Infidelity Therapists in 27615

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Beth Luwandi Lofstrom
Counselor, MA, LPCC, DARTT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
Relationship struggles feel terrible and confusing even for smart, successful people. Big issues like infidelity or the threat of break-up make it hard to even think straight. Continued disappointment, the same conflict on repeat, or never feeling heard take an enormous toll. We'll practice a method for recovery that minimizes your suffering and brings clarity and real healing. It IS possible to repair, build, and sustain a satisfying and healthy love relationship even after destructive patterns or tremendous pressure. A cherishing love relationship is your birthright. Let me help you make that happen.
Relationship struggles feel terrible and confusing even for smart, successful people. Big issues like infidelity or the threat of break-up make it hard to even think straight. Continued disappointment, the same conflict on repeat, or never feeling heard take an enormous toll. We'll practice a method for recovery that minimizes your suffering and brings clarity and real healing. It IS possible to repair, build, and sustain a satisfying and healthy love relationship even after destructive patterns or tremendous pressure. A cherishing love relationship is your birthright. Let me help you make that happen.
(513) 718-2963 View (513) 718-2963
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Jo-Anne V. Ludwig, MA,LCAS,LCMHC,PA
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCAS, LCMHCS, NCC, SAP
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. My practice focuses on helping adults, frustrated parents, distant couples, functionally-dysfunctional families, adolescents and millenials. Issues range from: dealing with addiction,change, anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, co-dependency, drugs, eating disorders, self-esteem, infidelity, grief, loss, life coaching, wellness, and unexpected life's problems and transitions. My treatment approach is Cognitive Behavioral both supportive and collaborative. I welcome you to take that first step. One of the best the investments you can make in today's world is in your own peace of mind!
Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. My practice focuses on helping adults, frustrated parents, distant couples, functionally-dysfunctional families, adolescents and millenials. Issues range from: dealing with addiction,change, anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, co-dependency, drugs, eating disorders, self-esteem, infidelity, grief, loss, life coaching, wellness, and unexpected life's problems and transitions. My treatment approach is Cognitive Behavioral both supportive and collaborative. I welcome you to take that first step. One of the best the investments you can make in today's world is in your own peace of mind!
(919) 429-8484 View (919) 429-8484
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Taylor Anderson
Psychologist, PsyD, HSP-P
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
Waitlist for new clients
Couples who are struggling in their relationship with trust/betrayal, communication, and intimacy may often feel as if they are on a completely different page from their partner. My goal is to help you reconnect in your relationship, communicate better, and get back to a place of comfort and support. I also work with adult individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, life transitions/adjustment, poor interpersonal relationships, and stress. I strive to help you better understand your past experiences and the influence this is having on your life now. I balance process oriented work with skills needed to make changes now.
Couples who are struggling in their relationship with trust/betrayal, communication, and intimacy may often feel as if they are on a completely different page from their partner. My goal is to help you reconnect in your relationship, communicate better, and get back to a place of comfort and support. I also work with adult individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, life transitions/adjustment, poor interpersonal relationships, and stress. I strive to help you better understand your past experiences and the influence this is having on your life now. I balance process oriented work with skills needed to make changes now.
(919) 899-4704 View (919) 899-4704
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Anna K Smith
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
I am a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and I specialize in couples & sex therapy, affairs, trauma recovery, as well as depression, anxiety, bipolar, & other mental health issues.
I delight in working with couples to repair troubled relationships & find a deeper, more secure connection with one another by helping partners bring their needs into awareness, share those unmasked parts, and transform old patterns of communication & interaction. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space, whatever your orientation, identity, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I meet my clients where they are & am open, compassionate, and curious, whether we are discussing interpersonal conflicts, relationship issues, or other stressors. I am honored by the individuals & couples who have let me join them in those places.
I am a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and I specialize in couples & sex therapy, affairs, trauma recovery, as well as depression, anxiety, bipolar, & other mental health issues.
I delight in working with couples to repair troubled relationships & find a deeper, more secure connection with one another by helping partners bring their needs into awareness, share those unmasked parts, and transform old patterns of communication & interaction. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space, whatever your orientation, identity, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I meet my clients where they are & am open, compassionate, and curious, whether we are discussing interpersonal conflicts, relationship issues, or other stressors. I am honored by the individuals & couples who have let me join them in those places.
(984) 205-5731 View (984) 205-5731
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Jenna Little
Counselor, MA, MS, LCMHCA, RDN, RYT-200
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
Our bodies hold our story therefore making them a very important process of healing and thriving. The experience of living connected to your whole being as you heal, grow and live fully alive is possible. I work well with clients seeking an integrative, trauma informed, holistic wellness approach to therapy. I love helping clients become empowered and connected to their story, body, choices and voice. Bringing the body into the process of healing is powerful and kind. I work with trauma, grief, betrayal trauma, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, embodiment work, nervous system support, spiritual trauma, and life transitions.
Our bodies hold our story therefore making them a very important process of healing and thriving. The experience of living connected to your whole being as you heal, grow and live fully alive is possible. I work well with clients seeking an integrative, trauma informed, holistic wellness approach to therapy. I love helping clients become empowered and connected to their story, body, choices and voice. Bringing the body into the process of healing is powerful and kind. I work with trauma, grief, betrayal trauma, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, embodiment work, nervous system support, spiritual trauma, and life transitions.
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Christian Counseling Associates Raleigh
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, DMin, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
We deal with trauma and infidelity with many couples.
Dr. Mike and Rhonda Garrett provide trusted Christian counseling and life coaching for individuals and couples in North Raleigh, NC. We specialize in marriages, communication, conflict resolution, infidelity, sexual addiction, trauma (EMDR), spiritual issues, anxiety, depression, grief and repairing and restoring relationships. We also offer adolescent and adult individual therapy and cover a broad range of needs and requests. Over 35 years of marriage, counseling, and ministry experience.
We deal with trauma and infidelity with many couples.
Dr. Mike and Rhonda Garrett provide trusted Christian counseling and life coaching for individuals and couples in North Raleigh, NC. We specialize in marriages, communication, conflict resolution, infidelity, sexual addiction, trauma (EMDR), spiritual issues, anxiety, depression, grief and repairing and restoring relationships. We also offer adolescent and adult individual therapy and cover a broad range of needs and requests. Over 35 years of marriage, counseling, and ministry experience.
(919) 439-6343 View (919) 439-6343
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Awakenings Counseling for Couples and Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LCMHC, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
Do you need online couples counseling, online sex therapy or online marriage counseling near me? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Are you missing appreciation? Fighting over sexual frequency? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues because of infidelity? Relationships need both emotional connection, intimacy and sex to be happy. We help repair affairs. Stop the fighting. Stop the criticism and withdrawing. Build a deeper connection, trust, & better communication. Feel love again. We treat erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia, low libido, frequency discrepancy.
Do you need online couples counseling, online sex therapy or online marriage counseling near me? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Are you missing appreciation? Fighting over sexual frequency? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues because of infidelity? Relationships need both emotional connection, intimacy and sex to be happy. We help repair affairs. Stop the fighting. Stop the criticism and withdrawing. Build a deeper connection, trust, & better communication. Feel love again. We treat erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia, low libido, frequency discrepancy.
(984) 205-4614 View (984) 205-4614
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Geoquana McDougal
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate. I received her bachelor’s degree in Psychology from North Carolina A&T. I furthered my education receiving a MA in Marriage & Family Therapy from Capella. I'm committed to treating couples, families, and individuals. My clinical interest include working with premarital couples, communication issues, infidelity, grief, sexual assault, and addiction. I strongly believe that the therapeutic relationship is one of the biggest indicators of change, which is why I strive to create a safe, warm space in which clients feel seen and heard.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate. I received her bachelor’s degree in Psychology from North Carolina A&T. I furthered my education receiving a MA in Marriage & Family Therapy from Capella. I'm committed to treating couples, families, and individuals. My clinical interest include working with premarital couples, communication issues, infidelity, grief, sexual assault, and addiction. I strongly believe that the therapeutic relationship is one of the biggest indicators of change, which is why I strive to create a safe, warm space in which clients feel seen and heard.
(919) 845-5400 View (919) 845-5400
Photo of Greg Cheney, PhD, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist in 27615, NC
Greg Cheney, PhD, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
Tired of feeling stuck, misunderstood, & disconnected? You find yourself struggling with communication. The arguments, misunderstanding, and hurt are overwhelming. It feels like your relationship is moving in the wrong direction, and the conflict in your relationship is really getting old. You feel alone. You may even be considering separation or divorce. Take the first step to sort through all of it: the misunderstanding, the arguments, the hurt, the disconnection, the downward spiral, and loneliness. I can help you gain clarity to move toward healing in your relationship. Let me help you experience your relationship in a new way.
Tired of feeling stuck, misunderstood, & disconnected? You find yourself struggling with communication. The arguments, misunderstanding, and hurt are overwhelming. It feels like your relationship is moving in the wrong direction, and the conflict in your relationship is really getting old. You feel alone. You may even be considering separation or divorce. Take the first step to sort through all of it: the misunderstanding, the arguments, the hurt, the disconnection, the downward spiral, and loneliness. I can help you gain clarity to move toward healing in your relationship. Let me help you experience your relationship in a new way.
(919) 246-4775 View (919) 246-4775
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Carole Cullen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
I know that you want to have an amazing love story. In order to do that, you need to have a great connection with your partner. The problem is that years of ups and downs can take its toll on relationships and maybe your relationship just isn’t working, which often leaves you feeling frustrated and disconnected.
I know that you want to have an amazing love story. In order to do that, you need to have a great connection with your partner. The problem is that years of ups and downs can take its toll on relationships and maybe your relationship just isn’t working, which often leaves you feeling frustrated and disconnected.
(984) 265-8347 View (984) 265-8347
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Sherry Stolp
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPMHC
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
Your relationship with your significant other is one of the most important parts of your life. Many expectations and hopes are placed on this one relationship. You chose this person for a reason. Many couples reach a point in their relationship where romantic love changes into a power struggle. Whenever a new life stressor appears the old polarizing arguments resurface. The mistake most couples make is assuming recurring themes in arguments are to be expected and endured, or that the only way out of this relentless arguing is to break-up. You can create a conscious, passionate relationship and change arguments into connection.
Your relationship with your significant other is one of the most important parts of your life. Many expectations and hopes are placed on this one relationship. You chose this person for a reason. Many couples reach a point in their relationship where romantic love changes into a power struggle. Whenever a new life stressor appears the old polarizing arguments resurface. The mistake most couples make is assuming recurring themes in arguments are to be expected and endured, or that the only way out of this relentless arguing is to break-up. You can create a conscious, passionate relationship and change arguments into connection.
(919) 439-4979 View (919) 439-4979
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Michelle Chachkes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
Accepting New Clients: "Life is a journey...Everyone needs a guide sometimes". Therapy is a a process where we work to uncover the conflicts in our lives and create the awareness to change our behaviors, Do you have a relationship that you are struggling with? or feeling angry and want to learn how to go with the flow? There are a lot of factors that create stress in our lives some we can't control but we can learn how to cope with it and change the things we do have control over. Together, we will determine your goals and explore the possible strategies that will help you feel successful on your journey.
Accepting New Clients: "Life is a journey...Everyone needs a guide sometimes". Therapy is a a process where we work to uncover the conflicts in our lives and create the awareness to change our behaviors, Do you have a relationship that you are struggling with? or feeling angry and want to learn how to go with the flow? There are a lot of factors that create stress in our lives some we can't control but we can learn how to cope with it and change the things we do have control over. Together, we will determine your goals and explore the possible strategies that will help you feel successful on your journey.
(919) 504-5751 View (919) 504-5751
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Amy Jackson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
Amy Jackson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 14 years of experience in the mental health field. She works with adults and senior citizens. Amy specializes in anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues, stress, self-esteem, and life transitions. She has worked with children, teenagers, adults, and senior citizens. Amy received her Master of Social Work from the North Carolina Agricultural & Technology University & University of North Carolina at Greensboro Joint Master of Social Work, Greensboro, North Carolina.
Amy Jackson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 14 years of experience in the mental health field. She works with adults and senior citizens. Amy specializes in anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues, stress, self-esteem, and life transitions. She has worked with children, teenagers, adults, and senior citizens. Amy received her Master of Social Work from the North Carolina Agricultural & Technology University & University of North Carolina at Greensboro Joint Master of Social Work, Greensboro, North Carolina.
(984) 368-4318 View (984) 368-4318
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Cecelia Ann Bailey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, PMH-C
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
I provide therapy to adolescents and adults, using a client-centered, eclectic approach tailored to the unique needs of each client. My preferred treatment approaches include cognitive behavioral therapy, supportive therapy and dialectical behavioral therapy. I believe that change happens when people are given the guidance they need to draw on their own strengths and realize their potential to live a fulfilling, happy life. My areas of expertise include: anxiety, depression, teens with self-injurious behaviors/behavior issues, phase of life changes and life stresses.
I provide therapy to adolescents and adults, using a client-centered, eclectic approach tailored to the unique needs of each client. My preferred treatment approaches include cognitive behavioral therapy, supportive therapy and dialectical behavioral therapy. I believe that change happens when people are given the guidance they need to draw on their own strengths and realize their potential to live a fulfilling, happy life. My areas of expertise include: anxiety, depression, teens with self-injurious behaviors/behavior issues, phase of life changes and life stresses.
(919) 583-7910 View (919) 583-7910
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Becky Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
Life is not always easy, but I believe we all have the strength within us to grow, adapt, and heal. My goal is to create a safe space for you to uncover your own resilience and cultivate a sense of meaning and purpose in this life. I primarily work with adults of all ages facing a variety of concerns such as: anxiety, panic, mild-to-moderate depression, grief and loss, OCD, chronic and terminal physical illness, relational/family stressors, and difficulties related to addiction. I am able to integrate faith and spirituality into counseling if so desired.
Life is not always easy, but I believe we all have the strength within us to grow, adapt, and heal. My goal is to create a safe space for you to uncover your own resilience and cultivate a sense of meaning and purpose in this life. I primarily work with adults of all ages facing a variety of concerns such as: anxiety, panic, mild-to-moderate depression, grief and loss, OCD, chronic and terminal physical illness, relational/family stressors, and difficulties related to addiction. I am able to integrate faith and spirituality into counseling if so desired.
(919) 679-9515 View (919) 679-9515
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Lifestyle Consultant Services
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LPC, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
The mission of Lifestyle Consultant Services is to improve the quality of mental health and substance abuse services by reducing stigma and by protecting the rights of the individual who suffers from mental illness and/or substance abuse. By identifying the pain and suffering experienced by citizens in our community and addressing them with care, we aim to strengthen and promote health and well being. Suboxone is the combination of buprenorphine (partial opioid agonist) and naloxone (opioid antagonist - Narcan). The combination is either 2 mg/0.5 mg or 8 mg/2 mg. Suboxone is a sublingual film (it dissolves under the tongue).
The mission of Lifestyle Consultant Services is to improve the quality of mental health and substance abuse services by reducing stigma and by protecting the rights of the individual who suffers from mental illness and/or substance abuse. By identifying the pain and suffering experienced by citizens in our community and addressing them with care, we aim to strengthen and promote health and well being. Suboxone is the combination of buprenorphine (partial opioid agonist) and naloxone (opioid antagonist - Narcan). The combination is either 2 mg/0.5 mg or 8 mg/2 mg. Suboxone is a sublingual film (it dissolves under the tongue).
(919) 800-0881 View (919) 800-0881
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Katherine H Schulz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
I treat clients who have difficulty with borderline personality disorder, depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, bipolar disorder as well as clients in the midst of a major life transition or grief. Many of my clients struggle to regulate their emotions. They either avoid emotions altogether or feel explosive or out of control of their emotions.
I treat clients who have difficulty with borderline personality disorder, depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, bipolar disorder as well as clients in the midst of a major life transition or grief. Many of my clients struggle to regulate their emotions. They either avoid emotions altogether or feel explosive or out of control of their emotions.
(925) 259-3408 View (925) 259-3408
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Sarini P. Ettigi
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
Have you ever felt that you were reeling after a big life transition; feeling trapped by the past yet unable to move forward? It's natural to harbor feelings of worry, loneliness, fear, and sadness in the wake of a big change. I excel in helping young adults navigating adulthood and professional life, anyone experiencing immigration or cultural issues, and individuals exploring their identity. I can help relieve depression, anxiety, insomnia, and PTSD, and help you get back on track with your life. By emphasizing present moment awareness and CBT skills I help you realize your authenticity in the here and now.
Have you ever felt that you were reeling after a big life transition; feeling trapped by the past yet unable to move forward? It's natural to harbor feelings of worry, loneliness, fear, and sadness in the wake of a big change. I excel in helping young adults navigating adulthood and professional life, anyone experiencing immigration or cultural issues, and individuals exploring their identity. I can help relieve depression, anxiety, insomnia, and PTSD, and help you get back on track with your life. By emphasizing present moment awareness and CBT skills I help you realize your authenticity in the here and now.
(919) 759-5308 x6 View (919) 759-5308 x6
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Peggy Widener
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
Feeling stressed, overwhelmed, unhappy or maybe just lost? Has your marriage gotten too hard? You are not alone. We all encounter difficult times throughout life and sometimes we need help. It is my belief that everyone can achieve the happiness that they desire but sometimes obstacles stand in our way. With a variety of techniques and support you will discover how to live your life to its greatest potential. My office will be a safe and secure place for you to focus on yourself and the goals that you want to achieve.
Feeling stressed, overwhelmed, unhappy or maybe just lost? Has your marriage gotten too hard? You are not alone. We all encounter difficult times throughout life and sometimes we need help. It is my belief that everyone can achieve the happiness that they desire but sometimes obstacles stand in our way. With a variety of techniques and support you will discover how to live your life to its greatest potential. My office will be a safe and secure place for you to focus on yourself and the goals that you want to achieve.
(919) 646-3288 View (919) 646-3288
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Arizona Danielle Faison
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
Welcome to my practice! Building a trusting and supportive therapeutic relationship is at the heart of my approach to counseling. I understand that taking the first step towards seeking help can be challenging, and I commend you for your courage. With a deep commitment to your well-being, I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly. My therapeutic style is empathetic, collaborative, and tailored to meet your unique needs and goals.
Welcome to my practice! Building a trusting and supportive therapeutic relationship is at the heart of my approach to counseling. I understand that taking the first step towards seeking help can be challenging, and I commend you for your courage. With a deep commitment to your well-being, I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly. My therapeutic style is empathetic, collaborative, and tailored to meet your unique needs and goals.
(984) 217-4817 View (984) 217-4817
Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.