Counselling in Meopham

I am a very experienced integrated therapist for both mental and physical issues. I work with both individuals and couples, offering help with the stresses of everyday life such as Anxiety, Anger and Depression as well as marriage guidance and a range of relationship problems. I can help with ongoing chronic issues such as addiction, abuse, past and present traumas and other concerns. I aim to tailor the style of therapy to suit your needs and encourage an initial session to assess how best to work with you.

The reality is that we all encounter things in our lives which cause us suffering and pain. Many of us will reach a point where we feel a sense of impass or something which challenges our sense of who we are, particularly as we develop outside of the families we grew up in. The human brain is able to develop ingenious ways of coping, but our coping mechanisms can end up causing us more distress than they fix. We then end up in a pattern of beliefs and behaviours which negatively affect us and leave us feeling hopeless and stuck. I belive that it's possible for everyone to lead a fulfilling life. We sometimes just need a little help.

Feeling nobody quite "Gets YOU?" Impulsive, disorganised, head scrambled, masking due to ADHD/ASD? Drugs or alcohol used to self medicate, relax or cope with stress but now noticed its getting out of control?  Anxiety and panic attacks starting to control your life but not sure the trigger? Or do you just have a sense something is wrong but struggle to open up or express how you feel to your partner, family or friends? The beauty of talking to a counsellor is I am neutral and independent of your situation which can make it easier to open up and explore your feelings and thoughts.

Hello and welcome. Please know that seeking help is a sign of strength and courage. I am here to support you and walk alongside you on your journey in achieving a more peaceful, fulfilling, meaningful and balanced life. I understand that starting therapy may feel very vulnerable, you may be unsure about what to expect or what you would like to get out of therapy. I offer a safe space for you to explore and unpack your thoughts, feelings and emotions and I will support you to find the best way forward for you. I offer face to face, online and telephone counselling. I also offer Walk and Talk therapy in and around Tunbridge Wells.

Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. I firmly believe that every individual holds the potential to discover their authentic self and lead a meaningful life. My aim is simple, to ignite and facilitate your journey of self-connection. Within you lies a treasure waiting to be discovered, let's work together to bring it to realisation.

Contact us to book a free, informal telephone or online consultation. Our approach is to create the right conditions to allow you to reconnect with your values to enable you to live your life the way you want to. Although we are not here to tell you what to do, we may suggest alternative perspectives and, if you don’t have clarity, help you identify what may sit behind your present frame of mind.

I am a Gestalt counsellor who will work with you one-to-one either in person or via Zoom or Skype. My main focus as a counsellor is to work with you to explore issues that you feel are holding you back from experiencing a fulfilled life. Together, we will look at the ways in which your experience of the world is proving to be difficult and causing you distress, stuck and unable to move forward. Together we will explore the issues that you are struggling with to enable you to move forward.

Is parenthood what you dreamed of? Or are you feeling like things are not quite right? Are you struggling with the weight of expectations on you? Are you feeling anxious or inexplicably sad? Maybe you can’t find your own way for the sea of other people's opinions? Perhaps you’re struggling to get through the day without feeling completely overwhelmed? Perhaps you know that you need to make the space and time to find a way forward?

I work with children, adolescents and adults. If life is difficult right now and you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or in need of support, I am able to help. I will work with you to feel safe and relaxed in your sessions, with this comes trust and the ability to work through worries in a deeper more honest way. You are always at the centre of the work. The ultimate aim is to help you find skills and confidence within yourself, to manage your emotions and feelings, so that you feel safe and stronger within life's experiences. People I have worked with in the past have experienced positive changes in their lives.

I use an integrative approach and my style is focused on empathy and respect. My focus is to help you alleviate your pain and discover how your feelings and thoughts are affecting your life. I will help you understand your life experiences and how they may have led you to be feeling unhappy, anxious, or confused.

Are you unable to move on? Are you being triggered not fully understanding why you react, often caught in a repeated upsetting memory or memories and unable to shake its grasp? Do you feel misunderstood, confused, angry, and isolated? Do your loved ones and friends comment on how you've changed? Sounds familiar? You may be suffering from PTSD, grief or trauma. Don't despair. There is hope. As a qualified mental health practitioner and trauma therapist I have worked with people like you. Some have experienced violent crime, domestic violence, sexual assault, road traffic accidents, bullying, abuse, neglect or complex military trauma.

You may be considering counselling if you feel anxious a lot of the time, feel low or depressed, can't make sense of your emotions or just don't feel yourself. You may be struggling to accept a big change in your life. Or you may be thinking of making a change but finding it hard to trust your own decision-making. You may simply want someone to listen, without giving their own opinions.

We all struggle at times and feel hard to find a way forward. When our minds won’t stop racing and we can’t find a way to move forward. I’m here to support you through these times. I offer a confidential, safe, and non-judgmental space, for you to share and explore what’s going on for you. Together we can look at making positive changes to make things more manageable. I work in a humanistic way, using an integrative style by adapting my therapy to what suits your needs. This could range from working on things in the present to working on trauma that has affected you from childhood.

Welcome. Sometimes life presents challenges and the turbulence of these can be overwhelming and may impact negatively on our mental health and emotional well-being. Psychotherapy and counselling offer a safe space to explore your experiences of these difficulties. Seeking help from a professional may be the next step and psychotherapy or counselling gives you the opportunity to look at your life, your problems and concerns. I am a qualified psychotherapist and counsellor with over 30 years experience. In my private practice I work with adults experiencing all aspects of mental ill health concerns, relationship and life issues.

Psychotherapy and Coaching are many things. Sometimes it's about coping strategies and supporting my clients through a tough time or loss, others want to change something about how they feel, think or behave, many looking to be free themselves of the past whilst some aren't sure exactly what they need, they simply feel the struggle to be happy in their life or relationships. There really is nothing too small or too big to ask for help with. You'll find I'm patient and calm by nature, have a compassionate and mature approach to helping, intuitively sense some things are really tough to talk about and whilst I will help you with ideas and tools to reduce symptoms and which can also speed up meaningful change between sessions, note: you will get to direct, manage your own destiny. I have always seen my role as supporting and guiding my clients through psychotherapy, enabling you to see for yourself and understand how your difficulties keeps you stuck and with my help how to overcome them. My aim is always for my clients to be able to leave feeling confident in knowing how to maintain their own well being long term.

COUNSELLING AND WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM ME:...……………I'm a person centred counsellor. My approach is non-directive and you are the expert of our own life. I work in a non-judgemental and respective way. I'm a caring, empathic and friendly person. Sometimes we need to step back and review our life and refocus and look at what matters which will then enable you to make new decisions. I will offer you a safe and confidential space where you will feel listened to without any criticism or judgment.

Hi my name is Lou and I am an NHS trained counsellor and stress specialist. I help women overcome their anxiety and manage the stress in their lives, transform their mental and physical health and improve their relationships and wellbeing. I can help you navigate through menopause and recognise the physical impact as well as emotional that stress has on our bodies. If you are feeling anxious and overwhelmed, struggling to say no to things and consumed with self doubt. I can help you feel calmer, think more clearly and make better decisions to help you live a calmer, healthier, happier life. So book in for your free call today.