Infertility Therapists in Surprise, AZ
An area of personal interest is working with women struggling with infertility (and related issues).
Life is full of challenges. I'm a firm believer in the benefits of unbiased support during difficult periods in our lives. Please allow me to be the person to offer you the help and support that you deserve. In my ten plus years as a therapist, I have worked with people of all ages and walks of life to help address depression, anxiety, loss, anger and relationship issues. I enjoy helping others to improve their current situation by offering a warm, safe and reliable therapeutic environment.
An area of personal interest is working with women struggling with infertility (and related issues).
Life is full of challenges. I'm a firm believer in the benefits of unbiased support during difficult periods in our lives. Please allow me to be the person to offer you the help and support that you deserve. In my ten plus years as a therapist, I have worked with people of all ages and walks of life to help address depression, anxiety, loss, anger and relationship issues. I enjoy helping others to improve their current situation by offering a warm, safe and reliable therapeutic environment.
Ilyssa Swartout, Psy.D., founder of Growing Edges, is dedicated to helping others find within themselves a deep and lasting sense of wholeness, worth, and esteem. Dr. Swartout brings a special expertise to the field of psychology as she helps individuals through difficult periods by helping them to maximize their potential. While practicing from existential-humanistic framework, Dr. Swartout uses an effective combination of methods to help her clients achieve a harmony between the spiritual, intellectual, emotional, and physical aspects of life.
Ilyssa Swartout, Psy.D., founder of Growing Edges, is dedicated to helping others find within themselves a deep and lasting sense of wholeness, worth, and esteem. Dr. Swartout brings a special expertise to the field of psychology as she helps individuals through difficult periods by helping them to maximize their potential. While practicing from existential-humanistic framework, Dr. Swartout uses an effective combination of methods to help her clients achieve a harmony between the spiritual, intellectual, emotional, and physical aspects of life.
Virtual appointments only- I am dedicated to providing the best quality of care by assessing each client's individual needs and assisting them in developing the skills necessary to get back to a more enjoyable and fulfilling place in life. I am able to provide teletherapy services to the following states: Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Delaware, District of Columbia (D.C.), Georgia, Illinois, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, Ohio Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Virginia, West Virginia
Virtual appointments only- I am dedicated to providing the best quality of care by assessing each client's individual needs and assisting them in developing the skills necessary to get back to a more enjoyable and fulfilling place in life. I am able to provide teletherapy services to the following states: Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Delaware, District of Columbia (D.C.), Georgia, Illinois, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, Ohio Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Virginia, West Virginia
My ideal clients are those navigating complex emotional or situational challenges such as trauma, anxiety, depression, or adjusting to major life transitions. They may feel overwhelmed or uncertain but are motivated for personal growth. Their goals often include building resilience, developing healthy coping strategies, and reclaiming autonomy. With experience working across diverse populations—including children, antepartum/postpartum clients, NICU parents, and those in correctional settings—I especially enjoy supporting adults ready to process their past and move forward.
My ideal clients are those navigating complex emotional or situational challenges such as trauma, anxiety, depression, or adjusting to major life transitions. They may feel overwhelmed or uncertain but are motivated for personal growth. Their goals often include building resilience, developing healthy coping strategies, and reclaiming autonomy. With experience working across diverse populations—including children, antepartum/postpartum clients, NICU parents, and those in correctional settings—I especially enjoy supporting adults ready to process their past and move forward.
I see you, mama. I know it’s hard. It’s so hard. This is the most important and yet, also the most uncertain role you’ve ever filled. I see you carrying the weight of the world. I see you doing all the planning, organizing, scheduling, managing, cleaning, coordinating; everything that everyone doesn’t notice. Do you ever feel as if the only way they’d notice is if you stopped doing it all? But then who would suffer, your babies? You can’t do that. I see you, mama. You ARE carrying the weight of the world, and no one recognizes it. I can help you ask for what you need in a way that you’re more likely to get it. You’re not alone.
I see you, mama. I know it’s hard. It’s so hard. This is the most important and yet, also the most uncertain role you’ve ever filled. I see you carrying the weight of the world. I see you doing all the planning, organizing, scheduling, managing, cleaning, coordinating; everything that everyone doesn’t notice. Do you ever feel as if the only way they’d notice is if you stopped doing it all? But then who would suffer, your babies? You can’t do that. I see you, mama. You ARE carrying the weight of the world, and no one recognizes it. I can help you ask for what you need in a way that you’re more likely to get it. You’re not alone.
Do you struggle with anxiety that impacts your ability to show up for yourself and others? Do you find it difficult to manage life's challenges and stressors? I believe that therapy should be a place where you can finally exhale. Guided by an empathetic, strengths-based approach, I specialize in Emotion-Focused Therapy to help individuals, couples, children and families navigate life’s transitions. Whether you’re working through relationship challenges, anxiety, or struggling with your self-esteem, I invite you to show up exactly as you are.
Do you struggle with anxiety that impacts your ability to show up for yourself and others? Do you find it difficult to manage life's challenges and stressors? I believe that therapy should be a place where you can finally exhale. Guided by an empathetic, strengths-based approach, I specialize in Emotion-Focused Therapy to help individuals, couples, children and families navigate life’s transitions. Whether you’re working through relationship challenges, anxiety, or struggling with your self-esteem, I invite you to show up exactly as you are.
People often come to me feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, stuck in painful patterns, or impacted by trauma, anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, or major life transitions. Many are insightful and self-aware but still feel disconnected from themselves or trapped in cycles they can’t seem to shift. I integrate EMDR, IFS, CBT, and DBT to help clients better understand themselves, build emotional regulation, process painful experiences, and create lasting change in a compassionate, collaborative, and supportive space.
People often come to me feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, stuck in painful patterns, or impacted by trauma, anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, or major life transitions. Many are insightful and self-aware but still feel disconnected from themselves or trapped in cycles they can’t seem to shift. I integrate EMDR, IFS, CBT, and DBT to help clients better understand themselves, build emotional regulation, process painful experiences, and create lasting change in a compassionate, collaborative, and supportive space.
My practice is rooted in compassion, kindness, growth, creativity. I will present you with a customized plan based on my years of training and experience that will meet you where you are at and push you into the future. I am open to working will all ages and stages and have experience from birth to 75! I look at each person as an individual and enjoy supporting and being of service to anyone that is looking to be the best version of themselves! I specialize in healing the brain and body of trauma and taking control back from fear!
My practice is rooted in compassion, kindness, growth, creativity. I will present you with a customized plan based on my years of training and experience that will meet you where you are at and push you into the future. I am open to working will all ages and stages and have experience from birth to 75! I look at each person as an individual and enjoy supporting and being of service to anyone that is looking to be the best version of themselves! I specialize in healing the brain and body of trauma and taking control back from fear!
I am passionate about helping individuals identify and address the core issues underlying anxiety, depression, self-esteem challenges, addiction, and recurring relationship patterns. My work is grounded in specialized experience with mood disorders, trauma, and interpersonal difficulties. Using attachment-based approaches and trauma-informed methods, I support clients in building insight into unconscious, maladaptive patterns that may be holding them back. Together, we work to create meaningful, lasting change by reshaping the relational and behavioral cycles that impact everyday life.
I am passionate about helping individuals identify and address the core issues underlying anxiety, depression, self-esteem challenges, addiction, and recurring relationship patterns. My work is grounded in specialized experience with mood disorders, trauma, and interpersonal difficulties. Using attachment-based approaches and trauma-informed methods, I support clients in building insight into unconscious, maladaptive patterns that may be holding them back. Together, we work to create meaningful, lasting change by reshaping the relational and behavioral cycles that impact everyday life.
As a Doctor of Clinical Psychology (PsyD), I've helped thousands of clients of every age, gender, race, religion, and sexual orientation recapture their lives from bipolar & mood disorders, TBI, anxiety and depression, struggles with domestic & sexual abuse, PTSD, fears, trauma, & coping w/ situations surrounding death & dying. Having the highest level of Psychological credential in Psychology & Psychotherapy, you can rely on getting a treatment regime customized for you, whether it's using psychoeducation, gestalt principles, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. The force that is derailing your life can be tamed or banished altogether.
As a Doctor of Clinical Psychology (PsyD), I've helped thousands of clients of every age, gender, race, religion, and sexual orientation recapture their lives from bipolar & mood disorders, TBI, anxiety and depression, struggles with domestic & sexual abuse, PTSD, fears, trauma, & coping w/ situations surrounding death & dying. Having the highest level of Psychological credential in Psychology & Psychotherapy, you can rely on getting a treatment regime customized for you, whether it's using psychoeducation, gestalt principles, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. The force that is derailing your life can be tamed or banished altogether.
My ideal client likely feels overwhelmed, burned out, or disconnected due to anxiety, trauma, chronic stress, or major life transitions. Many are first-generation or bicultural individuals navigating family expectations, cultural values, and generational patterns while trying to build a life of their own. They may appear high-functioning on the outside but feel emotionally exhausted inside. They want a space to be fully seen, heal deeply, and reconnect with themselves. Their goal is not just symptom relief, but greater self-trust, balance, and empowerment to move forward in a way that honors both their identity and their roots.
My ideal client likely feels overwhelmed, burned out, or disconnected due to anxiety, trauma, chronic stress, or major life transitions. Many are first-generation or bicultural individuals navigating family expectations, cultural values, and generational patterns while trying to build a life of their own. They may appear high-functioning on the outside but feel emotionally exhausted inside. They want a space to be fully seen, heal deeply, and reconnect with themselves. Their goal is not just symptom relief, but greater self-trust, balance, and empowerment to move forward in a way that honors both their identity and their roots.
Do you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in your thoughts, or disconnected from who you used to be? Are you constantly putting others first, leaving little time or energy for yourself? Many women, young adults, and mothers come to us feeling exhausted, uncertain, and emotionally drained as they navigate life transitions, relationships, and daily stress. When your needs go unmet for too long, it can impact your confidence, mood, and overall well-being. We believe life should feel more balanced, fulfilling, and aligned with who you are.
Do you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in your thoughts, or disconnected from who you used to be? Are you constantly putting others first, leaving little time or energy for yourself? Many women, young adults, and mothers come to us feeling exhausted, uncertain, and emotionally drained as they navigate life transitions, relationships, and daily stress. When your needs go unmet for too long, it can impact your confidence, mood, and overall well-being. We believe life should feel more balanced, fulfilling, and aligned with who you are.
It has been a privilege to work with a wide range of individuals, couples, families, and groups, including children, teens, and adults. When conceptualizing collaboratively with a client, I want to work towards identifying the core, underlying issue. Symptom management is important, but in conjunction with this, we will strive to find the roots of the presenting problem. In this way, we can empower you to be autonomous, empowered, and emboldened.
It has been a privilege to work with a wide range of individuals, couples, families, and groups, including children, teens, and adults. When conceptualizing collaboratively with a client, I want to work towards identifying the core, underlying issue. Symptom management is important, but in conjunction with this, we will strive to find the roots of the presenting problem. In this way, we can empower you to be autonomous, empowered, and emboldened.
Deciding to participate in therapy is a powerful and transformative choice—one of the best ways to invest in yourself. Therapy is the first step in unlocking your potential, drawing on your existing strengths, and developing new skills to navigate life's challenges. It enables healing, promotes the discovery of true joy, and instills hope.
Deciding to participate in therapy is a powerful and transformative choice—one of the best ways to invest in yourself. Therapy is the first step in unlocking your potential, drawing on your existing strengths, and developing new skills to navigate life's challenges. It enables healing, promotes the discovery of true joy, and instills hope.
My ideal clients are athletes, parents, new mothers, and college students navigating major life transitions. They may feel pressure to perform, manage stress, or redefine their identity. They want balance, confidence, and clarity as they juggle multiple roles and expectations. Together, we work to build resilience, self-awareness, overcome adversity and develop tools for lasting emotional well-being and personal growth.
My ideal clients are athletes, parents, new mothers, and college students navigating major life transitions. They may feel pressure to perform, manage stress, or redefine their identity. They want balance, confidence, and clarity as they juggle multiple roles and expectations. Together, we work to build resilience, self-awareness, overcome adversity and develop tools for lasting emotional well-being and personal growth.
I work with individuals, couples, and families to identify and break patterns rooted in past experiences, attachment wounds, and trauma. Many of my clients struggle with anxiety, self-esteem concerns, relationship injuries, challenges with boundaries, or communication patterns that no longer serve them. They often seek deeper understanding, emotional safety, and practical tools to create meaningful and lasting change.
Through an attachment-based lens, I integrate Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT/EFIT), Internal Family Systems, and Coherence Therapy to collaborate with and assist the unique needs of each client.
I work with individuals, couples, and families to identify and break patterns rooted in past experiences, attachment wounds, and trauma. Many of my clients struggle with anxiety, self-esteem concerns, relationship injuries, challenges with boundaries, or communication patterns that no longer serve them. They often seek deeper understanding, emotional safety, and practical tools to create meaningful and lasting change.
Through an attachment-based lens, I integrate Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT/EFIT), Internal Family Systems, and Coherence Therapy to collaborate with and assist the unique needs of each client.
Do you experience a nagging dissatisfaction you can't name, a pressure to have it all together, a complicated relationship with food or control that helps you cope when life feels like too much or relationship dissatisfaction that leads to unhealthy behaviors in order to cope. My clients are like you looking to reconnect with themselves so they can connect in the outside world with more passion and agency. Our work will help to revive your true self so you can live a life that feels aligned. Together we will help you feel more secure, clear and peaceful about who you are and practice how to reconnect in your important relationships.
Do you experience a nagging dissatisfaction you can't name, a pressure to have it all together, a complicated relationship with food or control that helps you cope when life feels like too much or relationship dissatisfaction that leads to unhealthy behaviors in order to cope. My clients are like you looking to reconnect with themselves so they can connect in the outside world with more passion and agency. Our work will help to revive your true self so you can live a life that feels aligned. Together we will help you feel more secure, clear and peaceful about who you are and practice how to reconnect in your important relationships.
I enjoy working with couples and families as I feel that this is where I can be most impactful and the most change can be made. I have a great deal of experience working with couples on issues related to everything from basic communication to issues like infidelity and trust. I also enjoy working with individuals to help them develop a greater sense of happiness in their lives or to aid them in managing symptoms related to depression, anxiety or daily life stressors. I am also able to effectively work with parents to help foster parenting skills and help parents manage behavioral concerns and effectively co-parent their children.
I enjoy working with couples and families as I feel that this is where I can be most impactful and the most change can be made. I have a great deal of experience working with couples on issues related to everything from basic communication to issues like infidelity and trust. I also enjoy working with individuals to help them develop a greater sense of happiness in their lives or to aid them in managing symptoms related to depression, anxiety or daily life stressors. I am also able to effectively work with parents to help foster parenting skills and help parents manage behavioral concerns and effectively co-parent their children.
Given my wealth of experience, I have worked successfully with marital distress, couples facing infertility, divorce, blended families, and same sex couples.
My ideal clients are individuals, couples, and families who are experiencing challenges in their relationships, navigating major life transitions, or struggling with emotional and interpersonal difficulties. Many come to therapy seeking support for anxiety, depression, family conflict, communication problems, relationship concerns, grief and loss, or the stress that can accompany changes in life circumstances. I help clients gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships while identifying patterns that may be contributing to their struggles. Together, we work to improve communication, strengthen coping skills, etc
Given my wealth of experience, I have worked successfully with marital distress, couples facing infertility, divorce, blended families, and same sex couples.
My ideal clients are individuals, couples, and families who are experiencing challenges in their relationships, navigating major life transitions, or struggling with emotional and interpersonal difficulties. Many come to therapy seeking support for anxiety, depression, family conflict, communication problems, relationship concerns, grief and loss, or the stress that can accompany changes in life circumstances. I help clients gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships while identifying patterns that may be contributing to their struggles. Together, we work to improve communication, strengthen coping skills, etc
Life can feel messy, overwhelming, and exhausting. Maybe anxiety, depression, or past trauma is weighing you down. Relationships feel tricky, your teen is struggling, or you just can’t figure out how to make everything fit. You want relief, clarity, and a space where someone actually gets you. Therapy here is real, human, and practical... no fluff, no judgment. We help you untangle your thoughts, find tools that actually work, and face challenges without feeling alone. You’ll learn to understand yourself better, set boundaries that feel right, and slowly build a life that feels manageable and even joyful again.
Life can feel messy, overwhelming, and exhausting. Maybe anxiety, depression, or past trauma is weighing you down. Relationships feel tricky, your teen is struggling, or you just can’t figure out how to make everything fit. You want relief, clarity, and a space where someone actually gets you. Therapy here is real, human, and practical... no fluff, no judgment. We help you untangle your thoughts, find tools that actually work, and face challenges without feeling alone. You’ll learn to understand yourself better, set boundaries that feel right, and slowly build a life that feels manageable and even joyful again.
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Infertility Therapists
How can infertility affect couples and their relationship?
Clients who are dealing with infertility may experience conflict and communication problems. It’s not unusual for shame, blame, and guilt to arise in cases of infertility, whether the source of the problem is one partner or both. This means that clients are upset and pulling away from their partner just when they need them the most. Some clients may find it difficult to spend time around friends and family who are pregnant. Friends and family can also make hurtful comments that increase tension during this time.
How does therapy for infertility issues work?
The therapist will begin by gathering information about the client or couple and make a treatment plan for their specific concerns. In addition to addressing common mental health issues, such as anxiety, depression, and trauma reactions or PTSD, therapists can help clients improve their decision-making and deal with stressors unique to infertility. Some examples include coping with the “two-week wait” before a pregnancy test, the distress associated with a failed attempt or miscarriage, and the shame and blame sometimes associated with reproductive concerns.
What type of therapy is best for infertility issues?
Many therapists offer psychotherapy for individuals and couples who are dealing with infertility issues. Some helpful therapeutic approaches include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which can aid clients in reframing negative thoughts about their situation. Expressive writing and art therapy can help clients process difficult feelings. Clients might also benefit from group therapy to experience support from others who are dealing with the same problems.
How long does therapy for infertility issues take?
There is no set length for therapy that addresses infertility or reproductive concerns. Some clients might find it helpful to continue therapy during their pregnancy to have healthy ways to cope with any associated stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma. Some clients who decide not to pursue fertility treatments might benefit from the support of a therapist. The duration of therapy varies depending on the individual client’s specific needs and goals.