Relational Therapists in N2L

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Insight-Online Affordable Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, PhD, RP
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
We offer emotional, relational, and brain-based insight-oriented therapies to support your mind, body, and spirit.
Are you stressed, exhausted, or just going through the motions of life? Have substances, addictive behaviours, anxiety, depression, anger, grief/loss or feelings of overwhelm started to impact your daily life? Do you feel like you don’t fit in…anywhere? We provide a safe space to explore your identity, interpersonal relationships, and trauma. We have therapists who specialize in mood dysregulation, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and Neurodiversity. Please reach out; you don't have to do this alone!
We offer emotional, relational, and brain-based insight-oriented therapies to support your mind, body, and spirit.
Are you stressed, exhausted, or just going through the motions of life? Have substances, addictive behaviours, anxiety, depression, anger, grief/loss or feelings of overwhelm started to impact your daily life? Do you feel like you don’t fit in…anywhere? We provide a safe space to explore your identity, interpersonal relationships, and trauma. We have therapists who specialize in mood dysregulation, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and Neurodiversity. Please reach out; you don't have to do this alone!
(587) 740-9027 View (587) 740-9027
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Hailing Huang
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MTS, CCC, RP(Q)
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L
--- Relational issues, communication difficulties, marriage issues, --Time management, procrastination, and integrating mind, body, and emotions.
With over 10 years experience in counseling, helped thousands of client dealing with PTSD , emotional traumas , stress, relationship conflicts etc. Please reach out and let me accompany you in the journey of healing and grow. No matter what kind of Issues, no matter big or small, let's chat.
--- Relational issues, communication difficulties, marriage issues, --Time management, procrastination, and integrating mind, body, and emotions.
With over 10 years experience in counseling, helped thousands of client dealing with PTSD , emotional traumas , stress, relationship conflicts etc. Please reach out and let me accompany you in the journey of healing and grow. No matter what kind of Issues, no matter big or small, let's chat.
(226) 457-2328 View (226) 457-2328
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Dawn Brannigan Craig
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
I am a clinical social worker providing individual, couple and family counselling for a wide array of concerns. The foundation of my practice is client-centred and relational. I firmly believe that for therapy to be most effective, a relationship must be established between the client and counsellor. I have 18 years of experience working with clients struggling with depression, anxiety, grief and loss, relationship issues, parenting skills, aging, and health concerns
I am a clinical social worker providing individual, couple and family counselling for a wide array of concerns. The foundation of my practice is client-centred and relational. I firmly believe that for therapy to be most effective, a relationship must be established between the client and counsellor. I have 18 years of experience working with clients struggling with depression, anxiety, grief and loss, relationship issues, parenting skills, aging, and health concerns
(226) 271-1206 View (226) 271-1206
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Kasey Sharp
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, BKin
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L
My approach to therapy is relational, drawing from narrative therapy, internal family systems, mindfulness, and attachment theory.
Hi, I'm Kasey. In many aspects of our lives, we may struggle to be our most authentic selves or even understand who we truly are at our core. In my practice, I am dedicated to creating a safe and welcoming environment where you can explore and express your true self without fear of judgment. I recognize that therapy can be a vulnerable and daunting experience, and I am committed to demonstrating the highest level of respect as you share your story and let me into your world. Together, we will safely examine your life experiences, their impact on you today, and embark on a healing journey toward the life and person you aspire to be.
My approach to therapy is relational, drawing from narrative therapy, internal family systems, mindfulness, and attachment theory.
Hi, I'm Kasey. In many aspects of our lives, we may struggle to be our most authentic selves or even understand who we truly are at our core. In my practice, I am dedicated to creating a safe and welcoming environment where you can explore and express your true self without fear of judgment. I recognize that therapy can be a vulnerable and daunting experience, and I am committed to demonstrating the highest level of respect as you share your story and let me into your world. Together, we will safely examine your life experiences, their impact on you today, and embark on a healing journey toward the life and person you aspire to be.
(226) 212-7960 View (226) 212-7960
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Insight Online: Psychotherapy and Supervision
Registered Psychotherapist, PhD, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
We utilize emotional, relational, and brain-based insight-oriented therapies to support mind, body, and spirit as you journey through life transitions, grief, loss, anxiety, trauma (vicarious and moral injury), or depression.
Are you stressed, exhausted, or just going through the motions of life? Has substance use, addictive behaviours, anxiety, depression, anger, grief/loss or feelings of overwhelm increased for you? I provide a safe space to assess how you got to where you are today, re-evaluate your priorities, and explore what is meaningful to you. We work with professionals, therapists, executives, caregivers, and front-line workers/first responders who have successful careers on paper but still feel unfulfilled in their personal lives and relationships. We also offer affordable counselling from $55 per session.
We utilize emotional, relational, and brain-based insight-oriented therapies to support mind, body, and spirit as you journey through life transitions, grief, loss, anxiety, trauma (vicarious and moral injury), or depression.
Are you stressed, exhausted, or just going through the motions of life? Has substance use, addictive behaviours, anxiety, depression, anger, grief/loss or feelings of overwhelm increased for you? I provide a safe space to assess how you got to where you are today, re-evaluate your priorities, and explore what is meaningful to you. We work with professionals, therapists, executives, caregivers, and front-line workers/first responders who have successful careers on paper but still feel unfulfilled in their personal lives and relationships. We also offer affordable counselling from $55 per session.
(905) 581-9937 View (905) 581-9937
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Madelyn Whittle
Registered Psychotherapist, BASc, MC, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
My approach is relational, trauma- and attachment-informed, and client-centred.
I believe therapy can be a safe and creative space for self-exploration and discovery! Whether you are experiencing relational or mental/physical health challenges, processing a recent diagnosis, or discovering your unique and preferred Self, I am here to support you in a compassionate and affirming way. As a queer, neuro-divergent woman (she/her), I believe in the value of shared humanity, inclusivity, empathy, and empowerment in the therapy space. I aim to create a welcoming, collaborative atmosphere where you can develop coping tools & move toward your goals with intention.
My approach is relational, trauma- and attachment-informed, and client-centred.
I believe therapy can be a safe and creative space for self-exploration and discovery! Whether you are experiencing relational or mental/physical health challenges, processing a recent diagnosis, or discovering your unique and preferred Self, I am here to support you in a compassionate and affirming way. As a queer, neuro-divergent woman (she/her), I believe in the value of shared humanity, inclusivity, empathy, and empowerment in the therapy space. I aim to create a welcoming, collaborative atmosphere where you can develop coping tools & move toward your goals with intention.
(226) 408-4517 View (226) 408-4517
Photo of Kaitlyn Arnold, BA, MA, RP, Registered Psychotherapist
Kaitlyn Arnold
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MA, RP
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with relationships? Are you anxious, stressed, or feeling stuck when it comes to your romantic partner or sex life? Do you struggle to feel fulfilled in life? Does anxiety often get the best of you? My name is Kaitlyn, and I'm a Registered Psychotherapist currently working with clients to explore relationships, anxiety, burnout, and sex/intimacy. I have experience working with individuals and couples to facilitate healthy relationships, as well as navigating themes of ADHD, communication, conflict, desire, and break-ups.
Are you struggling with relationships? Are you anxious, stressed, or feeling stuck when it comes to your romantic partner or sex life? Do you struggle to feel fulfilled in life? Does anxiety often get the best of you? My name is Kaitlyn, and I'm a Registered Psychotherapist currently working with clients to explore relationships, anxiety, burnout, and sex/intimacy. I have experience working with individuals and couples to facilitate healthy relationships, as well as navigating themes of ADHD, communication, conflict, desire, and break-ups.
(226) 894-8567 View (226) 894-8567
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Annette Martin - - Whole Family Psychotherapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, CC-PMH
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
While becoming a parent can bring joy and fulfillment, the changes and stressors that accompany the perinatal period (prenatal and postpartum) can also have substantial impacts on a parent’s mental health. Nothing can easily prepare a parent for this significant new role. New parents are often overwhelmed with how how all consuming caring for a baby can be, may experience challenging shifts in their important relationships, and my not yet know how to cope or access the support they need. As a queer parent, I have a keen desire to support queer families, who deserve a space that feels affirming of their family - all are welcome!
While becoming a parent can bring joy and fulfillment, the changes and stressors that accompany the perinatal period (prenatal and postpartum) can also have substantial impacts on a parent’s mental health. Nothing can easily prepare a parent for this significant new role. New parents are often overwhelmed with how how all consuming caring for a baby can be, may experience challenging shifts in their important relationships, and my not yet know how to cope or access the support they need. As a queer parent, I have a keen desire to support queer families, who deserve a space that feels affirming of their family - all are welcome!
(226) 455-7825 View (226) 455-7825
Photo of Gillian Inksetter, MA, RP, RCC, Counsellor
Gillian Inksetter
Counsellor, MA, RP, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
Accepting new clients. Virtual only. Experience has taught me that the first step toward feeling better is simply reaching out for help. I provide a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental space for you to identify your best self. You are the expert in your own life, and I will walk beside you on your journey as we discover together the tools and solutions that you need. We aren't meant to deal with life's hardships alone!
Accepting new clients. Virtual only. Experience has taught me that the first step toward feeling better is simply reaching out for help. I provide a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental space for you to identify your best self. You are the expert in your own life, and I will walk beside you on your journey as we discover together the tools and solutions that you need. We aren't meant to deal with life's hardships alone!
(226) 458-0606 View (226) 458-0606
Photo of Kristine Lund - The Delton Glebe Counselling Centre, PhD, RP, Registered Psychotherapist
The Delton Glebe Counselling Centre
Registered Psychotherapist, PhD, RP
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L
The Delton Glebe Counselling Centre is a multi-faith counselling agency committed to strengthening emotional and spiritual well-being. We are rooted in the belief that faith and spirituality are important resources for healing and change. We embrace diversity and cultural inclusivity and offer counselling to all individuals. We provide trained therapists who qualify for membership in the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario and the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers.
The Delton Glebe Counselling Centre is a multi-faith counselling agency committed to strengthening emotional and spiritual well-being. We are rooted in the belief that faith and spirituality are important resources for healing and change. We embrace diversity and cultural inclusivity and offer counselling to all individuals. We provide trained therapists who qualify for membership in the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario and the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers.
(855) 953-0748 View (855) 953-0748
Photo of Britni Chambers - - Whole Family Psychotherapy, MSW, RSW, Registered Social Worker
Britni Chambers - - Whole Family Psychotherapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
Society tells us becoming a parent should to be natural, joyful, and will happen within our desired timeline. For some there is truth to this, but many parents are left disoriented with the gap between their expectations and reality. We are urged to pour into our children, give them all of our attention, but also find time for ourselves and our relationship. The challenges of this stage of life can leave parents feeling lonely, overwhelmed and with a sense of personal failure. You might wonder who you even are anymore and if things will ever change - If you are struggling, you are not alone, and it doesn’t have to stay this way.
Society tells us becoming a parent should to be natural, joyful, and will happen within our desired timeline. For some there is truth to this, but many parents are left disoriented with the gap between their expectations and reality. We are urged to pour into our children, give them all of our attention, but also find time for ourselves and our relationship. The challenges of this stage of life can leave parents feeling lonely, overwhelmed and with a sense of personal failure. You might wonder who you even are anymore and if things will ever change - If you are struggling, you are not alone, and it doesn’t have to stay this way.
(226) 458-5579 View (226) 458-5579
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Eunhyang Priscilla Sihn
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MA, MDiv, ThM
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L
Living a full and satisfying life is never easy, and can oftentimes be lonely and overwhelming. Nobody can or should “go it alone.” You may want to grow, learn, or tackle obstacles in your path. Or perhaps you simply want to relax and be heard. Regardless, you have come to a good place. My goal as a therapist and human being is to accompany you on your personal journey, supporting you in the ways you want, helping you realize who you might want to be, and providing you with tools/strategies to help you in a safe, inclusive, and non-judgmental environment.
Living a full and satisfying life is never easy, and can oftentimes be lonely and overwhelming. Nobody can or should “go it alone.” You may want to grow, learn, or tackle obstacles in your path. Or perhaps you simply want to relax and be heard. Regardless, you have come to a good place. My goal as a therapist and human being is to accompany you on your personal journey, supporting you in the ways you want, helping you realize who you might want to be, and providing you with tools/strategies to help you in a safe, inclusive, and non-judgmental environment.
(548) 484-5652 View (548) 484-5652
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Brenda Boulton
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L
IMAGINE THE POSSIBILITY - that there is a way to think differently; to feel differently; to live differently. Within each of us, we possess the tools we need to heal & be happy. But sometimes we make unhealthy choices in order to cope with emotional &/or physical pain. Despite our best intentions we can spiral downward, negatively impacting our relationships, careers, physical health & lifestyle. I believe that with support, change can happen. I am registered with a Master of Social Work & over 30yrs of clinical experience in the areas of trauma, addictions, anxiety, depression, grief/loss, parenting, life transitions & mindfulness.
IMAGINE THE POSSIBILITY - that there is a way to think differently; to feel differently; to live differently. Within each of us, we possess the tools we need to heal & be happy. But sometimes we make unhealthy choices in order to cope with emotional &/or physical pain. Despite our best intentions we can spiral downward, negatively impacting our relationships, careers, physical health & lifestyle. I believe that with support, change can happen. I am registered with a Master of Social Work & over 30yrs of clinical experience in the areas of trauma, addictions, anxiety, depression, grief/loss, parenting, life transitions & mindfulness.
(226) 839-0301 View (226) 839-0301
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Brooke Pickersgill
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
I have extensive experience working with both youth and adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, addiction challenges, behavior challenges, emotion dysregulation and various other mental health struggles. In our work together, you will be supported through a compassionate, non-judgmental lens, where you are provided with supportive listening, validation, and somebody to bear witness for you in your experiences. We will work together as a team to identify barriers, build on strengths, and also help families gain insight and attunement for a holistic approach.
I have extensive experience working with both youth and adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, addiction challenges, behavior challenges, emotion dysregulation and various other mental health struggles. In our work together, you will be supported through a compassionate, non-judgmental lens, where you are provided with supportive listening, validation, and somebody to bear witness for you in your experiences. We will work together as a team to identify barriers, build on strengths, and also help families gain insight and attunement for a holistic approach.
(226) 907-1515 View (226) 907-1515
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Clinical Supervision - Upstream Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, MA RP
Verified Verified
19 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
**NO WAIT LIST** Welcome to Upstream Counselling! If you're reading this, it's likely because you’re unsatisfied with something in your life and you’re on a mission to find better answers. Maybe you’re feeling frustrated and discouraged because the deeper connections you crave seem just beyond your reach. It doesn’t have to be this way. Do you want a better understanding of yourself? Do you want to communicate more effectively? Do you want to connect more deeply in your relationships? It’s time to get unstuck and start feeling better about your life.
**NO WAIT LIST** Welcome to Upstream Counselling! If you're reading this, it's likely because you’re unsatisfied with something in your life and you’re on a mission to find better answers. Maybe you’re feeling frustrated and discouraged because the deeper connections you crave seem just beyond your reach. It doesn’t have to be this way. Do you want a better understanding of yourself? Do you want to communicate more effectively? Do you want to connect more deeply in your relationships? It’s time to get unstuck and start feeling better about your life.
(226) 840-3229 View (226) 840-3229
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Alina Chirila
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
Whether you’re seeking to address persistent, lifelong concerns or the effects of new and unsettling events, psychotherapy can be a helpful tool. It offers the opportunity of establishing a deeper and more meaningful understanding of ourselves and of our personal history, and work toward more fulfilling lives and relationships. For many of us psychotherapy can mean a way out of dark places. Pursuing therapy does not mean we will never be faced with challenging moments, it means that we will show up better equipped to handle adversities and will be able to bring our best selves to the forefront.
Whether you’re seeking to address persistent, lifelong concerns or the effects of new and unsettling events, psychotherapy can be a helpful tool. It offers the opportunity of establishing a deeper and more meaningful understanding of ourselves and of our personal history, and work toward more fulfilling lives and relationships. For many of us psychotherapy can mean a way out of dark places. Pursuing therapy does not mean we will never be faced with challenging moments, it means that we will show up better equipped to handle adversities and will be able to bring our best selves to the forefront.
(548) 490-8855 View (548) 490-8855
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Dana Lauder
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2L
Have you ever been told you are too sensitive? Are you tired of feeling misunderstood? I understand that vulnerability and facing big emotions, like grief or anxiety, can be scary. I want to provide a caring, respectful and non-judgmental environment for you to explore, process and sit with your emotions so that you can show up in your life and relationships with greater courage and authenticity. I want to empower you to discover that sense of a competent self that can deal with life issues and become fully alive and fully yourself. I lost my father at 16 years old. At the time I learned to push my feelings away.
Have you ever been told you are too sensitive? Are you tired of feeling misunderstood? I understand that vulnerability and facing big emotions, like grief or anxiety, can be scary. I want to provide a caring, respectful and non-judgmental environment for you to explore, process and sit with your emotions so that you can show up in your life and relationships with greater courage and authenticity. I want to empower you to discover that sense of a competent self that can deal with life issues and become fully alive and fully yourself. I lost my father at 16 years old. At the time I learned to push my feelings away.
(226) 705-1098 View (226) 705-1098
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Kareana Cook
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MA, RP (Q)
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
I know first-hand that choosing the therapist that’s right for you can be a tough decision, and there’s nothing better than hitting the mark. My name is Kareana (Ka-re-na) and I do this work because I value the depth and connection that exists between a client and therapist. I have a passion for working with individuals and couples looking to enhance communication and strengthen intimacy and trust with loved ones, those struggling with aspects of identity related to values and beliefs, and those who would appreciate an accepting, energetic and warm conversational approach to sessions. If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect!
I know first-hand that choosing the therapist that’s right for you can be a tough decision, and there’s nothing better than hitting the mark. My name is Kareana (Ka-re-na) and I do this work because I value the depth and connection that exists between a client and therapist. I have a passion for working with individuals and couples looking to enhance communication and strengthen intimacy and trust with loved ones, those struggling with aspects of identity related to values and beliefs, and those who would appreciate an accepting, energetic and warm conversational approach to sessions. If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect!
(226) 806-1778 View (226) 806-1778
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Guillermo Rodriguez
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L
In life there are many paths to take; some are laid out for us, others we opt out of, and some come at a crossroads. Knowing what to do can become challenging and giving ourselves the space to explore where we are going or how we got there, can be a difficult process to undertake. Whether you find yourself lost, tired, and or uncertain, know that you do not have to come to these places alone. As someone on their own journey I understand the value of making sense and meaning of the stories we tell about ourselves, as these are the stories that will speak to how we view ourselves, others, and or communicate with the people we love.
In life there are many paths to take; some are laid out for us, others we opt out of, and some come at a crossroads. Knowing what to do can become challenging and giving ourselves the space to explore where we are going or how we got there, can be a difficult process to undertake. Whether you find yourself lost, tired, and or uncertain, know that you do not have to come to these places alone. As someone on their own journey I understand the value of making sense and meaning of the stories we tell about ourselves, as these are the stories that will speak to how we view ourselves, others, and or communicate with the people we love.
(226) 887-8747 View (226) 887-8747
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Dhirjinder Kaur Bhutal
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, CCC, RPQ, EMDR
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L  (Online Only)
When you begin to consider seeking assistance, the work begins to minimize your problem. As a certified Counselor with more than ten years of experience providing services to diverse populations on various mental health issues including family issues, I am here to assist you. I take pride in my clients' healing. I look forward to assisting many more people.
When you begin to consider seeking assistance, the work begins to minimize your problem. As a certified Counselor with more than ten years of experience providing services to diverse populations on various mental health issues including family issues, I am here to assist you. I take pride in my clients' healing. I look forward to assisting many more people.
(226) 270-3277 View (226) 270-3277
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How does relational therapy work?

Relational therapy was developed by psychologist Jean Miller, whose ideas stressed that having strong connections with others encourages better health and well-being when compared with a lonely existence. Conversely, poor interpersonal relationships do not foster growth and learning. Relational therapy also encourages trust in others and patience with others, along with better communication and less conflict.

Is relational therapy evidence-based?

Relational therapy is not well-studied, and it may not be as effective in treating certain mental health conditions when compared with evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioural or acceptance and commitment therapy. However, relational therapy uses techniques found in cognitive behavioural therapy as well as psychodynamic therapy, which are both well-studied with empirical research.

How long are people typically in relational therapy?

Clients may see improvement after a few weeks or months of therapy. Like cognitive behavioral therapy, relational therapy can reduce symptoms within 10 to 20 weeks, at 45 to 50 minutes once a week. But like any type of therapy, improvement depends on the person and the severity of the problem.

Does relational therapy work?

While no therapy type will work for everyone, some evidence suggests that this therapy can be effective. Relational therapy can help a person manage problematic relationships as well as the mental health conditions that accompany difficult relationships like depression or anxiety. This therapy type may offer benefits that are hard to measure but can be just as valuable—including feelings of higher self-worth or healthier connections with others.