Counselling in Southend-on-Sea
I'm a Counselling Psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and British Psychological Society (BPS). I have over 14 years experience of offering therapeutic interventions working in the prison service and in the NHS and am now working in private practice. My approach to therapy encourages compassion and self acceptance while also helping people to develop a deeper understanding of themselves. Using this information people can then consider whether change needs to occur and we can work together to make this change.
I'm a Counselling Psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and British Psychological Society (BPS). I have over 14 years experience of offering therapeutic interventions working in the prison service and in the NHS and am now working in private practice. My approach to therapy encourages compassion and self acceptance while also helping people to develop a deeper understanding of themselves. Using this information people can then consider whether change needs to occur and we can work together to make this change.
As someone who has suffered from anxiety in the past and who has a son with ADHD, I understand how these problems affect clients and the frustration they cause. I recognise that clients want to learn how to reduce and control their symptoms so that they can lead a more fulfilling and functional life.
As someone who has suffered from anxiety in the past and who has a son with ADHD, I understand how these problems affect clients and the frustration they cause. I recognise that clients want to learn how to reduce and control their symptoms so that they can lead a more fulfilling and functional life.
Experiencing the loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging and profound moments in life. Lightwell Counselling is a private (fee-paying) counselling service supporting people across Essex through the darkness of bereavement and into the light of recovery.
Our private counselling service is open to anyone aged 18 or over living in Essex who is struggling to cope with the loss of a loved one. We use an expert team of qualified staff to deliver our services and help manage the complex emotions around death and dying.
Experiencing the loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging and profound moments in life. Lightwell Counselling is a private (fee-paying) counselling service supporting people across Essex through the darkness of bereavement and into the light of recovery.
Our private counselling service is open to anyone aged 18 or over living in Essex who is struggling to cope with the loss of a loved one. We use an expert team of qualified staff to deliver our services and help manage the complex emotions around death and dying.
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
My name is Oluwabukola Ruth Aina, and I am qualified therapeutic counsellor, an accredited member of National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and a member of British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP).
I believe that being truly heard can be one of the most powerful and healing experiences a person can have. In a world where many people feel the need to hide their struggles, I offers a space where you can be open, honest, and accepted without judgement. Providing a calm and compassionate environment where you can explore your thoughts and emotions safely and at your own pace.
My name is Oluwabukola Ruth Aina, and I am qualified therapeutic counsellor, an accredited member of National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and a member of British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP).
I believe that being truly heard can be one of the most powerful and healing experiences a person can have. In a world where many people feel the need to hide their struggles, I offers a space where you can be open, honest, and accepted without judgement. Providing a calm and compassionate environment where you can explore your thoughts and emotions safely and at your own pace.
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Do you have a physical health issue that you are struggling to manage, that you feel is impacting upon your mood and overall quality of life?
Or maybe you are noticing that you are simply feeling very low in mood or depressed, or are struggling with low confidence or low self-esteem... Or alternatively, maybe you are noticing an increase in anxiety - even experiencing panic attacks, flashbacks or nightmares of past events?
Whatever you are experiencing of these, I can offer friendly and professional support to help you work through your difficulties and find the way forward that is right for you.
Hello, and welcome to my page.
Do you have a physical health issue that you are struggling to manage, that you feel is impacting upon your mood and overall quality of life?
Or maybe you are noticing that you are simply feeling very low in mood or depressed, or are struggling with low confidence or low self-esteem... Or alternatively, maybe you are noticing an increase in anxiety - even experiencing panic attacks, flashbacks or nightmares of past events?
Whatever you are experiencing of these, I can offer friendly and professional support to help you work through your difficulties and find the way forward that is right for you.
Are you carrying the pain of grief, the weight of codependency, or the uncertainty of big life changes, such as moving abroad? You may feel lost, disconnected, or overwhelmed by your emotions, yet you hold a quiet hope for relief and a new beginning. Do you long to feel understood and supported, release old patterns, and rediscover your own strength and clarity? As a person-centred counsellor, I work holistically using life coaching, mindfulness, and sometimes sound healing to help you feel more grounded, build healthier relationships, and regain a sense of balance, purpose, and belonging.
Are you carrying the pain of grief, the weight of codependency, or the uncertainty of big life changes, such as moving abroad? You may feel lost, disconnected, or overwhelmed by your emotions, yet you hold a quiet hope for relief and a new beginning. Do you long to feel understood and supported, release old patterns, and rediscover your own strength and clarity? As a person-centred counsellor, I work holistically using life coaching, mindfulness, and sometimes sound healing to help you feel more grounded, build healthier relationships, and regain a sense of balance, purpose, and belonging.
My name is Natasha and I run The Wellness Project. I help individuals and couples to find a more vibrant and easeful way of life. I believe that if we work to understand your unique psychological make-up, with an appropriate level of support and challenge, change is possible. I consider us equally important in the process and will help you to feel comfortable - always working from a place of kindness and respect. My core training is in Transactional Analysis - however, I have significant post qualification training and consider myself to work integratively, drawing on lots of different theories and skills to best help my clients.
My name is Natasha and I run The Wellness Project. I help individuals and couples to find a more vibrant and easeful way of life. I believe that if we work to understand your unique psychological make-up, with an appropriate level of support and challenge, change is possible. I consider us equally important in the process and will help you to feel comfortable - always working from a place of kindness and respect. My core training is in Transactional Analysis - however, I have significant post qualification training and consider myself to work integratively, drawing on lots of different theories and skills to best help my clients.
I am a fully qualified Child, Adolescent and Family Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with over 20 years’ experience supporting children, young people, and their families. I understand how worrying it can be when a child or teenager is struggling, and I aim to offer a calm, thoughtful space where difficulties can be understood and worked through at a pace that feels safe.
Families often choose psychodynamic psychotherapy when they are seeking a deeper understanding of their child’s emotional world and patterns of relating. This approach supports meaningful, long-term change by exploring underlying experiences and relationships...
I am a fully qualified Child, Adolescent and Family Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with over 20 years’ experience supporting children, young people, and their families. I understand how worrying it can be when a child or teenager is struggling, and I aim to offer a calm, thoughtful space where difficulties can be understood and worked through at a pace that feels safe.
Families often choose psychodynamic psychotherapy when they are seeking a deeper understanding of their child’s emotional world and patterns of relating. This approach supports meaningful, long-term change by exploring underlying experiences and relationships...
My ideal client is someone seeking clarity, connection, and support in navigating life’s challenges. They may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, and want a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts and emotions. Their goal is to understand themselves better, build healthier relationships, and develop practical strategies to improve wellbeing. They want guidance that is compassionate, relatable, and actionable—help that empowers them to feel seen, heard, and in control of their life.
My ideal client is someone seeking clarity, connection, and support in navigating life’s challenges. They may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, and want a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts and emotions. Their goal is to understand themselves better, build healthier relationships, and develop practical strategies to improve wellbeing. They want guidance that is compassionate, relatable, and actionable—help that empowers them to feel seen, heard, and in control of their life.
"The hardest step is making the call, the most rewarding step is knowing that you're in control again." Welcome, my name is Simon, I am a highly qualified friendly experienced Counsellor. I am a accredited member of the BACP and follow the ethical framework. I have worked successfully with individuals from various backgrounds and ages around Essex for a number of years. What I can offer you is a safe space that is confidential and nonjudgmental where you can truly be listened to and within that space we together can explore and find the answers you are searching for.
"The hardest step is making the call, the most rewarding step is knowing that you're in control again." Welcome, my name is Simon, I am a highly qualified friendly experienced Counsellor. I am a accredited member of the BACP and follow the ethical framework. I have worked successfully with individuals from various backgrounds and ages around Essex for a number of years. What I can offer you is a safe space that is confidential and nonjudgmental where you can truly be listened to and within that space we together can explore and find the answers you are searching for.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
Dr Nomsa Sandra Wayland
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
2 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS2
As a qualified psychologist who offers a holistic, integrative approach to therapy that acknowledges the interconnectedness of mental, emotional, physical, social, and cultural influences on well-being, my work is grounded in Western and non-western psychological theories, allowing me to tailor therapy to each client’s unique background, needs, and worldview. Most of my clients seek therapy because they feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from others. I am passionate about creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their experiences, have clarity in their thoughts and emotions.
As a qualified psychologist who offers a holistic, integrative approach to therapy that acknowledges the interconnectedness of mental, emotional, physical, social, and cultural influences on well-being, my work is grounded in Western and non-western psychological theories, allowing me to tailor therapy to each client’s unique background, needs, and worldview. Most of my clients seek therapy because they feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from others. I am passionate about creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their experiences, have clarity in their thoughts and emotions.
I am a BACP Accredited therapist with a wealth of life experience, as well as experience with counselling people going through a wide range of emotional life events. You do not have to do this on your own. The first step is the hardest and that is to make the call to reach out for help. I offer sessions via telephone, video, or face-to-face. I am A qualified EMDR therapist . Please contact me for more information.
I am a BACP Accredited therapist with a wealth of life experience, as well as experience with counselling people going through a wide range of emotional life events. You do not have to do this on your own. The first step is the hardest and that is to make the call to reach out for help. I offer sessions via telephone, video, or face-to-face. I am A qualified EMDR therapist . Please contact me for more information.
Welcome , as someone who knows what it is like personally to be both client and therapist, I feel I can offer you an opportunity to explore yourself, your thoughts, feelings and emotions and what is happening in your life, in a space where all of you is welcome. I believe that we are all unique and the experts in our life and when we find ourselves troubled, counselling can be extremely beneficial . By exploring ourselves , we gain awareness which ultimately can lead to change helping us move in a direction true to ourselves.
Welcome , as someone who knows what it is like personally to be both client and therapist, I feel I can offer you an opportunity to explore yourself, your thoughts, feelings and emotions and what is happening in your life, in a space where all of you is welcome. I believe that we are all unique and the experts in our life and when we find ourselves troubled, counselling can be extremely beneficial . By exploring ourselves , we gain awareness which ultimately can lead to change helping us move in a direction true to ourselves.
Hi I'm Denise, i am a counsellor passionate about Neurodiverse minds including ADHD, Autism, Dyslexia and any kind of mind that just thinks a little differently. I get it because i live it too, i work in a very visual way, where you are heard, seen and understood, my Neurodiverse knowledge allows me to see things from a Neurodiverse perspective. Are you feeling scared of facing the reality of what is happening for you ? Knowing you want to feel better but just don't know where to start to get help. Are you feeling like there is no way out of these feelings ? Therapy provides an outsiders perspective, a space to talk, feel safe.
Hi I'm Denise, i am a counsellor passionate about Neurodiverse minds including ADHD, Autism, Dyslexia and any kind of mind that just thinks a little differently. I get it because i live it too, i work in a very visual way, where you are heard, seen and understood, my Neurodiverse knowledge allows me to see things from a Neurodiverse perspective. Are you feeling scared of facing the reality of what is happening for you ? Knowing you want to feel better but just don't know where to start to get help. Are you feeling like there is no way out of these feelings ? Therapy provides an outsiders perspective, a space to talk, feel safe.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, offering both online and face-to-face therapy sessions. With specialist training and clinical experience with a Relate service, I have a strong background in couples therapy, supporting partners through a wide range of relationship challenges. My therapeutic approach is client-centred and integrative, drawing on Psychodynamic Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness, and Sensate Focus to support behavioural change, enhance communication, and improve sexual functioning.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, offering both online and face-to-face therapy sessions. With specialist training and clinical experience with a Relate service, I have a strong background in couples therapy, supporting partners through a wide range of relationship challenges. My therapeutic approach is client-centred and integrative, drawing on Psychodynamic Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness, and Sensate Focus to support behavioural change, enhance communication, and improve sexual functioning.
I’m interested in what works for you. I offer bespoke online therapy services tailored specifically for you. Whether you’re with me for counselling, long term psychodynamic therapy, or couple’s counselling, I’ll tailor my approach to meet your needs. I offer an honest, judgement-free approach and I can assist you in gaining a deeper understanding of yourself.
I’m interested in what works for you. I offer bespoke online therapy services tailored specifically for you. Whether you’re with me for counselling, long term psychodynamic therapy, or couple’s counselling, I’ll tailor my approach to meet your needs. I offer an honest, judgement-free approach and I can assist you in gaining a deeper understanding of yourself.
Life can bring us many difficulties, challenges, issues, stresses and anxieties. It can also bring many over whelming feelings such as pain, anger, sadness, hopelessness, guilt and regret. I am a gentle, emphathic, non judgmental counsellor; I see myself as a down to earth regular person and believe in talking to people on their own level.
Life can bring us many difficulties, challenges, issues, stresses and anxieties. It can also bring many over whelming feelings such as pain, anger, sadness, hopelessness, guilt and regret. I am a gentle, emphathic, non judgmental counsellor; I see myself as a down to earth regular person and believe in talking to people on their own level.
Hi, I’m Carl. I am an integrative counsellor, which means I draw on different therapeutic approaches depending on your needs. My work is grounded in person-centred therapy, so sessions focus on your experience and what feels most important to you. You might be seeking individual counselling (17+), or relationship counselling (partners, couples and families). I commonly work with anxiety, stress, depression, grief, imposter syndrome and relationship problems. Clients also come with life transitions, compulsive behaviours such as porn addiction, doom-scrolling or avoidance, or a desire to understand themselves or each other better.
Hi, I’m Carl. I am an integrative counsellor, which means I draw on different therapeutic approaches depending on your needs. My work is grounded in person-centred therapy, so sessions focus on your experience and what feels most important to you. You might be seeking individual counselling (17+), or relationship counselling (partners, couples and families). I commonly work with anxiety, stress, depression, grief, imposter syndrome and relationship problems. Clients also come with life transitions, compulsive behaviours such as porn addiction, doom-scrolling or avoidance, or a desire to understand themselves or each other better.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Southend-on-Sea
90+
Average cost per session
£60
Counsellors in Southend-on-Sea who prioritize treating:
| 95% | Anxiety |
| 88% | Self Esteem |
| 83% | Depression |
| 75% | Relationship Issues |
| 74% | Stress |
| 64% | Bereavement |
| 58% | Trauma and PTSD |
Average years in practice
10 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 64% | Aviva |
| 60% | AXA PPP |
| 52% | Vitality |
How Counsellors in Southend-on-Sea see their clients
| 89% | In Person and Online | |
| 11% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 81% | Female | |
| 18% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Southend-on-Sea?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.
