Counselling in Merstham

Jeremy Parsons
Counsellor, PTUK
Serves Area
I offer play therapy or talk therapy sessions for individuals or groups, with sessions tailored to helping overcome trauma, abuse, low self esteem and helping improve emotional regulation.
I offer play therapy or talk therapy sessions for individuals or groups, with sessions tailored to helping overcome trauma, abuse, low self esteem and helping improve emotional regulation.
01737 301482 View 01737 301482
Psychotherapy Surrey Hills
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
We seek psychological help for many reasons. Not only can psychological therapy help when life feels intolerably difficult, but it can also make an “ok” life more fulfilling. Therapy can help to reduce emotional suffering, support change, and promote personal growth. It is a collaborative process and the insight gained can help us look at life from a different perspective and enable us to respond differently to life’s challenges. People often seek support when they are facing life transitions or feel stuck in their lives.
We seek psychological help for many reasons. Not only can psychological therapy help when life feels intolerably difficult, but it can also make an “ok” life more fulfilling. Therapy can help to reduce emotional suffering, support change, and promote personal growth. It is a collaborative process and the insight gained can help us look at life from a different perspective and enable us to respond differently to life’s challenges. People often seek support when they are facing life transitions or feel stuck in their lives.
01737 924407 View 01737 924407
Ashley Lowings
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you experiencing difficulties in your life and feel you need someone to talk to? Perhaps you’re going through a challenging time and would like some support to understand how you’re feeling and find a way forward. I am a qualified and experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist, offering a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space where you can talk openly and be heard. I have experience supporting people with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship difficulties, low self-confidence, anger, loneliness and bereavement.
Are you experiencing difficulties in your life and feel you need someone to talk to? Perhaps you’re going through a challenging time and would like some support to understand how you’re feeling and find a way forward. I am a qualified and experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist, offering a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space where you can talk openly and be heard. I have experience supporting people with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship difficulties, low self-confidence, anger, loneliness and bereavement.
01737 924974 View 01737 924974
Samantha Parsons
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
There may be times in life where you feel that you are on your own, and you put a brave face on because you don't want to burden others for fear that they won't understand what you're going through. As a Therapist I would like to provide the safe space for you to explore these feelings. Hello, my name is Sam, I am a qualified experienced Counsellor practising in Horley & Coulsdon areas of Surrey. As a counsellor I aim to provide a warm, empathic, non-judgmental, safe space to listen, reflect and provide emotional support. I offer an external relationship away from distractions to focus on you.
There may be times in life where you feel that you are on your own, and you put a brave face on because you don't want to burden others for fear that they won't understand what you're going through. As a Therapist I would like to provide the safe space for you to explore these feelings. Hello, my name is Sam, I am a qualified experienced Counsellor practising in Horley & Coulsdon areas of Surrey. As a counsellor I aim to provide a warm, empathic, non-judgmental, safe space to listen, reflect and provide emotional support. I offer an external relationship away from distractions to focus on you.
01260 541562 View 01260 541562

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Mic Austen
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Serves Area
I am a Trauma-informed, accredited UKCP psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner with 20+ yrs experience. I work with symptoms: depression, anxiety, sleeplessness, panic attacks, mistrust, hypervigilance, hopelessness, self-destructive behaviour, loss of sense of self. These are all symptoms of something deeper and we can work to alleviate these symptoms by working with the deeper issues that cause these. These symptoms are often caused by: abuse - sexual, psychological or emotional; neglect; loss; relationships; bullying; illness and many other 'normal' life events which can leave us not living our life fully.
I am a Trauma-informed, accredited UKCP psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner with 20+ yrs experience. I work with symptoms: depression, anxiety, sleeplessness, panic attacks, mistrust, hypervigilance, hopelessness, self-destructive behaviour, loss of sense of self. These are all symptoms of something deeper and we can work to alleviate these symptoms by working with the deeper issues that cause these. These symptoms are often caused by: abuse - sexual, psychological or emotional; neglect; loss; relationships; bullying; illness and many other 'normal' life events which can leave us not living our life fully.
07445 672295 View 07445 672295
Sheridan Parsons
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Accred
Tonbridge TN10
Hello, and welcome. With over 25 years of experience, I offer a safe, compassionate space for individuals navigating bereavement, trauma, and loss. I understand that these experiences can often feel overwhelming. I work compassionately and collaboratively to support you at your own pace. My approach is grounded in empathy, respect, and a belief in your capacity to heal and find meaning, even in the most difficult times. Whether you are coping with the loss of a loved one, processing past or recent trauma, or struggling with life changes, together we will explore different ways to support you in the short and long term.
Hello, and welcome. With over 25 years of experience, I offer a safe, compassionate space for individuals navigating bereavement, trauma, and loss. I understand that these experiences can often feel overwhelming. I work compassionately and collaboratively to support you at your own pace. My approach is grounded in empathy, respect, and a belief in your capacity to heal and find meaning, even in the most difficult times. Whether you are coping with the loss of a loved one, processing past or recent trauma, or struggling with life changes, together we will explore different ways to support you in the short and long term.
01892 574330 View 01892 574330
Lynsey Rous
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Westerham TN16
I know how painful it can be to sit with your own thoughts. In the silence, without distraction. It can feel deafening & overwhelming. No one will feel or hear them like you. It can be a lonely & isolating place up there in your own head. What have you told yourself today? That you're not good enough? That you should be coping better? How do you cope with the anxiety, guilt & shaming thoughts? Coping strategies can be found when exploring painful thoughts & feelings with a professional who understands the struggle. I can help you to understand & process emotions and make sense of the physical & emotional overwhelm you feel.
I know how painful it can be to sit with your own thoughts. In the silence, without distraction. It can feel deafening & overwhelming. No one will feel or hear them like you. It can be a lonely & isolating place up there in your own head. What have you told yourself today? That you're not good enough? That you should be coping better? How do you cope with the anxiety, guilt & shaming thoughts? Coping strategies can be found when exploring painful thoughts & feelings with a professional who understands the struggle. I can help you to understand & process emotions and make sense of the physical & emotional overwhelm you feel.
07592 058096 View 07592 058096
Carolyn Davies
Counsellor, BACP
London WC1X
Do you feel anxious, frustrated, overwhelmed, or stuck? Are you uncertain how it's come to this or how to move forward? If there's a sense that old patterns keep repeating or that something is missing, but it's hard to know where to start, maybe I can help. I'm no stranger to life's challenges. Before counselling, I made TV programmes. It was an intensely pressured world. Learning how to navigate the harder stretches in both my work and home life has deepened my resilience and my sense of my own agency. Helping you reclaim yours is central to my approach.
Do you feel anxious, frustrated, overwhelmed, or stuck? Are you uncertain how it's come to this or how to move forward? If there's a sense that old patterns keep repeating or that something is missing, but it's hard to know where to start, maybe I can help. I'm no stranger to life's challenges. Before counselling, I made TV programmes. It was an intensely pressured world. Learning how to navigate the harder stretches in both my work and home life has deepened my resilience and my sense of my own agency. Helping you reclaim yours is central to my approach.
020 3376 9342 View 020 3376 9342
Woodford CBT
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
London E18
Reaching out for help can be daunting so you have already made a positive first step. I am an experienced therapist who has helped people of all ages, genders and backgrounds overcome issues such as anxiety, depression, and anger management problems. My role is to help you understand the source of your current difficulties and find a solution.
Reaching out for help can be daunting so you have already made a positive first step. I am an experienced therapist who has helped people of all ages, genders and backgrounds overcome issues such as anxiety, depression, and anger management problems. My role is to help you understand the source of your current difficulties and find a solution.
020 3912 9642 View 020 3912 9642
Andreas Ioannou
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
London NW1
Hello. I'm Andreas Ioannou, a London based psychotherapist offering in-person and online therapy to individuals and couples. I view psychotherapy as the safe space where you can share your stories, explore experiences and make decisions for change – for a happier or more meaningful life. I base my therapeutic approach and our relationship on the value of trust – which I see as the foundation for an open and honest dialogue.
Hello. I'm Andreas Ioannou, a London based psychotherapist offering in-person and online therapy to individuals and couples. I view psychotherapy as the safe space where you can share your stories, explore experiences and make decisions for change – for a happier or more meaningful life. I base my therapeutic approach and our relationship on the value of trust – which I see as the foundation for an open and honest dialogue.
020 8138 8403 View 020 8138 8403
Marjorie Reid
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
London SE6
I offer a compassionate, safe and confidential environment that supports the exploration and expression of feelings, thoughts, beliefs and circumstances that may be having an adverse effect on emotional well-being and quality of life. Sometimes we just need a space to be still and reflect, a space where we feel accepted, understood and supported in gaining a deeper awareness into why we behave the way we do, or that can offer us an alternative perspective on challenging life situations. My aim is to support you in making sense of your life and working with you in moving to where you would like to be.
I offer a compassionate, safe and confidential environment that supports the exploration and expression of feelings, thoughts, beliefs and circumstances that may be having an adverse effect on emotional well-being and quality of life. Sometimes we just need a space to be still and reflect, a space where we feel accepted, understood and supported in gaining a deeper awareness into why we behave the way we do, or that can offer us an alternative perspective on challenging life situations. My aim is to support you in making sense of your life and working with you in moving to where you would like to be.
020 4538 3734 View 020 4538 3734
Liam Watson
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London SW17
I am an LGBTQ+ affirmative Gestalt Therapist and Integrative Counsellor. I work with clients on a wide variety of issues, such as relationships, sexuality and gender, anxiety, depression, understanding major life events, childhood abuse, intergenerational trauma, family history and self-esteem. I am open to working with whatever you are experiencing - we can discuss this during our initial assessment, which is free of charge.
I am an LGBTQ+ affirmative Gestalt Therapist and Integrative Counsellor. I work with clients on a wide variety of issues, such as relationships, sexuality and gender, anxiety, depression, understanding major life events, childhood abuse, intergenerational trauma, family history and self-esteem. I am open to working with whatever you are experiencing - we can discuss this during our initial assessment, which is free of charge.
020 4572 1489 View 020 4572 1489
Gloria Prest
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Windsor SL4
Reduction and control of Anxiety is my main speciality. I help people to clear their minds from thoughts, believes or habits that are an obstacle to fully enjoy their life and have peace of mind. Whether it is excessive, unnecessary worrying, depression, phobias, low self-esteem, relationship or family problems I help you to gain a wider perspective of the problem and find your way forward with a clearer more calm and productive mind.
Reduction and control of Anxiety is my main speciality. I help people to clear their minds from thoughts, believes or habits that are an obstacle to fully enjoy their life and have peace of mind. Whether it is excessive, unnecessary worrying, depression, phobias, low self-esteem, relationship or family problems I help you to gain a wider perspective of the problem and find your way forward with a clearer more calm and productive mind.
01753 907673 View 01753 907673
Isabella Cristalli
Counsellor, MSc, UKCP Trainee
London SW5
From childhood, I've been drawn to people's stories, fascinated by diverse cultures and beliefs and this curiosity shaped who I am today. With degrees in psychology and neuroscience, I worked in clinical and research settings across Italy and India. My personal therapy and four years psychotherapy training gave me tools and deepened my passion to better support people in their life's journey. If you're feeling stuck emotionally, in relationships, work or life, I could help. You might be experiencing that some ways of dealing with problems no longer serve you. You may feel the need to be heard and wanting to work things through.
From childhood, I've been drawn to people's stories, fascinated by diverse cultures and beliefs and this curiosity shaped who I am today. With degrees in psychology and neuroscience, I worked in clinical and research settings across Italy and India. My personal therapy and four years psychotherapy training gave me tools and deepened my passion to better support people in their life's journey. If you're feeling stuck emotionally, in relationships, work or life, I could help. You might be experiencing that some ways of dealing with problems no longer serve you. You may feel the need to be heard and wanting to work things through.
020 4538 3014 View 020 4538 3014
Lucy Kralj
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
London SW17
I am a UKCP accredited integrative psychotherapist. I have a particular interest in trauma and the mind-body relationship, including the psychological impact of health problems and the physical manifestations of emotional distress. Many of us have times in our lives when things feel broken and painful. In those times we may seek support. I have over fifteen years of experience working with victims of abuse and trauma and also in palliative care. I am a clinical associate at Domestic Violence Training Ltd and a member of Cancer Counselling London. I am also a certified Iyengar yoga teacher and a registered nurse.
I am a UKCP accredited integrative psychotherapist. I have a particular interest in trauma and the mind-body relationship, including the psychological impact of health problems and the physical manifestations of emotional distress. Many of us have times in our lives when things feel broken and painful. In those times we may seek support. I have over fifteen years of experience working with victims of abuse and trauma and also in palliative care. I am a clinical associate at Domestic Violence Training Ltd and a member of Cancer Counselling London. I am also a certified Iyengar yoga teacher and a registered nurse.
020 3962 1314 View 020 3962 1314
Janine Melanie Murden
Counsellor, MBACP
Epsom KT18
I'm Janine and I am an experienced and fully qualified counsellor. I work with you by building a relationship with you that allows you to share whatever is on your mind. I provide a private and non judgemental space for you to explore the issues that have brought you to Counselling as well as longer term issues that you may need help to process. I have helped people work through a whole range of issues from anxiety and depression, trauma, abuse, gender, sexuality, parenting, loss and family relationships. If you need to talk I'm here to listen.
I'm Janine and I am an experienced and fully qualified counsellor. I work with you by building a relationship with you that allows you to share whatever is on your mind. I provide a private and non judgemental space for you to explore the issues that have brought you to Counselling as well as longer term issues that you may need help to process. I have helped people work through a whole range of issues from anxiety and depression, trauma, abuse, gender, sexuality, parenting, loss and family relationships. If you need to talk I'm here to listen.
01932 361026 View 01932 361026
Noreen Mukalazi
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
London EC2M
An experienced BACP‑accredited counsellor and coach working in private practice, using an integrative approach that draws on humanistic, psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, and solution‑focused therapies, with additional training in transactional analysis and trauma‑informed practice.
An experienced BACP‑accredited counsellor and coach working in private practice, using an integrative approach that draws on humanistic, psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, and solution‑focused therapies, with additional training in transactional analysis and trauma‑informed practice.
020 4634 4094 View 020 4634 4094
Chantal Fabrice
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Online Only
Hello and a warm welcome to you. If you are struggling to make sense of your life experiences or if you are facing challenges, don't carry on suffering in silence, get in touch and let me help you. I provide a warm, caring and supportive space with the intention to help you transform your difficulties so you can feel more at peace with yourself. I also run nature based and equine therapy retreats in France.
Hello and a warm welcome to you. If you are struggling to make sense of your life experiences or if you are facing challenges, don't carry on suffering in silence, get in touch and let me help you. I provide a warm, caring and supportive space with the intention to help you transform your difficulties so you can feel more at peace with yourself. I also run nature based and equine therapy retreats in France.
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Isabelle Chefdor
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Is life feeling more difficult or less fulfilling than you would like it to be? Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, low mood, stress or self-esteem, or finding your relationships difficult. You may notice the same patterns repeating in your relationships, or feel that experiences from your past are affecting your life today. You may understand that something needs to change, but not know how to move forward. Together, we can explore what is happening, understand the patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and identify what might help you move towards the life and relationships you want.
Is life feeling more difficult or less fulfilling than you would like it to be? Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, low mood, stress or self-esteem, or finding your relationships difficult. You may notice the same patterns repeating in your relationships, or feel that experiences from your past are affecting your life today. You may understand that something needs to change, but not know how to move forward. Together, we can explore what is happening, understand the patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and identify what might help you move towards the life and relationships you want.
0161 570 9024 View 0161 570 9024
Nina Dogmetchi
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
2 Endorsed
London N7
Starting therapy takes courage, and finding a therapist who feels right matters. I am a qualified Intergrative Psychotherapist and Art Psychotherapist, offering talking Psychotherapy and Art Psychotherapy as distinct approaches. I work with adults (18+) experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, grief, relationship and identity difficulties, and those who feel stuck or unfulfilled. Therapy offers space to explore your experiences, relationships and patterns, including unconscious motivations. Therapy can help you to develop greater self-understanding, make sense of difficult experiences, and find new possibilities for living.
Starting therapy takes courage, and finding a therapist who feels right matters. I am a qualified Intergrative Psychotherapist and Art Psychotherapist, offering talking Psychotherapy and Art Psychotherapy as distinct approaches. I work with adults (18+) experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, grief, relationship and identity difficulties, and those who feel stuck or unfulfilled. Therapy offers space to explore your experiences, relationships and patterns, including unconscious motivations. Therapy can help you to develop greater self-understanding, make sense of difficult experiences, and find new possibilities for living.
020 4538 2996 View 020 4538 2996

How does your Counsellor compare?

Number of Counsellors in Merstham

< 10

Counsellors in Merstham who prioritize treating:

100% Domestic Abuse
100% Anxiety
100% Bereavement
100% Self Esteem
75% Relationship Issues
75% Depression
75% Parenting

Average years in practice

12 Years

Top 3 insurances accepted

100% Cigna and Evernorth
100% Bupa
100% Aviva

How Counsellors in Merstham see their clients

100% In Person and Online

Gender breakdown

67% Female
33% Male
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling

How can I find a therapist in Merstham?

Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.

Learn more about how to find a therapist

Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?

Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).

Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.

What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?

Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.

What type of therapy is right for me?

The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.

How much does therapy cost?

The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.

What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?

Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.

If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.

Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?

Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.

Is online therapy a good option?

Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.

Are therapy sessions confidential?

Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.