Couples Counseling Therapists in 92373

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Ruby Segovia
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
Change is a difficult and painful teacher in our lives. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist I will be your fellow traveler as we work on alleviating your pain. Together we can develop your personal growth by using your strengths to build coping skills. I specialize in substance use, family & relationship issues, depression, anxiety, trauma, grief and loss.I work with clients of all ages in individual, couples and family sessions. I am available weekends & evenings. I believe in the power of therapy, together we can overcome your challenges and nurture your personal growth. Self-acceptance instead of self-blame.
Change is a difficult and painful teacher in our lives. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist I will be your fellow traveler as we work on alleviating your pain. Together we can develop your personal growth by using your strengths to build coping skills. I specialize in substance use, family & relationship issues, depression, anxiety, trauma, grief and loss.I work with clients of all ages in individual, couples and family sessions. I am available weekends & evenings. I believe in the power of therapy, together we can overcome your challenges and nurture your personal growth. Self-acceptance instead of self-blame.
(909) 479-5588 View (909) 479-5588
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Janelle Martin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, | EMDR
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
Other areas of focus include: existential themes, couples, coming of age issues, identity, work, stress management, depression, anxiety, spirituality, skill building, etc.
Accepting new clients. I enjoy helping people heal, move forward, and overcome challenges. I have experience working with young adults/adults, and couples. I apply a Client Centered approach, CBT, DBT, REBT, Post Modern, Existential, & Psychodynamic- dependent upon needs. I am passionate about therapy and have been practicing for ten years. I have also been a contractor for A&E’s “Intervention” and I have contracted with CSULB for D1 athletes. I work with working professionals, business owners, college students, couples, etc. Additionally, I practice the specialty of Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR).
Other areas of focus include: existential themes, couples, coming of age issues, identity, work, stress management, depression, anxiety, spirituality, skill building, etc.
Accepting new clients. I enjoy helping people heal, move forward, and overcome challenges. I have experience working with young adults/adults, and couples. I apply a Client Centered approach, CBT, DBT, REBT, Post Modern, Existential, & Psychodynamic- dependent upon needs. I am passionate about therapy and have been practicing for ten years. I have also been a contractor for A&E’s “Intervention” and I have contracted with CSULB for D1 athletes. I work with working professionals, business owners, college students, couples, etc. Additionally, I practice the specialty of Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR).
(909) 255-3508 View (909) 255-3508
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John Lane
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
I have been licensed since 2000 and providing treatment since 1994 to individuals, couples, groups, and children.
I believe in a Life Balance perspective to helping individuals and family. I find that we tend to get stuck in certain ways of thinking and behaving which causes a cycle of dysfunction that is difficult to see and overcome. By developing insight and new skills, we have the ability to realign our lives into a more healthy Life Balance which will allow us to deal with life stress and problems by using a variety of resources at our disposal.
I have been licensed since 2000 and providing treatment since 1994 to individuals, couples, groups, and children.
I believe in a Life Balance perspective to helping individuals and family. I find that we tend to get stuck in certain ways of thinking and behaving which causes a cycle of dysfunction that is difficult to see and overcome. By developing insight and new skills, we have the ability to realign our lives into a more healthy Life Balance which will allow us to deal with life stress and problems by using a variety of resources at our disposal.
(909) 310-0371 View (909) 310-0371
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Jessica B McClintock Ph.d.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373  (Online Only)
McClintock specializes in the treatment of anxiety, depression, grief/loss, relationship issues, life transitions, and health conditions.
I can help you improve your life by coaching you in implementing evidence-based coping techniques. My ultimate goal is to help you gain awareness and insight into the negative thought and behavior patterns that contribute to your distress. Taking into account your cultural background, life experiences, and personality, I will tailor treatment to your unique needs. I'm empathetic and easygoing, but will also challenge you to take a critical look at unhelpful patterns and work through the discomfort that may cause. I draw from personal experiences and use humor when appropriate to make therapy an enjoyable experience.
McClintock specializes in the treatment of anxiety, depression, grief/loss, relationship issues, life transitions, and health conditions.
I can help you improve your life by coaching you in implementing evidence-based coping techniques. My ultimate goal is to help you gain awareness and insight into the negative thought and behavior patterns that contribute to your distress. Taking into account your cultural background, life experiences, and personality, I will tailor treatment to your unique needs. I'm empathetic and easygoing, but will also challenge you to take a critical look at unhelpful patterns and work through the discomfort that may cause. I draw from personal experiences and use humor when appropriate to make therapy an enjoyable experience.
(909) 655-4709 View (909) 655-4709
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Serenipath Counseling and Wellness Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
We are a small group practice that prioritizes whole person care and believes that a positive therapeutic relationship is the most important factor in your healing process. Some of our specialty areas include therapy for: OCD and related anxiety disorders; trauma/ PTSD; child and adolescent mental health; women's issues; and family or other relationship issues.
We are a small group practice that prioritizes whole person care and believes that a positive therapeutic relationship is the most important factor in your healing process. Some of our specialty areas include therapy for: OCD and related anxiety disorders; trauma/ PTSD; child and adolescent mental health; women's issues; and family or other relationship issues.
(909) 646-4122 View (909) 646-4122
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Jocelyne Stancic
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
I have successfully treated various issues such as depression, anxiety, women’s issues, trauma, adoption issues, as well as parenting and relationship problems.
Do you self-sabotage? You work very hard to get ahead, strive for success and accomplish goals that you desire. Meanwhile, another part of you criticizes, punishes and demeans everything you’re working hard for. Is it a constant battle between what you want to accomplish, how you want your life to be and that harsh critical voice inside your head? That voice is a big part of your depression, anxiety and addiction. You are not alone and you are not hopeless and doomed to repeat this cycle over and over. I understand that voice and I want to help you find freedom from it.
I have successfully treated various issues such as depression, anxiety, women’s issues, trauma, adoption issues, as well as parenting and relationship problems.
Do you self-sabotage? You work very hard to get ahead, strive for success and accomplish goals that you desire. Meanwhile, another part of you criticizes, punishes and demeans everything you’re working hard for. Is it a constant battle between what you want to accomplish, how you want your life to be and that harsh critical voice inside your head? That voice is a big part of your depression, anxiety and addiction. You are not alone and you are not hopeless and doomed to repeat this cycle over and over. I understand that voice and I want to help you find freedom from it.
(909) 265-7552 View (909) 265-7552
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Aimee Joie C. Rios
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
It takes courage to recognize when you need some extra support. Whether you’re facing grief and loss, in the midst of a life transition, navigating chronic illness, struggling in an intimate relationship, or seeking support for your child, I would love to hear from you.
It takes courage to recognize when you need some extra support. Whether you’re facing grief and loss, in the midst of a life transition, navigating chronic illness, struggling in an intimate relationship, or seeking support for your child, I would love to hear from you.
(909) 324-4217 View (909) 324-4217
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Diane Coy Brodersen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
Getting professional help gives you a partner to help you resolve these issues.
I believe a problem is a solution waiting to be found. I have 25 years experience seeing adults, children, teenagers, couples, and families. I've worked as a Family Court Mediator, and director of Student Counseling, Loma Linda University. My focus areas: 1.)panic attacks/anxiety disorders 2.) depression 3.) eating disorders 4.) divorce recovery 5.) adults and children from abusive/ alcoholic childhoods 6.) Christian counseling 7.) relationship issues (marital, divorce). I help clients change negative thinking, raise their self-esteem, and learn to achieve their goals. I work with clients to understand their destructive behavior and poor choices and change them
Getting professional help gives you a partner to help you resolve these issues.
I believe a problem is a solution waiting to be found. I have 25 years experience seeing adults, children, teenagers, couples, and families. I've worked as a Family Court Mediator, and director of Student Counseling, Loma Linda University. My focus areas: 1.)panic attacks/anxiety disorders 2.) depression 3.) eating disorders 4.) divorce recovery 5.) adults and children from abusive/ alcoholic childhoods 6.) Christian counseling 7.) relationship issues (marital, divorce). I help clients change negative thinking, raise their self-esteem, and learn to achieve their goals. I work with clients to understand their destructive behavior and poor choices and change them
(909) 918-6951 View (909) 918-6951
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Emelly Rosspencer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MPH, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
As a therapist, the heart of my work is to help you create healthy, more fulfilling relationships. Because we are relational beings, our lives are profoundly influenced by the quality of our relationships. At times, we may need to repair a broken relationship, let go of a harmful relationship, or manage a problematic relationship in a healthier way. I come alongside couples, families, and individuals to bring health and healing to relationships with key people in their lives - spouses, parents, children, friends, work colleagues, or even your relationship to yourself.
As a therapist, the heart of my work is to help you create healthy, more fulfilling relationships. Because we are relational beings, our lives are profoundly influenced by the quality of our relationships. At times, we may need to repair a broken relationship, let go of a harmful relationship, or manage a problematic relationship in a healthier way. I come alongside couples, families, and individuals to bring health and healing to relationships with key people in their lives - spouses, parents, children, friends, work colleagues, or even your relationship to yourself.
(909) 473-4685 View (909) 473-4685
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Kym Codallos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
I also see couples and families.
I'm Dr. Kym Codallos, a licensed clinical social worker in California, Arizona, Wyoming, and Colorado. I believe in treating the whole individual or family system. My approaches are eclectic and uniquely tailored to the needs of the individual or family system. I believe that we all have strengths that we are able to use to get us through the most difficult of situations. I come from a strengths-based perspective and approach to working with clients. I am kind, and compassionate but won't be afraid, to be honest with you. My clients find me to be warm and friendly.
I also see couples and families.
I'm Dr. Kym Codallos, a licensed clinical social worker in California, Arizona, Wyoming, and Colorado. I believe in treating the whole individual or family system. My approaches are eclectic and uniquely tailored to the needs of the individual or family system. I believe that we all have strengths that we are able to use to get us through the most difficult of situations. I come from a strengths-based perspective and approach to working with clients. I am kind, and compassionate but won't be afraid, to be honest with you. My clients find me to be warm and friendly.
(909) 497-5072 View (909) 497-5072
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Louis Battistone
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LAADC, CAMS II
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
I have been providing therapy for individuals, families and couples, and most recently on a panel for transgender psychological evaluations for over 25 years. I have certifications for anger management and chemical dependency.
I have been providing therapy for individuals, families and couples, and most recently on a panel for transgender psychological evaluations for over 25 years. I have certifications for anger management and chemical dependency.
(909) 402-2686 View (909) 402-2686
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Amanda Vargas
Counselor, LPCC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
I love working with individuals who want to regain control of their lives, women who need to find their identity outside of work, mom or wife, and with couples who want to strengthen their relationship.
Learning to be transparent and vulnerable is difficult but not impossible. These skills take time and are based on trust. As a therapist I would love to be a person who you can trust because I DO care. I want to understand you better and work alongside of you to help you become the best possible version of yourself. I love working with individuals who often lose a sense of self because of putting others before them such as their spouse or children. It can be the hardest question to answer when someone asks you, what do YOU want? My goal to help you live as the BEST version of yourself is to start with caring for YOU first.
I love working with individuals who want to regain control of their lives, women who need to find their identity outside of work, mom or wife, and with couples who want to strengthen their relationship.
Learning to be transparent and vulnerable is difficult but not impossible. These skills take time and are based on trust. As a therapist I would love to be a person who you can trust because I DO care. I want to understand you better and work alongside of you to help you become the best possible version of yourself. I love working with individuals who often lose a sense of self because of putting others before them such as their spouse or children. It can be the hardest question to answer when someone asks you, what do YOU want? My goal to help you live as the BEST version of yourself is to start with caring for YOU first.
(951) 327-7707 View (951) 327-7707
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Jason P Springsted
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
This word can describe comforting, encouraging, and strengthening, and I strive to have that kind of relationship with my clients.
I am passionate about marriage and the family, and I believe that healthy and whole individuals make up the best families. Whether you see something seriously wrong in your life, believe your marriage could use a little fine tuning, or are worried about your adolescent slipping away, please understand that I would love to work with you on these challenges. I am thankful for those with whom I work, and I consider it a privilege to be trusted. As a Christ-follower, I am happy to incorporate faith, but only with those who so desire.
This word can describe comforting, encouraging, and strengthening, and I strive to have that kind of relationship with my clients.
I am passionate about marriage and the family, and I believe that healthy and whole individuals make up the best families. Whether you see something seriously wrong in your life, believe your marriage could use a little fine tuning, or are worried about your adolescent slipping away, please understand that I would love to work with you on these challenges. I am thankful for those with whom I work, and I consider it a privilege to be trusted. As a Christ-follower, I am happy to incorporate faith, but only with those who so desire.
(951) 291-9643 View (951) 291-9643
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Tracy J Covington
Psychologist, PhD, AAPM, BCB
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
In addition to individual and couples psychotherapy, we also offer the cutting edge treatment of psychedelic assisted therapy.
Greetings! I am a clinical psychologist (Doctor) in Redlands California. I have been in practice in my quaint Redlands building for over 25 years. I specialize in mindfulness psychotherapy and offer a multitude of services for depression, anxiety, PTSD and other psychological challenges. Our building is a commercially converted house creating a warm and inviting experience. You always have the option for in-office or virtual sessions. Our assistant, Kathy, is here to answer questions and expedite scheduling! You will find our services professionally offered in a warm and beautiful setting.
In addition to individual and couples psychotherapy, we also offer the cutting edge treatment of psychedelic assisted therapy.
Greetings! I am a clinical psychologist (Doctor) in Redlands California. I have been in practice in my quaint Redlands building for over 25 years. I specialize in mindfulness psychotherapy and offer a multitude of services for depression, anxiety, PTSD and other psychological challenges. Our building is a commercially converted house creating a warm and inviting experience. You always have the option for in-office or virtual sessions. Our assistant, Kathy, is here to answer questions and expedite scheduling! You will find our services professionally offered in a warm and beautiful setting.
(909) 962-1972 View (909) 962-1972
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Diana R. Muñoz
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373  (Online Only)
My therapeutic journey thus far includes working through family conflict, relationship challenges, addiction, and phase of life changes.
Hello and welcome. As a marriage and family therapist I am grateful for the opportunity to work with clients providing a safe and supportive environment, navigating various challenges life brings our way. I have had the privilege of working with diverse populations over the past 8 years, supporting them through these challenges. Life has no prejudice in choosing whom obstacles afflict and when, hurdles enter each of our paths at different times. As a therapist, I am blessed to be in a position to provide support honoring your path.
My therapeutic journey thus far includes working through family conflict, relationship challenges, addiction, and phase of life changes.
Hello and welcome. As a marriage and family therapist I am grateful for the opportunity to work with clients providing a safe and supportive environment, navigating various challenges life brings our way. I have had the privilege of working with diverse populations over the past 8 years, supporting them through these challenges. Life has no prejudice in choosing whom obstacles afflict and when, hurdles enter each of our paths at different times. As a therapist, I am blessed to be in a position to provide support honoring your path.
(909) 328-1537 View (909) 328-1537
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Dr. Ginger Simonton
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
Working together with women, couples, and families I am dedicated to creating hope and restoration, positive self worth, and improved wellbeing physically, emotionally, and socially.
What your mind and body says about you can explain so much! As women we carry the stress of family, work, school, and trauma in our bodies. This impacts the way we feel about ourselves and the world around us. At times in our life stress grows and so does the strain on our overall wellness. This process of stress and pressure can cause us to long for relief from the cycle of stress, pain, psychological turmoil, and relational distress (think: aging parents, children of all ages, and partners).
Working together with women, couples, and families I am dedicated to creating hope and restoration, positive self worth, and improved wellbeing physically, emotionally, and socially.
What your mind and body says about you can explain so much! As women we carry the stress of family, work, school, and trauma in our bodies. This impacts the way we feel about ourselves and the world around us. At times in our life stress grows and so does the strain on our overall wellness. This process of stress and pressure can cause us to long for relief from the cycle of stress, pain, psychological turmoil, and relational distress (think: aging parents, children of all ages, and partners).
(951) 400-4456 View (951) 400-4456
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Kayla Armstrong
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
I partner with my clients to empower and encourage themselves so that they are able to live strong, happy, and healthy lives.
Using compassionate care, empathy, sensitivity, gentleness, and a strengths-based approach, I strive to create a warm and comfortable environment for clients to engage in their healing, growth, and change processes. I assist clients in exploring the context, history, and life experiences that contribute to their presenting concerns in order for clients to experience self-transformation. I want my clients to know that there are always ways in which to manage, cope, recover, and heal, and that suffering does not have to be permanent or lifelong.
I partner with my clients to empower and encourage themselves so that they are able to live strong, happy, and healthy lives.
Using compassionate care, empathy, sensitivity, gentleness, and a strengths-based approach, I strive to create a warm and comfortable environment for clients to engage in their healing, growth, and change processes. I assist clients in exploring the context, history, and life experiences that contribute to their presenting concerns in order for clients to experience self-transformation. I want my clients to know that there are always ways in which to manage, cope, recover, and heal, and that suffering does not have to be permanent or lifelong.
(909) 340-3440 View (909) 340-3440
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Dr. Traci W. Lowenthal
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
I also can help with the other things that you may experience, such as anxiety, compulsive thoughts, depression, relationship conflict, and more.
Do you struggle because of your sexual identity, gender identity, age, or health status? Does it sometimes feel like the world will only accept you if you fit in a neat little box? I will help you uncover or reconnect with the beautiful parts of yourself that have been overshadowed by societal expectations and pressure. I provide a safe, supportive, confidential environment to explore and create the life you want and the relationships you desire. I work with people of all gender expressions, ages, spiritual backgrounds, health statuses, and sexual orientations.
I also can help with the other things that you may experience, such as anxiety, compulsive thoughts, depression, relationship conflict, and more.
Do you struggle because of your sexual identity, gender identity, age, or health status? Does it sometimes feel like the world will only accept you if you fit in a neat little box? I will help you uncover or reconnect with the beautiful parts of yourself that have been overshadowed by societal expectations and pressure. I provide a safe, supportive, confidential environment to explore and create the life you want and the relationships you desire. I work with people of all gender expressions, ages, spiritual backgrounds, health statuses, and sexual orientations.
(909) 240-7833 View (909) 240-7833
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Bryan Cafferky
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MDiv, CFLE
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
Here you will find a compassionate & authentic space in which you learn to more deeply connect with yourself (and others), so you can finally discover what's behind your typical “knee-jerk reactions” & why your “go to” coping strategies seem to cause more distress than the original problems! Then we'll make meaningful shifts to uncover new and healthier ways to approach life and relationships. Clients often come to me for help with a broad range of concerns, like: trauma, anxiety, depression, pain, existential malaise, creative blocks, infertility challenges, grief, & family/ relationship drama and communication difficulties.
Here you will find a compassionate & authentic space in which you learn to more deeply connect with yourself (and others), so you can finally discover what's behind your typical “knee-jerk reactions” & why your “go to” coping strategies seem to cause more distress than the original problems! Then we'll make meaningful shifts to uncover new and healthier ways to approach life and relationships. Clients often come to me for help with a broad range of concerns, like: trauma, anxiety, depression, pain, existential malaise, creative blocks, infertility challenges, grief, & family/ relationship drama and communication difficulties.
(909) 328-6179 View (909) 328-6179
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Susan Lehrman
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
Choosing to get help is a sometimes difficult and courageous decision, especially in these difficult times. As of March 2020, I have begun doing telehealth. I will try to help you to feel as comfortable as possible from our first contact. I know that the biggest compliment I can receive is to be told how “real” clients find me to be, and how understood they feel. I have been in practice in Redlands for more than 25 years, and I utilize various techniques, tailoring my interventions to meet the client’s needs. I believe that it is the relationship between the client and therapist that has the most to do with growth.
Choosing to get help is a sometimes difficult and courageous decision, especially in these difficult times. As of March 2020, I have begun doing telehealth. I will try to help you to feel as comfortable as possible from our first contact. I know that the biggest compliment I can receive is to be told how “real” clients find me to be, and how understood they feel. I have been in practice in Redlands for more than 25 years, and I utilize various techniques, tailoring my interventions to meet the client’s needs. I believe that it is the relationship between the client and therapist that has the most to do with growth.
(909) 570-1770 View (909) 570-1770
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.