Counselling in Grays

Lola Patient
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Grays RM16
As a Person-Centred Therapist, this means I am all about meeting you where you are, in your life without judgement. I created Patient counselling for adults that are tired of just surviving or making do – because life’s challenges can be extremely hard to hold alone. I bring warmth & genuine care to every session with every client I meet, it’s such a big step to reach out & ask for support, I will be by your side while you navigate through any challenges. If you are ready to make changes in your life, counselling can help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself, reflect & help you gain a new perspective on life.
As a Person-Centred Therapist, this means I am all about meeting you where you are, in your life without judgement. I created Patient counselling for adults that are tired of just surviving or making do – because life’s challenges can be extremely hard to hold alone. I bring warmth & genuine care to every session with every client I meet, it’s such a big step to reach out & ask for support, I will be by your side while you navigate through any challenges. If you are ready to make changes in your life, counselling can help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself, reflect & help you gain a new perspective on life.
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The Nurture Bridge
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Hi, I am Becky, and I work in an integrative way, offering warm relational and person centred therapy to help you break stuck patterns, heal past experiences and build secure relationships. Do you find yourself feeling anxious, pulling away in relationships, have low self-confidence or constantly worrying that people will leave? Are you experiencing feelings of emotional exhaustion, loneliness, repeating old patterns, feeling disconnected or overwhelmed, or feeling "too much" / "not enough"? Together, we'll look at how your earliest relationships shape how you handle anxiety, betrayal, trust, intimacy, and conflict today.
Hi, I am Becky, and I work in an integrative way, offering warm relational and person centred therapy to help you break stuck patterns, heal past experiences and build secure relationships. Do you find yourself feeling anxious, pulling away in relationships, have low self-confidence or constantly worrying that people will leave? Are you experiencing feelings of emotional exhaustion, loneliness, repeating old patterns, feeling disconnected or overwhelmed, or feeling "too much" / "not enough"? Together, we'll look at how your earliest relationships shape how you handle anxiety, betrayal, trust, intimacy, and conflict today.
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Juliana Kawenga
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? It takes courage and resilience to seek support, and you've already taken a significant step. Let's work together to explore and understand your emotions, thoughts, and behaviours so you can regain a sense of control. My approach is tailored to your unique needs, drawing on insights from psychoanalytic, person-centred, existential, as an integrative therapist to help you understand the origins of your struggles. I believe deeply that healing arises from strengthening your relationship with yourself, which can be affected by fears, traumas, and worries.
Feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? It takes courage and resilience to seek support, and you've already taken a significant step. Let's work together to explore and understand your emotions, thoughts, and behaviours so you can regain a sense of control. My approach is tailored to your unique needs, drawing on insights from psychoanalytic, person-centred, existential, as an integrative therapist to help you understand the origins of your struggles. I believe deeply that healing arises from strengthening your relationship with yourself, which can be affected by fears, traumas, and worries.
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Trudi Jane Stock
Counsellor, MBACP
Grays RM16
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
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Janelle Gargrupe
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or like you're carrying everything on your own? You don't have to face it alone. Hello, I'm Janelle, a qualified person-centred counsellor offering a warm, compassionate, confidential space where you can talk openly without fear of judgement. Reaching out for support can feel like a big step and I believe finding the right counsellor is about feeling genuinely heard, understood and accepted. My aim is to provide a calm, supportive environment where you can explore your thoughts and emotions at your own pace. I'll work alongside you, helping you gain clarity, build resilience, and reconnect.
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or like you're carrying everything on your own? You don't have to face it alone. Hello, I'm Janelle, a qualified person-centred counsellor offering a warm, compassionate, confidential space where you can talk openly without fear of judgement. Reaching out for support can feel like a big step and I believe finding the right counsellor is about feeling genuinely heard, understood and accepted. My aim is to provide a calm, supportive environment where you can explore your thoughts and emotions at your own pace. I'll work alongside you, helping you gain clarity, build resilience, and reconnect.
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Kyo Gbondo
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Online Only
I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and EMDR trained therapist currently offering Private therapy, whilst also working part-time in the NHS. My experience ranges from working in both primary and secondary care mental health services for over 10 years. I have worked with young people, adults and older adults. This includes working in a specialist psychiatric service, in prison services and in the community, delivering person-centred care.
I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and EMDR trained therapist currently offering Private therapy, whilst also working part-time in the NHS. My experience ranges from working in both primary and secondary care mental health services for over 10 years. I have worked with young people, adults and older adults. This includes working in a specialist psychiatric service, in prison services and in the community, delivering person-centred care.
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Bobbie Marley
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Hey! Im Bobbie an integrative counsellor with level 6 BA HONs degree, i can tailor sessions to suit you as i’am fully trained in all three counselling theories! I hold a confidential safe space for my clients to offload and explore there feelings and worries.
Hey! Im Bobbie an integrative counsellor with level 6 BA HONs degree, i can tailor sessions to suit you as i’am fully trained in all three counselling theories! I hold a confidential safe space for my clients to offload and explore there feelings and worries.
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Therapy with Josh – OCD, Anxiety & ADHD Therapist
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
5 Endorsed
Grays RM16
Do you ever feel caught in endless loops of overthinking or intrusive thoughts that feel too intense to ignore? Maybe you replay conversations, double-check decisions, or search for certainty that never comes. OCD can make you question everything, convincing you your thoughts say something terrible about you. It’s exhausting, leaving you stuck in your head instead of your life. I offer a calm, non-judgmental space to help you quiet anxiety, loosen OCD’s grip, and move toward what matters. I’ve also contributed to a BBC Sounds podcast on ADHD.
Do you ever feel caught in endless loops of overthinking or intrusive thoughts that feel too intense to ignore? Maybe you replay conversations, double-check decisions, or search for certainty that never comes. OCD can make you question everything, convincing you your thoughts say something terrible about you. It’s exhausting, leaving you stuck in your head instead of your life. I offer a calm, non-judgmental space to help you quiet anxiety, loosen OCD’s grip, and move toward what matters. I’ve also contributed to a BBC Sounds podcast on ADHD.
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Meadow Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Grays RM16
I am a qualified counsellor with a range of experience working with adults, adolescents and children. I have worked with various difficulties, to include anxiety, depression, loss and bereavement, self-harm, anger management, OCD, trauma, abuse, ADD/ADHD and autism, gender and sexuality, relationship difficulties, loss of identity and low self-esteem/confidence, to name but a few. Most clients are looking to identify and explore their difficulties in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space. Sadly, for many, counselling is the first time they feel truly heard.
I am a qualified counsellor with a range of experience working with adults, adolescents and children. I have worked with various difficulties, to include anxiety, depression, loss and bereavement, self-harm, anger management, OCD, trauma, abuse, ADD/ADHD and autism, gender and sexuality, relationship difficulties, loss of identity and low self-esteem/confidence, to name but a few. Most clients are looking to identify and explore their difficulties in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space. Sadly, for many, counselling is the first time they feel truly heard.
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T G Counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Grays RM17
We all have times when we feel overwhelmed, anxious or just need someone to talk to and if that is you then you are not alone. I work collaboratively with you to identify your goals for counselling, while providing a safe space to explore those area that matters most to you in order to reach the changes that you want to see in your life. .
We all have times when we feel overwhelmed, anxious or just need someone to talk to and if that is you then you are not alone. I work collaboratively with you to identify your goals for counselling, while providing a safe space to explore those area that matters most to you in order to reach the changes that you want to see in your life. .
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Zainab Abdul
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Grays RM16
I am a woman who is highly committed to supporting people through their life journeys. At Beingthere Counselling Services, you don't have to walk alone. I will be honoured to help in putting the pieces of the puzzle together with you as you navigate through where life and its unending happenings take you. This is with the hope of you being in a better place than you currently are. My techniques are tailored towards my client’s needs; modalities used include: Integrative, Existential, Phenomenological, and behavioural.
I am a woman who is highly committed to supporting people through their life journeys. At Beingthere Counselling Services, you don't have to walk alone. I will be honoured to help in putting the pieces of the puzzle together with you as you navigate through where life and its unending happenings take you. This is with the hope of you being in a better place than you currently are. My techniques are tailored towards my client’s needs; modalities used include: Integrative, Existential, Phenomenological, and behavioural.
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Gintaras Parutis
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Grays RM16
I provide individual, couple, family and group therapy to people from all cultural and religious backgrounds. I work in English as well as Russian and Lithuanian. I offer my clients confidentiality, anonymity, non-judgemental approach at all times, acceptance, support and empathy. As a trained therapist I offer confidence and a supportive environment in which I help my clients make a difficult decision in life, deal with challenging life situations, better understand their relationship with other significant people in their life, or simply get a better insight into what kind of life they would like to lead.
I provide individual, couple, family and group therapy to people from all cultural and religious backgrounds. I work in English as well as Russian and Lithuanian. I offer my clients confidentiality, anonymity, non-judgemental approach at all times, acceptance, support and empathy. As a trained therapist I offer confidence and a supportive environment in which I help my clients make a difficult decision in life, deal with challenging life situations, better understand their relationship with other significant people in their life, or simply get a better insight into what kind of life they would like to lead.
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Helen Stephens
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Grays RM17
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor and supervisor. I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor and supervisor. I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
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Mariam Naeem Javed
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Grays RM17
Struggling to get out of bed, overthinking and worrying all the time or feel like you no longer have control over your life. Whether it's something you have been experiencing for a long period of time or something that has just come out of the blue for you. Whatever you may be facing, as a fully accredited CBT Therapist I am here to listen, support and help equip you with the tools and techniques needed to make positive and healthy changes. Your safe space and emotional wellbeing is my priority and therefore I strive to support you to bring balance, confidence, clarity and inner peace to promote healthy and lasting change.
Struggling to get out of bed, overthinking and worrying all the time or feel like you no longer have control over your life. Whether it's something you have been experiencing for a long period of time or something that has just come out of the blue for you. Whatever you may be facing, as a fully accredited CBT Therapist I am here to listen, support and help equip you with the tools and techniques needed to make positive and healthy changes. Your safe space and emotional wellbeing is my priority and therefore I strive to support you to bring balance, confidence, clarity and inner peace to promote healthy and lasting change.
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UniquePurpose
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Grays RM16
Hello! Are you struggling with anxiety, feeling isolated or wanting to make sense of life struggles? Maybe you want to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours and how they may be impacting your every day life. Please know that you are not alone and that I have a passion to help clients navigate through these challenges. I want to provide a space for you to bring these out into the open with myself listening attentively, hearing it from your perspective. Do you want to have the skills and healthy copying strategies in order to face the problems head on. Please get in touch, I am here for you!
Hello! Are you struggling with anxiety, feeling isolated or wanting to make sense of life struggles? Maybe you want to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours and how they may be impacting your every day life. Please know that you are not alone and that I have a passion to help clients navigate through these challenges. I want to provide a space for you to bring these out into the open with myself listening attentively, hearing it from your perspective. Do you want to have the skills and healthy copying strategies in order to face the problems head on. Please get in touch, I am here for you!
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Karen Tottman-Napier
Counsellor, MBACP
Grays RM17
Life can be challenging, and counselling can provide a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 15 years of experience supporting individuals, couples, families, children, young people, and adults of all ages. My counselling journey began at St Luke's Hospice, where I completed my placement hours and continued to volunteer after qualifying. These experiences shaped my commitment to working with people through life’s most difficult moments. I offer both short-term and long-term counselling, tailored to your needs. Over the years, I have worked with a wide range
Life can be challenging, and counselling can provide a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 15 years of experience supporting individuals, couples, families, children, young people, and adults of all ages. My counselling journey began at St Luke's Hospice, where I completed my placement hours and continued to volunteer after qualifying. These experiences shaped my commitment to working with people through life’s most difficult moments. I offer both short-term and long-term counselling, tailored to your needs. Over the years, I have worked with a wide range
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Nicola Kusi
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Do you feel unheard, undervalued or stuck in life? Do you find it hard to express yourself or do you feel no one understands you? I am passionate about supporting client to have a voice, to be heard and to feel valued. I am passionate about supporting clients to develop confidence and self esteem which in turn promotes self care. I am also passionate about working with individuals with different attachment styles and overcoming childhood trauma. As adults, despite early life and childhood experiences, i believe individuals can work towards building secure attachments in their adult relationships and healing from childhood trauma.
Do you feel unheard, undervalued or stuck in life? Do you find it hard to express yourself or do you feel no one understands you? I am passionate about supporting client to have a voice, to be heard and to feel valued. I am passionate about supporting clients to develop confidence and self esteem which in turn promotes self care. I am also passionate about working with individuals with different attachment styles and overcoming childhood trauma. As adults, despite early life and childhood experiences, i believe individuals can work towards building secure attachments in their adult relationships and healing from childhood trauma.
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Dr Jayne Griffiths
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
7 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a Clinical Psychologist and I help individuals and couples to get back on track with their lives. I offer EMDR, IFS (Internal Family Systems Therapy), ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy).
I am a Clinical Psychologist and I help individuals and couples to get back on track with their lives. I offer EMDR, IFS (Internal Family Systems Therapy), ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy).
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ReAssemble ADHD Counselling Therapies
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
Hello there! I'm Sam and I've 20 years' experience in mental health and a lifetime of experience managing ADHD! Many practitioners have no lived experience of ADHD and ASD, making it hard for neurodiverse people to feel truly understood. As a professional neurodiverse woman, I have found that services for people like me are hard to find and so I offer ADHD and Autism specific counselling with life skills (like coaching but specifically related to ADHD symptoms) in a non - judgemental and shame free environment, no matter your background. Please check your spam folder for my email replies if you have used the contact button!
Hello there! I'm Sam and I've 20 years' experience in mental health and a lifetime of experience managing ADHD! Many practitioners have no lived experience of ADHD and ASD, making it hard for neurodiverse people to feel truly understood. As a professional neurodiverse woman, I have found that services for people like me are hard to find and so I offer ADHD and Autism specific counselling with life skills (like coaching but specifically related to ADHD symptoms) in a non - judgemental and shame free environment, no matter your background. Please check your spam folder for my email replies if you have used the contact button!
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Thomas Woodward
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Online Only
The training I have undertaken and the experience I have acquired over the past 15 years has equipped me to support those enduring depression- and anxiety disorders from all ages, races, genders, ethnicities, sexualities and abilities - I fully embrace and welcome peoples' individuality, and aim to nurture this through our sessions together
The training I have undertaken and the experience I have acquired over the past 15 years has equipped me to support those enduring depression- and anxiety disorders from all ages, races, genders, ethnicities, sexualities and abilities - I fully embrace and welcome peoples' individuality, and aim to nurture this through our sessions together
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How does your Counsellor compare?

Number of Counsellors in Grays

30+

Average cost per session

£60

Counsellors in Grays who prioritize treating:

94% Anxiety
94% Self Esteem
87% Stress
84% Depression
71% Relationship Issues
65% Bereavement
65% Family Conflict

Average years in practice

8 Years

Top 3 insurances accepted

75% Aviva
67% Vitality
58% Bupa

How Counsellors in Grays see their clients

68% In Person and Online
32% Online Only

Gender breakdown

90% Female
10% Male
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling

How can I find a therapist in Grays?

Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.

Learn more about how to find a therapist

Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?

Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).

Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.

What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?

Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.

What type of therapy is right for me?

The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.

How much does therapy cost?

The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.

What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?

Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.

If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.

Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?

Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.

Is online therapy a good option?

Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.

Are therapy sessions confidential?

Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.