Counselling in Oxted

Alice de Villiers (Nee von Klemperer)
Psychologist, MA
Verified
Verified
Sometimes we are drawn to therapy because of a particular incident, difficulty or question and at other times it may be a less obvious tension. This can cause us to feel overwhelmed by uncomfortable emotions, numb and on ‘autopilot’ or on a constant rollercoaster between the two and the effect of this can be felt in our relationships with others and how we see ourselves. Exploring the dynamics underpinning our current state can allow us clarity to see the extent to which they are useful to us, and as a result of this choose, how vigorously (if at all) we want to change them.

Franciane Conroy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Verified
Hello, I am Fran, an experienced counsellor here to listen and help with life struggles. I provide a warm, safe, and non-judgemental space where you can talk and explore your feelings. My aim is to give clients voice to be themselves and I can help you feel comfortable, care and secure to build a genuine therapeutic relationship. Get in touch with any questions or to set up an initial, no obligation, 30 minutes session.
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Kamila Markusova
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified
Verified
Hello and warm welcome. There may be many reasons why you are reading this. Perhaps you are feeling low, depressed, anxious, confused, overwhelmed, betrayed, angry, or simply stuck. I understand that first steps towards finding help can feel unsettling or even daunting. The good news is, that by having a look around, you are already on your way. I am an experienced therapist with over 9 years of experience in voluntary, academic, NHS and private settings. I believe we all have an in-built ability to reach our full potential - to live a fulfilling life - and therapy can help with rediscovering and making full use of this ability.

Catherine S Taylor
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified
Verified
I work as a Complex Trauma/Childhood Abuse & Relationship Therapist, supporting individuals/couples who are "stuck" and experience menopause; high anxiety; anger; menopause, stress and distress around a life events, especially if you have a learning disability or autism. Therapy with me is about managing and reducing the impact. If it is not dealt with sooner, it can trigger hidden deeper issues related to past events related to unspeakable trauma, childhood abuse or dissociation (a sense of detachment from your former self), or even suicidal thoughts, identity issues "Who am I?" This can involve extreme feelings of shame and guilt.

Carol Maynard Psychotherapy & Counselling
I WORK WITH; adults, couples & young people. MY WORK COVERS; family & childhood, health issues, body aches & pains, eating, addiction, depression, anxiety, stress, trauma, PTSD, Complex PTSD, abuse, relationships, codependency, marriage, divorce & separation.

Katherine Ward
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified
Verified
I am a warm and caring Relate trained counsellor. I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy. Maybe you've been growing apart, or something has happened that has disturbed the core of your relationship? Or you're an individual questioning whether you can be in a/ or any relationship. You don't have to face these issues alone. Sometimes counselling isn't about reaching a conclusion, it can be the start a longer process. The important thing to recognise is that the moment you have got in contact; you will begin to move forward. I counsel on a general level too. You can see my availability on my website.

Erica Jane Ruse Whalley
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified
Verified
Hi, sometimes it no longer seems enough to talk to friends or family, and we need further support and insight to get back on track. I work with adults, teenagers and children, offering a range of therapeutic methods, to find which suit you best. I am a fully trained and accredited Counsellor with the British Assiciation of Counselling and Psychologists, I am trained in person centred, Psycho- dynamic and CBT and I offer many creative techniques such as Jungian Kallffian Sandplay which is a gentle but extremely effective way of working with children, teenagers and adults. I would really like to hear from you, please send a text (0781 209 7293) or email (stillvoice.ej@gmail.com) so that we can arrange a time for an initial phone call to discuss how I can help you.

David Butlin
Psychotherapist, BPC
Verified
Verified
You may be finding life difficult or painful. This may be due to a relationship problem or something that you experienced in the past. You may feel you can barely cope with the demands and responsibilities of life. You may be suffering from low mood or a general sense of dissatisfaction. You may feel a sense of bereavement or loss. Perhaps you are aware of being angry a lot of the time. You could have noticed patterns of behaviour in your life and you wonder why. You may feel you have issues connected with spirituality or religion. These feelings and thoughts can be explored in the safety and containment of counselling.

Natalie Kanakam
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified
Verified
Dr Natalie Kanakam is a Senior Clinical Psychologist with a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and a PhD in psychological medicine. She has worked with adults, families, couples, children and young people and currently works at Great Ormond Street Hospital. She has worked with and provided Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and behavioural interventions for people who have eating disorders, autism, anxiety, depression, medically unexplained symptoms and Tourette's syndrome. Natalie also offers learning assessments for school children using neuropsychological testing.
Office is near:
Oxted RH8 & Online

Sarah Warrington
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Verified
Hi, my name is Sarah. I believe that for counselling to be successful, It is important to find the right person for you. Someone you can connect with and feel comfortable and secure opening up to. You will need to feel you can discuss your feelings, in confidence without being judged. The feedback I get, is that people quickly feel at ease with me and are able to talk easily and freely in a secure environment.

Colin James Campbell-Dunlop
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Verified
I work with adult individuals and couples. Sometimes we find challenges in life be they with relationships, a loss or bereavement or difficulties with work. Stress, anxiety and low mood can all impact how we engage with life and it can be helpful to discuss these matters in a safe, non-judgemental and confidential setting. If you would like to address any difficulties that you might be facing and to establish a way forward for you Counselling may be the solution for you. I have an established practices in Kent and West Sussex working from two locations in Westerham TN16 and Emsworth PO10

Paul Lipman
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a BACP registered therapist, inspired by my therapy, with over 14yrs experience in helping couples, and also individuals with, severe or longterm difficulties, and I'm committed to providing therapy which delivers lasting tangible benefits: emotionally, behaviourally, practically and mentally. I offer in-depth Integrative counselling which is both gentle and powerful as it draws from all mainstream therapies and psychology, meaning I can tailor help and is effective with most difficulties inc: Anxiety, Constant worry, Anger, Low mood,Self hatred, Confused feelings, Critical thinking., Self harm and Emotional eating.

Daniel Goldberg
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MNCS Prof Accred
Verified
Verified
For the last 25 years, I have been involved in the rich and creative dialogue between depth psychological and meditative approaches to personal growth, emotional healing, and spiritual transformation. I’ve been a therapist for 23 years now . My special areas of interest are mid life crisis and beyond DEPRESSION, drug and alcohol dependence and Relationships . I worked as a bereavement counsellor for St Catherine’s hospice for four years and hence have valuable experience in this area . Narcissistic Pd. Anxiety disorders . Alcohol snd Drug addiction. Sex addiction Couple Counselling. Gas lighting snd abusive Relationship. Porn addic

Lindsey Tull
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified
Verified
I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.

Louise Gulley
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Verified
I work with RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES. So, whether you're: a mother struggling in your relationship with your child or motherhood itself; a couple in crisis; experiencing recurring relationship problems; or still searching for that elusive romantic relationship I’m keen to work with you. I work with both individuals and couples; and I can discuss with you which one of these may be the best fit for you. I find that by exploring your personal history we can often discover the root cause of your challenges so you can begin to enjoy intimacy and connection.

Kirsty Rollings
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified
Verified
I'm an experienced BACP registered counsellor, working with individuals. I also have extensive experience working with teenagers and young adults. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, empathic environment in which to work with clients. I use a range of therapeutic approaches, therefore I will tailor our work in a way that best fits you. I will work at your pace and we can work on self awareness, insight and understanding. Together we will work through any difficult emotions and struggles, to enable positive change.
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Gordon Wax
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Verified
Verified
Hi, my name is Gordon. Welcome! I’m an experienced counsellor based in East London, working both online and in person. I was born and raised in London. Personal therapy helped me to untangle my relationship with myself and my emotions. The world alone is a chaotic place to manage our own unknowns, anxieties, and traumas. I understand that everyone experiences the world in different ways, so unique problems require bespoke responses. Our lives are constantly changing, so it’s natural to feel emotions strongly, think differently and respond atypically. I help clients explore all spheres of their life to help build hope and cope

Susannah Hebden Dip.Couns Bacp Accred
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified
Verified
I am a trauma informed counsellor based in Epsom, Surrey. I provide a relaxed, friendly, non judgemental environment for clients to explore and work through issues that may be proving problematic, in a safe and confidential space. I will listen to what you would like to achieve from our time together and explore what you feel to be most relevant in each session. I use both traditional and creative therapeutic methods and will be guided by what suits you. I offer both face to face and online counselling sessions. Please feel free to call/email me in the first instance to discuss your needs in complete confidence.

Sheila Lewis
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Verified
I am a qualified and registered BACP Counsellor. I specialise in Psychodynamic counselling with adults. With our busy lifestyles, I offer much flexibility, as sessions are geared according to your needs, either in person, online or over the telephone. In addition to running a private practice, I have over 25 years of experience, working with various client groups, within the Mental Health and Social Care sectors.
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Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online or over the phone can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counsellors are all licensed mental health professionals. In many countries, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counsellor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counsellors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
What type of therapist is right for me?
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counsellor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors. Many have been licensed by the country where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counselling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.