Sex Therapists in Branchburg, NJ

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New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Branchburg, NJ 08853
Welcome to the New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness, central New Jersey's only comprehensive resource for men, women, and teens seeking to enhance their sexual health, relationships, pleasure and knowledge. We provide evaluation of sexual problems, dysfunctions and concerns of both women and men. In addition to specialized and expert medical and psychological treatment, we offer educational consulting and programs on topics related to sexuality.
Welcome to the New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness, central New Jersey's only comprehensive resource for men, women, and teens seeking to enhance their sexual health, relationships, pleasure and knowledge. We provide evaluation of sexual problems, dysfunctions and concerns of both women and men. In addition to specialized and expert medical and psychological treatment, we offer educational consulting and programs on topics related to sexuality.
(201) 817-6523 View (201) 817-6523
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Avery Heimann
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MEd, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Branchburg, NJ 08876
We are all on our unique individual life journeys, full of transitions, complex relationships with the world around us, all while navigating our identities and struggles in that process. I am here to validate that journey, all of its ups and downs as they inspire your forward-moving momentum towards becoming mindful, motivated, and fueled by self-love.
We are all on our unique individual life journeys, full of transitions, complex relationships with the world around us, all while navigating our identities and struggles in that process. I am here to validate that journey, all of its ups and downs as they inspire your forward-moving momentum towards becoming mindful, motivated, and fueled by self-love.
(908) 888-9399 View (908) 888-9399
Photo of Ruxandra Ritter, PhD, LPC, Psychologist
Ruxandra Ritter
Psychologist, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Branchburg, NJ 08876
Whether you feel burdened by sadness or stress, worried about your personal relationships, or puzzled by sexual difficulties, there is hope. Over the years, I have seen many people enter the therapeutic journey with doubt and hesitancy, and emerge with a renewed sense of meaning and joy in connecting with others. I am passionate about what I do and I deeply believe that good psychotherapy can transform lives. I hold a doctorate degree in clinical psychology and have post-graduate training, as well as special interest, in addressing sexual issues, relationship difficulties, and struggles with life transitions.
Whether you feel burdened by sadness or stress, worried about your personal relationships, or puzzled by sexual difficulties, there is hope. Over the years, I have seen many people enter the therapeutic journey with doubt and hesitancy, and emerge with a renewed sense of meaning and joy in connecting with others. I am passionate about what I do and I deeply believe that good psychotherapy can transform lives. I hold a doctorate degree in clinical psychology and have post-graduate training, as well as special interest, in addressing sexual issues, relationship difficulties, and struggles with life transitions.
(908) 842-0295 View (908) 842-0295
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Megan Herelle
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Branchburg, NJ 08876
Are defensiveness and resentment growing in your relationship? Even the shortest exchange triggers an argument. Unsaid expectations turn into accusations. “Who are you texting?” “Why didn’t you do the dishes?” “What’s wrong this time?” Perhaps you feel like you give everything to the relationship and get little to nothing in return. You love your partner but wonder why it seems so hard to be happy. These struggles are more common than you think. Past relationships, family wounds, and unresolved trauma get in the way of couples having a healthy and happy relationship. Are you ready to find a path forward?
Are defensiveness and resentment growing in your relationship? Even the shortest exchange triggers an argument. Unsaid expectations turn into accusations. “Who are you texting?” “Why didn’t you do the dishes?” “What’s wrong this time?” Perhaps you feel like you give everything to the relationship and get little to nothing in return. You love your partner but wonder why it seems so hard to be happy. These struggles are more common than you think. Past relationships, family wounds, and unresolved trauma get in the way of couples having a healthy and happy relationship. Are you ready to find a path forward?
(732) 532-3362 View (732) 532-3362
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Joshua D Fink
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Branchburg, NJ 08876
As a licensed psychologist, I provide a wide range of therapeutic services in the central and northern New Jersey region. Though I work with individuals of all ages, my specialty is treating adolescents and young professionals, specifically those going through transition (changing schools, choosing a career, parents are going through a divorce, etc). I use an integrated approach combining Humanistic, Psychodynamic, Cognitive-Behavioral, and Solution-Focused approaches. I also specialize and have a passion for Sports Psychology and am an affiliate of Wheelhouse Training located in Hillsboro, New Jersey.
As a licensed psychologist, I provide a wide range of therapeutic services in the central and northern New Jersey region. Though I work with individuals of all ages, my specialty is treating adolescents and young professionals, specifically those going through transition (changing schools, choosing a career, parents are going through a divorce, etc). I use an integrated approach combining Humanistic, Psychodynamic, Cognitive-Behavioral, and Solution-Focused approaches. I also specialize and have a passion for Sports Psychology and am an affiliate of Wheelhouse Training located in Hillsboro, New Jersey.
(732) 479-4684 View (732) 479-4684

More Therapists Nearby

Photo of DuEwa Spicer - Infinite Zen Holistic Psychotherapy, ABS, LICSW, LCSW, CCATP, CST, Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Infinite Zen Holistic Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, ABS, LICSW, LCSW, CCATP, CST
Verified Verified
Somerset, NJ 08873  (Online Only)
Are you experiencing feelings of depression, anxiety, loneliness, issues with intimacy, and sexual desire? I am a sex-positive, non-monogamous, BDSM/KINK, LGBTQIA+ affirming relationship therapist. Let's work together! Perhaps you lack self-compassion, you are self-conscious, or maybe you're unsure about the future of your relationship. An important aspect of therapy is examining our inner world, relationships, thoughts and feelings in a safe non-judgmental space. Using an integrative approach, I aim to create a positive therapeutic relationship that promotes healing with compassionate self-exploration. Contact me today!
Are you experiencing feelings of depression, anxiety, loneliness, issues with intimacy, and sexual desire? I am a sex-positive, non-monogamous, BDSM/KINK, LGBTQIA+ affirming relationship therapist. Let's work together! Perhaps you lack self-compassion, you are self-conscious, or maybe you're unsure about the future of your relationship. An important aspect of therapy is examining our inner world, relationships, thoughts and feelings in a safe non-judgmental space. Using an integrative approach, I aim to create a positive therapeutic relationship that promotes healing with compassionate self-exploration. Contact me today!
(202) 816-6098 View (202) 816-6098
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Ruth Goldsmith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, (EMDR, EFcT, KAP)
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bridgewater, NJ 08807
I am trained in trauma treatment, couple therapy, sex therapy, relational therapy and psychedelic assisted therapy.
Hi! Are you tired of being stuck in a rut or can’t get out of your own way? Do you want deeper connnections with others and with yourself? Is your inner critic interfering with enjoying life? Do you want to resolve past traumas and painful memories? Are you craving more sexual intimacy and/or understanding of your sexual self? I will work compassionately and collaboratively with you to heal and develop different patterns and ways of thinking. I will listen carefully to your story and provide your space to increase your awareness, get in touch with your emotions and provide you practical strategies for change.
I am trained in trauma treatment, couple therapy, sex therapy, relational therapy and psychedelic assisted therapy.
Hi! Are you tired of being stuck in a rut or can’t get out of your own way? Do you want deeper connnections with others and with yourself? Is your inner critic interfering with enjoying life? Do you want to resolve past traumas and painful memories? Are you craving more sexual intimacy and/or understanding of your sexual self? I will work compassionately and collaboratively with you to heal and develop different patterns and ways of thinking. I will listen carefully to your story and provide your space to increase your awareness, get in touch with your emotions and provide you practical strategies for change.
(732) 333-8729 View (732) 333-8729
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Nina Williams
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Somerset, NJ 08873
I am experienced in working with sexuality and welcome clients with diverse identities.
If you are looking for a new perspective on a problem, a better relationship, or a greater sense of contentment and vitality in your life, I can help. With more than twenty years of practice and thirteen years of advanced training, I offer a seasoned, educated approach to psychotherapy with adolescents, adults, and couples. I have experience helping clients with depression, anxiety, trauma, sexual difficulties, physical illness, grief, life transitions, and problems with relationships.
I am experienced in working with sexuality and welcome clients with diverse identities.
If you are looking for a new perspective on a problem, a better relationship, or a greater sense of contentment and vitality in your life, I can help. With more than twenty years of practice and thirteen years of advanced training, I offer a seasoned, educated approach to psychotherapy with adolescents, adults, and couples. I have experience helping clients with depression, anxiety, trauma, sexual difficulties, physical illness, grief, life transitions, and problems with relationships.
(732) 800-4796 View (732) 800-4796
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Lori Sequeira
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
Bridgewater, NJ 08807
I have certifications in sex therapy (AASECT), school counseling, and clinical supervision (ACS), as well as Advanced Trainer in the Nurtured Heart Approach.
My specialty is in relationships and sexual satisfaction. I work with individuals and couples addressing issues with intimacy, sexual desire, challenges to sexual functioning, and sexual pain. Therapy is about you and living a fulfilling life. Therapy offers you a special time and place to take care of you, as well as the relationships that you are a part of. Understanding the importance of relationships and their contribution to emotional and physical health leads me to greatly value the significance of the work that I am a part of.
I have certifications in sex therapy (AASECT), school counseling, and clinical supervision (ACS), as well as Advanced Trainer in the Nurtured Heart Approach.
My specialty is in relationships and sexual satisfaction. I work with individuals and couples addressing issues with intimacy, sexual desire, challenges to sexual functioning, and sexual pain. Therapy is about you and living a fulfilling life. Therapy offers you a special time and place to take care of you, as well as the relationships that you are a part of. Understanding the importance of relationships and their contribution to emotional and physical health leads me to greatly value the significance of the work that I am a part of.
(908) 364-7834 View (908) 364-7834
Photo of Margaret Nichols - Institute for Personal Growth (Sex Therapy), PhD, LCSW, LPC, LMFT, Psychologist
Institute for Personal Growth (Sex Therapy)
Psychologist, PhD, LCSW, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Somerset, NJ 08873
Thinking of therapy? Ask for the for the first session free. IPG has 3 offices throughout New Jersey (Highland Park, Jersey City, and Freehold), with almost 30 therapists, many of whom are experts in sex therapy. Because many sexual problems affect relationships, not just individuals, our sex therapists also have extensive training in various forms of couples therapy, so we are ideally equipped to handle relationship problems with a sexual component. Whether your concern is primarily a sexual issue or part of a larger marital issue, we are the right choice. We also work of course with individuals for various sex-related concerns.
Thinking of therapy? Ask for the for the first session free. IPG has 3 offices throughout New Jersey (Highland Park, Jersey City, and Freehold), with almost 30 therapists, many of whom are experts in sex therapy. Because many sexual problems affect relationships, not just individuals, our sex therapists also have extensive training in various forms of couples therapy, so we are ideally equipped to handle relationship problems with a sexual component. Whether your concern is primarily a sexual issue or part of a larger marital issue, we are the right choice. We also work of course with individuals for various sex-related concerns.
(866) 948-7629 View (866) 948-7629
Photo of Susan Menahem - Institute for Personal Growth, LCSW, LPC, LMFT, Psychologist
Institute for Personal Growth
Psychologist, LCSW, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Somerset, NJ 08873
We have many sex therapists working with everyone from couples to those involved in the BDSM or consensual non-monogamy communities.
Thinking of therapy? Ask us for the first session free, for a limited time. IPG has roughly 30 therapists over three NJ offices: Highland Park, Freehold, and Jersey City. Since 1983 we've combined compassionate care with high-level expertise. We provide individual, family, child, and relationship counseling for concerns ranging from depression to life transitions to marital strife. We have a special focus on the LGBTQ community, including transgender/GNC youth, but we see clients from all walks of life. We also have many other niche specialties such as sex therapy, ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, and eating disorders.
We have many sex therapists working with everyone from couples to those involved in the BDSM or consensual non-monogamy communities.
Thinking of therapy? Ask us for the first session free, for a limited time. IPG has roughly 30 therapists over three NJ offices: Highland Park, Freehold, and Jersey City. Since 1983 we've combined compassionate care with high-level expertise. We provide individual, family, child, and relationship counseling for concerns ranging from depression to life transitions to marital strife. We have a special focus on the LGBTQ community, including transgender/GNC youth, but we see clients from all walks of life. We also have many other niche specialties such as sex therapy, ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, and eating disorders.
(732) 487-3688 View (732) 487-3688
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Suzanne M Gable
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, CSCT
Verified Verified
Princeton, NJ 08540  (Online Only)
I am a sex-positive therapist offering a safe no judgement zone.
Has the compulsive use of pornography gotten in the way of having the connections you want to achieve in your life? Has your relationship been affected by adult content or chronic infidelity? Nowadays many people use adult content and can not recognize if they have a problem until it is brought to their attention by a loved one or they may have tried to unsuccessfully limit their use. Many people are simply just trying to escape from depression, anxiety or boredom. You may feel stuck, ashamed and embarrassed keeping this secret. Seeking help is the first step towards wellness.
I am a sex-positive therapist offering a safe no judgement zone.
Has the compulsive use of pornography gotten in the way of having the connections you want to achieve in your life? Has your relationship been affected by adult content or chronic infidelity? Nowadays many people use adult content and can not recognize if they have a problem until it is brought to their attention by a loved one or they may have tried to unsuccessfully limit their use. Many people are simply just trying to escape from depression, anxiety or boredom. You may feel stuck, ashamed and embarrassed keeping this secret. Seeking help is the first step towards wellness.
(857) 597-7028 View (857) 597-7028
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Jessie André
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW-S, MEd
Verified Verified
Somerset, NJ 08873  (Online Only)
I also specialize in all aspects of relationship & sexuality concerns including behaviors, communication & intimacy issues, desire, dysfunction, identity, infidelity, and sexual abuse.
Feeling stuck? At a crossroads in your career, personal or emotional life? Even the strongest among us can feel lost, uncertain, ambivalent, or unhappy at times. Thank you for taking the first step. Therapy is one tool that can help you understand and manage whatever life throws at you.
I also specialize in all aspects of relationship & sexuality concerns including behaviors, communication & intimacy issues, desire, dysfunction, identity, infidelity, and sexual abuse.
Feeling stuck? At a crossroads in your career, personal or emotional life? Even the strongest among us can feel lost, uncertain, ambivalent, or unhappy at times. Thank you for taking the first step. Therapy is one tool that can help you understand and manage whatever life throws at you.
(856) 245-2528 View (856) 245-2528
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Noemi A Bolton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSM, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Flemington, NJ 08822
Stuck in a rut? There's a way out. I specialize in sex therapy and trauma. I have extensive experience in individual, couples, family and group psychotherapy. I use methods that examine the root causes of behavioral and emotional patterns which lead to depression, anxiety, alcohol dependence, substance abuse, thought distortions, relationship attachments, erectile dysfunction, or vaginal anesthesia. Where medication is ineffective, intensive therapy sessions have the power to change the paralyzing state of our psychological and physical condition. The causes may be situational, easily detected, but others may be deeper, stored in our rigidified muscles, buried in the remote recess of our minds.
Stuck in a rut? There's a way out. I specialize in sex therapy and trauma. I have extensive experience in individual, couples, family and group psychotherapy. I use methods that examine the root causes of behavioral and emotional patterns which lead to depression, anxiety, alcohol dependence, substance abuse, thought distortions, relationship attachments, erectile dysfunction, or vaginal anesthesia. Where medication is ineffective, intensive therapy sessions have the power to change the paralyzing state of our psychological and physical condition. The causes may be situational, easily detected, but others may be deeper, stored in our rigidified muscles, buried in the remote recess of our minds.
(908) 238-3971 View (908) 238-3971
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Risa Simpson-Davis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bedminster, NJ 07921
Do you feel frustrated, powerless or stuck in repeated arguments with your partner? Do you long for the love and connection you use to feel? Do some of your concerns include lack of trust, infidelity, intimacy issues, life transitions (e.g. parenting), communication breakdown or managing conflict? You want to see positive change in your marriage or relationship, but you don't know where to begin. No matter how big or small your issues are you can't seem to resolve them on your own. I can help you navigate the complexities of your relationship and help you build a stronger more reslient bond.
Do you feel frustrated, powerless or stuck in repeated arguments with your partner? Do you long for the love and connection you use to feel? Do some of your concerns include lack of trust, infidelity, intimacy issues, life transitions (e.g. parenting), communication breakdown or managing conflict? You want to see positive change in your marriage or relationship, but you don't know where to begin. No matter how big or small your issues are you can't seem to resolve them on your own. I can help you navigate the complexities of your relationship and help you build a stronger more reslient bond.
(732) 800-2470 View (732) 800-2470
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Mark V Bodino
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC
Verified Verified
Hillsborough, NJ 08844
As a practitioner, my primary goal is establishing a safe and open space for patients to explore and self-disclose. With 20 years of experience in working with adults and adolescents struggling with a variety of mental health and/or addiction concerns, my experience and scope of expertise is broad-ranging. Over time, I have assisted hundreds of clients with complex emotional, relationship addiction & work/life issues. Through identifying patient strengths and past successes, my goal is to collaborate with clients in improving their quality of life. (LGBTQ friendly)
As a practitioner, my primary goal is establishing a safe and open space for patients to explore and self-disclose. With 20 years of experience in working with adults and adolescents struggling with a variety of mental health and/or addiction concerns, my experience and scope of expertise is broad-ranging. Over time, I have assisted hundreds of clients with complex emotional, relationship addiction & work/life issues. Through identifying patient strengths and past successes, my goal is to collaborate with clients in improving their quality of life. (LGBTQ friendly)
(908) 312-4064 View (908) 312-4064
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Clifford N. Lazarus
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Skillman, NJ 08558
I am incredibly fortunate to be the son of Professor Arnold Lazarus. Not only did I literally learn at the feet of the man who pioneered cognitive-behavior therapy (CBT), but from his amazing colleagues and friends as well. Indeed, I have been privileged to get to know and learn from Carl Rogers, Albert Ellis, Aaron Beck, Francine Shapiro, and Marsha Linehan, to name only a few. Hence, I have been able to synthesize the teachings of many of the greatest minds in psychology into an approach that is at once scientifically grounded, tailored to fit the needs of unique individuals, highly flexible, and comprehensive.
I am incredibly fortunate to be the son of Professor Arnold Lazarus. Not only did I literally learn at the feet of the man who pioneered cognitive-behavior therapy (CBT), but from his amazing colleagues and friends as well. Indeed, I have been privileged to get to know and learn from Carl Rogers, Albert Ellis, Aaron Beck, Francine Shapiro, and Marsha Linehan, to name only a few. Hence, I have been able to synthesize the teachings of many of the greatest minds in psychology into an approach that is at once scientifically grounded, tailored to fit the needs of unique individuals, highly flexible, and comprehensive.
(609) 755-3075 x1 View (609) 755-3075 x1
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Olive Branch Therapy Group
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raritan, NJ 08869
We’re pleased you’ve made your first step towards healing. We understand that seeking help, whether for yourself or for your children isn’t always easy. Unfortunately, life doesn’t come with a user’s manual, and when times get tough, many of us are left feeling confused, angry, depressed and helpless. While we can’t provide you with a magical user’s manual to life, we can offer you an ancient symbol of peace, an olive branch. We want to help you extend that olive branch to not only the important relationships in your life but to yourself as well. Because at the end of the day, we all deserve inner peace.
We’re pleased you’ve made your first step towards healing. We understand that seeking help, whether for yourself or for your children isn’t always easy. Unfortunately, life doesn’t come with a user’s manual, and when times get tough, many of us are left feeling confused, angry, depressed and helpless. While we can’t provide you with a magical user’s manual to life, we can offer you an ancient symbol of peace, an olive branch. We want to help you extend that olive branch to not only the important relationships in your life but to yourself as well. Because at the end of the day, we all deserve inner peace.
(732) 943-1541 View (732) 943-1541
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Beatrice R. Keseru
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hillsborough, NJ 08844  (Online Only)
It takes courage to start therapy. To become aware of old beliefs & behaviors that no longer work. To be open to healing from the past and creating a more authentic & fulfilling future. I use an integrative approach, combining Psychodynamic theory, CBT, as well as concepts from Evolutionary Psychology to guide my clients through this process. As needed, I also add in several science-based stress management interventions, such as: breathing techniques, progressive muscle relaxation, positive visualizations, etc. My clients report they feel more relaxed, less reactive and just generally happier over time.
It takes courage to start therapy. To become aware of old beliefs & behaviors that no longer work. To be open to healing from the past and creating a more authentic & fulfilling future. I use an integrative approach, combining Psychodynamic theory, CBT, as well as concepts from Evolutionary Psychology to guide my clients through this process. As needed, I also add in several science-based stress management interventions, such as: breathing techniques, progressive muscle relaxation, positive visualizations, etc. My clients report they feel more relaxed, less reactive and just generally happier over time.
(848) 229-9189 View (848) 229-9189
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Shalonda Kelly
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Somerset, NJ 08873
I provide psychotherapy for couples, families, children, and adults from diverse backgrounds. I help to keep the peace at home, by enhancing intimacy, expressing emotions, improving communication skills, decreasing fighting, and bridging differences in personalities and habits, such as ways of managing finances, and finding time to enjoy each other. I help my clients to navigate normal life changes and stresses such as marriage and parenthood, divorce, step- and blended family changes, and recovering from infidelity. I help to address school and academic problems, "stinking thinking", child behavior problems, common (and uncommon) disorders, such as depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.
I provide psychotherapy for couples, families, children, and adults from diverse backgrounds. I help to keep the peace at home, by enhancing intimacy, expressing emotions, improving communication skills, decreasing fighting, and bridging differences in personalities and habits, such as ways of managing finances, and finding time to enjoy each other. I help my clients to navigate normal life changes and stresses such as marriage and parenthood, divorce, step- and blended family changes, and recovering from infidelity. I help to address school and academic problems, "stinking thinking", child behavior problems, common (and uncommon) disorders, such as depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.
(908) 818-1047 View (908) 818-1047

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.