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Carolyn James
Psychologist, PhD, CPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N
Hello and welcome! I am a registered clinical psychologist who works with adult clients (18+ years) facing a wide range of difficulties including anxiety, depression, trauma, emotional dysregulation, self-harm behaviour, and eating disorders. I have training in a number of evidence-based treatments including Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT). I also focus on women's reproductive health and offer therapy related to infertility, donor conception, pregnancy loss, and postpartum adjustment.
Hello and welcome! I am a registered clinical psychologist who works with adult clients (18+ years) facing a wide range of difficulties including anxiety, depression, trauma, emotional dysregulation, self-harm behaviour, and eating disorders. I have training in a number of evidence-based treatments including Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT). I also focus on women's reproductive health and offer therapy related to infertility, donor conception, pregnancy loss, and postpartum adjustment.
(289) 301-9526 View (289) 301-9526
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Supportive Therapy - Nicole Waldston
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1R  (Online Only)
I am a firm believer that there is no one right or true way to engage in therapy. Everyone comes with a set of their own unique life experiences, which requires an individualized take on achieving personal goals and overcoming barriers. My approach is based in evidence and strength based practice, while focusing on you and where you are in your journey. We will work together to create a safe and empowering environment. You will receive support in gaining insight, developing coping mechanisms and strategies and strengthening the foundation of your authentic self through methods such as CBT, EFT, Attachment & Trauma Approaches.
I am a firm believer that there is no one right or true way to engage in therapy. Everyone comes with a set of their own unique life experiences, which requires an individualized take on achieving personal goals and overcoming barriers. My approach is based in evidence and strength based practice, while focusing on you and where you are in your journey. We will work together to create a safe and empowering environment. You will receive support in gaining insight, developing coping mechanisms and strategies and strengthening the foundation of your authentic self through methods such as CBT, EFT, Attachment & Trauma Approaches.
(289) 312-4324 View (289) 312-4324
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Nila Mensah
Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, RSW, BA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N
Are you ready to explore past patterns, develop healthy coping strategies, and enhance your resilience? As a trauma-informed specialist in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and couples therapy, I am dedicated to providing tailored support to help you thrive.
Are you ready to explore past patterns, develop healthy coping strategies, and enhance your resilience? As a trauma-informed specialist in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and couples therapy, I am dedicated to providing tailored support to help you thrive.
(289) 301-8428 View (289) 301-8428
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Nicolette Julien
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1M  (Online Only)
I tend to utilize multiple modalities depending on your needs and desired outcome for therapy, that include but are not limited to trauma informed, IFS, CBT, DBT, EFT, Narrative, Solution Focused, and Family Systems.
I believe that therapy is a collaborative process, where you as the client are the expert of you and your story, and as we work together to build trust and a relationship, I can lend my clinical skills to aid in achieving your therapeutic goals. My approach is grounded in the style of therapy called Internal Family Systems, where I strive to be collaborative and empathetic in order to elicit behavioral change.
I tend to utilize multiple modalities depending on your needs and desired outcome for therapy, that include but are not limited to trauma informed, IFS, CBT, DBT, EFT, Narrative, Solution Focused, and Family Systems.
I believe that therapy is a collaborative process, where you as the client are the expert of you and your story, and as we work together to build trust and a relationship, I can lend my clinical skills to aid in achieving your therapeutic goals. My approach is grounded in the style of therapy called Internal Family Systems, where I strive to be collaborative and empathetic in order to elicit behavioral change.
(289) 378-5829 View (289) 378-5829
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James 'jamie' Myslik
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Whitby, ON L1N  (Online Only)
I'm trained in many therapies (EFT, CBT, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, behaviour therapy, ecotherapy, and more), and I learn, grow from, and am grateful for each of my clients and their journeys.
Please note I am only taking new clients online at this time. What can you expect from me? Someone who is easy to open up to, compassionate, and non-judgmental. Time to talk about the things that are hardest to discuss and make important decisions. Someone with fifteen years of professional experience working anxiety, depression, and trauma, as well as everything from shame and grief, anger and fear, to contentment and joy. Time to order your thoughts, take a breath, and find balance.
I'm trained in many therapies (EFT, CBT, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, behaviour therapy, ecotherapy, and more), and I learn, grow from, and am grateful for each of my clients and their journeys.
Please note I am only taking new clients online at this time. What can you expect from me? Someone who is easy to open up to, compassionate, and non-judgmental. Time to talk about the things that are hardest to discuss and make important decisions. Someone with fifteen years of professional experience working anxiety, depression, and trauma, as well as everything from shame and grief, anger and fear, to contentment and joy. Time to order your thoughts, take a breath, and find balance.
(289) 210-4677 View (289) 210-4677
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Diane Hua-Stewart
Registered Psychotherapist, MPH, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1R  (Online Only)
I use various therapies including mindfulness, emotionally focused therapy, attachment-based, IFS, narrative, Brainspotting, dialectical behavioural-informed therapy, and Gottman.
Managing difficult feelings alone can be overwhelming. Do you feel stuck and hope for things to be better? Do you feel exhausted, frustrated, or guilty by trying to live up to your ideal self or other people’s expectations? Whether it is overcoming anxious thoughts, a difficult relationship, moving past your traumas, or simply wanting to understand yourself better, I take a holistic approach and offer several modalities to help you on your path to healing. I will walk alongside you on your journey, while providing a safe and non-judgmental space. Connection is the foundation of our work together.
I use various therapies including mindfulness, emotionally focused therapy, attachment-based, IFS, narrative, Brainspotting, dialectical behavioural-informed therapy, and Gottman.
Managing difficult feelings alone can be overwhelming. Do you feel stuck and hope for things to be better? Do you feel exhausted, frustrated, or guilty by trying to live up to your ideal self or other people’s expectations? Whether it is overcoming anxious thoughts, a difficult relationship, moving past your traumas, or simply wanting to understand yourself better, I take a holistic approach and offer several modalities to help you on your path to healing. I will walk alongside you on your journey, while providing a safe and non-judgmental space. Connection is the foundation of our work together.
(289) 207-6232 View (289) 207-6232
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Lightroom Counselling Services (Roseline Oduntan)
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MDiv
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N
Roseline draws from various training, which includes Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2), EFT, CBT, DBT and Trauma Focused Therapy.
Life is a complex journey, filled with its own set of challenges, yet it also holds the promise of hope. Whether you find yourself grappling with anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationship or marital issues, parenting struggles, stress, or the daunting task of breaking negative patterns, know that you do not walk this path alone. I offer you a safe haven, a sanctuary where you can freely explore your challenges without judgment. Together, we will craft a personalized treatment plan that harnesses your unique strengths and addresses your individual needs.
Roseline draws from various training, which includes Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2), EFT, CBT, DBT and Trauma Focused Therapy.
Life is a complex journey, filled with its own set of challenges, yet it also holds the promise of hope. Whether you find yourself grappling with anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationship or marital issues, parenting struggles, stress, or the daunting task of breaking negative patterns, know that you do not walk this path alone. I offer you a safe haven, a sanctuary where you can freely explore your challenges without judgment. Together, we will craft a personalized treatment plan that harnesses your unique strengths and addresses your individual needs.
(289) 512-2968 View (289) 512-2968
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Afreen Dhamani
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N  (Online Only)
My approach to psychotherapy is integrative and includes narrative therapy, emotionally focused, IFS and parts work, mindfulness approaches and DBT.
Each person's journey is unique, which is why I prioritize cultural and values inclusion while providing an individualized therapy approach. Whether you're navigating cultural identity, managing stress, healing from past traumas, experiencing anxiety or simply seeking someone to talk to, I am here to listen, understand, and guide you towards emotional wellness. I offer a safe & supportive environment where you can share your life story, untangle thoughts & feelings, express difficult emotions and honour your successes. We will work together as you uncover the life you want to live.
My approach to psychotherapy is integrative and includes narrative therapy, emotionally focused, IFS and parts work, mindfulness approaches and DBT.
Each person's journey is unique, which is why I prioritize cultural and values inclusion while providing an individualized therapy approach. Whether you're navigating cultural identity, managing stress, healing from past traumas, experiencing anxiety or simply seeking someone to talk to, I am here to listen, understand, and guide you towards emotional wellness. I offer a safe & supportive environment where you can share your life story, untangle thoughts & feelings, express difficult emotions and honour your successes. We will work together as you uncover the life you want to live.
(289) 276-8837 View (289) 276-8837
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Rochelle Benny Gerard
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1M  (Online Only)
I use CBT, DBT and EFT skills with you based on your unique needs and challenges.
Accepting New Clients! Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, anger, relationship, trauma, identity, self-esteem, life transition and eating disorder challenges, it is important that you know you don’t have to be alone in this journey. I understand that no two individuals are the same and we tailor our sessions together to address challenges unique to you. We will work together to understand the root cause of your struggles and address them with long-lasting strategies, helping you get closer to the life you’ve always wanted. Let's overcome and face your challenges together!
I use CBT, DBT and EFT skills with you based on your unique needs and challenges.
Accepting New Clients! Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, anger, relationship, trauma, identity, self-esteem, life transition and eating disorder challenges, it is important that you know you don’t have to be alone in this journey. I understand that no two individuals are the same and we tailor our sessions together to address challenges unique to you. We will work together to understand the root cause of your struggles and address them with long-lasting strategies, helping you get closer to the life you’ve always wanted. Let's overcome and face your challenges together!
(289) 302-7230 View (289) 302-7230
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Wei Luo
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA, RP(Q)
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N
I used a mixed of evidence based modalities including Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Internal Family System (IFS).
As an East Asian therapist who has personally overcome obstacles with anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and childhood trauma, I understand you are going through tough times, and I have the skills and passion to assist you in getting through them. I am committed to helping you process your emotions and difficulties while fostering greater self-insight. I have experienced therapy myself to work through my own issues, and now I'm dedicated to helping you overcome yours.
I used a mixed of evidence based modalities including Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Internal Family System (IFS).
As an East Asian therapist who has personally overcome obstacles with anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and childhood trauma, I understand you are going through tough times, and I have the skills and passion to assist you in getting through them. I am committed to helping you process your emotions and difficulties while fostering greater self-insight. I have experienced therapy myself to work through my own issues, and now I'm dedicated to helping you overcome yours.
(289) 536-5028 View (289) 536-5028
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Hannah Packer
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, BA
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1M
I work from an EMDR therapy and attachment focused perspectives which often includes other evidence-based therapies such as: CBT, DBT, EFT and Ego-State therapy.
Are you feeling stuck, lacking motivation, or fatigued? Perhaps you feel irritable or anxious at work or with your relationships. Therapy can help you discover new ways to manage and cope with your symptoms while working to resolve trauma. It can be challenging to seek out therapy, and I commend you on taking the first step. I work with individuals who are experiencing difficulties related to their past and/or recent traumatic experiences. I have experience working with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, life transitions, work-related stress, BPD, family & relationship issues, and issues related to self-esteem.
I work from an EMDR therapy and attachment focused perspectives which often includes other evidence-based therapies such as: CBT, DBT, EFT and Ego-State therapy.
Are you feeling stuck, lacking motivation, or fatigued? Perhaps you feel irritable or anxious at work or with your relationships. Therapy can help you discover new ways to manage and cope with your symptoms while working to resolve trauma. It can be challenging to seek out therapy, and I commend you on taking the first step. I work with individuals who are experiencing difficulties related to their past and/or recent traumatic experiences. I have experience working with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, life transitions, work-related stress, BPD, family & relationship issues, and issues related to self-esteem.
(437) 747-7038 View (437) 747-7038
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Taylor Prakken
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, RP (Q)
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N  (Online Only)
Have you or someone you love been struggling with addiction and feeling reluctant to seek support? If substance or alcohol use has been impacting your ability to continue with your daily activities, relationships, or employment it may be time to reach out to a professional. Addiction can be a vicious cycle of maladaptive patterns of behaviour that can be difficult to break but with the help of a qualified professional it is possible to change your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours.
Have you or someone you love been struggling with addiction and feeling reluctant to seek support? If substance or alcohol use has been impacting your ability to continue with your daily activities, relationships, or employment it may be time to reach out to a professional. Addiction can be a vicious cycle of maladaptive patterns of behaviour that can be difficult to break but with the help of a qualified professional it is possible to change your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours.
(289) 272-8066 View (289) 272-8066
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Harpreet Sahota
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N
Take a deep breath, you're finally here looking for the help you think you might need. Let's talk about the hustle of life. It's like being in a marathon, with the finish line constantly moving. Pressure comes from everywhere – pressures of society as we scroll through social media, family demands, work challenges, and that nagging voice in your head asking if you're enough. It's the constant effort of trying to overcome letdowns from others and ourselves. Sometimes, it can feel like you're an outsider in your own life, watching through a window as everyone else seems to have it all figured out.
Take a deep breath, you're finally here looking for the help you think you might need. Let's talk about the hustle of life. It's like being in a marathon, with the finish line constantly moving. Pressure comes from everywhere – pressures of society as we scroll through social media, family demands, work challenges, and that nagging voice in your head asking if you're enough. It's the constant effort of trying to overcome letdowns from others and ourselves. Sometimes, it can feel like you're an outsider in your own life, watching through a window as everyone else seems to have it all figured out.
(647) 952-4340 View (647) 952-4340
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Stephanie Rigby
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MEd, MACP
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1M
I deeply respect the courage and vulnerability it takes for you to seek out professional help through counselling. It would be my honour to support you on your therapeutic journey. My integrative, and culturally sensitive, approach to counselling, can be adapted to align with your individualized goals and beliefs. The counselling modality used in our sessions, is client-dependent, meaning, I will incorporate wide-ranging interventions which are modified to fit your specific needs. I value establishing a strong and secure therapeutic relationship with my clients in a non-judgmental, genuine, and safe space.
I deeply respect the courage and vulnerability it takes for you to seek out professional help through counselling. It would be my honour to support you on your therapeutic journey. My integrative, and culturally sensitive, approach to counselling, can be adapted to align with your individualized goals and beliefs. The counselling modality used in our sessions, is client-dependent, meaning, I will incorporate wide-ranging interventions which are modified to fit your specific needs. I value establishing a strong and secure therapeutic relationship with my clients in a non-judgmental, genuine, and safe space.
(289) 805-6603 View (289) 805-6603
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Kristy Weekes Beausoleil
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Whitby, ON L1R  (Online Only)
If you are seeking a compassionate psychotherapist to assist you in meeting your goals, let’s talk! I am a therapist with over 15 years of experience working with children, youth, and adults in community treatment and hospital settings. I specialize in treating individuals with mental health disorders as well as the families that support them. In our work together, you will continue to develop insight and strategies which will help facilitate positive changes in your life!
If you are seeking a compassionate psychotherapist to assist you in meeting your goals, let’s talk! I am a therapist with over 15 years of experience working with children, youth, and adults in community treatment and hospital settings. I specialize in treating individuals with mental health disorders as well as the families that support them. In our work together, you will continue to develop insight and strategies which will help facilitate positive changes in your life!
(289) 207-4803 View (289) 207-4803
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Shelley Jones
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
Whitby, ON L1N  (Online Only)
30 years of experience working with children ages 5-25 years. I am honest, calm, fair, and a nonjudgmental therapist able to create real and meaningful relationships with children, youth, and their parents. I am a caring, fair, and a results-oriented type of person. I enjoy building a relationship that is honest, fair, empathetic, and positive for my clients because I firmly believe that it is through a supportive and non-judgmental relationship that the healing begins and therapeutic results are delivered. My goal is to help the child heal and learn how to cope with their thoughts and emotions
30 years of experience working with children ages 5-25 years. I am honest, calm, fair, and a nonjudgmental therapist able to create real and meaningful relationships with children, youth, and their parents. I am a caring, fair, and a results-oriented type of person. I enjoy building a relationship that is honest, fair, empathetic, and positive for my clients because I firmly believe that it is through a supportive and non-judgmental relationship that the healing begins and therapeutic results are delivered. My goal is to help the child heal and learn how to cope with their thoughts and emotions
(289) 216-6638 View (289) 216-6638
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Maya Oakes
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP- Q
Verified Verified
Whitby, ON L1N
Navigating the complexities of life can feel overwhelming and I want you to know that you don’t have to navigate them alone. I am committed to offering support to adolescents and adults experiencing symptoms related to anxiety, stress, depression, relationship concerns, grief, life transitions and/or self-esteem. My intention is to offer you a compassionate and non-judgmental space where it feels safe to navigate self-discovery, focusing on what you can do create a fulfilling and meaningful life. We will work toward developing a strong sense of self, building self-compassion and resiliency, and effective coping strategies.
Navigating the complexities of life can feel overwhelming and I want you to know that you don’t have to navigate them alone. I am committed to offering support to adolescents and adults experiencing symptoms related to anxiety, stress, depression, relationship concerns, grief, life transitions and/or self-esteem. My intention is to offer you a compassionate and non-judgmental space where it feels safe to navigate self-discovery, focusing on what you can do create a fulfilling and meaningful life. We will work toward developing a strong sense of self, building self-compassion and resiliency, and effective coping strategies.
(289) 302-5982 View (289) 302-5982
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Ashley Latendresse
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, BSc, ADMH
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N  (Online Only)
Do you want more ease in your life? Are you struggling with emotions that feel overwhelming and hard to manage? Are conflicts or breakdowns in communication straining your relationships? Are you looking to improve the quality of communication and deepen your connection with your partner in a more loving manner? Have you been impacted by a traumatic event that continues to affect your daily life?
Do you want more ease in your life? Are you struggling with emotions that feel overwhelming and hard to manage? Are conflicts or breakdowns in communication straining your relationships? Are you looking to improve the quality of communication and deepen your connection with your partner in a more loving manner? Have you been impacted by a traumatic event that continues to affect your daily life?
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Myah Izzard
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BSc, MACP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1M
Reaching out for psychological help and support is a courageous and challenging first step. I’m happy you found your way here. I hold space for you to show up as your true and authentic self, and tailor treatment to your specific therapeutic needs and goals. Whether you’re living with depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, suicidal ideation, or struggling with shame, self-acceptance/self-esteem, relationships, or life transitions - this is a safe space to process and work through all that life has thrown your way.
Reaching out for psychological help and support is a courageous and challenging first step. I’m happy you found your way here. I hold space for you to show up as your true and authentic self, and tailor treatment to your specific therapeutic needs and goals. Whether you’re living with depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, suicidal ideation, or struggling with shame, self-acceptance/self-esteem, relationships, or life transitions - this is a safe space to process and work through all that life has thrown your way.
(289) 401-5348 View (289) 401-5348
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Lisa Bynoe-Stevens
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Whitby, ON L1N
Are feelings of anxiety affecting your work and home life? Are you feeling stuck in aspects of your life because of trauma, relationship challenges, low motivation, or stress? Does your mind race with past problems or future worries? In therapy, we will address the issues that are important to you and focus on meeting your goals. Difficult experiences in your past or mental health struggles in the present don't have to dictate your future. You can recover from mental health challenges, move past anxiety, and create a healthy lifestyle. Affordable online therapy for residents of Ontario.
Are feelings of anxiety affecting your work and home life? Are you feeling stuck in aspects of your life because of trauma, relationship challenges, low motivation, or stress? Does your mind race with past problems or future worries? In therapy, we will address the issues that are important to you and focus on meeting your goals. Difficult experiences in your past or mental health struggles in the present don't have to dictate your future. You can recover from mental health challenges, move past anxiety, and create a healthy lifestyle. Affordable online therapy for residents of Ontario.
(289) 813-7519 View (289) 813-7519

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Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.