Therapists in 94031
Therapy for hardworking, stressed out, people seeking to move forward and thrive in life. To the outside world, you are successful, but inside you feel overwhelmed, anxious, and spent. You give of yourself to others until you have nothing left and feel guilty for getting irritated with the people you love. As you tell yourself to “keep going”, and others tell you to “go take a break”, you find it’s hard to do either of those things. If you take that break, will it be ok? What will you do? Will you still be valuable?
Therapy for hardworking, stressed out, people seeking to move forward and thrive in life. To the outside world, you are successful, but inside you feel overwhelmed, anxious, and spent. You give of yourself to others until you have nothing left and feel guilty for getting irritated with the people you love. As you tell yourself to “keep going”, and others tell you to “go take a break”, you find it’s hard to do either of those things. If you take that break, will it be ok? What will you do? Will you still be valuable?
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Are you feelings stuck in old patterns? Are you longing for balance, connection, ease, and meaning in your life? I would love to help you move towards more healing, self-compassion, and joy. I have experience working with adults, families, and teens, especially those who struggling with complex trauma and extreme ways of coping. I use Internal Family Systems (IFS), drama therapy, and a relational approach to support you to get to know all parts of yourself, process stuck experiences, release burdens you may be carrying, and find more ease, balance, connection, and aliveness within yourself and in your relationships with loved ones.
Are you feelings stuck in old patterns? Are you longing for balance, connection, ease, and meaning in your life? I would love to help you move towards more healing, self-compassion, and joy. I have experience working with adults, families, and teens, especially those who struggling with complex trauma and extreme ways of coping. I use Internal Family Systems (IFS), drama therapy, and a relational approach to support you to get to know all parts of yourself, process stuck experiences, release burdens you may be carrying, and find more ease, balance, connection, and aliveness within yourself and in your relationships with loved ones.
In today’s ever changing world, feeling lost, depressed, or anxious can be a deeper call from within to find our way back to ourselves. Engaging in inner work can free us from the shame, self judgement, or doubt that inhibits us from fully embodying our true nature and its meaningful expression and connection with life.
In today’s ever changing world, feeling lost, depressed, or anxious can be a deeper call from within to find our way back to ourselves. Engaging in inner work can free us from the shame, self judgement, or doubt that inhibits us from fully embodying our true nature and its meaningful expression and connection with life.
I am a licensed psychotherapist and former lawyer. Before opening my private consulting & therapy practice, I worked as an appellate and litigation lawyer for over ten years in large corporate firms (aka BigLaw) in New York City, San Francisco, and Palo Alto, as well as with the federal judiciary. Now, I work with lawyers, physicians, and other professionals to increase well-being by providing a non-judgmental space to explore strengths, challenges, vulnerabilities, and anxieties. Through a process of engaged listening, inquiry, and collaborative thinking, we will gain insight into your situation and work toward meaningful change.
I am a licensed psychotherapist and former lawyer. Before opening my private consulting & therapy practice, I worked as an appellate and litigation lawyer for over ten years in large corporate firms (aka BigLaw) in New York City, San Francisco, and Palo Alto, as well as with the federal judiciary. Now, I work with lawyers, physicians, and other professionals to increase well-being by providing a non-judgmental space to explore strengths, challenges, vulnerabilities, and anxieties. Through a process of engaged listening, inquiry, and collaborative thinking, we will gain insight into your situation and work toward meaningful change.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or identity struggles? Are you navigating a transitional phase in your life and overwhelmed with stress, pressure, or grief? Is your child or teen experiencing school stress, self-esteems issues or problems with peer relationships? Using a strength based informed approach, we will work collaboratively and creatively to meet your goals. I will help you access coping skills and hold space for emotional expression. I specialize in identity struggles, perfectionism, social media pressure, body image concerns, disordered eating, and trauma.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or identity struggles? Are you navigating a transitional phase in your life and overwhelmed with stress, pressure, or grief? Is your child or teen experiencing school stress, self-esteems issues or problems with peer relationships? Using a strength based informed approach, we will work collaboratively and creatively to meet your goals. I will help you access coping skills and hold space for emotional expression. I specialize in identity struggles, perfectionism, social media pressure, body image concerns, disordered eating, and trauma.
In a safe and non-judgmental environment, I provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. I offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, I work with each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are seeking.
In a safe and non-judgmental environment, I provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. I offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, I work with each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are seeking.
From the outside you look like you have it all together, but deep down you feel like you are crumbling.
Your mind struggles to slow down. Maybe you find yourself overthinking, replaying conversations from the day, or second-guessing decisions you have made. You’re exhausted.
My approach is warm, relational, and honest. I work primarily from a psychodynamic lens, which means we look at what’s underneath — the patterns, the old stories, the ways your past is quietly shaping your present. I also draw on CBT, mindfulness, and trauma-focused approaches depending on what you need.
From the outside you look like you have it all together, but deep down you feel like you are crumbling.
Your mind struggles to slow down. Maybe you find yourself overthinking, replaying conversations from the day, or second-guessing decisions you have made. You’re exhausted.
My approach is warm, relational, and honest. I work primarily from a psychodynamic lens, which means we look at what’s underneath — the patterns, the old stories, the ways your past is quietly shaping your present. I also draw on CBT, mindfulness, and trauma-focused approaches depending on what you need.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by your emotions, have been told you are “too sensitive,” or find yourself walking on eggshells, constantly on edge or trying to avoid doing something wrong? You are not alone. At times, you might feel disconnected from your body, stuck in cycles of anxiety or emotional overwhelm.
These experiences may be shaped by our lived experiences such as your family, BIPOC or LGBTQ+ identity, cultural and religious background, may have impacted your sense of self.
Together, we can work to help you develop new tools and feel safer in the world. I can help you feel seen and set boundaries without the guilt.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by your emotions, have been told you are “too sensitive,” or find yourself walking on eggshells, constantly on edge or trying to avoid doing something wrong? You are not alone. At times, you might feel disconnected from your body, stuck in cycles of anxiety or emotional overwhelm.
These experiences may be shaped by our lived experiences such as your family, BIPOC or LGBTQ+ identity, cultural and religious background, may have impacted your sense of self.
Together, we can work to help you develop new tools and feel safer in the world. I can help you feel seen and set boundaries without the guilt.
I work with couples, parents, and families navigating relationships under strain, partners stuck in patterns of distance, tension, or repeated conflict; parents co-parenting through separation or divorce; and families whose lives now include the family court system. They are often thoughtful, capable people who function well in many areas, yet feel discouraged about why relationships feel harder than they should. They want more than tools or techniques; they want to understand what's happening beneath the surface and rebuild something honest, secure, and sustaining.
I work with couples, parents, and families navigating relationships under strain, partners stuck in patterns of distance, tension, or repeated conflict; parents co-parenting through separation or divorce; and families whose lives now include the family court system. They are often thoughtful, capable people who function well in many areas, yet feel discouraged about why relationships feel harder than they should. They want more than tools or techniques; they want to understand what's happening beneath the surface and rebuild something honest, secure, and sustaining.
I am here! What are you needing and how can I help? I believe that crisis equals opportunity. A crisis that brings someone to therapy can be a pathway to growth and new ways of being, seeing and believing which makes you feel better. With an environment of safety and compassion, an individual has the opportunity to heal almost any wounding whether it happened in childhood or adult life if that is their goal.
I love my work, have been doing it for over 30 yrs and have no plans to stop. It gives my life meaning and makes my heart sing.
I am here! What are you needing and how can I help? I believe that crisis equals opportunity. A crisis that brings someone to therapy can be a pathway to growth and new ways of being, seeing and believing which makes you feel better. With an environment of safety and compassion, an individual has the opportunity to heal almost any wounding whether it happened in childhood or adult life if that is their goal.
I love my work, have been doing it for over 30 yrs and have no plans to stop. It gives my life meaning and makes my heart sing.
Accepting new clients/couples NOW- Online Video Therapy - Couples and individuals! I am a direct, tell-it-how-it-is therapist. I don't want you to be in therapy forever... we get straight to the root, do the work, get the skills you need and you become your own therapist. 8-10 sessions is the goal. If you're not ready to do the work, I'm not the therapist for you. But, if you're ready to step into courage and out of comfort, I'm ready to charge the storm with you. Couples like my straightforward approach, giving you the proven communication skills for healthier relationships. Do the hard, courageous thing and email me.
Accepting new clients/couples NOW- Online Video Therapy - Couples and individuals! I am a direct, tell-it-how-it-is therapist. I don't want you to be in therapy forever... we get straight to the root, do the work, get the skills you need and you become your own therapist. 8-10 sessions is the goal. If you're not ready to do the work, I'm not the therapist for you. But, if you're ready to step into courage and out of comfort, I'm ready to charge the storm with you. Couples like my straightforward approach, giving you the proven communication skills for healthier relationships. Do the hard, courageous thing and email me.
Welcome! Note: email is the best way reach me. Finding a therapist is daunting. The relationship tends to be the most consistent factor in whether therapy is successful, so I encourage you to trust your intuition. I work with adults (not couples) and adolescents over 14 on a variety of issues, including achieving greater mood stability, identity issues, improved relationships and sexuality, and recovery from trauma. I have experience working effectively with people who identify as trans, genderqueer, and those with diverse lifestyles. I also offer ketamine-assisted psychotherapy in collaboration w/Journey Clinical.
Welcome! Note: email is the best way reach me. Finding a therapist is daunting. The relationship tends to be the most consistent factor in whether therapy is successful, so I encourage you to trust your intuition. I work with adults (not couples) and adolescents over 14 on a variety of issues, including achieving greater mood stability, identity issues, improved relationships and sexuality, and recovery from trauma. I have experience working effectively with people who identify as trans, genderqueer, and those with diverse lifestyles. I also offer ketamine-assisted psychotherapy in collaboration w/Journey Clinical.
Child Anxiety, Phobias, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder can show up in big ways and leave families spiraling. Being a parent of two myself I get that we can’t always prevent our kids from struggling, but we can give them the skills to thrive in the face of life's challenges. With skill building through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure Response Prevention (ERP), I help kids and parents develop a toolbox of evidenced based strategies to face their fears and courageously take back their lives from anxiety and OCD.
Child Anxiety, Phobias, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder can show up in big ways and leave families spiraling. Being a parent of two myself I get that we can’t always prevent our kids from struggling, but we can give them the skills to thrive in the face of life's challenges. With skill building through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure Response Prevention (ERP), I help kids and parents develop a toolbox of evidenced based strategies to face their fears and courageously take back their lives from anxiety and OCD.
Monica Velez, APCC, is a team member at Gentle Healing Space. She works with children, teens, and adults who feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, or stuck in unhelpful patterns. Children may struggle with big emotions, anxiety, or behavioral challenges. Teens often face identity stress, depression, or social pressures. Adults may carry unresolved trauma, perfectionism, or relationship difficulties rooted in early experiences. They want insight into their reactions, practical tools to manage emotions, and lasting change. Most of all, they want a safe space where they feel seen, understood, and supported.
Monica Velez, APCC, is a team member at Gentle Healing Space. She works with children, teens, and adults who feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, or stuck in unhelpful patterns. Children may struggle with big emotions, anxiety, or behavioral challenges. Teens often face identity stress, depression, or social pressures. Adults may carry unresolved trauma, perfectionism, or relationship difficulties rooted in early experiences. They want insight into their reactions, practical tools to manage emotions, and lasting change. Most of all, they want a safe space where they feel seen, understood, and supported.
You deserve to be seen, heard, and deeply understood. I offer a compassionate, affirming space where you can explore your dreams, identity, challenges, and needs without fear of judgment. My work centers on supporting individuals as they navigate the nuanced realities of race, gender, sexuality, identity and relationship. My work is rooted in cultural humility and empathy, honoring your lived experience. I specialize in supporting Black, POC, Queer, and neurodivergent individuals, recognizing how intersecting identities shape mental health. Together, we’ll build a healing relationship based on trust, authenticity, and mutual growth.
You deserve to be seen, heard, and deeply understood. I offer a compassionate, affirming space where you can explore your dreams, identity, challenges, and needs without fear of judgment. My work centers on supporting individuals as they navigate the nuanced realities of race, gender, sexuality, identity and relationship. My work is rooted in cultural humility and empathy, honoring your lived experience. I specialize in supporting Black, POC, Queer, and neurodivergent individuals, recognizing how intersecting identities shape mental health. Together, we’ll build a healing relationship based on trust, authenticity, and mutual growth.
While we all struggle at times, each of our struggles is unique, and can sometimes be the catalyst for making important changes in our lives. If you are here seeking help, chances are you are on the path of transforming your pain into wisdom. If you've been struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship troubles, sexual satisfaction, life transitions, I'm here to help. Having grown up in the San Francisco Bay Area, and with my background in the arts, I value diversity and freedom of expression, especially when it involves embracing our unique ways of living, loving, and finding purpose.
While we all struggle at times, each of our struggles is unique, and can sometimes be the catalyst for making important changes in our lives. If you are here seeking help, chances are you are on the path of transforming your pain into wisdom. If you've been struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship troubles, sexual satisfaction, life transitions, I'm here to help. Having grown up in the San Francisco Bay Area, and with my background in the arts, I value diversity and freedom of expression, especially when it involves embracing our unique ways of living, loving, and finding purpose.
I believe you are the expert in your own experiences and the therapist's role is to guide you towards accessing the part of yourself that already knows the answer. Therapy is an opportunity to sit in a nurturing environment where anything can be said with acceptance. The gift of therapy provides a chance to hone your coping skills and bolster your resilience in your own time and at your own pace. In our work together I will meet you where you're at in your healing journey. You will have the opportunity to learn to activate your natural resiliency and self-acceptance to let go of shame, anger, or guilt that may be holding you back.
I believe you are the expert in your own experiences and the therapist's role is to guide you towards accessing the part of yourself that already knows the answer. Therapy is an opportunity to sit in a nurturing environment where anything can be said with acceptance. The gift of therapy provides a chance to hone your coping skills and bolster your resilience in your own time and at your own pace. In our work together I will meet you where you're at in your healing journey. You will have the opportunity to learn to activate your natural resiliency and self-acceptance to let go of shame, anger, or guilt that may be holding you back.
Specializing in ADHD, Autism, Learning Disabilities & Gifted Testing for Children, Teens & Adults in San Mateo and Across California
I specialize in comprehensive psychological and psychoeducational assessments for individuals across the lifespan. Whether you’re a parent seeking clarity around ADHD, Autism, or learning differences—or an adult navigating attention, anxiety, or cognitive concerns—I offer personalized, high-quality evaluations to support accurate diagnosis, school accommodations, and effective treatment planning. In addition to full evaluations, I offer targeted screenings and assessments to look at a specific area.
Specializing in ADHD, Autism, Learning Disabilities & Gifted Testing for Children, Teens & Adults in San Mateo and Across California
I specialize in comprehensive psychological and psychoeducational assessments for individuals across the lifespan. Whether you’re a parent seeking clarity around ADHD, Autism, or learning differences—or an adult navigating attention, anxiety, or cognitive concerns—I offer personalized, high-quality evaluations to support accurate diagnosis, school accommodations, and effective treatment planning. In addition to full evaluations, I offer targeted screenings and assessments to look at a specific area.
I value supporting people who want to live more authentically across all areas of their lives. With compassion, I help clients gently explore and challenge patterns that may be keeping them stuck, creating space for meaningful growth and change. I work with both individuals and couples to deepen their understanding of boundaries and to build clearer, more confident communication. My approach is informed by EMDR and IFS Parts Work. EMDR is a well-researched modality that helps process trauma, shift long-held negative beliefs, and reduce the impact of distressing life experiences.
I value supporting people who want to live more authentically across all areas of their lives. With compassion, I help clients gently explore and challenge patterns that may be keeping them stuck, creating space for meaningful growth and change. I work with both individuals and couples to deepen their understanding of boundaries and to build clearer, more confident communication. My approach is informed by EMDR and IFS Parts Work. EMDR is a well-researched modality that helps process trauma, shift long-held negative beliefs, and reduce the impact of distressing life experiences.
You may look like you're holding it all together on the outside, but inside you feel anxious, disconnected, or like you're living someone else's life. Maybe you're navigating divorce, a relationship ending, a career change, questions about identity or spirituality, or you're simply tired of being at war with yourself. I help thoughtful, curious adults—including many LGBTQ+ clients, creatives, and helping professionals—understand the deeper patterns shaping their lives so they can stop merely coping and begin living with greater authenticity, freedom, and self-compassion.
You may look like you're holding it all together on the outside, but inside you feel anxious, disconnected, or like you're living someone else's life. Maybe you're navigating divorce, a relationship ending, a career change, questions about identity or spirituality, or you're simply tired of being at war with yourself. I help thoughtful, curious adults—including many LGBTQ+ clients, creatives, and helping professionals—understand the deeper patterns shaping their lives so they can stop merely coping and begin living with greater authenticity, freedom, and self-compassion.
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Number of Therapists in 94031
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Therapists in 94031 who prioritize treating:
| 100% | Relationship Issues |
| 100% | Depression |
| 100% | Anxiety |
| 100% | Spirituality |
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 100% | Cancer |
| 100% | Racial Identity |
Gender breakdown
| 100% | Female |
How Therapists in 94031 see their clients
| 100% | In Person and Online |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in 94031?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.