Self-Harming Counselling in BR1
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 15 + years’ experience working in various roles within the NHS, including a mainstream Child and Adolescent Service (CAMHS), an Adolescent Service and a Neurodevelopmental Service, where I specialised in diagnosing Autism & ADHD and supporting families and children post diagnosis. I provide support to young people and specialise in working with adolescents & young adults. The people I work with tend to be struggling with issues such as low mood, anxiety (including OCD/phobias) and self-harm. I also provide Cognitive/Learning Assessments for children and young people aged 6+ years.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 15 + years’ experience working in various roles within the NHS, including a mainstream Child and Adolescent Service (CAMHS), an Adolescent Service and a Neurodevelopmental Service, where I specialised in diagnosing Autism & ADHD and supporting families and children post diagnosis. I provide support to young people and specialise in working with adolescents & young adults. The people I work with tend to be struggling with issues such as low mood, anxiety (including OCD/phobias) and self-harm. I also provide Cognitive/Learning Assessments for children and young people aged 6+ years.
Let's Talk... Therapy gives you the opportunity to explore how life is for you, how you feel about it and how you react during certain situations, all with the aim of finding solutions that work for you. My aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgemental and accepting environment where I can help you explore your issues no matter what they are. Unresolved issues can cause great unhappiness and therapy can help to unlock suppressed feelings and emotions.
Let's Talk... Therapy gives you the opportunity to explore how life is for you, how you feel about it and how you react during certain situations, all with the aim of finding solutions that work for you. My aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgemental and accepting environment where I can help you explore your issues no matter what they are. Unresolved issues can cause great unhappiness and therapy can help to unlock suppressed feelings and emotions.
I specialise in: Healing The Mother Wound, Childless Menopause, Anxiety Related stress, Grief and Loss. I support couples with relationship issues and those who are struggling with childhood trauma and sibling rivalry.
I specialise in: Healing The Mother Wound, Childless Menopause, Anxiety Related stress, Grief and Loss. I support couples with relationship issues and those who are struggling with childhood trauma and sibling rivalry.
Are you looking for someone confidential and non judgemental to talk to? Life can often feel extremely overwhelming. Facing obstacles such as anxiety, depression, lack of self confidence, relationship issues, work issues etc can make us feel helpless. The aim is to understand our obstacles in order to change them.
Are you looking for someone confidential and non judgemental to talk to? Life can often feel extremely overwhelming. Facing obstacles such as anxiety, depression, lack of self confidence, relationship issues, work issues etc can make us feel helpless. The aim is to understand our obstacles in order to change them.
Hello, I am Sherene and I provide evidence-based therapy to treat psychological difficulties such as generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, PTSD, low self-esteem, health anxiety, OCD, phobia and eating disorders. I believe that my clients are the expert of their experience. In therapy we work together to overcome the problems that they are facing to enable to live in line with their goals and values. My clients leave therapy with tools that they can use to continue to build on their progress after therapy has ended. My clients often say that they feel more confident to deal with challenges which may be ahead.
Hello, I am Sherene and I provide evidence-based therapy to treat psychological difficulties such as generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, PTSD, low self-esteem, health anxiety, OCD, phobia and eating disorders. I believe that my clients are the expert of their experience. In therapy we work together to overcome the problems that they are facing to enable to live in line with their goals and values. My clients leave therapy with tools that they can use to continue to build on their progress after therapy has ended. My clients often say that they feel more confident to deal with challenges which may be ahead.
Dr Kerstin Zechner
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bromley BR1 (Online Only)
Hello, and welcome. My name is Kerstin, and I am Counselling Psychologist. I specialise in working with adults who struggle with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, addiction, work-related stress, childhood trauma as well as relationship issues. I'm especially passionate about helping you work through the relationships in your life by making sense of how you relate to yourself and others, supporting you to live a more fulfilled and content life.
Hello, and welcome. My name is Kerstin, and I am Counselling Psychologist. I specialise in working with adults who struggle with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, addiction, work-related stress, childhood trauma as well as relationship issues. I'm especially passionate about helping you work through the relationships in your life by making sense of how you relate to yourself and others, supporting you to live a more fulfilled and content life.
Maggie Bell, Counsellor, Hypnotherapist & EMDR
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
BACP Accredited Counsellor, Registered GHR Master Hypnotherapist, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing with Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Internal Parts Therapy. Over 25 years NHS experience; inpatient, outpatient, community and Private Practice. Complimentary telephone consultation to discuss your therapeutic pathway forward. An integrative therapist with multi-modalities; extensive qualifications, specialisms and experience working with you with all issues. More information can be found on my website; an evolution of many many years.
BACP Accredited Counsellor, Registered GHR Master Hypnotherapist, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing with Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Internal Parts Therapy. Over 25 years NHS experience; inpatient, outpatient, community and Private Practice. Complimentary telephone consultation to discuss your therapeutic pathway forward. An integrative therapist with multi-modalities; extensive qualifications, specialisms and experience working with you with all issues. More information can be found on my website; an evolution of many many years.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and hold a BACP Accreditation. I help adults, young people and children with a variety of issues including anxiety, depression, bereavement, exam stress, work stress and burnout, various degrees of trauma, relationship difficulties, minority experience and many others. Having practised for 10 years now, I have experience of working across different sectors including private, public and charities. I create a positive, judgment free environment to enable my clients to achieve their therapy goals. I speak fluent Polish, so welcome clients who speak Polish too.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and hold a BACP Accreditation. I help adults, young people and children with a variety of issues including anxiety, depression, bereavement, exam stress, work stress and burnout, various degrees of trauma, relationship difficulties, minority experience and many others. Having practised for 10 years now, I have experience of working across different sectors including private, public and charities. I create a positive, judgment free environment to enable my clients to achieve their therapy goals. I speak fluent Polish, so welcome clients who speak Polish too.
Dr Divya Patel
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1 (Online Only)
Are you suffering in silence, feeling stuck or unhappy? Struggling with unhealthy patterns that are problematic or having issues with past traumatic events? We all know life can be challenging and often complicated at times. Perhaps you’d like the space to think about you, a chance to heal old or new wounds? I can help by providing a supportive space to explore this with you. I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with HCPC, with 10 years of experience working with individuals experiencing a range of mental health difficulties in both the NHS (inpatient and outpatient services), school setting and charity sectors.
Are you suffering in silence, feeling stuck or unhappy? Struggling with unhealthy patterns that are problematic or having issues with past traumatic events? We all know life can be challenging and often complicated at times. Perhaps you’d like the space to think about you, a chance to heal old or new wounds? I can help by providing a supportive space to explore this with you. I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with HCPC, with 10 years of experience working with individuals experiencing a range of mental health difficulties in both the NHS (inpatient and outpatient services), school setting and charity sectors.
As an integrative warm holistic therapist, my approach is grounded in the belief that the mind, body, and spirit are interconnected and must be addressed together in order to achieve overall wellness. I am trained in a variety of therapeutic modalities and use an integrative approach to tailor my sessions to the unique needs of each individual client. My therapy sessions are warm and compassionate, providing a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their emotions and experiences.
As an integrative warm holistic therapist, my approach is grounded in the belief that the mind, body, and spirit are interconnected and must be addressed together in order to achieve overall wellness. I am trained in a variety of therapeutic modalities and use an integrative approach to tailor my sessions to the unique needs of each individual client. My therapy sessions are warm and compassionate, providing a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their emotions and experiences.
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
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We all move through life guided by beliefs shaped by our lived experiences. Each joyful or painful moment leaves its mark, influencing how we see ourselves, others, and the world. Each of us develops a sense of who we think we should be, who we believe we must—or must not be, often without realizing where those beliefs come from . So if you're feeling lost, anxious, or overwhelmed, know that those emotions are not random—they offer important clues about your unique relationship with life. They can guide you toward deeper understanding and reflection on whether your long-held beliefs and coping strategies still serve you.
We all move through life guided by beliefs shaped by our lived experiences. Each joyful or painful moment leaves its mark, influencing how we see ourselves, others, and the world. Each of us develops a sense of who we think we should be, who we believe we must—or must not be, often without realizing where those beliefs come from . So if you're feeling lost, anxious, or overwhelmed, know that those emotions are not random—they offer important clues about your unique relationship with life. They can guide you toward deeper understanding and reflection on whether your long-held beliefs and coping strategies still serve you.
My approach is person-centred and solution-focused. I hold a warm, inclusive, judgement-free space for deep personal growth. Together we will explore different ways of looking at things while also exploring how you got to where you are to begin with. I want to help you uncover your inner strengths, gain new insights, and hone the skills you need in order to live the life you desire. Not all work is about the past; sometimes the focus is on acquiring practical skills in the here and now to face new challenges. Meeting you where you are, even if you are nervous and unsure, I don’t rely on a “one-size-fits-all” approach to healing.
My approach is person-centred and solution-focused. I hold a warm, inclusive, judgement-free space for deep personal growth. Together we will explore different ways of looking at things while also exploring how you got to where you are to begin with. I want to help you uncover your inner strengths, gain new insights, and hone the skills you need in order to live the life you desire. Not all work is about the past; sometimes the focus is on acquiring practical skills in the here and now to face new challenges. Meeting you where you are, even if you are nervous and unsure, I don’t rely on a “one-size-fits-all” approach to healing.
Healing and personal growth come from a genuine connection built on trust, understanding, and respect for your unique journey. My approach to therapy is not about applying one-size-fits-all solutions but about deeply listening to your story and helping you find your way forward. I integrate creativity, mindfulness, and evidence-based techniques to meet your needs, whether navigating anxiety, relationship dynamics, or seeking a clearer sense of purpose. My role is to guide, support, and challenge you as we work together to discover your inner resilience and unlock your potential for lasting change. Let’s embark on this journey.
Healing and personal growth come from a genuine connection built on trust, understanding, and respect for your unique journey. My approach to therapy is not about applying one-size-fits-all solutions but about deeply listening to your story and helping you find your way forward. I integrate creativity, mindfulness, and evidence-based techniques to meet your needs, whether navigating anxiety, relationship dynamics, or seeking a clearer sense of purpose. My role is to guide, support, and challenge you as we work together to discover your inner resilience and unlock your potential for lasting change. Let’s embark on this journey.
Hi, I am Mariam, a senior psychotherapist, supervisor and clinical Hypnotherapist, in my experience clients come to therapy because they are either overwhelmed due to recent events in their lives or have been carrying unresolved conscious or unconscious ordeals or traumas. The goal of therapy should always include self-knowledge and self-healing. coming closer to self will help us to come closer to others. As part of this, it is important for all of us to have empathy towards ourselves. So the ultimate goal of therapy should be to gain self-love.
Hi, I am Mariam, a senior psychotherapist, supervisor and clinical Hypnotherapist, in my experience clients come to therapy because they are either overwhelmed due to recent events in their lives or have been carrying unresolved conscious or unconscious ordeals or traumas. The goal of therapy should always include self-knowledge and self-healing. coming closer to self will help us to come closer to others. As part of this, it is important for all of us to have empathy towards ourselves. So the ultimate goal of therapy should be to gain self-love.
Hi, I'm Daniel & I'm here to help you. I am a qualified, accredited Integrative Counsellor, which means I carefully work with you as a unique individual and use the most suitable counselling approaches to help you to find a more satisfying & harmonious life. This can be using Psychotherapy or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or a combination of various techniques - whichever is most suited to your needs! I support adults & teens dealing with anxiety, stress, depression, low self-esteem, self harm, suicidal thoughts, sexuality concerns, grief & loss as well as relationship difficulties, addiction struggles and many other issues.
Hi, I'm Daniel & I'm here to help you. I am a qualified, accredited Integrative Counsellor, which means I carefully work with you as a unique individual and use the most suitable counselling approaches to help you to find a more satisfying & harmonious life. This can be using Psychotherapy or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or a combination of various techniques - whichever is most suited to your needs! I support adults & teens dealing with anxiety, stress, depression, low self-esteem, self harm, suicidal thoughts, sexuality concerns, grief & loss as well as relationship difficulties, addiction struggles and many other issues.
Maybe life has dealt you a blow that has shattered you, or maybe you feel stuck and confused about who you are and what you want in life. Or maybe, you feel full of bad feelings that threaten to overwhelm you – feelings such as sadness, rage, hopelessness, shame, fear and frustration. If so, therapy can help.
Maybe life has dealt you a blow that has shattered you, or maybe you feel stuck and confused about who you are and what you want in life. Or maybe, you feel full of bad feelings that threaten to overwhelm you – feelings such as sadness, rage, hopelessness, shame, fear and frustration. If so, therapy can help.
Hi im a highly experienced therapist offering therapy for all types of conditions ranging from anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, work stress, OCD. I also work with all types of addictions, including problems with alcohol. I specialise in CBT focused therapy combined with EMDR a trauma based approach. I'm also a trained Schema Therapist specialising in childhood traumas and difficult past experiences, that may affect daily functioning. This can prove highly effective. I adhere to the BACP code of ethics and follow guidelines for safe and effective therapy.
Hi im a highly experienced therapist offering therapy for all types of conditions ranging from anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, work stress, OCD. I also work with all types of addictions, including problems with alcohol. I specialise in CBT focused therapy combined with EMDR a trauma based approach. I'm also a trained Schema Therapist specialising in childhood traumas and difficult past experiences, that may affect daily functioning. This can prove highly effective. I adhere to the BACP code of ethics and follow guidelines for safe and effective therapy.
Are you feeling that now is the right time to to take the next step in changing your life? As a BACP Registered Counsellor with over 20yrs experience, I provide sensitive, confidential counselling to individuals of all ages and couples who are experiencing problems in their relationship that are difficult to resolve. My ethos as a therapist is one of empathic collaboration, to help on your path towards clarity and change. Together we can make links and see patterns enabling you to resolve the issues that are affecting your emotional well being and find practical steps to empower you to move forward. I look forward to meeting you.
Are you feeling that now is the right time to to take the next step in changing your life? As a BACP Registered Counsellor with over 20yrs experience, I provide sensitive, confidential counselling to individuals of all ages and couples who are experiencing problems in their relationship that are difficult to resolve. My ethos as a therapist is one of empathic collaboration, to help on your path towards clarity and change. Together we can make links and see patterns enabling you to resolve the issues that are affecting your emotional well being and find practical steps to empower you to move forward. I look forward to meeting you.
I am a professional, empathic, and friendly BACP accredited Integrative Counsellor, working with both individuals and couples. With over 16 years experience, I provide a safe, confidential environment in which you can discuss your feelings and concerns without judgement. People may seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. Others make contact because they feel stuck or have become aware that they keep falling into unhelpful behaviour or thought patterns which prevent them from living life to the full.
I am a professional, empathic, and friendly BACP accredited Integrative Counsellor, working with both individuals and couples. With over 16 years experience, I provide a safe, confidential environment in which you can discuss your feelings and concerns without judgement. People may seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. Others make contact because they feel stuck or have become aware that they keep falling into unhelpful behaviour or thought patterns which prevent them from living life to the full.
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How does therapy for self-harm work?
A person may turn to self-injury so that they can distract themselves from their stress, depression, anxiety, or upsetting circumstances. Therapy can address the cause of an individual’s suffering. A therapist can help a person understand why they may want to self-harm and help the person learn new methods of coping. A person may have poor emotion regulation, and treatment such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is helpful for breaking this behaviour. In addition, treatment such as dialectical behaviour therapy can help a person manage their tolerance of distress.
Which therapies are best for self-harm?
Specific approaches used by professionals include cognitive behavioural, dialectical behaviour, psychodynamic, and mentalisation-based therapies, among others. Cognitive behavioural and dialectical behaviour therapies are common approaches for people who have painful thoughts and past traumas. These therapies help an individual cope with distress, regulate emotions, and manage impulsive urges.
Does the tendency to self-harm mean the person is suicidal?
Having this urge does not mean the individual suffers from suicidal ideation. People who want to self-injure look to distract or alleviate themselves from the pain they are experiencing. People with suicidal tendencies want to end life altogether. However, this does not mean a person with the intent to self-harm will not attempt suicide.
How often and how long are therapy sessions for self-harm?
As with any type of therapy, sessions depend on the individual. Clients may see improvement within 20 sessions, at an average of 50 minutes per session, while others may opt for 20 to 30 sessions over, maybe, a six-month period. People, especially those with co-occurring conditions like depression and anxiety, may need to continue therapy for up to 12 to 18 months.