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Westlake Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA MFT, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224  (Online Only)
To work through relational conflict or the pain of infidelity it is important to find a skilled couple's therapist who will provide you a safe and empathic environment along with the willingness to develop a team approach toward your intended goal.
I often hear: "If only we could communicate better, the simplest of discussions become arguments." "I had an affair, I was so stupid, can you help me to heal my relationship?" "My spouse had an affair, I am devastated, I don't know if I should leave or stay?" "I told my spouse everything and the affair is over, why can't we just move on?" If any of these quotes sound true for you, I want you to know that you can learn to reduce conflicts to rebuild trust and intimacy; you can heal and repair your relationship after regrettable incidents, infidelities/ affairs.
To work through relational conflict or the pain of infidelity it is important to find a skilled couple's therapist who will provide you a safe and empathic environment along with the willingness to develop a team approach toward your intended goal.
I often hear: "If only we could communicate better, the simplest of discussions become arguments." "I had an affair, I was so stupid, can you help me to heal my relationship?" "My spouse had an affair, I am devastated, I don't know if I should leave or stay?" "I told my spouse everything and the affair is over, why can't we just move on?" If any of these quotes sound true for you, I want you to know that you can learn to reduce conflicts to rebuild trust and intimacy; you can heal and repair your relationship after regrettable incidents, infidelities/ affairs.
(503) 897-1974 View (503) 897-1974
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Lisa Kaiser
Pre-Licensed Professional, QMHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224
With optimism, joy, and an empowering spirit, my hope is to provide a safe space for children, teens and young adults to identify and work through (process) trauma, grief & loss and low self-esteem. With many lived experiences, I bring a compassionate understanding that adds calm and comfort to conversation.
With optimism, joy, and an empowering spirit, my hope is to provide a safe space for children, teens and young adults to identify and work through (process) trauma, grief & loss and low self-esteem. With many lived experiences, I bring a compassionate understanding that adds calm and comfort to conversation.
(971) 259-7058 View (971) 259-7058
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Corey Griggs
Pre-Licensed Professional, QMHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224
I am passionate about working with couples and families who are struggling. Coming from a military background I look forward to serving the veteran community. Having lived through the culture shock of returning home I hope to help individuals reassimilate as well as help improve communication lines between veterans and their families. I hope to work with individuals, couples, and families from diverse backgrounds. I am excited to help, learn, and grow as a person and as a counselor.
I am passionate about working with couples and families who are struggling. Coming from a military background I look forward to serving the veteran community. Having lived through the culture shock of returning home I hope to help individuals reassimilate as well as help improve communication lines between veterans and their families. I hope to work with individuals, couples, and families from diverse backgrounds. I am excited to help, learn, and grow as a person and as a counselor.
(971) 260-3687 View (971) 260-3687
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Zachary Cope
Pre-Licensed Professional, QMHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224
I work with adults, couples, and teens struggling from an array of issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, grief, relationship challenges, vocational decisions, and other major life transitions. Helping parents who have gone through divorce and those with blended families is work that is especially close to my heart. I know firsthand the difficulties of these experiences and the immense reward of working through the interpersonal challenges associated with them.
I work with adults, couples, and teens struggling from an array of issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, grief, relationship challenges, vocational decisions, and other major life transitions. Helping parents who have gone through divorce and those with blended families is work that is especially close to my heart. I know firsthand the difficulties of these experiences and the immense reward of working through the interpersonal challenges associated with them.
(888) 625-5763 View (888) 625-5763
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Lacey Hawkins
Pre-Licensed Professional, QMHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224
Having a healthy marriage takes work. Many people invest in their retirement, friends, career, church, etc. but neglect investing in their marriage and themselves. You have a lot on your plate. If you are what you eat, (or what you invest in), how are your relationships? I can help you work to bring your marriage back into balance and help you go from pain to peace. Is your marriage and/or family is "okay" but you'd like it to be stellar, let's talk.
Having a healthy marriage takes work. Many people invest in their retirement, friends, career, church, etc. but neglect investing in their marriage and themselves. You have a lot on your plate. If you are what you eat, (or what you invest in), how are your relationships? I can help you work to bring your marriage back into balance and help you go from pain to peace. Is your marriage and/or family is "okay" but you'd like it to be stellar, let's talk.
(971) 299-7985 View (971) 299-7985
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Stephanie Higgason
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Tigard, OR 97224
I believe that everyone’s journey is unique, and that’s why my therapeutic process begins by meeting my clients where they are at. I utilize a strength-based approach, tapping into my client’s inherent strengths and resilience to empower them to navigate life’s changes. Throughout our sessions, I strive to create a safe and empathic space where active listening and mindfulness are key. By actively listening to my clients and practicing mindfulness together, we can explore their thoughts and emotions with compassion and curiosity, working towards lasting healing and growth.
I believe that everyone’s journey is unique, and that’s why my therapeutic process begins by meeting my clients where they are at. I utilize a strength-based approach, tapping into my client’s inherent strengths and resilience to empower them to navigate life’s changes. Throughout our sessions, I strive to create a safe and empathic space where active listening and mindfulness are key. By actively listening to my clients and practicing mindfulness together, we can explore their thoughts and emotions with compassion and curiosity, working towards lasting healing and growth.
(503) 894-7144 View (503) 894-7144
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Krista L. Schimmelbusch
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tigard, OR 97224
Emotional connection is crucial for thriving and satisfying relationships. Shame and trauma can keep us stuck in negative cycles of thought and behavior. I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups within the context of their current and prior relationships. I primarily employ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Restoration Therapy (RT) techniques.
Emotional connection is crucial for thriving and satisfying relationships. Shame and trauma can keep us stuck in negative cycles of thought and behavior. I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups within the context of their current and prior relationships. I primarily employ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Restoration Therapy (RT) techniques.
(971) 801-7492 View (971) 801-7492
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Michael Wilson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97224
What was once an exciting and vibrant relationship has become stale and unfulfilling. You may feel like you don't know who your partner is anymore. Or who you are, for that matter. You aren't sure you're meeting your partner's needs, and you certainly aren't feeling as though they are meeting yours. You are probably wondering if it's possible for the two of you to ever be happy again. But you aren't ready to give up just yet.
What was once an exciting and vibrant relationship has become stale and unfulfilling. You may feel like you don't know who your partner is anymore. Or who you are, for that matter. You aren't sure you're meeting your partner's needs, and you certainly aren't feeling as though they are meeting yours. You are probably wondering if it's possible for the two of you to ever be happy again. But you aren't ready to give up just yet.
(503) 376-9691 View (503) 376-9691
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Unique L. Page
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97224  (Online Only)
We often hope that negative and unhelpful feelings and behaviors will go away on their own, and while some do, others seem to linger and make life more difficult. As a counselor who embraces Emotion-Focused and Attachment Therapy, there is an opportunity to change unhelpful feelings into ones that empower and motivate you toward success and healing. With a passion for working with all people looking for help and healing, I strive to provide an atmosphere where everyone will feel welcomed, heard, and encouraged in each session. I offer holistic and personalized counseling to fit your unique needs and those of your loved ones.
We often hope that negative and unhelpful feelings and behaviors will go away on their own, and while some do, others seem to linger and make life more difficult. As a counselor who embraces Emotion-Focused and Attachment Therapy, there is an opportunity to change unhelpful feelings into ones that empower and motivate you toward success and healing. With a passion for working with all people looking for help and healing, I strive to provide an atmosphere where everyone will feel welcomed, heard, and encouraged in each session. I offer holistic and personalized counseling to fit your unique needs and those of your loved ones.
(503) 843-8861 View (503) 843-8861
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Krystal Marcinkiewicz
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Tigard, OR 97224
My role is to support you in creating your own understanding of self, explore your personal truths, and identify your strengths. You have a story and deserve a safe space to share it. My top priority as a therapist is to create a safe, non-judgmental, and non-pathologizing environment to support you in telling your story and working through the process of positive change. My goal is to engage collaboratively and compassionately with each of my clients throughout their therapeutic journey. I find special value in working with all clients on finding new ways to care for self on a deeper and more intimate level.
My role is to support you in creating your own understanding of self, explore your personal truths, and identify your strengths. You have a story and deserve a safe space to share it. My top priority as a therapist is to create a safe, non-judgmental, and non-pathologizing environment to support you in telling your story and working through the process of positive change. My goal is to engage collaboratively and compassionately with each of my clients throughout their therapeutic journey. I find special value in working with all clients on finding new ways to care for self on a deeper and more intimate level.
(971) 302-4424 View (971) 302-4424
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Hope Counseling Services, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97224
I believe that all of us are changing and growing throughout our lives. At times, we can feel as though we are treading water instead of moving forward. Participating in counseling can help you work through the "stuck places" as you cultivate skills, strengths, enhanced self-esteem and renewed hope for your present and future.
I believe that all of us are changing and growing throughout our lives. At times, we can feel as though we are treading water instead of moving forward. Participating in counseling can help you work through the "stuck places" as you cultivate skills, strengths, enhanced self-esteem and renewed hope for your present and future.
(503) 567-4001 View (503) 567-4001
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Heather Lokteff
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224
I believe people who have been hurt in relationships can also heal through relationships. I believe people have the capacity to work through life's challenges and make long-lasting changes. I provide practical tools and skills in the context of a safe, empathic and collaborative therapeutic relationship. Whether you're wanting to be preventative and proactive about your mental health or are currently in a crisis, therapy can help!
I believe people who have been hurt in relationships can also heal through relationships. I believe people have the capacity to work through life's challenges and make long-lasting changes. I provide practical tools and skills in the context of a safe, empathic and collaborative therapeutic relationship. Whether you're wanting to be preventative and proactive about your mental health or are currently in a crisis, therapy can help!
(503) 406-4152 View (503) 406-4152
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Lori M. Severson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
King City, OR 97224
I am passionate about helping clients find the help they need. My work is for individuals and couples from all backgrounds, whether they are in traditional or non-traditional partnerships. While I provide therapy for a wide variety of issues, my focus is on relationships, life transitions and women's issues. I want to help individuals and couples find new ways to see, experience and respond to those parts of themselves or their partner that may be challenging. My goal is that you will find my therapeutic style to be very caring, collaborative, supportive, individual and unique to your personal and cultural needs.
I am passionate about helping clients find the help they need. My work is for individuals and couples from all backgrounds, whether they are in traditional or non-traditional partnerships. While I provide therapy for a wide variety of issues, my focus is on relationships, life transitions and women's issues. I want to help individuals and couples find new ways to see, experience and respond to those parts of themselves or their partner that may be challenging. My goal is that you will find my therapeutic style to be very caring, collaborative, supportive, individual and unique to your personal and cultural needs.
(503) 837-8284 View (503) 837-8284
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Larry Conner
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LLC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224  (Online Only)
Over the last 36 years I have been grateful to be able to help many people with the anxieties of life. I have also helped to resolve couples' conflict, to heal guilt and shame, to manage loss, to heal relationships with living or deceased parents, and to lighten spiritual burdens. A good portion of my practice has been focused on long term recovery from addictions to alcohol, drugs, or sex. I have worked extensively with anxiety, depression, grief, ADD, OCD, trauma, and divorce, and I provide counseling for family-owned businesses. Please read more about my approach to counseling at www.larryconnercounseling.com.
Over the last 36 years I have been grateful to be able to help many people with the anxieties of life. I have also helped to resolve couples' conflict, to heal guilt and shame, to manage loss, to heal relationships with living or deceased parents, and to lighten spiritual burdens. A good portion of my practice has been focused on long term recovery from addictions to alcohol, drugs, or sex. I have worked extensively with anxiety, depression, grief, ADD, OCD, trauma, and divorce, and I provide counseling for family-owned businesses. Please read more about my approach to counseling at www.larryconnercounseling.com.
(503) 446-1184 View (503) 446-1184
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Dr. Esther Sexton
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97224
Waitlist for new clients
I work with individuals and couples struggling with a wide variety of concerns such as anxiety, depression, life transitions, and relationship difficulties. My therapeutic style is gentle, warm, and relaxed. Often, sessions with me include laughter, celebrating your successes, and encouraging your efforts for change. I will empower you as you explore what changes you want to make in your life, help you build the skills you need to make those changes, and support you as you build the life you want to live.
I work with individuals and couples struggling with a wide variety of concerns such as anxiety, depression, life transitions, and relationship difficulties. My therapeutic style is gentle, warm, and relaxed. Often, sessions with me include laughter, celebrating your successes, and encouraging your efforts for change. I will empower you as you explore what changes you want to make in your life, help you build the skills you need to make those changes, and support you as you build the life you want to live.
(503) 714-7365 View (503) 714-7365
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Jocelyn Barda
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224  (Online Only)
Are anxiety and low self-worth regulars in your life? The process of recognizing old stories, beliefs, and patterns can be overwhelming. It can bring up confusion, fear and grief. Changing old ways, that once kept you safe, can feel ungrounding and chaotic. Shifting what you've been familiar and comfortable with is deeply challenging and takes a great deal of strength and vulnerability. I believe healing, growth and change are lifelong practices, and transformation requires time, space, patience and self-compassion. Therapy can offer a safe and caring relationship that supports you in doing this life changing work.
Are anxiety and low self-worth regulars in your life? The process of recognizing old stories, beliefs, and patterns can be overwhelming. It can bring up confusion, fear and grief. Changing old ways, that once kept you safe, can feel ungrounding and chaotic. Shifting what you've been familiar and comfortable with is deeply challenging and takes a great deal of strength and vulnerability. I believe healing, growth and change are lifelong practices, and transformation requires time, space, patience and self-compassion. Therapy can offer a safe and caring relationship that supports you in doing this life changing work.
(503) 755-9520 View (503) 755-9520
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Deborah Lynn Harrison
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tigard, OR 97224
I provide therapy for men and women around life transitions, grief, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, guilt and shame, recovering from physical or sexual abuse, trauma and PTSD, identity and self image, spiritual development and spiritual abuse. I personally and professionally understand the dynamics that accompany many of these life challenges. The art of counseling is in the sensitivity, presence, attunement and humility that a counselor demonstrates when building a relationship with a client.
I provide therapy for men and women around life transitions, grief, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, guilt and shame, recovering from physical or sexual abuse, trauma and PTSD, identity and self image, spiritual development and spiritual abuse. I personally and professionally understand the dynamics that accompany many of these life challenges. The art of counseling is in the sensitivity, presence, attunement and humility that a counselor demonstrates when building a relationship with a client.
(971) 247-1299 View (971) 247-1299
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Jessie Ricker
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Tigard, OR 97224
Bienvenidos and Welcome! My name is Jessie Ricker, and I consider myself a well-seasoned, mental health therapist as I have been working in the mental health field for over a decade. I've worked in a variety of treatment settings including detention, residential, community-based, and outpatient; I have gained experience domestically and abroad. I enjoy working with clients of all ages and backgrounds. As a wife and parent myself, I am very passionate about supporting couples and families within their journeys to build healthy attachments and repair ruptured relationships. I am overjoyed to support you in your treatment journey!
Bienvenidos and Welcome! My name is Jessie Ricker, and I consider myself a well-seasoned, mental health therapist as I have been working in the mental health field for over a decade. I've worked in a variety of treatment settings including detention, residential, community-based, and outpatient; I have gained experience domestically and abroad. I enjoy working with clients of all ages and backgrounds. As a wife and parent myself, I am very passionate about supporting couples and families within their journeys to build healthy attachments and repair ruptured relationships. I am overjoyed to support you in your treatment journey!
(971) 247-1879 View (971) 247-1879
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Ross Bartlett
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97224
My clinical work helps to improve relationships, effectively manage challenging and overwhelming emotions, and to understand conflicts in various areas of your life. I can help you to understand distressing relational patterns and also build new patterns of relating to yourself and others. I believe psychotherapy is the best way to generate meaningful, lasting change, which is why I focus my clinical work on individual psychotherapy.
My clinical work helps to improve relationships, effectively manage challenging and overwhelming emotions, and to understand conflicts in various areas of your life. I can help you to understand distressing relational patterns and also build new patterns of relating to yourself and others. I believe psychotherapy is the best way to generate meaningful, lasting change, which is why I focus my clinical work on individual psychotherapy.
(971) 232-3284 View (971) 232-3284
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True You Therapy & Wellness LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tigard, OR 97224
True You Therapy & Wellness is a group practice with multiple practitioners. Please reach out and we will help match you with the best fit for your needs. Our aim is to help people create their most authentic lives; to overcome "stuckness" and to re-write old stories that are no longer helpful or life-affirming. You deserve to find your true purpose and harmony in this life, and we're here to help you get started and support you along the way.
True You Therapy & Wellness is a group practice with multiple practitioners. Please reach out and we will help match you with the best fit for your needs. Our aim is to help people create their most authentic lives; to overcome "stuckness" and to re-write old stories that are no longer helpful or life-affirming. You deserve to find your true purpose and harmony in this life, and we're here to help you get started and support you along the way.
(458) 203-6532 View (458) 203-6532
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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.