Gottman Method Therapists in 07043
Dr. Tiffany Gilmore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSS, LCSW, MDiv, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07043
From a trauma-informed lens, I seamlessly integrate elements of narrative therapy, sex therapy, emotionally focused therapy, sensate focus, Gottman method, TF-CBT, and, if requested, faith-based practices.
Has the residue of trauma impacted your relationship, causing a lack of emotional intimacy, decreased sexual affection, depression, or anxiety? Is conflict a result of sexual dysfunction? Whether you have a history of sexual trauma, need to balance home and work life, attempting affair recovery, healing from a toxic relationship, or navigating a medical diagnosis, you can mend emotional wounds, build a new foundation, and heal trauma. Regardless of your relationship experiences, you can learn tools to weather any storm. My clinical and PhD professor experience prepared me to provide public and faith based leaders expert care.
From a trauma-informed lens, I seamlessly integrate elements of narrative therapy, sex therapy, emotionally focused therapy, sensate focus, Gottman method, TF-CBT, and, if requested, faith-based practices.
Has the residue of trauma impacted your relationship, causing a lack of emotional intimacy, decreased sexual affection, depression, or anxiety? Is conflict a result of sexual dysfunction? Whether you have a history of sexual trauma, need to balance home and work life, attempting affair recovery, healing from a toxic relationship, or navigating a medical diagnosis, you can mend emotional wounds, build a new foundation, and heal trauma. Regardless of your relationship experiences, you can learn tools to weather any storm. My clinical and PhD professor experience prepared me to provide public and faith based leaders expert care.
Renata Hadis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
Struggling with relationship issues, anxiety and depression? I help couples and individual adults in a safe and growth promoting way. A caring clinician, a resident of Montclair, NJ. I have been in practice for more than 30 years. In addition to other venues, I have been a psychotherapist at University of Medicine and Dentistry of NJ for 15 years. I provide psychoyherapy services in English as well as in Spanish and work with a diverse population.
Struggling with relationship issues, anxiety and depression? I help couples and individual adults in a safe and growth promoting way. A caring clinician, a resident of Montclair, NJ. I have been in practice for more than 30 years. In addition to other venues, I have been a psychotherapist at University of Medicine and Dentistry of NJ for 15 years. I provide psychoyherapy services in English as well as in Spanish and work with a diverse population.
Joanna Scheier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
I am a down to earth and compassionate individual, couples and family therapist with over 25 years experience. Before going into full time private practice I worked in inpatient psychiatry and chemical dependency as a therapist and a supervisor in two teaching hospitals in Manhattan. I went on to conduct clinical training seminars for a mental health consulting agency across the country. I am skilled in evidence-based therapies for anxiety, mood disorders and addictions and enjoy nothing more than working collaboratively with clients to find fresh and creative solutions to the problems they present.
I am a down to earth and compassionate individual, couples and family therapist with over 25 years experience. Before going into full time private practice I worked in inpatient psychiatry and chemical dependency as a therapist and a supervisor in two teaching hospitals in Manhattan. I went on to conduct clinical training seminars for a mental health consulting agency across the country. I am skilled in evidence-based therapies for anxiety, mood disorders and addictions and enjoy nothing more than working collaboratively with clients to find fresh and creative solutions to the problems they present.
Noelle K Jensen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07043
Therapy is a process. I believe the most important elements include forming a meaningful connection, recognizing strengths, and facilitating unique pathways to growth and change. Life can be challenging, it is full of both wonder and adversity, we are all on a journey and at times it can be helpful to talk about what is going on. The last several years have been different than anything we have experienced. As we enter the "new normal" there continues to be a lot to take in. It is important to practice self care and to reach out for support when needed.
Therapy is a process. I believe the most important elements include forming a meaningful connection, recognizing strengths, and facilitating unique pathways to growth and change. Life can be challenging, it is full of both wonder and adversity, we are all on a journey and at times it can be helpful to talk about what is going on. The last several years have been different than anything we have experienced. As we enter the "new normal" there continues to be a lot to take in. It is important to practice self care and to reach out for support when needed.
Willard W C Ashley Sr.
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MDiv, DMin, SCP, NCPsyA, CGP
Verified Verified
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
Life is like a canvas; you are the artist holding the brush. Paint your dreams with courage, passion, and strength, and witness the beauty of your creation unfold. Create a life filled with joy. Acknowledge and navigate the challenges, sorrows, struggles, and pain that may hinder your growth. Reflect on your intimate life. Your background, beliefs, identity, and experiences are significant. Recognize how discrimination can dehumanize you. Develop ways to take care of yourself. The only limits that genuinely exist are the ones you impose on yourself. Let go of anger, anxiety, hurt, and fear. Embrace the endless possibilities.
Life is like a canvas; you are the artist holding the brush. Paint your dreams with courage, passion, and strength, and witness the beauty of your creation unfold. Create a life filled with joy. Acknowledge and navigate the challenges, sorrows, struggles, and pain that may hinder your growth. Reflect on your intimate life. Your background, beliefs, identity, and experiences are significant. Recognize how discrimination can dehumanize you. Develop ways to take care of yourself. The only limits that genuinely exist are the ones you impose on yourself. Let go of anger, anxiety, hurt, and fear. Embrace the endless possibilities.
Elizabeth Dyer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MA, DSS
Verified Verified
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043 (Online Only)
Are you struggling with RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE or ANXIETY problems? Are you concerned that the fighting +/or avoidance is leading to the end of the marriage? Or have you experienced the violation of trust as a result of an AFFAIR by your partner? Many couples wait too long to get the help for their relationship to get back on track. There is hope to heal these issues by learning essential skills to create healthy connections and allow the trust and love to come present. A number of tools are used to assess the health of a couple including the GOTTMAN RELATIONSHIP CHECKUP, an online assessment.
Are you struggling with RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE or ANXIETY problems? Are you concerned that the fighting +/or avoidance is leading to the end of the marriage? Or have you experienced the violation of trust as a result of an AFFAIR by your partner? Many couples wait too long to get the help for their relationship to get back on track. There is hope to heal these issues by learning essential skills to create healthy connections and allow the trust and love to come present. A number of tools are used to assess the health of a couple including the GOTTMAN RELATIONSHIP CHECKUP, an online assessment.
Lewis C Pagano
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07043
Talk therapy can help you become your true self. I have worked extensively with adults and adolescents for over 30 years and have a good understanding of childhood issues.I work with individuals and families with a focus on emotions.I believe that all people have resources to solve problems.I am easy to talk to and I have great listening skills.I have worked with individuals who are depressed and with adolescents in public education with great success I also have an extensive background in substance abuse and am certified to work with clients on Suboxone (Buprenorphine) for treatment of opiate addiction.
Talk therapy can help you become your true self. I have worked extensively with adults and adolescents for over 30 years and have a good understanding of childhood issues.I work with individuals and families with a focus on emotions.I believe that all people have resources to solve problems.I am easy to talk to and I have great listening skills.I have worked with individuals who are depressed and with adolescents in public education with great success I also have an extensive background in substance abuse and am certified to work with clients on Suboxone (Buprenorphine) for treatment of opiate addiction.
Dr. Jennifer Politis
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, SchPsy, ACS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
Are you looking for more fulfilling relationships in your life? Do you want to regain balance and have less anxiety? Are you worried about your child and want them to have more confidence, perform better in school and be more prepared for the world around them? I help you feel more fulfilled in your job, family life and relationships. I help you sort through your feelings and find the barriers in your life holding you back. Identifing the patterns from your childhood that creep into your everyday interactions are a focus so they aren't a driving force anymore and you are more self aware.
Are you looking for more fulfilling relationships in your life? Do you want to regain balance and have less anxiety? Are you worried about your child and want them to have more confidence, perform better in school and be more prepared for the world around them? I help you feel more fulfilled in your job, family life and relationships. I help you sort through your feelings and find the barriers in your life holding you back. Identifing the patterns from your childhood that creep into your everyday interactions are a focus so they aren't a driving force anymore and you are more self aware.
Jenna Sackman
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC, LPC, MEd, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07043 (Online Only)
Jenna Sackman is a holistic and integrative therapist who specializes in working with individuals (children, teens & adults) and couples and is passionate about making therapy a meaningful, joyful experience. Her areas of expertise are anxiety/stress, relationship challenges, depression, loss/grief, life transitions, communication, and negative thought patterns. Most clients choose to work with her because she uses an active approach and provides her clients with concrete skills. Jenna understands that therapy is a big investment, and she, too, is fully invested in helping her clients to realize significant and observable change.
Jenna Sackman is a holistic and integrative therapist who specializes in working with individuals (children, teens & adults) and couples and is passionate about making therapy a meaningful, joyful experience. Her areas of expertise are anxiety/stress, relationship challenges, depression, loss/grief, life transitions, communication, and negative thought patterns. Most clients choose to work with her because she uses an active approach and provides her clients with concrete skills. Jenna understands that therapy is a big investment, and she, too, is fully invested in helping her clients to realize significant and observable change.
It's nice to meet you! I am Alexa Gelfand, a licensed social worker. I have years of experience providing psychotherapy to adolescents and adults facing various challenges in life, such as anxiety and depression stemming from interpersonal and attachment issues, grief, loss, trauma, sexual assault/domestic violence survivors, and LGBTQ+ related issues. I am also passionate about working with couples and families. I use a warm, collaborative approach to identify and implement treatment goals that support you in making impactful, positive change in your life.
It's nice to meet you! I am Alexa Gelfand, a licensed social worker. I have years of experience providing psychotherapy to adolescents and adults facing various challenges in life, such as anxiety and depression stemming from interpersonal and attachment issues, grief, loss, trauma, sexual assault/domestic violence survivors, and LGBTQ+ related issues. I am also passionate about working with couples and families. I use a warm, collaborative approach to identify and implement treatment goals that support you in making impactful, positive change in your life.
My ideal client is one that is committed to change. I believe there is no one sized fits all approach to this work and my ideal client will keep an open mind as we explore goals, challenges, and potential problem-solving solutions along the way. I enjoy working with folks that have a desire to better understand themselves and live in alignment with their core values. If you are feeling stuck, struggling with depression, anxiety, and interpersonal conflict, I'd like to support you to create a life that you're proud of.
My ideal client is one that is committed to change. I believe there is no one sized fits all approach to this work and my ideal client will keep an open mind as we explore goals, challenges, and potential problem-solving solutions along the way. I enjoy working with folks that have a desire to better understand themselves and live in alignment with their core values. If you are feeling stuck, struggling with depression, anxiety, and interpersonal conflict, I'd like to support you to create a life that you're proud of.
David Rust
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CCM
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07043 (Online Only)
My name is David, and I am a licensed clinical social worker and certified case manager with 14 years of experience in the medical and mental health field. I hold a Master's Degree in Social Work from Stony Brook University, specializing in healthcare, and a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from the University at Albany, where I graduated with high honors from the School of Social Welfare. Throughout my career, I have devoted myself to helping clients overcome life's struggles in the healthcare and mental health industry. I am licensed in NY, FL and NJ.
My name is David, and I am a licensed clinical social worker and certified case manager with 14 years of experience in the medical and mental health field. I hold a Master's Degree in Social Work from Stony Brook University, specializing in healthcare, and a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from the University at Albany, where I graduated with high honors from the School of Social Welfare. Throughout my career, I have devoted myself to helping clients overcome life's struggles in the healthcare and mental health industry. I am licensed in NY, FL and NJ.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.