Counselling in Westerham
Are you at a crossroads in life? struggling with your mental health? feeling sad, anxious, depressed? With over 10 years’ experience I specialise in helping clients work through the issues that are bothering them, find answers to their problems and move forward positively and with confidence. I see adult individuals and couples at two locations in Kent and Sussex as well as online. I work with people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in repeating patterns in their life and relationships. Clients often come to me with anxiety, low self-worth, relationship difficulties, or during periods of transition or uncertainty.
Are you at a crossroads in life? struggling with your mental health? feeling sad, anxious, depressed? With over 10 years’ experience I specialise in helping clients work through the issues that are bothering them, find answers to their problems and move forward positively and with confidence. I see adult individuals and couples at two locations in Kent and Sussex as well as online. I work with people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in repeating patterns in their life and relationships. Clients often come to me with anxiety, low self-worth, relationship difficulties, or during periods of transition or uncertainty.
I'm an experienced BACP registered counsellor, working with individuals and couples. I also have extensive experience working with teenagers and young adults. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, empathic environment in which to work with clients. I use a range of therapeutic approaches, therefore I will tailor our work in a way that best fits you. I will work at your pace and we can work on self awareness, insight and understanding. Together we will work through any difficult emotions and struggles, to enable positive change.
I'm an experienced BACP registered counsellor, working with individuals and couples. I also have extensive experience working with teenagers and young adults. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, empathic environment in which to work with clients. I use a range of therapeutic approaches, therefore I will tailor our work in a way that best fits you. I will work at your pace and we can work on self awareness, insight and understanding. Together we will work through any difficult emotions and struggles, to enable positive change.
Struggling with anxiety, work/exam stress, self-esteem issues, feeling out of control or that you've 'lost yourself'? Whatever is affecting your mental health and wellbeing, together we can talk it through, explore the issues that arise, and look at your options to discover some coping strategies and goals that work for you. I provide a 'safe' caring environment - unbiased and non-judgemental - for clients to talk about their worries and issues in confidence, enabling a positive way forward. I offer emotional support to all ages, with the focus on YOU as an individual.
Struggling with anxiety, work/exam stress, self-esteem issues, feeling out of control or that you've 'lost yourself'? Whatever is affecting your mental health and wellbeing, together we can talk it through, explore the issues that arise, and look at your options to discover some coping strategies and goals that work for you. I provide a 'safe' caring environment - unbiased and non-judgemental - for clients to talk about their worries and issues in confidence, enabling a positive way forward. I offer emotional support to all ages, with the focus on YOU as an individual.
At sometimes in our lives we just need someone that will listen and can help you.
At sometimes in our lives we just need someone that will listen and can help you.
With 17 years of experience and 16 years of training your worries and feelings will be safely handled. I have a genuine interest in helping people gaining more control over their emotions and anxieties while gaining a better understanding of themselves and the way they interact with the world. THERAPY CAN HELP and it can relieve you from emotional and cognitive suffering. Step by step, I will walk you toward the goals that you chose for yourself and help you overcome depression, anxiety, fear, family issues, low self esteem, couples issues and other emotional and cognitive difficulties so that you can use your full potential.
With 17 years of experience and 16 years of training your worries and feelings will be safely handled. I have a genuine interest in helping people gaining more control over their emotions and anxieties while gaining a better understanding of themselves and the way they interact with the world. THERAPY CAN HELP and it can relieve you from emotional and cognitive suffering. Step by step, I will walk you toward the goals that you chose for yourself and help you overcome depression, anxiety, fear, family issues, low self esteem, couples issues and other emotional and cognitive difficulties so that you can use your full potential.
I know how painful it can be to sit with your own thoughts. In the silence, without distraction. It can feel deafening & overwhelming. No one will feel or hear them like you. It can be a lonely & isolating place up there in your own head. What have you told yourself today? That you're not good enough? That you should be coping better? How do you cope with the anxiety, guilt & shaming thoughts?
Coping strategies can be found when exploring painful thoughts & feelings with a professional who understands the struggle.
I can help you to understand & process emotions and make sense of the physical & emotional overwhelm you feel.
I know how painful it can be to sit with your own thoughts. In the silence, without distraction. It can feel deafening & overwhelming. No one will feel or hear them like you. It can be a lonely & isolating place up there in your own head. What have you told yourself today? That you're not good enough? That you should be coping better? How do you cope with the anxiety, guilt & shaming thoughts?
Coping strategies can be found when exploring painful thoughts & feelings with a professional who understands the struggle.
I can help you to understand & process emotions and make sense of the physical & emotional overwhelm you feel.
I am a clinical psychologist providing short and long-term therapy and autism assessments to children and adults in a private practice Kent. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where we can develop an understanding of your difficulties. I draw on a variety of psychological approaches including psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioural (CBT), and systemic (including narrative and solution-focused). I have 9 years of experience working with a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety and trauma. I have worked with children diagnosed with Autism (including PDA profile) and supported them their families for many years.
I am a clinical psychologist providing short and long-term therapy and autism assessments to children and adults in a private practice Kent. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where we can develop an understanding of your difficulties. I draw on a variety of psychological approaches including psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioural (CBT), and systemic (including narrative and solution-focused). I have 9 years of experience working with a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety and trauma. I have worked with children diagnosed with Autism (including PDA profile) and supported them their families for many years.
I specialise in relationships, helping individuals and couples with infidelity, intimacy, communication, relationship anxiety, connection and more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). We will work through your challenges in the here and now, whilst also understanding the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. I will support you as a couple whether your objective is to improve the relationship, decide whether to stay together or need help separating amicably. I can also support you with a wide range of other issues such as anxiety, anger, grief and meaning.
I specialise in relationships, helping individuals and couples with infidelity, intimacy, communication, relationship anxiety, connection and more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). We will work through your challenges in the here and now, whilst also understanding the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. I will support you as a couple whether your objective is to improve the relationship, decide whether to stay together or need help separating amicably. I can also support you with a wide range of other issues such as anxiety, anger, grief and meaning.
You might be here because something feels stuck — perhaps you've been carrying anxiety, sadness, or a sense of low self-worth far longer than you would like to admit. Maybe your relationships feel complicated, or you're struggling with the weight of past experiences that still shape your present.
My primary focus is working with trauma, complex PTSD, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. I have a keen interest in ADHD and Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), and a particular sensitivity to working with challenges of identity, belonging and family relationships across different cultural contexts.
You might be here because something feels stuck — perhaps you've been carrying anxiety, sadness, or a sense of low self-worth far longer than you would like to admit. Maybe your relationships feel complicated, or you're struggling with the weight of past experiences that still shape your present.
My primary focus is working with trauma, complex PTSD, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. I have a keen interest in ADHD and Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), and a particular sensitivity to working with challenges of identity, belonging and family relationships across different cultural contexts.
You might be holding everything together on the outside - managing work or studies, family, friends and everyday responsibilities - yet inside feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or not like yourself.
This can be especially true during times of change, such as shifts in family life, relationship difficulties, loss, career changes, or uncertainties about the future. At these points, you may find yourself feeling irritable, withdrawn, emotionally drained, or simply aware that something doesn’t feel right.
I work with adults (16+) and parents who are navigating periods of change and pressure, offering both short-term and open-ended therapy.
You might be holding everything together on the outside - managing work or studies, family, friends and everyday responsibilities - yet inside feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or not like yourself.
This can be especially true during times of change, such as shifts in family life, relationship difficulties, loss, career changes, or uncertainties about the future. At these points, you may find yourself feeling irritable, withdrawn, emotionally drained, or simply aware that something doesn’t feel right.
I work with adults (16+) and parents who are navigating periods of change and pressure, offering both short-term and open-ended therapy.
I have worked in the field of mental health for over thirty years and am a fully qualified and registered member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy offering Existential Psychotherapy and training workshops in the West Kent and Surrey area. Over the course of my career, I have worked effectively with clients who are struggling with a variety of problems on both a one to one and group-work basis. Existential psychotherapy strives to empower you and place you and your life choices at the centre of the therapeutic process. I also include psychodynamic, schema and attachment based and cognitive behavioural approaches,
I have worked in the field of mental health for over thirty years and am a fully qualified and registered member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy offering Existential Psychotherapy and training workshops in the West Kent and Surrey area. Over the course of my career, I have worked effectively with clients who are struggling with a variety of problems on both a one to one and group-work basis. Existential psychotherapy strives to empower you and place you and your life choices at the centre of the therapeutic process. I also include psychodynamic, schema and attachment based and cognitive behavioural approaches,
My clients are adults who may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck or finding it difficult to manage what is happening in their lives. You may be experiencing anxiety, depression, bereavement or loss, trauma, relationship or work difficulties, low self-esteem, or navigating a significant life change. You may also simply have a sense that something does not feel quite right or want to understand yourself better. Whatever brings you to counselling, I offer a warm, confidential space where you can talk openly, explore what matters to you and work towards greater understanding and meaningful change at your own pace.
My clients are adults who may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck or finding it difficult to manage what is happening in their lives. You may be experiencing anxiety, depression, bereavement or loss, trauma, relationship or work difficulties, low self-esteem, or navigating a significant life change. You may also simply have a sense that something does not feel quite right or want to understand yourself better. Whatever brings you to counselling, I offer a warm, confidential space where you can talk openly, explore what matters to you and work towards greater understanding and meaningful change at your own pace.
Hi, I am Russell and I run a neurodiversity-affirming, trauma-informed practice called Woven Counselling. I believe in offering a therapeutic experience that is as unique and individualised as each person who walks through my door. Woven Counselling draws on the multi-layered aspects of therapy. A process of exploration and unravelling of the many tightly woven threads of life that can cause challenge and conflict. including our own unique experience of childhood, as a young person the process of forming a unique identity and seeking where we belong, and as an adult a culmination in all that has gone before that shapes our view.
Hi, I am Russell and I run a neurodiversity-affirming, trauma-informed practice called Woven Counselling. I believe in offering a therapeutic experience that is as unique and individualised as each person who walks through my door. Woven Counselling draws on the multi-layered aspects of therapy. A process of exploration and unravelling of the many tightly woven threads of life that can cause challenge and conflict. including our own unique experience of childhood, as a young person the process of forming a unique identity and seeking where we belong, and as an adult a culmination in all that has gone before that shapes our view.
Hello, I’m Denise Palmer. Many people come to therapy feeling stuck in cycles of anxiety, low confidence, or struggling to maintain changes they’ve worked hard to achieve — particularly around weight, food, or wellbeing. If you’re finding that old habits, stress, or self-doubt are creeping back in, you’re not alone. I help adults move away from feeling controlled by anxiety, emotional eating, or self-criticism, and towards feeling calmer, more confident, and better equipped to manage life’s pressures in a sustainable way.
Hello, I’m Denise Palmer. Many people come to therapy feeling stuck in cycles of anxiety, low confidence, or struggling to maintain changes they’ve worked hard to achieve — particularly around weight, food, or wellbeing. If you’re finding that old habits, stress, or self-doubt are creeping back in, you’re not alone. I help adults move away from feeling controlled by anxiety, emotional eating, or self-criticism, and towards feeling calmer, more confident, and better equipped to manage life’s pressures in a sustainable way.
My name is Amanda I am an accredited counselling member of the BACP and hold BUPA recognition. I work with both adults and adolescents and I am qualified to work with trauma. I have experience of working with people struggling with anxiety, stress, depression, loss/bereavement and relationship issues. My approach to counselling varies according to your need, because we all act, think and feel in our own individual ways. I will draw on my theoretical training to work with you, but it will be a collaborative process as we work together building a relationship towards tackling challenging issues you may be facing
My name is Amanda I am an accredited counselling member of the BACP and hold BUPA recognition. I work with both adults and adolescents and I am qualified to work with trauma. I have experience of working with people struggling with anxiety, stress, depression, loss/bereavement and relationship issues. My approach to counselling varies according to your need, because we all act, think and feel in our own individual ways. I will draw on my theoretical training to work with you, but it will be a collaborative process as we work together building a relationship towards tackling challenging issues you may be facing
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
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Are you struggling with overwhelming feelings that don’t quite make sense? Do you find yourself reacting more strongly than expected, or often feel physically tense? Perhaps past experiences keep surfacing unexpectedly, leaving you unsettled or on edge.
Sometimes, the things we’ve been through can affect the way we have learnt to respond, which is our brain and body’s way of protecting ourselves from being hurt by such experiences again. This can lead us to think the worst, blame ourselves for things going wrong, or see things as more dangerous than they really are. We might also avoid situations, or keep busy to avoid thinking.
Are you struggling with overwhelming feelings that don’t quite make sense? Do you find yourself reacting more strongly than expected, or often feel physically tense? Perhaps past experiences keep surfacing unexpectedly, leaving you unsettled or on edge.
Sometimes, the things we’ve been through can affect the way we have learnt to respond, which is our brain and body’s way of protecting ourselves from being hurt by such experiences again. This can lead us to think the worst, blame ourselves for things going wrong, or see things as more dangerous than they really are. We might also avoid situations, or keep busy to avoid thinking.
Are you struggling to cope with uncomfortable emotions or difficult circumstances? Are you feeling stuck and unable to find a way through? Would you like to find a way to strengthen your coping mechanisms and make positive changes? Have things been building up for a while and is it time to seek support? If so, I can help. I offer one-to-one therapy in London Victoria, Oxted and online and am experienced in supporting clients who are struggling with low self-esteem, unwanted patterns of behaviour, childhood difficulties, bereavement and relationship troubles or coping after divorce/separation.
Are you struggling to cope with uncomfortable emotions or difficult circumstances? Are you feeling stuck and unable to find a way through? Would you like to find a way to strengthen your coping mechanisms and make positive changes? Have things been building up for a while and is it time to seek support? If so, I can help. I offer one-to-one therapy in London Victoria, Oxted and online and am experienced in supporting clients who are struggling with low self-esteem, unwanted patterns of behaviour, childhood difficulties, bereavement and relationship troubles or coping after divorce/separation.
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I specialise in helping adults with trauma and neurodivergent experiences. You may struggle with ADHD-like traits, attachment wounds, anxiety, depression, overwhelming emotions, attention and organisation without knowing why. My focus is on restoring a sense of balance and identity, enhancing confidence and promoting healthy coping mechanisms. My clients seek clarity amidst chaos, aiming to process trauma, transforming unhelpful patterns and reclaiming peace and purpose. Together, we can make sense of what is happening, build ways to manage what feels difficult and work towards greater self-understanding and freedom to be yourself.
I specialise in helping adults with trauma and neurodivergent experiences. You may struggle with ADHD-like traits, attachment wounds, anxiety, depression, overwhelming emotions, attention and organisation without knowing why. My focus is on restoring a sense of balance and identity, enhancing confidence and promoting healthy coping mechanisms. My clients seek clarity amidst chaos, aiming to process trauma, transforming unhelpful patterns and reclaiming peace and purpose. Together, we can make sense of what is happening, build ways to manage what feels difficult and work towards greater self-understanding and freedom to be yourself.
I’m Elaine Hames, a Brazilian psychotherapist based in London with over 12 years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults. I am a registered member of the BACP and take an integrative approach, combining different therapeutic techniques to create a personalised and effective treatment plan for each client.I believe that trust and genuine connection are the foundation of successful therapy. My goal is to provide a safe, welcoming and ethical space where you or your child can explore emotions, overcome challenges and develop strategies to cope with anxiety, trauma, low self-esteem and other emotional difficulties.
I’m Elaine Hames, a Brazilian psychotherapist based in London with over 12 years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults. I am a registered member of the BACP and take an integrative approach, combining different therapeutic techniques to create a personalised and effective treatment plan for each client.I believe that trust and genuine connection are the foundation of successful therapy. My goal is to provide a safe, welcoming and ethical space where you or your child can explore emotions, overcome challenges and develop strategies to cope with anxiety, trauma, low self-esteem and other emotional difficulties.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Westerham
10+
Average cost per session
£65
Counsellors in Westerham who prioritize treating:
| 100% | Anxiety |
| 89% | Depression |
| 89% | Self Esteem |
| 83% | Relationship Issues |
| 72% | Bereavement |
| 72% | Stress |
| 61% | Divorce |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 83% | AXA PPP |
| 67% | Aviva |
| 67% | Vitality |
How Counsellors in Westerham see their clients
| 94% | In Person and Online | |
| 6% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 72% | Female | |
| 28% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Westerham?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.