Attachment-based Therapists in Oakdale, CA
I’m not here to judge or give you cliché advice—I just want to give you space to sort through the mess and figure out what actually feels better for you. Therapy with me is pretty relaxed… come as you are, and we’ll go from there.
I’m not here to judge or give you cliché advice—I just want to give you space to sort through the mess and figure out what actually feels better for you. Therapy with me is pretty relaxed… come as you are, and we’ll go from there.
You might be someone who’s used to holding it all together—showing up for others, pushing through, staying responsible—but underneath, things feel heavy, overwhelming, or disconnected. Maybe anxiety is constant, relationships feel strained, or you’re just not feeling like yourself anymore.
You might be someone who’s used to holding it all together—showing up for others, pushing through, staying responsible—but underneath, things feel heavy, overwhelming, or disconnected. Maybe anxiety is constant, relationships feel strained, or you’re just not feeling like yourself anymore.
I seek to listen without rushing, creating space for clients to access, name, and make sense of their experiences. I believe that it is within this human encounter, when one is fully witnessed, that change occurs. I enjoy working with couples, individuals navigating grief or life transitions, and those wanting to live a more full and authentic life.
I seek to listen without rushing, creating space for clients to access, name, and make sense of their experiences. I believe that it is within this human encounter, when one is fully witnessed, that change occurs. I enjoy working with couples, individuals navigating grief or life transitions, and those wanting to live a more full and authentic life.
Have you ever wondered, "Why do I feel this way?" or "Why do I feel stuck or unsure of where I'm headed?" I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, life transitions, grief, divorce, parenting challenges, postpartum depression, relationship concerns, and stress related to major life changes. Through secure telehealth sessions, I provide a safe, supportive, and judgment-free space where we can build a trusting therapeutic relationship and work together toward meaningful, lasting change.
Have you ever wondered, "Why do I feel this way?" or "Why do I feel stuck or unsure of where I'm headed?" I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, life transitions, grief, divorce, parenting challenges, postpartum depression, relationship concerns, and stress related to major life changes. Through secure telehealth sessions, I provide a safe, supportive, and judgment-free space where we can build a trusting therapeutic relationship and work together toward meaningful, lasting change.
Janet K- Barretta: Serenity Heart Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EDMR, MAC
1 Endorsed
Oakdale, CA 95361
Resolving trauma is very important and my speciality when it comes to childhood, adults teens and children. Are you ready to be heard and address your needs in counseling instead of others directing you? I’m committed to helping people understand themselves better so that they can make constructive changes in their lives. I provide a full assessment regarding trauma history, attachment, and what interventions would be appropriate. Taking that first step takes courage, making an appointment, and meeting with a counselor. I’m have an empathic gentle style, and provide a safe environment for families, children, teens, and adults.
Resolving trauma is very important and my speciality when it comes to childhood, adults teens and children. Are you ready to be heard and address your needs in counseling instead of others directing you? I’m committed to helping people understand themselves better so that they can make constructive changes in their lives. I provide a full assessment regarding trauma history, attachment, and what interventions would be appropriate. Taking that first step takes courage, making an appointment, and meeting with a counselor. I’m have an empathic gentle style, and provide a safe environment for families, children, teens, and adults.
I am glad you're here. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist. I have a strong background in mental health within multiple settings. I am committed to helping you navigate challenges and meeting YOU where you are in your life. It is my goal to work with my clients, to find H.O.P.E through evidence-based practices and the development of coping skills.
I am glad you're here. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist. I have a strong background in mental health within multiple settings. I am committed to helping you navigate challenges and meeting YOU where you are in your life. It is my goal to work with my clients, to find H.O.P.E through evidence-based practices and the development of coping skills.
Are you worried, fearful or depressed? Would you like guidance, options and a new perspective? I can help you live a more satisfying life through compassionate listening, honest feedback, and a focus on results. My goal is that you learn skills to maintain the changes that satisfy you. If you desire a greater ability to understand and control your emotions and feel content, I can help you. Discover opportunities to see yourself differently than you currently do and create an effective, positive and lasting change. We will focus on getting the results you need to live a more satisfying life.
Are you worried, fearful or depressed? Would you like guidance, options and a new perspective? I can help you live a more satisfying life through compassionate listening, honest feedback, and a focus on results. My goal is that you learn skills to maintain the changes that satisfy you. If you desire a greater ability to understand and control your emotions and feel content, I can help you. Discover opportunities to see yourself differently than you currently do and create an effective, positive and lasting change. We will focus on getting the results you need to live a more satisfying life.
If you're reading this, you are most likely feeling overwhelmed with stress and anxiety. You may be in the midst of a crisis, re-living traumas or depressed from repeating the same unhealthy patterns that are holding you back. Looking for help can be a daunting experience, my hope is to make that process easier for you.
If you're reading this, you are most likely feeling overwhelmed with stress and anxiety. You may be in the midst of a crisis, re-living traumas or depressed from repeating the same unhealthy patterns that are holding you back. Looking for help can be a daunting experience, my hope is to make that process easier for you.
My name is Kourtney Kauffman and I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. While I’ve been practicing as a therapist since 2012, I have more than 15 years in the mental health field, working in various roles and settings. I believe that change is possible. My work centers around brain-supportive, trauma-informed approaches with a focus on anxiety disorders, trauma recovery, family dynamic issues, foster care and adoption, and women’s issues.
My name is Kourtney Kauffman and I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. While I’ve been practicing as a therapist since 2012, I have more than 15 years in the mental health field, working in various roles and settings. I believe that change is possible. My work centers around brain-supportive, trauma-informed approaches with a focus on anxiety disorders, trauma recovery, family dynamic issues, foster care and adoption, and women’s issues.
Are you feeling so down that you can't stop crying or you can't get out of bed? Has your relationship gotten to the point that you don't know how to get it back on track? Does anxiety paralyze you? Has today stresses with jobs & economy leaked into your marriage and you want it to stop? Do you wonder how past events and trauma in your life effect your relationships today? Are you ready to start being happy? There is a better way to live! I can help you gain the tools to live the life you deserve.I am very passionate about helping you achieve personal growth and happiness.
Are you feeling so down that you can't stop crying or you can't get out of bed? Has your relationship gotten to the point that you don't know how to get it back on track? Does anxiety paralyze you? Has today stresses with jobs & economy leaked into your marriage and you want it to stop? Do you wonder how past events and trauma in your life effect your relationships today? Are you ready to start being happy? There is a better way to live! I can help you gain the tools to live the life you deserve.I am very passionate about helping you achieve personal growth and happiness.
Are you looking for more connection in your relationship, but aren’t really sure where to start? Does persistent worry, sadness or stress overwhelm you? Therapy can help. I enjoy working with individuals and couples to get to the root of the obstacles and move toward more enjoyment in life.
Are you looking for more connection in your relationship, but aren’t really sure where to start? Does persistent worry, sadness or stress overwhelm you? Therapy can help. I enjoy working with individuals and couples to get to the root of the obstacles and move toward more enjoyment in life.
Feeling Heard- Jannelle Heard, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Oakdale, CA 95361
Not accepting new clients
Too busy to take mental stock of what’s really going on? Over functioning tends to be culturally valued, but at what cost? Emotional bandwidth maxed out? Leaving you not as present as you’d like to be for yourself, your family, and your friends? Past experiences intruding on your here-and-now? Mental, emotional, and physical energies trying to work through trauma, seemingly stuck on playback loop? Feeling stuck in a rut? Planful problem solving, building motivation for change and action- slow and steady.
Too busy to take mental stock of what’s really going on? Over functioning tends to be culturally valued, but at what cost? Emotional bandwidth maxed out? Leaving you not as present as you’d like to be for yourself, your family, and your friends? Past experiences intruding on your here-and-now? Mental, emotional, and physical energies trying to work through trauma, seemingly stuck on playback loop? Feeling stuck in a rut? Planful problem solving, building motivation for change and action- slow and steady.
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I provide a supportive and inclusive space for clients to explore how to strengthen their ability to navigate life's struggles and learning opportunities. I am here to help you navigate towards your idealized sense of self, sustainable coping skills, and interpersonal techniques to navigate your life. My expertise lies in assisting adults who are grappling with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, self-worth concerns, life transitions, grief, and the specific needs of first responders and healthcare workers.
I provide a supportive and inclusive space for clients to explore how to strengthen their ability to navigate life's struggles and learning opportunities. I am here to help you navigate towards your idealized sense of self, sustainable coping skills, and interpersonal techniques to navigate your life. My expertise lies in assisting adults who are grappling with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, self-worth concerns, life transitions, grief, and the specific needs of first responders and healthcare workers.
I am a licensed Marriage Family Therapist with 10+ years of clinical experience and an array of lived experiences. I use a CBT approach to assist the individual in identifying distorted narratives in an effort to assist the client in gaining insight and awareness into their specific issues. I work with youth, teens, adolescents, parents, single parents, transition-age youth, young adults, and middle-aged adults.
I am a licensed Marriage Family Therapist with 10+ years of clinical experience and an array of lived experiences. I use a CBT approach to assist the individual in identifying distorted narratives in an effort to assist the client in gaining insight and awareness into their specific issues. I work with youth, teens, adolescents, parents, single parents, transition-age youth, young adults, and middle-aged adults.
I help women who appear strong and capable on the outside but feel overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally exhausted on the inside. Many are navigating life transitions, relationship stress, burnout, or lingering wounds from the past. If you find yourself people-pleasing, overthinking, or striving for perfection, therapy can help you break those patterns. Together we build clarity, confidence, and healthier boundaries so you can feel more grounded, empowered, and connected to yourself and the life you want.
I help women who appear strong and capable on the outside but feel overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally exhausted on the inside. Many are navigating life transitions, relationship stress, burnout, or lingering wounds from the past. If you find yourself people-pleasing, overthinking, or striving for perfection, therapy can help you break those patterns. Together we build clarity, confidence, and healthier boundaries so you can feel more grounded, empowered, and connected to yourself and the life you want.
Sometimes the shame and the isolation becomes unbearable. Sometimes the devastating consequences of compulsive sexual behavior destroy family, job, and reputation. We are the region's leading outpatient treatment program helping individuals, spouses, and families heal from the affects of pornography addiction and other sexually compulsive behaviors. Our affordable program allows you to remain at home and seek recovery while continuing to work. Whether you are a man struggling with sexual behavor that is out of control, or the spouse or partner who suffering the trauma of discovery, our program gives you the sustained support and guidance you need to experience full recovery and the healing of the marital and family relationship.
Sometimes the shame and the isolation becomes unbearable. Sometimes the devastating consequences of compulsive sexual behavior destroy family, job, and reputation. We are the region's leading outpatient treatment program helping individuals, spouses, and families heal from the affects of pornography addiction and other sexually compulsive behaviors. Our affordable program allows you to remain at home and seek recovery while continuing to work. Whether you are a man struggling with sexual behavor that is out of control, or the spouse or partner who suffering the trauma of discovery, our program gives you the sustained support and guidance you need to experience full recovery and the healing of the marital and family relationship.
Hola! I'm Maria Villeda, but most people call me Mari. I'm a bilingual Licensed Clinical Social Worker and founder of Homegirl Roots Psychotherapy. As the daughter of immigrants, I understand the balance between cultural expectations, family dynamics, and creating a life that feels true to you.
If you're a millennial woman of color who's tired of being the strong one all the time, you're in the right place. Together, we'll create space for healing, self-compassion, and showing up for yourself with the same care you give everyone else.
Hola! I'm Maria Villeda, but most people call me Mari. I'm a bilingual Licensed Clinical Social Worker and founder of Homegirl Roots Psychotherapy. As the daughter of immigrants, I understand the balance between cultural expectations, family dynamics, and creating a life that feels true to you.
If you're a millennial woman of color who's tired of being the strong one all the time, you're in the right place. Together, we'll create space for healing, self-compassion, and showing up for yourself with the same care you give everyone else.
I have been in practice for over 40 years. I enjoy working with individuals from the recovery community, first responders and those who have experienced traumatic childhood issues.
I have sat with veterans who shared their experiences of seeing death and destruction from combat. I have treated first responders who wept while describing their feelings of seeing dead children at the scenes of accidents.
I have shared in the miracles of one's recovery while exploring family related dynamics. I have also been in therapy which gives me a unique perspective of appreciating the value of therapy as both a client and therapist.
I have been in practice for over 40 years. I enjoy working with individuals from the recovery community, first responders and those who have experienced traumatic childhood issues.
I have sat with veterans who shared their experiences of seeing death and destruction from combat. I have treated first responders who wept while describing their feelings of seeing dead children at the scenes of accidents.
I have shared in the miracles of one's recovery while exploring family related dynamics. I have also been in therapy which gives me a unique perspective of appreciating the value of therapy as both a client and therapist.
The fact that you are reading these words tells us you have been attempting to overcome some type of life adversity. We often do not seek this type of help, mostly because of the many negative judgments that have influenced us since our childhood. It is these vary experiences, along with our own perception of them, that has caused and exacerbated the very symptoms we seek help for. It has been my experience that this history needs to be revisited, reviewed, and re-addressed so that we can overcome many of the chronic conditions that affect far too many in this world. “There is no birth of consciousness without pain”, Carl Jung
The fact that you are reading these words tells us you have been attempting to overcome some type of life adversity. We often do not seek this type of help, mostly because of the many negative judgments that have influenced us since our childhood. It is these vary experiences, along with our own perception of them, that has caused and exacerbated the very symptoms we seek help for. It has been my experience that this history needs to be revisited, reviewed, and re-addressed so that we can overcome many of the chronic conditions that affect far too many in this world. “There is no birth of consciousness without pain”, Carl Jung
Having worked extensively with multi-cultural children, survivors of domestic violence, and individuals on the autism spectrum, I understand that every story is unique, and that healing must honor both your inner world and your lived experiences.
My approach integrates trauma-informed therapy, mindfulness, and culturally sensitive care to create a space where you can rediscover your voice and rebuild balance.
I speak English, Hindu and Urdu and you can book me via 'My Website'.
If you need help dealing with holiday stress, I have evening appointments available as well.
Having worked extensively with multi-cultural children, survivors of domestic violence, and individuals on the autism spectrum, I understand that every story is unique, and that healing must honor both your inner world and your lived experiences.
My approach integrates trauma-informed therapy, mindfulness, and culturally sensitive care to create a space where you can rediscover your voice and rebuild balance.
I speak English, Hindu and Urdu and you can book me via 'My Website'.
If you need help dealing with holiday stress, I have evening appointments available as well.
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Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?
Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.
What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?
Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.
How long does attachment-based therapy last?
Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.
Does attachment-based therapy work?
Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.


