Couples Counselling in Southend-on-Sea
Sian Elizabeth Hines
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
I can help you to reach the potential that you want and deserve to reach by helping you to understand your past, present and future. To help you to work through relationship problems, self esteem issues or letting go of the past. To enable you to see past blocks and obstacles so that you can control, minimise and eliminate any anxieties. To work with the negative emotions that you feel so that you can identify quickly what your emotions are telling you and then challenge them so that they do not control you. To magnify the positives and build on them for complete self confidence.
I can help you to reach the potential that you want and deserve to reach by helping you to understand your past, present and future. To help you to work through relationship problems, self esteem issues or letting go of the past. To enable you to see past blocks and obstacles so that you can control, minimise and eliminate any anxieties. To work with the negative emotions that you feel so that you can identify quickly what your emotions are telling you and then challenge them so that they do not control you. To magnify the positives and build on them for complete self confidence.
Jackie Morley
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
I am a qualified individual adult, couples and relationship therapist working with a specialisation in sex and relationships.
I have a background in Social Care where I worked with complex family and relationship issues. Through my experience I have come to understand how instrumental caring, supportive relationships are to reducing stress and increasing emotional well-being. It has led to a passion for working as a therapist to help people improve relationships, to feel connected to, heard and valued by spouses, partners, friends and family. Through resolving conflict, repairing hurt, anger and where you are able to let go of resentments it can lead to a healthier sex-life and sexual functioning.
I am a qualified individual adult, couples and relationship therapist working with a specialisation in sex and relationships.
I have a background in Social Care where I worked with complex family and relationship issues. Through my experience I have come to understand how instrumental caring, supportive relationships are to reducing stress and increasing emotional well-being. It has led to a passion for working as a therapist to help people improve relationships, to feel connected to, heard and valued by spouses, partners, friends and family. Through resolving conflict, repairing hurt, anger and where you are able to let go of resentments it can lead to a healthier sex-life and sexual functioning.
Wright Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS2
In your relationship do you experience a feeling that your arguments seem to be around the same issues? We may find that we are becoming over defensive from criticism, have fears of being alone, being hurt, of conflict or of your partner engulfing you as a person.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
In your relationship do you experience a feeling that your arguments seem to be around the same issues? We may find that we are becoming over defensive from criticism, have fears of being alone, being hurt, of conflict or of your partner engulfing you as a person.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
Musonda Mwila
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS1
As a Counsellor, I primarily work in a relational/integrative way drawing on interventions underpinned by psychodynamic and Humanistic theories including mindfulness. I offer individual counselling to adults and young people from the age of 16. As a Psychosexual Therapist I work with individual adults and couples presenting with a range of psychosexual difficulties. These include but not limited to loss of desire, vaginismus, painful sex, erectile and ejaculation difficulties, aging, menopause and orgasm difficulties. I am a Professional Associate of COSRT (4296 ) - working towards Registration.
As a Counsellor, I primarily work in a relational/integrative way drawing on interventions underpinned by psychodynamic and Humanistic theories including mindfulness. I offer individual counselling to adults and young people from the age of 16. As a Psychosexual Therapist I work with individual adults and couples presenting with a range of psychosexual difficulties. These include but not limited to loss of desire, vaginismus, painful sex, erectile and ejaculation difficulties, aging, menopause and orgasm difficulties. I am a Professional Associate of COSRT (4296 ) - working towards Registration.
Bukola Ruth Aina
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS2
I am a Therapeutic Counsellor NCPS Registered and BACP member dedicated to helping and supporting clients work through whatever challenges they may be facing. Whether you struggling with anxiety, trauma, depression, bereavement, emotional issues or relationship problems, or simply feeling stuck in life. I provide therapeutic counselling to support my clients every step of the way. I believe that everyone has the potential to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life, and I am committed to helping and supporting my clients achieve that. I will be glad to begin the journey to explore with you. Please feel free to call, email or text me.
I am a Therapeutic Counsellor NCPS Registered and BACP member dedicated to helping and supporting clients work through whatever challenges they may be facing. Whether you struggling with anxiety, trauma, depression, bereavement, emotional issues or relationship problems, or simply feeling stuck in life. I provide therapeutic counselling to support my clients every step of the way. I believe that everyone has the potential to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life, and I am committed to helping and supporting my clients achieve that. I will be glad to begin the journey to explore with you. Please feel free to call, email or text me.
Natasha Wellfare - The Wellness Project
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
Are you feeling overwhelmed and stuck? Maybe you have experienced a loss, relationship break-up or trauma? Or perhaps you are suffering from depression and anxiety and you can't quite find your way out of a hole? I hear you - and I think it's possible to guide you back to a more vibrant way of living. Transactional Analysis is a creative, evidence-based model of psychotherapy. Using all of the incredible tools TA has to offer and working with you as a unique individual, I believe we can get you thriving.
Are you feeling overwhelmed and stuck? Maybe you have experienced a loss, relationship break-up or trauma? Or perhaps you are suffering from depression and anxiety and you can't quite find your way out of a hole? I hear you - and I think it's possible to guide you back to a more vibrant way of living. Transactional Analysis is a creative, evidence-based model of psychotherapy. Using all of the incredible tools TA has to offer and working with you as a unique individual, I believe we can get you thriving.
Kay Marina Cohen Pncps (Acc.) Professional Accredited
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a professional accredited counsellor, experienced, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples / including psycho sexual; addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a professional accredited counsellor, experienced, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples / including psycho sexual; addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
Over The Rainbow Counselling
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS0
Hello and welcome, I am Marie, a person-centred counsellor. I am aware of how anxious you may feel asking for help, and coping with overwhelming feelings. Finding a safe, caring and non-judgemental space within a therapeutic relationship is the first step and a great relief. A space for you to explore your feelings, thoughts and experiences in an unbiased, supportive and confidential environment. I will help you to make sense of your past or present experiences, allowing you to become clear and confident.
Hello and welcome, I am Marie, a person-centred counsellor. I am aware of how anxious you may feel asking for help, and coping with overwhelming feelings. Finding a safe, caring and non-judgemental space within a therapeutic relationship is the first step and a great relief. A space for you to explore your feelings, thoughts and experiences in an unbiased, supportive and confidential environment. I will help you to make sense of your past or present experiences, allowing you to become clear and confident.
Cara Japon Mbacp Mbpss
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS1
I am a BACP registered Integrative Counsellor/Psychotherapist & Clinical Supervisor and a member of the BPS. I am trained in Person-Centred Counselling, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Psychodynamics. I specialise in Relationship and Family Counselling, Dementia and mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, work-related stress and breakdowns. I also have vast experience of bereavement counselling. I have many years experience (9+) of working with Carers/family members who care for their loved ones who are living with Dementia. When caring for a loved one, our own emotions and feelings can sometimes be forgotten.
I am a BACP registered Integrative Counsellor/Psychotherapist & Clinical Supervisor and a member of the BPS. I am trained in Person-Centred Counselling, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Psychodynamics. I specialise in Relationship and Family Counselling, Dementia and mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, work-related stress and breakdowns. I also have vast experience of bereavement counselling. I have many years experience (9+) of working with Carers/family members who care for their loved ones who are living with Dementia. When caring for a loved one, our own emotions and feelings can sometimes be forgotten.
Zac Gensberg
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
I'm Zac, I'm a counsellor, and I'm passionate about it. I've worked with a variety of presenting concerns in counselling, and whether it's anxiety, depression, stress, relationship issues, identity concerns, something else, or maybe you're not sure what it is, I'm here to support you in achieving your goals. My practice emphasises authenticity, equality, and you. Together we can set and achieve goals, and bring some peace and fulfilment to your life. I'm confident I can provide the necessary space to support you.
I'm Zac, I'm a counsellor, and I'm passionate about it. I've worked with a variety of presenting concerns in counselling, and whether it's anxiety, depression, stress, relationship issues, identity concerns, something else, or maybe you're not sure what it is, I'm here to support you in achieving your goals. My practice emphasises authenticity, equality, and you. Together we can set and achieve goals, and bring some peace and fulfilment to your life. I'm confident I can provide the necessary space to support you.
Yvette White
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS2
Counsellor Yvette White is an Anxiety and Depression Specialist. Online Face to face and Telephone sessions available. Health Anxiety and Stress management. Fully qualified Counsellor, registered with the BACP, EFT practitioner and Life Coach. I can assist you with a range of issues, problems and difficulties that you may be experiencing in your life such as Anxiety, Abuse, Loss, Death Anxiety, Divorce, Depression, Career path, Cancer support, Generalised Anxiety Disorder, Pain management, Panic Disorder, PTSD, Rape crisis, Relationship issues, Self harm and Low self esteem.
Counsellor Yvette White is an Anxiety and Depression Specialist. Online Face to face and Telephone sessions available. Health Anxiety and Stress management. Fully qualified Counsellor, registered with the BACP, EFT practitioner and Life Coach. I can assist you with a range of issues, problems and difficulties that you may be experiencing in your life such as Anxiety, Abuse, Loss, Death Anxiety, Divorce, Depression, Career path, Cancer support, Generalised Anxiety Disorder, Pain management, Panic Disorder, PTSD, Rape crisis, Relationship issues, Self harm and Low self esteem.
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Piece Together Counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
In our lives we may find that we are self-justifying ourselves from criticism, being afraid of being alone, hurt or your partner swamping you as a person.
At times do you feel overwhelmed by what life throws at you? Is stress making you unable to make decisions? Are you a person who rebukes themselves for making a wrong decision? Are you your own worst critic? Have you noticed that patterns in life are continually repeating themselves? By becoming aware of these cycles, you will be able to prepare yourself with strategies that can break the cycle of repetition that can lead you to becoming empowered in life, taking away the fear of being embarrassed or shamed. I can help you look at making changes and find a way that is customised to support and establish a way forward for.
In our lives we may find that we are self-justifying ourselves from criticism, being afraid of being alone, hurt or your partner swamping you as a person.
At times do you feel overwhelmed by what life throws at you? Is stress making you unable to make decisions? Are you a person who rebukes themselves for making a wrong decision? Are you your own worst critic? Have you noticed that patterns in life are continually repeating themselves? By becoming aware of these cycles, you will be able to prepare yourself with strategies that can break the cycle of repetition that can lead you to becoming empowered in life, taking away the fear of being embarrassed or shamed. I can help you look at making changes and find a way that is customised to support and establish a way forward for.
Dr Christopher McCormack
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS1
I am a Clinical Psychologist who offers psychological assessment and treatment for a wide range of difficulties. In my NHS posts, I work in an HIV & Sexual Health service and a specialist mental health team that provides input to inpatients and outpatients struggling with physical health problems. I am particularly experienced at seeing people and couples presenting with sexual difficulties, such as painful sex or unreliable erections. I also have a specialist interest in anxiety disorders and the application of cognitive behavioural therapy in its treatment.
I am a Clinical Psychologist who offers psychological assessment and treatment for a wide range of difficulties. In my NHS posts, I work in an HIV & Sexual Health service and a specialist mental health team that provides input to inpatients and outpatients struggling with physical health problems. I am particularly experienced at seeing people and couples presenting with sexual difficulties, such as painful sex or unreliable erections. I also have a specialist interest in anxiety disorders and the application of cognitive behavioural therapy in its treatment.
Ky Harkins Life Counselling Services
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS2
I offer counselling services for various different issues including anxiety, stress, depression, trauma, abuse, panic attacks, OCD, couples counselling, narcissistic abuse etc.
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
I offer counselling services for various different issues including anxiety, stress, depression, trauma, abuse, panic attacks, OCD, couples counselling, narcissistic abuse etc.
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
The Henry Centre
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
The Henry Centre is a private counselling and psychotherapy centre based at Westcliff Station. We help busy individuals, couples and families to explore and work through any challenges they may be experiencing. We will support you in overcoming these challenges to help you live the life you would like to promoting good mental health and well-being. We have an experienced, friendly team that will make sure they provide the highest possible standard of care. We will respond to enquiries and provide an appointment within 48 hours.
The Henry Centre is a private counselling and psychotherapy centre based at Westcliff Station. We help busy individuals, couples and families to explore and work through any challenges they may be experiencing. We will support you in overcoming these challenges to help you live the life you would like to promoting good mental health and well-being. We have an experienced, friendly team that will make sure they provide the highest possible standard of care. We will respond to enquiries and provide an appointment within 48 hours.
Jenna Harrison
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS2
No two people are the same and their therapeutic journey and relationship with myself is no exception.
No one person is immune to the difficulties, stresses and strains that life can challenge us with. Do you feel you need help? Do you Want someone to talk to? Counselling provides you with a safe place where you can feel heard, understood, respected and accepted. We will explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and issues. This can enable us to move forward. To live a life of fulfillment, acceptance to reach your best potential and find peace within that. First session is used to explore what counselling is like in more depth. This enables me to understand your wants and needs for us to move forward together.
No two people are the same and their therapeutic journey and relationship with myself is no exception.
No one person is immune to the difficulties, stresses and strains that life can challenge us with. Do you feel you need help? Do you Want someone to talk to? Counselling provides you with a safe place where you can feel heard, understood, respected and accepted. We will explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and issues. This can enable us to move forward. To live a life of fulfillment, acceptance to reach your best potential and find peace within that. First session is used to explore what counselling is like in more depth. This enables me to understand your wants and needs for us to move forward together.
Taner Paul Hassan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS0
Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist. I work with Couples, Adults, Teenagers, Professional Athletes & People in the public eye. Assisting in many presenting issues. Specialist Area of Expertise: Sex & Porn Addiction, Substance Misuse & Alcohol, Addiction. It is important that whoever you seek help from you give yourself the chance to work through your issues and become your own scientist. I will never tell you what to do but help guide you and explore your issues together to help you achieve your goals.
Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist. I work with Couples, Adults, Teenagers, Professional Athletes & People in the public eye. Assisting in many presenting issues. Specialist Area of Expertise: Sex & Porn Addiction, Substance Misuse & Alcohol, Addiction. It is important that whoever you seek help from you give yourself the chance to work through your issues and become your own scientist. I will never tell you what to do but help guide you and explore your issues together to help you achieve your goals.
Terry Smith
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS1
I am experienced in dealing with issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, alcohol/substance misuse, & relationship difficulties.
If this is your first time coming into therapy, welcome. I know it can be daunting, but please remember you’ve made a decision to help yourself and that is a massive step in itself. Living these days can be very difficult for some people on a daily basis without any other stress, pressure, demands, anxiety, or feelings of being overwhelming coming into the mix. We all need a little help from time to time and I am here to help you not have to carry those heavy burdens alone. My main focus is on you; your aims, your truth, the real you, you feel you longer can be and how we can work together to get you back on track.
I am experienced in dealing with issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, alcohol/substance misuse, & relationship difficulties.
If this is your first time coming into therapy, welcome. I know it can be daunting, but please remember you’ve made a decision to help yourself and that is a massive step in itself. Living these days can be very difficult for some people on a daily basis without any other stress, pressure, demands, anxiety, or feelings of being overwhelming coming into the mix. We all need a little help from time to time and I am here to help you not have to carry those heavy burdens alone. My main focus is on you; your aims, your truth, the real you, you feel you longer can be and how we can work together to get you back on track.
Nomsa Sandra Wayland
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS2
I am an integrative therapist who values the inner strength it takes one to be vulnerable whilst sharing their lived experience. My focus is to try and walk in one's world. Therefore I value every person I speak to with respect for who they are and how they have got to where they are. I refrain from judging you and provide a source of complete acceptance and support. You will lead the conversation, and I will not attempt to steer you in any direction; instead, I offer a safe, confidential, non-judgemental environment for you to explore and talk about any difficulties you may be experiencing.
I am an integrative therapist who values the inner strength it takes one to be vulnerable whilst sharing their lived experience. My focus is to try and walk in one's world. Therefore I value every person I speak to with respect for who they are and how they have got to where they are. I refrain from judging you and provide a source of complete acceptance and support. You will lead the conversation, and I will not attempt to steer you in any direction; instead, I offer a safe, confidential, non-judgemental environment for you to explore and talk about any difficulties you may be experiencing.
Farah Mitha
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Southend-on-Sea SS1
Farah has over 18 years clinical experience of working both in the NHS and private sector, providing evidence based psychological treatment and guidance tailoring her approach to the individual clients needs. These may be short term goals, that lend themselves to briefer therapy, or longer-term goals leading to more in-depth exploration of longer standing issues. Her clinical expereince include a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties from mild depression and anxiety, to complex trauma, with a special interest in OCD. She is able to offer specialised trauma treatment for PTSD in the form of EMDR.
Farah has over 18 years clinical experience of working both in the NHS and private sector, providing evidence based psychological treatment and guidance tailoring her approach to the individual clients needs. These may be short term goals, that lend themselves to briefer therapy, or longer-term goals leading to more in-depth exploration of longer standing issues. Her clinical expereince include a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties from mild depression and anxiety, to complex trauma, with a special interest in OCD. She is able to offer specialised trauma treatment for PTSD in the form of EMDR.
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Couples Counselling
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.