. I believe mental health is fluid experience and that understanding your emotions and building meaningful coping strategies is key to sustainable resilience. My role is to create a safe and empathetic space for you to be vulnerable and show up as your authentic self. My practice style is grounded in attachment-based and family systems theory.
Hi! Let’s take a deep breath: you’ve made it past the first step of identifying you need some help. In a world that is often too loud and busy, it is easy to fall into thought patterns that you are lacking; as a therapist, it is my role to help you shift that narrative from deficit to plenty. I believe mental health is fluid experience and that understanding your emotions and building meaningful coping strategies is key to sustainable resilience. My role is to create a safe and empathetic space for you to be vulnerable and show up as your authentic self. My practice style is grounded in attachment-based and family systems theory.
(825) 250-0618 View (825) 250-0618
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Brad Olorenshaw
Counsellor, MA, BTh, CCPA
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
My 20+ years experience working with couples and individuals will be noticed. Relationships, Communication, Men's issues and Identity formation are all areas I excel at. I also get to the heart of things efficiently and concisely. Those who have worked with me in the past really appreciate my warmth and how easy it is to get to know me. I am a registered counsellor with the CCPA, and have been a careful student of everything that can help a couple and consistently deliver excellence in the counselling experience. Please see my website for more info at www.relatecounselling.ca
My 20+ years experience working with couples and individuals will be noticed. Relationships, Communication, Men's issues and Identity formation are all areas I excel at. I also get to the heart of things efficiently and concisely. Those who have worked with me in the past really appreciate my warmth and how easy it is to get to know me. I am a registered counsellor with the CCPA, and have been a careful student of everything that can help a couple and consistently deliver excellence in the counselling experience. Please see my website for more info at www.relatecounselling.ca
(587) 813-5914 View (587) 813-5914
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Taylor McInnes
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
Waitlist for new clients
I work with clients who are experiencing depression, anxiety, interpersonal/relationship difficulties, adjustment issues, personality disorders, and struggles with meaning, self-actualization, and career. I focus on helping clients better understand how past experiences, avoided emotions, and interpersonal patterns may be contributing to and maintaining their distress and suffering. Through building awareness in the context of a non-judgmental and unconditionally accepting therapeutic relationship, clients are able to develop more flexible and adaptive ways of coping, learn new ways of relating to others in their lives, develop skills, and experience deeper connection, acceptance, and respect for themselves and their emotions.
I work with clients who are experiencing depression, anxiety, interpersonal/relationship difficulties, adjustment issues, personality disorders, and struggles with meaning, self-actualization, and career. I focus on helping clients better understand how past experiences, avoided emotions, and interpersonal patterns may be contributing to and maintaining their distress and suffering. Through building awareness in the context of a non-judgmental and unconditionally accepting therapeutic relationship, clients are able to develop more flexible and adaptive ways of coping, learn new ways of relating to others in their lives, develop skills, and experience deeper connection, acceptance, and respect for themselves and their emotions.
(587) 805-3408 View (587) 805-3408
Photo of Sara Clark, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Cochrane, AB
Sara Clark
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW, REAT, TRE-CP, TRE-CT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cochrane, AB T4C
I am passionate about working with young people (ages 10 and up) to adults,. I believe that everyone can successfully overcome the challenges in their lives and sometimes we all need support with this. I see my role as being your support to helping you figure out what you want different in your life. My practice is diverse and I tailor each session for the needs of my clients using traditional talk therapy, expressive arts therapy and tension releasing exercises (TRE). My experience with youth, young adults, families and adults spans over 20 years in urban and rural settings.
I am passionate about working with young people (ages 10 and up) to adults,. I believe that everyone can successfully overcome the challenges in their lives and sometimes we all need support with this. I see my role as being your support to helping you figure out what you want different in your life. My practice is diverse and I tailor each session for the needs of my clients using traditional talk therapy, expressive arts therapy and tension releasing exercises (TRE). My experience with youth, young adults, families and adults spans over 20 years in urban and rural settings.
(587) 807-5027 View (587) 807-5027
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Joanna Jewell
Psychologist, MA, RPsych, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
Cochrane, AB T4C
Is your life all you want it to be? Are you struggling to make changes on your own and it just ISN'T working? I offer skilled and compassionate counselling in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment where you can share your concerns, gain perspective and learn specific, targeted tools to help you navigate life's challenges, improve wellness and heal and move past life's difficulties. Working from a person-centered, holistic approach I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic (including attachment focused) and interpersonal therapies to individualize the best care for you.
Is your life all you want it to be? Are you struggling to make changes on your own and it just ISN'T working? I offer skilled and compassionate counselling in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment where you can share your concerns, gain perspective and learn specific, targeted tools to help you navigate life's challenges, improve wellness and heal and move past life's difficulties. Working from a person-centered, holistic approach I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic (including attachment focused) and interpersonal therapies to individualize the best care for you.
(587) 412-2710 View (587) 412-2710

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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.